Is your relationship based on power and control?
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Is your relationship based on power and control?
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Power & Control Wheel …
… represents relationships where there is domestic abuse.
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Power &Control
UsingUnearned Privilege
Coercion & Threats
Using Intimidation
UsingEmotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
Minimizing,Denying, &Blaming
UsingChildren
UsingEconomic
Abuse
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The following is a definition of each slice …
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Coercion& Threats
Power &Control
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Coercion & Threats … … a form of domestic abuse
Coercion & Threats making and/or carrying out threats to do
something to hurt you
threatening to commit suicide or report you to welfare
making you drop charges
making you do illegal things
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
UsingIntimidation
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Using Intimidation making you afraid by using looks, actions,
and gestures
smashing things
destroying your property
abusing pets
displaying weapons
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Intimidation … … a form of domestic abuse
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
UsingEmotional
Abuse
UsingIntimidation
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Using Emotional Abuse putting you down making you feel bad about yourself calling you names making you think your crazy playing mind games humiliating you making you feel guilty
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Emotional Abuse … … a form of domestic violence
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
UsingIsolation
UsingIntimidation
Using Emotional
Abuse
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Isolation … … a form of domestic abuse
Using Isolation controlling what you do, who you see and talk
to, what you read and where you go
limiting your outside involvements
using jealousy to justify actions
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
Minimizing,Denying,
& Blaming
UsingIntimidation
Using Emotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
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Minimizing, Denying, & Blaming … … a form of domestic violence
Minimizing, Denying, & Blaming making light of the abuse and not taking
your concerns about it seriously
saying the abuse didn’t happen
shifting responsibility for abusive behavior
saying you caused it
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
UsingChildren
UsingIntimidation
Using Emotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
Minimizing,Denying,
& Blaming
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Using Children … … a form of domestic abuse
Using Children making you feel guilty about the children by
telling you that you are a bad parent or by telling you the children need a two-parent home
threatening to hurt the children using the children to relay messages using visitation to harass you threatening to take the children away
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
Using UnearnedPrivilege
UsingIntimidation
Using Emotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
Minimizing,Denying,
& BlamingUsing
Children
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Unearned Privilege … … a form of domestic abuse
Using Unearned Privilege treating you like a servant
making all the big decisions
acting like the “master of the castle”
being the one to define men’s and women’s roles
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Power &Control
Coercion & Threats
UsingEconomic
Abuse
UsingIntimidation
Using Emotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
Minimizing,Denying,
& BlamingUsing
Children
UsingUnearnedPrivilege
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Economic Abuse … … a form of domestic abuse
Using Economic Abuse preventing you from getting or keeping a job
making you ask for money
giving you an allowance
taking your money
not letting you know about or have access to family income
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Power &Control
UsingUnearned Privilege
Coercion & Threats
Using Intimidation
UsingEmotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
Minimizing,Denying, &Blaming
UsingChildren
UsingEconomic
Abuse
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Power &Control
UsingUnearned Privilege
Coercion & Threats
Using Intimidation
UsingEmotional
Abuse
UsingIsolation
Minimizing,Denying, &Blaming
UsingChildren
UsingEconomic
Abuse
(208) 746-9655
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Do any of these slices sound like your relationship?
Do you have questions about domestic abuse, for yourself or someone you know?
Contact us at :
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