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How To Be A Good Guest
Self Management Skills
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Group Members Arsalan Mansuri
Ayesha Aqeel
Fizza Idrees
Muhammad Adil Rah
Almas Anjum
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Introduction• In our surroundings we see that many people are
facing stress and anxiety.
• The main reason behind this is lack of social skills. To overcome this we have to build up our relationship.
• Today we will learn how we can overcome this situation by being a good guest.
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How To Be A Good Guest?
• One can improve his social skills as a good guest by practicing the following
• Do’s and Don’t
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Do’s Pre – arrival Be - On time To Bring with you Ask for contribution Replace the things you use it Talk to people you don't know. A Thank you note
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Pre-arrival• In case of Invitation(R.S.V.P)
• Respond to your invitation as soon as you know (and no later than the stated RSVP date) whether or not you can attend the party.
• Tell your hosts when you'll be arriving, when you're leaving, and what plans, if any, you might have.
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Be On Time• Arrive at a dinner party on-
time.
• Some hostesses plan the timing of their meals very precisely, and you wouldn't want to hold up the meal and spoil the food for everyone else
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To Bring with You:
• I think a host/hostess gift of some sort is a must. It can be
somethingas simple as flowers, a box ofchocolates, a basket of fruit,
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Ask For Contribution:• Ask if you can contribute
anything to the meal such as an appetizer, side dish or dessert
• When the meal is over, ask your hostess if you can help clear the table. But if her answer is "no thanks", then just relax and leave things alone.
• She may not wish for everyone to feel rushed as their plates are taken from them mid-bite.
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If you use it, replace it• If you end up using all of the conditioner on your
tangle-free mane, devouring an entire loaf of bread, and polishing off the last of the milk, it's time to hit the store.
• Replenish the things you've used, and you'll be remembered as generous and considerate, rather than someone who eats their friends out of house and home.
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Talk to people you don't know.• Sure, all your friends are at
the party. But these are all people you'll see again.
• how are you goanna meet new people
• Talking to new people is also a HUGE favor to your hostess, who will have to worry less about guests
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Send a thank-you note• No, an email won't suffice,
nor will a phone call. Instead, grab a card, include a few words of kindness and thanks, and mail it to them
• It should only take you a few minutes, and it will mean a lot.
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Don't Show up right on time Don’t raise controversial
issues Don’t overstay your welcome Don’t use aggressive tone ''Ghost' without saying
goodbye to your host.
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Show up right on time• If you find yourself arriving at party within 15 minutes
of the stated start time, nip around the corner for a coffee, or hang out at a bookstore for a bit, or just sit in your car.
• This will give your host a little breathing room and ensure that you don't walk in on them doing frantic last minute preparations.
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Don't Be Controversial • Don't raise a controversial topic that you know will
cause dissension among that particular group of guests.
• Save that for when you're the host in your own home
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Don’t overstay your welcome• “Guests, like fish, begin to
smell after three days.”
• Do give some thought to how long you can stay as a guest in someone’s house
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Never Use Aggressive Tone• Be polite,
• As a guest one should never use harsh words, be very kind polite with host and other guests.
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''Ghost' without saying goodbye to your host.
• You don't have to make a big deal of announcing your exit to every guest at the party,
• But you should at least find your host and let them know that you had a lovely time but unfortunately you have to leave.
• This will keep them from fielding questions about what happened to so-and-so all night long.
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Reciprocate• Invite your hosts to stay with you next time they're in
town. If not, invite them for dinner or offer to play tour guide.
• Not only will you get to pay them back for their hospitality, but you'll have a better idea of how difficult being a good host can be.
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Thank you