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Genesis 2:18-2518 Then the Lord God said, “It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a helper fit for him.” 19 Now out of the ground the Lord God had formed every beast of the field and every bird of the heavens and brought them to the man to see what he would call them. And whatever the man called every living creature, that was its name.
But for Adam there was not found a helper fit for him. 21 So the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon the man, and while he slept took one of his ribs and closed up its place with flesh. 22 And the rib that the Lord God had taken from the man he made into a woman and brought her to the man.
23 Then the man said, “This at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.” 24 Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and hold fast to his wife, and they shall become one flesh. 25 And the man and his wife were both naked and were not ashamed.
The Bible’s Romance NovelSong of Songs
Book is also know as Song of SolomonKing Solomon and the Shulammite
peasant womanWritten in Solomon’s early years
It is a song honoring love & marriage7 poems…courtship, wedding, marriage
Most sensual language in Bible
SexGod made male/female for one another
Sex is a gift from GodIt is meant for the marriage relationship
Motivated by love and commitment for mutual enjoyment and family
Not for selfish motives The marriage relationship goes
much deeper
Purity and sacredness of romantic loveEspecially important today with our distorted views on sex and marriage
God created love and marriageHe also created sex and intimacy
They are good, and are to be enjoyed within marriage
Not to be abused
Love“Love” may begin as a feeling
Beginning of relationships can be filled with a lot of emotion
Not to be rushed“Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you
by the gazelles and the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it
desires.” (2:7; also 8:4)
Feelings can be deceivingEmotions alone are not enough to
support a lasting relationshipEmotion and commitment need to
be allowed to develop togetherLOVE = Emotion + Commitment
Friendship is important“…This is my lover, this is my friend, O daughters of Jerusalem.” (5:16)
“phileo” -- “eros” -- “agape”Love in marriage is multi-facetedWhen a spouse is lost, emotional
support of friends is critical
A love relationship must be mutual“My lover is mine, and I am his” (2:16)“I am my lover’s and my lover is mine”
(6:3)Relationships that are one sided are
rarely healthy or permanent
True love is a decision of commitmentMarriage is a celebration of a daily
commitment to each other
“While romance keeps a marriage interesting, commitment keeps
romance from dwindling.” (Life Application Bible)
Openly express emotions & commitment“Fiddler on the Roof”
BeautyBeauty is often the first attractionThe two lovers of our poem praise the beauty they see in the otherOur love for our loved one makes him or her look beautiful to us!
Spanish “novio/novia”
Chapter 6, Lover:4 You are beautiful, my darling, as Tirzah, lovely as Jerusalem, majestic as troops with banners. 5 Turn your eyes from me; they overwhelm me. Your hair is like a flock of goats descending from Gilead. 6 Your teeth are like a flock of sheep coming up from the washing. Each has its twin, not one of them is alone.
7 Your temples behind your veil are like the halves of a pomegranate. 8 Sixty queens there may be, and eighty concubines, and virgins beyond number; 9 but my dove, my perfect one, is unique, the only daughter of her mother, the favorite of the one who bore her. The maidens saw her and called her blessed; the queens and concubines praised her.
Chapter 5, Beloved:10 My lover is radiant and ruddy, outstanding among ten thousand. 11 His head is purest gold; his hair is wavy and black as a raven. 12 His eyes are like doves by the water streams, washed in milk, mounted like jewels. 13 His cheeks are like beds of spice yielding perfume.
His lips are like lilies dripping with myrrh. 14 His arms are rods of gold set with chrysolite. His body is like polished ivory decorated with sapphires.15 His legs are pillars of marble set on bases of pure gold. His appearance is like Lebanon, choice as its cedars. 16 His mouth is sweetness itself; he is altogether lovely.
Our love for our loved one makes him/her appear beautiful
Beauty should not be limited to physical characteristics
Inner qualities keep love alive –sincerity, generousity, spirituality, humor
These qualities don’t fade! Story of wife finding gift
ProblemsOvertime, little things can wear on us“Catch for us the foxes, the little foxes that ruin the vineyards, our vineyards
in bloom.” (2:15)It is important to deal with the small
problems, irritations, even distractions that can destroy a relationship
Feelings of loneliness, indifference and different goals can come between
Chapter 5Eludes to issues that had come between
them, and the husband had leftWhen she realizes this, the wife
searches for him and hopes to solve the problem
Communication is critical to romance, renewal and
reconciliationDon’t let walls come between you Take care of problems while they
are still small
Song of Songs gives us a picture of marriage
From first attraction, courtship, wedding, romance,
dealing with problems It ends with a the beloved
telling her friends about the power of love
Chapter 8Beloved6 Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame.
7 Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away. If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned.
The ultimate example of marriage is how Christ loved the church
The church is referred to as the Bride of Christ
Ephesians 5 uses this analogy to illustrate marriage…
to show us how husbands and wives are to love each other
22 Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
29 After all, no one ever hated his own body, but he feeds and cares for it, just as Christ does the church— 30 for we are members of his body. 31 “For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.” 32 This is a profound mystery—but I am talking about Christ and the church. 33 However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband.