How to live Happy & make people like you
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How to
Live Happy
…& make people like you
Happiness was placed at the center of the Maya's calendar and everything was supposed to be related to it in our vision of life.
Point your own development in the right direction
A damaging experience sometimes sets off a chain reaction of thought patterns and habits that can be very difficult to break…
…but like any habit, however, it’s something you have the ability to
control
You tore up your favorite piece of clothes, so what? You'll get another one someday.
You grew up with financial issues? work harder to prove yourself and make your family proud.
You lost your job today? Probably it wasn't good enough for you…
You missed a great opportunity? Grab the next one. Maybe it wasn’t yours.
I’m Happy every single day !and so should you…
Accept what you’re going through and take the bright side of it.
Life goes on !
The ability to take negative events and turn them into positive thoughts is one of the most important aspect of one's life.
Lea r n to overcome t hose « obstacles » that keep you back. They’re the reason why some people never reach their unveiled dreams. The sooner you get it, the better.
Some people are very happy with who they are and what they’ve become, but not everyone is so fortunate.
But those who reject society are rejected by society.
If you are rejected, you’re going to miss out huge on the benefits that it offers
Some people hate themselves. They hate how they think, look, speak & act
Start by setting goals to yourself. Define your values and stick to them !Believe in yourself. Believe in your projects, no matter the importance !By developing a plan, you're bound to succeed !No company ever works without a plan...
Life should be taken as serious as that
What do you think makes people happy?
Being liked, accepted, successful & respected
It’s simple.
First, you mustConform
Trying to get what you want without conforming is like swimming against the tide on purpose.
The truly smart people care about what people think, yet never outwardly mention it either way.
It’s easy to think of something to complain about. And it’s fine to criticize and complain now and then. But if you make a habit out of it, people won’t like being around you. If you are preventing the happiness of others, they won’t like you.
Nobody Likes People who are Negative
Play with your audience
Educate yourself on various topics.
People like those who they feel have similar views and interests.
I’m sure you act totally different when you’re around your coworkers than your family and friends, for example.
Tell People What they Want to Hear
Approach and befriend
those who are popular
Whether we want it or not, the people we see frequently affect our conception of life and our general behavior. So if you choose to wisely get in
touch with winners, you’ll get your piece of the cake too.
Don’t Worry !
People want to be around those who are in control and relaxed. Embrace a confident attitude and keep your heap up.
Always try to look as relaxed as possible. If you act like you have nothing to worry about, you won’t worry as much
People respect you for what you expose
BecomeOpportunist
Move forward faster than most people by having multiple social circles and diversifying your activities. Find people that have the confidence you want and hang around with them as much as possible. On the other hand, leave the ones that drag you back in life. Imagine the confident person you want to be.
We tend to think everyone is like us, but each individual thinks differently. It is substantial to accept other's point of view. Try to spend time with people sharing a totally different vision of the world than yours; you'll be amazed by all the possibilities. And eventually, you might prefer waffles over ice cream, who knows?
Learn from others
DoYou
If you're like me, you love to be the center of attention and get a lot of friends, right? We all do.
Who’s the most important person in the world for you? …Yourself, naturally.
So speak up & show your real talents.
Smile More
Ever notice personalities are always smiling when looking at a camera?
Our brain is influenced by what we do physically. By smiling, you look happy and unconsciously feel like it
1. Positive thinking: I want so I can, even if it takes time.
2. Give yourself the means: efforts pay, but at least efforts need to be made.
3. Never too late to learn: reading is the most simple, fascinating and rewarding human experience.
4. Exchange: because no one is perfect, everyone can form part of the circle.
5. Loving: love is the strongest human feeling, and everyone needs some.
6. Dare: instead of following the crowd, Improvise yourself leader.
7. Control yourself: do NOT get carried away by your emotions;
canalize and organize your actions and thoughts.
8. Look for enjoyment: find out what makes your days happy.
Find a way to bring together pleasure to your daily tasks.
The 8 Happiness principles
Enjoyment is perceived the same way by human beings no matter your age, gender, culture, social class, etc. To enjoy life, we should either make external conditions match our objectives or change how we perceive those conditions to make them fit our goals.
Every single positive thought will get you farther in your future, happier with your entourage & this will benefit to everyone around you.
Conclusion
« It is not what happens to us that determine our happiness, but the manner in which we make sense of that reality » Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi
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Author
Jérémie Lorrain Co-Founder of nail art company Úñica.
French, Fashionista, Blogger, Entrepreneur, Businessman, Model, Salesperson, Ambitious, Very Open-
minded, People and Opportunity-Oriented.