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Make or Break Attracting Your Soulmate!CONNECT WITH ANYONE AT ANYTIME

Every relationship we have in life begins with an initial connection. Whatshould be a very simple part of the relationship building process more oftenthan not is difficult to master. One reason can be that often we try way toohard to find the perfect words or perfect actions to impress the other, whenin fact, the answer is usually much more about the emotions. By breakingthe ice in a light hearted way either through a smile, a humorous commentor an appropriate compliment, we will likely go a long way towardsuccessfully passing the first test in connecting with others. 

GAINING POINTS THROUGH TRUST

Likeability can be instantaneous but trust building generally takes a littlemore time to achieve. Trust builds not simply by how you momentarily feelin their presence but also through the process of getting to know them andobserving how they live their lives. In order to build trust in another personit’s really important to respect and care about them. Ways to achieve thatare by being competent at asking thoughtful and appropriate questions,being fully present when listening and by responding rather than reacting. 

TRANSFORMING FEAR TO BOLDNESS

One of the most common things that can sabotage relationships andcommunication in general is when you are overly pre-occupied with whatothers think about you. This pattern in fact, has less to do with others andmuch more to do with your own fears and insecurities that are triggeredby the others. Your goal should be to like yourself and be free fromobsessive need to be liked by  others. Great relationships always begin withthe relationship you have with yourself. Bold self-confidence is an importantpart of your inner fitness through personal development.

Make or Break Attracting Your Soulmate!MIND GONE WILD

One of the most important skills in communication is to be a great listener.In order to achieve this we need to cultivate such qualities as having acalm clear mind, humility and a strong desire to have a most positiveimpact on others. Yet, all too often our ability to listen effectively ishindered by a busy, scattered and hyperactive mind or worse, by beingnarcissistic and self centered. By mastering the art of listening we build trustand confidence in others and provide more thoughtful and meaningfulresponses, as it becomes more about them than YOU! 

THE COMMUNICATION DANCE

In order to be an effective communicator it is essential that you be able toobserve, listen and be aware of exactly who you are communicating with.Many people see interacting with others as a time to spout off their ownviews. In fact, a masterful and effective communicator, focuses much moreon who they are with and what that person needs at the time. Is the persontimid and  frustrated, are they macho and aggressive, are they a controller,scatter brained or sad and lonely. Remember, a big part of havingcompassion for others is understanding them!

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These are just 5 challenges that many peopleface in their ability to attract high qualityrelationships. If you spotted an area youwould like to improve in yourself, you nowhave a basic idea about how to address it. 

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