Intro

• 1 - Identify

• 2 - Find an Access Point

• 3 - Get Introduced

• 4 - Get Endorsement

• 5 - Maintain your Presence

Step 1 - Identify

• Let’s go back and recap.

• Why do you Access?

• When you’re in a new environment.

• A social circle that has something there you desire.

• You need to chose one based on your interests or what you want.

• This is the easy part.

Step 2 - Access

• You need to Access.

• How do you determine who to Access?

• Find the low hanging fruit.

• The person of Social Influence.

• Importance of the Influencer.

• Need them for Access.

• They can also introduce you to other social circles.

Where to meet them?

• Look for the characteristics of Social Influence.

• I find women are the best for Social Influence.

• This is where Daygame, can come in handy.

• “Hey, how you doing? I’m new in town and you look cool/friendly. Where’s good to go out/ have fun around here?”

• Will talk more about meeting women in the Social Circle Seduction module.

Where to meet them?

• Other places to meet people with access include hotels, bars, shopping malls, markets, gym etc.

• Creating a routine.

• Allows for Human Rapport to be built.

Step 3 - Introductory Rapport

• Once you’ve met the person of influence, you have to get to Introductory Rapport.

• First be cool to get to 1 on 1 level.

• If you met at hotel, then get into a routine.

• Remember the 4 rapport accelerators.Level 1

NO RAPPORT

Level 2 1 ON 1 RAPPORT

Level 3 INTRODUCTORY RAPPORT

Level 4 COMMODITY RAPPORT

Level 5 RAPPORT DEFINING

Universal Utilities

• You have to play the Utility Game.

• Some universal tactics that work.

• Being a connector of people and becoming the social glue is a universal utility.

• Especially as you will be meeting and interacting with other social people.

Level 2 1 ON 1 RAPPORT

Level 3 INTRODUCTORY RAPPORT

Universal Utilities

• High Value introduction.

• Facilitate the introduction.

• Access to your resources.

• Theory of reciprocity.

• Do this and you will get introduced.Level 2

1 ON 1 RAPPORT

Level 3 INTRODUCTORY RAPPORT

Universal Utilities

• Specific tactics for girls.

• Value proposition.

• Go through the friend route.

• Specific tactics for guys?

• Women is a Universal Utility for 99% of heterosexual men.

Step 4 - Getting Endorsement

• Here’s the advanced stuff. In many Social Circles, especially High End Social Circles, Access isn’t enough.

• Organising my birthday party needed the cool kids to endorse me.

• Me and my friends.

• If the person of SP doesn’t endorse you they will create tension.

Step 4 - Getting Endorsement

• Remember the group wants to stay together.

• They will remove cause of tension.

• So you MUST get endorsed.

• Use rapport accelerators. You don’t want to supplicate. Remember Social Intelligence. Try Hard = Die Hard.

• Endorsement is key

Step 5 - Maintaining Presence

• Endorsement isn’t a one time thing.

• You must maintain a presence in the social circle.

• 2 things to avoid.

• Social Loafers and more importantly Free loaders.

• Freeloaders are the worst in a social circle

• Evolutionary Psychology of people to weed out freeloaders.

Step 5 - Maintaining Presence

• You want to differentiate yourself from freeloaders and loafers.

• All social circles have mechanisms for weeding out freeloaders and people that don’t belong.

• Firstly add to the purpose.

• Secondly understand the norms and values

• But the most important is gossip and in jokes.

Step 5 - Maintaining Presence

• Imagine a social circle, someone tells a joke, everyone laughs except you.

• You’re an outsider.

• You need to get the in jokes and gossip ASAP otherwise you will also be weeded out.

• Keep building the relationships.

Conclusion

• Step 1 - Identify

• Step 2 - Find an Access Point

• Step 3 - Get Introduced

• Step 4 - Get Endorsed

• Step 5 - Maintain your presence

• Remember how I said social circles can sometimes be part of a larger social network.