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    ouseholdLeaders

    andbook

    CFC Youth for ChristEdited 2000

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    ___________________________________ Unit/Campus/School & Year

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    Table of Contents

    Commitment of ousehold !eader""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""ousehold !eader%s ra'er"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""

    (hat is a ousehold)""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""+efinition"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""",echanics"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""

    The ousehold !eader"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""".ttitudes of ousehold !eaders""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""

    oles and responsibilities of the ousehold ead/!eaders""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""pa#e

    1ne Year Trac3

    ,onth 4/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 5 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 6,onth 2/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 40 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 44,onth $/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 4$ ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 4*,onth */,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 4 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 4,onth -/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 45 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 45

    ,onth /,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 20 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 24,onth 7/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 2$ ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 8,onth 5/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 2* ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 2*,onth 6/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""""pa#e 2 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 2,onth 40/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""pa#e 27 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 27,onth 44/,eetin# 4"""""""""""""""pa#e 25 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 25,onth 42/,eetin# 4""""""""""""""pa#e 26 ,eetin# 2"""""""""""""""""""pa#e 26

    9mportant phone numbers""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""ousehold headers report sheet"""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""""

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    Covenant of a Household Leader4" 9 >ill care for m' household members b' communicatin# >ith m' household

    members re#ularl'? informin# then of all YFC acti=ities and ma3in# theirconcerns m' o>n"

    2" 9 >ill brin# m' household members to the !ord b' teachin# them to appl' Christ%s>ords in their personal li=es @ their families? friends? school? lo=e lie? and pratin#for them al>a's"

    $" 9 >ill teach m' household members to lo=e @ their fello> household members?their brothers and sisters in YFC? their families and friends and all those aroundthem

    *" 9 >ill attend all acti=ities of YFC that are applicable to me especiall' the re#ularhousehold leader%s trainin#"

    -" 9 >ill be a >itness for the !ord Aesus b' bein# pure and ri#hteous? faithful to m'studies? lo'al to m' brothers and sisters in YFC? m' famil' and especiall' m'

    parents"

    Household Leaders Prayer

    BLord you have searched me and you know me. You knowevery thing I do Find out if there is anyunrighteousness in me and guide me in the everlastingway.

    D salm 4$6 4 2? 2*

    !ord Aesus?9 than3 'ou for choosin# me to ser=e 'ou;' carin# for 'our peopleYou 3no> me?,' #uilt? m' sin and m' pain"9 realiGe that 9 am most un>orth' 'et 'ou fall me?.nd so 9 as3 for 'ou #race"For#i=e m' sinfulness and m' stubbornness"Ta3e m' heart of stone and turn it into flesh"Teach me to lo=e"

    (hen 9 lac3 patients? #enuine concern and coura#e?!et 'our lo=e and stren#th brid#e the #ap"

    elp me lo=e >ith 'our lo=e and >isdom?.nd bless those 9 >ill care for that the' too ma' lo=e"Fill me? teach me? #uide me and #i=e me stren#th"

    .men

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    What is a Household?

    +efinition The household is the most basic? concrete tan#ible ehere YFC members eo household leaders? another male @ female pair >ill beadded to the #roup to act as assistant household leaders"

    Note a=in# a team of leaders ma3es it easier to pass on Christian culture to membersof the household" De"#" >orship? positi=e speech? honor and respect etcH

    2" Formin# a ousehold ;efore members are #rouped De"#" durin# camps the ser=ice team in

    char#e of #roupin# participants should ta3e note of commoncharacteristics of different people" De"#" >here the'%re from? interests? a#e?etcH

    9t is important to ta3e not of those >ho naturall' bond"

    Note Discussion groupings during Youth Camps should eventually end up as Households. It will be easier to establish commitment among the members, if theyen oy the company of their fellow household members because of their naturalbond. !he spiritual bond they will have in Christ after the camp will furthercement their relationships and their commitment.

    ouseholds Dri#ht at the start of their bein# YFC members @ that is durin#the camp >ill ha=e to be #rouped accordin# to the factors listed earlier"

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    !eaders and their assistants assi#n household leaders and their assistantsfrom amon# the acti=e members of the #roup"

    otential household heads should under#o YFC%s ousehold eadsTrainin# pro#ram before the camp" This >ill also ser=e as their facilitatorstrainin# for the camp"

    Those >ho >ill facilitate and care for the members at the camp D>hich>ill be the entr' point into YFC >ill automaticall' become the householdleaders of the #roup"

    Findin# leaders >ho fit the #eneral character of the members is hi#hl'encoura#ed" This >ill ma3e it easier for the household head to relate to hismembers"

    The Household Leader

    .ttitudes of ousehold !eaders4" umilit' @ >illin# to learn2" as #enuine interest and concern for their members$" :ood ehat the' preach

    *" !ead their members as opposed to simpl' doin# >hat the' demand-" The' are not performers"

    oles and esponsibilities of a ousehold ead4" 9nform members of all acti=ities2" lan acti=ities$" Cares and pastors his/her members

    e#ular calls and =isits 9s a=ailable for counselin# at all times Finds opportunities for his/her members to ser=e"

    *" .ttends all ousehold ead acti=ities and trainin#

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    One-Year Track

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    (hat No>)

    This one 'ear household acti=ities trac3 is meant to help 'ou facilitate a deliberatefollo> up pro#ram for 'our ne> Youth for Christ" 9t is supposed to help 'ou and 'our#roup #et used to the rh'thm and en=ironment of the support #roup s'stem >e ha=e in the

    YFC household" . 'ear of eith 'our o>n household acti=ities for the second 'ear" ;' then man' of 'ourmembers >ill be tapped as household leaders themsel=es"

    .side for the su##ested acti=ities listed belo>? 'ou are encoura#ed to brin# 'ourmembers to camps? raisefests? Club raise parties and other YFC acti=ities in order toeith 'our unit head for suchchan#es" 9t is important to note ho>e=er that the topics listed in this handboo3 are

    the basic pro#rams e=er' YFC member should #o throu#h in his/her first 'ear ofmembership" 9f 'ou so choose to substitute these acti=ities >ith other morerele=ant ones? 'ou should ma3e sure to re schedule the meetin# topics"

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    "lace Youth Camp "icture Here

    MEETIN 4 The Youth Camp

    ousehold ;asic 9nfo Name of ousehold _______________________________

    ,embers% Name Contact numbers ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

    Thou#hts durin# the camp ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

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    +ate of nelin#alle' etcH

    2" .fter the fello>ship acti=it' there should be time for discussion De"#" o=er asnac3/meal

    ;e#in >ith a pra'er Share >hat the' can eill be to#ether for about

    a 'ear? >ill be a support #roup . place >here the' can share their burdensand Jo's @ encoura#e the #roup to come up >ith a name for the household

    Find out the en the a#reed schedule of re#ular household meetin#s"

    ;e sure to >rite do>n >hat happened and include it in 'our ousehold eadreport" . cop' of the B ousehold ead sheet is included in this handboo3"

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    ,onth 2

    MEETIN 4 Co=enant 4 !o=in# :od

    GOAL4" To instill amon# the household members the =alue of lo=in# :od as part of

    our YFC co=enant and as a response to :od%s personal lo=e for each of us"2" To #i=e the household members basic methods and >a's to eorship? and >here members >ill be freeand confident to share personal areas of their li=es" De"#" inside a pri=ate room?a house? a class room that is not in use? etcH

    2" The first $0 minutes >ill be used as #atherin# time >here members can ha=einformal con=ersations >hile >aitin# for the other members"$" The >orship >ill follo> the follo>in# format

    alf and hour teachin# one or t>o ne> son#s currentl' bein# sun# inYFC"

    .fter teachin# the son# the household head should #i=e an eorship" 9t ma' be a stor'? or passa#e from the ;ible that >ill eorship"

    (orship >ill follo> the re#ular t>o fast and one slo> format" ,a3e sureall the members 3no> the son#s that >ill be sun#" Tr' to include the ne>son# learned"

    .fter the last son#? spend time to than3 the !ord to#ether as a #roup" Follo> the format HDshort petition of member/household head H for this

    >e praise and than3 'ou !ord (orship should be 3ept short and s>eet" .s much as possible? the

    su##ested time frame #i=en abo=e must be 3ept" The household ead closes the >orship >ith a #eneral pra'er for the

    #roup

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    *" .fter the >orship? spend time to as3 ho> 'our members are doin#? Just in casesome of them ha=e somethin# to sa' before the actual discussion

    -" The household head #i=es the assi#ned tal3 for the meetin#" D,a3e sure 'ouread the outline and prepare for the tal3 before hand "

    " +iscussions should be based on the starters #i=en for the tal3" Tr' as much as

    possible to ha=e e=er'one share >ithin the allo>able time" Encoura#e members to share their comments as lon# as these comments are positi=e and up liftin#"

    7" End the time of sharin# b' pra'in# for the concerns of each member You ma' do this b' lettin# the #roup pra' in a circle" This >a' each one is

    bein# pra'ed o=er and is able to pra' o=er another" .ll these pra'ers can bedone simultaneousl'"

    .fter the pra'er? ma3e sure e=er'one 3no>s >here and >hen the neill be"

    Note ;e sure to >rite do>n >hat happened and include it in 'our ousehold ead

    report" . cop' of the B ousehold ead sheet is included in this handboo3"

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    MEETIN 2 +iscussion on Spiritual :ifts/ ra'er time

    GOAL4" To instill amon# the household members the =alue of practicin# the spiritual

    #ifts recei=ed durin# the ;aptism of the ol' Spirit as part of the YFC >a' oflife"2" To help members #ro> in their pra'er life"

    CH!"#L!D!he suggested schedule below includes the minimum. You may choose to e%tend the timeto accommodate more and&or longer sharings and time for informal fellowship or a time

    for lingering'

    $0 minutes (athering 40 minutes !eaching of songs

    20 minutes )orship$0 minutes Household sharing 4- minutes !alk +piritual (ifts4- minutes +hort discussion on the talk D uestions, sharings and Closing ra'er

    4" This meetin# >ill follo> the re#ular household format" . place >here 'ou canha=e >orship? and >here members can freel' share personal areas of theirli=es? >ill be ideal"

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    2" The first $0 minutes is time for fello>ship" (hile >aitin# for the others toarri=e and #et settled? members can Just #o around and #et to meet and 3no>the others" (orship >ill follo> the same format used durin# the householdmeetin#s"

    $" .fter the >orship as a >a' to start the meetin#? 'ou ma' spend time to as3

    ho> 'our members are doin# or follo> up the concerns shared in the pre=iousmeetin#"*" .fter the Bupdates as3 members to share >hat the' are e

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    ,onth $

    MEETIN 4 Co=enant 2 !o=in# Nei#hbor

    GOAL4" To instill amon# the household members the =alue of lo=in# :od as part of

    our YFC co=enant and as a response to :od%s personal lo=e for each of us"2" To #i=e the household members basic methods and >a's to eorship? and >here members can freel' share personal areas of their

    li=es? >ill be ideal"2" The first $0 minutes is a time for fello>ship" (hile >aitin# for the others toarri=e and #et settled? members can Just #o around and #et to meet and 3no>the others"

    $" The meetin# >ill follo> the basic format used durin# the BCo=enant 4 meetin# D,eetin# 2 @ ,onth 4 eill be a time for listenin#to the !ord or for prophec' >ithin the >orship" +urin# the eorship the household head should

    encoura#e his members to practice the #ifts of the spirit b' pra'in# andsin#in# in ton#ues and/or b' spea3in# >ords of prophes' from the !ord"

    The last Dslo> @ >orshipful e"#" BSal=ation ;elon#s to 1ur :od ? BSpirit

    of the !i=in# :od son# should flo> into a time of sin#in# in the spirit" .fter sin#in# in the spirit as3 the members to share an' inspired readin#

    from the scripture Dthe ;ible or messa#es the' belie=e the !ord isspea3in# to their hearts for the >hole #roup"

    Note The household leaders and assistants >ill often ha=e to be the first to spea3 these>ords of prophes'" The' are encoura#ed to as3 the !ord for these messa#es e=en

    before the meetin# De=en >rite them do>n before hand " 9nitiall'? members >ill

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    be hesitant to spea3" Some >ill start to practice these spiritual #ifts lon# after thismeetin#"

    .fter the time for prophecies? the ousehold ead should lead a #eneral pra'er to close the time of >orship"

    Than3s#i=in# pra'ers >ill be done after discussion" This >ill also si#nal

    the end of the household meetin#"*" .fter the >orship spend time to as3 ho> 'our members are doin#" Follo> up

    the concerns shared durin# the last meetin#"-" 1ne of the ousehold !eaders >ill then #i=e the assi#ned tal3 for the meetin#"

    D!he talk outline may be secured from your unit head. !he one assigned to give the talk should be prepared for the talk "

    " There should be a time for the indi=idual sharin# based on the discussionstarters of the tal3" .s much as possible e=er'one should share"

    7" To end the time? pra' for the concerns of each member especiall' thosementioned durin# the sharin#"

    .fter the pra'er? ma3e sure to announce the =enue and date of the ne

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    "Y$A%&C

    4" +'namics for this household meetin# as >ell as the >orship >ill follo> theformat used durin# the BCo=enant 4 meetin# D,eetin# 4 @ ,onth $

    2" .fter the tal3 the #roup should spend time honourin# one another for blessin#s that ma' ha=e been to each other this last Luarter b' bein# in YFC"

    Note ;e sure to >rite do>n >hat happened and include it in 'our ousehold eadreport" . cop' of the B ousehold ead sheet is included in this handboo3"

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    MEETIN 4 Co=enant $ !o=in# Famil'

    GOAL4" To instill amon# the household members the =alue of lo=in# our o>n families

    as an eill follo> the format used for ,eetin# 4 @ ,onth $ DCo=enant 2

    meetin# "2" 1ne of the household leaders or assistants >ill #i=e the assi#ned tal3"$" .fter the tal3? the #roup should plan an acti=it' >here the' can in=ite an honour

    their parents before the #roup"*" The household ma' prepare a meal for their parents and/or #uardians

    Note 0e sure to write down what happened and include it in your Household Headreport. 1 copy of the 2Household Head sheet is included in this handbook.

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    MEETIN 2 arents onourin#

    GOAL4" To help members heal and stren#then their relationships at home"2" To foster a sense of famil' >ithin the #roup b' brin#in# their respecti=e families

    to#ether"

    CH!"#L!$0 minutes (athering time /o pening prayer 4- minutes +erve meal or snacks*- minutes "resentation numbers*- minutes "arents honouring 40 minutes 3ptional response from parents- minutes Family prayer&Closing "rayer

    "Y$A%&C

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    4" Tr' to ma3e the acti=it' special" .s3 members to dress up" a=e special nameta#s prepared" +ecorate the =enue for the acti=it'" D reparation for this acti=it' >ill be#ood bondin# for 'our #roup "

    2" ,a3e sure that all parents come to the acti=it'" The acti=it' >ill lose its meanin#if the same faces in the household >ill be there"

    $" ,a3e the acti=it' fun? include #roup #ames if 'ou thin3 these >ill be enJo'ed b'the household and the parents"*" onour the parents b' preparin# the meals and the =enue 'oursel=es"-" To start the pro#ram? the household leader should introduce the household?

    includin# himself to the parents and #i=e a brief ein# their children to be acti=e in YFC"

    " .fter the e

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    MEETIN 4 Co=enant * !o=in# 1ur Countr'

    GOAL' To instill amon# the household members the =alue of lo=in# our countr'and the en=ironment >e li=e in as an eill follo> the format used for ,eetin# 4 @ ,onth $ DCo=enant 2

    meetin# "" 1ne of the household leaders or assistants >ill #i=e the assi#ned tal3"

    Note 0e sure to write down what happened and include it in your Household Headreport. 1 copy of the 2Household Head sheet is included in this handbook.

    MEETIN 2 :roup Sharin#

    GOAL$" To support the members of the household on the YFC co=enant/beliefs the

    household has discussed in the last - months"*" To further stren#then the household bonds b' sharin# in each one%s stru##les and

    =ictories"CH!"#L!

    DThe su##ested schedule belo> includes the minimum" You ma' choose to eship of atime for lin#erin# "$0 minutes (athering 40 minutes !eaching of songs20 minutes )orship*- minutes (roup sharing 4- minutes 1nnouncements&Closing "rayer

    "Y$A%&C4$" +'namics for this household meetin# and the >orship >ill follo> the basic format

    used durin# the BCo=enant 2 meetin# D,eetin# 4 @ ,onth $4*" To be#in the #roup sharin# the ousehold ead ma' ha=e to #i=e his o>n

    personal sharin# to encoura#e others to do the same"4-" Encoura#e 'our members to share personal areas of their life b' assurin# them

    about the confidentialit' of the discussions"

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    MEETIN 4 +9SC1IE Y EC1!!ECT91N

    efer to the +isco=er' ecollection manual of YFC The ousehold ead should or#aniGe the recollection in consultation >ith his/her

    unit head" DThis recollection ma' be or#aniGed as a Joint acti=it' >ith otherhouseholds "

    .s much as possible the ousehold ead should be the team leader of therecollection" The other household leaders >ill ta3e on the role of ser=ice team"

    Note 0e sure to write down what happened and include it in your Household Head report. 1 copy of the 2Household Head sheet is included in this handbook.

    WE SUGGEST THAT YOU READ

    "& CO(!)Y )!COLL!CT&O$

    .ction lan

    ecollection +ate ______________________________ Ienue ______________________________

    ecollection Spea3ers

    Tal3 4 ____________________ hone M ____________________ Tal3 2 ____________________ hone M ____________________

    Tal3 $ ____________________ hone M ____________________ Tal3 * ____________________ hone M ____________________

    lace+isco=er' ecollection

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    THE ACTIVITY FOR THE NEXTMEETING

    *ecial Prayer intentions for +y Household %e+,ers' ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

    $otes )e ardin the Household'

    Meeting 2 +9SC1IE Y EC1 F1!!1( U

    This session follo>s the B;.S9C : 1U S . 9N: 1USE 1!+ ,EET9N:F1 ,.T sho>n in ,eetin# 2 @ ,onth -

    Note 0e sure to write down what happened and include it in your Household Headreport. 1 copy of the 2Household Heads report sheet4 is included in this handbook.

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    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________

    (orship leader ___________________________

    Your o.n reflections re ardin the "iscovery )ecollection ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

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    ,onth 7 Understandin# >ho >e are

    Meeting 4 +iscussion B1ur identit' as a son/dau#hterof :od

    DSeparate sessions

    This session >ill follo> the B;.S9C TE.C 9N: 1USE 1!+ ,EET9N: F1 ,.Tsho>n in ,eetin# 4 @ ,onth -

    .ction lan

    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    Other details ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

    .fter the tal3 the men >ill ha=e separate discussion from the >omen . cop' of the tal3 outline ma' be secured from 'our unit head"

    .ction lan

    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    $OT! ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

    ________________________________________________________________________ Thin s learned at the Household +eetin '

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    ,onth 5 F 9EN+S 9 1ne of the ousehold leaders ma' #i=e the tal3

    Meeting 4 +iscussion BThe eart of a (inner This session >ill follo> the B;.S9C TE.C 9N: 1USE 1!+ ,EET9N:

    F1 ,.T sho>n in ,eetin# 4 @ ,onth -

    .ction lan

    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    $OT! ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

    Meeting 2 ousehold :immic3

    GOALTo further stren#then relationships >ithin the household and create the ri#ht support#roup en=ironment"

    CH!"#L!70 minutes Fellowship activity 5#ovie, bowling etc$'*- minutes Discussion- minutes Closing "rayer

    "Y$A%&C4" This session >ill be a fello>ship meetin#" .s such the meetin# should be held

    in a public place De"#" the mall? a restaurant? after a mo=ie? a bo>lin# alle'etcH

    2" .fter the fello>ship acti=it'? the #roup should ha=e time for discussion De"#"o=er a snac3/meal

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    ;e#in >ith a pra'er +iscussion topic >ill be Bup dates " The ousehold ead ma' share a little first in order to encoura#e the

    members to share" End >ith a summar' of the sharin#s and a >ord of encoura#ement for all" End the session b' pra'in# for each one%s concerns"

    THA$/ YO# LO)"000 1The ,lessin s & have received throu h +y household'

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    Meeting 4 Separate men and >omen discussions ast? present and future relationships

    This session >ill follo> the B;.S9C : 1U S . 9N: 1USE 1!+ ,EET9N:F1 ,.T sho>n in ,eetin# 2 @ ,onth -

    .fter the >orship? the brothers and sisters of the household should separate fordiscussion

    The topic to be discussed >ill be B!o=e !ife

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    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    $OT! ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

    Meeting 2 ;rothers%/Sisters% ni#ht out

    GOAL

    4" To stren#then the bond of brotherhood and sisterhood in the household"2" To address the particular concerns of men and >omen especiall' on areas in

    their !o=e !ife"

    "Y$A%&C7" This acti=it' >ill basicall' follo> the re#ular B#immic3 format eomen%s forum"

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    ,eetin# lace ___________________________ +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Spea3er Dif applicable ___________________________1ther details _________________________________________________________________

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    Meeting 4 +iscussion BEmpo>ered !i=in#

    This session >ill follo> the B;.S9C TE.C 9N: 1USE 1!+ ,EET9N: F1 ,.Tsho>n in ,eetin# 2 @ ,onth $

    Note !he Household Head should assign one of the members to lead the worship

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    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    Meeting 2 ousehold :immic3

    This session >ill follo> the B;.S9C TE.C 9N: 1USE 1!+ :9,,9C F1 ,.Tsho>n in ,eetin# 2 @ ,onth

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    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

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    Meeting 4 +iscussion BEmpo>ered !i=in#

    This session >ill follo> the B;.S9C TE.C 9N: 1USE 1!+ :9,,9C F1 ,.Tsho>n in ,eetin# 4 @ ,onth $

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    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    Meeting 2 ousehold etreat Your ersonal ,issionStatement

    efer to retreat manual for details +urin# the retreat? the ousehold ead should prepare members in the e=ent that

    household #roupin#s >ill be chan#ed the follo>in# 'ear" The ousehold ead should encoura#e a sense of mission to prepare them on

    their dut' as ne> ousehold eads" There should be a time for honorin# especiall' if there >ill be bi# chan#es

    re#ardin# the structure and/or ousehold #roupin#s" The ousehold ead should or#aniGe this is consultation >ith his unit head" DThe

    recollection ma' be a or#aniGed as a Joint acti=it' >ith other households " .s far as possible? the ousehold ead should be the team leader of the

    recollection" The other ousehold leaders >ill ta3e on the role of ser=ice team"

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    +ate of ,eetin# ___________________________ Ienue of ,eetin# ___________________________ (orship leader ___________________________ Spea3er ___________________________ Confirmed) ______

    D #ake a detailed plan on a separate sheet regarding arrangements fortransportation, food etc.

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    !"#T "#$$ENE%& ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

    Thoughts're(ections ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________ ________________________________________________________________________

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    Im)ortant )hone num*ers

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    /thers

    Name hone M ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

    ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________ ______________________________

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    CREDITS(ithout the help of the follo>in# people this YFC !eader%s andboo3 >ould not e