http://www.cbsnews.com/news/should-parents-snoop-on-their-kids-online/

Wired KidsHow to parent effectively in today’s

digital world

Why bother to do this?

To monitor or not to monitor....that is the question58%

of teens don’t think that posting photos or other private information is wrong. 

8% of teens admit to posting their cell phone number online

69% of teens regularly receive personal messages from people they don’t know and don’t tell anyone about it. 54% frequently have private

conversations via instant messaging with online predators

Create Ground RulesIf your kids are old enough to be using the computer on their own, they are old enough to understand that there are rules they need to abide by. Breaking them should not have a lesser consequence than if they broke a rule in the offline world.

Where do I

start?

Check Privacy Settings • Take the time to check settings on

every social media site your child uses

• Re check settings every 2-3 monthsKeep the Computer in a

Central Location• You should be able to walk by

and see any activity at any time• If the screen goes dark, the

child loses access for the rest of that dayPlug in all devices in the parent’s room

EVERY NIGHT

The best way to handle digital citizenship issues is to formulate a

family technology contract.

• Involve everyone in the decision making process

• Cover all devices—tablets, phones, computers, ipods...

• Put it in writing, and have everyone sign

INCLUDE:• # of texts allowed• GB of data allowed• Type of photos allowed• Time limits• Use during homework time/family time/bed

time• Personal information allowed• Rules for who can be ‘friends’• Password setting and sharing• Parent monitoring plans• Clear consequences if contract is broken

http://www.imom.com/printable_categories/contracts/#.Vie_Dn6rTcv

http://cyberbullying.org/family-internet-use-contract/

TRUST...

And Verify

Use Filtering Software Popular programs such as Net Nanny and PureSight PC let you monitor social media sites, block chats, filter content and much more. You can even monitor your child’s cell phone with a software program like My Mobile Watchdog.

Monitor the Pictures Your Child Posts OnlineIn an ideal world, your child would never post a photo of herself online, but that might not be entirely realistic. • Make sure the content of the photo

is completely harmless and that no identifiable locales in the background are noticeable.

• Disable any geotags attached to photos

Make sure you have passwords to all of your child’s social media accounts

Be your child’s “friend” on EVERY social media account they have

Follow, but don’t comment or ‘like’ every post your child makes

Occasionally do a search to ensure they don’t have any phantom accounts

If trust is broken, apply the consequence and

modifyyour verification requirements

for a specific period of time

Expect push back

Refer back to that contract You both signed....

Yeah, that one.

After the consequence, press‘re-set’ and start over.

(remember, they’re kids)

What else can parents

do?

Be a Good Example of How to Use Social MediaIf you are tweeting and updating your Facebook page at a stop light and taking every opportunity to “just check something,” you’re setting a poor precedent for social media usage that your child will surely follow.

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Teach Kids about an Online ReputationMany kids don’t seem to understand the permanence of the online world. Make sure to stress to your kids what a digital footprint is and the impact inappropriate messages or images could have if a future college administrator or employer were to stumble upon them. As stated in the AAP study, what goes online stays online.

Talk to Kids about Online DangersYou may feel like you’re scaring your kids when talking to them about the dangers of being online, but it’s better for them to be scared than to be unaware. Having an open line of communication is crucial the minute your kids start using the Internet more independently. .....“Who's a stranger online? Everyone is! You need to remind your children that these people are strangers and that the standard rules always apply.”

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Get to Know the Technology It is every parent’s responsibility to know exactly which key features are included in the gadgets our kids are using. Stephen Balkam, founding CEO of the Family Online Safety Institute, says, “This can be a humbling experience. You may find that you had no idea that the Sony Playstation Portable that you bought your 11-year-old last Christmas had a web browser...

Finally........ go online with your kids,

explore their virtual world,learn what they know.

Be firm, Be loving,

Be informed!

Visit www.sccpss.com/schools/georgetown/guidance

for more information

Thank you for joining us tonight.

http://www.pewinternet.org/2015/04/09/teens-social-media-technology-2015/

Under 13 Year Olds On Facebook: Why Do 5 Million Kids Log In If Facebook Doesn't Want Them To?http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/09/19/under-13-year-olds-on-facebook_n_1898560.html

Teens, Social Media & Technology Overview 2015

http://mamabearapp.com/kids-oversharing-on-social-media/

Table Talk: How to Stop Kids from Oversharing on Social Media

http://www.minormonitor.com/resource/parental-controls/#sthash.OAj2SsDy.dpuf

Parental Controls

13 Tips for Monitoring Kids’ Social Media

http://www.parenting.com/gallery/social-media-monitoring-kids