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Kimberly McCartha August 2, 2013
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Being how do you
feel
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Table of Contents
Hope Care Partners
Supportive/Purpose
Closeness Education Acceptance Logic Oneself
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Hold onto hope – each journey is individual
People• How you should be
Your Feelings• Right• Legitimate
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Hold onto hope – each journey is individual
Dementia Experience• No one signs up
Care Partner PWD
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Hold onto hope – each journey is individual Choices
Choices• GO on Journey or NOT
No set time Unknown things to come Alongside PWD Huge personal cost
Respected & Supported Not for everyone
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Hold onto hope – each journey is individual
Choices• Overwhelming
Despair Anxiety Fear
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Hold onto hope – each journey is individual
Choices• HOPE
Good times together Inner peace For support Exceptional care QOL
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Hold onto hope – each journey is individual
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Become care partners to weather the storm
‘I do not want to be mothered’
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Become care partners to weather the storm
Instinct• Look after• Show care
Risk of removing rights Independency Control
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Become care partners to weather the storm
Care Partners• Negotiate together• Harder than carer
• Looking after someone• Not for everyone
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Being supportive involves deciding on your purpose together
Supporting PWD• Starts with PWD
Journey We join them Their shoes Empathy Choices Enabling to live
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Being supportive involves deciding on your purpose together
• Common purpose• Express needs
PWD Partner
• Third Person Dementia
Include Postive
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Being supportive involves deciding on your purpose together
• Common purpose• Express needs
PWD Partner
• Third Person Dementia
Include Postive
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Closeness is what countsSensitive to lossesValue self esteem
Need reassurance of love/careCloseness needed
HeightenedTrust feeling rather
than factsCommunicate now
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Learn about dementia –collect strategies
• EDUCATE• Ready for feeling• You expert of your
experience Publications a plus
• Person Centerd Represents rights Needs of care partner
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Learn about dementia –collect strategies
• Focus on Person not disease Everything has meaning Connected to feelings
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Accept someone as they are-embrace their reality
• Accept• PWD reality• Difficult• Learn their language
Language is feelings not facts
• Can’t fix them• Reality is real
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Using logic and reason generally won’t work
“Thanks very much, that’s a great help. That will keep the bedding nice and clean”
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Using logic and reason generally won’t work
= Feelings
= Thinking
= Action
Our Brains
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Using logic and reason generally won’t work
= Feelings
= Action
PWD Brains
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Using logic and reason generally won’t work
I feel and then I act
PWD Brains
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Using logic and reason generally won’t work
Correcting• Highten mistake• Humiliate• Damage self
esteem
PWD Brains
Live in their world
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Being person centered withoneself is important
People who are good at being a partner, being caring, being loving, are often not very goodat being careful to take care of themselves.
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Being person centered withoneself is important
• Need time & space• Watch for stress• Receive support
Believe your well being matters too!
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Start with being heartfelt as a person centered worker
Being person centered is about how you are with people. It is not just what you do