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Gabriela Mafi, Ed.D.Superintendente
Ensuring your Child’s Success:
What The Research Says
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What do we want for What do we want for our children?our children?
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Education is KEYEducation is KEY
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How Can We Get Them How Can We Get Them There?There?
Focus on1. SKILL (school work )2. WILL (effort)
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School Work at SchoolSchool Work at School• Attendance
oBe at school every day
• Attention o Stay focused in class
• AttitudeoRespecto Efforto Pride
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School Work at HomeSchool Work at Home• School work at home is MORE
THAN homeworkoReading practiceoWriting practiceoMath practiceoReading about science and historyoListening to ACADEMIC LANGUAGEoTalking using ACADEMIC
LANGUAGE
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School Work at HomeSchool Work at Home• Set aside additional hours
OUTSIDE OF SCHOOL for school work at homeo This grows every yearoDon’t just rely on homework assigned
• Minimize TV and other distractionso YOU are in charge!
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Effort/Mindset Quiz!Effort/Mindset Quiz!• You are a certain kind of person, and there is
not much that can really be done to change that.
• You can learn new things, but you can’t really change how intelligent you are.
• You can always change basic things about the kind of person you are.
• You can do things differently, but the important parts of who you are cannot be changed.
• You can always substantially change how intelligent you are.
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Do You Believe ThatDo You Believe That• the intelligence you were born with is
unchangeable?• despite anything you do, you really
can’t get smarter?• you’re just naturally shy and that’s
the way you are?
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Or…Do You ThinkOr…Do You Think• Your intelligence can increase with
learning.• Your brain can ‘grow’ and you can be
smarter.• Your personality is flexible.
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Depending upon the Depending upon the areaarea
People fall into two mindsets:• Fixed
o The fixed mindset sees limitations on intelligence, personality, opportunities, etc.
• Growtho The growth mindset views challenges as
opportunities for improvement.
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When do you feel When do you feel smart?smart?
Fixed mindset:• “When I don’t make
any mistakes.”• “It’s when I finish first
and it’s perfect.”• “When something is
easy for me and others can’t do it.”
Growth mindset:• “When it’s really hard,
and I try hard, and I can do something I couldn’t before.”
• “When I work on something a long time and finally figure it out.”
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What’s the big deal?What’s the big deal?Fixed-mindset thinking results in:• a false sense of superiority, undermined by a
deep sense of self-doubt OR a sense of inferiority• a fear of failure; refusal to take risks.• a feeling that failure permanently defines you as
a loser.• the belief that only untalented, ungifted people
have to work for success; effort somehow reduces you.
• a desire to blame others or outside circumstances when things don’t go your way.
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Growth MindsetGrowth MindsetGrowth-mindset thinking results in:• a love for learning and self-improvement.• a desire to be challenged.• a willingness to work for positive results.• a belief that you can control the outcomes
in your life with effort and practice.• the ability to learn from mistakes and
failures. • emotional resilience.
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Parents: Praise Parents: Praise Process, Process,
Not ProductNot Product
How do you respond when your child succeeds without trying?
What about when he fails but tried very hard?
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Practice what you Practice what you preach.preach.
• Model growth-mindset thinking with your child.
• Explain how you deal with challenges and how you continue to learn.
• Don’t label yourself in ways that demonstrate a fixed mindset:o “I’m a terrible cook.”o “I always had trouble in math too.”
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Praise effort, practice, and Praise effort, practice, and
process – not outcome.process – not outcome.• When your child succeeds, talk about
the work that went into the success. • Praise persistence and perseverance.
• Focus on the positive habits your
child practiced and the choices she made which led up to the success.
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Use “failures” as an Use “failures” as an
opportunity for reflection and opportunity for reflection and
growth.growth.• Don’t use labels, and don’t let your child
use them. • Don’t shelter your child from the realities
of failure by placing blame on others.• Ask: “What can you learn from this
experience? What could you try differently the next time?”
• Involve your child in the problem-solving process, rather than meting out punishments.
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Make concrete plans for Make concrete plans for
growth.growth.• If your child identifies an area of weakness
or is struggling, help your child establish a concrete plan for improvement.
• Avoid vague solutions:o Ineffective: “I’ll study more.”o Better: “I’ll review my class notes nightly and
make flash cards for the difficult concepts.”
• Follow up with your child, and help him evaluate the process and refine the solution if necessary.
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Point out the perseverance/ effort Point out the perseverance/ effort
of favorite athletes and stars (and of favorite athletes and stars (and
you!)you!)• Discuss what habits (focus, goal-setting, daily
practice, commitment) enabled the athlete to be so successful.
• Avoid referring to a star athlete’s “natural” talent or “effortless” ability.
• Talk about famous people who failed in their early efforts.
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Questions? Questions?