Gd Conflict
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Conflict
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Confrontation and Escalation
Conflict escalate. Although the parties to theconflict may hope to reach a solution to theirdispute quickly, a host os psychological and
interpersonal factors can frustrate theirattempts to control the conflict.
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Uncertainty Commitment
As conflict escalate, group members doubts
and uncertainties are replaced by a firmcommitment to their position.
They seek out information that supports theirviews, they reject information that conflicts with
their stance, and they become entrenched intheir original position.
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Uncertainty Commitment
Once people commit to a position publicly,they must stick with it. they may realize thatthey are wrong, but to save face, they continue
to argue with their opponents.
Dollar auction can illustrate the impact of
commitment to conflict.
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Perception Misperception
Individuals reactions during conflict are
shaped in fundamental ways by theirperception of the situation and the people inthat situation.
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Perception Misperception
When group members argue, they mustdetermine why they argue.
- if the argument is the group attempts to
make a right decision, disagreement will notprobably turn into true conflict, but if thedisagreement is about the others
incompetence, belligerence orargumentativeness, disagreement canescalate into conflict.
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Perception Misperception
If perceptions were always accurate, peoplewould understand one another better.Unfortunately, perceptual biases regularly
distort individuals inferences.
They fall prey to the fundamental attributionerror(FAE) and assume that other peoples
behavior is caused by personal (dispositional)rather than situational (environmental) factors.
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Perception Misperception
Because of the FAE, group members assumethat people who give them critical feedback,
argue with them, or mistreat them in some waydo so deliberately, and that their actions reflectbasic flaws in their personalities.
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Perception Misperception
Four possible strategies:- competition
- cooperation
- individualism- altruism
When describing their partners motives, the
players were most accurate when playing anindividualistic or competitive person, and leastaccurate in interpreting cooperation andaltruism.
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Weak Tactics StrongerTactics
People use weaker tactics at the outset of aconflict, but as the conflict escalates, they shift
to stronger and stronger tactics.
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Weak Tactics StrongerTactics
Behavior Example Percentage Using
RequestStatements
DemandsComplaintsProblemsolvingThird partyAngryThreatHarassment
Abuse
May I use the glue?We need the glue.
Give me the glue, now!Whats wrong with you? Why dont youshare?You can use our stapler if you share theglue.Make them share.Im mad now.Give me the glue or else.Im not giving you anymore ribbon until
you return the glue.You are a selfish swine.
100.0100.0
88.979.273.645.841.722.216.7
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Reciprocity Upward Conflict
Spiral
Conflict-ridden groups may seem normless,with hostility and dissatisfaction spinning out ofcontrol. Yet upward conflict spirals are in many
cases sustained by the reciprocity, for thatnorm suggests that people who harm you arealso deserving of harm themselves.
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Reciprocity Upward Conflict
Spiral
If interactants followed the norm of reciprocityexactly, a mild threat would elicit a mild threatin return, and an attack would lead to a
counterattack. But interactants tend to followthe norm of roughreciprocity- they give toomuch (overwhleming) or too little(undermatching) in return.
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Few Many
Coalitions exist in more groups, but whenconflict erupts, group members use coalition toshift the balance of power in their favor.
The initial disagreement may involve only twogroup members, but as conflicts intensify,
previously neutral members often join with onefaction.
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Few Many
Coalitions can even link rivals who decide tojoin forces temporarily to achieve specificoutcome.
Coalitions contribute to conflicts because theydraw more members of the group into the fray.
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Few Many
Coalitions often viewed as contentious, heavy-handed influence tactics.
Coalitions form withpeople and againstotherpeople.
Thus, coalitions must be constantly maintainedthrough strategic bargaining and negotiation.
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Irritation Anger
Few people can remain calm and collected in aconflict. When disputes arise, tempers flare,and this increase in negative emotions
exacerbates the initial conflict.
Even when group members begin bydiscussing their points calmly anddispassionately, as they become locked intotheir positions, emotional expression begins toreplace logical discussion.
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Irritation Anger
Group members, when negotiating withsomeone who has become angry, tend tobecome angry themselves.
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Conflict resolution
Commitment Negotiation
Negotiation is a reciprocal communication
process whereby two or more parties to adispute examine specific issues, explain theirpositions, and exchange offers and
counteroffers.
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Two types
1. Distributive negotiation
retain competitive orientation and make smallconcessions.
2. Integrative negotiation
not competitive conflict management method.
types of negotiators: soft bargaining, hardbargaining, and principled negotiators.
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Comparisons between the three approaches tonegotiation.
Element Soft negotiation Hard negotiation Principle negotiation
Perception ofothers
Friend Adversaries Problem solvers
Goal Agreement victory A wise outcomereached efficiently and
amicablyConcessions Make concessions
to cultivate therelationship
Demandconcessions as acondition ofrelationship
Separate the peoplefrom he problem
People vsProblem Be soft on thepeople and theproblem
Be hard on theproblem and thepeople
Be soft on the people,hard on the problem
Trust Trust others Distrust others Proceed independentlyof trust
Position Change yourposition easily
Dig into yourposition
Focus on interests, notposition
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Negotiation bottomline
Make offersDisclose your
bottom line
Make threatsMislead as to your
bottom line
Explore interestAvoid having a
bottom line
Losses and gain Accept onesidedlosses to reachagreement
Demand one-sidedgains as a price ofagreement
Invent options formutual gains
Search Search for a single
answer- the onethey will accept
Search for a single
answer-the oneyou will accept
Develop multiple
options to choosefrom; decide later
Criteria Insist onagreement
Insist on yourposition
Insist usingobjective criteria
Contest of will Avoid a contest ofwills
Win the contest ofwills
Reach a resultbased onstandards,independent of will
Pressure Yield to pressure Apply pressure Reason and beopen to reason;yield to principle,
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Misperception Understanding
-conflicts are based on misperception.
-actively communicating.
-communication is no cure-all for conflict.
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Strong tactics Cooperative tactics
Group members cope with conflict in differentways.
Four basic categories:
1. Avoiding inaction
2. Yielding giving in to the demand of others.
3. Fighting forcing others to accept their view.
4. Cooperative rely on cooperation
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The four basic methods of dealingwith conflict
Dimension Negative Positive
Active Fighting Cooperative
Passive Avoiding Yielding
U d D d
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Upward Downwardconflict spirals
- consistent cooperation increase mutual trust.
- continually compete with each other, mutual rustbecome elusive.
tit for tat (TFT) bargaining strategy that begins
with cooperation, but then imitates the otherpersons choice so that cooperation is met withcooperation and competition with competition.
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What is the best way to manage
conflicts?
What should you do when a conflict takes overyour group? Should you encourage membersto deal, up front and directly, with their dispute?
Or is it best to just look the other way and letthe hard feeling fade with the passage of time?
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Carsten De Dreu
And his colleagues suggested thatcollaborative approaches sometimesaggravate the group conflict more than they
molify it. Negative and positive methods of dealing with
conflicts were both associated with negativeteam functioning
Only avoiding responses were associated withincreases in group adjustment to the conflict
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Avoidance
Either we play or we fight.
Sometimes, the best way to deal with someonewho is disagreeable, irritating, or aggravating is
to ignore the conflict and focus instead on thework to be done.
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Tit For Tat Strategy
Cooperation is met with cooperation andcompetition with competition
A provocable, forgiving and reciprocal
strategy TFT is less effective when:
Theres any delay in responding to cooperation
If a group member competes is not counteredquickly
its in a noisy interaction or larger groups
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Mediators
Help group members reach a mutually agreeablesolution to their dispute
Inquisitorial Procedure: mediator questions thetwo parties and hands down a verdict that the twoparties must accept
Arbitration: the disputants present their argumentsto the mediator, who then bases his or herdecision on the information they provide
Moot: the disputants and the mediator openly andinformally discuss problems and solutions, but themediator can make no binding decisions
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NOTE: if the disputants want to resolve the
conflict on their own terms, third-partyinterventions are considered an unwantedintrusion
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Composure
Positive affective responses increaseconcession making, creative problem solving,cooperation, and the use of non-contenious
bargaining strategies Hence, when tempers flare, the group should
encourage members to regain control overtheir emotions
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Ways in reducing conflicts
Count to ten technique
Calling a time out
Expressing concerns in a written (and carefully
edited) letter or email
Humor into the group discussion
Apologies
Developing norms that prohibit shows ofstrong, negative emotion
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Value of Conflict
Conflict is a natural consequence of joining agroup
It is also an undeniably powerful process in
groups For example, the Apple company
Insofar as conflict is resolved successfully, it
could stabilized the group and serve as aunifying force
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Disadvantages of Conflict
Can do more harm than good
Undermines satisfaction
Disrupts performance
Engenders negative emotions
Can trigger violence
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Types of Conflicts
Relationship conflict: causes interpersonaldisruptions
Task conflict: stimulate members to improvethe way they work together
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Summary
What is conflict?
Conflict: actions and beliefs of one or moremembers of the group are unacceptable to and
resisted by the other members Intergroup conflict: involves two or more
groups
Intragroup conflict: occurs within a group Follows a cycle from conflict escalation to
resolution
What are the sources of conflict
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What are the sources of conflictin groups?
1. Most common sources are competition,conflicts over the distribution of resources,power struggles, decisional conflicts, and
personal conflicts
2. Competition creates conflict by pitting
members against one another, whereascooperation leads to mutual gain
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Mixed-motive situations stimulate conflict for ittempt individuals to compete rather thancooperate
Norm of reciprocity encourages responding tocompetition by competing
Those with a social values orientation are more
likely to compete than are those withcooperative or individualistic orientations
Both sexes use more contentius influencemethods when paired with a man
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3. Social dilemmas tempt members to act in theirown self interest to the detriment of the groupand its goals
Disputes arise when one or more member: Exploit a shared resource
Do not contribute their share in a dilemma
Disagree on how to divide up resources
Do not agree on the norms to follow when appointingresources
Avoid blame for group failure or take too muchpersonal responsibility for group success
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4. Members respond negatively to perceivedmistreatment because it calls into questiontheir status and inclusion
5. Power struggles: members vie for control overleadership, status, and position
6. Substantive conflict stems from disagree-ments about issues that are relevant to the
groups goals and outcomes7. Procedural conflict occur when members do
not agree on group strategies, policies, andmethods
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8. Personal conflict occurs when individualmembers do not like one another
Any factor that causes disaffection between group
members can increase personal conflictMore prevalent in diverse groups
Balance theory predicts that group members willrespond negatively when they disagree with those
they like or agree with those they dislike
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Why does conflict escalate?
1. Once conflict begins, it often intensifies beforeit begins
2. When individuals defend their viewpoints,
they become more committed to theirpositions
3. Conflict is exacerbated by members tendency
to misperceive others and to assume that theother partys behavior is caused by personal
rather than situational factors
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4. Conflict between individuals escalated wheneach side could threaten the other
5. Other factors that contributes to conflict
Negative reciprocity, as when negative actionsprovoke negative reactions in other
Formation of coalitions that embroil formerlyneutral members in the conflict
Angry emotions that trigger expressions of angerby others
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How can group members manage theirconflict?
1. By negotiation, to identify the issuesunderlying the dispute and work together to
identify a satisfying solution to both sides2. By actively communicating information about
their motives and goals through discussion
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3. Avoiding, yielding, fighting, and cooperating
Cooperation is more likely to promote group unity
than all other tactics
Personal conflicts may not yield to cooperativenegotiations
4. Tit for tat strategy
5. Mediators can reduce conflict by imposingsolutions or guiding disputants to a
compromise
6. Positive affective responses reduce conflict
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Does conflict, when resolved, lead to
improved group functioning?
Conflict is a natural consequence of joining agroup and cannot be avoided completely
Conflicts, when resolved successfully, canpromote group functioning, but in general,conflict can do more harm than good
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