2019

OCTOBER

L I V E A N D L E A R N P R E S E N T S BEING MUSLIM

IN AMERICAwith Khalid and Sabeeha Rehman

Please join us Tuesday, October 8

at 4:00 pm in Piner Hall. Reception to follow.

Additional educational opportunities:October 7 1:00 pm –Wellness Center - Arbor Acres Book Club - All are welcome! Featuring Threading My Prayer Rug*, by Sabeeha Rehman’s.

7:00 pm –Centenary UMC

October 9 10:30 am –Piner Hall –An informal group discussion about Muslim family life, the Quran, Shariah and the Shia-Sunni divide.

Sponsored by Live and Learn and CUMC Music and Arts Ministry

Enjoy music from Big Band, Beach, and Rock and Roll eras, such as:

In the Mood, Under the Boardwalk Sentimental Journey and The Great Pretender.

Featured dances: Couple/Partner, Line, Group Open seating: NO reservations required!

Casual dress. Wine, beer, soft drinks and snacks provided.

Everyone welcome:

Couples, Singles, Guests

Come One, Come All!

FALL DANCE NITE WITH DJ JARRYD MOXLEY

Friday, October 257:00–9:00 pm

Piner HallFREE!

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October EventsTuesday, October 1

7:00 PM Ragtime Pianist Ethan Uslan Piner Hall Ethan Uslan's vast repertoire includes original arrangements of Civil-War era songs, African-American Spirituals, New Orleans Jazz, 1920's Charlestons, blues, stomps, Harlem stride piano, swing, Cuban rumbas, and jazzed-up versions of classical masterpieces.

Wednesday, October 25:00–5:40 PM Vespers: Blessing of the Animals Piner Hall To celebrate the feast of St. Francis of Assisi, bring your pet for a half hour Blessing of the Animals service. All are invited—pet or not. Also, join us every Wednesday as we gather for a midweek time of prayer and meditation. Ken & Kay Chalk

Advantage Off-Campus Resident

Jerry & Elizabeth “Lib” Cole 1106 John Wesley

William & Elizabeth Davis 1015 Epworth

Joseph & Bonnie Dempster 407 Stockton

Clay Eubanks 2102 Asbury Place

Judy Johnson 302 Asbury Place

Katherine Mason 504 Strickland Place

Patricia Shultz & John Shroyer 214 Womble

Frank & Rebecca Wyatt 625 Cokesbury

Welcome Newcomers!

Dining in OctoberRSVP for any dining event

by calling 336-722-5106, Press #3 unless otherwise noted.

Grillin’ ’n’ Chillin’ Thursday, October 17, 5:30–7:30 pm Womble Terrace, $30.00/person, incl. tax

The perfect pairing of live music & deliciously prepared grilled food. Enjoy tasty appetizers, salads, entrée options and seasonal side items. We won't forget the dessert! Space is limited. (Arbor Room, in case of rain). Featuring the music of the Silas Creek String Band with Beth Hyland and friends.

ARTIST SPOTLIGHT Reverend Clay Manning and Nia Darby, Environmental Arts. Reverend Manning, a resident since 2003, is currently in the Bowden

Household. Nia, who takes care of Reverend Manning's home, has been a dedicated employee since 2017 and enjoys interacting and conversing with Reverend Manning. Thank you to Reverend Manning for allowing us into his home and Nia for showing her true art and dedication.

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Please refer to the RC Calendar and Wellzesta for a complete listing of October events.

Thursday, October 310:00 AM Town Hall Piner Hall

All residents are encouraged to attend, or tune in via your iPad. Questions about how to view via iPad? Contact Alice at ext. 1260.

3:30 PM Communion hosted by St. Paul’s Episcopal Annie’s Kitchen, Asbury Place

4:15 PM Piedmont Opera Mary Queen of Scots Preview Piner Hall

Jamie Allbritten will talk about the upcoming production of Mary Queen of Scots. Advance ticket purchase and transportation sign up will be available during this event. The production will be Sunday, October 20. Cost is $43.00, plus tax & fees. RSVP by October 11 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

7:00 PM Triad Community Swing Band Piner Hall

Join this group for a swinging good time!

Friday, October 410:30 AM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby Dixie Classic Fair Trip

Seniors 62 and older can get in free with ID any day of the fair. Take money for lunch and purchases. We will return to Arbor Acres around 2:30 pm. RSVP by October 2 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

4:00 PM Friday Hymn Sings with Dr. Beth Maisonpierre Promenade, Asbury Place

Saturday, October 58:30 AM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 2:30 pm–Return Roadside Assistance for Aging St Anne’s Episcopal

Bring a bag lunch as we get some “roadside assistance” on aging. The conversations will include topics such as: cultivating spiritual friendships as we age, planning for our last days (not in the legal sense, rather what we want), our favorites—songs, foods, reading etc. Join with Laura-Lee who will provide transportation—call Laura-Lee at ext. 1382 or email ljones@arboracres.org with questions and to RSVP.

Sunday, October 611:00 am–12:00 PM Morning Worship –World Communion Sunday Robinson Hall

Monday, October 71:00 PM Book Club Tomlinson Wellness Center

The book is Threading My Prayer Rug by Sabeeha Rehman, available now from Denni Peebles for $13.50, and will be on sale after Town Hall October 3.

3:00–4:30 PM Caregiver Support Group Living Room, Floor, Asbury Place

Come feel heard, cared for and understood. Meets 1st and 3rd Mondays of each month. Contact Rev. Laura-Lee Jones at ext. 1382 for more information.

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Tuesday, October 84:00 PM Live & Learn Presents: Being Muslim in America with Sabeeha and Khalid Rehman Piner Hall

The challenge of practicing their faith in America and raising their children as Muslims forced Khalid and Sabeeha to carefully research and examine the origins and practices of Islam. Please plan to attend this thought-provoking presentation. Reception following.

Wednesday, October 910:30 AM Live & Learn Presents: Group Discussion with Sabeeha and Khalid Rehman Piner Hall

Join Sabbeha and Khalid for an informal group discussion about Muslim family life, the Quran, Shariah and the Shia-Sunni divide.

3:15 PM Reader's Theater Rehearsal with Audience Piner Hall

Come watch the Arbor Acres Players, directed by actors from 40+ Stage Company, read through two one-act comedies in preparation for their premiere October 15 at 7:00 pm.

Thursday, October 10 12:00 PM Men's Club Guest Speaker: Mike Wells, Attorney at Law Topic: Importance of Estate Planning, Tax Codes Piner Hall

Attorney Mike Wells will discuss the importance of estate planning and possible changes in the tax code that affect seniors. Q&A following.

Thursday, October 10 (cont.)12:00–1:00 PM Ladies Chat Facials with Emily Tomlinson Wellness Center, Ball Room

Enjoy a mini spa treatment with stylist/aesthetician, Emily, while learning about our services. Cost $10.00, billed to your account, for light lunch provided. RSVP by October 7 via Wellzesta or call Suzy at ext. 1227. See Wellzesta for more information.

2:00 PM Dream Works led by Rev. Kelly Carpenter, Green Street UMC Jean Steelman Chapel

ALL are welcome! This would be a great time to attend if you have been wanting to learn more about dreams. Rev. Kelly Carpenter leads us as we explore and learn more about our dreams, and what God reveals to us in dreams.

2:30–4:00 PM Oktoberfest Window Seat/Bay Window/Bistro

The Beer Growler, located in Robinhood Plaza, presents an Oktoberfest craft beer, cider & soda tasting! Join us to taste a variety of great craft beverages along with Oktoberfest snacks.

7:00 PM Pianist Fred Moyer Piner HallCome enjoy Fred's virtuoso playing and his "MoyerCam," a projection system that allows you to see his hands as he plays.

We RememberEvelyn Sapp May 28, 1925 –August 9, 2019

Linda Heckman November 25, 1938 –August 18, 2019

Annie Westmoreland July 10, 1938 –August 31, 2019

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Tuesday, October 15 (cont.) 7:00 PM Reader's Theater Performance Piner Hall

The Arbor Acres premiere performance of two specially selected plays will feature your friends and neighbors directed by actors from 40+ Stage Company. Can't make this performance? Come to dress rehearsal at 3:15 pm October 9 in Piner Hall.

Wednesday, October 168:00 AM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 10:00 AM–12:30 PM–Tour Person County Museum of History Tour

We will tour the eight Museum buildings. We will lunch at Brookland Eats Restaurant where owner-operator and executive chef is David Gaydeski, former executive chef to three NC governors. Cost is $5.00 for tour. Your account will be charged. Take money for lunch and other purchases. RSVP by October 7 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210. Rain date is October 23. Please reserve both dates on your schedule when you RSVP! Questions? Call Janice at ext. 1266.

Thursday, October 1710:30 AM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 11:00 AM–Tour Black Mountain Chocolate Factory Tour

We will tour the chocolate making process, and enjoy a guided tasting. This is sitting, standing & walking tour will last approximately one hour. Cost is $10.00 per person if 10 or more go. If less go, $100.00 tour cost will be divided equally between attendees. All will receive a coupon good for $5.00 off of $25.00 in purchases day of the event. RSVP by October 7 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

Friday, October 117:00 PM Friday Night at the Movies with Jim Shertzer Piner Hall

Romeo and Juliet

(2017) (Not Rated) Misty Copeland stars with Roberto Bolle in the full-length ballet based on Shakespeare’s romantic tragedy. The production was filmed on stage in January 15, 2017, at the famed Teatro alla Scala in Milan, Italy. In HD. (144 minutes).

Monday, October 146:30 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 7:00 PM–Program Poetry: True and False with Dr. Fredric Bogel Centenary UMC

Dr. Bogel, professor emeritus at Cornell University, will read and discuss several poems. An expert on 18th Century satire, Pope and Swift, Dr. Bogel is resident Jean Burroughs' son-in-law. Free. RSVP by October 7 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

Tuesday, October 1510:00 AM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 12:30 PM–Return Exploring Downtown with Milton Rhodes Trolley Tour

Mr. Rhodes will show us new development occurring throughout the downtown area. We will be getting on and off the trolley to tour sites, as well as for rest breaks. Limited seats available. We will return to Arbor Acres for lunch. Cost $35.00. Your account will be charged. RSVP by October 7 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

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Thursday, October 17 (cont.) 5:30–7:30 PM Grill’n n' Chill’n with Silas Creek String Band Womble TerraceSilas Creek String Band is an acoustic music trio with Bill McIlwain, Jake Ruddiman,and Beth Hyland. Join them for an evening of Bluegrass, Old Time, Rock, Blues, and Folk music! See Dining Arts page for menu and to RSVP.

Sunday, October 201:15 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 2:00 PM–Program Piedmont Opera: Mary Queen of Scots

Transportation for ticket holders. Contact Janice at ext. 1266 if you need help acquiring a ticket.

Monday, October 219:00 am until Bocce Tournament 5:30 pm–Cook Out Bocce Court

Everyone is invited to play, no experience required. We will have single and doubles matches and end the day with a cookout. Please see Alice to sign up.

7:00 PM Foreign Film Series with Jim Shertzer Piner HallRan

(1985) (Japan) (R –Violence). The great director Akira Kurosawa’s last masterpiece is a retelling of Shakespeare’s King Lear set in medieval Japan. Aging Lord Hidetora divides his kingdom among his three sons, with tragic consequences. One of Kurosawa’s four or five greatest films, with incredible color photography. (Japanese, with English subtitles). In HD. (142 minutes).

Tuesday, October 22 10:00 AM IMPROVment Class Ball Room, Tomlinson Wellness Center

All are welcome and no dance experience is needed. This hour-long class taught by WFU dance faculty member Christina Soriano and WFU students was originally designed for people living with Parkinson’s and their care partners, but can benefit anyone. All movement can be modified according to each individual’s ability. After the class we will discuss an exciting opportunity to participate in a research study.

3:00 PM Travel Showcase: Epic Journeys Piner Hall Discover exclusive trips designed especially for Arbor Acres! Travel in style with peace of mind. All trips offer the convenience of transportation and airfare (if applicable) from Arbor Acres. Travel with the security of a private cruise/tour manager who will take care of all your travel needs. These special trips are designed at a slower pace to enhance your overall experience and are created with our residents in mind. Refreshments and raffle for door prizes at presentation.

6:15 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 7:00 PM–Program Art Bloom: The Healing Power of Music Centenary UMC

Transportation for those who met RSVP deadline.

Thursday, October 24 4:00 PM Novant Health Speaker: John J. Smith, III MD Topic: "What’s going on 'down there' and what can I do about it?" Piner Hall

Don’t let bladder or pelvic health issues hold you back from living your best life. Join urologist Dr. Jack Smith as he discusses bladder issues both men and women experience. He will share the latest in treatment options.

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Thursday, October 24 (cont.) 7:00 PM Color in Music, Piano and Multimedia Concert Piner Hall This piano concert with pianist Nancy Revzen is accompanied by a film by Bernardo Moreira.

7:00 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 7:30 PM–Program WS Little Theatre: Wait Until DarkReynolds Place Theatre, Milton Rhodes Center

Cost $23.00, plus tax & fees. RSVP by October 17 via Wellzesta or call Annie at ext. 1210.

Friday, October 25 7:00–9:00 PM Fall Dance with DJ Jarryd Moxley Piner Hall

Come dance to Big Band, Beach, and Rock & Roll favorites. Couple/partner, Line and Group dances. Open Seating. Everyone welcome!

Sunday, October 27 2:15 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 3:00 PM–Program Winston-Salem Symphony Stevens Center

Transportation for ticket holders. Limited seating available. RSVP by October 22 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

Tuesday, October 2912:30 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 1:00–4:30 PM–Tour Footsteps Through History Walking Tour Old Salem & MESDA

Our two-day self-guided tour. Rain or shine. No refunds after RSVP deadline. Your account will be charged. Cost is $25.00. RSVP by October 1 via Wellzesta or call Annie at ext. 1210.

Tuesday, October 29 (cont.) 6:45 PM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 7:30 PM–Program Winston-Salem Symphony Stevens Center

Transportation for ticket holders. Limited seating available. RSVP by October 22 via Wellzesta or call Annie, the Concierge, at ext. 1210.

7:00 PM Guest Speaker: Lost in Yonkers 40+ Stage Company Piner HallJohn Hohn will be with us to discuss the 40+ Stage Company's production of Lost in Yonkers November 24.

Wednesday, October 309:00 AM–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby 9:30 AM–12:00 PM–Tour Footsteps Through History Walking Tour Old Salem & MEDSA

See info at October 29 listing.

6:30 PM Centenary UMC Children’s Concert Piner HallSeats will fill up fast. No 5:00 pm Vespers.

Thursday, October 31 Happy Halloween! Wear Your Halloween Costume

2:30 PM Storyteller Willingham Court

3:00 PM–Decorated Car/Cart Must Be In Place 3:30 PM–Trunk-or-Treating Begins 1st Annual Trunk-or-Treat Strickland Place Parking LotLive music. Please invite your family. Interested in decorating your car trunk or golf cart and handing out candy? If so, RSVP to Alice by October 24. See Wellzesta for more information.

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Cloverdale Shopping October 1 and 15, Leave 1:00 pm RSVP by Sept. 29 and Oct. 13, respectively.

Thruway Shopping Tuesdays, October 8 and 22, Leave 1:00 pm RSVP by October 6 and 20, respectively.

WalMart Shopping Thursday, October 24, Leave 1:00 pm RSVP by October 22 by Noon.

Dixie Classic Fair Trip Friday, October 4, Leave 10:30 am Take money lunch & purchases. RSVP by Oct. 2.

St Anne’s: Roadside Assistance for Aging Saturday, October 5, Leave 8:30 am Bring a bag lunch. RSVP to Laura-Lee at ext. 1382 or email ljones@arboracres.org.

NorCCRA Annual Meeting Tuesday, October 8, Leave 8:30 am Transportation for those who met RSVP deadline.

Reynolda Library Trip Wednesday, October 9, Leave 1:00 pm RSVP by October 7.

Ladies Chat: Facials with Emily Ball Room, Tomlinson Wellness Center Thursday, October 10, Start 12:00 pm Cost $10.00 for light lunch. RSVP by October 7.

Centenary UMC: Dr. Fredric Bogel Poetry: True and False Mon., Oct. 14, Leave 6:30 pm, Program 7:00 pm Free. RSVP for transportation by October 17.

Exploring Downtown with Milton Rhodes Trolley Tour Tuesday, October 15, Leave 10:00 am Cost 35.00. RSVP by October 7.

Person County Museum of History Tour Wednesday, October 16, Leave 8:00 am Cost $5.00 for tour. Take money for lunch & purchases. RSVP by October 7. Rain date October 23.

Black Mountain Chocolate Factory Tour Thurs., October 17, Leave 10:30 am, Tour 11:00 am Cost is $10.00 per person if 10 or more go. If less than 10 people, $100.00 tour cost will be divided equally between attendees. RSVP by October 7.

Piedmont Opera: Mary Queen of Scots Sun., Oct. 20, Leave 1:15 pm, Program 2:00 pm Transportation for ticket holders.

Centenary UMC: Art Bloom The Healing Power of Music Tues., Oct. 22, Leave 6:15 pm, Program 7:00 pm Transportation for those who met RSVP deadline.

WS Little Theatre: Wait Until Dark Weds., Oct. 23, Leave 7:00 pm, Program 7:30 pm Cost $23.00, plus taxes & fees. RSVP by October 17.

Winston-Salem Symphony Sun., Oct. 27, Leave 2:15 pm, Program 3:00 pm Tues., Oct. 29, Leave 6:45 pm, Program 7:30 pm Transportation for ticket holders. RSVP by October 22.

Old Salem Walking Tours Tues., Oct. 29, Tour 12:30–5:00 pm Weds., Oct. 30, Tour 9:00 am–12:30 pm RSVP by October 1. Cost $25.00.

1st Annual Trunk or Treat Strickland Place Parking Lot Thursday, October 31, Start 3:30 pm RSVP by October 24 via Alice.

Stevens Center, UNCSA’s Swan Lake Sun., Nov. 3, Leave 5:15 pm, Program 6:00 pm Transportation for ticket holders. RSVP by October 14.

Paint Like Bob Ross with Julie Belnap Multi-purpose Room, 3rd Floor Corpening Monday, November 18, 7:00–9:00 pm RSVP by November 11. Cost $40.00.

RSVP Events-At-A-GlanceThese events require registration, a ticket purchase and/or a transportation reservation. Please RSVP via Wellzesta or contact Annie Lawson, Concierge, at ext. 1210 before the deadline. Please indicate if no ticket is needed when requesting transportation only.

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R E S I D E N T S E M P L OY E E S

1st Carolyn HaleBetty Richardson Bojana Krupljanin

2nd

James BryantRevonda Carpenter

Joy Saylor

3rd Kitty Coble Sheila GreenAlethea Robinson

4th Jean HoleGeneva Walker Lisa Myers

5th

Winborne ChandlerAnn Listokin

David Wagoner

6th Emmie Long Courtney JohnsonSusan Koivisto

7th

Johana BoboMarlena Cartagena

Jane France

8th Betty Strickland

9th Charles AveraJane Williams

10th Jerry CookePaul BennettTeri Deieso

Donna Milholen

October Birthdays R E S I D E N T S E M P L OY E E S

11th Helena HerveyGordon Spaugh

12th

Brad EvansJoanne Raschke

Doris WhittTacarra Williams

13th Judy Doggett Stephen SandersSierra Simmons

14th

Nancy CorriherHilda Jones

Ruby Lambert

15th Rod BrownNancy Moore

16th Kay Cavallo

17th Peggy Zohorsky Christian AcevedoRandy Obando

18th Liz Vinson

19th Bill Howell Francis HenleyJulia Tampa

20th John Barnes

Latoya AllenRay HairstonEmily PizzinoDeja Reader

21st Steven Dunn Kristen DennyStephanie Mitchell

22nd Diane JoyceJessica GearhartTommie HairstonMason Williams

23rd John EarleCliff Summey

Lisa DunlapKaren Harrison

24th Ken Chalk25th Nancy Culp Lillian Johnson26th Patrick Orellana

27th David RiffeBianca Shaw

Lakisha MarshallTracy Shelton

28th

Sharon BachmanJane Kelly

Joann Sprink

Robert GayArrington Gray

Quiana Reynolds

29th Betty GroganMary Underwood

Tiffany AlmoustaphaJessica Tish

30th James Cavenaugh31st Ruth Deudney

November Look AheadStevens Center, UNCSA’s Swan Lake

Sunday, Nov. 3, Leave 5:15 pm, Show 6:00 pm

Transportation for ticket holders. RSVP by October 14. Contact Janice at ext. 1266 for assistance.

Paint Like Bob Ross with Julie BelnapMonday, November 18, 7:00–9:00 pm Multi-purpose Room, 3rd Floor Corpening. Join Julie Belnap, certified Bob Ross style painting instructor, for this one day class. All supplies, snacks and beverages will be provied. Cost is $40.00. RSVP by November 11. Minimum class size is six. Your account will be charged. No refunds after RSVP deadline. Questions? See Janice.

Live and Learn Presents John WilsonThursday, November 21, 4:00 pm Piner Hall. Join noted videographer John Wilson for a presentation of his documentary, Climate Stories.

Lamplighter is published monthly byArbor Acres United Methodist Retirement Community 1240 Arbor Road, Winston-Salem, NC 27104

The online version of Lamplighter is available at www.arboracres.org.

Questions? Contact Janice Lutz-Vanhoy,Wellness Arts Coordinator, at 336-748-4646 or jlutzvanhoy@arboracres.org

Walk to End Alzheimer’s DiseaseSaturday, October 26 9:30 am–Leaving Berrier Front Lobby Bailey Park

Held annually in more than 600 communities nationwide, the Alzheimer's Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s® is the world’s largest event to raise awareness and funds for Alzheimer’s care, support and research. This inspiring event calls on participants of all ages and abilities to join the fight against the disease! Wear your Arbor Acres Alzheimer’s t-shirt and walk the one or two mile course. Transportation provided. RSVP with Alice at ext. 1260, Suzy at ext.1227, or Janice at ext. 1266 or via Wellzesta. T-shirt order deadline is October 8. Call Alice at ext. 1260 to order.

New Classes in the Wellness CenterYou asked for them, and now they are here!

Flow Yoga Wednesday, 9:15 am Yoga Flow is a yoga class that incorporates energetic movement through a series of asanas (yoga postures), by which the student experiences a sense of fluid physical motion. We will have standing and mat work in the class. All levels are welcome!

Tai Chi for Arthritis and Balance Friday, 10:30 am A key concept in TCA is to do as much loosening of joints, attaining good balance, and strengthening core muscles with as possible while using as little exertion as possible. Participants can do the exercises while standing or sitting.