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Internet Safety A GUIDE FOR TEACHERS AND PARENTS Provided by Michigan Secretary of State Ruth Johnson PRACTICAL TIPS TO KEEP KIDS SAFE ONLINE Copyright Unspam Registry Services 2014 ProtectMiChild.com Internet Safety

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Internet Safety

A GUIDE FOR TEACHERS AND PARENTS

Provided by Michigan Secretary of State Ruth Johnson

PRACTICAL TIPS

TO KEEP KIDS

SAFE ONLINE

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Dear Parents and Teachers, The Internet has become the most powerful communication tool of our time and is rapidly changing how we interact, share information and conduct business. That is doubly true for our tech-savvy children, however, even with all its benefits, the virtual world can be a gateway for predators, bullying and informational content not suitable for our children. To help keep kids safe while online, we are offering this easy-to-follow e-booklet that offers strategies for monitoring online usage and utilizing child safety features on computers, mobile devices, games and social media. Please take a moment to bookmark this page as a handy reference tool so that you can stay ahead of the Internet curve. Sincerely,

Ruth Johnson Michigan Secretary of State

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

CHAPTER 1: THE AGE OF DIGITAL PARENTING

CHAPTER 2: HOW TO TALK TO YOUR KIDS

AT EVERY AGE

CHAPTER 3: FIVE THINGS PARENTS

CAN DO TODAY

CHAPTER 4: SOCIAL MEDIA SAFEGUARDS

CHAPTER 5: TECHNOLOGY CAN BE GOOD OR

BAD. IT’S UP TO YOU!

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THE AGE OF DIGITAL

PARENTING

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CHAPTER ONE

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A New Era for Parenting

As parents, one of our most important jobs is keeping our children safe and healthy. We worry about them on their first day of school, when they get their driver’s license and when we drop them off at college. It is our role to teach them common sense and how to live cautiously so that dangerous situations can be avoided. Simple warnings about strangers no longer go far enough. With the Internet, parents now have a whole new world to navigate – a difficult task since the digital playing field is constantly changing. This e-booklet includes tips on setting rules for online use along with information on social media platforms that are becoming increasingly popular with kids. Keep in mind that your child probably already knows more about the Internet than you do. The information in this booklet is designed to help you stay ahead of the curve so your child can safely experience the online world.

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“The way we talk to our children becomes their inner voice.”

– Peggy O’Mara, author

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HAVING THE “TALK”

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CHAPTER TWO

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AGE APPROPRIATE TIPS It is never too early to talk to kids about Internet safety. These days, children as young as pre-school age are using tablets, cell phones and computers. Parents who talk about safe Internet use with their children on a regular basis are more likely to have kids who understand what is expected of them online. The following tips include simple suggestions for having that dialogue and how to establish good parameters for your child’s online experience.

2 – 8 years old • Sit with your child and supervise them closely while

on the device.

• Set clear rules for length of computer time and what sites/apps are appropriate to visit. Allow him or her to only use bookmarked sites. This is a good way to control what sites they can visit.

• Talk about “strangers” that are online and why it is important to not give out any personal information or chat with them in any form.

• Go to www.netsmartzkids.org for some short, fun videos and e-books for this age group regarding specific subjects on Internet safety.

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Great Resource

Having the “talk” about online safety

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9 – 12 years old

• Keep the computer in a common area.

• Talk to your kids about cyberbullying. Just like on the playground, there are bullies in the digital world. Help them understand the consequences of saying hurtful things online.

• Set clear rules about what is appropriate to post online in regards to pictures, language, personal information, etc. Talk to them about the longevity of their actions and how it may affect them in the future.

• Explain the consequences of file sharing and downloading music, games and movies.

• Make sure your kids check with you before purchasing or downloading anything on the Internet.

• Tell them to never share their passwords except with you.

• Let them know to never open an email from a stranger because it may contain a virus and harm the computer.

• Ask them to tell you immediately if a stranger contacts them online.

• As a parent, you should be knowledgeable of the social networking sites your child uses. In fact, it is good idea to join these sites to learn know how they work and to monitor your child’s activity.

• Have your entire family sign a “Family Internet Safety Contract.”

13 – 18 years old

• Follow all of the above.

• Talk to your teens about the dangers of online gambling and other illegal and harmful activities that can be done online (prescription drugs, pornography, tobacco and alcohol sites).

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Although 71 percent of parents said they talked to their children about online behavior, only 44 percent of children agreed that they had.

– Pew Internet Research

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FIVE THINGS TO DO TODAY

TO PROTECT CHILDREN WHEN THEY GO ONLINE

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CHAPTER THREE

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STEP 1: PROTECT CONTACT POINTS

Register with the Michigan Child Protection Registry and help protect your family’s email addresses, cell phone numbers and instant messenger ID’s from companies that market alcohol, tobacco, pornography, online gambling and illegal drugs. It is fast, safe and FREE! Go to www.Protectmichild.com.

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STEP 2: ENABLE SAFE SEARCH MODE

Turn on the Safe Searches feature in your search engine. Google, Bing and YouTube have built-in safety features that prevent inappropriate sites and content from appearing on the screen when your child conducts a search.

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GOOGLE

• Visit the Search Settings page at www.google.com/preferences.

• In the SafeSearch filters section, check the box next to Filter explicit results to filter sexually explicit video and images from Google Search result pages, as well as results that might link to explicit content.

• Make sure to click the Save button at the bottom of the page.

• If signed into a Google account, parents can lock the SafeSearch filter so others don’t change it. Simply click on Lock SafeSearch.

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Safe Search Instructions

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• Go to http://www.bing.com/preferences.aspx.

• In the Safe Search section, click Strict Filter to filter out adult text, images and videos.

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BING

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Safe Search Instructions

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• Go to Youtube.com.

• Scroll down to the bottom of the page.

• Look for a tab that says Safety.

• Click the arrow and a drop down menu will appear.

• Click On and Save.

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YOUTUBE Safe Search Instructions

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STEP 3: ENABLE CHILD SAFETY FEATURES

Check your computer for child safety features. Most computers already have parental controls and filters built-in.

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Before a child, tween or teen gets on the home computer, parental controls must be installed. Below is a “how to” for programming parental controls on a MAC computer.

NOTE: Before administrating any parental controls, set up an account by following these steps:

• Go to System Preferences and select Users & Groups.

• Click the Lock icon at the bottom of the screen.

• Enter the administrator’s name and password and click OK.

• Click on the (+) button and select Managed With Parental Controls from the New Account menu.

• Fill in the remaining fields with your information and click Create User. Your controlled account is now ready.

• To begin configuring the parental controls, click the Open Parental Controls button at the bottom of the Accounts window.

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Enable Child Safety Features

Macintosh

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Start by deciding what your children can and cannot use on the computer.

• Click on both boxes next to Use Simple Finder and Limit Applications. This allows only the necessary menus and application to be utilized, such as the Help menu, email and Safari.

Next, choose what age-appropriate apps your children can use.

• If you did not click the box next to Use Simple Finder, then you can use the Allowed Apps section to specifically choose what they can and cannot use.

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Macintosh

Safety

Features

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A parent can also put limits on their child’s web access. There are three possible options including no restrictions, limiting access to adult sites and customizing restrictions to specific sites.

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Additionally, parents can choose with whom their child can and cannot communicate by clicking on the People tab.

• For Mail and Messages, click the (+) sign to add addresses or chat names.

• Under Limit Mail, there is an the option to have permission requests sent to you before your child receives a request from an unapproved address or name.

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Macintosh

Safety

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Under the Time Limits tab, parents can allow specific times when their child can use the computer. Parents should first determine how much time they want their child to spend on the computer during the week and weekends, as well as any specific times when access should be blocked. Children can keep track of how much time they have left by clicking on the menu bar’s clock.

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Macintosh

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Features

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Contained within the Apps, Web, and People tabs is a control tool called Logs. Click on this button to find a record of Websites Visited, Websites Blocked, Applications, and Messages. With this tool, parents can track their child’s online activities. The final tab, labelled Other, includes self-explanatory controls such as limiting the ability to burn CDs and DVDs. The last item on this page involves passwords. As the administrator of the account, a parent has the ability to change the account’s password. Just select it in Users & Groups, click Reset Password, and enter and confirm a password of your choosing. NOTE: Your child cannot change the password. Page 23 Updated 11/19/2014

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If using a Windows computer, parents can set limits on the hours children spend on the computer, the games they play, and the programs they use. Parental Controls help parents manage these parameters.

Turning On Parental Controls

• Prior to setting up any Parental Controls, parents need to set up an administrator account and make sure each child has a standard user account.

• Open Parental Controls by clicking the Start button. Click on Control Panel, and under User Accounts and Family Safety, click Set Up Parental Controls For Any User. Enter your administrator password.

• Click the standard user account for the child that you want to establish Parental Controls. If this account is not set up yet, click Create A New User Account and set up a new account.

• Under Parental Controls, click on Enforce Current Settings.

• Once the Parental Controls feature is activated, parents can determine which features to limit: time usage, games and programs.

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Time Limits Parents can choose what hours children can use the computer.

• Open Parental Controls by clicking the Start button.

• Click Control Panel.

• Under User Accounts and Family Safety, click Set Up Parental Controls For Any User. Enter administrator password.

• To set time limits for a specific child, click on that child’s account.

• Under Parental Controls, click Enforce Current Settings.

• Click Time Limits.

• In the grid, click and drag the hours to block or allow.

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Windows

Safety

Features

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Games A parent can block all games, specific games, games based on age ratings and/or games based on content ratings.

• Open Parental Controls by clicking the Start button, then click Control Panel. Under User Accounts and Family Safety, click Set Up Parental Controls For Any User. Enter the administrator password.

• To set time limits for a specific child, click on that child’s account.

• Under Parental Controls, click on Enforce Current Settings.

• Click Games. Under Can User Play Games? Click No.

OR

• Click Yes when prompted, Can User Play Games? Under Block (or allow) Games By Rating and Content Types, click Set Game Ratings. Lastly, select a ratings level when prompted, Which Ratings Are Ok For (person's name) To Play?

• Under Can User Play Games? Click Yes. Under Block (or allow) Games By Rating and Content Types, click Set Game Ratings. Lastly, under Block These Types Of Content, select the content types you would like blocked.

• Click Yes when prompted, Can User Play Games? Next, under Block (or allow) Any Game On Your Computer By Name, click Block or Allow Specific Games. Lastly, find the game that you would like to block and select Always Block.

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Windows

Safety

Features

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Programs Parents can use Parental Controls to choose which specific programs their children can access.

• Open Parental Controls by clicking the Start button and click Control Panel.

• Under User Accounts and Family Safety, click Set Up Parental Controls For Any User. Enter your administrator password.

• To set time limits for a specific child, click on that child’s account.

• Under Parental Controls, click Enforce Current Settings.

• Click Block Specific Programs.

• Click User Can Only Use The Programs I allow.

• Click the programs to be allowed. If a program is not on the list, click Browse to locate it.

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With an Apple iPhone or iPad, parents have the ability to self-activate several safety features.

• Go into the Settings app and choose General and click on Enable Restrictions. This prompts the creation of a four digit code that is needed for making changes. Be sure to write this code down for future use. It is not easy to retrieve once lost.

• Once a code is created, parents can turn off apps they do not want their child accessing.

Things to Note:

• These restrictions are only helpful if the child is the sole user of the device. Parents cannot set certain restrictions for different users.

• There is no way to restrict the web browser other than turning it off completely. Parents can download safe search apps from the iTunes store that filter searches automatically.

• Children can still download apps that may not be approved by a parent. The only way to prevent this is to turn off the app store and/or restrict apps to download by age requirement. See iTunes Parental Control to learn how to do this.

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iPHONE

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In order to restrict music, movies, apps and podcasts downloaded by children, parents need to take advantage of the iTunes parental control features. • Go into iTunes and click on the iTunes Menu for Mac

or Edit for PC users.

• Click on Preferences. A pop-up box has a Parental tab located on the top. Select features to disable or restrict.

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Parents can disable podcasts, radio and the iTunes store altogether if they want to restrict children from purchasing anything. iTunes controls also provide the ability to use ratings limits on movies, TV shows, music, apps and books.

• Click on the Padlock icon to prevent further changes from these settings.

• Enter your computer password. Note: This is different from your iTunes password. Once this is done, your settings cannot be changed again without the password, so make sure have a way to remember it.

Things to Note:

• These settings apply to all users on this iTunes account. To download material that does not meet these restrictions, simply change your settings temporarily.

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iTunes

Safety

Features

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It is much more difficult to monitor what kids are doing and seeing on a cell phone than a computer because they take it everywhere with them. Below are some tips on how to set up parental controls on an Android phone.

• Go to your Market app and click Menu. Then click the Settings button.

• Click on the pull down menu under Content Filtering. Select the maturity level required for downloading.

• Click the LOCK icon or the Set or Change PIN option in order to setup a password to lock settings.

Things to Note:

• Unfortunately, this is the only control feature that comes with the actual Android phone. In order to keep children safe while using the Internet on their phone, parents must install other parental control apps onto the device. Here are some examples:

Net Nanny

MamaBear

My Mobile Watch Dog

Screen Time: Parental Control

MM Guardian

Canary

Norton Family

Kids Place

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Parents can supervise access to games, movies and television content through Xbox 360 parental controls. These controls allow parents to manage which games can be played, which movies and TV shows can be watched, how long family members can use the console and whether or not someone can access Xbox Live.

Turning On Parental Controls for Xbox 360 Console

Parental controls are divided into two groups: console controls and online safety and privacy settings.

To turn on console controls:

• On the console, go to Settings and select Family.

• Select ON to turn on the Console Safety.

• Enter a four button passcode using your controller. Save and Exit.

To set up a passcode if you do not have one:

• Go to Settings, Select Account and then Account Security.

• Select Pass Code and using the controller enter a four button code by pressing X, Y, the triggers, the bumpers and the directional pad.

• Enter the code again to confirm.

• Once the Console Safety is turned on, click on each “box” to set ratings, content and timers, as well as other Xbox Live settings.

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Changing YOUR Safety and Privacy Settings

• On the console, sign in to Xbox Live.

• Go to Settings and select Privacy.

• Select Change Settings and select Customize.

• Change settings according to preference, press B and then Save and Exit.

Changing Your Child’s Safety and Privacy Settings • Sign in to Xbox Live using an adult account.

• Go to Settings and select Family.

• Select the child’s account to manage.

• Go to Online Safety and select Change Settings.

• Change the settings according to preferences and press B and then Save and Exit.

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Xbox

Safety

Features

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Setting up the Family Timer The Family Timer can limit the amount of time that your family can use the console on a daily or weekly basis.

• On the console, go to Settings and select Family.

• Select On to turn on Console Safety, enter the passcode and select Family Timer.

• Select Daily or Weekly timer.

• Go to the time period and use the left stick to increase or decrease the time and select Continue, then Save and Exit.

To add time or suspend the Family Timer • When a Family Timer notification appears, press the Guide

button to see the Family Timer options.

• Enter the passcode using the controller.

• Choose to add time, suspend the timer, or turn the console off.

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Features

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STEP 4: USE A FILTER

Install a web filter. This is a program that screens an incoming web page to determine whether some or all of it should not be displayed to the user.

There are several free filters online that are available to download. Here are just a few:

• K9 WEB FILTER • OPEN DNS

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63 percent of teens said they

know how to hide what they do online from their parents.

– Harris Interactive-McAfee Study 2008

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STEP 5: TALK TO YOUR KIDS ABOUT

ONLINE SAFETY

Parenting in the digital world is a challenge. A parent cannot possibly be everywhere at once. In order to help keep kids safe while online, parents need to get educated and talk openly about issues kids may face on the Internet and social media.

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“The greatest gifts you can give your children are the roots of responsibility and the wings of independence.”

– Denis Waitley, author

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SOCIAL MEDIA SAFEGUARDS THAT EVERY PARENT

SHOULD KNOW

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FACEBOOK

Key Tip: Learn how Facebook works, be a participant on Facebook and make sure the privacy settings are activated.

• Parents who are first-time Facebook users should initiate a dialogue with their child who is already using the site. Ask how to set up an account and how to use it.

• Parents should also insist that their children be “friends” with them. This enables parents to see what their child is posting on Facebook.

• Advise children to think before posting a status, picture or video. Have them ask themselves, “Is this something I want my parent, teacher or future employer seeing?”

• Talk about cyberbullying and how it affects others. Parents should tell their children to come to them if they are being bullied online or if someone is making them feel uncomfortable.

• And give children these absolute rules:

– Never post personal information on Facebook (phone number, address, location and inappropriate pictures, videos and posts).

– Do not to share their password with anyone except a parent.

– Only accept friend requests from people they know.

TURN ON PRIVACY SETTINGS: Turn on Facebook’s privacy settings (see following screen shots).

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Social Media Safeguards

Facebook

Privacy

Setting

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59 percent of parents have

talked to their children because they were concerned about something posted to social media. – Pew Internet Research

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Key Tip: Twitter is one of the most popular social media tools for tweens and teens. Parents should learn how to use it.

• Parents who are new to Twitter should initiate a dialogue with their child who is already using it. Ask how to set up an account.

• Advise children to think carefully before tweeting a status, picture or video. Have them ask themselves, “Is this something I want my parent, teacher or future employer seeing?”

• Make sure they know to log out completely when finished using Twitter.

• Talk about cyberbullying and how it affects others. Parents should tell their children to come to them if they are being bullied online or if someone is making them feel uncomfortable.

• And parents should give their children these absolute rules:

– Never Tweet personal information (phone number, address, location and inappropriate pictures, videos and posts).

– Do not to share their password with anyone except a parent.

– Never make their Tweets public.

• Parents can require that their children’s tweets get manual approval from them by changing the settings on the Default Account Settings page. This also allows parents to control who is “following” their child on Twitter.

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SnapChat is a social media app that allows users to send a picture that will then delete itself after a few seconds. The person receiving the picture can take a screenshot of the picture but it notifies the sender that a screenshot has been taken.

SnapChat has been criticized by many Internet safety experts as a tool for sexting. Sexting is sending sexually explicit messages via cell phone or instant messenger. Parents should be aware that this could happen and decide accordingly whether or not to allow children to use this app.

Things to talk about with your child:

• SnapChat creates a false sense of security that images are deleted but kids should know those pictures are being stored somewhere. Nothing is ever really deleted.

• There are many dangers with sexting. Children do not often understand the harmful effects of sharing compromising photos of themselves. Sharing those pictures can result in bullying, low self-esteem and harm to their online reputations.

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Here are a few ways to set up safety features on SnapChat:

• On your child's phone, open the SnapChat app and go to Settings. Choose to only allow My Friends to send snaps to this account, otherwise anyone can send pictures. Make sure to click Save.

• Parents can also block certain friends from sending snaps to their child’s account. To block someone, find their name in the list of friends, swipe to the right, click Edit and click Block. That friend can no longer send photos in SnapChat to your child.

SNAPCHAT SAFETY

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ASK.fm Ask.fm is a question and answer forum where users pose questions to other users with the option of doing so anonymously. Questions are typically like, “Who is your favorite celebrity?” or “What is your favorite song?” The fact that users can stay anonymous when asking questions or commenting makes it ripe for cyberbullying.

Here is what parents should know to keep their teens safe:

• Unlike other social media platforms, Ask.fm does very little to ensure offensive comments posted on the site are deleted.

• Questions that are inappropriate should never be answered and teens that are targeted by abusive comments should block and report the user immediately.

• The ability to be asked questions anonymously is the default feature of Ask.fm. Teens should disable this feature in order to avoid questions from users wishing to remain anonymous.

• If a teenager is feeling uncomfortable with any of the questions or comments, parents should strongly encourage them to disable their accounts.

• Parents should talk regularly with their teens about cyberbullying and monitor which sites their kids are using to socialize.

The greatest deterrent to cyberbullying is active and engaged parents. Keeping up on the newest social media platforms is never easy but it is critical to keeping teens safe and growing up happy.

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KIK

Kik is an instant messaging app similar to texting but users have the option of talking with individuals or groups within a social networking environment. Users can also use Kik to send photos, files and greeting cards. It combines texting with a social network.

Things to know about Kik:

• Users are supposed to be age 13 or older. Kik is not compliant with the Children's Online Privacy Protection Act requirements of specific features for a website designed for children, meaning those 12 and under. Kik states, "Children under the age of 13 are prohibited from having a Kik account by the Kik Terms of Service." The site has no age verification requirement. Kik does not have parental controls.

• What if your child is on Kik and you want them off? Parents of kids under age 13 who have a Kik account must submit a deactivation request to Kik via email with the subject line 'Parent Inquiry.' Kik then sends the parent a deactivation request form, which can be returned to Kik for processing.

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TUMBLR

Tumblr is a streamlined blogging platform that is extremely appealing to teenagers. This is a visual platform that allows users to put together picture collages and blogs in a very graphically-appealing way. Chances are your kids have experienced Tumblr, even if they have not yet created a profile.

Some things to know about Tumblr:

• Tumblr is not allowed for children 12 and under. If someone signs up using an age that is under 13, the application does not allow an account to be established; however, it is not hard for kids to get around the age requirement.

Finding inappropriate pictures on Tumblr is pretty easy. All one has to do is search a topic and it quickly becomes apparent why this site is not for kids. We recommend parents keep their kids off Tumblr or at the very least talk to them about concerns with the site.

• Tumblr does provide the ability to block sites deemed NSFW (Not Safe for Work) from appearing in a user’s newsfeed but it still does not stop users from finding inappropriate content if they are looking for it.

• If your child experiences cyberbullying on Tumblr, the site has made it possible to report and block the offending user.

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Instagram is a photo sharing social platform. Users can upload their photos via a mobile app and share it with their followers. This platform has grown enormously popular and is a favorite among teens. Things to know about Instagram:

• Instagram will only allow a user to create a profile if he or she is over the age of 13. The user must provide an email address and create a username. There is no age verification process to ensure kids under age 13 are not using it.

• A child can set their profile to “private” which means only followers can see and comment on their pictures. A follower must send a request and be approved by the user in order to gain access. If you do not manually change the profile to private, any Instagram user can view your profile.

• Talk to kids about who they should add as followers. Remind them to never allow strangers to follow their profile.

• If a child is being harassed on Instagram, they can block the offending user from being able to see and comment on their photos.

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VINE Vine is a seven second video-sharing mobile platform. Videos are uploaded and shared from a mobile device to followers. Kids like it because they share videos instead of just pictures. Things to know about Vine:

• Since Vine is not a paid app, iTunes does not send a notification when it is downloaded. That means kids can be on the site without their parent’s knowledge. A child only needs an email or twitter account to sign up.

• Like many other social platforms, Vine does not allow users under the age of 13, but there is no age verification system. Kids can simply enter a false birthday in order to obtain an account.

• There is no way to make a profile private. Anyone can see your child’s videos and your child can browse any videos that are posted.

• Vines deemed inappropriate are marked with a gray box but your child only needs to click through it in order to view the video. Since the inappropriate content rating is tagged by Vine administrators, it is possible your child will see highly vulgar content before it has been flagged.

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CHAPTER FIVE

TECHNOLOGY CAN BE A POSITVE OR NEGATIVE INFLUENCE IN YOUR CHILD’S LIFE.

WHICH WILL YOU CHOOSE?

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