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on the cover106 Things to Do 42

Celebrate mom 24, 28

Graduation party ideas 15

Not keeping score in youth sports12

6 | GVParent.com On the Web in May

8 | Editor’s Note

10 | Buzzworthy Reviews & News

22 | Book Nook Totally Teen

24 | Your Family – aCTiViTiEs 10 Unique Ways to say “i Love You” This Mother’s Day

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28 | Modern Mom 30 Days to a Healthier social Life

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may // what you can find this month at www.gvparent.com

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DiD YOU KNOWs FOR MaY...No other month begins or ends on the same day of the week as May in any year.

• The first saturday in May is the date of the annual Kentucky Derby, the most famous horse race in the United states.

• May 12 is international Nurses Day.• May 25 is Towel Day, in tribute to Douglas

adams, author of The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy. On this day, fans carry a towel with them to demonstrate their appreciation for the books and the author.

• Memorial Day, traditionally the last Monday of May in the U.s., was first cele-brated on May 5, 1866, in Waterloo, New York – just 50 miles from Rochester.

MaY is aLsO:• National Foster Care Month• Mental Health awareness Month• National Military appreciation Month• skin Cancer awareness Month• National Bike Month• National Moving Month – recognizing

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@MCLS / The twitter feed of the Monroe County Library system, including 32 public libraries in west-ern NY. Connecting to Grow Great Libraries

@HCSnews / Heritage Christian services supports 1,700 children and adults with disabilities; provides high quality child care; and offers services to help keep seniors in their own homes.

@VSAS_RAS / Verona st. animal society official account / a not-for-profit that assists Rochester animal services by supporting pet adoption, spay, neuter & microchip programs.

@RBTL / The official Twitter feed for the Rochester Broadway Theatre League/auditorium Theatre.

@RGH_Foundation / supporting foundation for Rochester General Health system in Rochester. also fol-low their account for volunteers: @RGHsVols: Rochester General’s volunteers help people heal by espe-cially focusing on their emotional, spiritual & personal needs.

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That’s precisely what is happening in today’s youth sports landscape – teams are forgoing scores and no longer prizing the final outcome of the game but rather well-executed plays, sportsmanship, and skills. it’s teaching kids that there is more to life than giving up everything for a win; it matters what happens along the way too. and it’s work-ing. (To learn more about this concept, read our full-length feature on page 12.)

Maybe we can apply this idea not just to sports, but also to our lives – both our kids’ lives and our own adult lives. i know that sometimes i focus really hard on trying to win or be the best so i end up plowing over the small things that stand in my way. in other words, i forget to stop and smell the roses. i forget to do things slowly, or do them right, or take my time. i for-get that i have teammates who are there to participate but also help me. (in soccer

or basketball speak, i have a hard time passing the ball.) Winning isn’t every-thing. Friendships, family, and happiness are all much more important and are what truly matter in the end.

This month, instead of push-ing yourself or your kids to win or be the best, try slow-ing down. Focus on what matters – their skills, their friendships, their learning and fun. Let someone help you, pass them the ball and let them take charge. if you see someone in need, be an assistant. Be a cheerleader for yourself, for your spouse, and for your kids. Because when you walk off of the field, win or lose, it’s what happens during the game that really counts.

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editor’s note[ ]By Jillian Melnyk

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in life there are winners and losers. That’s how it works, right? You win or you lose. and that is never

more true than on the field or in the sports arena – it’s the end of the game that counts – the final score. a big L or W. But what if that’s not the case? What if we stop focusing so much about the endgame and start focusing more on what happens before the final buzzer blows?

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buzzworthy[ ]Protein punch

Experts recommend 20 to 30 grams of protein at each meal, and while breakfast is typically lower in protein than other meals, it’s a particularly important time to include protein in your diet — to help you get the right start to your day. Try these tips to maximize protein in the aM:• Make your morning oatmeal with milk instead of water. Top with

almonds for an extra boost.• include a glass of milk with your morning meal. an 8-ounce

glass of milk has 8 grams of quality protein.• Make your own smoothie and choose your favorite frozen fruit.• Grab a latte, instead of black coffee, and pair it with peanut

butter toast and some fruit for a balanced meal. • Whip up a bowl of cottage cheese topped with fruit and honey.• Create a breakfast BLT with a whole grain muffin, lean turkey

bacon and lettuce and tomato.

Try this yummy smoothie – perfect for mom and kids.

Peaches & Cream Smoothie // servings: 2• 1 cup low fat or fat free milk• 1 cup frozen peach slices• 1/2 cup fresh mango• 2 tablespoons honeyin a blender, combine all ingredients. Cover and blend until smooth. serve immediately.

Nutrition: 162 calories; 0g fat; 0g saturated fat; 2mg cholesterol; 5g pro-tein; 38g carbohydrates; 2g fiber; 53mg sodium; 163mg calcium (16% of daily value). Nutrition figures based on using fat free milk.

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according to recent data published in the journal Beverage Digest, in 2012, soda consumption in the US dropped to a 26-year low. “This is great news for the health of the population,” says David Levitsky, a professor of Nutritional sciences and Psychology at Cornell University who specializes in obesity, weight loss and how people inform their food choices. “There is considerable scientific support that consuming liquid calories in the form of soft drinks and juices between meals is a major cause of the small increase in body weight feeding the epidemic of obesity. The reduction in caloric beverage consumption might be the reason for the declining prevalence of childhood obe-sity being observed in many cities in the U.s.”

Whether it is tragedy in the news or headlines about current politics or world events, you may be wondering how to answer your child’s questions. Here are some helpful tips from Child Psychologist Dr. Phyllis Ohr, the official psychologist for Press4Kids, which just launched its first educational news app for children 7 to 10 years old, News-O-Matic• When the event does not personally affect the child, reassure him that everything is

okay with the people he loves and that nothing has changed for him.• Begin by giving the child a brief synopsis of what happened by using age appropri-

ate language.• ask if there is something she wants to know more about or if she needs something

explained further. if so, stick to pointedly answering your child’s question or clarify-ing. Do not add on or digress.

• Do not assume the news will make children feel a certain way. ask your child if he knows how he feels but stress that kids feel all different ways when they hear import-ant news and sometimes do not know how they feel.

• However children are affected by it, it is their own feeling.• if your child is upset but doesn’t want to talk, suggest a fun activity for distraction or

help her use calming skills like deep breaths.

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keeping scorea focus on fun & skill

development – the current trend in youth sports

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winning tends to dominate sports culture: from the Little League diamonds and Pop Warner Football fields all the way up to the profes-

sional teams, winning is seen as the ultimate goal whenever two squads square off.

The recently-concluded NCaa Division i men’s basketball tournament — March Madness — uses the phrase, “survive and advance” to describe how schools try and move on in the winner-take-all, single-elimination competition. That phrase, used by coaches, student-ath-letes and fans alike, suggests it doesn’t matter how one wins, or the quality of the performance; rather, all that counts is getting the championship trophy or W. Vince Lombardi, the Hall of Fame football coach of the Green Bay Packers who has a nation-wide youth football league with tens of thousands of youth players competing in his honor, was

renowned for his, “Winning isn’t every-thing; it’s the only thing,” mantra.

But shouldn’t developing solid fundamentals, learning the rules of the game and having fun be just as important, if not more im-portant, than the final score?

By John Boccacino

According to the most recent data, in the United States there are approximately 45 million children between the ages of 5 and 18 who lace up their cleats, don their jerseys and play competitive youth sports. More participate in recreation or developmental sports programs through the YMCA, the CYO or their schools, striving to learn the fundamentals of the game while making


new friends and receiving physical exercise. In the best-case scenario, roughly two to three percent of these athletes will receive a Division I scholarship, and an even smaller percentage will take their skills to the profes-sional ranks. Yet, despite these overwhelm-ing odds against making it big in athletics, everywhere you look there is added emphasis being placed on winning. Parents, seeking to validate the time and money committed to their children’s sports pursuits, are often guilty of overzealous be-havior while rooting on their kids. Post-game fights have even occurred when parents or youths are dissatisfied with the game’s out-come. But there are movements locally and nationally to alter or diminish this obsession with winning and losing, especially when it comes to the youth sports landscape.

Putting Fun Back into the GameWhile relying on the final score is the ulti-mate way to judge who won or lost a compe-tition, it is not the best method for evaluating progress, especially in developing young adults and children who are participating in a sport for the first time. Rather than solely using the scoreboard to assess progress, orga-nizations like U.S. Youth Soccer, the YMCA of Greater Rochester and the Rochester Dis-trict Youth Soccer League (RDYSL), among others, are trying to put the fun back in youth sports while still allowing for a healthy amount of competition. Approximately five years ago, U.S. Youth Soccer instituted a rules change where youth teams in the 10-and-under, non-com-petitive divisions are mandated to not keep score on the field, and to not maintain season-long standings. “At that age, the focus

should be on kids learning skills, learning to play together without the focus being on competition and having each game end with a winner and a loser,” says Mary Arter, the RDYSL’s president who oversees 539 teams and more than 10,000 youth soccer players in and around the Rochester area. “The kids always know the score and who scored, but we don’t put an emphasis on the score of these games and I’m not sure those kids are missing out on anything. Based on how chil-dren develop, getting beaten badly at ages 8, 9 or 10 doesn’t teach you anything. Now you see a lot more people cheering for good plays made by the players, no matter what team they play on. It’s definitely a more fun atmosphere.” Arter says when the league first started implementing this policy, some parents expressed their displeasure over not keeping score, but those complaints have subsided. The non-competitive games are still officiat-ed by paid, professional referees, so while the final score is ignored, the rules of the game are emphasized just as much as if the score was kept. V.J. Stanley is a former college hockey coach and youth coach of multiple sports (baseball, soccer, football and basketball) who echoes the sentiments expressed by U.S Youth Soccer. He feels there is too much emphasis placed on winning, and not enough emphasis on having fun, which is the main reason why children try sports in the first place. Stanley, the founder and presi-dent of Frozen Shorts (www.FrozenShorts.com), penned a book, Stop the Tsunami in Youth Sports: Achieving Balanced Excellence and Health while Embracing the Value of Play for Fun. He has conducted research and worked with youth sports organizations and coaches in the Rochester area in an attempt to alter the

Based on how children develop, getting beaten badly at ages 8,

9 or 10 doesn’t teach you anything. Now

you see a lot more people cheering for

good plays made by the players, no ma ter what team they play on. it’s definitely

a more fun atmosphere.”

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— Mary Arter, President of Rochester District

Youth Soccer League

current win-first paradigm that dom-inates youth sports. “If winning is so important at an early age, why don’t elementary teachers with master’s degrees in education teach winning to the little kids,” says Stanley, who cred-its the added emphasis of winning for the main reason why, by age 13, some 70 percent of participants in youth sports have abandoned their athletic pursuits due to burnout. “In youth sports, winning is far less important than learning teamwork, how to get along with each other and having fun. Winning has been made out to be like a cure-all, but it’s not,” he adds. “The scoreboards are for the

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older participate in competitive leagues in sports such as flag football, soccer, baseball/softball and basketball, where scores are kept and season-long standings updated, but not emphasized as the end-all of their season. In the in-house developmental leagues, open to children ages 12 and under, the children are not discouraged from keeping track of the score. But Melinda Peck, a youth sports coach for 15 years, adds that scoring isn’t the only — or even the best — measurement of a child’s development. “We’re not hanging all of a child’s self-worth on if they won today or not. We acknowledge the wins and losses but have other goals besides the final score,” says Peck, the Executive Director for the Monroe and Southwest YMCA branches. “Scoring is how we measure our growth as a team, and it’s an important piece, but it’s not the only point. That’s just one piece of the puzzle we use in developing our kids. We want all kids to feel good about moving and getting physical exercise, keeping their bodies healthy while hopefully having fun with a sport they love.” To that end, teams in the developmental programs will assign point values for completing certain tasks. James Smith, Executive Director of the Lewis Street YMCA, coaches an Iddy Biddy (ages 3-4) youth basketball squad, and for these aspiring athletes, points are given out not for scoring a basket, but for completing passes to teammates, dribbling properly and hitting the rim with their shots. These are all tangible goals that will help these children in their development. With a progressive goals system focused on player development and not the final score, both Smith and Peck feel this holistic approach to youth sports fosters a productive atmosphere where children can thrive without the pressures of winning and

losing dominating their thoughts. “Our scores are based on what will help them move to the next skill set, the next tal-ent level,” says Smith. “With a focus on sole-ly winning as the only way to judge a child’s success, you stifle their development. Sports by nature are a great way to bring children together, build these small communities and develop skills and team work. Focusing on the final score takes away from their friendships and the lessons learned over the course of the season. We focus on character development and the positive relationships built through the sports landscape.” Kelly Lickert has coached youth, high school and collegiate women’s lacrosse. In addition to her coaching duties, the Penn Yan Academy and Limestone College lacrosse standout has also served as a referee for youth games. She says there “absolutely should be a cut-off age for keeping track of the final score,” and recommends starting in the fifth or sixth grade, after an athlete’s fundamental skills and techniques have been sufficiently honed. “The coaches and parents are the ones who are instilling these values of wins and losses to the children,” Lickert adds. “At a very young age, the most important thing is developing these kids’ fundamentals and techniques. The competi-tion aspect will grow as these kids grow, and eventually keeping score is the right thing to do. But fundamentals are jeopardized when the bottom line comes down to your win/loss record.”

John Boccacino is a frequent contributor to Rochester Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. He lives in Webster, NY and reported on sports and local news for more than 6 1/2 years with the Democrat and Chron-icle newspaper. He is currently the Director of Sports Information for Keuka College.

parents, as 10 minutes after a game has ended the kids have forgotten who won. Get rid of the scoreboards and just let the kids play and have fun. That’s what sports are all about, having fun and learning the game. These are kids, not mini-adults and not future professional athletes.”

a Focus on skills & DevelopmentWith a goal of developing skills for life, rather than just for on-field success in their athletic pursuits, the assorted YMCA branches across Rochester have established both competitive and developmental sports leagues that place an emphasis on camara-derie and skill development as well as competition. Last year, more than 6,000 youths ages 3 and up partici-pated in one of the YMCA’s youth sports programs. Those aged 10 and

We’re not hanging all of a child’s self-worth on if they won today or not. We acknowledge the wins

and losses but have other goals besides

the final score.”

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— Melinda Peck, Youth Sports Coach & the Executive Director for the Monroe and Southwest

YMCA branches


graduation parties – how to keep the focus on fun

the high school graduation season can unleash a host of conflicting feelings – excite-

ment, apprehension, pride, and relief – just to name a few. Begin-ning in January, the reality of thir-teen years in a public or private school system coming to an end begins to sink in for both parents and teens. With each “senior” activity or “last time i’ll ever do this,” the prospect of a future with open horizons, a home with one less teen in it, or having to adjust to an empty nest looms closer. Many graduation activities fall within the school’s domain. But there’s one very special event that’s completely the family’s – the graduation party.

Planning a party together allows parents and seniors to celebrate the unique aspects of your graduate’s individual achieve-ments and acknowledges your teen’s newly emerging role as an adult. Naturally, in this time of heightened emotions, there are plenty of opportunities for stresses and anx-ieties to build up. But there is also lots of room for joy and jubilation. After all, who doesn’t love a good party? Remembering to keep the focus on fun as you plan your celebration is one of the best gifts you can give your son or daughter, and yourselves!

SIX STEPS TO TAKE & DECISIONS TO MAKE

Get organizedPick a time when you and your teen are re-laxed and able to spend some time creating a “to do” list and a timeline (or calendar) for all the scheduled graduation activities. This gives you a realistic sense of how busy you’ll be during certain time periods. It’s also a good time to talk about your overall

expectations for the party and to negotiate a budget. Be sure to clarify that, though you want him to be part of the planning process, when the big day comes he’ll be the guest of honor and won’t have to do a thing but enjoy himself!

set a date, time, and placeThere’s no rule that says you must hold the party on graduation weekend. Some families want the graduation season to culminate in a large, festive celebration immediately after the ceremony. For other teens and parents, that will be too much excitement and pressure at once. Other things that should influence your family’s choice of dates could be if you want to include friends and relatives who may be coming from out of the state or country for the graduation or other family con-siderations like vacations or summer job schedules. What time of day you decide to hold the party will depend on what type of party it is – for example, a cook-out, a pool party, or a brunch.

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Some families want to have the party at home while some prefer to rent out a space like private community room. Others like the idea of an outdoor location like a local or state park. It’s best to pick a location that matches your family’s usual style of entertainment. If you’ve never had a large party in your home, think twice about starting now! Many parents also recommend investing in a tent. As we all know, upstate New York weather can be unpredictable, even in June. If things like mud or insects really bother you or your teen, an indoor venue might be a better choice. Your main goal is that everyone, especially the graduate, be comfortable.

Co-host or fly solo?Each option has its pros and cons. Co-hosting a party cuts down on both expenses and work and allows teen friends to invite more guests. However, if each of the teens and parents have very dif-ferent mental pictures of what the party will be like, the situation can quickly deteriorate. Jen, a mother of two high school grad-uates, has co-hosted parties twice and offers this advice, “If you do decide to have a combined party, make it with grads who are friends. This increases the likelihood that you’re already comfort-able with the other parents.” To ensure that a co-hosted party is successful, families also need to know how to work both together and apart. In Jen’s case, parents divided up responsibilities by set-up, clean-up, cost, and food items. To make sure the teens were seen as individuals, rather than a group, each family bought paper products in the colors of the college their graduate would be attending in the fall and made sure to have separate gift and photo tables and cakes for each teen. “We had one meeting, made a few phone calls, and trusted each others’ competence and it went off great!” Jen adds.

Choose an invitation/announcementYou have two choices here. You can send out a standard grad-uation announcement and a separate party invitation or you can design a combination announcement. When my oldest son graduated, our announcement was a personal photo of him, along with the time and date of his graduation, when we were holding his party, and what his plans were following graduation. We all thought it looked great and our older relatives, and friends who lived far away who couldn’t be part of the festivities, were especial-ly appreciative of a comprehensive announcement. For those of you on a budget, it’s also quite cost-effective!

Extras• Most teens love music, so if they want to include it in their

party plans, let them. You can get a live band (many grad-uates have friends that play in bands), hire a DJ, or simply have your teen hook up her iPod to the stereo. some adult guests may not like the noise but try to remember whose party it is.

• With your teen, create a personal photo display or memorabilia exhibit of his school career. include pictures of your teen as a baby, with his friends, at school functions, and with family. You can also showcase awards, trophies, and positive press. Guests enjoy seeing this pro-gression in your teen’s life and you will too!

• Have a gift table with a card basket. This helps keep everything in one place so it will be easier to make a list for thank-you notes after the party is over.

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As you’re creating your mailing list don’t forget those not-so-obvious people: a favorite babysitter, an especially helpful employer or men-tor, or that really inspiring teacher or coach. All these people played an important part in your teen’s development and would probably be thrilled to be invited to share in their success. Above all don’t feel obligated to invite anyone that your teen doesn’t want at the party. This is their day!

RefreshmentsYou can have the party catered, prepare refreshments yourself, or combine the two. What you decide to serve will be determined by how many guests are coming, your teen’s favorite foods, and your own energy level. From personal experience Jen offers this advice, “Don’t put so much focus on the food that you lose sight of the purpose of the party. You don’t want to be standing over a hot grill or stove the whole time

and end up missing all the fun!” With this in mind, our gradua-tion brunch consisted of my son’s favorite chicken salad, coffee cakes, bagels, fruit, juice, and coffee. It was colorful, tasty, and best of all, most of the food could be prepared ahead of time so I was able to spend the party visiting with guests and talking about how proud I was of him!

DecorationsDecorations are fairly inexpensive and add a festive touch. Some teens like to make their own or you can drive to a party supply store together and pick up some banners, balloons, and whatever else makes it feel like a celebration. If you’re feel-ing crafty check out DIY tutorials on Pinterest.

Sue Henninger is an upstate New York resident and frequent contributor to Rocheser Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. Her third son will be graduating this spring. Contact her at www.fingerlakeswriter.com

Don’t forget to:Have “the talk” with your teenYour job as a parent isn’t over yet, no matter what your teen says. as the party season enters full swing, a gentle reminder about the long-term con-sequences of poor choices is always a good idea. Openly addressing issues like underage drinking, pranks that go awry, or Facebook postings that could backfire on his future plans doesn’t make you a killjoy. it simply shows you’re aware of the potential perils of the season.

Take time to pat yourself on the backWith all these details to attend to, it’s no wonder that many parents lose touch with what’s happen-ing within your family. Your child has worked hard to receive her diploma but you’ve worked hard too. school-related experiences probably encompass a great deal of the memories you’ve shared togeth-er over the years. Remember those kindergarten Mother’s and Father’s Day cards? How about all of the school plays, concerts, and sporting events you attended? Or teachers’ conferences (good and not so good!), PTa meetings, or chaperoning field trips or school dances you’ve been part of? as graduation approaches, take a few quiet minutes to praise yourself for a job well done and to wish your teen well on this next step of her journey toward adulthood.

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Keeping the Peace during

playdatesplaydates were anything but playful for Piper

Leslie’s two older children, 11-year-old Kaylee and 10-year-old Kyle. “When we first started

playdates, Kaylee was usually the one to have friends over,” she says. “Kyle has asperger’s syndrome and has a harder time making friends, and i never wanted him to feel left out, so i always made Kaylee include him.” But when fights started springing up between the normally close pair, Leslie knew she needed a new playdate plan of action.

in theory, playdates are supposed to be fun, but visits from friends can spark squabbles between even the friendliest of siblings. From, “she always wrecks everything!” to “it’s my room!” to “You always take his side!” scuffles abound as kids jockey for alone time with pals, stake their claim to bedrooms and playrooms, and try to one-up siblings in an attempt to appear cool in front of their friends. and brokering household peace can leave parents exhausted.

By Malia Jacobson


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Playdate PandemoniumClinical psychologist Michelle P. Maidenberg, PhD, of Harrison, NY, is a mom of four who referees playdate problems on a regular basis with her three school-age boys, Addison, Foster, and Wyatt. “Sometimes, we’ll have several playdates in a week,” she says. “It’s a constant struggle keeping everyone happy.” So why are playdates such a pain? According to Maidenberg, there’s often more to the problem than meets the eye. Though kids may fight over fairness and alone time with their friends, the real issue at stake is sibling rivalry. Playdates can set the stage for siblings to feel excluded and hurt, and conflicts ignite when one sibling thinks that he’s been wronged, especially if he perceives that another child is being favored. When tempers flare, kids often set parents up to take sides: “Make him leave us alone!” or “Tell her that it’s my room!” Parents should tread carefully, says Maidenberg, because the time-honored tactic of forcing one child to include a left-out sibling in their play can strain sibling relationships. A child who is forced to include a sibling in a playdate may feel resentful and angry, and direct those feelings at the playdate-crashing brother or sister.

Playful PeacekeepingHappily, playdates don’t have to be breeding grounds for sibling rivalry. Instead, they can be exercises in family problem solving, says Adele Faber, co-author of the New York Times best-seller Siblings Without Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too. Since most playdates are planned in advance, Faber recom-mends that parents sit down with kids and draw up a pre-playdate action plan. “You know your own kids; you know if one child is going to want alone time with their friend and the other child is going to be moping around,” she says. “So sit down to-gether and ask them, ‘How can we make this playdate fun for everyone?’” When kids are involved in creating a plan, they become invested in the solution, Faber says. Creating a shared plan of action also sends an important message to each sibling: One child

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doesn’t get to have fun at the expense of another. Every family member has valid needs and ideas. “Rivalry diffuses when kids see that they are valued and that one sibling isn’t being favored,” she says.

ideas for inclusionPlanning ahead is ideal, but even the best-laid playdate plans aren’t foolproof. Plans can fall through (for example, when a surprise rain shower keeps ev-eryone indoors) and sometimes planning is impossible (such as when a neighbor knocks on the door for an impromptu playdate). When hectic schedules or weather curveballs make planning im-possible, parents can keep the peace by finding activities that everyone can enjoy. Great examples are bowling, ice skating, jumping rope, and active electronic gaming systems like the Nintendo Wii that allow kids of different ages and skill levels to participate side by side. Finding a special “job” for a younger child can help that sibling join in the fun; for board games, younger kids can be in charge of money or rolling the dice, and for an

obstacle course, a younger child can be in charge of the stopwatch. After a round of group play, parents can give the child with the playdate some alone time with her pal by asking siblings to help fix a snack for everyone. Leslie found playdate peace when she stopped micromanaging friends’ visits. Instead, she talked with her kids about the importance of kindness and inclusion — and then she stepped back and trusted her kids’ judgment. “I real-ized it wasn’t Kaylee’s responsibility to keep Kyle entertained. I let them know that while I expect Kaylee and her friend to be kind to Kyle (and vice versa), it’s up to her to decide if she wants to include her brother. Overall, they’re both good about including the other. They know it’s not fun to be left out.”

Malia Jacobson is a nationally published freelance journalist and mom. She blogs about parenting and family health at www.thewellrestedfamily.com.

4 TiPs FOR PLaNNiNG THE PERFECT PLaYDaTE

1. Sit kids down one to two days in advance. ask everyone to come up with ways to make the playdate fun for everyone—guests and siblings alike.

2. Write down all ideas, even ones that sound impractical and ridiculous, like “Eat cotton candy at the zoo!” and “Bake 1,000 cookies!”

3. Plan online. Websites like familyfitness.about.com and gameskidsplay.net have ideas for physi-cal games for the entire family.

4. Discuss why the ideas may or may not work for the play-date. Together, come up with several ideas that enable everyone to have fun together. Now, go play!

Source: Adele Faber, author of Siblings With-out Rivalry: How to Help Your Children Live Together So You Can Live Too

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book nook[ ] By Jillian Melnyk

totally teenmeet the authors of the 8th annual Greater Rochester Teen Book Festival as they dish about writing, their

likes and dislikes, quirks, and more!

Gennifer Albin // author of Crewel “When I was two, I had open

heart surgery. I have a huge scar, but, unlike most, it runs horizontally.”

“I chose to go to the Wizard-ing World of Harry Potter for Christmas rather than take a cruise. Cruises are for grown-ups.”

Jessica Brody // author of 52 Reasons to Hate My Father, My Life Undecided & More “I’ve always secretly wanted

to be a member of the Spice Girls.”

“I’m squeamish about bones and belly buttons.”

Andrea Cremer // author of Nightshade, Wolfsbane & More “I have a Havanese puppy

named Joss (after Joss Whe-don).”

“ I cannot do a cartwheel but have not given up on learn-ing how.”

Matt de la Peña // author of Mexican White-Boy, Ball Don’t Lie & More “I used to be able to do a 360

degree dunk, and now I can barely touch the rim.”

“I read a paragraph of my favorite Cormac McCarthy novel every day before I start writing.”

Lauren DeStefano // author of Wither, Fever & Sever “ I’ve been (mostly) vegetari-

an since I was 13.” “I LOVE interior decorating.

When I’m having a hard time with a writing project, it’s common for me to buy a gallon of paint and some wall decals.”

“I watch Investigation Discovery and similar things on a daily basis, even though I’ve never written a crime novel.”

Ellen Hopkins // author of Crank, Tilt, Perfect & More “I have a green thumb and

am vain about my garden.” “My favorite day is curled up

in front of a fire, watching it blizzard outside.”

Robin LaFevers // author of Grave Mercy & Dark Triumph “One of my summer jobs

involved driving a water truck for a construction company and being their scale master. It was my ideal job because I was able to read a book a day while waiting between trucks.”

“When I was a child, my moth-er had a penchant for exotic pets. Some of mine included a chipmunk that I carried around in my pocket, a baby anteater, and for a few short weeks, two baby bear cubs.”

David Levithan // author of Nick & Norah’s Infinite Playlist, Every Day & More “My life would suck without

Kelly Clarkson.”

GO>>WHAT: 8th annual Greater Rochester Teen Book Festival. Meet more than 30 authors of best-selling and award-winning teen books. The festival also includes panels, workshops and a book sale!

WHEN: saturday, May 18, 2013, 9 am – 5 pm

WHERE: Nazareth College Main entrance at shults Center 4245 East avenue, Rochester, NY 14618

COST: Free! No registration is needed... just stop by and enjoy the day!

LEARN MORE: Visit www.teenbookfestival.org

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Jillian Melnyk is the Editor for Rochester Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine. She has an MFA in Writing for Children from the Center for the Study of Children’s Literature at Simmons College. She welcomes questions about books and can offer endless recommendations at [email protected]

“I have co-written books with past TBF authors and taught past TBF authors too.”

Michael Morpurgo // author of War Horse, Shadow, Farm Boy & More “In my free time I go for long walks. I

try to walk everyday.” “My favourite food: home-cooked

cottage pie.”

Mary Pearson // author of Jenna Fox Chronicles, Scribbler of Dreams & More “I stole a book when I was four years

old.” “My most embarrassing moment as a

teen was when I dove into a pool--right out of my bikini bottoms.”

Margaret Stohl // author of Beautiful Creatures series & Icons “My dogs are named Kirby and Zelda

because I made videogames for 16 years.”

“I don’t eat meat because I don’t want to be eaten, and hey, what goes around comes around.”

Laurie Faria Stolarz // author of Blue is for Nightmares series, Touch series & More “Even though I write scary stories, I’m

the biggest scaredy cat ever. You name it – bugs, critters, haunted houses, dark places, basements, attics, creaking noises at night, horror flicks, abandoned places, creepy dolls, creepier clowns, libraries at night... The list goes on and on. AND My readers are amazing!”

Sara Zarr // author of How to Save a Life, Story of a Girl & More“I met my husband when I was 16.”

“I wrote 3 books before I got published - they remain unpublished for a reason.”

Find more fun facts about these authors and all

teen book festival participants at www.tbflive.org

MaRY PEaRsON

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Here are ten fun ways to put a smile on mom’s face this Mother’s Day:

1. Make a custom card. Rekindle your old

card-creating spirit. Write a list of all the things your mother has done for you over the years. Then flip through old maga-zines and tear out any image that reminds you of something on your list. On a blank card or a piece of card stock folded in half, paste the images and write a personal note of thanks inside. This card is sure to be more treasured than one you buy at the store.

2. Stir the memory pot. Create a slideshow

to music of your favorite photos of mom. You can either scan your old family photos or take close-up photos of them with your digital camera. If you don’t have photo management software on your computer, check out those that offer slideshow capabilities for a small price tag like Shutterfly.com. Smilebox.com will let you

make a slideshow if you sign up for a free trial. Be sure to set your slideshow to mom’s favorite tunes.

3. Deck her house. While you’ve got those pho-

tos out, let’s look at what else you can make for mom. How about creating a gift that will be useful on a daily basis? For an inexpensive price, fetching photos of you and mom can be emblazoned on mugs, mouse pads, coasters, puzzles, playing cards, t-shirts, magnets, pencil holders, luggage tags, jewelry... you name it. What better way to remind mom that you love her every day?

4. 2-4-6-8, time to appreciate! Here’s an

idea for the short of time and big of heart. Make a list of all of the things you appreciate about your mom. A list of 25 or 50 specific things you love, typed up, printed on nice paper, and framed is sure to warm Mom’s heart today and always.

5. Make mom proud. How about a

donation to mom’s favorite charity in her name on Moth-er’s Day? If mom doesn’t have a favorite charity, how about choosing one that provides support for children like Save the Children (savethechildren.org) or St. Jude’s Children’s Research Hospital (stjude.org) or Ronald MacDonald House Charities (rmhc.org)?

6. Create an heir-loom. A locket is a

special gift that can be person-alized with pictures of you and your mom, or just a picture of yourself with a word of appre-ciation or love in the other side. Like “Love You” or “Thanks, Mom.”

7. Your best words for-ward. You’ve probably

heard of the Chicken Soup for the Soul books, which now carry about twenty titles just for moms. Of course, a collection of heart-warming stories about

moms would only be more special if it also contained your story. So why not write yours, print it out, and slide it into the book with the others?

8. Just us girls. Short on time and money? How

about a coupon for a nice day trip with just you and mom? Slow down and relax together. You’ll be so glad you did.

9. Don your thinking cap. Brainstorm ideas

for items mom doesn’t typically splurge on for herself but would enjoy. For example, my mother likes fine art so I could sign her up for a Plein-Air art class through a local community col-lege or purchase tickets for the two of us to attend a local art exhibit. What does your mom like? Make it happen!

10. Help her soak in bliss. Create some

quick homemade bath salts. Start with mom’s favorite scent (cinnamon? lavender? jasmine?) in a bottle of essential oil: Then wet three parts Epsom salts, two parts baking soda and one part sea salt with the oil. Mix thoroughly and pour into an appropriate-sized jar. Tie on a scoop with a pretty ribbon, and voila, a thoughtful gift mom will love. Christina Katz is a freelance journalist and author who would be thrilled to receive any of these gifts for Mother’s Day. Her latest book is The Writer’s Workout for Writer’s Digest Books.

your family activities ] By Christina Katz

celebrate mom // 10 unique ways to say “i love you” this mother’s day

t here are three words your mom can never

hear often enough. and yet, the most common gifts that go with these words – flowers and chocolates – can become a little tedious year after year. so why not surprise mom this time with some-thing she’s not expecting?

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We want to know the places your family visits the most, and who treats your family the best. Share your own family favorites with other Rochester fam-ilies so they’ll know where to go to get great service and the best bang for their buck. Gather the kids, click on our website, and tell us your family’s favorites! We’ll publish the winners online in July.

Will some of these be your favorites again this year?• ICE CREAM SHOP Abbott’s Frozen Custard• PLACE TO VISIT THE DUCKS Schoen Place and along the canal in Pittsford • SPOT FOR OUTDOOR SUMMER FUN Seabreeze Amusement Park• FAVORITE SPORTS TEAM Rochester Red Wings BaseballAnd lots more!!!!

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Although photos capture prom attire and transportation, these are not the memories your teen will cherish. More likely, she’ll recall a first kiss, dancing wildly to a favorite song, or the after-prom party at a friend’s house where she might pig out on scrambled eggs and contem-plate her plans for the future. I don’t remember the prom being a major expense, at least not to the extent that it seems to be today. Prom expenses have gotten out of control, but, honestly, they don’t have to be equivalent to root canals or weekend getaways. Here are some great ways teens can save and still look fabulous while garnering special memories that will last a lifetime.

Six Areas to Find SavingsTicketsProm tickets can be extremely expensive. Besides thinking ahead and setting a budget to pay for them, students should explore fundraiser contests at their high school. Sometimes top sellers get free tickets. Per-haps the prom committee offers discounted tickets to students who work at the prom. Another possibility: Ask your guidance counselor if free tickets are offered to students who can demonstrate financial need.

attireThere are numerous options for finding affordable prom dresses. Students don’t have to pay full price to look stunning! Browse through pre-sea-son sales. Most stores offer discounts for spring in late

January and February. The Internet is also a great place to find deals – check out eBay and Craigslist. Renting prom dress-es is common today and can be done online (check out www.renttherunway.com). Search for consignment boutiques that host “exchange programs.” Students can trade in their used dress and purchase a gently used one for a fraction of the original cost. For students in need: My daughter’s high school has a “free prom dress” program. Dresses are donated for stu-dents who can’t afford to pur-chase one. Also common are community events (often hosted by non-profits) that offer free or reduced-price prom dresses as annual service projects. Stu-dents can explore this option by checking with their local chamber of commerce, county events page, or with their high school guidance department. These programs also provide opportunities for students to “give back,” by donating their gently used attire. For the guys: Believe it or not, purchasing a tuxedo might be an affordable option since rentals have gotten so costly. Young men needing a tux for more than one event should check out department store sales (i.e. JCPenney sells

tuxedo separates which are very affordable when coupled with additional coupons). If renting is a must, look for stores that offer discounts to local schools. Accessorize for less: No need to buy new. Borrow formal accessories from a friend or relative.

Personal GroomingIf a salon visit is your dream, search for discounts. Some salons offer group discounts or reduced prices for those who allow photographs to be taken for advertising or training purposes. Of course, another option is to do your own hair and make-up or to ask a friend or relative to help. Be sure to practice for the big day so you know the look is right for you. The following link has some great tips and photos: www.beautyriot.com/makeup-beau-ty/prom-hair-makeup-g8261

Transportation Deals on limos are hard to find in the spring (peak prom and wedding season). So, skip the limo and dare to be different. Clean up a friend’s classic car and ask an older sibling (tips provided) to play the role of limo driver. Dress up a large van that can fit twelve of your

parenting teens & tweens[ ] By Myrna Beth Haskell

WANT To SHARE YoUR IDEAS? UPCoMING ToPIC: Did your teen have any problems with “piercing?” Or send piercing safety tips. send your full name, address, & brief comments to: [email protected] or visit: www.myrnahaskell.com8

i dug out a faded Polaroid photo of my first prom the other day. i thought it might jar memories of how

things were done back then. i am smiling and wearing a long, white gown embellished with pink, embroidered flowers. My boyfriend is in a tux. We are standing next to a dilapidated, brown Ford Pinto – the ones that used to catch fire! My hair is typical of how i always wore it. Perhaps i spent some extra time on it, but i definitely didn’t go to a salon. My nails resemble painted stubs (i bit them fiercely in my teen years).

It’s Prom Season // bust a move, not your bank account!


friends. Sprucing up the family car and adding some fresh flow-ers to the interior is a great idea as well.

FlowersOpt for inexpensive flowers – skip the roses – for corsages and boutonnieres. Crafty teens should consider making their own corsage or boutonniere (Informative video: http://video.about.com/prom/Make-Your-Own-Prom-Corsage.htm). Better yet, cut fresh flowers from your own garden.

Photos Schools can receive discounts on the cost of professional photos if they use the same photographer for yearbook or senior portraits. Bring your own camera and share photos with friends.

Myrna Beth Haskell is a freelance writer and monthly contributor to Roch-ester Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine who lives in Salt Point, NY. She is the author of the newly released book, LIONS and TIGERS and TEENS: Expert advice and sup-port for the conscientious parent just like you (Unlimited Publishing LLC). For more information visit www.myrnahaskell.com. Also available at: Amazon.com.

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Women who feel a balanced sense of connection are healthier and more resilient to stress, anxiety and depression. According to a recent Gallup poll, stay-at-home moms are more vulnerable to depression compared to women who work outside of the home, and isolation could play a factor. Overall women are twice as likely to suffer from depression compared to men. “When there is a lack of social inter-action and a decrease of peer to peer contact, there is great potential for depression which is a combination of sadness and anger,” says Lisa Bahar, a marriage and family therapist and professional counselor. One day at a time, rev up your social engine for increased happiness and satisfaction. Here’s how:

1 Join a mother’s group. Your sense of self-worth and sense of belonging increas-es when part of a group of supportive friends. (Tip: our

monthly calendar features a selection of local mom’s club events and support groups. You can also find additional listings online at www.gvparent.com)

2 Call an old friend. Reconnecting helps you rebuild your confidence to meet new moms.

3 Email a mom you’d like to know better. Arrange a time to meet with you and your kids for a playdate at the park or the mall play area. (Tip: check out our article on pages 18-20 for tips for making your playdate a success!)

4 send a Facebook friend request to a mom you’ve met recently. Initiating friendships shows you welcome new friends and boosts your self-confidence.

5 Volunteer. Your efforts will positively impact others, and you’ll derive satisfaction and joy from helping out.

(Looking for local volunteer opportunities? We have a selection of local organizations who are seeking volunteers on our website at www.gvparent.com/community/volunteer). You can also check out your favorite organization such as the library, animal shelter, or food pantry and ask if they’re looking for volunteers and what their requirements are.

6 shake out the welcome mat. Greet your new neigh-bors with a plate of warm cookies. They’ll appreciate your thoughtfulness and a friendly face in a new neighborhood.

7 strike up a conversa-tion. Kids are great icebreak-ers. Even a casual conversation with another mom can cheer you.

8 Brighten a friend’s day. Send a card to let her know you’re thinking about her or call just to chat.

9 Click into an online mom’s group. Find comfort knowing your situation is not unique. Reaching out to other moms online who can relate can help you feel less isolated.

q Text a friend with a new baby. The first few weeks can be a rough adjustment. By reaching out, you’ll help her feel less alone. If possible, arrange a time to stop by with a meal.

w Coordinate a meet and greet. Got school-aged kids? Invite other classroom moms to a “seasoned moms” lunch to build a sense of community.

e Get active! Sign up for a yoga, zumba or jazzercise class. Exercise releases mood-boost-ing endorphins and wards off stress. Group fitness helps you feel a sense of accountability.

r spring for a Girls Night Out. You may feel a little tired the next day, but recalling all the laughs and stimulating conversation will put a skip in your step.

t surround yourself with positive people. Move away from draining one-sided friend-ships that zap your energy.

y seek balance in your yeses. Stress less by saying no to requests that aren’t a priority or don’t interest you. Your fam-ily will thank you.

modern mom[ ] By Christa Melnyk Hines

get social // 30 days to ahealthier social life

r elocations, new babies, and other life transi-tions can throw a wrench in your social network,

leaving you feeling disconnected and lonely. Use the adjustment period as a chance to make a fresh start. Carefully consider your priorities and build connections that support your personal health and the well-being of your family.

TiP #9:Connect with local moms online!


u Go on a mini-adven-ture. Explore another part of town, discover a local museum, or take a class that interests you. Stepping out of your normal routine juices your creativity.

i Make time to play. Carve out 15 or 20 minutes to pursue an activity you love. Playing is candy for the soul.

o start a walking group. Walking and talking for an hour is great exercise and like free therapy!

p Dine and play. Invite other moms, whose husbands travel or work late, for a two-hour afternoon play date and potluck dinner. Dinner done, kids sleep well, and you’re rewarded with a quiet evening ahead!

a Coordinate a group outing to a favorite local attraction. Go to a favorite standby like the Seneca Park Zoo, The Strong, or Rochester Museum and Science Center or try somewhere new you’ve never visited. Need fresh ideas? Check out our archive of Out & About locales on our website at www.gvparent.com. Both you and your kids will appreciate the social interaction, exercise and education these venues offer.

s Check out the library. Libraries often feature interest-ing presenters, book clubs and other activities. Attend a few discussions to meet others with shared interests.

d Organize a game night or book club with your friends. You and your friends will love the excuse for a lively evening escape!

f Reach out to a recep-tive member of a group of moms. If she is an active volunteer at your child’s school in activities that interest you,

ask how you can get involved.

g Rejuvenate at the spa. A study at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center found Swedish massage in particular reduces the stress hormone cortisol and boosts immunity by increasing white blood cells which fight infection and disease. Time at a spa can soothe mind and body.

h Reconnect with your spouse. Find a sitter, get dressed up and head out for a date night. Feeling sociable? In-vite another couple to join you.

j Throw a neighborhood backyard BBQ. Provide outdoor games like badminton, horseshoes, volleyball, chalk, bubbles and hula hoops for the kids to play together.

k support a friend who sells make-up, jewelry, cookware or candles by accepting an invitation to one of the parties. Go with a budget and enjoy hanging out with other women.

l Take a break. Schedule time alone to head to a pottery place and paint; go clothes shopping; or watch a movie.

; Regroup with your kids. Set aside a relaxing afternoon to reconnect with your kids. Head to the park for a picnic lunch, play a board game, try ice skating or go bowling.

z Touch base with your family around the dinner table. Communication builds stronger families. Talk about your day’s highs and lows, dis-cuss frustrations and celebrate successes. Freelance journalist Christa Melnyk Hines is the author of Confidently Connected: A Mom’s Guide to a Satisfying Social Life. Find her in the “Confidently Connected Moms” discussion group on Facebook.

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canandaigua yacht club youth Sailing camps3524 west lake rd., canandaigua, Nywww.sailcyc.com

director of Sailing instruction: Steve heinzelman585-586-8253, [email protected]

ages 7- 18. one-week sessions June 24 - august 23. No experience necessary. Boats provided. introduce your kids to an activity that delivers a lifetime of rewards. details and applications on web site under Sailing, instruction.

dK dance Studiowebster, Ny 14580585-872-3350 www.dkdancestudio.com

classes and camps for all levels, ages 2&up! evening classes in hip-hop, Jazz,

Ballet, tap and more! day time camps like our popular princess camp and pop-Star camp!

reGiStratioN taKiNG place Now! limited claSS SiZeS! call to schedule a studio tour!

Summer Camps & Activities

rochester clayworks203 milburn St. behind 201, rochester,Ny 14607

[email protected] 585-705-2000

at rochester clayworks, we encourage one to create a personal expression in clay! using hand building techniques, such as coiling,

slab, and pinching, create a box form, vase or sculpture. decorate your work with many colors and a choice of clear, blue, tan or turquoise glaze. Summer Kid’s clay class: last two weeks in July & august , monday, tuesday,friday, 10-12n or 2-4pm.fee: $57 per child

Thinking summer?Time to think about camps and summer programs for the kids as they transition for the summer. No way that kids will say “i’m bored!” when they view our annual Camp Guide and online list of programs.

<------------------ Day Camps Overnight Camps

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patty flowerday School of dance & fitness (pfS of dance)located in “Spotlight” 3 railroad Street fairport585-319-5806 pattyflowerdaydance.com Summer fun dance camps and classes offered in Ballet, Jazz, tap, lyrical, hip hop, modern, Stretch & Strength.

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allendale columbia School pre-primary program519 allens creek rd., rochester, 14618 585-641-5344 [email protected] www.allendalecolumbia.orgNow well into its second century, allendale columbia is a leading independent co-ed school for students in nursery through grade 12. here, learning goes far beyond books and tests. we have the freedom to dig

deeper so students can question more, discuss, debate, and question again so they develop critical thinking skills and become effective problem solvers. our faculty connects knowledge to real life so our students can make more sense of the world–and their place in it.

Child Care, Montessori & Preschool Providers Guide

margaret’s house child care center at rit112 lomb memorial drive, rochester, 14623 475-5176, voice/tty www.rit.edu/studentaffairs/margaretshouse

come to visit our center and see our excellent staff in action – a high quality fun-filled environment for chil-dren to learn and grow! infants through preschool, a full-day Kindergarten, and innovative summer program activities for grades 1-4.

Northstar christian academy (Nca) daycare & preschool332 Spencerport road, rochester, Ny 4606 247-8620 www.edline.net/pages/nca

follow the daycare links Summer 2013 theme: armor of God a place where “children find learning fun”. childcare for 3–12 years offered year round. preschool classes run the school year. weekly summer camp offered for all ages. hot/cold meals & snacks provided. call us or stop by for a visit anytime. 7am-5:30

Whether you need a full day care program, after-school services or

in-home care, this guide gives a vast array of services and options

available.

Child Care Centers

Child Care Resources

Montessori Programs

Preschool & Nursery schools

ymca of Greater rochester585-546-5500 rochesterymca.org/childcare

innovative youth programs are offered for children 6 weeks-12 years old including

preschool, upk, and before and after school enrichment. they are centered around nine research-based core components such as tutoring and mentoring, college and career exploration, 21st century skills, service learning, family engagement, and more! our focus is on the intellectual, social/emotional, and physical development of youth. financial assistance is available.


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faith child care & Nursery School2576 Browncroft Blvd., penfield 385-2360 ~ http://www.fccnschildcare.com/

fccNS - an outstanding opportunity to learn and develop social conscious-ness in a christian setting; providing quality programs for ages 8 wks.-12 yrs. including nursery school, infant/toddler/preschool, and before/after school care for Kindergarteners and up. plus,

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CalendarActivities • Exhibits • Theater • Storytelling • Shows • Family Fun • Outdoor Adventures

Parenting Programs • and lots more for families to do in & around Rochester!

Serendipity Walk11 18 & 19

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Enjoy a guided walk with shariee Edersheim and have an adventure exploring areas of the Cumming Nature Center property not typically accessible to the public. Experience different types of terrain, including wet areas, so proper footwear is encouraged. saturday May 11, 9:30-11:30am. Members: free, $3/person, $10/family. RMsC Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples, 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

Each Literature Live weekend offers the opportunity to meet, greet, and pose for photos with some of the most pop-ular storybook characters of all time and enjoy related story reading. This weekend: Olivia! May 18, 11am-4pm, May 19, 1-4pm. included with admis-sion. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Birding and Boating Series

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Enjoy the first canoe/kayak paddle of the season on the seneca River. Bird songs will rain down from the tree canopy while paddling the tranquil waters around Howland’s island. Bring your own canoe/kayak or rent one. saturday May 25, 1:30-4:30pm. $7.50/child without rental, $12.50/adult without rental, $25/solo kayak rental, $40/canoe rental Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588. www.audubon.org

Thomas is charged up and ready to GO, GO for the 2013 Day Out With Thomas tour! Day

Out With Thomas provides an oppor-tunity for kids to take a ride with their favorite tank engine, meet the railway controller sir Topham Hatt, have fun in imagination station, and much more! Ready, set... Go, Go Thomas!

Where: Medina Railroad Museum, 530 West ave. Medina, NY 14103

When: May10-12, 17-198:45am-6:30pm with rides departing appox. every 25 mins.

Cost: $18 for ages 2 and up

For More Info: Call 798-6106 or visit www.railroadmuseum.net

All Aboard for Day Out with Thomas

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calendar of events • local family-friendly activities

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04 * Saturday 7th AnnuAl Wildlife festivAl- CelebrAting importAnt bird AreAs. Enjoy puppet shows, games, crafts, artisan vendors, great food, live music, canoeing on Crusoe Creek, bounce house and much more! 10am-3pm. Free for children under 5, $1/school-aged child, $3/adult. Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588. www.audubon.org

edible lAndsCAping. Create a unique and beautiful landscape by combing fruit trees, edible fruit vines, herbs, berries and greens with your current or new landscape. 2-4pm. Wayside Garden Center, 124 Pittsford Palmyra Road Macedon, 14502. 223-1222, x100. www.waysidegardencenter.com

polAr beAr AWAreness dAY. Learn about the perils polar bears are facing in the wild through touch table stations, family-friendly activities and more. a Polar Bear Enrichment demonstration will also be taking place. 10am-4pm. included with zoo admission. seneca Park Zoo, 2222 st. Paul st. Rochester. 336-7123. www.senecaparkzoo.org

rhinos vs CitY islAnders. OPENiNG NiGHT! Come early and enjoy $1 drafts and hot dogs during pregame! The 1st 2500 fans will receive a 2013 magnet schedule. 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. sahlen’s stadium, 460 Oak street, Rochester, 454-KiCK (5425). www.rhinossoccer.com

WeAving And fiber Arts Center open house. Fiber lovers, celebrate spring! You’ll learn all about our classes in dyeing, felting, knitting, spinning, weaving and more.You’ll see weaving and warp-making demonstrations, ply split braiding, and drop-spindle spinning, among other techniques. 1-4pm. studio 1940, Piano Works Mall, 349 West Commercial st., East Rochester, 14445. www.weaversguildofrochester.org

05 * Sunday mothers dAY ContAiner WorKshop. Get free assistance and planting soil in designing your own customized container planting. Choose from herbs, annuals, perennials, grasses, orchids and houseplants. Bring in your own container or purchase one. 2-4pm. Wayside Garden Center, 124 Pittsford Palmyra Road Macedon, 14502. 223-1222, x100 www.waysidegardencenter.com

06 * Monday mondAY KiCKs for Ages 2 to 6. Playful learning activities designed for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month. This month: Color My World. 10am-2pm. Free with admission. ages: 2-6yrs. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

toddler booK Club At the strong. Readings of classic children’s tales followed by music and movement activities. This month: Color Me Happy. shows at 10:30am, 11:30am & 12:30pm. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

07 * Tuesday mom’s Club of penfield/eAst roChester/brighton. Offers support and socialization for stay at-home moms and children. Open to all moms in the Penfield, East Rochester and Brighton school districts. Meets the second Tuesday of month. 10-11:30am. For location, email [email protected]

08 * Wednesday mArsh volunteer event. Volunteers of all ages are welcome to enhance forest habitat for birds and other wildlife by participating in a honeysuckle removal project at the MaC. We’ll provide the tools; you provide the elbow grease. 9am-1pm. Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588 www.audubon.org

09 * Thursday moms Club of ClArKson/hAmlin. The MOMs Club of Clarkson-Hamlin holds daily activities as well as occasional evening events for you and your child. We offer playgroups, family activities, field trips, kid’s activities, moms and couples nights out, and many other activities. 10am. 502-8805. www.frontiernet.net/~clarksonhamlinmomsclub/

10 * Friday dAY out With thomAs: the go go thomAs tour. Thomas the Tank Engine is pulling into the station for a larger than life experience. Take a ride with Thomas, sir Topham Hatt, activities including arts & crafts, storytelling and more. 25 min rides all day. 8:45am-6:30pm. $18 for ages 2 and up. Medina Railroad Museum, 530 West ave., Medina, 798-6106. www.railroadmuseum.net

lilAC festivAl 2013. Ten days of free entertainment, daily special

events. Continues through May 19. 10:30am-8:30pm. Highland Park Festival site, 1440 south ave., Rochester, 14620. 256-4960. www.lilacfestival.com

red Wings vs. Columbus. Post-game Fireworks, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

11 * Saturday dAY out With thomAs: the go go thomAs tour. see May 10.

lilAC festivAl 2013. see May 10.

mArsh volunteer event. see May 8.

red Wings vs. Columbus. Legends Card strip Giveaway (1st 1,000 fans 21 & older), presented by CollectorFest Monthly, Magnet Giveaway (1st 2,500 fans), Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field ,1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com bubblefest. a day-long celebration of bubbles! Outdoor tents full of bubble activities: a kiddie car wash, bubble crafts, live music and more! special presentation by the Corning Museum of Glass. Rain or shine. 10am-4pm. included with museum admission. Buffalo Museum of science, 1020 Humboldt Pkwy., Buffalo, 14211. 716-896-5200. www.sciencebuff.org

serendipitY WAlK. Enjoy a guided walk with shariee Edersheim, and have an adventure exploring areas of the property not typically accessible to the public. Experience different types of terrain, including wet areas, so proper footwear is encouraged. 9:30-11:30am. Members: free, $3/person, $10/family RMsC Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

12 * Sunday dAY out With thomAs: the go go thomAs tour. see May 10.


red Wings vs. Columbus. Mother’s Day Celebration and Post-Game Catch on the Field. Knot Hole Kid’s Club Game. Chili’s Grill & Bar Post-Game Run the Bases with spikes & Mittsy, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 1:05pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field ,1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

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13 * Monday lilAC festivAl 2013. see May 10.

red Wings vs. Columbus. Basch & Nickerson LLP Kids Eat Free (1st 500 kids 12 & under will receive a hot dog, soda & snack item), Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field ,1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

toddler booK Club At the strong. Readings of classic children’s tales followed by music and movement activities. This month: Color Me Happy. shows at 10:30am, 11:30am & 12:30pm. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

14 * Tuesday lilAC festivAl 2013. see May 10.

red Wings vs. durhAm. M&T Bank/Messenger Post Media Family Four-Pack Night, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm. Varies by seat. Frontier Field ,1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

15 * Wednesday mArsh volunteer event. see May 8.


Meet Fairy Houses author Tracy Kane, learn how to build a fairy house, dress up like a pixie, and more. Presented in conjunction with the Fairy Houses Tour at the 45th annual Corn Hill arts Festival. Saturday June 8, During regular museum hours. included with museum admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

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a day-long celebration of bubbles! Outdoor tents full of bubble activities: a kiddie car wash, bubble crafts, live music

and more! special presentation by the Corning Museum of Glass. Rain or shine. Saturday May 11, 10am-4pm.

Buffalo Museum of science, 1020 Humboldt Pkwy., Buffalo 14211. 716-896-5200. www.sciencebuff.org

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moms Club of irondeQuoit. Moms and kids are finding support, friendship and more. We look forward to meeting you! Meets the third Thursday of the month. 9:30-11am. Check web site or email april at [email protected].

red Wings vs. durhAm. Democrat & Chronicle Wings Wednesday, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

senior soJourn. Discover the signs of spring as senior naturalist, shariee Edersheim, Mrs. E, leads the way on an informative and easy hour-long walk to marvel at the beauty of the outdoors. 9:30-10:30am. $3 person, $10 per family. Free for members. Cumming Nature Center, 6472 Gulick Road, Naples. 374-6160. www.rmsc.org

16 * Thursday lilAC festivAl 2013. see May 10.

montezumA birding hiKe. a 2-mile long walk over uneven terrain will provide excellent opportunities to hone visual and audio identification skills of songbirds. Bring binoculars or borrow a pair from us. 9-11am. $3/child; $5/adult; $15/family. Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588 www.audubon.org

red Wings vs. durhAm. alternate parking for weekday games: fans can park at Oak street lots, including Kodak lot D, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 3:35pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

free *WAr boY to WAr horse. award-winning author Michael Morpurgo will talk about his life writing, the journey from being a WWii baby to becoming Britain ’s Children’s Laureate, and ultimately the success of War Horse on stage and screen. admission is by ticket only. 7pm. Free, but tickets are required. Linehan Chapel, Nazareth College , 4245 East avenue , Rochester. 328-6658. go.naz.edu/arbuthnot-lecture

17 * Friday dAY out With thomAs: the go go thomAs tour. see May 10.


red Wings vs. durhAm. Post-game Fireworks, presented by Local Toyota Dealers, Pride & Passion Night, with pre-game vintage base ball exhibit, Knot Hole Kid’s Club Game, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field,1

Morrie Way, Rochester, Parking Lot 333, North Plymouth ave. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

18 * Saturday AnimAl brthdAYs At the zoo. Celebrate the birthday of your favorite zoo animals! “Happy Birthday” song and treats for the birthday animal, a docent-run touch table station. if you want to bring a gift see the website for ideas! Today’s Birthday: anastasia & Katya, amur tigers. 1-3pm. included with admission. seneca Park Zoo, 2222 st. Paul st. Rochester. 336-7123. www.senecaparkzoo.org

birding vAn tour. Ducks, geese & swans are on the move as the spring migration season is upon us. Hop in the van for an excursion to birding hotspots where hundreds of thousands of waterfowl can be seen! Participants are encouraged to bring their camera and binoculars. 9am-12pm. $7.50/child; $12.50/adult Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588 www.audubon.org

dAY out With thomAs: the go go thomAs tour. see May 10.

finger lAKes regionAl invention Convention. The 100 best ideas from young inventors between the ages of 5 and 14 will be on display at the RMsC for the Regional Convention. 9am-5pm. included with museum admission. Rochester Museum & science Center, 657 East ave. 271-1880. www.rmsc.org

greAter roChester teen booK festivAl. The 8th annual TBF is open to everyone, but seating preference will be given to teen readers at all sessions. No registration required, check website for this years line up of authors. 9am-5pm. Nazareth College, shults Center, 4245 East avenue, Rochester, 14618. 223-9091. www.teenbookfestival.org

identifiCAtion series WAlK: WoodlAnd WildfloWers. Uncover the wonders of the outdoors during a three-part journey. shariee Edersheim guides visitors into the wonderful world of wildflowers and trees. Edersheim also provides a brief explanation of the use of field guides. 10am-12pm. $3 per person or $10 per family, member free. Cumming Nature Center 6472 Gulick Road Naples, 14512. 374-6160 www.rmsc.org


literAture live: oliviA. Each Literature Live weekend offers the opportunity to meet, greet, and pose for photos with some of the most popular storybook characters of all time and enjoy related story reading. 11am-4pm. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

nAtionAl tAp dAnCe dAY. a series of workshops and a public performance dubbed, ‘Musical Feet: Tap as an american art Form.’ some workshops require payment, see website for full schedule and details. 10am-2:15pm. Hochstein Performance Hall, 50 North Plymouth ave. Rochester, 14614. 454-4596. www.hochstein.org

free *orienteering At mendon ponds pArK, hopKins point lodge. a sport that combines racing with navigation. individual participants use a map/compass to select routes and visit control points. Can also be enjoyed as a walk in the woods. instruction is available. all ages, dress for weather. 10am-12pm. Mendon Ponds Park, Pittsford, 14534. www.roc.us.orienteering.org/news.shtml

rhinos vs orlAndo CitY. RDYsL Opening Night! all Rochester area youth soccer players in attendance will be honored during a special pregame cermony. Wear your uniform and represent your club! 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. sahlen’s stadium, 460 Oak street, Rochester, 454-KiCK (5425). www.rhinossoccer.com

19 * Sunday dAY out With thomAs: the go go thomAs tour. see May 10.

lilAC festivAl 2013 - finAl dAY. see May 10.

literAture live: oliviA. Each Literature Live weekend offers the

opportunity to meet, greet, and pose for photos with some of the most popular storybook characters of all time and enjoy related story reading. 1-4pm. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

free *mAKe Your oWn suCCulents ContAiner gArden. Bring your own container or purchase one, then learn how to combine succulents and other compatible plants into long-lasting displays. Year-round color, easy to bring indoors. We provide free soil, help and workspace. Kids welcome with adults. 2-4pm. Wayside Garden Center, 124 Pittsford Palmyra Road Macedon, 14502. 223-1222, x100 www.waysidegardencenter.com

20 * Monday toddler booK Club At the strong. Readings of classic children’s tales followed by music and movement activities. This month: Color Me Happy. shows at 10:30am, 11:30am & 12:30pm. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

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The 8th annual TBF is open to everyone, but seating preference will be given to teen readers at all sessions. No registration required, check website for this years line up of authors. Saturday May 18, 9am-5pm. Nazareth College, shults Center, 4245 East avenue, Rochester, 14618. 223-9091. www.teenbookfestival.org

23 * Thursday red Wings vs. ChArlotte. Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

24 * Friday red Wings vs. ChArlotte. Post-game Fireworks, presented by NY 529 College savings Plan, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

25 * Saturday red Wings vs. ChArlotte. EsL Federal Credit Union Post-game Fireworks, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

AnimAl brthdAYs At the zoo. Celebrate the birthday of your favorite zoo animals! “Happy Birthday” song and treats for the birthday animal, a docent-run touch table station. if you want to bring a gift see the website for ideas! Today’s Birthday: Genny C & Lilac, african elephants 1-3pm. included with admission. seneca Park Zoo, 2222 st. Paul st. Rochester. 336-7123. www.senecaparkzoo.org

birding And boAting series. The first canoe/kayak paddle of the season on the seneca River. Bird songs will rain down from the tree canopy while paddling the tranquil waters around Howland’s island. Bring your own canoe/kayak or rent one. 1:30-4:30pm. $7.50/child w/out rental, $12.50/adult w/out rental, $25/solo kayak rental, $40/canoe rental Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588 www.audubon.org

26 * Sunday red Wings vs. ChArlotte. as part of Turn Back the Clock Day all ticket levels (Premium, Upper Box & Reserved seating) will be only $5! 50 Cent Hot Dogs, presented by Zweigle’s. Magnet Giveaway, Post-Game Run the Bases with spikes & Mittsy, Pre-Game autograph Booth. 1:05pm Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

27 * Monday red Wings vs. lehigh vAlleY. Basch & Nickerson LLP Kids Eat Free (1st 500 kids 12 & under will receive a hot dog, soda & snack item, Knot Hole Kid’s Club Game, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 1:05pm Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

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Walks! // & worthy causes04 * Saturdayfree *WAlK to ConneCt 3. Friends of the irondequoit Library are hosting Walk to Connect 3 at both library branches. Walk from 9-11am. Entertainment 10am - 1pm. information, cost to walk and registration forms at library branches, or online. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.walktoconnect3.com

05 * Sundayfree *operAtion Kidfit 5K. Youth ages 8-18 are invited to take part in Operation KidFit 5K. This 5K is designed so that anyone can participate. Particiapnts can run or walk or do little of both. Our hope is that youth will think about their health and take action! 8:30am. seneca Park, 2222 st Paul st 14617. 271-4552 ext. 463.

roChester south West Crop WAlK. Funds raised from pledges will go locally to southwest Ecumenical Ministries (sWEM) to support Foodlink’s Backpack Program that supplies weekly supplemental food to children at two city schools. 2-3:30pm. Carlson Commons, 70 Coretta scott Crossing, Rochester. 328-0856, www.cropwalkonline.org

free *gArAge sAle/fundrAiser. Huge indoor Garage sale to benefit preschool and PTO. Great family bargains! 1:30 Bag sale. One day only. 8am-2pm. Temple Beth El, 139 Winton Road south, Rochester, 14610. 473-1770. www.tberochester.org

09 * Thursday free *hAppY hour bill lAWler AnnuAl huntingtons 5K. Happy hour and auction! Numerous friends and vendors supply fantastic prices for this event. also runners can pick up their registration bag, T-shirt and number! There will also be celebrity bartenders. You’ll never know who you will run to! 6-9pm. ages: 21+ Matthew’s East End Grill 200 East avenue Rochester, 14604. 734-6730. www.huntingtons5k.com

11 * Saturday 5K run for fun 2013. CP Rochester is hosting its annual 5K Run for Fun and one mile walk. Proceeds will benefit fitness and wellness initiatives for individuals with physical and developmental disabilities. 9aM. $20 prior to april 13/ $25 after. CP Rochester 3399 Winton Road south Rochester, 14623. 334-6000 x1339. www.CPRochester.org/RunForFun

free *bill lAWler AnnuAl huntingtons 5K. Join us to help raise money and awareness about Huntington’s disease. Bill Lawler is an avid runner, father, husband & Rochester police officer. He’s recently been diagnosed with Huntingtons disease. Everyone is welcome- 5K race or 2 mile walk! 9am. Matthew’s East End Grill 200 East ave Rochester, 14604. 734-6730. www.huntingtons5k.com

17 * Friday pAlmYrA’s CommunitY Wide gArAge sAle. Last year bargain hunters found items ranging from antiques to baby clothes. The Palmyra community will have the opportunity to set up their own booths in the Village Park, or stay home and sell their goods. 8am-1pm. Free to attend, $5 to vend. Palmyra Village Park, Route 31 Palmyra, 14522. 597-4849.

June01 * Saturday stepping out to Cure sClerodermA. Welcome walk season and step out to cure scleroderma. Bring family and friends to support this great cause. Registration 9am, walk beings at 10. 9am. seneca Park Longhouse shelter, 2222 st. Paul street Rochester, 14621. http://walks.sclerodermatristate.org/


28 * Tuesday red Wings vs. lehigh vAlleY. M&T Bank/Messenger Post Media Family Four-Pack Night, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

29 * Wednesday red Wings vs. lehigh vAlleY. Legends Card strip Giveaway (1st 1,000 fans 21 & older), presented by CollectorFest Monthly, Democrat & Chronicle Wings Wednesday, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 7:05pm Varies by seat. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

30 * Thursday red Wings vs. lehigh vAlleY. alternate parking for weekday games, fans can park at Oak street lots, including Kodak lot D, Education Day, presented by alfred state College and NY 529 College savings Plan, Hillside Family of agencies Pre-Game autograph Booth. 11:05am. Ticket prices vary. Frontier Field, 1 Morrie Way, Rochester. 234-7660. www.RedWingsBaseball.com

free *roChester greeK festivAl. Live entertainment, dancing, Greek food, children’s activities and church tours. 11am-11pm. Greek Orthodox Church of the annunciation, 962 East ave., Rochester. 244-3377. www.rochestergreekfestival.org

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31 * Friday rhinos vs lA blues. Hometown Heroes Night. Don’t miss the post game fireworks. 7:35pm. Ticket prices vary. sahlen’s stadium, 460 Oak street, Rochester. 454-KiCK (5425). www.rhinossoccer.com

free *roChester greeK festivAl. see May 30.

June01 * Saturday free * roChester greeK festivAl. Live entertainment, dancing, Greek food, children’s activities and church tours. 11am-11pm. Greek Orthodox Church of the annunciation, 962 East ave., Rochester. 244-3377. www.rochestergreekfestival.org

zoobilAtion: 2013. Enjoy champagne, live music & cocktails w/a cause! Fundraiser benefits educational programs, kids’ camps, programs & initiatives, day-to-day operations & more at the Zoo. 5:45pm. $80+/person. ages: 21+. seneca Park Zoo, 2222 st. Paul st. 336-7123. www.senecaparkzoo.org

montezumA birding hiKe. a 2-mile long walk over flat terrain will provide excellent opportunities to hone visual and audio identification skills of songbirds and waterfowl. Bring binoculars or borrow a pair. 2-3pm. $3/child; $5/adult; $15/family. Montezuma audubon Center, 2295 state Route 89, savanna, 13146. 315-365-3588 www.audubon.org

02 * Sunday free *roChester greeK festivAl. see June 1.

03 * Monday mondAY KiCKs for Ages 2 to 6. Playful learning activities designed for 2- to 6-year-olds, one Monday a month. This month: Gardens Galore. 10am-2pm. Free with admission. ages: 2-6yrs. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

toddler booK Club At the strong. Readings of classic children’s tales followed by music and movement activities. This month: Garden stories. shows at 10:30am, 11:30am & 12:30pm. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

07 * Friday free * fitzsimmons AnnuAl June shoWCAse. Presented by the 2012-2013 students. Performed by ages 3-18. This year its all about a toy store. Not a recital, but a show! 7pm. The auditorium Theatre, 875 East Main st., Rochester. 425-7164. www.fdancef.com

rhinos vs montreAl impACt. Friday Night Frenzy! The 1st 1000 fans will receive a set of Rhinos thunder sticks, courtesy of Wendy’s. 7:35pm. Varies sahlen’s stadium, 460 Oak street, Rochester, 454-KiCK (5425). www.rhinossoccer.com

08 * Saturday AnimAl brthdAYs At the zoo. Celebrate the birthday of your favorite zoo animals! “Happy Birthday” song and treats for the birthday animal, a docent-run touch table station. if you want to bring a gift see the website for ideas! Today’s Birthday: Kaba & Princess, snow leopards. 1-3pm. included with admission. seneca Park Zoo, 2222 st. Paul st. 336-7123. www.senecaparkzoo.org

fAirY house mAgiC. Meet Fairy Houses author Tracy Kane, learn how to build a fairy house, dress up like a pixie, and more. During regular museum hours. included with museum admission. National Museum of Play

at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

free *fitzsimmons AnnuAl June shoWCAse- Afternoon shoW. see June 7. 2pm. The auditorium Theatre, 875 East Main st., Rochester. 425-7164. www.fdancef.com

free *fitzsimmons AnnuAl June shoWCAse- evening shoW. see June 7. 7pm. The auditorium Theatre, 875 East Main st., Rochester. 425-7164. www.fdancef.com

identifiCAtion series WAlK: trees. Uncover the wonders of the outdoors during a three-part journey. shariee Edersheim guides visitors into the wonderful world of wildflowers and trees. Edersheim also provides a brief explanation of the use of field guides. 10am-12pm. $3 per person or $10 per family, member free. Cumming Nature Center 6472 Gulick Road Naples, NY 14512 374-6160 www.rmsc.org

literAture live: the verY hungrY CAterpillAr. Each Literature Live weekend offers the opportunity to meet, greet, and pose for photos with some of the most popular storybook characters of all time. 11aM-4PM. Free with admission. National Museum of Play at The strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org



Library // programs & activities01 * Wednesday time for tots. Forty minutes of free play with toys followed by a twenty minute story time. 10:15-11:15am. ages: 1-5yrs. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.libraryweb.org

04 * Saturday CinCo de mAYo CrAfts for Kids. Children will be able decorate and take home a set of Maracas (musical instruments) and make a sombrero (traditional Mexican head-wear) Register in advance at 533-1370. 11am-12pm. ages: 6yrs+. Rush Public Library, 5977 East Henrietta Road Rush, 14543. 533-1370. www.libraryweb.org/rush

06 * Monday storY time. For ages 2 1/2 years-old to 5 years-old with a caregiver. stories, songs, fingerplays, circle games, toys, and a snack are all part of the program. 10:15-11am. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org

teen Writing group. Do you like to write? Have you been looking for a place to share your writing with other teens? Meet on the 1st & 3rd Monday each month to write, share, edit, and laugh. Please register. 5-6:30pm. ages: 7-12 grade Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

07 * Tuesday evening CrAft series for tWeens. Craft: Friendship Bracelet - This is a craft project that can be completed in the allotted time. all materials for the crafts will be provided free of charge. Class size is limited to 20 people, so register early. 6:30-7:30pm. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org

teen AdvisorY boArd. Be a part of the Teen advisory Board. Grades 7-12. No registration. 6-7pm. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7093. www.hpl.org

09 * Thursday sit, Knit & stitCh. all ages are welcome (beginners and experts) Bring and work on your own project and enjoy the company of others who enjoy needlecraft like knitting,

stitching and crocheting. Bring your own snack or beverage if you wish. 6:30-8pm. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org

three Cheers for mom. show Mom how much you love her by making framed handprints to give to her and have a special snack of tea and cookies! 6:30pm. ages: 2yrs+. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org

11 * Saturday toddler dAnCe pArtY. Dance your sillies out. Toddlers and their caregivers will have a blast listening and dancing along to some of their favorite tunes. 10:15-10:45am. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7093. www.hpl.org

13 * Monday bAbY storYtime. storytime with Miss amy. songs, rhymes, and stories followed by play and social time. ages 0-23 months 11:30am. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org

lAdder brACelet. Learn a new technique (clam shells) while making this beautiful and light weight bracelet using seed beads. all supplies provided. Please register. 6:30-8:30pm. $10 supply charge. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

toddler storYtime. storytime with Miss amy. songs, rhymes, and stories followed by time to color and socialize. 10:30am. ages: ages 2-3 yrs. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org

14 * Tuesday gAtes grAphiC novel group. Bring in your favorite graphic novel to share with the rest of the participants. Be sure to invite your friends as well! 5:30-6:30pm. ages: Grade 7-12. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org

presChooler storYtime. storytime with Miss amy. songs, rhymes, and stories followed by a simple craft project. 11:30am. ages: ages 4-5 yrs. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper

Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org


15 * Wednesday time for tots. Forty minutes of free play with toys followed by a twenty minute story time. 10:15-11:15am. ages: 1-5yrs. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org

16 * Thursday musiC And movement. incorporates musical instruments (bells, shakers, rhythm sticks, boomwhackers,...) and creative movement for a fun-filled interactive program. Please register. 10:15-10:45am. ages: 3-6 yrs. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

18 * Saturday reAd to emmie the sheepdog. Emmie is a 4 year old shetland sheepdog, and she would love to hear you read to her! Children of all ages can practice reading to Emmie. 10:30 am. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org

20 * Monday bAbY storYtime. storytime with Miss amy. songs, rhymes, and stories followed by play and social time. ages 0-23 months. 11:30am. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org

gArden pArtY. Celebrate spring and the growing season with a planting project and outdoor games. For ages 5-10. Younger siblings are welcome if accompanied by a caregiver. 3pm. East Rochester Public Library, 111 West Elm st., East Rochester, 428-8248. www.libraryweb.org/erochester

teen Writing group. Do you like to write? Have you been looking for a place to share your writing with other teens? Meet on the 1st & 3rd Monday each month to write, share,

edit, and laugh. Please register. 5-6:30pm. ages: 7-12 grade Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7092. www.hpl.org


21 * Tuesday hoW to rAise A moneY-smArt Child presented bY edWArd Jones. it is vital to teach your children the different choices they have for money. ‘Raising a Money-smart Child’ Tools will help you teach your children and grandchildren the basic building blocks for making good financial decisions. 6:30-8pm. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org

presChooler storYtime. storytime with Miss amy. songs, rhymes, and stories followed by a simple craft project. 11:30am. ages: ages 4-5 yrs. irondequoit Public Library - Evans Branch 45 Cooper Road Rochester, 14617. 336-6062. www.libraryweb.org


22 * Wednesday lego Club. The library will provide the bricks and challenge participants to be as creative as possible. Registration required. 4-4:45pm. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7093. www.hpl.org

29 * Wednesday AmeriCAn girl booK Club: mollY. Join in celebrating all things Molly! Read an excerpt from one of her books, make a craft, and learn. Please register. 4:15-5pm. Henrietta Public Library, 455 Calkins Rd. 359-7092. www.hpl.org

lego Club. Hear a story, then build with our LEGOs! Call to register. 6:30-7:30pm. ages: 5-12yrs. Gates Public Library 902 Elmgrove Road, Rochester, 14624. 247-6446 www.gateslibrary.org


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Ongoingevents & exhibits

Wegmans super Kids Market undergoes exciting renovations this spring thanks to additional support from Wegmans Food Markets inc. From new lighting and a kid-sized Market Café—complete with organic foods, prepared foods, and sushi bar—to a themed toddler area that encourages farm-fresh eating, kids of all ages will enjoy role-play at interactive areas that expand their understanding of how to eat and live well. included with museum admission. National Museum of Play at the strong, One Manhattan sq., Rochester, 14607. 263-2700. www.museumofplay.org

Wegmans super kids Market at the national Museum of Play at the strong

special Note! Exhibit improvements are expected to be completed before July 1. During construction, it is likely that all or part of the exhibit will close during select times between May 17 and the end of June. Grand opening tentatively scheduled for June 29. We’ll keep you posted!

sTRasENBURGH PLaNETaRiUM657 East ave., Rochester 14607. 271-1880. www.rmsc.org/strasenburghPlanetarium/ Check web-site or call for prices and hours

MY PLaNETs. For children ages 3-5 and the adults with them, this friend-ly introduction to the planetarium features worlds in our solar system. saturdays at 10am. $8. ages: 3-5yrs. Ends aug 31.

saTURDaY NiGHT LasER sHOW. intensely colored beams from argon and krypton lasers fill the planetarium dome with dazzling color patterns that spontaneously dance to classic rock music. shows change monthly. 9:30pm. $9-$10. ages: 5+.

saTURDaY sUN, MOON aND sTaRs. This relaxed, enjoyable family show presents prominent constellations and takes the audience on a quick trip to the moon. show Times: confirm at rmsc.org. $8-$10.

aMaZiNG JOURNEYs.Embarking on impressive treks across thousands of miles, the creatures fea-tured in the film exemplify astonishing feats of stamina and perseverance in their efforts to ensure survival of their offspring. see website for full details. $3-7. ROCHEsTER MUsEUM & sCiENCE CENTER657 East ave., Rochester 14607. 271-1880. www.rmsc.org Check website or call for prices and hours

aDVENTURE ZONE. Dive to the bottom of Lake Ontario in the Deep submergence Vehicle simulator. Experiment with wind currents, stream erosion, and more.

aT THE WEsTERN DOOR. The hundreds of objects dis-played show the seneca’s and Haudenosaunee’s creative response to new technologies and materi-als introduced following European Contact.

DisCOVER OUR WEaTHER. Make a cloud, measure the wind, and marvel at the power of lightning! ENERGiZE iT. What powers our bodies, cities and planet, and is neither created nor destroyed? ENERGY. ENERGiZE it brings you through a multi-sensory, highly physical experience where YOU hold the power!

EXPEDiTiON EaRTH. Explore your connections to the natural world in this interactive natural science exhibition.

FLiGHT TO FREEDOM. Rochester’s Underground Railroad. Explore stories of courageous african americans who traveled through Rochester on their way from slavery to freedom. HOW THiNGs WORK. Through fun, hands-on investigation, find out how mechanisms such as light switches, thermostats, and traffic signals work. K’NEX. Be an engineer! Build trucks, towers- anything you can imagine with this colorful construction toy.

RaCEWaYs. Experiment with momen-tum, friction, gravity, and acceleration as you send wooden balls looping and racing over ramps. KEVa PLaNKs. Construct your own wooden master-piece with KEVa Planks--identical, stackable construction blocks. Blending science with art, KEVa planks bring out the designer, archi-tect and engineer in each of us.

LiGHT HERE-LiGHT NOW. Have hands-on fun with light, color, & optics with mirrors, lenses & lasers.

NaTiONaL MUsEUM OF PLaY aT THE sTRONG One Manhattan sq., Rochester 14607. 263-2700 or TDD 423-0746, www.museumofplay.org Check website or call for prices and hours

GaME TiME! Move like a piece on a giant game board through three centuries of american games, puzzles, and public amusements.

aMERiCaN COMiC BOOK HEROEs: THE BaTTLE OF GOOD Vs. EViL. Climb up the side of a building, make your own cape, test your superhero skills, pose for pictures with spiderman and learn more about your favorite comic book hero. NaTiONaL TOY HaLL OF FaME. The prestigious hall features historic examples of toy inductees and play stations.

BERENsTaiN BEaRs: DOWN a sUN-NY DiRT ROaD. step into the playful world of the Berenstain’s including Main st, Bear Country school, Brother & sister Bear’s Club Houses, and the Family Tree House. CaN YOU TELL ME HOW TO GET TO sEsaME sTREET? see yourself on TV with the Muppets, drive Elmo around sesame street in a big yellow taxicab, sell movie tickets at the Circle in the square Cinema ticket booth, and more.

DaNCiNG WiNGs BUTTERFLY GaRDEN®. The team has raised the bar by introducing a variety of birds and animals into the garden to cre-ate a lively ecosystem that they have dubbed “butterfly garden 2.0.”

eGaMEREVOLUTiON. an original, highly interactive exhibit that explores the history of video games and their impact on the way we play, learn, and relate to each other.

ONE HisTORY PLaCE. amid original artifacts and reproductions, children explore mini-environments and get a taste of life as it was a century ago.

REaDiNG aDVENTURELaND. step into a life-sized pop-up book and follow the Yellow Brick Road into five literary landscapes from chil-dren’s books.

sUPER KiDs MaRKET. Cruise the aisles and fill your cart with a selection of colorful produce that looks so real, you can almost taste it. Departments are filled with highly interactive stations for dramatic role-playing.



PLEasE NOTE: Dates and times for all calendar and ongoing events are subject to change. Please call the numbers provided or visit their website to confirm event infor-mation.

To submit an event to our calendar e-mail: [email protected]

NEW: submit your calendar events online at www.gvparent.com/calendar/

calendar-submit all entries must be received by the 10th of the month prior to publication in order to be considered. Events printed as space permits.

THE ELaiNE WiLsON aND sTRONG EXPREss TRaiN. Experience the thrill of old-fashioned train travel as the mini locomotive chugs down the track sur-rounded by scenic postcards from across america.

OTHER aREa aTTRaCTiONs

CUMMiNG NaTURE CENTER: a 900-acre preserve located 40 minutes south of Rochester. $3 per person/$10 family. 6472 Gulick Rd., Naples. 374-6160, www.rmsc.org

WHEM aNKH: THE CiRCLE OF LiFE iN aNCiENT EGYPT. Travel back into the past at a time when everything from birth to death revolved around the seasons and the river of life - the Nile. The Buffalo Museum of science, 1020 Humboldt Pkwy, Buffalo. 716-896-5200 www.sciencebuff.org

CULTUREs FOR KiDs. Learn about kids from all over the world. $5. Explore & More children’s museum, 300 Gleed ave., E. aurora. 716-655-513. www.exploreandmore.org

TOUR THE RiEDMaN ROBOTiC MiLKiNG CENTER. Tours available Mon-sat 11am-2pm. $2-$3. springdale Farm, 700 Colby street, spencerport. 349-2090 www.heritagechristianservices.org

THE HERsCHELL CaRROUsEL FaCTORY MUsEUM. Operates two historic carou-sels. 180 Thompson st., North Tonawanda, 14120. 716-693-1885 www.carrouselmuseum.org a sTEP iNTO aFRiCa. This state of the art exhibit, focusing on the Ngorongoro Crater region of Tanzania, is the only one of its kind in the country. included with admission. seneca Park Zoo, 2222 st. Paul st, Rochester, 14621. 336-7200. www.senecaparkzoo.org

GENEsEE COUNTRY ViLLaGE & MUsEUM. Meet and chat with the village potter, storekeeper, printer, tinsmith and blacksmith. speak with re-enactors and townsfolk about the clothing styles of the period and visit select pieces from the museum’s historic clothing collection. 1410 Flint Hill Rd., Mumford. 538.6822. www.gcv.org.

CORN HiLL NaViGaTiON. all aboard the sam Patch & Mary Jemison! These authentic tour boats embark from Pittsford and Rochester, and provide unparalleled opportunities to experience history and enjoy relaxing getaways that showcase the beauty and ingenuity of america’s cele-brated Erie Canal. For details please call 585-662-5748 or visit www.samandMary.org.


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The Red Wings have called Rochester home for 84 years and after attending a game it’s easy to see why. As far as fun family activities go, it’s one of the best, and it’s the perfect summer pastime. Fresh air, team work, good sportsmanship, and - let’s be honest here – junk food! I think we can all agree there’s no food quite like the treats you get at the ballpark. Zweigel’s, Mama Mittsy’s, Red Osier – they even have Gluten and allergy sensitive options, Atkins-friendly, vegetarian, Healthy Hero approved meals! As if that weren’t enough reason to get you into the

stands, there are promotions and specials at each game. Go on a Monday or Tuesday to save with family deals and go back on the weekends for a free fireworks display after the games (Check out the regular promos by visiting the Red Wings site for even more game-specific ones.) There’s no such thing as a bad seat at Frontier Field, so no matter where you and your family sit, you won’t miss any of the action on the field or on the giant screen. You won’t be doing much sitting anyway once legend-ary organist Fred Costello gets his pipes warmed up – before you know it you’ll be

singing along and asking to come back to root, root, root for the home team! Can’t make the game but don’t want to miss the action? Check out the live Frontier Community Cam on the Red Wings website. You can also enter to win a family pack of tickets, good for any regular 2013 season game, from us all summer long. Check out the Giveaway page for details. See you at the game! ,

Natalee Kiesling is the Community Editor for Rochester Area & Genesee Valley Parent Magazine.

spring is here and for many americans that means one important thing: Baseball is back! The boys of summer are rested up and ready to show you

and your family a great time at the ball park.

batter up! // rochester red wings baseball

out & about[ ] By Natalee Kiesling

Where it’s located: Frontier Field, One Morrie silver Way, Rochester, 14608

When it’s open: For full sched-ule of games and events visit www.redwingsbaseball.com

special Events & attractionsBall Park BirthdaysCelebrate your birthday at a Red Wings game! Birthday packages include decorations, cake, tickets to the game, a gift for the guest of honor and goodies for the attend-ees, a visit from a Red Wings mascot and more. You can even have the birthday announced over the Pa and a photo on the video-board during the game! For more info or to schedule call 454-1001 ext. 3053.

The knot Hole Gang kids’ ClubMembers (kids ages 4-14) can attend all Red Wings Knot Hole games for only $4 per game ($5 day of game). Parents/guardians of members receive $1 off their ticket when attending Knot Hole games with their child. The mem-bership card also includes deals on snacks, and a free Red Wings poster. Members also get cool benefits like the opportunity to be an Honorary Coach, throw out the first pitch at a game, a ViP behind the scenes tour, or a photo and autograph session with a player.

Cost: Ticket prices range from $6-$12 depending on group size and seat location.

For more information: Call 454-1001, ticket office: 423-WiNG (9464) or visit www.redwingsbaseball.com and follow on Twitter @RocRedWings

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