How to Respect Yourself in the Morning: Getting Comfortable Saying No
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HOW TO RESPECT YOURSELF IN THE MORNING
Larissa Scordato | @larissascordato
Digital Project Management Summit, 2015
getting comfortable with saying no
no
1. Used to give a negative response 2. Expressing disagreement or contradiction 3. A negative answer or decision 4. Used to indicate that something is quite the
opposite of what is being specified
no /no/ /
I live in Phoenix…
. . . . . .
.
..
. I work with Phuse…
over-communication a.k.a. the art of managing an international, remote team of clients and co-workers
Our memory is like the telephone game: Each time we recall an event, our brains
distort it
http://www.northwestern.edu/newscenter/stories/2012/09/your-memory-is-like-the-telephone-game.html
story time!
I got my start at Forty…
idea ! Why waste project hours to walk a client through a plan they’re perfectly capable of reading?
Clients read all of our emails,
don’t they?!
No
OMGWTF?! TL;DR About 15% of people read everything you send them (and more!) The rest are like, “K, thanks, bye!”
The biggest communication issue we have boils down to our assumption
that it has already taken place.
https://hbr.org/2011/02/your-communications-may-not-be.html
You never told me that…
Um…that’s not what we asked for.
I feel like you’re trying to nickel and dime me…
Not setting ground rules, and
clear expectations from the
beginning leads to project failure.
This is why Project Managers should have a “first date” with every client.
1. kickoff/goals
2. assumptions/tech/deliverables
3. the initial plan
4. risks and your role
First Date
Our role is not to boss around our teams
Nor are we there to give the client everything they want
PROJECT our role is to manage the
Scope our role is to manage the
deliverables our role is to manage the
budget our role is to manage the
timeline our role is to manage the
“When you are tired of saying it,
they are starting to hear it.”
-Jeff Weiner
let’s practice!
Thanks!
Larissa Scordato | @larissascordato [email protected]