HOW TO DEVELOP A GOOD PERSONALITY AND ATTITUDE.

Presented By Asad

Personality and Attitude.

Every person has a unique personality

that characterizes the totality of being

an individual. Our personalities may be

perceived by others as good or bad.

People see you and think of you as

having a bad personality if you tend not

to socialize, you always seem grumpy

and overly serious, you think more of

pessimistic thoughts, and you do not

look presentable with your manner of

dressing. On the other hand, you are

known to have a good personality if you

have a cheerful disposition, you appear

neat and well-groomed, and you have a

desirable attitude.

HOW DO YOU DEVELOP A GOOD

PERSONALITY? Here are some ways you can do this.

Have a Positive Outlook in Life.

Take a self-reflection of how you envision your life and the way you deal with life and people

everyday. Do you think of consequences and failure when in a situation instead of thinking of ways

and means on how to face it? Do you view life as pointless and useless because you cannot seem to

find your purpose? If this is how you perceive life to be, it is time to change to a positive outlook..

Firstly, find out what you really want to happen with your life, your career, business, or relationship

with other people. Know where you are going and what you love to do. Set personal goals to

determine what you wish to attain. This will give you a sense of direction and determination. Of

course, knowing how to achieve these goals is very important. You need to know what to do and if

you need the help of other people to reach these goals.

Positive Outlook

 Entertain positive thoughts

Having a generally positive outlook in life can also help develop

positive thoughts. Keeping an optimistic mind also keeps one’s

viewpoints positive. When you have set your goals, always keep

telling yourself that you will achieve them and believe that you

will. Trust that you can do the things you wish to attain, and

believe in your capabilities to manifest them. This includes

thinking of positive thoughts, visualizing them, and

materializing those ambitions.

Maintain positive attitude.

Keeping a positive attitude is another way to develop a positive personality.

Build your level of courtesy toward others. Show consideration and respect

for them by giving a warm smile, saying ‘thank you’ to show appreciation,

and listening when someone is talking. These are but just a few of the many

ways to manifest courtesy. Also, be understanding and caring to other

people’s needs. Everyone appreciates and admires a person who shows

genuine understanding. It is a way of keeping good relationships with other

people. Be enthusiastic and show confidence in whatever you do. Someone

who manifests enthusiasm can easily attain success. For example, if you take

your work and the tasks assigned to you wholeheartedly and with eagerness,

it will not be that difficult to accomplish whatever needs to be done since you

have the passion to do it. Smile a lot rather than frown.

ContdA smile can make a big difference in a chaotic and complicated situation. A smile can be a cure for a broken relationship. A sincere smile shows that you hold no grudges against others.

If you keep these tips to heart, you will surely see a

difference in yourself in just a matter of time. In the end,

you will be thankful that you made a bold step towards self

improvement.  

Positive attitude.

Personality traitsThere are dozens of personality traits you could use; for

instance, aggressive, shy, ambitious, loyal and lazy. Over the

years, researchers have attempted to focus specifically on

which traits would lead to identifying one's personality. Two of

the most widely recognized efforts include the Myers-Briggs

Type indicator and the five factor model of personality.

 

The big- five models of personality

Although the Myers-Briggs Type indicator is very popular, it

suffers from one major criticism. It lacks evidence to support

its validity.

That same criticism cannot be applied to the five-factor model

of personality, more often called the big-five model.

The big- five personality traits are

1. Extraversion:The degree to which one is sociable, talkative, and assertive. 2. Agreeableness:The degree to which someone is good natured, cooperative and trusting.  3. Conscientiousness:The degree to which someone is responsible, dependable, persistent, and achievement oriented. 

4. Emotional stability:The degree to which someone is calm, enthusiastic, and secure (positive) or tense, nervous, depressed, and insecure (negative). 5. Openness to experienceThe degree to which someone is imaginative, artistically sensitive, and intellectual.

ConclusionPersonality also influences what we think, our beliefs, values and expectations.