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    Conflict

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    Confrontation and Escalation

    Conflict escalate. Although the parties to theconflict may hope to reach a solution to theirdispute quickly, a host os psychological and

    interpersonal factors can frustrate theirattempts to control the conflict.

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    Uncertainty Commitment

    As conflict escalate, group members doubts

    and uncertainties are replaced by a firmcommitment to their position.

    They seek out information that supports theirviews, they reject information that conflicts with

    their stance, and they become entrenched intheir original position.

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    Uncertainty Commitment

    Once people commit to a position publicly,they must stick with it. they may realize thatthey are wrong, but to save face, they continue

    to argue with their opponents.

    Dollar auction can illustrate the impact of

    commitment to conflict.

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    Perception Misperception

    Individuals reactions during conflict are

    shaped in fundamental ways by theirperception of the situation and the people inthat situation.

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    Perception Misperception

    When group members argue, they mustdetermine why they argue.

    - if the argument is the group attempts to

    make a right decision, disagreement will notprobably turn into true conflict, but if thedisagreement is about the others

    incompetence, belligerence orargumentativeness, disagreement canescalate into conflict.

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    Perception Misperception

    If perceptions were always accurate, peoplewould understand one another better.Unfortunately, perceptual biases regularly

    distort individuals inferences.

    They fall prey to the fundamental attributionerror(FAE) and assume that other peoples

    behavior is caused by personal (dispositional)rather than situational (environmental) factors.

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    Perception Misperception

    Because of the FAE, group members assumethat people who give them critical feedback,

    argue with them, or mistreat them in some waydo so deliberately, and that their actions reflectbasic flaws in their personalities.

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    Perception Misperception

    Four possible strategies:- competition

    - cooperation

    - individualism- altruism

    When describing their partners motives, the

    players were most accurate when playing anindividualistic or competitive person, and leastaccurate in interpreting cooperation andaltruism.

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    Weak Tactics StrongerTactics

    People use weaker tactics at the outset of aconflict, but as the conflict escalates, they shift

    to stronger and stronger tactics.

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    Weak Tactics StrongerTactics

    Behavior Example Percentage Using

    RequestStatements

    DemandsComplaintsProblemsolvingThird partyAngryThreatHarassment

    Abuse

    May I use the glue?We need the glue.

    Give me the glue, now!Whats wrong with you? Why dont youshare?You can use our stapler if you share theglue.Make them share.Im mad now.Give me the glue or else.Im not giving you anymore ribbon until

    you return the glue.You are a selfish swine.

    100.0100.0

    88.979.273.645.841.722.216.7

    0.7

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    Reciprocity Upward Conflict

    Spiral

    Conflict-ridden groups may seem normless,with hostility and dissatisfaction spinning out ofcontrol. Yet upward conflict spirals are in many

    cases sustained by the reciprocity, for thatnorm suggests that people who harm you arealso deserving of harm themselves.

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    Reciprocity Upward Conflict

    Spiral

    If interactants followed the norm of reciprocityexactly, a mild threat would elicit a mild threatin return, and an attack would lead to a

    counterattack. But interactants tend to followthe norm of roughreciprocity- they give toomuch (overwhleming) or too little(undermatching) in return.

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    Few Many

    Coalitions exist in more groups, but whenconflict erupts, group members use coalition toshift the balance of power in their favor.

    The initial disagreement may involve only twogroup members, but as conflicts intensify,

    previously neutral members often join with onefaction.

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    Few Many

    Coalitions can even link rivals who decide tojoin forces temporarily to achieve specificoutcome.

    Coalitions contribute to conflicts because theydraw more members of the group into the fray.

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    Few Many

    Coalitions often viewed as contentious, heavy-handed influence tactics.

    Coalitions form withpeople and againstotherpeople.

    Thus, coalitions must be constantly maintainedthrough strategic bargaining and negotiation.

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    Irritation Anger

    Few people can remain calm and collected in aconflict. When disputes arise, tempers flare,and this increase in negative emotions

    exacerbates the initial conflict.

    Even when group members begin bydiscussing their points calmly anddispassionately, as they become locked intotheir positions, emotional expression begins toreplace logical discussion.

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    Irritation Anger

    Group members, when negotiating withsomeone who has become angry, tend tobecome angry themselves.

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    Conflict resolution

    Commitment Negotiation

    Negotiation is a reciprocal communication

    process whereby two or more parties to adispute examine specific issues, explain theirpositions, and exchange offers and

    counteroffers.

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    Two types

    1. Distributive negotiation

    retain competitive orientation and make smallconcessions.

    2. Integrative negotiation

    not competitive conflict management method.

    types of negotiators: soft bargaining, hardbargaining, and principled negotiators.

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    Comparisons between the three approaches tonegotiation.

    Element Soft negotiation Hard negotiation Principle negotiation

    Perception ofothers

    Friend Adversaries Problem solvers

    Goal Agreement victory A wise outcomereached efficiently and

    amicablyConcessions Make concessions

    to cultivate therelationship

    Demandconcessions as acondition ofrelationship

    Separate the peoplefrom he problem

    People vsProblem Be soft on thepeople and theproblem

    Be hard on theproblem and thepeople

    Be soft on the people,hard on the problem

    Trust Trust others Distrust others Proceed independentlyof trust

    Position Change yourposition easily

    Dig into yourposition

    Focus on interests, notposition

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    Negotiation bottomline

    Make offersDisclose your

    bottom line

    Make threatsMislead as to your

    bottom line

    Explore interestAvoid having a

    bottom line

    Losses and gain Accept onesidedlosses to reachagreement

    Demand one-sidedgains as a price ofagreement

    Invent options formutual gains

    Search Search for a single

    answer- the onethey will accept

    Search for a single

    answer-the oneyou will accept

    Develop multiple

    options to choosefrom; decide later

    Criteria Insist onagreement

    Insist on yourposition

    Insist usingobjective criteria

    Contest of will Avoid a contest ofwills

    Win the contest ofwills

    Reach a resultbased onstandards,independent of will

    Pressure Yield to pressure Apply pressure Reason and beopen to reason;yield to principle,

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    Misperception Understanding

    -conflicts are based on misperception.

    -actively communicating.

    -communication is no cure-all for conflict.

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    Strong tactics Cooperative tactics

    Group members cope with conflict in differentways.

    Four basic categories:

    1. Avoiding inaction

    2. Yielding giving in to the demand of others.

    3. Fighting forcing others to accept their view.

    4. Cooperative rely on cooperation

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    The four basic methods of dealingwith conflict

    Dimension Negative Positive

    Active Fighting Cooperative

    Passive Avoiding Yielding

    U d D d

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    Upward Downwardconflict spirals

    - consistent cooperation increase mutual trust.

    - continually compete with each other, mutual rustbecome elusive.

    tit for tat (TFT) bargaining strategy that begins

    with cooperation, but then imitates the otherpersons choice so that cooperation is met withcooperation and competition with competition.

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    What is the best way to manage

    conflicts?

    What should you do when a conflict takes overyour group? Should you encourage membersto deal, up front and directly, with their dispute?

    Or is it best to just look the other way and letthe hard feeling fade with the passage of time?

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    Carsten De Dreu

    And his colleagues suggested thatcollaborative approaches sometimesaggravate the group conflict more than they

    molify it. Negative and positive methods of dealing with

    conflicts were both associated with negativeteam functioning

    Only avoiding responses were associated withincreases in group adjustment to the conflict

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    Avoidance

    Either we play or we fight.

    Sometimes, the best way to deal with someonewho is disagreeable, irritating, or aggravating is

    to ignore the conflict and focus instead on thework to be done.

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    Tit For Tat Strategy

    Cooperation is met with cooperation andcompetition with competition

    A provocable, forgiving and reciprocal

    strategy TFT is less effective when:

    Theres any delay in responding to cooperation

    If a group member competes is not counteredquickly

    its in a noisy interaction or larger groups

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    Mediators

    Help group members reach a mutually agreeablesolution to their dispute

    Inquisitorial Procedure: mediator questions thetwo parties and hands down a verdict that the twoparties must accept

    Arbitration: the disputants present their argumentsto the mediator, who then bases his or herdecision on the information they provide

    Moot: the disputants and the mediator openly andinformally discuss problems and solutions, but themediator can make no binding decisions

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    NOTE: if the disputants want to resolve the

    conflict on their own terms, third-partyinterventions are considered an unwantedintrusion

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    Composure

    Positive affective responses increaseconcession making, creative problem solving,cooperation, and the use of non-contenious

    bargaining strategies Hence, when tempers flare, the group should

    encourage members to regain control overtheir emotions

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    Ways in reducing conflicts

    Count to ten technique

    Calling a time out

    Expressing concerns in a written (and carefully

    edited) letter or email

    Humor into the group discussion

    Apologies

    Developing norms that prohibit shows ofstrong, negative emotion

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    Value of Conflict

    Conflict is a natural consequence of joining agroup

    It is also an undeniably powerful process in

    groups For example, the Apple company

    Insofar as conflict is resolved successfully, it

    could stabilized the group and serve as aunifying force

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    Disadvantages of Conflict

    Can do more harm than good

    Undermines satisfaction

    Disrupts performance

    Engenders negative emotions

    Can trigger violence

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    Types of Conflicts

    Relationship conflict: causes interpersonaldisruptions

    Task conflict: stimulate members to improvethe way they work together

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    Summary

    What is conflict?

    Conflict: actions and beliefs of one or moremembers of the group are unacceptable to and

    resisted by the other members Intergroup conflict: involves two or more

    groups

    Intragroup conflict: occurs within a group Follows a cycle from conflict escalation to

    resolution

    What are the sources of conflict

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    What are the sources of conflictin groups?

    1. Most common sources are competition,conflicts over the distribution of resources,power struggles, decisional conflicts, and

    personal conflicts

    2. Competition creates conflict by pitting

    members against one another, whereascooperation leads to mutual gain

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    Mixed-motive situations stimulate conflict for ittempt individuals to compete rather thancooperate

    Norm of reciprocity encourages responding tocompetition by competing

    Those with a social values orientation are more

    likely to compete than are those withcooperative or individualistic orientations

    Both sexes use more contentius influencemethods when paired with a man

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    3. Social dilemmas tempt members to act in theirown self interest to the detriment of the groupand its goals

    Disputes arise when one or more member: Exploit a shared resource

    Do not contribute their share in a dilemma

    Disagree on how to divide up resources

    Do not agree on the norms to follow when appointingresources

    Avoid blame for group failure or take too muchpersonal responsibility for group success

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    4. Members respond negatively to perceivedmistreatment because it calls into questiontheir status and inclusion

    5. Power struggles: members vie for control overleadership, status, and position

    6. Substantive conflict stems from disagree-ments about issues that are relevant to the

    groups goals and outcomes7. Procedural conflict occur when members do

    not agree on group strategies, policies, andmethods

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    8. Personal conflict occurs when individualmembers do not like one another

    Any factor that causes disaffection between group

    members can increase personal conflictMore prevalent in diverse groups

    Balance theory predicts that group members willrespond negatively when they disagree with those

    they like or agree with those they dislike

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    Why does conflict escalate?

    1. Once conflict begins, it often intensifies beforeit begins

    2. When individuals defend their viewpoints,

    they become more committed to theirpositions

    3. Conflict is exacerbated by members tendency

    to misperceive others and to assume that theother partys behavior is caused by personal

    rather than situational factors

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    4. Conflict between individuals escalated wheneach side could threaten the other

    5. Other factors that contributes to conflict

    Negative reciprocity, as when negative actionsprovoke negative reactions in other

    Formation of coalitions that embroil formerlyneutral members in the conflict

    Angry emotions that trigger expressions of angerby others

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    How can group members manage theirconflict?

    1. By negotiation, to identify the issuesunderlying the dispute and work together to

    identify a satisfying solution to both sides2. By actively communicating information about

    their motives and goals through discussion

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    3. Avoiding, yielding, fighting, and cooperating

    Cooperation is more likely to promote group unity

    than all other tactics

    Personal conflicts may not yield to cooperativenegotiations

    4. Tit for tat strategy

    5. Mediators can reduce conflict by imposingsolutions or guiding disputants to a

    compromise

    6. Positive affective responses reduce conflict

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    Does conflict, when resolved, lead to

    improved group functioning?

    Conflict is a natural consequence of joining agroup and cannot be avoided completely

    Conflicts, when resolved successfully, canpromote group functioning, but in general,conflict can do more harm than good

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