1. How to meet the right woman with ease andhave incredible fun doing it

2. The beginning always the best place to start I called her and asked if she was happy just lastweek she said yes so we will talk again nextweek. (just kidding) We live together and arevery happy. How do I have any idea what I am talkingabout? Nothing can replace experience. I am 47on my second marriage it has lasted 17years and two great kids 3. Am I lucky to have her? Not even a question, she is better than I ever deserved ,a gift from God as far as I am concerned. Am I lucky to have found her? Not really .This is why. First you need some history. Iwas inspired to write this hub buy anotherhubber Robert Urich actually one of hishubs " A Flawless Way to Meet Women"This hub was well written and entertaininglike all of Roberts Hubs. But it made me 4. For the nitty gritty read Roberts hub, But basicallythe advise is sound on how to meet woman. Butwhat then ? Are you looking for a lifetime offulfillment or just to date? I grew up with very little confidence. Thatis the unfortunate truth. I was scared todeath of girls. Here is the first secret you should knowbefore looking for your soul mate. 5. Let me explain . My ex had problems it has been 20 yearsshe may be fine now I do not know. Butlets just say that back then she was asweet but confused girl, she said " I do "and she thought that meant witheveryone. I disagreed, so it did not workout. 6. I was raised by two parents that stayed togetheruntil the end, And taught good morals. So howdid I attract a like you may ask? Simple, we werefrom two different moral worlds, she had beenaround the block I had only a little experience.She had been involved with drugs and alcohol. Ihad never tried either. But we were alike in thatwe both had low self-esteem ,and low confidencelevels. 7. We both felt deep inside that ,no one would love us. Or that we did not deserve to be loved. That is what brought us together. I attracted what I was . Someone with lowself-esteem and very little confidence. Ipaid dearly with wasted time andemotional pain. However I learned frommy mistake. 8. To thine own self be true You have to know your self. It wont get more simple than this . Youwant a decent woman right? So deserveone be a decent man. When you meet awoman remember "To thine own self betrue" . 9. With my ex I tried to be what she wanted me to be. Over the few years we were together I was so insecure that I became someone I did not know or like. I knew she could not be trusted deep inside so I unintentionally created a self fulfilling prophecy. It was a catch 22 because I knew I could not have trust it changed me and because I changed she did not have the same feelings for me. In a nut shell be your self. With my currentwife I have always been myself she hasknown from the start that I will not change.Because she meet the real me. 10. Do You Like You? You have to like your self!!! If you do not, then do not expect any oneelse to. Remember that whole" You attract whatyou are." Well you want to attract a confident happygood woman who believes in her self? First you must learn to like whom you are. 11. Ok so tell me already So the meat of this are you ready? I paidmoney to learn this many years ago . Itwas the best money I ever spent. Becauseof what I learned I met my wife. So here it is for free. You will never meetany one watching TV at home. Datingsites maybe . 12. Here is the most fun way to do it. Get the hell outthere. Here is what I did. Every time I met awoman that I had even the slightest attraction toI asked her out. Not in the hopes of taking herhome.But just simply for fun. Here is how itworks. Like any kind of promotion it is a numbersgame. 13. Maybe you ask out Sue and there just is not a real connection there but you go out with her and her friends . Now maybe her best friend Jane is your dream girl. Maybe you meet all her friends and makemany new friends to enrich your life. The benefits go on and on. New friendsthe bigger network can mean new learningexperiences, better jobs, trying new 14. My whole life changed. My confidence built up I tried new things I made new friends . Most of all I made a positive change in my life. 15. Here is the best part I learned that I am a good guy thatdeserves to have a great woman. To put it simply. I deserve to be loved. As soon as I learned that something magichappened. I started to attract the kind of woman Iwanted in my life. Soon I met my wife nowI know I have someone to love who will 16. So one last time To thine own self be true. You attract what you are. You can not set home feeling sorry andmeet some one! So get out there and start having fun. Kindof like that movie "Yes Man" Just do and