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Marinita Schumacher
Key Principles of
Effective Communication
Effective Communication
• is crucial for working successfully with others
• enables to maintain relationships
• accomplishes tasks with both individuals and
groups
• motivates
• helps to overcome obstacles
• creates a relaxed, comfortable, trustful and
psychologically safe feeling
What is Communication?
• „Communication is a dynamic process that
individuals use to exchange ideas, relate
experiences and share desires through speaking,
writing, gestures or sign language.“
Glenn & Smith, 1998
Components of Communication
• anthropological component –
• social component –
• signal component –
• process component –
Krallmann/ Ziemann, 2001
communication happens between at least two human beings
participants have certain intensions when
communicating and understanding each other
during communication participants refer to a socially
adapted set of signs in order to transmit a message
there are continuous changes during communication
One can't not communicate!
• Any kind of behaviour is communication
• Communication is an interactive process of
sending and receiving messages
• Communication can be seen as the link between
the sender’s and receiver’s internal experiences
!
The effectiveness of any
communication depends
on how closely the receiver’s
understanding matches
the sender’s intent
Watzlawick, 1996
Sender and Receiver
SIGNAL
SENDER RECEIVER
The only message
that matters
is the one the other
person receives
!
Schulz von Thun, 2001
encodes the meaning
in his mind to a signal
deciphers this signal
so that a similar
meaning is stimulated
in his mind
= a recognisable
term, the sum of the
messages in
interpersonal
communication
Verbal and non-verbal signals
• Verbal signals
– transmit the content
– are the words of the
message
– deal with speech,
intonation, pitch, rhythm,
etc.
• Non-verbal signals
– transmit the relational
dimension
– postures, body
movements, touches,
tone of voice, eye
contact, pauses, rate of
speech and volume
! Each message consists
of verbal and
non-verbal signals
Birkenbihl, 2005
A simple example from daily life
• Verbal example
„I am amused“
– The sentence is spoken, the sense can be recognised by the different words and letters used
• Non-verbal example
Somebody is laughing
– In this case laughing is body language which can indicate the fact, that the person is amused
Four sides of a message
SENDER RECEIVER
SIGNAL
Factual information
Relationship
Self-re
vela
tion
SIGNAL
Schulz von Thun, 2001
• Factual information – explains the fact
• Self-revelation – expresses the sender himself and his feelings
• Relationship – expresses what the sender expects from the receiver
and what kind of relationship (contact) exists between the parties
• Appeal – seeks to have an influence on the other
Explanations of the four sides
Schulz von Thun, 2001
A simple example from daily life
MOTHER SON
Relationship
“You don„t visit me enough“
Self-re
vela
tion
“I a
m lo
nely
”
Factual information
“Your presence is nice“
“It„s nice
that you are
here again“
Schulz von Thun, 2001
Few tips towards Active Listening:
Understand your own communication style.
Be an active listener.
Use normal communication.
Give Feedback
Improving Body Language -
Tips
• Keep appropriate distance
• Touch only when appropriate
• Take care of your appearance
• Be aware - people may give false cues
• Maintain eye contact
• Smile genuinely
Thank You