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1/23

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2/23

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J tu}jicf uhbic hjppfit shfi rgv `b|f sbuh j aji g} j shb`f) J

u}jitg}ajubgi)

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sjtiupf}lfdu, mvu hf hje ajef ji flg}u) Hf f|fi dggnfe tgaf

`bicvbib g} rgv, jie bu sjt j` efiuf*

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hba, jeab}fe hba, sjiufehba ) ) ) jie hf f`u uhf tjaf sjr)

Mvu uhju sjt uhfi) Tgaf agiuht jie rfj}t cg mr (ajrmf

tgaf nbet j}}b|f", jie c}jevj``r uhbict dhjicf) Hf tffat ug eg

`ftt jie `ftt, jie rgv eg ag}f jie ag}f) Uf mj`jidf hjt ub`ufe)

Juf} j shb`f rgv ie rgv}f pbdnbic vp juf} hba) G}cjib{bic hbt

`bf) Egbic ag}f uhji rgv} thj}f g hgvtfsg}n) Sjr ag}f) Sg}tu


3/23

x|bbb Biu}gevdubgi

g j``, rgv hj|f tgafhgs uv}ife biug j ijcj uhbic rgve |gsfe

if|f} ug mf* Rgv f|fi ie rgv}tf` u}rbic ug tugp hba }ga egbic

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Mfdjvtf hf mfhj|ft ugg avdh `bnf gif g uhfa)

Jie gif ejr rgv dgaf hgaf }ga c}gdf}r thgppbic ug ie

hba gi uhf dgvdhhbt tgdnt gi uhf gg}, `jtu ibchut ebthft tub``

pb`fe bi uhf tbin, jie uhgtf j`agtu!evf hfj`uh bitv}jidf g}at

viugvdhfe gi uhf ujm`f) Juf} rgv c}jdbgvt`r afiubgi uhftfjdut ug hba jie hfj} hba }ftpgie, Igu igs, Ba sjudhbic uhf

cjaf, bu hbut rgv; B abchu jt sf`` mf hbt aguhf})

@juf} uhju ibchu rgv d`bam biug mfe juf} ajnbic `vidhft, p}b!

g}bub{bic uhf mb``t, jie dhfdnbic gi uhf nbet, jie hf `ggnt ju rgv

sbuh uhju mgrbth c}bi jie uhju c`biu bi hbt frf uhju vtfe ug uv}i

rgv gi, jie j`` rgv dji uhbin bt, Bi rgv} e}fjat)Ubt btiu uhf sjr but tvppgtfe ug mf) But j uf}}bm`f uv}ij}gvie,

ji jsv` uhbic ug hjppfi ug j pf}fdu`r |bjm`f dgvp`f) Gidf vpgi

j ubaf rgv sf}f pj}uif}t, fxdbufe jmgvu rgv} kgv}ifr ugcfuhf})

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ug afiubgi sj}auh jie ) ) ) tb{{`f) Igs rgv}f `bnf j aguhf} ug

hba) Rgv} cgge }f`jubgithbp hjt mffi usbtufe jie ebtug}ufe)

Dji rgv cfu bu mjdn7

Hgs ebe uhbt hjppfi7 Shgt ug m`jaf7 Shju nffpt uhf ifs

tbuvjubgi bi p`jdf7

Bt uhf}f j sjr gvu7 Dji rgv mf pj}uif}t jcjbi7 Dji rgv tugp

mfbic hbt aguhf}7

Ujut shju uhbt mggn bt jmgvu)

Uf }tu tufp bi tg`|bic j p}gm`fa bt ug vief}tujie fxjdu`r

shju bu dgitbtut gshju bt u}jitpb}bic jie hgs bu ff`t) Tg sf``

mfcbi, bi pj}u :, mr egdvafiubic uhf tbcit jie trapugat g mf!

dgabic rgv} hvtmjiet aguhf}jie uhf ejajcf bu egft)


4/23

Biu}gevdubgi xbx

Dhjpuf} : efj`t sbuh |f hjut sgafi sfj} jt aguhf}t g

uhfb} afi;

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4) ajijcf} (jie }ftpgitbm`f gif"

5) jppfj}jidf jie fubzvfuuf dgjdh

6) dhbè }fj}f}

Sf ` fxjabif fjdh g uhftf jie cb|f rgv j dhjidf ug ujnf

tugdn g uhf jduvj` kgmt rgv eg, uhf sg}n uhju ajnft rgv j

aguhf} ug hba) Ubt bt pj}u`r j mggn jmgvu vijb} eb|btbgi g

`jmg}) Ajir sgafi j}f g|f}sg}nfe jie g|f}tu}fttfe mfdjvtf, bi

jeebubgi ug hj|bic j agifr!fj}ibic kgm, uhfr j}f egbic agtu g

uhf hfj|r `bubic ju hgaf, bid`vebic hgvtfsg}n jie dhbè dj}f)Uju btiu jb}, jie bu btiu jddfpujm`f) Bu dji ajnf rgv ff` uhju

rgv|f mffi tvdnfe biug j sg}è shf}f rgv j}f tp}fje ugg uhbi

shb`f rgv} tg!dj``fe pj}uif} btiu) Mfdjvtf rgv}f bi dhj}cf g uhf

hgaf, rgv gufi ff` `bnf hbt mgtt> mfdjvtf rgv}f egbic tg ajir

phrtbdj` dhg}ft, ju ubaft rgv ff` `bnf hbt tf}|jiu) But j usbtufe

dgambijubgi)

Shbdh `fjet ug uhf ifxu pgbiu; Mfbic rgv} hvtmjiet aguhf}

btiu gi`r jmgvu uhf sg}n rgv eg) But j`tg jmgvu hgs rgv lff`

ugsj}e hba) Mfbic hbt aguhf} ff`t eblf}fiu }ga mfbic hbt

pj}uif}) Rgv|f mffi agaarfe) Uf aguhf}!dhbè ufap`juf

p}fttft uhf s}gic mvuugit, dhjicbic hgs rgv mfhj|f jie hgs hf

mfhj|ft) Rgv egiu sjiu ug u}fju hba `bnf j dhbè, mvu rgv eg) Hf

egftiu `bnf bu, jie hf }fjdut) Tg bi dhjpuf} = sf }f`juf uhf uf`ùj`f

sjrt uhju uhf fagubgij` erijabd mfusffi sbf jie hvtmjie bt

vief}abife, }bchu egsi ug rgv} ijccbic jie hbt uvibic rgv gvu

g} }fmf``bic g}, f|fi sg}tf, gmfrbic gvu g fj} g pvibthafiu)


5/23

xx Biu}gevdubgi

Uf}ft gif ag}f, |f}r p}baj` dgitfzvfidf g mfdgabic hbt

aguhf}, jie but j`` ugg p}febdujm`f) Uf biubajdr rgv vtfe ug

thj}f mfcbit ug jùf}) Dhjpuf} 4 fxp`g}ft uhf tfxvj` j``gvu, shbdhbt uhf ij` p}gg uhju tgafuhbic hjt cgif mje`r s}gic) Rgv jie

rgv} hvtmjie vtfe ug mf `g|f}t> igs rgv}f hbt aguhf}) Sf`` fx!

p`g}f uhf jiub!f}gubd tbcij`t uhju ujnf hgè jie uhf sjrt uhju uhf

tfxvj` ajcbd bt zvjthfe g} mguh pj}uif}t)

B rgv ie rgv}tf` bi uhf Aguhf} Trie}gaf, rgv j}fiu

j`gif) Hgs mbc bt uhf p}gm`fa7 But hvcf) Rgv ajr hj|f igubdfeifst tug}bft p}gd`jbabic uhju afi hj|f djvchu vp jie j}f igs

pv``bic uhfb} sfbchu ju hgaf) J}f uhfr u}vf7 Vig}uvijuf`r igu)

Sf ` ujnf j hj}e `ggn ju uhgtf tug}bft bi dhjpuf} 5, shfi sf

tdgpf gvu dv}}fiu }ftfj}dh gi hgs mbc gv} p}gm`fa bt) Shju sf``

ie bt uhju bi ajir bapg}ujiu sjrt, sgafi j}f tub`` dj}}rbic ji

vievf `gje ju hgaf) Sf`` j`tg ie uhju uhf p}gm`fa uhbt mggnujdn`fthf} mfdgabic hbt aguhf}bt ju uhf hfj}u g shju jb`t

aj}}bjcf ugejr) (But j`tg g|f}`ggnfe bi uhf fig}agvt tdhg`j}`r

`buf}juv}f jmgvu pjbe jie vipjbe `jmg} mr afi jie sgafi)"

Gv} pg}u}jbu g uhf Aguhf} Trie}gaf hjt gif ag}f pj}u)

Sf|f igubdfe ji biuf}ftubic uhbic jmgvu bu; bu tifjnt vp gi ajir

dgvp`ft, shg t`bp biug ejicf}gvt pjuuf}it sbuhgvu hj|bic uhf }f!

aguftu befj g uhf dgitfzvfidft) Bi dhjpuf} 6 sf`` thgs hgs uhbt

tug}r cgft, jie shr `g|f uhju mfcbit bi uhf sbè hjt tvdh j hj}e

ubaf efj`bic sbuh egaftubdbur)

Hj|bic tffi fxjdu`r shju uhf Aguhf} Trie}gaf bt, but ubaf ug

ie gvu shf}f bu dgaft }ga jie shju nffpt bu bi p`jdf) Sf|f

gvie uhju mguh afamf}t g uhf dgvp`f d`bic ug uhbt vihjppr

sjr g }f`jubic ug fjdh guhf}) Ufr }fj``r uhbin uhfr hj|f ig

dhgbdf mvu ug `b|f uhbt sjr) Jie jt `gic jt uhfr uhbin uhju, bu btiu

cgbic ug dhjicf)

Tg bi pj}u = sf ujdn`f uhf sjrt bi shbdh sgafi jie afi u}r


6/23

Biu}gevdubgi xxb

ug fxp`jbi, kvtubr, jie fxdvtf uhbt tbuvjubgi uhju bt ajnbic uhfa

abtf}jm`f jie e}jbibic uhf kgr gvu g uhfb} aj}}bjcf) Bi tbx dg`g}!

v` dhjpuf}t, sf hjv` uhftf }fjtgit biug uhf `bchu jie efdgitu}vduuhfa)

Tgafubaft sgafi jie afi thj}f uhf tjaf effitf (ar

aguhf} ebe bu uhbt sjr", mvu bi guhf} djtft uhfr p`jr uhf m`jaf

cjaf (afi j}f bidgapfufiu |f}tvt sgafi j}f dgiu}g`

}fjnt") Igshf}f bt uhbt dgibdu ag}f hfjufe uhji gi uhf tvmkfdu

g uhf dhbè}fi; sgafi tjr uhfr djiu u}vtu afi sbuh uhf nbet,jie afi tjr uhju sgafi g|f}pj}fiu jie thvu afi gvu) Gi uhf

tfxvj` }giu, mguh tpgvtft ufie ug mf bi efibj` jmgvu djvtft jie

flfdutjie ug abtvief}tujie fjdh guhf}) Tfx bt uhf f`fphjiu bi

uhf }gga, mvu sf`` d`bam gi jie ujnf bu g} j }bef)

Shfi tpgvtft fxp`jbi shr thf egft uhf hfj|r `bubic ju hgaf,

uhfb} }fjtgit }ffdu tgaf |f}r effp tgdbj` g}dft jie juubuveft)Sgafi ff` p}fttv}fe ug pf}g}a jt aguhf}t jie jt hgafajn!

f}t, `ftu uhfr tvlf} uhf tibef kvecafiut g tgdbfurg} ftpfdbj``r

g guhf} sgafi) B ar dhbèt gvuu bt b``!ajudhfe, pfgp`f sb``

uhbin Ba j mje aguhf} (mvu uhfr sgiu d}bubdb{f ar hvtmjie")

B ar hgaf bt j aftt, uhfr`` tjr Ba j mje sbf) Afi ff` dgi!

tu}jbife mr fap`grf}t fxpfdujubgit ug sg}n `gicf} hgv}t jie

j|gbe uhf tvtpbdbgi g mfbic ebtu}jdufe mr uhfb} jab`bft) Sgafi

ff` `bnf uhfr}f j`}fjer jttvafe ug mf cvbùr g uhju dhj}cf) Mguh

tfxft tub`` ubf uhfatf`|ft vp bi gè befjt g shju bu bt ug mf j aji,

shju bu bt ug mf j sgaji, jie shbdh nbiet g sg}n j}f tvbufe ug

fjdh) Tdhg`j}t hj|f j djudhph}jtf ug jddgviu g} uhf tu}jicf bifz!

vbubft g hgvtfsg}n; uhfr tjr uhf tpgvtft j}f egbic cfief})

Mvu sf tjr b bu btiu jb}, b bu btiu u}vf, rgv egiu hj|f ug `b|f

mr bu) Igu b bu `fjet ug j tbuvjubgi shf}f rgv ff` `bnf hbt aguhf}

bitufje g hbt pj}uif}) Tgdbfur bt ajnbic p}gc}ftt> cfief} tuf}fg!

urpft jmgvu hgvtfsg}n jie dhbè dj}f j}f c}jevj``r dhjicbic)


7/23

xxbb Biu}gevdubgi

Mvu uhbt bt j mbu `bnf uv}ibic j hvcf gdfji `bif}; but ugg t`gs) Tg,

bi j tfitf, gv} mggn bt }f|g`vubgij}r, gi uhf dgvp`f `f|f`) Sf}f

jtnbic bieb|bevj` sb|ft jie hvtmjiet ug tufp vp jie efr gmtg!`fuf tgdbfuj` |j`vft jie eg uhbict bi j jb}f} sjr)

Ubt btiu fjtr ug eg, tg bi pj}u 4 sf cb|f rgv j d`fj}, p}jdub!

dj` }gje ajp ug cfu rgv uhf}f) Mfg}f jir ifcgubjubic dji tuj}u,

rgv hj|f ug cfu }fjer) Sf`` thgs rgv hgs ug tuj}u dhjicbic uhf

fagubgij` juagtphf}f tg uhju dgaavibdjubgi bt pgttbm`f) Uf

ifxu tufp bt hj}e; cv}bic gvu b rgv rgv}tf` j}f }fj``r }fjer g}dhjicf, jie b tg, shju rgv sjiu uhju dhjicf ug `ggn `bnf) (Hbiu;

Dhjicf afjit cb|bic vp tgaf dgiu}g`* Dhjicf afjit gpfibic

uhf cjuf tg rgv} pj}uif} dji pj}ubdbpjuf ag}f)" Sf`` cg gi ug

fxp`jbi hgs ug ie gvu shfuhf} rgv} hvtmjie bt }fjer jie, b

hf bt, hgs ug m}bic hba ug uhf ujm`f jie f`bdbu hbtsbth `btu) Ufi

uhf }fj` hg}tf u}jebic mfcbit, jie sf p}g|bef j }fdbpf g} cggeusg!sjr tfttbgitshbdh fie vp mfbic ag}f vi uhji rgv abchu

uhbin) Uf fie }ftvù bt ug ag|f rgv jie rgv} aji ug j mfuuf}

p`jdf)

Shfi egft uhf Aguhf} Trie}gaf tu}bnf7 Sf``, bu dji hjppfi

shfi rgv}f aj}}bfe (g} `b|bic ugcfuhf}" sbuh ig dhbè}fi; rgv

ajr fjtb`r ie rgv}tf` p`jrbic j aguhf} }g`f g} rgv} tpgvtf

(jie hbt mveebft*") Bu dji j}btf ev}bic uhf rfj}t shfi dhbè}fi

j}f mfbic }jbtfe, shfi uhf }fj` mbg`gcr g aguhf}hgge dji jee

but abchur pgsf} ug uhf p}gm`fa, jie rgv} ifs befiubur ugsj}e

rgv} dhbè}fi ajr tpb`` g|f} giug rgv} hvtmjie jie hf`p pvu j

ejapf} gi rgv} gè sjr g }f`jubic) Jie bu dji bi|jef uhf fapur

iftu) Rgv} dhbè}fi hj|f hje uhfb} efpfiefiu rfj}t jie igs but

rgv} uv}i ug `b|f, ug fxpf}bfidf j `buu`f je|fiuv}f jie ajrmf

tgaf }gajidf, mvu rgv `ggn j}gvie jie ie rgv tub`` hj|f j

efpfiefiu ug ujnf dj}f g; rgv} tpgvtf) Bi guhf} sg}et, b rgv}f


8/23

Biu}gevdubgi xxbbb

`b|bic sbuh j aji, `ggn gvu) (Uf}f j}f j`tg guhf} tdfij}bgt, `bnf

if|f} hj|bic dhbè}fi g} eb|g}dbic jie }faj}}rbic, bi shbdh uhf

aguhf}!`g|f} p}gm`fa dji fjtb`r ie j hgaf)"Uf dgè jdu bt uhju sjr ugg ajir sb|ft j}f djvchu bi uhbt

u}jp, j`gic sbuh uhfb} hvtmjiet) Jie gidf uhf Aguhf} Trie}gaf

ujnft }ggu bi j aj}}bjcf, bu hjict gi `bnf j sffevi`ftt but

tugppfe sbuh uhf nbie g biuf}|fiubgi sf }fdgaafie bi uhbt

mggn)

But j `buu`f vidgag}ujm`f, uhbt befj uhju rgv|f mfdgaf rgv}hvtmjiet aguhf}) Sf|f tffi bu c}ffufe sbuh j thgdn g }fdgcib!

ubgi, g``gsfe mr `jvchuf}) Ajrmf bu djpuv}ft j u}vuh rgv j`}fjer

nigs) Tgafuhbic rgv jeabu ug bisj}e`r mvu egiu }fj``r efj`

sbuh, mfdjvtf bu tffat ugg g|f}shfàbic ug ujdn`f) Rgv kgnf sbuh

rgv} }bfiet jmgvu hgs avdh g j t`gm rgv} hvtmjie bt, g} hgs

b}}ftpgitbm`f jie `j{rmvu uhfi rgv hj|f j `jvch jmgvu bu, th}vcbu gl, jie ag|f gi ug uhf ifxu ugpbd) Juf} j``, mgrt sb`` mf mgrt)

Uf bitbebgvt flfdutuhju mfdgabic rgv} ajit aguhf} pvut uhf

nbmgth gi pjttbgi jie }gmt rgv g uhf `g|f rgv mguh sjiufe

j}f f|fi `ftt jdnigs`fecfe)

Tg but ubaf ug jdf uhf Aguhf} Trie}gafug `fj}i shju bu bt,

shju nffpt bu bi p`jdf, jie hgs ug ftdjpf }ga but c}jtp jie cfu

mjdn ug uhf dgvp`f rgv sf}f afjiu ug mf)


9/23

D h j p u f } :

Uhf Lb|f Kgmt Uhju Ajnf Rgv

Hbt Aguhf}

Rgv ebeiu tfu gvu ug mf hbt aguhf}) Rgv kvtu sjiufe ug mf hbt

sbf) Uju bid`vefe ajnbic j hgaf ugcfuhf}, shbdh sjt tvp!

pgtfe ug mf j cgge uhbic, f|fi j sgief}v` uhbic) Egaftubd m`btt,

uhfr dj`` bu* Lv}ibthbic j p`jdf ugcfuhf}, efdg}jubic bu, tivcc`bic

gi j dgvdh sbuh uhf \ gi) Thj}bic afj`t, e}fjabic uhfa vp,

fjubic uhf gget rgv mguh `g|f) Thj}bic j mfe, ajnbic `g|f, sjn!

bic vp ugcfuhf}) Sjnbic bi uhf abee`f g uhf ibchu jie sjudhbic

uhf guhf} gif t`ffp) Igu ugg thjmmr j e}fja*

Tv}f, rgv nifs uhf}f sgvè mf sg}n bi|g`|feuhf}f j`sjrt

bt) Rgv sgvè mguh hj|f kgmt> uhju sjt j cb|fi) Jie uhfr sgvè

ujnf rgv jsjr }ga fjdh guhf}) Mvu rgve }fuv}i, mfdjvtf igs

hgaf afjiu uhf usg g rgv) Bu sjt j p`jdf rgve dj}|fe gvu g

uhf sg}è) Ji j``!jddftt pjtt ug fjdh guhf}) J p`jdf ug |fiu jie

`jvch jie }fdhj}cf) J p`jdf ug p`jr; tgafubaft rgv sgvè f|fi

mf `bnf nbet shgtf pj}fiut j}f jsjr, ijvchur jie dj}f}ff) (Ju

`fjtu viub` rgv} gsi nbet djaf)"


10/23

5 Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

Jie uhf}f sgvè mf hgvtfsg}n ugg, g dgv}tf) jtnt jp`fiur)

Ubict rgv `g|fe ug eg, uhbict rgv `bnfe ug eg, uhbict uhju kvtu

iffefeegbic) Tjaf g} hba) Tgaf rgv sf}f cgge ju, tgaf hfsjt) Uju sjt uhf p`ji, b uhf}f f|fi sjt gif)

Mvu igs j fs rfj}t hj|f pjttfe, jie b rgv `ggn ju shju j``

uhbt egaftubd m`btt hjuh s}gvchu, bu btiu tg p}fuur) Uf pbfdft

g uhf hgafajnbic pv{{`f hj|f j``fi biug ji vifxpfdufe pju!

uf}i) Rgv}f igu tv}f shfi bu tuj}ufe, g} shfi bu tuj}ufe ug ajuuf})

Ebe rgv ujnf g|f} ugg ajir ujtnt, g} ebe hf mjdn gvu g uhfa7Hgs ebe rgv dgaf ug uhbin g hba jt j thb}nf} g }ftpgitbmb`bur7

Shjuf|f} uhf jitsf}tjie sf ` cfu biug uhfa ag}f effp`r bi

dhjpuf} 6but d`fj} uhju uhf }f`jubgithbp hjt ujnfi j s}gic uv}i,

jie uhf hjppr hgafajnbic uhju sjt tvppgtfe ug mf thj}fe hjt

uv}ife gvu ug mf tgaf nbie g u}jp)

Rgv j}f p`jrbic j pj}u rgv if|f} jvebubgife g}) Tgafhgs,uhf vidubgit rgv pf}g}a hj|f dgj`ftdfe biug gif mbc }g`f dj``fe

mfbic rgv} hvtmjiet aguhf}) Tg sf}f cgbic ug tuj}u mr m}fjnbic

egsi uhbt }g`f biug but dgapgifiu pj}ut) Ufr j`` bi|g`|f rgv}

thgvèf}bic ugg avdh g uhf sg}n jie ugg avdh g uhf }ftpgi!

tbmb`bur, jie tggi uhju pjuuf}i |ff}t biug rgv} mfbic hbt mgtt, hbt

tvpf}|btg}, hbt ajijcf}) Jt b bi tgaf }f|f}tf jb}r uj`f, uhf p}bidf

rgv f`` bi `g|f sbuh igs tffat `bnf ) ) ) j }gc7 Ig, tgafuhbic

sg}tf; j dhbè) Jie but j`` mfdjvtf g shju rgv}f egbic jie shju

hft igu)

Tg sbuhgvu v}uhf} jeg, hf}f j}f |f hjut j sgaji ajr sfj}

jt uhf aguhf} g hf} ajuf) Hgs ajir eg rgv sfj} bi rgv} hvt!

mjiet `bf7 (Uf }tu gv} }g`ft bid}fjtf fxpgifiubj``r b dhbè}fi

j}f bi uhf pbduv}f> uhf uh bt jmgvudhbè}fi)"


11/23

Hgs Dji B Mf Rgv} @g|f} Shfi Ba Ugg Mvtr Mfbic Rgv} Aguhf}7 6

Hju :; D`fjibic @jer

Shfi sgafi dgap`jbi jmgvu uhfb} aguhf}bic }g`ft, d`fji!bic `jer bt vtvj``r ju uhf ugp g uhf `btujnj `jvie}ftt, evtuf},

|jdvvaf}, d`vuuf} }fag|f}, jie mguu`f sjthf}) But shju vtfe ug

mf dj``fe hgvtfnffpbic, jie agtu g bu bt ufebgvt, afibj` sg}n)

J shg`f `gu g bu) Tv}f, tgaf pfgp`f jduvj``r fikgr df}ujbi ujtnt)

B}gibic bt j uv}i!gi g} tgaf) Td}vmmbic cvin g uhf tfjat g j

tbin sbuh ji gè ugguhm}vth dji mf j ef`bchu) Mvu g|f}j``, igu tgavdh) D`fjibic kvtu btiu avdh vi g} jirgif)

Tgaf d`fjibic bt eb}fdu`r g} rgv} aji, `bnf pbdnbic vp hbt

ajcj{bift, `jvief}bic hbt viebft, jie |jdvvabic d}vamt g uhf

dgvdh hf tpfiet tg avdh ubaf gi) Hft uhf eb}fdu mfifdbj}r g

uhftf fg}utuhf `vdnr sbiif} g j sg}è hf afttfe vp uhju bt

ajcbdj``r ajef shg`f jcjbi) Jie tgaf g uhf d`fjibic bt g} uhfshg`f hgvtfhgè, bid`vebic rgv) F|f}rgif vtft uhf nbudhfi, uhf

mjuh}gga, uhf tujb}t) Igu f|f}rgif vtft uhf `buuf} mgx, mvu f|f}r!

gif dji taf`` bu)

Uf agub|f g} d`fjibic bt |f}r tbap`f jie sgvè tffa ug

mf vib|f}tj`; fj} g eb}u) D`fjibic tvdnt, mvu but mfuuf} uhji uhf

jùf}ijub|f) B rgv egiu hgè afttbiftt ju mjr, bu c}gst jie bu

mvbèt) Jt j sgaji `b|bic sbuh j aji jie ajrmf tgaf avidh!

nbit, dhjidft j}f rgv tff uhju uh}fju f|f}r ejr) Rgv tff shju rgv}

hgaf dgvè uv}i biug, tg fjtb`r) Jie rgv sgief} shr rgv j}f uhf

gi`r gif shg }fj``r jpp}fdbjuft uhf afijdf, shg }fj``rcfut bu, bi

j`` but c}vmmr efujb`)

Tg rgv tujie m}j|f`r jcjbitu uhf ubef, `ggnbic g} j `buu`f hf`p)

B rgv hj|f dhbè}fi, sbuh j `buu`f `vdn rgv ajr hj|f uv}ife uhfa

biug j``bft, ju `fjtu pj}ubj``r) Ufr ju `fjtu nigs hgs ug d`fji vp

uhfb} }ggat, shfi }fabiefe) Jie uhfr nigs hgs ug d`fji uhfa!

tf`|ft, g} uhfr}f `fj}ibic) Mvu tub``, nbet ufie ug mf tg djvchu vp bi


12/23

< Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

j shb}`sbie g pv}pgtf jie pjttbgi uhju rgv djiu fxpfdu uhfa ug

tugp f|f}ruhbic jie igubdf uhju j aftt bt mfbic d}fjufe)

Uju `fj|ft uhf cvr shg sjt tvppgtfe ug mf rgv} ajbi j``r)Jie but mje ifst shfi hf bt ABJ) Uf gif shg sjt tvppgtfe

ug mf j c}gsi!vpuhju sjt gif g hbt dhj}at, sjtiu bu7 Hf sjt

d`fji, ugg, }fafamf}7 Hf e}fttfe ibdf, hf taf``fe cgge) Hf

tffafe ug dgaf }ga j hrcbfibd sg}è) Shju hjppfife ug hba7

Tgafhgs hft mffi }fp`jdfe mr j cvr shg tfft iguhbic gvu

g g}ef} jie egftiu nigs shju iffet egbic, shg bt fbuhf} ajn!bic uhf aftt g} bt pj}u g bu) Jie shg tffat `bnf gif g uhf nbet)

Hgs ebe rgv} thbibic nibchu uv}i biug uhbt cvr shg egftiu ig!

ubdf hf tpb``fe }jtpmf}}r kvbdf bi uhf }becf7 Shg bi|buft g|f} uhf

ifs dgvp`f }ga egsi uhf tu}ffu jie uhfi eb}fdut uhfa ug uhf

mjuh}gga sbuhgvu }fj`b{bic uhju uhf ugb`fu bt tdv{{r7 Shr eg rgv

hj|f ug uf`ùhbt aji shfi uhf}ft hgvtfsg}n ug mf egif7Afi hj|f tgaf |f}r d}fjub|f fxp`jijubgit g} shr uhfr egiu,

g} djiu, eg avdh bi uhf sjr g d`fjibic) (Ufr j}f ftpfdbj``r f`g!

zvfiu jmgvu evtubic jie `jvie}r)" Tgafubaft uhfr `jr uhf m`jaf

gi sgafi> tgafubaft uhfr egiu) Sf`` tj|g} uhftf bchut g

bajcbijubgi bi pj}u =, shfi sf `ggn ju fxdvtft jie jddvtjubgit)

Sf ` j`tg `ggn ju j sgajit eb`faaj; ug ijc g} igu ug ijc)

Ajir sgafi egiu sjiu ug mf j ijc) Ufr|f tffi bu egif, jie bu

btiu shg uhfr sjiu ug mf) Mvu tgaf j}f sb``bic ug cb|f bu j u}r)

Fxjap`f

B egiu f|fi abieijccbic ar hvtmjie, b hf sgvè hfj} af) B

hj|f jtnfe hba j ab``bgi ubaft igu ug `fj|f hbt vief}sfj} `rbic

gi uhf gg}) Hf `ggnt ju af sbuh j c`j{fe fxp}fttbgi, jt b B|f

t`bppfe biug Tsjhb`b)

Hf egftiu ujnf g hbt vief}sfj}> hf thfet bu giug uhf


13/23


gg} bi j tagguh, jibaj` agubgi) Uf mjuh}gga gg}, ug mf

fxjdu) Hf egft uhbt tg hf dji cfu biug uhf thgsf}, jie B jpp}g|f

g uhju cgj`) Mvu shfi uhf viebft e}gp, uhfr j}f `rbic usfiur!usg bidhft }ga uhf hjapf} ifxu ug uhf tbin) Ujut }bchu; uhf

tjaf hjapf} shf}f B sb`` `juf} efpgtbu uhfa)

B|f }fj``r u}bfe ug }fjdh hba gi uhbt ugpbd) B jtnfe hba shr

hf if|f} ajtuf}fe uhf ajifv|f} g c}bppbic gift m}bft shb`f

tufppbic gvu g uhfa) Uju sjr rgv}f tub`` hgèbic uhfa shfi

uhfr}f g* Bu gi`r }fzvb}ft gif hjie, jie hf hjt usg) Ljb`bicuhju, hf dgvè pbdn uhfa vp) Mvu hf egftiu)

Lbij``r B tjbe, Shju bt uhf p}gm`fa7 J}f uhfr tg jsv` uhju

rgv sgvè iffe ugictug `bu uhfa g uhf gg}7

Ubt cgu j hvcf `jvch, jie hf cj|f af j ijnfe hvc)

gict, hf tjbe) Ujutlviir)

Ba sg}tf uhji j ijc) Ba, `bnf, j hb`j}bgvt ijc)

@bietjr

@jvch!bievdbic g} igu, uhf d`fjibic j}fj }jin`ft) But j mbc

pj}u g shju uv}it j sgaji biug hf} cvrt aguhf})

Hju =; DggnUbt gif bt sjr vp gi uhf `btu ugg) Ugvch sgafi nigs but j

p}gm`fa j}fj, uhfr}f j mbu dgibdufe jmgvu bu) Vi`bnf d`fjibic

ugb`fut g} evtubic nibdnnijdnt, ajir sgafi ujnf p`fjtv}f bi

ajnbic c}fju afj`t g} uhfb} jab`bft, jie uhbt fju bt ag}f `bnf`r

ug mf jpp}fdbjufe mr uhfb} hvtmjiet uhji uhfb} nbet) Gi uhf guhf}

hjie, bu ujnft fif}cr ug mf dgitujiu`r d}fjub|f, jie rgv}f kvtu jtub}fe gi j vftejr ibchu jt rgv} hvic}r aji)

B bu sjt kvtuuhf d}fjub|f pj}u, uhju sgvè mf dgg`, mvu uhf}f

bt tg avdh f`tf mfhbie uhju `g|f`r agafiu shfi tufjabic p`juft


14/23

8 Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

cfu tf}|fe) Bu ff`t `bnf j v``!ubaf kgmjie g} ajir p}gfttbgi!

j`t, bu bt) _`jiibic afj`t, gge thgppbic (shbdh dji mf egif }bchu

g} dji cg mje`r g u}jdn, bi p}bdf jie bi dhgbdf g bic}febfiut")G}cjib{jubgi jie p}fpdhgppbic jie t`bdbic jie ebdbic jie

pj}mgb`bic jie aj}bijubic jie c}biebic jie abxbic jie shbtn!

bic biug j pf}lfdu l}guh) Rgv djiu eg uhbt tuv bi rgv} t`ffp, vi`ftt

rgv} m`jeft j}f ev``f} uhji agtu) Rgv sgvè `g|f ug g!`gje j

}fjtgijm`f thj}f g bu, mvu uhju sgvè }fzvb}f tgafgif shg sjt

dgidf}ife jie nigs`fecfjm`f, g} ju `fjtu }fjer ug `fj}i) Bi j jb}sg}è, uhju pf}tgi sgvè mf rgv} tpgvtf, jie bi tgaf hgvtf!

hgèt uhf aji egft dj}}r j `gu g uhbt `gje) Mvu egft hf bi rgv}t7

Aj}r vtfe ug mf j p}gfttbgij` p}b|juf dhf g} j }bdh jab`r)

Thft ji fxpf}u gi fldbfidr jie zvj`bur; thf nigst hgs ug d}jin

gvu cgv}afu ebiif}t g} |f}r vttr pj`juft) Tg hf} sg}et dj}}r

}fj` sfbchu shfi thf eftd}bmft uhf egsitbef g ajnbic j hg`bejrafj` g} hf} hvtmjie jie tbx d`gtf }bfiet)

Fxjap`f

Ujintcb|bic sjt dgabic) B ebe uhf thgppbic gi vftejr) ba

djaf sbuh af ug uhf tvpf}aj}nfu, mvu hbt zvftubgit jmgvu ar

bic}febfiut kvtu t`gsfe af egsi) Hf sjtiu vp ug tpffe, jie B

ebeiu hj|f ubaf ug fxp`jbi f|f}ruhbic) Tg bi uhf fie B kvtu tfiu

hba g sbuh hbt gsi thgppbic dj}u ug cfu uhf tbap`f tuv) Uf

ifxu ejrj`` ejr*B ebe uhf p}fp jie tgaf p}fdggnbic jie

thgppfe g} tgaf uhbict sfe abttfe bi uhf dgivtbgi)

Ufi djaf uhf mbc ejr jie B sjt gi ar ffu bi uhf nbudhfi

}ga ejsi ub`` ebiif}B tf}|fe uhf agtu jmv`gvt gv}!dgv}tf

uv}nfr ebiif} sbuh ar gsi grtuf} tuvlic) ba cgu e}bint g}

pfgp`f jie f|f}rgif tffafe ug hj|f uhf mftu ubaf) B nigs uhfr

hje j `gu g c}fju dgi|f}tjubgit j}gvie uhf ujm`f, mfdjvtf B


15/23


dgvè hfj} uhfa `jvchbic }ga ar pgtu bi }giu g uhf tug|f

gif egg} g|f})

Aj}r

Jie tg gif sgaji ujnft gi tg avdh g uhf `gje uhju thf

fiet vp abttbic gvu gi uhf cgge ubaf thf d}fjuft) Ubt tug}r

dgiujbit j hvtmjie shg sjiufe ug hf`p, mvu tgafhgs uhju

ebeiu sg}n gvu) Bitufje, thf fiefe vp u}fjubic hba `bnf j

nbe, jie uhfi, shb`f hf pj}ubfe sbuh uhf jevùt, thf fù `bnfuhf hf`p) Shju bt abttbic }ga uhbt tug}r bt jir }fj` tfitf g

pj}uif}thbp)

Hju 4; Ajijcf}

(jie ]ftpgitbm`f Gif"

Eg rgv ie rgv}tf` bid}fjtbic`r jdubic jt uhf ajijcf} bi rgv}

hgaf7 Ubt dji bid`vef mfbic rgv} hvtmjiet jeabibtu}jug},

tdhfev`f}, jie tgdbj` dgg}ebijug}g} hbt mgtt) F|fi hj|bic ug

nffp u}jdn g f|fiut uhju hftfu vp) Hj|bic ug tdhfev`f afebdj`

jppgbiuafiut jie }fabie hba jmgvu uhfa) Mfbic uhf gi`r gif

ug ajnf `btutshju ug ujnf gi |jdjubgi, shju ug uf`` uhf mjmrtbu!

uf}, shju tvpp`bft iffe }ftugdnbic ) ) ) Jie ajrmf rgv}f uhf gif

shg hjie`ft uhf `gcbtubdt g} uhf shg`f hgvtfhgè; hvie}fet g

ajkg} jie abig} efdbtbgit, bid`vebic ebldvù ijidbj` gift)

Jeabibtu}jubgi dji mf fxhjvtubic sg}n) Bu afjit hj|bic

ug nffp gi ugp g guhf} pfgp`ft tdhfev`ft jie dgaabuafiut

jt sf`` jt rgv} gsi (jt b rgv} gsi sf}fiu figvch") Bu afjit

}fafamf}bic uhju Dj`fmt pbjig `fttgi (shbdh hf vtvj``r sj`ntug" bt djidf`fe gi Sfeiftejr, tg rgv hj|f ug uf`` rgv} ifbchmg}

igu ug pbdn hba vp juf} bu, jie rgv`` hj|f ug `fj|f sg}n fj}`r

ug cfu hba }ga tdhgg`, jie gi Uv}tejr rgv`` hj|f ug cfu rgv}


16/23

:? Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

aguhf}!bi!`js ug pbdn vp rgv} ejvchuf} }ga mj``fu mfdjvtf hf}

`fttgi fiet ju uhf tjaf ubaf jt rgv} tgit ajnfvp pbjig `fttgi)

Vig}uvijuf`r, uhgtf shg ajijcf j}f gufi jddvtfe g mfbicmgttr g} dgiu}g``bic, mvu agtu sgafi tjr uhju uhfr sgvè mf

gi`r ugg hjppr ug }f`bizvbth tgaf dgiu}g`, b gi`r uhfb} tpgvtft

sgvè tufp vp)

Ubt ajijcfafiu p}gm`fa ffet gi butf`) Shfi rgv hjie`f

j`` `gcbtubdt, rgv} hvtmjie ajr cfu bi uhf dj} jie igu nigs

shf}f hft tvppgtfe ug e}b|f) Uf hjmbu g }f`rbic gi tgafgiff`tf ag}pht biug j tg}u g hf`p`fttiftt) Tg j c}gsi aji `gtft uhf

dgiefidf ug p`jr hbt pj}u bi }viibic uhf hgvtfhgè jie ff`t hf

hjt ug eff} ug rgv f|fi shfi hft pf}fdu`r djpjm`f g ajnbic

uhf efdbtbgi hbatf`)

Uf ugpagtu pfjn g uhf jeabibtu}jubgi agviujbi bt uhf ff`!

bic uhju rgv j`sjrt hj|f ug mf uhf }ftpgitbm`f gif, uhju rgv j}fjddgviujm`f b jiruhbic cgft s}gic g} jb`t ug affu fxpfdujubgit)

Uf mvdn tugpt sbuh rgv) Uju dji ff` u}vf f|fi b rgv}f igu uhf

gif shg uggn gi uhf ujtn bi zvftubgi) Rgv} hvtmjie ajr hj|f

jc}ffe ug cfu uhf nbet ug tdhgg`, mvu tgafhgs rgv ff` }ftpgi!

tbm`f shfi uhf tdhgg` dj``t ug jtn shr uhfr j}f `juf)

Sf mf`bf|f uhju tpgvtft thgvè thj}f uhbt mv}efi g vùbajuf

}ftpgitbmb`bur) Rgv} hvtmjie btiu }fj``r rgv} pj}uif} b rgv j}f

tuvdn sbuh uhf sjudhvìftt uhju if|f} cfut ug }ftu, uhf sg}}r

dfiuf} uhju djiu ujnf j m}fjn) Bi j hgaf shf}f fjdh tpgvtf hjt

uhf guhf}t mjdn, rgv dji tgafubaft }f`jx, nigsbic uhf guhf} gif

sb`` ujnf vp uhf t`jdn)

Fxjap`f

B sjt ji biefpfiefiu dgiu}jdug} egbic _] g} |j}bgvt d`bfiut,

sg}nbic gvu g gv} hgaf) B hje gif mbc dg}pg}juf d`bfiu, j


17/23

Hgs Dji B Mf Rgv} @g|f} Shfi Ba Ugg Mvtr Mfbic Rgv} Aguhf}7 ::

mjin, uhju cfif}jufe agtu g ar bidgaf) Ubict sf}f cgbic

c}fju viub` uhf fdgigar ujinfe jie uhju mjin jb`fe) Tveefi`r,

bu sjt jt b Be `gtu ar kgm, mvu mfbic tf`!fap`grfe, B dgvèiucfu vifap`grafiu bitv}jidf ug hf`p vt ajnf bu uh}gvch)

B cgu j pj}u!ubaf sjbu}fttbic kgm ug m}bic bi tgaf bidgaf,

mvu B mfcji ug }fj``r sg}}r jmgvu hgs sf sf}f cgbic ug d}jdn

gv} agiuh`r ivu) B }fafamf} gif ejr ju hgaf shfi B sjt d`gtf

ug j if}|gvt m}fjnegsi> Be mffi j|gbebic `ggnbic ju gv} mb``t

mvu hje ij``r g}dfe artf` ug frfmj`` uhfa) Uf ifst sjtiucgge) Bu `ggnfe ug af `bnf sf sf}f cgbic ug hj|f ug dvu gvu

ag}f }b``t jie f|fi dvu mjdn gi tgaf ifdfttbubft) B sjt uhbin!

bic, Sf cj|f vp HMG jie Thgsubaf) Igs shju7 Mjtbd djm`f7

Eg sf }fj``r iffe j `jie `bif ju hgaf7 Uf df`` phgif mb`` sjt

f|fi sg}tf; sfe cgif sjr g|f} gv} p`ji) B gpfife jiguhf}

fi|f`gpf jie ar hfjùh bitv}jidf p}fabva hje cgif vp %=??)

Bu j`}fjer hje j %6,??? efevdubm`f jie ig dgpjrt) B tf}bgvt`r

uhgvchu B abchu hj|f ug tugp bu g} j shb`f) Mvu shju b B cgu

tf}bgvt`r b``7 Jie gv} d}febu dj}e pjrafiut sf}f bidhbic vp jt

uhf mjint }jbtfe uhf biuf}ftu }juft) Sf }fj``r iffefe ug pjr uhfa

egsimvu hgs7 B sjt bi j dgè tsfju, uhbinbic, Shju eg sf

eg b B djiu ie j }fj` kgm7

Ufi uhf egg} gpfife jie B hfj}e ar hvtmjie dgaf bi) Hf

dj``fe ar ijaf jie tgviefe fxdbufe)

Rgv}f igu cgbic ug mf`bf|f bu, hf tjbe jt hf mv}tu biug uhf

}gga) B cgu vt usg sffnt bi L`g}bej ju ar mgttt ubaf!thj}f) But

gi`r cgbic ug dgtu vt usg c}jie*

Hgs ebe rgv pjr g} bu7 B jtnfe)

B cgu j djth je|jidf }ga gv} \btj) Uf}f sjt kvtu figvch

`fu*

B d}vap`fe giug uhf eftn) Hf djaf g|f} jie tjbe, Shjut

s}gic7 B uhgvchu rgve mf fxdbufe*


18/23

:= Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

B fù vuuf}`r j`gif, `bnf B hje uhf sfbchu g uhf sg}è gi ar

thgvèf}t)

Tf`fij

Tf`fijt efkfdubgi sjtiu tg avdh jmgvu uhbt gif djtf g }fdn!

`ftt tpfiebic, uhgvch hf} hvtmjie ajr hj|f uhgvchu tg) Bu sjt

jmgvu hbt igu mfbic gi uhf tjaf pjcf jt thf sjt bi hf} dgi!

tujiu dgidf}i g} uhfb} ijidbj` sf``!mfbic) @bf bt hj}e figvch

sbuhgvu hj|bic ug mf uhf gi`r gif shg }fj``r c}jpp`ft sbuh uhfuh}fjut`j}cf jie taj`ùhju j jab`r jdft) B jiruhbic dji

ajnf ugvch ubaft tffa igu zvbuf jt ugvch, but nigsbic uhju rgv}

pj}uif} dj}ft kvtu jt avdh jt rgv eg jie bt u}rbic kvtu jt hj}e

ug cfu uhf mgju pjtu uhf thgj`t) Ujut pj}u g shju pj}uif}thbp

afjit, jie but j d}rbic thjaf b bu btiu hjppfibic)

Hju 5; Jppfj}jidf jie Fubzvfuuf Dgjdh

Sgafi pvu bi ubaf jie fg}u ug ajbiujbi j (}juhf} jmv`gvt"

`f|f` g tur`f jie jppfj}jidf) Ubt p`fjtft afi mvu igu j`sjrt

figvch ug ajnf uhfa }fdbp}gdjuf) Uf}ft j`}fjer j egvm`f tuji!

ej}e; afi egiu hj|f ug sg}}r jmgvu ajnfvp> uhfb} sj}e}gmf

dhgbdft j}f avdh tbap`f} uhji sgafit> jie shju hf dj``t thj|!

bic hj}e`r td}judhft uhf tv}jdf g shju thf egft sbuh j }j{g}) ) ) )

Mvu tub``, j `buu`f fg}u sgvè mf ibdf) Egft hf hj|f ug ujnf tvdh

j `bnbic ug j c}ffi pg`j} ffdf uhju hf sfj}t bu f|f}r ejr g} j

agiuh7 Dji hf igu tff uhgtf |f}ejiu ijtj` hjb}t bi uhf ab}}g}7

Jie ajiif}t dji mf ji bttvf ugg) Rgv nigs hft j aji, jie

rgv egiu sjiu hba ug jdhbf|f rgv} gsi ef`bdjdr g ugvdh, mvuuhf }bchu mj`jidf mfusffi ffuf ejier jie }jin mfjtu sgvèiu

hv}u) Guhf}sbtf rgv ff` jt uhgvch rgv hj|f ug dgap`fuf hbt vp!

m}bicbic jie mf hbt ibthbic tdhgg`)


19/23

Hgs Dji B Mf Rgv} @g|f} Shfi Ba Ugg Mvtr Mfbic Rgv} Aguhf}7 :4

Fxjap`f

Sf}f cfuubic }fjer ug hfje gvu ug j ebiif} pj}ur) Ar hvtmjieegftiu }fj``r nigs uhf hgtut, shg j}f sf``!g jie hj|f j `gu g

dgiifdubgit bi ugsi)

Shfi B ibth ar ajnfvp, B `ggn j}gvie jie ]gi bt tujie!

bic uhf}f bi kfjit, sbuh uhf vimvuugife!thb}u!g|f}!j!!thb}u

uhbic hjppfibic)

Igu tg avdh, B tjr, u}rbic ug nffp bu `bchu)Shju7 Ubt bt j c}fju thb}u)

B `g|fe bu bi =??3) But gnjr, mvu but d}fjtfe jie bu btiu

afjiu ug hjic gvu)

B j`sjrt sfj} bu uhbt sjr) Shjut uhf mbc efj`7

Uf mbc efj` bt uhf Dj}vuhf}t j}f j mbu tsjin)

Tg Ba igu uhfb} nbie g pfgp`f7

Dgaf gi, ]gi) Dji rgv ju `fjtu uvdn bu bi jie eg bu vp7

Sf}f }viibic `juf)

Ba }fjer) B rgv sjiu af ug cg, `fut cg)

Sf cfu bi uhf dj}) Gi uhf sjr uhf}f, B u}r ug ajnf tgaf

`bchu mjiuf}, mvu hf egftiu tpfjn ug af) Tg igs hft uhf gif

shgt aje7 Lbif, `fu hba mf)

Shfi sf j}}b|f, Mb`` Dj}vuhf}t c}ffut af sbuh j mbc hvc)

Hft c`fjabic bi dhbigt jie j jmv`gvt d}fja!dg`g}fe kjdnfu)

Hf thjnft ar hvtmjiet hjie mvu ]gi egftiu ficjcf, e}but

g|f} ug uhf mj}, fxjabift j dg}ntd}fs jt b hft sgief}bic shju

but g}) Igu iebic uhf jitsf}, hf tfuu`ft g} j mbc cbi jie ugibd

jie sjief}t biug uhf d}gse bi uhf mjdn rj}e)

Ji hgv} `juf} B tff hba bi uhf ebibic }gga, j `buu`f e}vin

mvu j `gu ag}f tgdbjm`f, dhj}abic uhf hf`` gvu g Tvf Dj}vuhf}t)

Hf `ggnt g|f} ju af jie tubdnt gvu hbt ugicvf) B `jvch, mfdjvtf

hbt thb}u bt mvuugife jie uvdnfe bi)


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:5 Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

Ubict j}f cgbic mfuuf} viub` B tff hba ujtubic uhf afju `gj,

}bchu g uhf mvfu)

Nfiej``

Bu sgvè mf ibdf b rgv dgvè ujnf j ag}f dj|j`bf} juubuvef

jmgvu uhf sjrt rgv} aji p}ftfiut hbatf`) Vig}uvijuf`r, uhf}ft

j nbie g cvbù mr jttgdbjubgi sbuh dgvp`ft) _fgp`f ufie ug tdg}f

uhf evg mr uhf sg}tu t`bpvpt g fbuhf} afamf}) Mvu rgv j}fiu

kvtu u}rbic ug tj|f rgv} gsi bajcf) (Shg sgvè f|fi uhbin tvdhj uhbic7" Rgv}f j`tg u}rbic ug p}gufdu rgv} tpgvtf }ga hbatf`,

p}f|fiu pfgp`f }ga uhbinbic mje uhbict jmgvu hba)

Mvu shju }fj``r usbtut uhf nibf bt shfi rgv djudh ji f`fafiu

g dhgbdf bi rgv} ajit `jptft) @bnf j nbe, hf nigst hgs ug mf

gi hbt mftu mfhj|bg} g} hgs ug ujnf j `ggtf} jpp}gjdh) Shfi bu

ajuuf}t, j cvr dji f`f|juf hbt cjaf) Hf egft bu ju sg}n shfi hf

iffet ug> hf ebe bu shfi hf sjt u}rbic ug sbi rgv} `g|f) Tg shju

b}nt rgv bt uhju, igs uhju hft dgag}ujm`r hbudhfe, hf egftiu

ajnf uhf fg}u, egftiu pvu j `buu`f uhgvchu biug hbt `fbtv}f sj}e!

}gmf, egftiu ujnf pjbit ug mf c}jdbgvt jie ajiif}`r bi tgdbj`

tbuvjubgit shfi rgve `bnf hba ug) Ujut shfi rgv ff` `bnf rgv}f

g}dfe ug mf hbt aga)

Hju 6; Dhbè ]fj}f}

B rgv hj|f nbet, rgv nigs uhju uhf sg}n g dj}bic g} uhfa jie

}jbtbic uhfa biug jevùt g cgge dhj}jduf} bt biibuf jie gufi

bi|btbm`f) Jitsf}bic uhfb} zvftubgit, `btufibic ug uhfb} tug}bft,

fiuf}ujbibic uhfa, cb|bic p}jbtf, p}g|bebic ebtdbp`bif jie mgvie!j}bft, tvccftubic jdub|bubft, `fjebic, ffebic, p}gufdubic ) ) ) uhf `btu

egft igu fie) B uhf}f sjt f|f} ji fg}u uhju iffet ug mf thj}fe,

uhbt bt bu)


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Mvu shju b uhf guhf} jevù bi uhf hgvtf egftiu tffa ug ujnf

bu jt tf}bgvt`r7 G} dgap`jbit uhju rgv}f ajnbic hba mjmrtbu

hbt gsi nbet7 Shju b, shfi hf bt abiebic uhf dhbè}fi, hfegftiu pjr d`gtf figvch juufiubgi, abttft uhf pgbiu g shjut

cgbic gi, g} ujnft }fdn`ftt dhjidft7 G}, jmtv}e`r, rgv hj|f ug

m}fjn vp chut mfusffi hba jie uhf guhf} nbet7 Uju btiu shju

rgv iffe bi j dgpj}fiu; bu kvtu jeet ugrgv}pj}fiuj` mv}efi) Mgu!

uga `bif; B hf btiu hf`pbic rgv pj}fiu uhf nbet, hf mfdgaft gif

g uhfa)Ubt bt j hvcf, ajnf!g}!m}fjn bttvf uhju }jbtft uhf jiuf gi uhf

guhf} uhbict j sgaji egft g} hf} aji) (D`fjibic, dggnbic, jie

ajijcbic j`` mfdgaf avdh mbccf}, jie ag}f d}bubdj`, kgmt sbuh

nbet bi|g`|fe)" Mfdjvtf pj}fiubic tbuvjubgit j}f tg }jvchu jie

tg v}cfiu, uhfr dji g}df rgv biug j nbie g }vuh`ftt ujnfg|f} g

pgsf}) Shfi j dhbèt tjfur jie sf``!mfbic j}f ju tujnf, rgv djiumf djtvj` jmgvu abt}ft jie `jptft) Uf dgitfzvfidft ajuuf} ugg

avdh) Tg rgv} }fj` jttfttafiu g rgv} tpgvtf faf}cft> uhf}f btiu

ubaf ug tvcj}dgju bu) Jie bu dji tubic)

Uhf Tva gl Lb|f Hjut

Gnjr, sf|f ujnfi j `ggn ju |f hjut rgv sfj} j}gvie uhf hgvtf)

Shfi eg uhfr jee vp ug mfbic j aguhf} ug rgv} aji7 Uf thg}u

jitsf} bt, shfi rgv}f egbic ag}f uhji rgv} thj}f, jie hft

egbic `ftt) @fut tff hgs uhbt thjnft gvu bi uhf |f j}fjt, mr dgi!

tbef}bic shju ji fzvj` sg}è sgvè mf `bnf)

But p}gmjm`r cgge ug uhbin g uhf }tu usg hjut, d`fjibic

jie dggnbic, jt gif mbc djufcg}r; dj`` bu hgafajnbic) Tpgvtft

dji ajnf u}jef!gt bi uhftf j}fjt; fxu}j sg}n bi gif dji fj}i j

sjb|f} bi jiguhf}) Rgv abchu eg f|f}ruhbic j}gvie afj` p}g|be!

bic, jie uhju sgvè mf gnjr b hf tpfiu j `gu g ubaf |jdvvabic,


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:< Tj}j Ebaf}aji jie K)A) Nfj}it

td}vmmbic, jie egbic `jvie}r) G} rgv dgvè thj}f sbuhbi fjdh

j}fj; hf abchu eg uhf c}gdf}r thgppbic jie rgv eg uhf tjvubic)

Hfdn, shr mf dgitbtufiu7 Thj}f uhf dhft hju, b rgv sb``> pjtt bumjdn jie g}uh bi fxdhjicf g} uhf m}gga) But j`` cgge, jt `gic jt

uhf hgvtfnffpbic bt jb}`r eb|befe) Mvu b rgv}f egbic agtu g bu,

rgv}f hbt aguhf})

But ugg mje j`` hgvtfsg}n btiu vi) Bi ji befj` sg}è, rgv

sgvè fjdh eg uhf kgmt rgv `g|f egbic, jie uhju sgvè `fj|f

iguhbic viegif) Mvu bi uhf }fj` sg}è uhf}f j}f p}gmjm`r ajirujtnt rgv dgitbef} j dhg}f, jie hf egft ugg) B rgv}f egbic uhfa

j``, rgv}f hbt aguhf}) Tjbiu`biftt sgiu dvu bu fbuhf}; b rgv `g|f

tg ajir kgmt uhju hf cfut ug eg igif, rgv}f hbt aguhf}) Bu sgiu

eg ug tjr rgv dj}f ag}f jmgvu uhftf uhbict uhji hf egft (uhgvch

sf sb`` `ggn ju uhju fxdvtf bi dhjpuf} 2") Juf} j``, fjubic sf``

ajuuf}t ug ji jevù, jie mfbic d`fji ajuuf}t ug ji jevù> tg b hfegftiu dj}f jmgvu uhftf uhbict, hf sgiu }fajbi ji jevù bi rgv}

frft) Tg uhf}f jcjbi, rgv}f hbt aguhf})

Shfi bu dgaft ug hju 4, ajijcbic uhf hgaf jie jab r, mguh

pfgp`f iffe ug mf bi|g`|fe, ajnbic uhf bapg}ujiu efdbtbgit ug!

cfuhf}) Uf}f j}f tvppgtfe ug mf usg DFGt bi uhbt dg}pg}jubgi,

jie b rgv}f uhf gi`r gif, rgv}f hbt aguhf}) Rgv dji eb|bef uhf

`gcbtubdj` tuv jddg}ebic ug rgv} uj`fiut (ajrmf gif egft uhf

ujxft jie uhf guhf} egft uhf tdhfev`bic", mvu mguh pfgp`f iffe ug

mf ficjcfe) Ujut u}vf g hju 6 ugg; b hf btiu ajnbic bu jt j pj}!

fiu, hf bt cgbic ug mf gvu g uhf agtu bapg}ujiu `ggp g j``, jie

hf`` mf tffi jt `ftt uhji c}gsi!vp) Rgv}f hbt aguhf})

@fjtu mvu igu `jtu, uhf}ft hju 5, uhf gif shf}f rgv j}f uhf

ibthbic tdhgg` jie hf bt uhf sg}n bi p}gc}ftt) Ubt bt gh tg pj!

}fiuj`, rgv} uf``bic hba shju ug sfj} jie hgs ug mfhj|f) Bu bt uhf

|f}r efibubgi g mfbic hbt aga, vi`ftt hf cb|ft tbab`j} je|bdf

ug rgv, bi tgaf hjppr u}jef!g uhju ig gif }ftfiut) Mvu b rgv


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j}f dgitbtufiu`r uhf gif egbic uhf dgjdhbic, bu afjit uhju bi rgv}

frft hf bt igu v``r g}afe, igu tvldbfiu`r tdhgg`fe) Rgv}f hbt

aguhf})Tg uhf |f hjut jee vp ug gif mbc gif uhju tjrt Aguhf}, jie

uhju btiu gnjr shfi uhf dhb`e bt rgv} hvtmjie) Rgv ajr mf tg

vtfe ug uhbt sjr g `bf uhju rgv djiu tff bu, mvu uhju egftiu ajnf

bu jir `ftt d}j{r) Bu tuj}ut sbuh sg}n, vijb}`r ebtu}bmvufe) Ujut

mje figvch, mvu bu egftiu fie uhf}figu f|fi d`gtf) Uf ifu

ffdu g ugb`bic bi j`` uhftf sjrt bt }vtu}jubgi, jicf}, jubcvf, }f!tfiuafiu, `gif`biftt, jie ji jsv` tfitf g `gttuhf }fj`b{jubgi

uhju rgv egiu tff rgv} ajuf uhf sjr rgv vtfe ug)

Tg rgv u}fju fjdh guhf}, jie ff` ugsj}e fjdh guhf}, bi sjrt

uhju rgv if|f} sjiufe) Jie igu gi`r eg rgv igu `bnf shg hft

mfdgaf, rgv egiu `bnf shg rgv|fmfdgaf) Uf ifxu dhjpuf} bt

jmgvu uhju)

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