I left my heart in Marigat, Kenya. - Siena College · craziest, funniest, most playful and loveable...

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I left my heart in Marigat, Kenya.

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I left my heart in Marigat,

Kenya.

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As I attempt to share my experiences with

you, I would like to tell you first that these

words will not and could never do justice to

the spirit, the life, the poverty, and the love

that exists in Marigat, Kenya. With that said,

I will begin, most naturally, at the

beginning

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It was a long

two days of

travel for me to

get from my

home in the

Pacific to

Nairobi,

Kenya. After

an overnight stay at a Catholic home, one of

the sisters came to pick us up the following

morning. With the Jeep packed full with our

seven bags, filled with medical supplies and

items for donation, I and my two other

classmates, Katie Williams and Michael

Ashamalla, managed to find a seat and

began our two journey North to Marigat.

The Journey To Marigat and First

Impressions

Being my first time in any African country, I

did not know what to expect. The landscape

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was breathtaking. From cruising through the

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wide-open plains to driving high above the

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famous Great Rift Valley, to seeing grazing

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zebra

and

wild

baboons

on the

side of

the

road,

the

entire

ride to

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Marigat

was a

fantastic first impression of the country of

Kenya. After approximately two hours and a

brief stop in the city of Nakuru, where we

purchased toiletries etc. with our newly

exchanged Kenya Shillings, we slowed

down and made a slight right onto a bumpy

road lined with small shops, women selling

produce, and men working on bikes. There

were goats everywhere. The road and the

building were dusty. The sun was beating

down on the children running in their school

uniforms. We were in Marigat.

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Our House

The four of us, Michael Ashamalla, Antony

Mathew, Katie Williams, and I shared a

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small house on the convent property. We

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each had a bed and used mosquito nets to

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keep the bugs at bay while we slept. We

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purchased electric fans to make the night

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heat more bearable, and could not have

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survived without our fly swatter and can of

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bug spray. From moths to scorpions, roaches

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to ants, spider to bugs I have never seen

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before, we were always surrounded by

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critters.

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The Sisters

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Before my experience in Kenya, I had never

come in contact with a Catholic nun. My

expectations of what living with the sisters

would be like came from movies and

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television shows from my youth. It was

nothing like what I expected. THE SISTERS

WERE AWESOME. These have to be the

craziest, funniest, most playful and loveable

sisters in the world. Always singing and

laughing, these sisters, each with their own

strong personality, are a cross between

Whoopy Goldberg, from The Sister Act, and

the American comedian Wanda Sykes. They

became our family in Kenya. We shared

every meal and spent every night with them

watching nail-biting tele-novellas and the

most exciting East African Singing

Competition. With each day, we loved each

other more, and every day since I have

returned from Kenya, I have kept them in

my heart and in my prayers. These sisters do

amazing things for the Marigat Community.

They are leaders and servers of the

community. Each sister has her own project,

running a school, creating and maintaining

agricultural programs, providing aid for the

ill and the elderly, and managing and

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serving as the chief of a clinic for mothers

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and children.

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The Amenities

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We did not have a flushing toilet in our

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house because we did not have running

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water. We had to manually flush the toilet

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with buckets of water that we retrieved from

the spigot on the property of the convent.

We showered every night in the Convent

where the sisters slept. The water was cold

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but after a hot day in the sun, showers were

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refreshing. We hand washed our laundry

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with the spigot water and hung our clothes

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to dry on a clothesline we brought with us.

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Life was good in Marigat.

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The People

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I promised Mark, a man from Nakuru,

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Kenya, that I would tell the entire world

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about my experiences with Kenyans.

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Kenyans

are some

of the

nicest

people I

have ever

met. Of

course, in

any big

city one

must

practice

common

sense and

be aware,

but every

Kenyan that I encountered was genuinely a

nice/friendly person. The people of Marigat

were smiley and generous. They were eager

to learn about our culture and proud to share

their culture. The children were amazing and

inspiring. They loved to be in school and

were so happy to share their knowledge,

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games, and stories with us. They taught us

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how to dance, Kenyan style, and always

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waved at us when we saw them in town.

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Once, Katie, Michael, and I walked a group

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of girls home one afternoon. We walked

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deep into the neighborhood of tin-homes and

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plywood shacks and after saying good-bye

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to the last girl, we managed to find our way

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back to the main road. Suddenly we heard a

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small voice and fast footsteps behind us,

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“for you, for you!” she was saying. We

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turned around to see one of the little girls

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running behind us to give us a sweet (candy-

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gum) for walking her home. Marigat is a

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small, poor town. Most of these people have

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very little after paying school fees and

putting food on the table. This small piece of

gum meant more to me than the most

expensive gift money could buy.

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The Service

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Going to Kenya, I assumed my major

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service project would be working in the

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medical clinic. In the clinic, we weighed

babies by wrapping them up in their

mother’s shawls and hanging them from

grocery scales. We recorded the weights in

giant record books and wrote in new weights

and recorded necessary vaccines on the

child’s “card” which served as both a birth

certificate and collection of health records.

We were able to give the babies vitamin A

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doses and vaccines for various diseases. We

saw many sick children and dedicated

mothers, who would often walk an entire

day to the mobile clinic site. The mobile

clinics were an experience, to say the least.

We would sometimes drive hours on the

worst roads I have ever been on to set up the

clinic on a pile of rocks under a large tree.

Once, we drove for two hours, up a

mountain through the mud to find that the

only road to the clinic site, impassible due to

heavy rains the night before. There was no

cellular connection and no way to tell the

women who were probably waiting that we

would not be there with to treat them. The

children would have to wait another month

to receive their vaccines, and mothers would

have to wait another month to receive blood

work and any other health care they needed.

In the afternoons, we spent time with the

children from the primary schools. We

played games, soccer, did crafts, played with

bubbles, danced, and just hung out. The

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children are so loving and have such pure,

honest hearts. They were so curious about us

in the beginning, examining our skin, our

hair, our clothes. Eventually, however, we

built relationships and became a part of their

life. My only regret is that I only had 6

weeks to spend with them and could not

share more time with each of them. We also

were able to join one of the sisters on her

“walks.” We would walk for 3-4 hours in

the morning, before the sun was too brutal,

through the outskirts of the Marigat district.

She would bring food, soap, and other things

she thought might be needed on the walk.

She would visit her “clients,” people that

relied on her programs to survive. Some of

them were recovering from severe illnesses

such as meningitis or debilitating infections.

She had handicapped clients and very

elderly clients. During one trip, we assisted

Sister in washing, feeding, and changing

crippled Gogo (meaning grandmother in

Kiswahili) who could no longer walk. On

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these walks through the barren bush, shacks

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were scattered on the red, sun-baked dirt.

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These homes were made of twigs tied

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together, and if one had more money, they

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could afford corrugated tin. I had never seen

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this level of poverty before, nor since, this

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trip to Kenya.

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I left my heart in Kenya. I left it with the

sister. I left it with the children. I left it with

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the villagers. I left it with the bugs. I left it

with the goats. I left my heart there, but

came back with so much knowledge,

strength, and love. All of which were gifts

given to me by the people of Marigat,

Kenya. I will never forget what I learned

there, what I witnessed there, and all the

people I met and faces I saw. I left my heart

in Kenya; All that means is that I HAVE to

go back.