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1 ~an~e ~cr~ss Fie word ~/fcari~~r~ri ire ~~~ old Pr~ircfi magazine Hof the la~~ ~er~tr~r}F). I~v~t~ ii~tri~ued !~}~ this ttrord L~ec:~use it a~~e;~reci ~~~ the frc~ijr rover c~E tl~e rt~a~~z ryei~nexplait~e~1. I Ic~~ked it up i~~ 7'/~c: C7a{r~~~t 5~~r,~t~r I~i~tic~ncrry: ̀ a ~~renad~ c►E cau~i~n~tisi~ ~n~de «rich kert[c~ anal p~n~ ire t~:~ tra~~s ... ~s~e13n Fr:~tiE~ in ~~ierisic ~~ ~F irsec n-~rucsus m~rria~es, h~~ce a 6~~i~1 aFi~usi~ ..,'. Ap~ar~ntl~r~-ids this u~i~~sua) custom— a ~r~u~ ~~ ~eapl~ distuet~in~;l~r b~~~~ tea ts;~}~s end k~~tl~~ outsic~c: the; home ~f tliras~~4(trr~tYi elic ~nc~l~ l~eli~c~e have c7ccasiut~cd ~n ̀incc-~zi~r~tca~~s ►►~arri~~c'(!)~

~~t71~en ~~;adii~g cf~e dc~anitiot~, rn}~ first tha~i~ht turned t~ ~~ell-ec~erench~d iliett~~c~~ic~ o~ ~I31 ~C ar~d 10Ei Sr~i~~nts nai~ly farj~un~; c~utsd~; .t ~la~sroaif~, ~~rsllii~~,sttovia~g ~a~td `iest~st~rariic~llp L~andin~' the ~:~1~~ piat}~ ~t pusliit,~, sltovi~~~,`seran~liif~' a~7d ~~►►~chis~~). Whet ~hysi~~zlly i~ tl~c, classeoo►t~, tl~e wise level ciftl~e ~ec~tip eis~~ ~:► inio~u~ Babfl~~; it tl~~~~ takes scs~»e dm~ tc~ se[tl~ ~,~ ro 3t} stu-dc~ats ~,ric~r to a Ito~~ful tcn~~7 iii ~crir~ci. Tlse~i ~lje. ct~llita~ gut gild ehe ~alkit~ga~:ec~ss tltc r~anti ~ u~hile~ the ~eaal~cr is sL~kin~ t~ ~t~~,a~e ~vl~ols.-slays teac;~iin~ ti~i~i.Stu~cnes tivhc~ vc,~alk in (~ft~ (end ~~n~e ̀ ~r~~ndsrand' ~~~ cl7~,y en~cr~, students w1~+~`~vand~r}; i~ais~ levels during on-t~~sk le~r~~i~~g E me .,..~0 rninute~, iii a )ass~erio~3, ca►~ seettl ail a~vfu(Ey lo~rg tii~~e ~viKi~ su~h a class.

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I~clsuilcli«~; gt7~~v~[ ~~~ith ~ticlt ~ ~c1~ti~ i~ rti~t ~~:+}~ ~{th~r~ rs~~ ~tetf, j~'itl~~~~`e~t~M, c~1t+-tr~~tct~n~; {;~~ti~t sc~t~~ct'ns~w ~3iwrta~ti~~~~ 1,x:11 ivi~~urti ~ec~rtt hal~ic~~n~c~ it~tci the v~r}•~c~c~it~! t~thrir cif ~~►c c~1;~~~. [:<;flc:~~~t~ ~~~p~s4~rt i5 ~euc gal cca ~~~i~t eczllet~~u~~ ~~s ~<trl~>,~~ ~a~s~it~l~} k~~~c~r~ i~e~~t'is~ ~r~~d~pFtat~~~;~ bc~havc~ur~ ~i~~o~rt~ ~hc nc~rm~ C~c~1~~~~t~G.5~~~cirt ern e~~l~1~ ~h~c r~(~~ lcCi~~ cif ~c~c~~{~rTill ~n~ ~ .~~r~;~~ tip"~l~~rt~# (i~r~~r~~e rcp tt~tla~ ~I~s~ ~~ritt~,~ {Itc~~~r~2 ~,~~f~~).

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~~'hett hA ~cnityr tt~~R~r rcPli~ti k~'is~~, 'Nell, that h~n~~~~he~ ~s~ ►i3noy' of u;~ it {gut`~ir5t ~°4~I~' 4t~ w~i)° Ftci~ k~1~~n~' f~ ~ttvt~u (~~~`c~ ~l~~;ti sh<}t~id I~e't~(t~tt iy~ ~h~ p~c~ree~t}~ricnc~d ~nci car»~t~trr~t teaC~i~r ~ ~~r, ~t the v~ry~ le.~sc, nc~~rc~ ~lt<~~ild [~t~+:r~tur ~+={~rkin~; with Frn}~ Eir~t-}~~~r te.~~-h;~r-~4~llc~~~t~~: tc~ a~~ sr the ~,l;~s~ t~,~~h~eerg cn~~~e the First fc~v Cesscxn~ ~secc>r~~~ir}~) eir (ir~t c~~ty {~rim~rv).

"Irtrc reicacth is c;lr~r; l~rrty rho 4'~~~11~1i~;l~n~cit~ ~i~i~si~ ►vith ~ ~1~~~; is at3eirc,~;~t~c~ e;~r~si~;cii#ie~►itly ~fte~'~ t}t~ ~cttc~r~l c~~hc~;ic3n cff the ct~~~ ~~ C15c' t~'~'ckr ahead (Itt~ct~,1 95, ̀~t)l}~a). If ~ reacher 1»s l~~rt ~~iv~n Et k~u~ri hstrcl~r cc~-munt~~~, cl~~s, ~1itt1thr e k~l~lisht~ietit phase ;i~ t~~ir r~l~~- cir~~h ~ ~>ith the el~sti ~; liktl}~ ~c~ 4uff~r7'<trti~ul:~rl~~ ~a if a~ ~h~tll~ngin~ 41sxs5 gcca~ap i4 ~i~;eEt trs: ii t~~~it1nit~~ kryteh~r car =ttea4f~tr with C ttC~ cx~,~ r cn~t~ r>f i►~c~rkin~; ~vit1~ rneart ch711~:»~;ing 4tuc9c~tt l~c:h~~iourTl~~ tits=t}' t11~ c1~~, i~ ~'fi~rrpctcristi~'ctCl~~ tt'err#<>c! by their te7cher si~;ni~ ~antfyat~~~rs the cc~-ciptr~tiv~ ~cxp<t~~ill csf the s~uc~cnts. If a tc~c:lter;+ Ic~cl~r~hip styE!4 t~'~}y~at..IP~r ~l~c)~+r~`~~ ̀ ~'7~t~'~'} ~()Vt'1'^ti1~~F'111it,~ (3C't ltilfl()r i:t~llL'$~ 4?C.~`V1t~Ltl~ti'1~'~i I►L~-

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~sr the ine~ansister~t ~~~rr~~;ern4~t n~ ~ti~ b~l~avit~e~rs~— n~~~r ~ris~~ taut ts~ ~ nti~-~~ uicli- l {tcipefult~zs~ Ih~Y tltir~~;s ~~~ill ~;~t l~e~et~' tl~c~y ~~t~~'t — flca~ liar ~htri~s lvc;~.Sc►~~~r ~~s~ehc~~ ~r~ ~nxit}pis cir ̀ f~~rf~l' e}~-~t E ~lt~~ ~~~rt fci ~ir~jfy tic iifri~nr ~uclilx~h`v~~urs, ~Ite s~tu~i~r~t's wc~ulc~ n~ic ~~tually~ C~tk~ az~y r~c~t~~~ ~r~y~~~}~. This ~ion~~~5se~ir{c ~z~tt~cn is c~t~i~k(y ~i~k~c~ up'i~}~ ~tu~f~r~ts as ii~dze~t~n~; ~h=~~ tl~~: c~acli~rt~n~tut Kn~na~~ tl,c~ situ~ti~n —car perhaps ~:v~n th~r they ̀ cicin't inr~'.St~nye ~tuc[enrs ~vitl~ `atterjticrtial` car '~ir~~~er-si:~kin~' p~ttvr►~~ rah ~3istr~~-tut~ ~i~dclisru~i#i~v~ k>~:I~aui~ur are nac ~c~~lrc~ssc~i r~►riy ~n~u~;1~T ~ncJ sib nit`ic:~nrMv et~c~~►~i~,in t~~~ first f~~ti i3~ys.~nii weeks o~ r~rrt~t n~fe. Suer stuc~~nts p~rti~:ularly ~ftc~se~4rir1~ ~r~zc~cicinal t~elj~v tau~~l ~t'sc~rs~~~ ~n~h ~s ~~DIEtIt~~ t~c~c~ tj<rrly case ~~~~~tv ~i~}h~4Pitlf 3 cc~~~~ic~:us fc~~u~ r3r~ i~~eliiticlu~l I>th~vic~~se Mans tt~ t~~eli tHctr~ the ~~~r~ti~ll~ hay>ic~ur~ ioa~ ~c;licrcil lift (Rr~}~rrs, 20 ;3, ~0~6~ 5~~~• ~[~c~ ~h:~~err 3 in this (~~ok),~c tr~c~~E ~c~~~~~i~n re~~c~n t~'hyt cl;~s5cs bc. ~~ntc h7r.i ~c~ ~n;~n:~~;c i, pc~~r~r in~cl-~~u~t~' ~~cnL~li~Firr►ir~t ~t~ a~ ~lu~a ~=~atr~r in rf~~~ criti~1 #ir5~ ,n~t~r~~~ c~} ~tek ot~~.~t~t~irr~t~ are ~s~y~I~r~1~~gia~llp anc~ dt~~~cl«p~ner~t~tlf~ r~a~i~~ ~c~r e6~ir t~.t~,f~~~~ tc~~l~ri1~~~ ~h~: r~e~e.~~ry r~►1~~; a~1~:1 r.~~uti,~z~~ fcir Sc~r~~in~;, [acl~.~vicaur ~nc~ ~hc irl~~ivc_d~ntc~th-runrsitr~;' u~ ~ :c~tt~pl~x li~t~t ~~s~t~inuney ~~Il-c! 'uur ~i~ss` h ~l~c~~~ ~er~first rt~Etci~~~s (cat ~crr~i nit}.

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~i~~~~rcy~ri~tce r~~ti~~ r+~s1;~►~tc I4vcls; ~~~cs f~~r ~t►try tee ~~~5~ ~t~~f ~~ttlit~g Cir~~ ~~rt~~ -c~t~-tz~~k la~ba~it~u~, etc; Th~~ta~;~tEul ~sts~l~li~ft~~~r~t ~~I~r~ ~mr~tn ~c~rts►secntly ~r~d Fairlyfctllc~«i~i~ u~r i~i;~~d~~t ~srile~ ~i~~! ~v~c~rj~; k~~h~viciur aft~:e ~I~s~; frc~tn the c~u~; ct — c~~~~e~rJ~j. ~.3e~n5i~t~nt ~nt1 a:~rl~~ E~>f[caw~up csf n~pprct~ari~~e ~hrc.atsgh rep, ~Ij~tllpn~in~hcke~vicaur i;~ 4r~~~i~t! to thc: ~5~~k>li5httlrr~~ ~h~~~ 4~~ Che v~~r< Sct~ k~ fta~[c~r~,'-up ~nr~e-~c~-c~n~} -~ tvli~thcr ~ht ̀ ~~t~:r-~1,~ss ~h~t' cis Fttrn~~l, c~~e{ ~c~~iscyci~~~e~ ~ cnn l

~at~~lucta~t~ r~s~e~ EEull~= — ~ritl~ fztir ce rtainty — cc~ cl~tti~y the ~igctifi~~tnce cad [~~~;tv-ic~ur cat~mzr~;Fiip in the stucle~~t ~I~ ~~ers, E99fi},

If t~~tcl3cr~ dc~ ttc>t csr~E71~5h at et~s~ ~rc~u~ rvi~h ~«ttsGtc>et~ ~Slar~raing, skiEl, guy;ieiv l~,~tc~,c r~hi~s :~n~l m~na~,~crr~~nc, scim : cj~ th{ ~tucicnn svi~hin the ~C) t<y 74~ per cent cf~ nc~rrn~llyr~~~~cr~syi~sl~ ~tnr# c'cp-c)~cr~ti~~t :~tu~~~~,s m.-~}~ s~t~~'~rt!}~ — :;c~rtt~ rav~rCE}' - ~'~jllu~3~ 4t'ikh ;hfntar~ a~rc:rttic.~t~al ~nr~ ch:tll~n,~in~ sru~i~ttta in clistr€~~'in~; ~ctd c~f~ Iasi: ~ch~vi~}urs.

iAih~ ~ ~~~s~ ~ra~ s~rn~~va~r~ "1~~# t~~ p~+~t~

~'1t~Et ~~i~r ~a~ern~ cif l~~~nin~; ~►nci (~th~vic~itr etc; ̀ h~i~itttnt~~" ~crca s ~ ~l~s

~rc~u~ is is ~~±s~~ti~1 t~.t~r ~h~ e~~ss t~z~c:h~;r ~~~c~r1~ ~~+i~h ~u}~~r~rtivc c:~liz~~;u~s ~~~ r~-~~CSita~~te p~~witivc I~cha~ititirs saritl~ tie ~iutic;~ts. ThE ~~elcr rles i~; c~t~i~d cut int~rrii ~~a~~, ~h~ ~{~rz ~Ef~cti~~~ tl~z ~rc~~c~s~ ~a~ci cD,~cc~sen~ tvfil~ [je,

If ~ tc~tc~h~r 1~~itv~s ~h~}~ ~r~ ̀ lc~s~ng' tEt~ir tl~ss, i,~. if ~ ~i~nific~~nt p~r~enz~~;~t'a~ the el~s~ es f~e.>c~ar~itt~}«, ~t'~r~e~'~lf)~ ~ne~ ~I~rYr~fil}~ lis~'upt vc (t~7Urc tly~tn h~clr~{~y}~s~c~rc>rtt~}; ~he,~ ,t `fresh s~~~`t~ ~ippr~i~~lt is n~ces~r~~ — ~ rc-es~~~iishrt~~n~ ~f tli

el~tss ~rcau~s t~ rc-~ri~fig~ their understarfc~ir~~;b ~cf~id~v ll end ccr-c~p~ e~cit~n,

t~ afresh }t~tr~'` ~src~cc:~~ ~Rca~~rs~ ~QQ~F1} rE~31N nee~~ tc~ c;n~~~;~ I~ngee>term cc~lle~~;ucsu(7{~c~r~ tc~ ~r~tluc~ a ~vc~rk~t~?tc ~~cas.~s~s :~n~ c~uttc~ a~~: c(iat x~-ta~~~~es thy: ~r~~~v 11~~~~ ~h~r~d r ~Et~s ~~rtd r~~pr>t~sil~ititi~s c~~ tljr teacher ~rtc~( the s~uc~enr~.

t~ Fr~:slt s~~~~ pr~,c~~s ~'il[ r~rar~~t~fEy ~c:~in r+vi~lt ~ ~l~ss~c~u~~a ~cxc~tin~; ~~'i~l~ tlt

t~ kt+~l~ c1a~t, inuc~Gs~in~ tlic r~;ul~tr ~l<~~s t~achcr ~n~ ~ ~u~3~~rtiv~ ~:r~i~~ cc~l~~;~~;i~c~t~r ~c I~tst ~ su~~c~rk►'v~ ~nll ague rvltt~ his ~ ~~cx[ t~c5rkin~ rtl~tic~z~sh p tic~ith i'1ic

Tl~~ c:la~~r~yr~ ~c:~tn~; all~,~~~ ~n hot~~~~ ~i~pr~i~~l ~~€ h~~w elsij~~s ~r~ in c}~° ~:1~ut t~r~.~s~nt in t~~x~~~ ~f E~rl~ftvi;cur ar~c~ ~;er~ce~l lt~~ifl~. Tk~e ~ ~~:ltcr {i~+ick t1i~ ~~~~~~~3

csE ~ ct~(lt~guca ncc~s t~ ~t~lis~ the ~las~rexgnt tttc~etiit~ f~~rum ~t~ ~n c~ppc~rtxt~n~~x f~fr

the ~:l~s~ ~;r~u~ ~r~c~ cti~~hcr c~a ~~ddr4~ss Etc ~-t~rr~t~t fa~ltr~t?ic~t~r f ~tf a ;~igt7i~ic~r~c r~trr~tl~r

cs~ scudenc~ in ~h~: ~I~s.}~ e~~ i~ ri€f~ce~ lr~~r~iri~ ,;r~~1 ~~la~~{~~~~I~~ps. T~ ~s imE~er~e~ht ~I~ac

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t~~ s mr~e t~~ is rtci[ a l~ctur~ ear s~ttric kith t>1' ~z~:tctri~t~; ~~crl?al',~ y-[3a~~C ~`P~~i sick ~ncltit-ee~ c~~ thh iln~ti ,,.i'~, ±iu~.l~ tirarlt=; — tsliv~«ttti~}° — t~rllt; tt►rt~tcr ~~~cn~ite ~~e j~ralGrt~jr~1~~n~ rc~sic3uz~l) ~oc~l~,;Pill ~t the dt~ to 7th ~r cent cif stuc~enk~,

TI~r~:e k~~~ ~tis~stic~r~s rr~y ~c~ll~~~~t►c~; ~~~d I ~r~quc~tl}~ yak z?f ~tud4nts i~ ~u~;hrrtect tt~~ ire:

4~la~r'~ rvc~rkin~ ti~c1l i~~ c~uY c1~s~rc~cit ~~ the nr►~inyci~~? 4:~~~1 ~vh~?)«h~t'~ t~cat tYtrrkin~ ~,~~ll h~r~'~t thy, tr~c~ment? (~;~~ ~vhy,14~h~e ~;~nlsh~~~t~t wr ~I~ rya eh~n~,t t~iih~;s h~e~? {s~ tl~a~ ~v~: can p ct ~n ~~it{ili~van~ =t ~~~~~•i~~r~i it~l~~rc ~v~,~~~n Me~rn rv~I! ;,vi~h<-~~4t un~~rr ~is~a~;~, ~~Eling taut,r►rn~ ̀ c~f~-t~~[~' n- )

~Ir4~e t~ctc~ricfn~ can ~~c ~si:ec3 thrc~u~h_~ ~vritt~n ~e<~fc~rni~, <~r,in an {~pcn-forum in~1 L~KSMic)t7t1a t71CRT1i1~,

ThG L>:►sic rules far ~~([ ~I~~sr~atarrt rn4~rin~~ nertc~ eii [sip n~:~cl clr~r ~at nc~ ctatts~t;

~'ti(=t1S ilAl [{iti; (~tlLStl(SI► std (~~114 1I7C~ C~[1R]''~ ~l~ 1Cfii'~CI'~i:~~?t~ j~Ct' C117i~' '[t~i'},

~.~SC ~S7ittiC!°IACtl1iC' f~S~i(5fi7~CS {I.C. itt} ~`1tIC-t~fS~~IlS {}~ tt1~~yF c~~14S ttlCtil~St~'~ Itli;~llC~ltl~

~p«{~ can~.~~ ~ c ~j~~ an~3 within a r~:rs«n~ble ~ m~ li~nic ftn ~h:~rc~~ r~s}>f~nsts ~r~~i1en~tF~ cat rn~~tin~}.F-~~G~c ~ e~c~uplE. c>f ~tucici~cs rc~«rd tht; ~nr-wcr~ i~ tc»~ductir~~, ,in ay»~-forum cl~+s-i`cx.~m nts~in~. I ►t~v~ fc~tmcl it 11tl~ful tc> (~,~v~ nnc m~l~tc>,7~ fcm~ilc ,cu~~~ht rc~ccyr4lil~tit fccc3l,~~k {iri ~t~int tK}rm) tca lc~~c the ~r~clicr~ ft~tcy tc~ ~cinr~uct rho rnerrin~,

le c~r~ ~Is~a (iz~l~i ~c~ 1~rc~ak u~ [lip ~~l~c~l~ tl~~~ ntEz s~i~~ll~r stttr~ecsu~~ ~ehc: ~, ~qri~~tl~c~d~ ~n~i tl~t~~ u~ ~vla«lc-ttas~ ftv~cilac~ck f~~ t}yc wvhUle-c1~~~ tn~~tin~ {see I~tc~;er~,~O[?&~). Stu~lcnts rc;~~~i~tc1 in p:~irs t~ tl~e q~icsfic~ns risatec! ~k~cavc {Eu~ te~Y ~iiinuc~~}, t1~+~nthe pair jr in tc~ farm ~ ~;r~~u~ u~ fotu~ (~r~r ~ 1`ureltcr tcn r~tinutes tU sh~rclacf~l/rclinc}that finally, ~rctu~s~ c~~ ~i~ ar tl~~rc~lac~ut~ n~~~e fs~r ~ furtli~r test rrrinutcs tc} one-~u~~eec~rttm~an res~c~rt~e~, Thee: re~p~n~~ ~cti then s~~arc~3 ~~fitl7 the r~vht~le ~las~ via ~ ~rc~t~~r~~ntnr {~r e~k~n u~i try the tc;~e~rcr l~c~ r ~n~ tih~rec~ ~t <~ ~ccrn~l cecin a,

~'1 scec~n~i t~ieetin~ ~~~tll ~Itcii lac called tzy ~ii~~ ~e~c~l>.tck ,jnc~ ~`espcansr'~ to tC~►e ~u~s-ei~~i~s r~i~~~ ~c fhs~ fir.~t n~czGiu~. ?a«ri~~~11}, rr~h~t (~~~~~n~ l~i:rc fs ~h~c eh~ r~ac}7~rt~+~l( list, ~r~ a f~~~ 1a~`~c ~c~ster~ ~~ncC ~ ila~s hand-uut~;

the b~ilr4~ulc~trr~ ~h~i~ c;~usc ~s <r!1 c;c~ij~crn~t ti's icy which we c an s~c~tlr~~s ~r~d ~h~n~r thast i~sua~s r~ei~~c~cl~~;r~-estnfiti~lj~~ rules snci rc~udn~s t<s s~~}~~arc t1~cs~ eH~n~~a.

TC~~ rciutittts o~~~n ~c~~lr~ss~d inelu~~ ~ ~h~ii~~ in :~4~ti~~~; -~~rari~cn~ilts (tGfihar~« lsariti~t~ t~t~~e)~ tars/rUuc t~~, f~~~' cr~~r~, s~-[fl its ~h~i cl~~s 14~~itt~ ~i~t~e{~S~~e~ul<~c1~ ncs;se Ic~c~ls), tic-sJrc~u~,~~c3 ~c~r <«~;;y~~n~ ~~acEtc~r ~~+i~rst~ic:~ (~h~§a~ w~~u-eit~~~ ~h~►uic1 ~►t~,~~r Ise ~s~utntci}. The earlier its ecr~n e~~~a Ghai cliia 4~racct:ss e~~

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.~sc~n ~ C~a~h~r~ ~Sul~li;~h t1t~ frrtil~-yt~rt c~u~c~rt~e <~t ~ °claws-~tl~~~' {scc ~cr~;Grw,

~i~i)~~} art~3 in sc►►n~ ~~5c~ ~ ~c~~y esf tEti~ E~ s~t~t lic~~j~c: tc~ ~a~'~'nt~ c~_f shit c1:~~s {c~n1~=~~t~r.~~rrcj~~~l 1>k tlic tichcrc~l }~rinc;~<titl~~~~l te~i~f~t~r~,

1~ e~ti alssi h+:l~ (~+~~ith ~~lci~r ~ei~t~irt[:~) kty ~u~lis~t sc7irt~ ~e~sitiV~ ~l~~s }~nst~r

~c:e~n~t~~tia~~ cc~r~ xi~i~e~ ~s~~i r~~~c,i~~ii~iiitie~, ~., 1~e3 ~~1~ Ij4aat~ ~ r~i~1,~f tc~ l~f~~'tf.'7s

le~~rr avell li~~~c' t~~~' ». (tl~~ ~cf~~~r chin (~ci~~l}~ li4c~ ~1~~ I:c}= ~u~~ictrjc l~~rnin~;

ru1c~.~/resu~in~5 tt?r this kcF ri~hT #~ttc{ re;~~t>ii~ik~il ty, c.~, ~;c~ctin~; ~t~ c(~~5 czn Cirtt~,

h~~~in~ nc~ n~~:~,~~ry ~c~u~prr~cnf, ~crr~~rnt~~~i~tg ~h41;5►r~~#~-up z`uf~, ~wi~hc~ut t.tPlpscut, car t4zlk n~ c~v~r a5ch~r~~a u~in~ ~F~ra-rt~c-~~c~icc c~Gtrin~ c)~~~~ 4v{ Kk cirr~ej. 1~~r rtllIr~~!c> ~ t`i~ht t~~~ ,~~'s~i~~c~t 1~~~rc~ irr c~t~rt~ c~lc~s~. ~'~~ ~fx~}pt~ r<~sp~~'t tt~~ic~r~ tt~~ ,:, rem~~n[~~t

that ~.1c~ alb til~~►e~ ~hc ;~~n~~ ~lacG, ~~~eE an~i rc~sc>n fc5r heii~~ hers, Etc;~~e~r i5 ;~l~c>utkrt~ttt~ c3thcr~ t~~rly~, ~~ ~v~ ~*cyulr~ ~~~nt ~e~ ~~c trr~tt~~t (nca ~Suc-~1«r~m:~, c:fi~.~tp :~hf~ts,nc~ ~~ut[~~in~; cif ~r~y kine~ i~ tc~l~r~t~cl? r~~~s~ct i:; ~et~c~ut h~~l~in~ ail~cr~ f~41 ~~f~ hers,

wt use cc>ns~~i~~~d E~~i~;u~~;~ ~iyd m~nncr~,The ~uC~ti~{ ccl e«uc c~~ sa►rli ~iFst~~:; z~c ~~~ rya he ~~~~iciv~t ~srri~cruc~iv~, ~ 1cEar ~t~~

cxper~~~nt — nzrt sirn~(y ~ ltir a~f'~nust~' anr~ ̀ mus~n`c~',It rr►~y l~~ itnpcy~~nt, ~ilsca~ tc~ tnct~ura~~ ~t~ifi~~ t€~~~hers c4~ rc-~rpprai~i their

t~€h~v erur ic~tl~rship ~n~l discipline as they ernl~ark c~tt ~rr~~' `f►'~ h start' pr~:~s~vft~ a c1~,ss ~rc~up, ~~~.j~twviil ~rsc~ ~~s ~~ (a~ ~tc~~~:~i ~~YEic:e) is ~1~,+,=a}~~ ~ two-~v;~~~

~ta~~t c~~itl~ si nif ~~r~t c~utcc~rnes c~c ncitr~~ ~3ti t ie: ~a~lity cif a~ tc~chc:e'~; lca~lc~~hiin bch~vi~ur tn~r~~t~~r~i~r~c, ~t~c~ ehcfu~;~efu1 ~Jrc1 fair' c~4~ cif l~havic~«t tfai~scyu~n~~s

~s~~ (;h~ptkr fib. ~1c~st taf X11, the c~n~;c}i~,~ ~tatca~ss cif 7 frc~l~ s~ar~ is affcct~ci by thy*e~~e1~~r 5 ~:h~rr~~t~ri~c c; use t~f ;;u~~carci~~€ ce~c:aur:~~zt~~~ nt ~r~~l ~~ tdl~~~l. fo i~~1i-

v~~uai ~t~ci~r~~s a~i~~1 ~h~ ~la~s~r~i~~:Wliii~ ckti~ prc~e~s~ ~n~y< — ~t fr`r~t si~t~t — sccrc► I:tl~c~ur is~r~nsi1~ca it tE~x~ dive :in

n~pr~priate ar~ci ~~rr'r~erl vr~iE~ta x~-en~a~gk; sh~rccl ur~~l~cst;~i5t[ir~~ ~n~ eesp~atysilaifiti~s.

Tt is never tnc~ late t~~ mike a fr~~li ,t~rr ~vich ~ ~.l~s~ ~rc7u~, prc~tfida`n~ to=~ ~r~

willing cry ~llu~sF ~~t~c~n~l ~n~i prs~f~ssicat~~l ~pp~~is~l, the a}~purcunet~ fvr scuc~ent

iit~s►it, ciiscit~~sic~n ~yrtci in~rit:~tu~~~ tU c~i-t~~rr~re ~ri4i - r~~cssi 4F rtl1— ~call~~~~~c ~a~pport.

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1 h~ac~l ~tlitaut !'st) Ic~n~; l~r:fssrc I'~a ~~~~ tl1e~~ ~t~' a~ tit' ~li:f~~~t ~~~ ~trt~ctitsr h~~t~~' ~y'tltres4i~;h ~h4 }~~'ar, ~jaric~us st~Ef #~taemE~cr~ Itia~ Ghrc~wn tE~ their 1~~itcis i~t hca~rc~r ai'tera (e~~«n ~~ent v~~irle them, ~L~~ ~Vcn thc~t~~lt F mint C~~~~c t~u~ht ~r f4+~~ ~urt~{rccl~r<x~i~ ~3s in my t S ~~t4~rs c~~ re~~~:1~ir~g, 1 h.~v~ tt~ ~t~y t y~candtr~~ .vh~c t~z~~ hit ~~~~.l:vcr~~ We°dnc~ct~}~ ~fter~~c~{gin, ,~ftc~ 'IQ[a ttiint►tc: with just rherr~ ~~nd i~t, I cic~per-~ec1}' ~w~:~~~tecf tta r~si~;r1!

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tc~niry tc~ ̀ gra 1~azxai' ~b~~erk}.~K~c h~t1 tht clus~vc Shat` ~n ~n~ t;i~~t~~= rvhs~ c>ftctt h~~1 tci Eye ~~r~tu~he tc ~1~ss ,t~trr

1~ing cti~c}~.~~~~~{ iii their u u:~I ~~v:~n~ierin~s in she ~urricic~r 'cc3 f~n~ ~~~i: ~a~ ~f~v;~rk~r' car ~vl~~tc~'~r. An~ct~':~ u~~~Cr 1►~~ 5~~:~ ~t'rn~ancrltly~ ~t~rle~ try car~c sic~~ in ~:;nti~e that carp ~i~ri~y' lx ~er~'e~e~~ ~~yt ~rad~ ~ girl;;, I~er mate, I+rl lissn, ~v~s t1ieL I~uC~~~il~ led. Tl~rc~~v in ~, l~~~ctful of sttt~3~{tit~ rvirh ~i~;nif «n~ l~arnin~ n~~~isa ,c~~rtv~~y sill}' l~~ys, c}ne lxfre~ it~t~lli~cnt csn~ ~ttc~ n hri~Ett Inc ~vlt(~ k~~t trywing ~t~ hern<~ve~i c~~~t cat ct~~ 4i.iss I~c~~us~ hip ~c~ulrl~i't ~;t.~nd ic, tr~~l ~~ve; h~~c~ ~quit~ ~r► ir~~s~-est n,~ ̀ cc~~kt~i~ : I ~1ic~n't ~7fizt~l tti~ inc~ivi~u~is i~ut, lsc~y, ac titn~a I Ij~t4d that ~las~.

I3rin~;i~~g dens ~t~ci papa tc~ t+~rit~ tvjth tv~a a l~i~ prahl~~ji. 1'~i ~l~vsys ~c7lved thatin chc ~~ t ~iy l~r ~~in~ ~p ~~~5 l~u~ the z~th~r~ ec~~~r~ w~r~~~1 rn~ ~h~t they he<<c~° ~ c~~think k~~c~t~, ~c3 I r~~r~t~~ ~r~~1 ~iur~rbe~~ i ~~IC t~~}~ pc~js ~~c rubes ~tnc~ h~~ ~ 'li~e~r}''

sy~tcn~ re~:c~~~an~; tivhr~ cv~rytlii~~~ S~rcrit tc~ ~~~li 1 s~ii. TF,ak at Ec:~~c ~uc~rkrci. lr wayp su~El~~s ~r}~in~ tc} ice ~li~~~i ~c~ ~ivs; u}~ rlti~i~ ia~vn ~im~ tai :~ci~~~ chi f~il~tres-tcrLjrin~-~;~~r prc~~il nj — rh~~~'c1 ~[nr~st never turn up and tE~c:}r'd isucl sc~ tnar~y~ ~Ictc~nci~7nsit w~~ iir~~cT~sii~le fr~r Sc:r~i<3r ~t~~f tci kce~s up 4v~th it ~!1 iit suppt~rtin~ tht se~'f, t,s~x-eih11}' s`tns:c the}~'tl caften js►st stick ~f~ ur ~e~~' atW~y tram ~+:6ti~c~I.

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t~~u~ht is }V'~~ ~vc~n~i~~rful ~h~t qty cc~~l~,~~;t~cs trif~rl~ ~H~ 4ff{try — I f~1C r'~ry~ well wu~~c7ree;tf. Ali rb~r; st t#f tivl~c~ tat~~ht tl~~m 4x1~~, had r~~~,1~r cati4 mretin~~ al~c~~~t themt~f sh~trc it~ens that h ~t~ t~{cfrkccl F4~r th~ttt ~tt~3 to tvt>t'k t3~~ cc}mmc~tt e~ESt txn~.

i'~ alrc~~ly ~c~rt~ a lc~t c~~tvc~rk t~r~ el~tstirc>cytn ru1c whieh ~'t7i sittc the kicl~: ttncl~ r-

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~S,tlt~ gtr ~c. T~►si3 I c~.pC~t n~c~ ti4> thi kicfi~ ~f~~t to ta+: al~~~ tc~ ~;c~ Ec~r IuaLI~ ivx~hh~rt~burg~~ - fr~~ — th~:y~ ltd ~c~ c~~ ~Sc~is~ts byf su~~~~r~in~ cur zl<t~s ~«I~s, Tt~e`c~f~F~' ~v:i~ ~h~t th~~= h~c~ tc~ «rr~ Five ~ciint~ in c~~h {at~~ciry c~~ the rule:

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gaily rr~~etin~~ first its erg ~c~in the c~a}' ~~sit ~•eiy, .~nc! ~I~~> .it tla~ ~Ic~s~ ~f nt~rdip tc~g~Thcr_ to e►~d {~~~it~v~I~r.f~,en~~inin~ as ̀~ilit~' as ~sc~ssible ~es~e~i.~ll}~ ~v~i~n rc~laein~ tht ~I~~rca~in~l}• rah-t~~rne~i ticsks.~anc~ hral~~~n ~~~nrilsl}['lannin~ ~~r the dailt~ t~isru~tinns ~ with ~Icar r~uti~ie~ ~~a~l reminding c}F rules_~vithauk ~r~uin~; (ik~ cnachin~ en foc~rserl st~ic~nts E~}~ ~vait'n~ tUr the mkt~ort~= tol~ ~itrentive, ~cl~r~c~«~led~i~~ ~asiti~'e I~~t~r~vi~~i~s .►s much ~~s }~c~~sik~l~ ~ever~ h;~nds►~~~ ~~~d~~,i4ii~~;~~n~at~r~g~m~nt ~~•lien~~~r ~zc~s~it~le ~an~ the ~t~iliren I~~red stick~rs~.~ivin~ tihort-=term le~rnin~~,naC~ (ltd min~at~s ii~irrially then tir~;~liy h~~li';~n ha~~r},11~1.6~kir~~ a~?nti~~r~ (b~h~vi~ur ~~nt~a~kc ~nr ;ri~~~,[e~~1~rs' end tli~rs~ ~v t}►1~~h,~~; ic~~~r~aci:~fs~, ~is~in~ ~I~f1r ~:~ir~cted ch~►c;~ ~`~v~ work no~v qtr make i~p time I.~t~r') t~nc~(»~~in~ ~ s~x~}~c~rtrve t~n~g-o~~r ~I~« (c~rlle~~~u~ s~~~~3~i~t ~v:ts f~antasti~ hers},

Editor`s mate~1c~v~~g a r~~~trpPirte plan i~ a~ eruci~l os t~~y I~ssort pla~~ ti'V~ ~~rc~w 9ht~t we wril~ befia~ing some cvllin~ ~~t ie~att~n3i~n; t~slkin~ whip the t~n~h~r i~ tr~~kir~~, ct~r~~nt~{iddlir~~ w ih ak~j~~ts ~vhit~ we ~r~ ~r~~a~ed in whole-class teaching Iirrrs si~u~fentsw17r~ w~in~~r in Iete; f~isk.~voi~a~a~e; eh~ r-I~~ining, etc, li is e~~~r~ti~) #hit we h~iv~an ~v~~r~n~ss ~f whaf tive.wiJB ~Io ~anc~ sc~y i~ such situr~ti~ns

C?bwi~us9y, we ec~nnat Klan ~~~ every c4nf`rngeney — we eon,. ~t~w~v~er, haa~ c~ RicaniFiat wi11 e~~6~~ us ts~ re~~or~d t~ dEstraetira~ aid disrupti~~ be~iriv our ire tie l~crstintrusive :way ~os~t~f~. (Tt~~s is ~tE~csr~s~~ in sc~m~ detail in ~hsapter b,~ any su~k~~fn~ will need !s~ r~cot~ns~ 1hc~ c~iar~tt~rstrc fec~f~res of ~a~r ~liseiplina fa~gu~~~how we restc~t~ ruCe~~ c~ v~ dir~cded eh~ic~s; ~e~l wiih sl4denls wf~c~ vrbni 9c~ pry-vari~~l~ end ~rc~ue Arid hew fo u~ili~e any tii~n~=ouf proc~clu(e~ c~alrr~ly and vrith as~uGh dignify as passible.~ disc ~lirte ~l~r~ i~ n~► ~i ~~rr~ulr~ {~r ~+~~~~l~ — it i~ ~ way cat tl~~~kifi~ ab~iut

typk~al behc~vi~ur in~ic~~nts and hc~w w~ aught fQ r~sp~n~ its n~ ~t~sit~v~;, calm csn~~I~rar a way cis ~~s~i~sie {b~sc~ ~~y n~1w(thslan,~ing).~ueh ~,'pl~;n' shtiulc~ ~,kso ~r~►isicler hc~w w~ shauld tallow up ~rn~-tc~•gn~ with stun

dents to repair and t~kauild, Repo rind end rakauilding e+an b~ ~s laasic Qs c~ brief ~.~~sitive _rafter-class chat, Qr a ~~~re exte~rded mediQiian session (spy k~ehwe~t

~c~nt~nu~

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~ontia~uedstu~l~~1s iii eor~f(ict~. Ar~~ a~e~airir~~ ~r~d r~bui(~fin~ ~(~~e~l~ s~~ the tea€i~~~.

bri~~~y't~arting•itt' tea }t aw the ~it~~~rl~ r~ig~it b~ ►~elirtt~ at th41 point (ire their yr ~-tia•c~n~ talk ~k~t~~t E~~h~rv~ur wttn fih~sr ~~ach~*r~, ̀ Y~u"r~ ~rc~~ac~bly fii~elin~ ~r~nc~rnecl

for q~~~+~y~~3, ~r t~r~gsy) th~~ I've c~~ked you t~ ~i~y bcc9; fir a tc~6k abaut .,.'fc~~u~int~ ~ri~Ely ~n t}~~ l~~hc~v spur i.~su~ car talk tft~y ~r~V~ f~e~n ke}~t ~~~~C f4r.~,vi ir3 th€ re~~teva ps~y-back: 'Y~u caulr~ bs o~aisi~l~ r~Qw, €ouldn'~ y~~i~1 Bpiy~iu`r~ ~~rt, ate po~~ Y~iu~'~~ in h~~~ r~~w b~c~ius~ you ~~se~'t lister, d~ y~uJ~ ..;~and cars end on it ~~m~ti~e~ gr~es~c~ivn~ kh~ student t~ right-r~~'-r~p~y,' crt 4~€rs} ~ v~r~1 r~~ht-vf,r~~ly~ ~n ~r~m~~i~~as`consr ~ written righP-oaf-telly i~ helpful (~~~ p; 11 b)referirs~ ~ha stvi~~n~ t~a~li tc~ tie ciossro~m b~ha~+iaau~ ~greemeni (therights rules/r~s~r~sibiliti~s}. ~iQw clid ~h~ir b~hc~v~c~ur ca#f~~i ~fhers' safety,(~ar~iny c~~ ~~iir ff~c~l~~r~t~r~s~~e#~pl~'~y~ { ni~~9Eng arty c~nee~Qnfari~ ene~tin~ ns r~spe~{ul}y (is ~s~ ~l~ orl~ s~p;~in~ t~

se~r~at~ aenica~~y {Qt I~crst €~n cur p~rf sus t~~cher~~, Av~ir~ t~s~ t~m~tati+an to e~st~t~it't~(I~l~'I~y~u.~3~~i~~e like thot ~gr~in,yi~~ wa~~t ~u~fbe sp~t~kir~~ to ~a~~;~~rt~e ~ri~i~

c pcai, ter your rn~th~r 1'11,1'11 ._.f' (]'~~ what Ring the Minisf~r for Educsafivr~~)

t~~teo~es

Ii~~ the ~~~~1 ~~ ~1,~ y~~r, ~hankk ~c~ c~c~11~~~~~ s4a~~c>rt c_~~ zr ~lic~~c ~~t~t~~t~; tt ~nnr~thc,

tL~~: ~~,~~s ~t~~~ ~'t~r~in~ t~ •+~~~k ~~~MI, ~h=tvic~~a~° ~ms~t'csv~t~ ~4'ath ~~ ~~c~~c~ k~ts~u~ chat

le~~r~ien~ h~~ t~tk~n ~14~~~ -~ ~,vc, ~c~r ~,f i~~~r►~in~:

r~~l lcac~~ n~; ~~b`~ut ~v~ac ~ me;~ns tc~ ~rx can ~,~ir1~ e ach c~chcr, ~s ~ ~l~~s, c~xrk~

u ft~~ ,~~;,~}tht ~c~dentii: ~~~rnits~r

The real Icarnin~; ~v~s tlt~ rnc~st ~r~tifp~in~. ~z~se stird~nt~ why hacl e;~t~la~r dis-

~l~y~~l lit~l~ ~el~ ~onxrnl w~r~ nn.+~ ~~r~~; tc~ ~li~~~rn the i~,~~~cr a~~ ~hei~ ~it~~ c,n~ {an .-~

cl~s~ any! c~ m~}~li~}~ thci~ r~*~s~~~ to m~al~~ ~ ~(iE~~r~n~e3 ~ pc~sitiv~ ~1~fE`~r~9'~~~

~?r~ the 1f~~G r~~~ t~ur~n~; syu~ re~lcc tic~n tin~t4~ c~aa~ sc~~d~r~t r~s~~ttc~cd fur all when

h~ said. §'+~~'ve ~c~me ~ lt~n~ i4~a~, a~f[i~:;. ft~metr~l?c3r the first day, eve t~ni}~ ant c~rae

~;um sic ne. ic~~v lc}c~k Ott whist tivt ~~r dine to ~t ~I~y! It's ~reacl'

`~'1~ ~'I~~s zt~;+`e~d the}~ ]ik~d ie scs r~~uch t~~tt~r this ~v~y ~ tad ~~~e~~c~is~d ~th~it rhea,

i~ tl~~ir ~ianEc~ <3t t~~1~~vic?ttr res}~~sns~;s, h~~i m~c~~ ~~e r~ifFex~n~:~.An~~th~r c~~l~e~~~~ 4ai~1 c~~ n ~i►nitar ~la~s, ~lni~iallf; ! ~aiv and f~1t th~a~ l'~ ~rrv~d

:x~ "tla~; 41~4+~ frarii ba ll`° ~ in ~im~y I tt~uty~l 4hi~dr~ri .,,'

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1,C'r~a tt~)/C' !ry e~tcr)rlr.t~,~c~ ~{Jc<t~~75~I~r~tyl71 — c7s ~7 ~eut7tl~T~; cot~rllilpttt~' — tO 1't'f~e~1 «fit,

~riJd tdkc: clavrgc~ r~~ their f~e1~n~~it~rrr

'~ti~ ens

It ova tli~~ l~e~~;inriin~ caf tert~ .3 (citttn or~t i~f tlt~ ha►'d~'sC xt'rms tt~ art thr{~u~h) ~tnt~ :~c:l~ss cif Y~~~4 stu~t~iy~w ~v~r~ C~c~ct~mir~~; ntr~~win,~ l}~ cii~~uptivt ~nr! eh~ll~n~i~~. Tl~i~cl~s~ ~v~~ rc~~~gnjs~c( el~rvti hc~ut the ~~:hcu~l ~s cans; ~~k chi r~~c~a► ~I ~Fi~u1C cc>n~pc~siti~>nscrf ~'~~r~ ~~dt~. Th~~~ ~~~r~d ~ d~,~c~unr,~[~t~ t~~~dir~~ ~~th a«~th~r ~r~►a~n c~~ ~'~~r4 4tu~t~nt~ ~vho »r«-e ~~l:;ti #~r ~r~jm lxit~~; ̀ ~~t~sls', The r r~~~e in the cl~ssrtx3t~~ c7~t~nrc:ic;l,cc1 ~t~3E~ni~~~ limits a~~,~ack ~`arn~fsrio~~sl ~Y1~tattt s~}m~cane taking; hip ~~~cil~ flnr~ccri~c~ lx~~ua~: 5l~e I~~c~a~'t lt~t~l ~ term s}r~ tha'rc~m}~►atc~r, dilly ~~~ ~ his disk ~~~it~-s Ijir~zitr ~ti~~ ~~~a~a~~ (~c f~~t fikc if, end ~~ Ir~~4r hum ~ilt~rc~i cl~r«~~~h chi ~i~• ~s +~l~i1~Cr+;~ch~cteci :~nc~ ~c~rt,~l~~r~~~ ec~ t~t~ir i~~i~lihcs►~rs. i~F%~aur~:, th~~~ a~raa alss~ tHt~ t~c~t th~~chip ~~~~cs ~tine,t~rj~d a ls~r~z ~secspart' ~~t c~~ thslc►ren with Iz~trn tt~ c~ifficultje~, r~ir~~+r i~}tf,t,n .,l~c~ ~~s~t~ydng n ~~ar r~ry e>f ch~ll~n~iri~ I~~Fi~victiues any( e~:~~,cri~ni~ing rrianyscis:iai 1r~~3 ~mtiiicinal i3i(ficUlkies t~t~tsic~c tt~~ ~nc~~t}I ~:Gtin~.

T'<~r ~1,~ fi~~s~ ~;r~~st~r, tl~c chilc~~~n h~~# very t~urh t'u~r~ iii chc ~~~~rtnin~' ~n~l`i~~~rmin~4 st~g~w Uf arc;u~~ ~1ev~E~~~n~er~~. [4~S~ny n~~v ~tuc3~ne~ ~~~~t jc~in~d the rEas~;~c~mc ehilc~r~n hst~ n~nvc~c~ cM~~~ ~~~~! ttt~ ~hlclr~tt ~verc ~r_x~ng ~cquaintcd ~s}itt~ ~t nc~vtr~4hcr, t~[c~~vee~c~r, 1i~~ the .third t~rr», tl~~; Mass tv~s in fall sti~rin~ — ̀ ~Cc~rmin~;' h~clix-~;ur~ ~nc~ it sc;cn~e~ like tltcy ~~naulc~ ncti~rr '~rfc~a-tn'. t~t+~cllc~ ~ci spy, tfYe rc~a~h~r«~;~~ at h~i- wftti ~nrl. ;il~i; h~tt! sXru~;~,Ced lt~i~~ ~nci h~rr~ th u~tc~4r~#~t~cl the needs cry~~~h t~f t1t~s~ cl~ilc~rrn and h;~d ~uff~r~d k ~•cind chr c~~(1 c F ~f~t;r; Tri~~i ~r~d cr~~st~~ltc~a:hiq~~ ~n~ m.ma~;ement #c~hniqucs, into victi~~i ►nf~rvcn~is~n±~, ~rc~visicat~ cif s~l~t~is)sup~aort {lcar~ir~~ ~a~~~ac~rt ~~c~jer ~~~i*~~-~n~e ~int~I, cv~t~ r~~ullr ~~c~~a cla~~t~ ~ric~

3`r~t~uent hcjliciay~.~xrL ~tcx~ ~rc~vin~ ~nt7u~k~ tCs gL['fihrtjggli this scl~c~t~l ya-ar

,~1 elo~r~ l~+ak

~t First ~Isnce, ~lit~ itu~t ~n secnlecl ~vcr~vhclt~ n~;. Thy; ~i~~en~;«~er~ that th4 Irisc;t~t~~ic~siei<~n ic~uld naafi ire ~Itcr~~i ~u~3 t{tit ~~anYc circ~unn~k~rtccs (~eyc~r~~ the s~;hi~~al

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t~ttYlCCsp~Gt7e~t 4'tyU~~ ebc~t lit ~c.~tlkrtillLC{ t)C ~ils~~l~t'~I (fatT~l~i~5 ~Vl~( ~)C~~I~ ~t_SSV~

r~~;arcll~~s cif ~~ft}rt~ m~a~i~~, fIc>wtvcr, 4~t ~l~j~~r «s}~~~tit~t~, tnarl5~ p~~~ ~ vas atr~3

rt~u~:h ~~~~t~t t~l rxi~t~~l. try Kht~ early st{~~es, ~h~ t~:~t~hc~ h~~ war~c~ li~~`t~ tc~ c~cjatc~IG~r ~~c~~~r~c~tic~t~~ ~cfr ~h~ cl~~s. Tlj~~~~ ~5~~~ ~c~i~cn~c tH~c ~igt~ts, ru1~s 4~n~ r4~~ct~-

~iL~il~k ~~ fay t it ~l~i4st-~c~r~ h id hee~ ~~t~l~ii~h~ci. [t~:4r~~rc~ end ~c~n~~c~u~r~~~ sywgeiai~,~v~rc ~lsc~ in ~l~c~ ire f~~t, tl~c tc~~ch~:r h~c3 ~ckr~~ t<3 gYc~t Icr~~ths t~~ u ~ ~~~~~ti ~~

~n~ crea~iv~ ~r~.~-~5s~s tt~ n~nti~~t~ ~sx~t rc~taf~te ~`hc ~rr~►~fet~ts' h~h~tviour4. ~I"h~rc^Wire ̀ ~it~ t~~ i;htt~ucs't S~i~l~~ i` h4~s}k ~~ ~t~t#6c-ec~~ ~e~~ct~ t~~ ir~cJttti~:s, ̀ hr~rtk ~~c c~k~'

~~1~ ~tm51~t~~' ~5t)t~ty r~~ rc~tr~t~s~ ~p~iYc~~S~`I~~C n~ti~~ri~, ~~cyrC c~~ld~erf~,irl~ ~~4`i~~ut`

w~r~; ~t~t~a~e~ tl~rt~«gh ̀ ~t~:ps' prc,~~es;~e5 {c;~. ti'~r'~trnin~; ~ t~ui~tTii~c~ `(`itn~-hutC)ffic~}, tE~~ `eh'ii~-csut c«rn~:r' ~n~ l~Gn~, c,~~j `~rrc~l~~tic~n'. Tl~i~ ~1~~~ rv~~ ~illc~{

with ~ +~~v~~~tch a~ l~cl~~~~ic}tlr rnan~~~En~rtc i~{eas, ~nci }~cr there scce~t~ci ct~ Ear ~ lick

cat 4~i-c>per~~ii>rt ~r~cl ~ctltesivcn~s~;. Thai te~~her ~4~~a Eeelirt~; tatCci'!y ~xh~.u~tecl with

tryi~~ to 1.«p ~ 4t~ich ~u~'~ie;ul~~n ticrr~~nc~~ ~r~t! the'c~llca~v-cttt`tsu~~t ~f the cl.t~~x

ec~cam b~~~~itit~r m;tn~~~r~t~nX ~ls~n. Ter►sit~n w~5 tr~t~untin~;, ~n~i Svc?uf~t ~r~tiwr

~ycir~e ley el~e~ e:n~i ~~ the ~4~~tk, ~rft~~r Iunch L~rr~les, a~cc~ s~rcc~i~l ~;~ lestc~nt ~c~r an}~o~h~r ch~~~ ct in e(~e: uku~1 ~ehc~c~~ul~~ ;~c~ct av~tcn r~riv rc~nrncnt~l ::c~n~i~ic~ris ~:han~;e~~[,

t,y. it ~c~t h~s~j it r~irt~sl~ ~u11 n~€~~tt(~~, ec~:

H+~1p ~s of ~a~d

Alt tl~ ~ ch i ~,c~r ~~i urit~iy~icc~ ~~ici ~ n~ci~t t~i~ti~~{~ ~~~rc~ach ~rrcv~it~~i. ~t~~te~ i~

were rn~tem~nc~:d s~~ ~~intr~sl sc~m~ cif the tn~~er~r~ment~i fa~:r~~r~. ~~}r cx~mplc,

c~i~°ic~r~~ t~rer~ in~F~ll~c~ l~[~tje;4n tlic ~1~s~c;~ tia ttit ~iti~~n ~~~4s~ -t~pis~ ~~d 3c>~r7~

l~ounal~r~~s 1~~er~ mc~r~ ~1~~r3y est~(~~i~hcr~ rep e~~~ d~y~~ ir~t~rf~r~~~e frestn i~~~rttii~ig

~~Ils ~durin~ tc~~tEliin~ tithe. F~ct~ve~~r, tf~e ~~c~visi~in acid ~~u~~k~i~~c~ r~~ "~c~11e~~u

sup~~~rt ~v~ tc~ at~ke ~ ret! c~ifl~re~ce ar~~ ~cncr~ted ~iiffcrec~t t►~~}~s ~e~ vi~~v a~~ih~n~il~ this s ~u~tic~r~, anal r~~r~~G in~}~cxr~~nCl~~ illustrat~:~l that rzc> ~kt3e i~ r~lr~trc iii t~s~sz's~tfr~~tir,rr~~ I am s~r~ Zvi- tin a~~reri~te ~vl~~t it i~ like tK~ h~rvi- ~ c:lass jai ~ tide this

c~ti~ rsr eca }~~~l~ rti~titrri~tres eif su~:h ~t ~l~ssfT~~eth~r, tfY~ tcnel~ei- ~nc~ her su~pc~rt ct~lle~j~tie t~e~ n tea ~~cE~~r infc~rrn~t ~aai

aEsci c:c~11~1~c~r~~~, I3y ~titt~I~~ the ev c~~t~c:s tt~~;c;~hcr it k~ :~:~ni~ a~ip~trce~st th~c tt~t

t«~:lj~r ~.~~~s c~rryin~ n~ueh ~iE ~h~: r~:s~ciFss~~ili~y ~c~r ~1~~ ~.l~ss~cum f~~~~cci~nin~,

~Uh G~ the E~eha~i~ur fit~~ttx:r~;~rn~nt st~`~tc;~i~s ~~yt~r~ c~c~tive =tTici ~l~iuic~ant, [hLre

t~~~ t~~~r~ Eirzs rtd s~~c~~n~ i~ ~el~cm~rjt its chess ~r~~~~~,~~, l~'ith su~.}~ ~ ~~~r;~:~y ~F

scrg~~cgi~s ire pl~cc, is «t~s ~Is~ ~~e~atnin~ cif€ic;ul~ e~} i~~i~lc:rn€.r~c ~tt~i fc~llt~~v chrc~t`~h

v~itl~ alI cif thtf~► cff~Eci~el~. Ri~,h~~, ~ule4 ~rt~1 res~iU~si~i lecics c~r~~:~ ~I~~rl~~ a~ ~~l~}~c~~h~~~r th c.1~;cti,~oti~i h~ci,~l~~i s(i~id ~c~ thie~ ~ici~lifle ~~ the c:lsts~ ts~.e~r~t r~~~c ~~c~

tncarr ~lifFicuit s~~ rt~~~~ge.

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`(~h~'i~ n~ on tl~e ctke'.p so to sge,~l , occ~irrec~ ~t the'p.~renr city` a a tray whenthe p~~r~nt~ visited them children's ~lassroc~ms try see son~e.c~F else ncl~ie~=eme~ies o~tl~~ ~~~ar, C~tti this ds~y, [he st~~~lei~t~ r~~ tcs f:~cilirat~ tt~~ir c~~~n 41n~s na~~ti~i~ infront cif t~t~e pare~its t~ illtEstr~te h~~~ their ~l~ss ̀ ~vcarke~-1 tl~in~~ c7ut'. ̀['h~ pc~siti~~er~~p~nse fes~m t1~c ~~rent~ St,~~s c~v~rwhslmin~, ~~*ith mane ~~r~1~ts ~~mn~cntin~thrit it would 1~e 4v~t~~~rfu~ i~ th4y c~~~~(d use inch x~n ~i~~ ac l~~s~n~ (e~~< f.~n~il},rn~~tin~s} tc~ sc~l~a~ pco~ile~i3s, This ~e~r~h:~~k w~-►~ ve~lue~i k~}~ bntl~ kh~ t~~ich~r «ndseu~3ck~ts m. i~ ~c~nfirin~d ~a~hat tl~~y alre:~dy kn~ly a1~~»t ~fl tla~}F h~~ nc4omplish~das ;~ tc~n1~~t first ~;lanre; game p~~~l~ tivoi~lci ]3ave ~ vin ~~p ~n this 3`eac 4 ~las~ ho4~~cTer,

:~ ~:~rin~ and d~dict~te~l t~~~h~~~ ~~ team ~p}~rr~~~h to int~rventian ,and ~i ~cot~}~ of~hil~e~n ~~illing try ~h~n~e n~~iv~~d this clz~ss t~~~~r~s p ositive n~;tc~m~s. ~~rh le ittc~r~k h~~rcl wnrk from ~veryc~n~ im*~lv~c~, the res~~lts ;~~d the ~~~rnin~ ~xptri~n4csalc~n,~ ih~ way 9nacte is ill 4vc~erk~w~~ite,

~.~Ti }~nt~ ~eliey~ th;~t it «,gas harrJ tc~ s;tX g~c~~3bye to_tl~is ~rt~up ~f h lcic~l~ t}nshy l~~t il,~y cif sch+~o1~ Wf~at a journey it vas!

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c~(d, ver~r u~~ketti~t in a}~~~~ranc~, Luc +~f ~~~if~rn~ tr7~st r~F the tee, ~lti~~ay's ~ru~i~i~,

~~r~d his lends ~~+~~era~d in (~akin~ (~ ec~ (which fig ~~I~c~ used to such ~►~d clew ~

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~:rin~ ~v~r:}~ gait} hc: c1;~1 r~c~t ~uc~c4~t t~u~ he did ~n~nag~ tts ~,-~11 ~~v~~ y~an~ withinhc~riitg c_li~t~~n~c~ r~~t~~~ pia m~tkc yc~~~r s~tr:~ stir!!

~c~hn»}. tva~ cis rh+: dresy~1~G11 crc;~c~mill r~~ ̀ ~~~tyEhing tl,~r ~ca~;s +,~rrc3ri~ ~ ~t~y f:~ult'.~=iry ~~ rg ~tirc~ulci e~t~;il)< < ~t~cl ~~aE~~+il}' ~cn~ 1~13itt i~ ~titi c~ir4~ri ir3 ~rtd ~ ;six c~~;ily:;tucl~t Th~,r~ ivy ~ .~ hf~1~ I~a~l {,f anr~~;~ir►i;~rt~ b~~~~~~ hirr~ ~n~ most s~f hip ~~~r~~l~~~tfi in ~1~~~ and in the ~I~p~rsa~tn~3, This hc~y',y self-~~tr~em artcl rcc:~a~nicicJrt w~~ti(~ui{~ c3n ~c#tkn~; ~trenkic3n end ~l~v~~s t>f thy: ~ ut~iti}~~ ~:ind. i-lip hca~f~• lan~u~~c~r~n~;ly rcfl~~~~i a ̀dt~n't ~:urr' :~tti~~i~~. Th«~ Fva~ rar4ty ~n}~ ~y~ c;~~rit~~4t s~r~cl htr~arcly ~@cakc in t>thcr than shr~rt in~c~m}~l~tc 5~ntettci~:, his hr~~1 cic~~vn,

~r~«k ~4~c7rk w<zs al~nc~~e nc3n-exi~t~nt. Whiz lte c~i~1 ~ra~lctc4 tiv.~r:r ~er~~~}', iile~-i1~Ic, ~ntc3m~lctc, na~c:~ra~c, grul~Fiy ar,~ hi: 'r~ttcn fai~cc~ rc~ start 1xe~u5c Eiecc~ulc~n't 1`irtd 1~~~ ~n~i1. Nckt h~:in~ ~C~I~ tea lvc~t~} ~s wrdfir~~ im~il~~ri~nt way ~ ni~ttcrrif tc~t~r~;~:~-<►c the b~~it~r~~n~ t~~ ~~c:h ~c~sic,rf~ ncit ~~ct~ ~ ~y~ ~~ut rv~r}~ ~irii~ he hei- lccl~c> cir~ ~;canit applic~rrc~n ~~~csrk. L~Pith tiii~ t~4in~; tla~ ~~st, z w:~~ ciiffic~lr cc~ €~s~~:rr~inJ~ahtny's ~~~d~ri~ic abili~P. II;, s~u~k-witti:cit~~;~ti With 'srtr~rt ~tc~' c~irr~n~Lnts lii~;un~in~;ric~~ in tU~~eritig kim,cl~ epn~c;rr~ng tYc~~1,14 ~ncl 4V1~~~ 1►c ~i~it1~1 ~~tu~l(}r~~~, a, tircn 4vitly tit lictti~et~ :lmc}unt 64 i1ic1 dcr unt~cr ~~i~erv~sic~t~, l~cl m~ tir (tclicvcth ►t ,j<71it~r~~~ c~otilc~ l~arr~, t~tiid [~e .i c:~r~tp4tct~t I~~rn~r5 lout his ~r~r~u~rat ~att4rn ciftask-a~~cric~ancE ~v~s rriakin~ this r~u~c.c~rtt ~ s~~ntin~ly un~tlYi~v~i~lc,

r1t ttjis ~c~int~ I ni;cc~ ~~i ~~[c~ that Jc~l~nrjy ~v~~ r-cry dis~~~~ni~c ~. I li, desk ~tit~s afii~hfrty~rt; ~~per:~ zverytvh~rc, t~,r►~ ~t~~ urr;~~rc~ tt~ .~r~~ nc~tli~n~; in their Fc~l~sr~~~ecise h~~ l~~ ~ip~cl; f~tt-tip ~c~s luc~sc ~,~cl ~vit}iou~ Jir~s eaus~n~ ii~~}r~ ~nzss, knitof told ~ur~cki; h~t~ (iion,schuol liats~ end ~Ic~ ju~t~~rs; ~~t~~~r 'flc~~5~~~n ~~d j~t~at~~'

~~li~r t~ r~i~tt-}'r olci ~ii~ys ~nci ss~~t~eti~~~s eli:~e ~lusii+z p~,i :~~t~{ ~«icil ~~%~ totilc-tr,'cfind. Ie ~v~~ li~tic «rr~T~ci~r i~ t~x~~; sc~ lc~tt~, fc~r hint acs ~~t :;t~r~t~~i (scc~ ~Isc~ ~. S i ~.

~~ly y~~r~ c~~ te~~:lu~g ~~€perien~~ and atu~enr ~~~~~~~~~~~ie~tit te~3'~~~~ [u b~li~:~~e chipl~oy t~~~i l~ sekec! tiu~r~z if intro ~ t~i~ ~c~rncr ~n~l ~v~s uut of his cle~tl~ ~n n~:~ny trar►ta.Ir etas not taco cl~fficul[ tc~ wUrk our chat his frustrarin~ l~rltav tour ~tiP~s :f~{c~icf~nce.ts~l~~yia~r tit~~ the :tv~id~nc~ ~~~s :~ further ct~ver ~c~r :~ r~~mLxr ref t~hvis~ii~ ~n~ r~cstsc~ t~t~viou~ is~~~~.

$~a~tin~ ~a le~tp ~ol~~t~'y s~~n~+~~ hid f~c~r~ ~ wQ~kirt~ ta~~th~r

I~t is ;~Ir,~~~y~ dffiettl~ ~'c~ cfevcat~ rnt~r~: titnc ~c~ ~crine~n~; iit yc,ut ~l.tss t~~tc~ ~~lr4~tc~ytikes t~~ hu~~ an~ut►~ts cif vc~ur urns:, ev~~ if ie is ~c~r ~ur~ly ~iiSGiplinu re~s~atts, ~u~tlic' fii:sC ~cs~~ ~~tr~s ttr itiri~ r~itlt ~th~ ~cGr~~u~l~~ ~thcnt ~~r~~r,i~:tci~~n ~kill~ — tl~~tt is,~fccr t 1~~c~ p~psitivr►~d hin~ ire ~hc el~4ti w1~te~: fir h~c~ nc~ ~~~~ ~s rt~~c~ ~iitf~ rcre~ nc,c1~~t~;~~tkd~~~5 ~r~~l ~~ rli~: ~;ci~~ c~E ~cu+l~T~~y ~v~c~ ~~d ~:rauu~;h se1~-~ii3~~pl►n~ ss~ rh~~t~~vci4,fdt~'e lie GUc~ c~istrx~~e~~ ~iy itii~i..

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utc5 t{ ~c;~~ dean {7t~t l~i~ cfc~;k, ~cfm~tim~4 tin~itt~ ~E~e ̀ €nwt ~~r~cil' ~t~d ct~ng c~'t~~x~ l~t~c~k~ r+ce~iet~ tc~ e~j~: test cif tit piE~. 7'E~i> i~~~~ ~ ~~ynsc~Eucne~ ~t ~i~ tv~y~intime- icy c~t4 ~ir4c ~~ssiey~t ~~nc~, th~r~F~~re, nc~t t~~irtg ~1~IG eta Eirrtf ~~~~~hi~t~,. C~~=~r ~im~5

~it~~~~k~l}? l,~e~u~c' c,k f~~e claly~ tle~l~ ~l~ar~ nttc anc~ Ir~~iirt~ thr~s ~r~ l~i~ d~~is l~~ ~i~-

ti~if, J~~h~in~ h~~:~t~j+ efi3c~rc'~u~c~.s~Et~l iii hip I~~~r~ir~g t~sl~~ ~i~d is~ hip IGarni~~ fn~~~;s,

~~;~~' inclir~icliy~l ~tteriticrrt (~eEr~ as Frr~~iti~~~} ~n~ ~rr~i~ rv~ts ~~(~r~ai~tcci, ~lchric~~;h tctgly ~«{i~er~ ~hi;~ ~vli~n cpv~ r t}tc three-mc~rith ~i~~ r~ci, lic; ~v~s sli~htly~ mc~~ r~1~~~~i

with m~ ~tr~~l::~li~htly rnryr~: 4c~-ca~~r~ti`~r~s I3~s3~e~, tE~is I~ci ~v~s mt~s n~; c?ut t'~i k~m~crE his rc: c~. t end, in i~se~f ~ r~uis:tnce f~~r hii~r s1r~d n~c, buts in my i ~ts~, in city I~~t~~run, tiv~li ~~~c>rt~~ it. Re~;a~rt6in~ the e<ansE~nt lc~~s of his pencil, ha: 1a~c1 tt~ hand it itlccy ~t~~ 1~~Fc>rt he +~cnt rc> p1~~, lunch at~~t hc7rne. Tl c t~s~e Fcfr r~r v~P~s cci r~m~ir~Eacr

ttx Cc>ll~c:t iY lat~~u~;~ it tiv~s up cep min to ~t>Ilia~a thrcyu~E~ tc~ k~c~ c'1fc~Ciirc.TI~~ a1c:~t 1~iK cif c:~t~`~ e~trt4 frirr~a tn~ #t~c~st~cs ~hc nc~ ~5sary~ cli~cii~linc ~ i~~~~ tc~ sr~-

tir~r~ m}~s~;lf vicar hi~n rfr r~ ~~~1~trly r~~f~vL ~~~~k ec~ st~r~d k~~~~ct~ h ~~t ~n~ ~tirecc <tri~enr„c~ctr~;;c Is rtt rc} c1~e t~tx~ i~c:m. [ ~F~c~ult~ cv~~t gef l~i~ ~t~rt~cl Ley ~c~in~ tlt~ tir5ti~~m t~~~cti liiris. 1 ~tii ~~~~i~3 thc;re ~rr~[~~t~ly ~s nci t~~l~er ~v~y, ,an ~hr~rt-cut cir l~s~tc'at6er-intcrtsivc w~}r ~ ~tri~1 I w~~ fu rl}t yui~kly re+~~rt~cd in ~a:~.in~, ~, t~urye~dty~ :tnt~

~u~lit}r cat wiyrk cc3n ~l~:r~€~.Ic ~~t►tit t7e itz~c~ ch;~t I w,~ riot ~~ttir~g ~art,~ehi~vaEStt; ~c~~l~ like. c~c~m}~l~~in~ ~l1

the sct wrrrf~ ~r~r ire thz ~~ely p~e~ie>~} c.v~n i~.tlE ~f it!Y. We sv~r~ ~c,trii~i~; trc~f~ vireu-~Ily r~di c~~~~ut tct ~r~rr~e. I ~v;sulz~ [~~ ~i=atcful ffar any ~h~~~~, roc} tn~~t~~ h~i~u krn~ll~e first — liut in rite 1c~it~cr t~r~n, a rr~iY~g ~~ high ~s I cl~tre~. I ~t~~s Lncaaue~~ zti ~ttd

~n~Y ~4l's;h~ rr,u~~ h~v~ shawr~; ~as;~~E~nrt}r tx~~r~ cc} ras~rcis~~:1n r~~~ m~c~r►~iiat~:, rh~ro~=ire ~~ric~~hEr 29 ~c~ut`th-~r:~~cr~ ~►usitk d~ r~~'~hc~ r e1ri~~', .lc~hs~rt}' tv~s~~'t ~h~ c~t~1yC~ISEC~Gtitt}; C1C C~1SL`U~?t1Vi' SCUt:~E'11t,

T~~~'~y~s that Jphrany di f~t't 'cc,~m~ to schc~c~1— l neusz ~cicnii —1verc ~li~~ful, 1~ewire pr~tt~= much a ~~c~rma( ~n~r~etic ~r~~e 4. I-1e~we~•cr, ehrre ~ver~ r~~r~k dew t~~

chr~s~ ~iays 1~h~~ Jc~hr~r~r~ r~a~ ~sUc ~h~r~.~~Y p~inti~ial rv:~~ tnUst su~~r~i~°e, €ne~u~°~~;ittg rri~ ru: se~c~ Jc~1~t~n}~ to }~ir~~ c

give rr e s~-~t~7e rs~li~F ~nsl te~tc~r~ same Fc~rcn ~f ~~r~it}~ tc~ cl~~; ~ ~assr~t~m, lour rt~y ~ric~e~«~ rre~ ~rlt-c~stec;rn ire tc:r~r c~£ sruc~cnc ~rt~n~g~rxYc:~zt ~c7G tf ~ ~~~c ~ cad ~it~ Y~ic~st caf~1~~ t~rr7~~. E~~~t~r~*~~~:r, I eli~ r~~cnr once c►r t~ c~; ~i'~~i` AEI, ~h~ s~uclent~ w~ul~t t~4n~ti~4j~ic~ s{> ~~rc~~~l I, I crTt!}f h~i~ tE~i~ class far the ~~~ term s~ i ~~~~sw yc~~a ~:c~ul~l cc}n-

~idc~ rn~ ̀fresi~', t~~ I S~~attCc~ ~~c~~ easily ~+r ~u z~Cly ~cn~ hits gut, h~ r~~li~cc~ tftis ~u~s

~~h~~~. he ,vas r~ t}~ —ire c~u~` ~1~3s, tint rtt~~tl}' a~~t~~ti~ c~uz cif thtr~~;s'.

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ttc~t ~~~~~u~;1~ to c;c~~~~;~yiic~~t~ i:ht pc~siti~4 .~h1+a~;~ti a~~d fear sc~i~a~ ~'~~~ca~~ 1 ~~[t ~~'itl~~rantht~r y~ ~r rh~n~e w+aulc3 lam: n~c~rL inr~c~rin~;. Tip h~l~~ ~~f~n ftzrthGr, c ur }~~i►ic t`p~lc~~ci~i~d tc> t~r~.~k tl~~ tl~r~c~ ~r~fu~~ cif l~i~ ~I~~;s~:~ cat c~~tcr ~tl iijte~ fc ur ~n~~ller ~r~~u~t~,1 li:i~M a tin}~ rrx~» end, ni~~~f cfnly~ ~,3 studenrs. This n~~tdc ~~ ~a~c~rmr~u~ differ~n~r.1~:+ rVc11 a~ rr1a11~C r~u~l?ie~ ~c» ta<h class, tlic c11;tllc~i~ii~~ ~eu~~~~ts {~~t1 irlc~rc jr~~ti-~ clu~l ~t~~neic~r~s a~~d ~c~sc st~~t~ cif their ̀ ~~utt~1~`. Thar ~r~vii7u5 Yc~~~ ~} l~;v~% iv~s:l~~a~~}• ~~tin~;. 1'~u se~n~ to ~;~~ t}~aG ~~r~ry nci~a~ znd a~~i~i in ~ ~~hisnl'~ tiisrirr}; [`his~crj~t~n~~~'~t~~3 klj~= ir~,pn~~n~~ cif ~l~4s ~iz~ arici ~~u~icnt str~c:tur~, Itr ~urncd c,ut cl~~~ IC~i~lj'~ 1l~Gt~ tt} ~1~{A~~ ~l1S ~CITl~ C5} {()~LItiC(~ :~11~ ~t'TT1 y1SL`i~)lill~ fIL.'~~CC~ ~~C ~SiC1'1C)~11.

~~car in Yc.tr 4. Tht four n4~~r Y ar 5 tcach~c~ ~vcr~ ~xtr~m+~ly ,~r~t~ful ~~ir thir~~ rran~er~tcttt.

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5n~~llcr rl:~~:; size ~~d ~ ~ti~~~•r rr~n o~ ~~r~c~n~~itics alyc ~tmtri~iut~cl pci~itiy~l}' SriJvlr~»y''+ I~h;~i ic~ur. T~iat tiv.tr ti}e }~t~r 1~~l~~t, ~y ~«:ielGnt (~r ftrrrun:~ee ~~~~~jrtur~i~}t};~~~e :caw ~rtc~the:r side ec~ hirn, ~-I4 ~v;~s ~ap}~icr in the ~~n~Il~~-cl~~;s :crrin~; hc~ kric=~v ~i~~5 ~ h~l}~r ~frc~rrt l~s~ terrnj'.Yri~l eh~ stt~~f~nr,; ►a~~<~ h5~1 r~~in~c>r~~~l,t~i~ innap~~~i~~ri~tcl~h~~,=i«ttt~ ~~~cr~ nc~ Ic~r~gcr ire filic: ti:~n~~ c13~~, AI ~~, c,~irh .~ ~n;~fl~r .~l~±~s ~ti~! t~,r ~t~crzre[~a~~t ~n~irc~nrt~enr, x+~G ~itl mc~r~ [ntc?~~;ttv~ ~nct intcr~,•,ting thins: liicc fuxm~Id~[~~fin~ (i~r~c ~Itie ~r~uira~ evieh Elie ~~~~~ cX variety ~tk iii the pest), I~ ~v~~ tiers ~~c ~n~=;~►~c~thcr skill. This L7~j~; t~~~ t~ thriv~r~ ~n pt~sitiv~ ~trtnrtic~n (~ik~ ~~c~st ~f u~), cc~ul~i ~~tthis un~ivic~tii ~ttenric~i~ tl~rati~ h c3~l~~~it~~;, ~n~l hip prcr~~t3usly ~~n~i an~c~ quirk-~vi~t~clnc~ l~~c~ir~r ~ ~crsitiv~ ~~t~i~«~~; I iv~~ulc~ c,ft~cj - ~ir~c~ hi~~, iii ~ ~cfrair r, ljy1~itnsc~lt, r°~~ci~ir~~ ~vh~e 1~~ t~>a~jrcd t« sa}~ 1xFr~~e tx~inr~ing ~ d`t~a~ir~~ a~3~~i~.

IJ~ fur~hee car~yc into hip uwn r~~~~r~ ~h~: cl~x~ :~c.~rtc~3 ~ra~t ~ n~; f~,r the :~~~,t~~ls~h~i~l ~or~ccer, ~e l~ec:atrt~: ~ pul~~i~ r~v~y~ apt :;l~c~~vi~~~; ~tll ~i~ }~~rs ~nci chc ~4~h~1~s~:ht~u1 eommuciixy ~ mast zalente~l s~ci~ ~f a [aayr who in the ~;~st ~~~cmeel trs ~hi~~k~I~t c~~~l~ tva}~ to ~~t ~ttc~~tic~r~ u~aa the: ~i4g:~tivz: kind. tit the; dr~;4~ r~hear~aC~ ~o~~tc:Ut tk~~ ca t ~~verr aEisent, c~tus n~ I7st m;n~.►tc pa~i t. '~~G'itlic~uc ~lirec~;crn1 Johnny -~vltc~ h~tc~ 1t~rnt :itl the riles — sre~per~ intt~ cl°►e r~,~~iaus ch~~r~cc~r,, ~,ivFn~; t1~~. dz~}~!

1 ~iu~j"c r~~i51~ ►.0 stF~;~esr that this w:~~ ̀ tr~a~;i~'; ehrre isri'k ~t~y~. Ir ~ti~.ls ~l~c~iue ~in~ixs~ter~~, ~i~Ei~~in~ tlt~ cx}~~t~cic7tt3 ~peut~~!#l~~ ~c>r~sic~cr4~# ̀ t~~r~Scr3' ~7Y ~~c Sttlt~cilf},~ak►n~ arn~Jl-~~:Iri~:-v~b1~ sups,, ~'~,F~crl~~Ii~ nt7~f~ter~~r~tt~ the c'l~ild ~n~i i~ duin{~ ~~~~:~~1Urv~n~ ~u~:«sy -- ~Ic~tvl~4 turning; kl~r ~c~c~~ ~ri~u~scl, ~}~ 4~ rhea r~; s~~~~it p~~it ~ t~,~nc~ :~ I~~l n~; cif ~t~~~:~ss, ~h~r~ i~ ~ eh~nc:~ CU fir~ci s~rrietl~in~ tli~ child i~, gcui~i ~~..Arid l~zl~ thorn tct ~~~►it~l s~ czn z11is:

F~~~~il~~ ~~t~~c~rc is c:s~~.~t ~l a~~ c~,rly iee Yc~~r 5 I ~i~t ~i~~x ~7ut tea his }~~cer~e~ thew«ij~hrf~►i ~:h~t~~~ e~fe ~ver~ t~~tiatt~ .~ttd ~;c~~r~,h~ ~h~ir su~p~rt. IS~tily rcac~~n~ ~~j~1t~c~rncwc~rk ~~~r~r~i~met~~~ i~f4~e ba~~ic:~lly ~~~}~ frs~~c ~itl~ ~C~err~ :rnc~ ~ nog€~i~k~le~.li~n~,c ie~s ~~Yr~ ~u~~'sc~c ~hi~ c.la~~~~3c~n~. its my ir7flu~t~tc ̀ c~ititi~it~~', th~r~ ~vsta ~:<gT~-~~nu~r~ imprcy~~en~~:n~ in Jc~~tn►ty"s ~urysist~~cy ~tr~c! Ec~}~etlty,

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cic3ti, ~Il 1 n~:ci~cc~ tc~ ~:Ic~ ~`~i[la Jcsh~n~ nr~~~f ~v~stcs ~v~ ~ ̀~`~:n~in~t°r Idx3{~' {~jicf n~Ftmmy 'f ~~s~ vcr~ csr~' ~Kth~:r~. C cans: ~r~~~~~ the days ~r~i~cn t~isci~ilit~in~ hit► t~c~~t~t ~n~~r?d~ni~i~ ~c~~ ~~trs~. T~~ nice thing ~.~~rt 1~~ tivc~ul~ ~u4«~Ily eitl~cr ~;i~~~ m~ ~ ~rir+ r~s~ ~~rFi~~r~~ ~~~~i ~~ t~~z z~~Fth ~~i~ txf~~~.

Ti~i:~ ~r~:~ +~~t~rtdzrE~~1 ~r,r ~j~ ~~ ~ ~~a~h~r, As fir [ ~v~~ ~~i~t~;~rnGct, ~Ii w:~~ ntyea~al,! ~hc~~lcl ~~t~9 eh~~ ::trtT~'tur~cl rc`.licaci( xr~c,rk t~,~as ~~sua11}F cant~let~c~ rr~ichiaut much {sFrn}E in~cry~ntit~ii. Jc~hnr~y ~~i11 h~s~ wcanie tt<ai~E~lc~ u~ir~g 1~i5 ►ttiti~ki~f~ 4vM~h t~s~:~ 1ik~~it°c~j~~Ks !~y thy: ~t~t~ ~~f 1~~r ,S.'~Ythil~ h~ t~n~3~ c~ cfr wt~y ~e~ ~k~c jc~h, ~s1~~nin~ ~v~;: ~t~llh}~ ,,vc~knc4~ ,mess ~ struetur~ ~~~~s ~~r d upon. (cx~r~~t~c~ tlii~ wc~u~~l im~~rc~vwixh i litkle nt~~ur ty~ ~ncl ~vhc:n t~4 tncxvcd into 1'~hr G.

i]u~iot~ hip year in Year S, _Js~lrntty'~ h~~tttc►ur Inc{ c~uic;~C-w ictecJn~~~;s ~ti~s~n I~im aver~rirh his e~~4s ~Ccrs ~hc~ he fc~uncl ne~~ k~enr~s. ~ll~~r, f~c ~~~t chit rht c~dlcnt~+ inta1~Y ~l~s~ 5~~~' Y~i~~ ~ }~~4~ firth ~c7►' t~iis-~~~, 1t~c~tC~~iT1~ ~e ~+1f~ti licit ~ ̀~d>5t ~~iu~', tt~tist'

huv~ nf(u~nc~tl tlttm ~n cic;~rttc~}~ ~t E~~tG~r attit~cl~ ~c}y~~c~3~'~irn. ,Jcahnr►y h~~;~-rrr Fc~liai~k ~ec~~lc s~c~nft'cis;»tly in the ~~~t{ ~vhrn c~[kin~ t~ ~}~ecti. }~I4 ~'Ft~ al~c_} rn~zr~ ~~art-cist~nt vvit~i hcw s~lfcic~l uetif~t`ti~ ~- ~~i~~ ~ ~~tlt hzt~ Ftc~n~ ~ ~eii~nil ~~ltc }~a'inc~ik~~tl}.

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'£~, ~~ti~t~~ri:~c;, I ~;~~+~~s ivh~r~ ttic ne:e c~ i~ ~r f, r~~c find tl~~t lii~ldcn res~~v ~ t~f ~~ti~n~.e~n~ ~ic7~edrj~:ss. ~vA~~c ~s~;t~tti~l, ~nzl 1 ~~nttc~e e►npli~si~;~ thi en~lu~li, G~~ ~trc=jicrrctd td~j~tet lit Phc} tittt~y /`c,r th€? ~trrdcpt~t; ~.~t r€~listic: ~ ~s~ls, Inc fair ~~i~! cexi~i~rcnk ~nc3 f~illc3e~~t[~l~ ~[3~1[~W tl~'i Z3t7 EYt=Y~'C~ltf't~ —• C~~ ~taCl[~ ~11~ ~{t~ ti()t SCf ~;i30[~: { 1itL`L ,~f3~t1i1~' ~~~~Y C~l~tf

I tr~~=ts e ue t~ Delp hirt~ an t a~ the s~cne rime t6~erc ~vcr~ f:~ir lintieatic~a's far Gehavir~i~rin ~ilr el:tr's ~n~ #`pie ~can~ cpu~nc~+, he lr~rne~ tts tru~;t ~trt~3 ~h~r►~ e~. ~I icnewu I I~~~iredly rea~hcd Irirn ~vlten he felt c+ncnfc~rtahle ett~ju~;h tc~ c~~li the ~4~1rs F~:~

Ji~l~nn~f ritc»,~~ci c» ~cF Year ~i ( ithr~u~ my t~flucnci:~ erg r~t~in ~ re~~;c~nal~l~ ~a[rnc1~t-~~~nr~ur, ~Ic~rn~ ~~'~11 checitih~ut ~i~ Y~~r 6 ~crt~rn~y. ~'~s, h~ h~a~ t}i~ ~d~ cltt~n-.tic~~► L~~t ~cmk it ~vith~ut ~r~tcrnen~, ~~~ eci his ~crriseyurnc~s anti rr~c~k~~i ~cfr~, I~Iestc,ncl xh~r~ c~c tl~~, l'c~~r ~ ~r~dc~~ec~n ctr~~nc~ti~~ r~4~i~°~n~, lii~ ~c~r~iti~~~~ ju~~ lka~vtr}~ u~ti~r did — li~~~Y~ ~r~~cl, ~ ei~l a~i~l pn E~i~ ~`~s~ with ~~ t~klin~ ~~ ~r,~~%tuc~~. ~Tc ~~r~ n~~d~ it — in tt~orc w~~°~ tli~~ ~~c.

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ec~r~m~~n ~~rn~~rn tc~ th~►~ ~s incivi~ual~ ~~c~ ~~ ~ ~rc~~~: I~~r~ is ~vl~~t c'ns t~vhc71~Felms clt~}srrar~trr 1~~h;►vir~uc agr~cm~nr s~}f~ a13~ut their tn«~in~s:

In-~u~ Mass —1~e~~ f — w~ use ~I~ssroc~m s-n~~~ings fog vc~~irus ~u~pos~s such cis~layir~~ gs~~es, di~~y~~is~r~ aetivifie~, planning end as ❑ wny of di~~uss'r~ng ar~ds~Iv{n~ ~rol~l~ms,The elc~ssrac~m meeting ~s o~~n Ica everyone i~ c ur clr~s$ Unc~ every€~ne hc~s the

tight to express their (ee~ings car t4 remain sil~n~, ~oi'netimes we invite studeri~~ frgmc~i~er classes into Qur cic~ssr~m meetings,7h~s~ ~$etings carp p~sitiv~ ~~icR cc~nstrueiiv~; trying fi~ help c~~t~ sup~~r9 the indi-

uiclut~l ►vhil~t dealing effdctiv~ly with If~e p~ca66erii. We Qj~oy~ try fo rrtnke the~~r~on feel supp~ri~d ~n~ unci~rst~gt~ Q~ Ih~ end ~f Q p~4~sl~m-~ol~ing di~~~~i~an.Any consequences chat c~~e diseuss~d 6y the stv~lents a1 these m~efii~~s muse be

reel a~ivifi~es, related 10 the pr~bl~rn and r~spec#ful to ~verpone.

`fhr; ~al~~~ain~; 4ws~y~ illussrate I~c~w t~~~:hcrs h~v~ usr~! cl~s~r~c~~~a m~:a:tin~;s tc~ ii~1~their ~tudcnts trr,

un~l~rst~~~d ether stxadene~' F~~lu~~~ end ~onc~rs~s {g~~spg~tiv~-~al~i~ag~test c~~~t tt~cir indivi~l~~~J ~ie~u~tit~iclen ti~~ir n~} n t~nder~randin~ ~~ whit nt~i~rs l~~li~v~, and ~~a1t~e, end ice ~on-

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ct~~r~~iry~a ~~sm~r~znic:~~ica~~ ~kil~~ ~rj~ p~c~l~p~~t~-sral~i~~~ ~kill~;. In ~~~}i c?~ the c~~c;c~~r~n~~[c~ ~~~r~~i ~~~~ ~e~c~h~ rs, their ~tirn i4 tc~ l~~~~ tl~c ~1~t~~rc~cjm ~;rtita~a~ ~ic~t ̀ ~ ~lzc~it c~~~~~'. [~ i~ ►mac>r~~~ri~ th e chi t ~~1~~r ~~c~ ~~ r rut~.s ~tr~cl gui~ic,~ eh4 ~,~~n~lr:~nci tt~~.~ c~~~~ur;~~;e~ ~tn~f s~~ ~cir~~ eh~ ~rudtn~ in their 11~rr~~ir~~ ,~rrc~e~,~k~,~, Ih~v~ ~e~r~r'ct~~:~ic5c~rri r~'iz~~itig~' tail E~~ 4~u~~ ~c~~eh<<~~ tj~e sticll r~tc~~ir~~;~ ~~ ~~nl}FinE€~rn~, ̀~t~41' car a~ttrtely ~;e~~: Ica ~c~n~rc~l ~;~ua~ett~ thinknt~# ,~ar~ ~csn~~en~:c. in ccarri~rtcen~~:~ti~,~ thsrt ~~i~evs ~t~~[ ~~~lt~~~ ~i~ c~~h~r

~ ~n~~t k~~4~ n~:~cis suc:l~ ~~ l~l~rngn[;, kun ~n~l ~~jc~~=~~ri~.

Iz~ prim~r}~ ~cl~tx~ls — nnta~rly — ~u~h A ~c~rm~t i~ ~sfte~t ~S~~t cif the ~1~eeklyr prc~~tssin ~1~~ life cat ~ ~;[a~s. {7r~~ c~~ the w~~t~:r gc~:~ls <~(such ~~~~:et r~~~ i~ cc~ buflcl ~ med a-tt~~n c~tftur%~ ire rrht~t~li; ~u~p~~r#ing ~ttidc~rits tcs p~'t~hlcrr►-~s~lve ;~ntl t~te~ij~tr ~,;hcr~c~ssi[~~~. 5u+:h ~rt}tep~ ~.tt~ ~ra~l~l~ tcachcr~ to ~~~~ir tt~~;ie ;~turl~ rats' 'vtii~e' `try atc~etisc~l •vay, to va6tt4 t(~~t~ vr~i~e ~r ~t ~uidt %nci ~u~+pa~rr t}gat vc}ic4 r~aichin ~,I~~rc~c~

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~1 ~rs~tap ~~~~ f1t~e ~ir15 i~t ~~ctr (~ it~err~ rc~fet'rer~ tips tb~ ~/fi:SYEtr~~rt tt'a7c:li~t' fcrr

~«rfrc ~iJ~c~trlti<~~ rrraintairring ~(f~~ tit~~ %rig nrl;hi~~. TG4~ ~ir•l~ j~aci r~~ta~ra~rd:a~»c~~~~~ ~(eterrti~i~ra ~«r "f F~Fi[z,cg' (t~ts~!«t~i~F~ ~~~rba! ~t~u~ ~ihva~~r~~ ~r~;~,~~sxt~r~jr~~itb eat.-]a otl~<~r, arr<f ~~~rreltts {~ac~ st~rteftr> ex~rrc w~tl~nir cc~iicea•~i regarc~rr~gtf~e.~C ~~it't~ (~1~7Vfn~ t~~~~'t~~~t t=:f~c'~rts ~t~ere~ t~rct~e f~ti~ t~iB fEc~~f~rr itrt~~ ~3~~r~rrl~ try

r~~asr~r~ r~~rt~i t{1e r~irls zn 'stmt c~~u~ry j~'c~rrr ~~trh ~~tfler° atr~~ ̀ c~~nc~sE ~~iFi~r

~ric~~ds'. ~`a~rs~~~uc>rr~es {iad ct1s~ f~ee~r j,r~t in t~l~~~' i~th~ girls roc~c~ s~r•rrf~fhr~t~er j~.•.~;. (il{~~~~rc~r~frc{tf~7:ses~ tinre~ irr {,f~x~arrirr~ r~rc~rrr~. ~~~, i{~e~~ ,~rr~~sg~~s

(h~s~<~ nor ~ ~~fr~r~1 ~c~:rtrr~ll ~iroc~c~i~ try f»c~~ lit~~~ inrpt~~t. Tlr~~ rtxc;~~~ c~~~~ rnEtr~'et~3 1c~cJ,~ ,~1 c~~fi~r' r~~~~v~ irr ~rrr~Y<}a'~ fl~~ r<~c~~ic~ra~lij~t E~~t[~~~e-~~ the ~;ir~~ rai~7~t'

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'~X!ith sc~a~e ~Sr~~k~,ro«nd i~Fbr~i~a~tian on the girls and tEteir issues, [ b~~~rt to ptatlthe inr~r~~~~tioz ~ec~c~~~. 1C'l~il~ I tv~~i(d I~~v~ E~ ne~otiat~ ~~~~~tin~ tin ~iic) cliplife ~S~ rh the ~e~s~dp cif Niels, tlig s~l~~a~l tiv~s ~re~ar~d fae me t~ Sr~c~zk ~itl~ tl~e~.rou~ fU~' at l~asr a~n hour ea~la week oi~r~r three cis' f~►ur ~c~nscrtit tie w~~ks.t~~ld tional citlie vas .iL(c~aficd for f~llv~1=u~ s~p~aet ~~iith the tea~it~r sc~ thac ~i~e~otklr~ en~au,r<~,~e tlse ~ir[s to practise ~~~~• ne~v skills in eE~eir natural ~nvirr~n~lenes,

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T~i4 it~tcrti~~ntican ~~rcrre~5 ~vcts 1t~~c~I t~~i the '~:l~t~i~:e Tl~~s>rylRt~l ~ t Th~r~~ y'~tj~~~rt~~~l~ ~~iJ~sseC, X992}, uti~i4irt~ ~~i~~te°r'.a ccanccp~ c,~~ kl~c ̀ sc~[tfit~~; ~'ir~~t~' ~~i; ~the kc~;~ in~tr~~cntic~n rca fl.Thy ̀~cal~~in~ circ;l~5 ic~e~ h~r~ l>~~n tv~ t~llp u~cc~ ,~~ .~ ~rrarria~e eUttnS fling tc41~-

nic~uc; iic~~vevc~r, ir' tarn 1~c .tda~,tcd an~3 ~~~~rlie~ ~vitlt c~i~nts ~x~~erien~ir~~; ijth~rft~r~~ t~~ a~el~tit~riwhi~i ~h~llert~;e~t Thy SC ~r~~c~;sy ,~sk~ five kc~ yttcstit ~ ;;;

1 I)~r you ~vhnk tc~ he>l~r ycaur r~l~tit~n~}tip?~ ti~hasc ~~:I~~v~c~ur z~n ys~u ~or~tr~(~3 ~K~I~x~~ cl~ y~~t I ~Mie~fc is ~+~r~~~~ ~viel~ the x~l~~i~,~sh }~ ci~t~?.

V~h~t d~ ye~u (~~li~v~ a's ~c~c~d ~csut tl~e rzl~tc>nslti~ nr>~~~?TAI! rite Una think; y~~ta c~ulci clip that t~~«uld ~~~~kc the rc:latican~lti~ I~e~r~ r,

It i51~~stcl c7n tlic n«titm iliac the rcl~tir~ntihip i~ ~e~s~ra~t t~~ an} individual c~~~in cancsr ~ti~~r,r in the ~r<,Erp, Tlis>sc invc lvcd in this ~,ri~«tiv crie ~ttatn}arccl tea shy ir~flystep a»~i~i~ the ~C if tEt~y ~vEir~e tc~ ~~vc>rk ~,n 1rn~rc~r~i~~~ ~}~~ r~l~tt e~r~sHi~ (phis rr~~yir~vc lie a• sualis~c zm cif ;~ eirriz~ ~~rcfui~cl t1~4tr~ ~}r a~rcavin~ in~ca a desigrt:tc~d arr~t~,~7~~cc ir►sicl~ tt~c SC . nc~ rel~eic,iyshi~ tan !~~};in tit lie tnc~rc rc~lec:tivel~~ und~:r tc~cx~i~itiil tEy~ ~r~~:4~~5 c>f rtl,ui(o~ir~~ pan b~ ~;iv~n ~Sc~~enfi:~F,

I#~tc~r~ m~~~in~ tvi~h iljt;~;irls~ I t~~nsi~Icr~cf t1jt~ visu~~ tacsl5l w~ttl~i t~se ~c~ in~r~-c~t~« t1~c ~~<t ref the 5~, Sirr4c i k~~;~tt t1~~ ;iris ir~divicfu:;~l~y {~rr~n~ 4~c~rk n~ tvi~l~ir~their e1~~wrc}c~nt}, I h~cf ~Irt~cly es~~l~lish ~ ~r~ara~ r:~~~rrrt <ent{ tht fc~ua~d~tic~~~ ~ferustin~; rtl~~cir~nslrip

ss~i~n 1

`I'h~ ~;irl~ arrived .~s ~~:h~~ul~ci. I ~i~ci xrXa~~~ec~ st~~t~c: ~~~ts in ~ cie~:l~ ~n~1 I ~~~~tsur-a~~:ti ~he~ ~ir1~ tc~ rikt ~ scat. It u~;~~, interestut~; ec,3~titt~ tl~e ~eatin,~ ~c~sitipn r.~eh girlc1~c~5r. Thy clvr~~imics c~~ tl~ ~ r~up ~vcr~ alrr~c~y ~Se~:c~~t~iEt~ ~~~ar~~~t. The: ~. rr~ir,~~~i`lca~cr' i~f the ~resup tc~c,k n scat ar rent c~~d cif chc rsr~l~ ~c~ppo~ixr nee) ~r~c~ ther~~ti~inc~er ~f the ~rUup ~een~cd to slit in~c, c~vc~ .~e~eir~n~..

lX~~ w~c~t a~rc~und the ~e~~ei~ :~n~ bei~~iyY ir~erc~duc c~i t~ur~~lv~s, I theft askc:c! ~Itc~it~ls [c~~,the r~~s~rt c}i~y tl~tju~lir cl~ey ri7"r~ ht I~~vc l~c~r~ .~p~r~sa~:lteel tc~ ~~~ Inc. Tk~c~rc~u~ luoki~tl tr~s~v~rsis the ie~~ier fnr a res~,~t~3~. 7'Iir •~s~+~sn~~ vas sirnp(~: "~Vek~~p fi~liEin~ ~nc~ crur Ea~t~dra ~i~>r~'[ ~t~~nt us eta l~~} ~rie~ds ~r~~ '~i~ci~=c' ~~'d th~t~, 'IfT v,~c~uldn'~ k~~p ~r~nc~y~ing u~ Auk ~+~~~1cl~'r fa~;hr s~ ~n►~~h't Tf~r Vl~m~ c~wcic l7~tdl~r~ o~n, jresc tt~ ~ It~td ~uspc:~c~d. l ~~c~ nit ~i~P~ cljis I,t~;r c~rann~nt ~n~~ c:tt~r~~~.

I ~t~nti~j~eci [3)F tt~c~rtnin~ tl» ~r1s th~t~ I kr~it~s ev~:r~r~inc ii~ci l~c~c:r~ er~~in~; tc kc~:~rtlir ~ ir8 s~p~rt r~~~d tlt~t it h~~tcltf't ~`i't~lly~ ti~:~t► v4r;t a~i~.c~~;5 u1 car Ite[~iul, ~~ ~,~,~e ~4~e~going eu fey setrr~eth~~g c~iticec:rit. I ~a~~ cher~ ~s3r eheir t~ri~r~d~Iji~' ~U~ t~~ e~kt ~i~ics~v~th a~y«rtc} i~ut f~~ r~c~rk fir tlj~ir ~~riin~3l~i~'. [ r~~~ca~~ tl~~ Fvc?rci `f~i~ tc~ship' E~r~chc tv~titeL~~,ird ~~+ if ie were ~ s~}~~tr~~cc ~nti~y ,~ntl print{tl ;~~ tlii~ Svc}r~ tv~ry ~ eat

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t~ve~ cciuld bc~ c~ta r~~i~t~ h~l~ri'~ the {~'ri~nc~shipg and tl~:~t ~~~e ~~r~rulcl ~t~~nc~ t~~ ~~~sicxn

~it~c~itt~ c}~~ theme ~hit~~a.I ~rti~~h~~ ~~~l rho it~~~c~rean~~ ~3f tl~c ti~~t t~~eR~ic~r~ F►t~ci tiacn ~~ltc~ c~~h girl 'po

v~u ~v~nc t~, h~tp your fii~a~~~lti~~' Thy ~:c~mr~~n r~~~c»ise ~va~r 'I~ sE~~ rv~nts tcp

h~l~ 3t' ~n~t 'c,nly i~ c~~~ryc~ne: ~[:~~ ~ic~G ', acs l r~~;t~it~d nib y~t~t cft~ ~~;~i~. Thd ~4

just ~Ejc ut w~tat }'c~~o went. It~~;~r~lles:; txf w~l~~t the ~~tf~c~ girls sad; Flo ~~~~r went rc~

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~c~tt~e~~r~l,~~~~ th~r~ f43K g~°tcjn~ thirt~~ h Ali ~r4~ ~iiffculc c}u~~tic~z~, ~~►~l ~t~t~~i ~k~~t[$ tc ~f ~van~c~l tc7 rvc~rk t?n their fri~r~~~~hi~ —eve hack st tcut~ ~~c~n ~c~~l, i1~1}= airn ~,v~i:;

k~~ but ~ ~ct~ trf ~ner~y intt? setting this fire yu~°stit3tt t'~S end ~I~~ t~c~ cif tlrG ̀ fricn~l~s~~i~i EScin~ ~4g~raGc ccj ~n~ t~nc ctf then] arj~ their ~x~r~~~tt«~~ n~ec1 .

I t15en ~cint rcuecf ~~n ~uit3~ the c~uc: cicm; ̀ti'4~6c~;~~ ~r~h~vic~ur ~ vc~u ~c~ntral?t Tc~~uc~ a~ tH~' :;~►rttc; pc:t~~sl~; ri:~~ssar~din~ ill ~h~ ~imr~ I r39rc:~t~t! this t~uc*;tican Xcy ~ ~3iF-

~~rt~~t m~~j'E7c3r ~n ~h~ ~;r~u~, X111 ~trl~ tiv~:r~ ;~~il~ tcs rc~~h thy; ectn~cluaic~a~ that t}3e},c:a~~slc3 ~at~ly~ ~s~nercal ~I~c it ra~v~i {~chfivit,ur, This m~}~ r~t1~:~~ I~~;rr3in~s a~t~iin~sl ~4F~~hint13c sc1~c}cal se~t~irt~;, t~'(tich h~~ ~dn~tc~l ~ '~;liciice Tl~cr~ry' ~~~r~~c~k (Gl~s~~r, 1~#36~«

i th4n ~~~~cf ~thc third qus:~ticrrst ̀ ~~'h~t ~cr you b~licvc is ~v~v~ ~+rieh tie fcicnd-

xh p n~~~~' This ~r~nypt~~1 ~ t~~l~irtv,+ir~~E c~~ ~1~xnL ~usfhi~.1~ I ~x~cctt~l}. I ~-i~rt ~s;~1 the~~~h~n~~ ~i this ulfeyr~t~~~ic~n v~ric~ l~ei~f ~tk~~c~~vlcc~~,rtt€:nt~ ~n~ r~dir~~ can tc~ the

~,e~~st }~~~;r ~. Cif ci}t~rs~, t~crc ,s°i;r~ ~ v~~ict~ i,f e~~sc ns (c;,~. ̀ Sloe ~~e~ c~f~ ~nc~ ~l~ya~vi~l~ tatlrcr ~t~~lc', ̀51~~ bcrs5c4 ~w ~rc~ta~~cl', ̀ Trey ~,~hi~~r ~L~c~u~ ~i~', ̀TEjic}t l~~vi~ pct

~~ut ~f eh~ir ~ tt~c;:'~, Yzc ~hcsc~ rc~3crns ~v~re r~c~t what I ~v;~~i~~cl rc~ f;~cus`~~n,~w~s ~t~rp~~ intcr~se~~l in xh~ic r~~pr~~~sc: tc~ ~It~ ~t~~c~ c~u~,cic2n, ~nci 3~~ I ~~l~~d,

'~'i~~t is ~c~a~l ~tstsut yc~~e €~ic~ds}~ip nr~~~?' T}~e girls cc~ul~! e~cli tx~t~~ ux~ ~ f~kv

peri►~~ ~e,~~`Wc 1ook~~~~ut ft~r eaclti~~,tl~~r',,̀ We ~h~re with ~~tct~ ather'~ ̀ W~ play fru~~~m~s tU~ ether', ̀ Y~u alw~}'s hive soznetanc tc~ l~~t~~~ ar~suncl'}. This. 1e~{ ran tc

lar~ nst~~rrt~ing n~c~re general ideas (recc?r~ie~ crn zhc vrhitek~c»rd} at~r~ut cvh~zm~kcs ~ fricr~~shtp ~cac,d ~i.c. fri~~t~31y~ ~~~ s~r~s, iv~r~is-, etc.). I ehtisc to ~xt~r~d ~~iisyu~~t'r~ir~ ~ Iitel~ ft~rth~r (~y Ftskin~c ̀ `~h~~ cis p~c~pte cfc~ ~r .~~~;~~ rvhcn they 4~~e b~in~~rier~cif~>~' I thcru~ht th~~ chip ~ucsti~r~ n~ighr h~l~ chap girl* rc~ ~:c~ns der wii~it

`Er'rr~r~ ly t~c~i~vie2uc~' a~tu~lly~ Ic~c~kc~l ~nr~ ~~~r~~fcst like,T(~ s ~lt~►~ lead c~~ fc~ tlic~ fitt~l ~~r~~tic~ne ̀ fi~:~l rt e c~a~ thi~~~ ~c~u ~c~irl~i ~~ch dc~

~h~t ~~~ tlfink ~n~y rm~[r~ ys~ur f~` ends~i~ beaGc,~~' T r~~s~rr~d tit~;t~-~c~ tic c~c~s ~n

she t~~~rd by as~ast them in ~~n~r~c c}~; ~ ~~~1. each girl ~~u~~ ~.~m~z u~ ~~rifil~ cane

t~~ir~►~'~~i~h l ~cle ~ffor~. A~ chey tnencicst~~d ~h~ir id~~~, i ~c~~ rh~rlt tip st~t~d ~n~ ~c~p

ir~~~ ~1~~ 5C; ~~v~i~~h ri~~ c~I1c~ cht ̀ friendship C:(r~lt'~ that I lied ~tr~~+rn ~r~ the ~ln~re

~~irh ~hc rvc>r~! ̀ F, E~~c~shtp' ~~rri~t~~t i~r tt~~ ~~rc~dl~. ~n~~ cv~ ~~~rc Ali i~~~~t~: chti~ir~:ic I ~xp[ainecl ~h~ c+r~n~c~se cif Etc 5~ anc3 cxF~l~in~~i 4h~t w~tiCc tlic~}~ ~;hts~t~ rcf tsc:ir~si~~ ~h~ ~:ir~l~, ~~rcy w~e~ chc~~~sii~g tip ~~~~ark orf rl~e. ~ri~n~~hip ~~El~ r~~l~ac th~~'th~r~i5~ive~ ~.~ulrl ~ti~ tei ir~~rrr v~ it {~~ ~hc~ ~~tt rsr~l}f crirt~t'~i) tEtet~~s~lw~~s}, ThF girl

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lil y ~hi~ ~;crr~4u~t ~rtci ~sk~:c! it th4y ccauld ta,~c tl~r ~v~»d `Fr ~n~Isl~~~' a~~va~' ~~+itltt1~~~~~ ire c~5~ ~f~4y i74~;cic~l ~c~ u~~ ;el~~ cir~~r' ciur~n~; rhr ~ti'c~k, ̀ ['h~ s~ssics« fin s~~~;~itvitl~ ~~cii grt~t~~ mrmlj~r h~vin~ t~ 'fric~n~lly# ka~h~~ric~u~ tea ~sr;~~ti~~; ~c~e the. ~>}ck~n~f cjn~ ~c~r~ tc~ cl ink c~~ a~~1 hrin~ t~~t~C tc~ the next ~rt~u~ m~rtin~.

A~ thy: cnd ifs the sc~~ i3n, I F~ li :~s rlttia~li s viral gc~~[s pt~d l~cei~ 1~lyoc~vetl. The~irl~ l~~c~ ~; xine~:E rr~c~rc ip~~c,r►n~tef~n c n rho c:c~r~zc~rf cif "it~ntrc~i' a~~i~ rvhc its this~~e~~d3 ~~~ (c~ur,~~l~~~,): 'f`I,~g~ h~,~1 ~ h~~~~r ~cic.~a c~~ the St , ~n~i ~hc~~F ivcrr rvcaek~raict nt~t'~itG the frrcntlsl~i~ r,lther than cry*ink tc~ ch~ngc int3~+~~~iu~1 ~t4pects t~f the~;rt~u~. ~3v~s' f}~c fs l~~t~t'i~~ ~vccl , I ~tt~lp~c~ el~~ ~irl~ ~t~ ~t~c tCic circle• ire th4 .~~:h~~`~Is~ttin~ ~tn~i rche~r~e~! tlai~ pr~~:ca~ ~vich the: r~~ch~.r (~~;hc7 wv~,~ h~l~ing tly~ ~~rl~ tta~~~lv thy; 5(: in the. crrdin~ry, c~~y-tc~-~I~y envirc~nmint~.

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Thy ~tr~t se ~ic~ti lj~cl fcxuticcE ciij ±~~trir~~ u~ cl~s: S~ ~irnc~c4~ :t~~t i~itrc~~u~ ng tt~4 ~irtsts> tltr cc~r~~e~~ts t>t~l~inc~ this }arc~~:~s~. Over rho iic~Yt ~vetk, ~h~ ~irl~ l~~d tried rc}~p4~ly the ~a~: iclra cm the ir.a~~vn a~~ haci ~~:~s:rie►tccci s~~irie diffic~lcies in dc~itt~ ~t~,T~i~ cl~is~rtit~m ~c~~i~~:i' l~~rl r~~t~rcctl ~h~t tlti ~;ir1~ ~~~~ rc ~~prc»~kt tt~ 6~:r with cc~tr~-prints that s~mt gir(~ r~v<iulci ~c~t atcp in~~~ chi: cixcl~ ~n~ w~rc c:;~usin~ ~i~;hts 'rn Khe~r~au~i. E'rc~i~~ this Ft~:~fCa:~ck2 it ~i~~ tn~~ ~~p~~rcnt tl~~tc the girls ~+~ r~ kill ~tu4k c7it theic~~~ cif e~ccrnrtl cc~ntrc~l ~~~c~in~ c~~I~~:r~ La get iiita thy: ii~~l~~ ~«~i nt~ei~~ ~narc~e~~tic~s: ~vitlj tljt r~lc~s c~f'Ght~ice The~r}~' an~i tti~ ycr~vin~ ~:ir~ct~. 'I'Iati focus cif s~s~~;ic~n ~ ~~;~s t{~ rc:vi~+~ Cllr ivec:k': ~irz~~ec~s ~n~ tlic ~;c~.r)~ thcy~ (~~c1 ~~t eh~:~i~~~lvc~,~r~~1 ~c~ ~vur~ with ~Tt}° ~=E~~llzr~~;t~ ~~ ~+{~~itiv~a i~~r{~n~c<t a+~ze t~,c w~::k.

Tlr~ girls c13~i r~af ;~r~ive .r~ tl~e s~ss;c~n t~?~etfi~r {~4err rh~u~h ~l~~~f ~~>er~ ~~nt fronttltic ~~trr~~ ~1 is5), 7`~~~cs ~i~l~ ~rri~~:ti prci~r~~tE}r ~ttrd t~vc~ ~s~li~rs li~~;e~e~ L?~hir~el, The~rc~up once a~~in gat ~s Chc~u~;h thzy ~ver~ ̀ ~p1ie' ~ti~ith :~ lar~;c ~,p;~c~~ ~u~~t~rcn tl►e ~icls,~ncc: ~':tt~i3, the girls f~u~c►~r~~ area cx~lan~tic~tt~ cat ehc ~5~~ef~, ~~~~ich r~~astly~ ~<~t~-raincd I~lantiitg ~n~i conipl~ines ~U~ut ~thcr girls rt~c atcpP~n~;antsy the ei~cl~ ~e.~, ̀ Wewere ~~t~tir►~ same ~ce~uial~. ~;~etir~~ ~~Iz~n~; acid T ~uc~ulc3n't ~~ep into the cie~le ~u ~1+irkit ~iut. It ~v~i~ III her [~~~It'1. I ~~~c,rl:ccl cu rcf~~rtie chair thinkici~; try ~~ski~~~ ehc ~ r~~;`l~`{~c~ can ~~~u ec~ntec~k?' Esirl~ girl e~s~,~i~c~cd ̀ Mys~l~ ̀. 1 t~iltc~~c~~ci c~ii~ watts ~ rrti~~:.-~iur~ li~;e 'le ~~un~is ~~~~ me rl»~ s~m+.~ ~~ y~tr ~ p Ir~ve ~~y'~,~~tt~n cf~ ~, ~n~i here xry r~~;cc~ ~~nrr~~ ~r ~;t~ ~eh~ r p~~y~le ec~ s~~p ~nc~ ~h~; sc~lyi~~~; c~rclt — rr~~yLj~ ~h~~ r~r~rw p~t~t~a~ ~}~~ p~~1~l~tat }~vu l~~rc~ Ir~vii~~, L}~ts ~h~~ st~~►n~l like wC ac iu:~s h1~~et~ ~~~: ° t~te~3~~,iXl~ r~c~dc~cci its a~~e~a~~~~~t, With eh~ pr~~.ss u~7c~er ~v~~~ ~tti~ the, tr~~~t ~~cnrk fiarthirtki~t~;;~n~3 l~ch~u ~~ n.c~~fincc~, thy- s~:s~ic~rt prc~tzY;;s~d'ytc~r4 ~~tusc~th(y,Wi rtivic~vt~i ett~ tive~l key r~~~i4ititl~; ~h~ ~c~afs pct ~nct us~c1 ~t IO-~cj~n~ sr~l~ t~

ear~5ider e~~h ~irl'~. jc~uzijcy~ tat~~~rct:; in~~e~~vir~~; tlrc f~i~~~tlsl~i~. The ~~nts c~r~ ~h~,:~c~r1~ ~cfi~~z~~ l~eh~r~icx~~s thy[ w~ ~~vc3tilc~ s~~ ~~r l~~~a~ [f ~1j~y ev~r~ t~~cjvin~, ~ci~4F~tec~~in~~rr~v ng ~h~ fri~nc~ship ~sr, ire ~c3n~r~~s~ t~yo►riN~~:ax~~~}~ ~rc~rr~ she. relativr~ship, ~n

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c~~-~asjtaras, I I~~cd eta rc ~in~i ~~~ ~trl~; tlo~~ I r~i~, t~~r~ fir fh~; fric~cl~l~ ~i ~r~cl~~r rh~~i~~~y it~diti~i~ltt~i ~~ar~;taT~, t~Rc {>r~cti;~~t~ ti~iit~ tie 5C ~~tt~ cc~t3~ c~cr~ci ~v~~~t w~ ~~~c~ultid~~ if ~,4hc~~~~c d~~~ that ~~n~ 'c~} ch~~;►` the ~~;, I I~i~~ii~;~~t~d ci} tl~~ ~ irfs th~~ if t~+~},cl~c3;~~ tc> stray cj~i~si~~ the St:, rhey were hill r~q~sir~d Ica f~ll~j~v tF~c~ h~c~l ~ut~i~-

linr:s ter ~cttin~ c~r~ ti~ th r~th~rs (in {~thc~~ ~vc~r~~~ wing c~u~~i~3c tine °~C: dig[ ~s~r ~ v

t1~Lm the ri~~ie tcs ~~c un~r ciicll}t1~ ̀ Cheee'~,~tc~'e r9~ht~, ~ul~s a~tc1 et; ~~~ar~~ k~iliri~~ ~t

uhc~c)I ~l~c~ut hz~ty ~E~}~l~ ~h~uPcl [rt~tk tptl~trs, rL~~t'~I~s~ ctf the cltj~c~tte5s csf their

rel~~~t~ns&,i~is, l altii? ~cyir~ec;c) taut tli~ n~~ur~( ~cans~yus~r ~~ i~ ~k~~ ~ir~4 ~hc~;~~ ~c.~ ~~c

iri ~ant~`acncl6y ways. My ~4r~1 ~n ~r~s~ntin~ this infr~.~mafi~~r~ ~v~s ~~ an~urE. tli~t~ ~l~t°

~irl~ w~~~;re nt~t using thy; 5~ ~i~ ~ mc~n~ ccf jttStiE4~ rCi~ir ~~:tic~ns (c,g. ̀1 ~v~~ nit »

the ~C can chc c4~~~ I ~c~wed her'}. They lead tc~ ur,r~~rst~n~f the r~ght~;, ritl~ti andres~c~n~ibilicies .4~ith it tltc schcae~! setting tc~c}, The ~cs~i~it ~:nct~;~ ~t~ith c;~teh ~;rrl

cl~cati~ittg carte W~~' [hey ceru~cl I~tl~+ Cht frit rt~3~hi~ ~:tt~e` thy: runt Vv+:`+'k.

`F'Itie n~±:t Ecru s~s~iirn5 tv~r~ t~f s~~rt~r ilu~• tic~rtr ̀ fl~~ ~;irl~ ~t~t~~, ~l tai ~rriu~ tar~cth~r

(r;tr~~r t}»n s~li~~ tv(ticli s~ n~~c~ tc~ i~~cl€rite ~h~t the r~lat a~n,hi~ i4~a~ imprc~ti~irig.

These sr~sic~us itte~~Iv~d furth4r ~r~c4i~c ~isii~~ the ~a1~in~ €:ircl~, ~;~~ting ~~~~Is fc~r

~h~i~~c ~tc~~i ~arc~E~iii~ ~~~~Gr ~~~c~ ~r~t~~ cs~ ciifficu~t}~ u~;ir7~ `R~:ality' Tli~r~~~' tcc;h-

nic~u~a (,~. ̀ ~`~I~~r cvcr~ y~su l~i>~S~n~; ~vrkuld 1fi~~,p~r~ ~vh~r~ you ehfssc to ~ay~

sittt~ethin~; asst}% to T?`, ̀~~~I~~t ~iicY y~su ~Ic► tc~ ~<:t i~~1t~t ycau ~v;~nt~~i?', iL~i~1 t~i~rch~sic~ help xh : fricn~+hi~ car E~~r t~ ~ft~ t'ri~~ctshI~i~'~. ~~C~c ~1~~} rc,~~il~rl~ ustct the ~ (f-

~iciiY~~ ;~~~~[ tcs ~'cv t~~ citttc:Urttc;s ~n~ t~iC ~Ct~U~'~ ~t~V' ~1~e;ttCS ti)~,~~Cs~s tee gci~~ t«

itr~~rc~v~ the f~►~nd~~ii~?,F«rtE~er int~rv~r~tir~rt invc~lvcd ~rr~~ti~in~ the u:~e t~f the ~~ itt the ~irl~} giver}f~~y

environment anc! crslla[~~r~~ ore case u[tat ci~2 with thr ela~~rdac~rn tc~cher

'~`c~~v~rc~s the end t7f the fi~~~ s~:~ic~ctis, tl~e ~i~~ls indicted cE~at tli~g~ hail re~the l

qtr<,~r,~ ~ 'T c~r~ t~se Its-pc~inc ~~I~. A ~corc> s~~ "~` in~iic~rccl the use ~f Erter~~lly be}~av-

it,ur~ lilac yh~~rin~, t~ kMn~ teens, spe~kin~ c~~s~nly, anal u~i~i~ r~~p~c:~ful ~t~d fricr~dl~.~

~S~c~rc~s .~nci actic~n~ cc~ ein~ ~~c~th~~ T'~zis s~:ciat~ ti4 ~ [~n~ ~v~y fr~~m thr c~ri~;inal

res~c n~~ ~ft~f ~hr►~'~ ~ l~cha~~iaurs like x~~3ir~~;, ~tsiri~; ~iut-cicy~}taut ~i lit »~ ~u~d

spr~:~~ifr~ runnc}ue~, The: 5G prc~c~~ se~rn~~l acs ~i~~~ ~ssf3~~c! ~iti~ ~irl~ ijr €~~ngin~

their ~cl4~tiUn~~i~ s~{itl~ c>tt~ at~~zel~c~r EtSr thy; tr~teer, i`~'hi~~ a~r~~sid~ ~S~is~~r~c~~ vas sti{I

~tec:c~ed t~~r~ time to cim~ ~~ k,rl~, the ~~rl~ tc~ ~~te~~k ~it~ ~~~r~~ ca# chair rcl~kic~nship

p~nl~l~rns, chi c~~~:h~r, paec~~~ and 4~clrr~i~ti~~r<~~i~7n ~~~rc. pl~~s~c~ ~vich clue ~r~i rocs r~~chc r~c1~~iUr~~h p I~~t~v~n chi ~`~~ti, ~n~i ~«rc t~a~P}' ft~r ohs rcl~cis~nshi~s z~ ~:t~ntir~u~,

In :~~~~~il ̀ ~~~ici~eer 5~s4icrr~~° tli~t ft~ll~,~r~.t3, tlt~ ~c~~hur ~tnci ~ ~t~~;t~~ tht ~~eEs ifl

cf~~lin~ with ̀t~ia{~ ~~~~ec~~s'.th~t.c:c~ulc~ influence car s:h~n~cy chi dyn~rfiti~s cif rho r ~riencl-sl~i~r. F~~ ~:~ampl~, if ~, ~it~~u ~~r~c,ri rvcr~ t~? join tlr~ ~r+au~~, tlsi y t~i~he n~~s;~! res use; [he

SC t~ ~~=de~t~~ ~~~Ei p~►`~c~r►'s r~lc~ i~ tk~~ ~ri~t~clshi~~. E>kctvi~~, i~ ~cyKri~~n~ chr5sc ~v lr,~vc

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Chc };Yt)u}7, tl~c ~;ir~ti mi~;l~t ~l~cs ~ic~~# the S~1 ~~~t,4~ss r~n~lt'ca~ ~~ilts~d~ :~u~)~s>tt~[)vtr~~1, ~;1~5~~r'ti cc~~,~~~pt cif the ~;o~vi r~; ~:i_rr-1s ~v~~~ fii ~~~~:~ul cc~c11 fc~r Fa~il~t~tit

re~aeic}ntil~~ claan~c. The tiC: ~rc~it~~e~cl ~clf-r~f~~~:kic~n 1~~3 int~rtlal rt~~~ti~~a~ic~n ~n~}i~~~~c raittzin e~41t ,fir{ .~r~c~, i~ti ~caiij~ ~c}y c~fF~rt~1 tl~~~~~ rtn :tlt~rn~tit~c mc~cl~~~ cc7sc~ft~~ th~:ir relatii~n~lii~ sli~ficulrics he~~c~~e~ tr~cfticn~l «~crnrxl ~s~ntccal t~th~tic~ues,

Re~atianshrp~ end conf~icisQtving rc/cxssr~a~a ~nc1 plcrygrcwn~lJ wittyinfrr,~ts

Debbie Hoy and Ros Qanr'els

DehJ,ic Hr~y ~a~rc~ Rtes 1~~»>iel~ sl~~~•e l~oti~ tl~e}~ lief j~ ~~r~lu~~f clrilc~rer~ (r»/ir►ttrrgel r~l~ltiL~ ~elz~~ir~iz5hr`~a~ that ~Ye t~j/e~te~~ l»~ jrietrdsijip ~~~r~~~l~ble~s, ~,x~:lir.ir~ntc~c~ics ~~icf ̀ E~~r!!yi»g'.

M~~ti~' c~~ the fi~rrct~v~reut~rl skills c>f ~r~~131e»2-~t~lcrin~; c~~rr fie i~rtrad~icc~c! ati~rj'c~nt lc=t~e1, ~rit~err p1ur1~rA1g, strteitr~re, tc~c{~ir~g (thE~~~ pare chi!!. ns ~u~!! ~zs ~it1i-trtdes) a1r~~ s4hoof=tcri~fE~ su~~~rr.~rt.

r1t, tb~ tlrire r~% tfit3 cv~e c_t~trs~/rtc, DEl~liie {urcl 1~«s r~~~=~t~ se~►!~»~ eG~r1}~ ti~e~~~r:teerr~i~>rs ~~r a Lu~tcf~r~r ~rl~r~r~l.

Iu~ 1 - ~r~i~ndshp ~di#~i~vN#i

~n~ro

1~lcslly and Syr ten {~~~s six :tend s~t~~n~ were h~vin minor ~Qnfli~ta with ~a41tcath~r im ~l:~ss ~~atd t~r~ t1~c pl:~y~r~uatd. A ~,+id~r ~;roli~, cif friends Sv~rc ,31~a L~~i~g~~`astifn int~i the hch~vic~~~r, ~vhicla vas ~ausin~ si~~n~ cif thcm;.tts t~~ ex4luci~d trt>mthe ~rc~~i~. [t b~g~n ~~ti~h lr~~v fr~~~~t~nuy ~ncl Is>a~ intensity brhavit}i~rs a~~cl ~r~winto high fr~gc~~ncy ~n~l hi~l~ intensity U~hav c~ur~ bnrc#~rin~ ~n intimidation and~~I[yin~; (n~~lca~ling ~ix~ia~~-~~I[in~; ~~~in~ unkind s e~h .i~~d ~xclusic~n from ~x~m~s}.

l~iach sits ~tf ~~rents ~~~~rc ~onc~rn~d al~c~ut 'I~itllyin~'; and about tfie ~fFect th atthe situ.ttic~ns,~u~e~ h~tvin~ can the ehilct~en ~c hcin~e .~s 4vell z~s ar schnvl; their Ica.r3s~mi~ ~v~jrl~ ~4~s s~xl=~~ri~a~; :►ncl tt~~t~ ~~~r~ ►~nha~P}; fil~ey ~~ch made app<aintmentstz~ t~ik :~l~r~ut the ~i~~~ticrn uncl 1 r~~ssurecl th~n~ teat it wr~t~ld lie fulty nvGsti~;~tttd:tnd that I ~voul~l t~ec~ 6~3ck ~a elten~.

hc~~ resp~nI~iy li~v~~u;~~tlri33 tY7Cll~ded.

T~Ikin~ to tl~~ ctas~ tr~cl~e~

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w~~t~l~c tt~ ~hG ~I~~~ 4caCher ~~5r3ut ~t~~ }7~r~nKa1 ct~~te~rit~ ~~r~ ~~kecl {tar sc►ittcl~a~k~rc~ut~c~ irrfs>rans~~ica~~, Sls~ ~v~y ~tl,•e~ d}~ arva~c= ~E c~~ i~~~ac~ ~t~c! ~~;r~~~l thatt ;~1~c~ul~ get in;t~~I~~d ~~~t~ inv~~t ~;ati~i~ ~~~d ~u~~~a~tin~ dtc ~hildr~r~~~e~king tc~ ~~~h ~aE t~~c~ ~~t~c~ ~irl~ indivi~lr~~~lly[ ~ti~cr~rt cn t~t~ cl~wsrc~~>t~`r ~rcl :i~~~:e1 t~c.1~ ~~iiicl i~ ~h~v ~~t~t~ld he ~t~~P}` tc~ h~vt .~ch~~ rviti~ m. I r~lked ~n r~c~h ~}t rh~:ir~ ~rt~l~~vi~~~~rEv ~rrci ~~~lair~~d f~~r 1 had~~ccsken ~c~ their ~.Irencs, f hsk~~t ~h~t~r tc~ tcll rye ~vh~t iva~ niakin~ thc~ifi ~~a:l~i~~~p~y' in s~hc~«1 ~~~E fhey ~~cE~ ~c~~ritx;c9 in~~cl~n~ ~~`iirt~ their c~rv~ ~~rtt~i4~;-tv~. ~ €~~k~r~ s~~n ~~u~~titj~s ~~ ~~S~~c~p~i~te ~n~ r~fl~ctccl b~~.k ~;c~r~ic c~~' tiy~,~t I

hats ~~~t~n tc~(c~ rc~ ~~th~r ~t wi~lcr ~ ~kurc.T ~tskcd rhern i~ ~lter~ fv~t~ :tnythin~ that~t~Gi~c~ ~tt~t~ Cs~ rt~c~~vt ~~1c sittF~tiC~[1 ~t~it~ ~*~~e t~Cit7 +~c}i~tc ~;ti~c'~t~c)rs~ ~G.~+,

`Wvulcl it hcl~ if wr ~~~kcc3 tc~ ~'~tc~~ly?+~. We a~re~d eh~r it ~vcauld k~c l~c1~,~tEl tea

~G~ u~ ~ nje~tin~ whtrc ~hc trvc} ~i~i:; ~t~uld ~~~k ccybcthcr anal I ~~yc~iilci ap t as~Cilit.tGc~~,

~- ~'~Tec~;n~ with thy: twa girls ~t~g~~li~r13er~h ~~~il~r~:n tvc~rs~ ~it~:n ~~~ s~~~sc~r~~~iity cif rcllin~; rE~e i ~li~r lic~+~~v tf~ey ~s(t:~hcaut tl~a~ t,r~f~i~~: ̀ Kyrk~~:►i, ~c11 ~~c~lE~ l~cat~ }~~~~ ~`41~ ~~~ic:n ~h~ I~:~`~ ycau c~~it rahtl~e ~;~mR'. ̀I`h~:}~ tvcra thin given. the zh~n~c~ acs r€~s~r~rtct. Thti~~ E~r~~li s~i~ st~rr}rtcz ~~~h c~thc:r~ nan~in~ tli~ ba~h~r~ic~ur tl~;~t ~hiy w~r~: ~~rr~ Ft3r (`S~rry firr nit~hsxrir~~ cur ~~t~e ~vieh ~f~t~') ~isi~i I ~x~l~incc~ tl~►~c ~c~c'r~t vas ~ ~rc7rtti~;~, 4vh ~hm~~nt that th~:)~ ~v~~uld try n~tf coca ie ~,~a r~. l~Pe ~~;r~~e~i th:~~ i~ t~rc~~lci L}c hi;l~~it1tee rr~~ee ~,y~~tt~ the c~~i~r ~}~ilclrc~i ~~c{ r~~~~~~ t~~ ~~~rtt~ rul~:~ Fc ~ thy: ~ri~nr~s~Ci~

~re~up.Iv[~~tin~ ~izth e!►e ~~c~up of ~~~ ~i~ls f~~~~hcrThy rith~=r tl~re~ ehilr~ren jr~iti€c~ us ~ ~►t~ r~s~sti~ ~in~ ~t~E tnt~t i~ ~ ~irc~l~. I

~x~l~~n~d r~h~re we haci ~~t crs ~~ f;~r in ressxltititig tli~ issue ai~ct ~E~at eve ~,v~ctt~~itq ~lr~4~ t►p ~c~►ne ruics ur ~aic~~li~rs fcsr the Eri ncisltip.Agrc:~in~ an a list e~~` ̀ ~'r ~ttdship rubs' ~nc~ cans~:qucncr~~l~~ ciisc~ussc;d ~vh~t these tt~i~hc leak like ~ncl I scri4~c~! fr~r tl~~ ~rc~up ors ~l~c}Pthriie~;hi c~~ the ideas. V~~~i~n th~~~ I~aci l~~~n ~~r~ec~, I ~vr~te cE~~tn ~uE at~~i ivy. gill

~i tt~cl ~hc find ~t~p}: Efi~h ~t~tl~( vvas ~(t~n „i~feri a ~hc~c~cc~p}~ rc~ t~k~ ~rv~a}{.

l W~ ~viiE talk ki~r~lly tip ray l~ r}th~~:.\~1~ ~vilE k~a: ~cncl~ tc~v,~ar~ts ~a~h,~rt~er,

~~ ~Vc~ r~~ 11 listen to r~~ii c~~h~c~r~ W~ }will ~l~are c ur garrics~ with path cach~r,~~ can pl~~ ti~rith ~arher chitdre:n if eve ~r~a~~~ cz~.

~~~ ~l~c~ ~rcci cFtt ~ r~~~~~ci~~ ~tr~~z~;}' for ~It~ c:~iil~ircn it T}~~ ~~cit~l~n~s ce~~#-tin~~t-.c1. T~tt~= r~rar t~ r~~c~rt ~cr~i~~t tt~ t}~~ ~du1c Ott ~~ipervisic~n ~{uey din~l~y~ri~r~tici ~irn ~ at~ci ~l~c,~ cc~ rs:pc~rc ~i~ nic ~f thc;r~ t~~rc ~n~~ irt~i~f~~ta. Thy

ct~it~cyu~t~ct c~~ E~zc~.tkin,~ thE. trj~nt3shi~ talcs was cl~=~t thu cktil~i 5vc~u1~ I~s~ the

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right tc, ~I~y w ch ~h~ ~ rt~u}~.Fec~in~ ~~e~t tca p~rcn~.~loth ~tf+ cjf ~arent~ ~vtr~ inl"c~rrne~l cif tht ~tti«ns anal c~~ tl~r .~~reert~ent that th4chilr~r~n h~r~ m~~i~,Mt}tti[c~rn~~~°cr the rt4xt ~~~v ~3~y~;, ~thc cl~t~s t~~rhet' tRic~k r~~~c~rt~i~tkit~+ fc}r r~it~ ~ik[arih~ the(~1~~~~i~3ur in the cl~s5~c~on~ ~r~c1 ~skin~; rho c1~;I~Ees,n he>~v klttir ~~1,ay~titr~~ s hartt~:c~n ft3r them. I ~tIS[) :ii1~4' the c lyilclr4r~ r~~ul~rly during the ~ir4t taw c~~y~ ~n~lnca ~urclier i~~ut+,~rc~s~. ~'c ~c~ti~tinu~c~ ~c~ ~~~~ietiv rh o nn ,~ weekly hz~~~~.

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rlltht3tt~h the ~r~~crss w~~ kime-rs»is~~rttan~; zm the ~i~y, it tiu~~ tine tve~l nvcst~cl. 7'h4hifdr~n ti~~r~ ~z171c~ tc7 t~l~r s'en~crosihilicy in their relatic~n~hi~s and h~~i ~tr~t~~; ~:~ fc3rdt~lin~; with tt~4 c1~~I~~~ltit~. Thy ~lt~rr~at~v~ t;}u1~i h~v~ l,~~n ~nn~:t~r~t ~nr~m,pr;c}n~~f~~r ~:~~{~ ~I~y~arr~~ ~a~ ~c}rt cy~at t~~ c~ifFic~lt~; ~hc:y h~~l Er%~tt k~~Vri~. Thi: ~i~rert~~ s~i~lth:~t Ghc ~itildren h~~d nc~t h tai ~any~ further diFficultie a~tcr tf~~ initial m~~tin~;.s,

~~sua ~ - a#ifud~ pr~l~l+~r

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Ru~rt {abed sire) w~.s :~ hi~l~ly art ~u~ate, very :~bl~ end self-~ssared child. ~~leenj<}ycc~ ~chcfi~l, and when mc~tiv~ted 1~~~ the ~uh~esc, «~~~ ea~cr tca Ie~n~ ne~v infc~r-matic~n. Ru~~:rt h;~d m:~tfc a ~c~:~itivc scarf rn the t~etiv ~hc~cal }~~ar and h~ctr~ pc~nd~~ tvelf ~s~ tl~r~ ~~cal~iishnicnt cif ch4 ~1»r~ci ~la~s rule; ~nc~ r~ ~~~n~ihilitit~.i~nw~v~rj c n tac~r~~ic~r~s, h~ h~s~ ~n attitude chat t~~ le~rnin~; i~ the ~1~~s4r<~c}m

cva~ ̀ hen~a~h huts'. At time+ 1ikc: this, it ~v;~s ~h~licn~in~ rs~ ke~~ hirn ~a~ task ~n~1~~ ~c~~fc~ i~~~<rm4 v~rh~llw ~hu5~v~ ~~~1v~r~5 a~3~lt~ anc~ c~t~~r chtclK~n, ~~cr :~~v4r,~lic~t~l+~nt~: ~~f ~xhhitir~~ cl~~ b~h~Eicsur ~n~l I~~~~~ ti4nc ~~t~t ~c~ ~th~ ~~~r~llel ~1~;s, itti'4'iiS ~!}'T444~ ~f3c~L ~F'G ~k()U~[,~ lti`()T'~ 1F't[}I ~71Ft7 (}rt ~r14IFt~lI1~ EIIS ~7C~i~Y1{)UT ~'~Tf~~l i! t[)II~^

tsrm }plan, ~~~ +~t za5id~ ~ ~l~y tc~ ~~t~hi~,,•~ this.

Sc~too~ re~pon

~`h~ ~rc~~~~~ in~l~~~e~(:

7`alkin~; to tl~e class teacher1 ~nthered ~t wider picture cif when the incidents had happened and their fre~~U2I1C}' li7C~ II1kQilSIC)~:

~~Vithc~ra►vir~g ~t1~e ~hMd ~~rn th4 ~1as~-[ttc~in~ b~~~~ liven ~e ~hoic~ ~r~ rh ~ ~c►ns~e~uen~e, Itt~~rt ~v~s rvith~r~wn ~~n~n

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N1~RKING 7(3 ~UI'Lt~ A ~9=9PERA~~~ ASS#tOt3N1 GR9UP 10~

I~~ C~~~4t`i~t~~~t 1'1'~~i ~~~ t)t ~il~ g4~lccs~ ~~te~ ~i~r5irrt~~ ~tt~jt~~~iri~;s. ~Scirttc C3~ ~~~` ~l~e

~;r~~ ~ d f~>r him ~t~ ~~c~;l~ ~~~ sin hi4 +4-crrf:. ~ri~f tl~~ r~:~~ cif tie d~~° r~~~~ ,~~~t~~S3Kkin~; ran #c~~~.[~in~; in~r'~~ti~~~: end stt~~c~rtrv~ ~rfi~:~t~ucc~.'t~'c3rkin~ ~vitF~ ~~~cYt n~ivic~u~i[Iv~E~~~r~ ~r~u1 I t~lk~~t ~h~{~~~;h t1~~ h~h~`~ic~c~~fi ths~~ 1~~ i~a~1 ~~h~t~~ ~,n~i he ~r~~s

+~c~y tr4~thfuC ~[~rt►e ~vl~~~ h~ i~~tl ~c~~c. i=i~ Fitt t~ncc~n~f;~reahl~: nt~t~ic~c c~F His~:I~~~rc~rr~ ~ncl rv~~c~l rc~ kr~c~Fv ~~~I,~c Ire hoc( ors dc, tc~ g~~ H~~k into ~:[~s5, OVch~~l ~ e1~r~rr~E~~~u1 ~~:~~=uti+ c}r~ ~ht~~u~ tl~~ t~~~initi~~t~ c,6 ~~~:itt~ :;terry ~ncl what iiiac~ks like ~c, 1~~ ~~a~s~}~a We l~ui1~ ~ rr~~~i~l rtr~~ ct ~1~t~~~= ~h~ n~~~ti~~c l~~h~ricaurend hc~~v tc~ ~hatn~G rfrcrri ifi~~c~ p~~itiy . ~u~ert hack c{~ "chink very h~rct ;►1~auth4~~4° ~~c tv~~ gcsi»~; ts,~ chasa~c the l~l»vi~~ur;~ and ivitlt st~,7~cart ic: ~~tm4 up ~~~ieh

re~~iStiC t~r~4[S ~c:)C c~'1~1r1gt9 ~t9~1[°# w~5 ~e€luil7~j~~ i~c}(°~V ~nC~ Wrc)tt' 1t~tCC['S tE1 Chi

pcc>pl~ whc~ h~ici ~~secn ~ffectcd hr~ his (~cl~~.~~ic~ur ~ir~~lnr~irt his; rac~thc~').Rs:integ~~itin~ ~ri~n l~~cl in~c~ ~hc ~1~„'I'~z~~~~rr~s thy; ~~tti cif chi a~tern~scan, Ru~art w~~ c~a~iy ic? rtt~rn tek hip cser~tt el;~~s.l~ls ~cyc~[c ~Il Fiis h~lcyi~~i~r~~; ~ir~ci ~h~: ̀ ~czrry' le~c:r4. Thy ~I~il~r~n ~tircr~ « ~t eiec:I~~t~ict, lie r~euYn~~ ~~ic~ 4E~~r~ very-plc~xt~i its ~t~ liym. ~f~~r hr~ hid ~;iv n ciuc Isis~e7rt~~r lct~er~, ~t~~~rt rc~c•iti~tc~ :~ c ~r~! cif Erie~r~d~hi~ ~rc~rn t~ic~ cl►il~ir~n.'Tlai~ ova~r ~~a~F~~y the rest ~ gnific:~n~ ~~~-t{sr ;r~ t is e~~hulc tl~}$~ ~~ ~ir~ r~c~~c1~d the rein-fr}rc~tn~n~ c~~ I,~~it~~, ~~~e~t~~i l~~k ~~i~ pc~rs,.i~i~init~ri~i~'I'h~ el~s~ ee-~~l~~r uric}r~itt~recl hip ~rci~rc~;~ t~~rv~~ds the h~E~~v c~t~r t;~a~;e:ts ai~~ [

~Is~~ reinft~r~~~f t~is ~rcr~,rc~~ cttrratt~hc~ut tltc d~iy ~s arc: a~~~~n~l~t~cl tasks.~~c~din~ i~a~k tai the ~~r4ncRup~rt'~ zr~c~cli~r r~~:~s fr~Mly ~nvt~tv~:~ ~vi~h ~1~5 prcic:ess ftnci is ~us~xii~clyrs~rvtrc~it~~ h(s ~ehc~al lael~~viciu►:~r

~ut~~m~

~inee that tfa}4 ~~F~~rr his c~~ntir~t~e~C t~~ t~s~ his ~~~sitiv~ la~C~~vic~csr targets ~n~i isncs►v —himself = st~Jap~rein~ t~tl~ec c:hildren~

Tell~~a~ the i~u~lt

'We bake fc~►in~i that children ~r~ mc~rc: IEke1y t~ t~:11 the tr~xtli if`~ve make it s~~~ tc~ctl~e~~~ tc~ acs ~~. 'his nvcyl.P~~ the .~dulc k~e n~; ~al~t~ ~z~r ~~ ~r~naist~t~t.~ ~ u~u*Ilya ~;i~~ the child c~~tic~ns ~t;~min~; the in~~~l~nt, ~nc~ telling them th,~t if

the}* dc~ cell the tr~rE~R aEl ~a~ wii[ shy° to them is, ̀ I`It.in~ }~c5u for teilin~ the ~r~~t~t',and tote» asl~ them ~c~ but it eight and h~lg then r~ ~~tt i~ ri~lit,~xamplc of c~~tic~ns gpve~~ ~~es

~ayE~e yc~u cli~~ ;jt~r~rcla '7~srir ~~r tla~ cd~yr~ra~cl~ a~cl y~au tli~i it inn }~t~r~os~ and nc~~v

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Iy1a}~~~~ y~~u d9~ ~~r~~rclr ),~~n~r Liu y~~u c~i~3~t'~ rt~ca~t kca,Ivt~}~lac ~c,~ di~ln'e ~~tiatc{~ liix~s <tt coil,

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This usu~11}~ r suits iii thy° thilci Kaikin~ t6t n,i~tdlc c7~,tiej~~ ~~~~~i s~tj,~in~ it ~v~s ~~ri ~lcci-cic ne, lY~~ tl~~nk ~kem far t~cir~g l~r~vr rnvt~~h tc~ till elre ~~c~th ~r~~! t~lk'~L►ciut ~~fhateltiz}~ 4an Diu cc> pt~t i~ ~`ig~;t Inc! res~~lr~r the situari in,A sr~tall min«r ty ~4~i11 s~}~, ̀ i cic3rt't knew'; ;~ncl ~t that pc3inr it can h~l~ Ica ~sl

th~«~ a c~u~sric~rt s~Neh :~s, ̀ If ~~au tltuu~,hc yc~u kt~c~v, ivh~r w+~c~u[s~ it l~~?' ll' el~c~ still~~~i~; ~h~i~ ~n~~ulv4i~~ht ~~ i~ }'~u h~vc r~Y d~n~~~ t~ ohs ccyr~er~rY, tlt~in ~IMc~w~o ~I~~~r~n~rjr~ ~~~~~kin~; came, It is tnp{~rrat~t ro r~~~s~ur~ the +~hitd tla~t you =arz cr~r~~#c~encthftt th~~ mill ~~c 1►rav~ rrt~au~;h c~ he tru~}~ful ~tr~~1 r~r~~jr~~i therj~ that ~vh~tei~er tf ~ys~~~t }~c5u ti~~ ll r~tn:~in e~Cr~r ~nci Fair ai~tl ~vi11 Fie ~rou~ ~t thct~r tc~e bcin~ truthf sl,ev~ri if yc~u ~uri't like their hel aviuur.

~~rr~ir~~ cvirh children ~~si,i~ sh~ri~~ in ~*~~~~~ rr~«r ►►~~ ~ rir~~-z~ir~~~rr5i«~ ini~ti:~11}~ t~u~ ~(ivaa~~ p~`c~~~s~€ivi qrt yes I~irtb~r-te~~ ~~ut~:~irn~s. GE~ilc~r~t~ l3e~iri tounilerst~~~ that ~lt~}' h~ti~~ ~ ~;~nu ne vnic~ Inc# ~n c~~r}~srec«ni~~ cc~ sl~arc choir f c1-i3i~ ~fi~c~ ~t~t~c~rna, '~'~tc~~ ~:~t~ th~~ ~~c~r~: tr~~v~r~3y ~ict~~ ~crn~crttctivc ~~~~I~s~-t~~7~r~~iVt ~ti~~7C1~t15 Ct) [~7i'IP (~rtT~i~Ct114,

~1~h~c may seerr~ ~nt~l) c~c insign~fic~rnt tc~ a t~~cher e:~n kac~m I~tr~e in tltr: min~tat3~cliilclr~►~. ~Vhen'te.xch~rs t~tk~ timr, ~►~~i ~»crke tiiri~~, czy li~ren ~ncl tc~ ~t►idc~ indi-vi~9uals ~n~i gr~~u~;s in lac>~h nGetls-sh~r ~~~; aetci ~c~l~~t c~~i-c~ri nt~:~i tliinki»g, the.result~ ~r~: ~tl~reays ~ttiar~ ~~w:~ec3iilg F~~r ail ec~~s~~rn~~i.

Etl t~sr's rote! wauld like ~c~ ~tr~~~ly ~~~ornrr,en~l d rerid~al~ud ~i~tur~ s~~ryba~k ~~ 6ulPyi~g farinEanl one ~,id~le-s~h~a1 }arim~ey yec~r~ ~r~lle€~ N~ hrlQxe ~~,+Plycng 4~y (~c~s~maryS ~an~~ (published ~y C3 nQ~~ur, H~rper~Qll~ns im~nnt,) This book is ca pc~w~riul~wa~er~~ess~raising o~ii~~ €rt~~l slar~in~ ~ai~i for ~r~y ~C~ss of small group ~liseus-siQ~r~ 1f cl~arty r~s~n~#es w kh ye~ung children's ~xpe~~~n~e ~a~ s~hoc,~ end ~rili assist~a~a1~ vi m r~nr~ l ~Ily, Qn~l rQis~ ~war~n~~~ Q~ tii~ nr~ti~t~ Qi l~~r~Iying end hew t~address it within ~ seho~l

~r~atr`ng the ~~~e~a61e schaof

~rrrmel Ryan

11'Fi~1t if ~ jrc.«~ec~latc ~cho~lf 1~'hc~t clae~ it lnc~~, ~oiraG~, eel like C:n»iiE~lI~)~crrr (rrt~e(~rrty l3t~i~rciperl, ~iri»rr~t~~) sbcrrE~s /IEr tfi<~E~b~l~t~. Hcr ~ehc~t~! {~~1~ fictc~~r~cruscirrrrsl~~ ~r~cris~~i vn det~cl~r/lr`ng z1 ~yrore '~~eUee~lfjl~' s~Iic~o! tfirr~ub~l~ "I~l~eL<rl~t~rr~lc~~ Pc~~~cc~~l,/c~ S~l~nuls Prntc~ct' (~)~aeetisl~~~ttf, Aei3trfrlictj,

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4414Rt51MG TO A~►(Lh A ~9=~1PERllIT1lE [1,A5541l3C3M11 GRi7tIP i X15

~~i;n~ ~}~1~ 5~:~rtt ~+~_nuin~ly ittt~r~~ ~d in Fie ~tti~et~t ,st~t~ ~~t ~aE~~' apt c ur ~;I~cicil,

`I 1{~~v ~~e s~~c3t~~ the ~c~t~rn~}` me ~°t~t~ nc>~,4s~ Fi~v~ }~~a~t ncfti~~tl 4it~y~ ~~ ~r~~i~;~~lt~ t~if~c~r-

~ncts ~sn~~ y~}tt ~cv4Ec~~ts~ ~ ~t}~:u~; c~r~'a "~.:t~G~l,l~„ Schaal:' ~chc~rs vittt~ly rc~mar[:,

;t7h, ~t~k~'r~ ~f~~s ~x rts!, cif ~r~~y, I rr~i~~~c~ ..,) e~r'f~~cal}° ~vcv1 [ r~~~d ~c>ur ~trei~l~ car,"~ite~ihlc sc~~~c3{~". ThFtt ~c~it~s 1i~:e itrt ~t vl`u1 ~c~t <if xvc~rk tip irn~rrc~u~ stuslcnt hs h~v-icu~r WI~~~ ~hcaut ~h~ rc~e;~f the j«!~~' (t'~v its s~ ~~~ ~~ay I~~ca. l think. Thcr4 i~ ~ Yct~~~rr

can cht in~~~semcnt hilt trr~ tlt~ ̀ 1~y later' ~~l~n, inc~resc ~reu~ttul~te~. ~'~'ru~~al ~1tc3i~t,1

An~I spa I 4it tivith p~u {~~jis~~l teyin~ tts ~nra{~+~il~tc briefly chc spirit at ~ }~hil~iwt~~hy

tli~t i~ still r~vc>tvin~, Mill challc~n~in~,, ~ti!! fru~ci~atin~, lout ~tiEl ~x~iGin~ itj its tir~i[-1~~~ ~~~tnt~l.D~ I t~~= tcz ~~~a~nt i ~ji4tur~ ~~F [h~ ~~e~r s~i~~pc~c stt~~.ient~, ~uhcx; ~ti~ititc~uc ~~tcrn~l

rtic~~iv~tic~n (ne7 ~ickcrs, n~> ji~ll}~ 1~~~ies, n~~ ~1~)~ pYc>nc}~~ hcaci t~~ ~t~~ ~h~ ~l~n~ir~

rrrcat~ cluric~~ lur~cl~ hc3~trs ̀ p~es~ tc~ hcL~'~

Zit} I cxpta ~ the 'p1~n~;n~ rc~ca►n~? Tlic ~l~c~ t~tnc~~rc stu lints cis~,c ire ~t cii~r~~i~cc►F n~utc~al r~~~r~~~ tc~ 1t~~rr► ~1x~ut t17~ ~~~:~ptanc~ rsF ~r~~~~snsi~irlit}r ~c~r r(~~ir [~ch~v-ir~ur~1 ~.hcsic:~s~ ~nt~ where ire ~n ~ttn~~s~hcr~, s~f r~senci~l tti~~ (~f»a[[~ nice; ~tfirmirpi~sce~s~ z~~usi~ — ~3;ic:h {J,~.} ~ ~n~ l~~atj lams, ch~~ ~r~ lc~ ~hr~u~h a thinkiri~

~ri~ec~~ whi~:h cc~uCc~ he c~c~cril~~d ~s ~ `~c~~r~iriv~ .~,~~tc ~f C)ri in match`~~lttstY~li~rt i~u~l~y). ~=1c~1~~ lc~ [ ~I~~r~[~t tlt~: tne~t~efrf~7 I ~°~-c~uc~fetl, h~v~~~; ~zi4ii~~i

t~r~sett spinnon~. cFn my t~~ck rti~h~els dui i~a ~ c~}mmunic~[i art ~rolilct~ b~c~~re~nYc,~r ~ ~tu~~nt 7n~t ~~t~°~c(t~ ~1~ ~h~. nic~lia~is~n'~ c:c~nclusicin, 5~r~1~, ~ Y~~sr ,~ ~tud~►rt,a~lcc~, ̀~r~ yeau think yc~~ ~tit~c~ ccr~ld e.~.rer die Eri~nc~s a~~ ns~,

A suce~ss stofy

Aae ~+traet fr~a~n :~ ~tu€lcnt's jat~rn~lc

I haE~~ 1~~~~ ti,~htin~ ~ncl ~u~hi~~ p~~p1e ~rvund, l f~~3v~;~}~+~n sett n~ sent ~~it~f the ~[~as~rraotn and p~r~i~c~ lyav~ b~~t~ cainpl~~ ttr`ng ~tt~c~tac c»~ {icy the p~li~.cj.~in~~ 1 ~~v~ l~eer~ ~«ia~ ntc, rl~~ ~I~nr~in~ r~~c~r~: t L~~~~ 1~ar~t cc~ ~~-~~~~~~~e~irnun~E the ~la)f~riiunc# ~~n~l in the ~I~s~. t ~m nr~e ~~in~ c~ i~l~tiv it.

{~e~r ~i stt~d~:~tta

A ~ha~l~~;g~~1n~i~h~r ~~uaicr~c ~~Rrc~fic

I ~m fc~lt~~ ha~~Y C~~c~tis~ ~~y ~rc~C~l+~~n h~~ t~~~r~ ~c~l.~~c~ M~~ ~t~1rsend \fir. and me; ~dc) 4ve ~~r~ed t~ ~c~at~~er~+ie.

{Y~ar ttl ~tY►cic~tt, st~s~~n~te~3 five ~i~~r, l~tsr)

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If1 t~'1~1#` c~Wlt WQrC~S

Sfticicr►~ alti;rnatyv~ Mans ;arc sii~~pl~ taut powerful:

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A histi~ric<~{ sn,~~~sht~t ~~ stl~dent n~.3na~;~n~~nt at I ~~~radcar ~vc~talcl sl~caw th.it the.c~a~cipli~te teas ̀ ~~ic~c~'. ~t~l~ti~~iships were t~~iu~cl in the maid, bait, in the heat {~fna}firi,ac~s s3f d:~i1y~ liu~h~ires, tiy~e sc~raneEimcs w~~t~lcl pield tca the reacd~~e mn~i6! cifsrin~ul~~s-res~c~nse.

Can the cic~or to m}~ t~f~ice ~r~ the words, ̀[f Metter is }~o~sible tli~n ~;oc~cl 9s noten~~~gh'. ~ 1~e~ara to realist th:~t ~}~stenis cl~.~s~g~ ~vh~n +~~4ple exp~rien~e: pers~~~~l~han~e. ~1s ~~i~ ~n~n~~ iii n~~v ci~~Cc~,~~~t~ a~.~~~ut 4ic~r sh~re~ ~aersp~cri~~c vve ~s~;~~17~~V ~ju~siirtl~s

Is t~ti~ ~~an~; tl~e sv~i}~ we went t~ ~;pIf we keel ,~c~iri~ an this ~~~a}~, tivill it pct bett~r~Cc~ulci thins ~~t wt~rse?

~i~hc~s~ c~t~estitsns finally ~~'~}vG ~►~ t~ I~c~k fca~ new salt~tic~n~;: ~t~c~t~ t~ecr~nl~s letter,I~tt~r b~~an~~s hest. C~nc +~a»'t ~han~~ cyne`s c~~srinatit~n c~v~rn ~;ht, lout ~~te ran~han~~ the di~'cc~i 7.n. 'Chit ~3ir~ctr,~n ~'~~r t~~ ~~~as the cx~slt~r;~titan cif ~~Iilli~~nGl; ss~r~s "~I~«icy ̀ I~hecry/Rcxlir~r ̀ 1'h~r~pyP",As ~~~~ sent le tt~ commit to :a n~rn-ca~r~iv~ ~n~ir{.rn~n~nt ~ti+l~cr~ rho ~c~nce}~ts cif

3~c~n-~ic~lente, ~e~m~~~s~it~r~, trust, r~sp~4t and t~l~rctn~~ are t~~ ~~raasi~~~ thel i~ intla~ intc~c~~ticar~ c~E SC41C~Cl1i-tiCL14~~Ct[i tiL~ICl~iif~CG~tF{~!'y tca~hcYr—te~~fier antitec~~h~~r~parent, w~ ~1n fci~~a~ can the r~~)1~~►sin~ss ~~f fern ng. I can hear t1a~ cry, ~Rl►t}rcrc~ don't smderst~;nc~. ~~~r pr~~ilem~ ~r~ difE~r~nt.` Ycru'~e ri~hr. ~'~irrr ~rt~t~lerns siretlitfere~~r, Tn nny ~chnnl experi~ncn~, ~tu~~nt n~an~~~m~nc prohle~~~s, 1 ~vaulr~ Saythat whet tE~c~c• 4•xam~tcs ~~ill ecn~h }•c~~~ i~ limited. It is rte~e~~~r~t tc~ knt~r+t ~v~x~~ apra~sicg i~ ~S~~~e;ft~l. Y~a~t ~:~mc~t llc~p~ sin~~(v t~ ~t~aplir~t~ ,~ ~r~~ti~~ t~~t m~}~ tg~Qrkin ~ ~arti~~tl~r s~:t[in~. H~a~vcv~r, yca~ ~~n im~zl~ment ~in~il~r princigle~ gar ~~i~i~~iE~~~c~nd thin ~t is a matter ~E rri.~l ~n~! error — ̀f~i(in~ one's a=airs t~ success.

1~~~4ilc{ ~ve»~ member of the L~~e dot svmr~uniry a~re~ that ~tII ~ttitttdes,l~haviot~rw,.tn~l aceivitie~ h~~c si~niti~antl~ i~npeavc~d tnc~agh m state tli7t thejc~arn~} is ~c~m~slete? 1 h~p~ nett ~3ut it is t~ndeni~L~l~ eh~r ~ mct~mc~e~h~aois istal ink p(.;`~ ~ nit tapir [,tit sure; ~h~cstic I~~re c~rg ~n~se~ sirn~~~ but ~can~~[es; ~~natrc~lle~ 1~►~t t7~xil~le, n~ai~in~ fnnv~rc3 ~n~ ~ettin~; shack. l`~e~v ~r~wth is ~I~v;~ys~c~c~mpt~nied b}` ~~in. 5i~ thc~~zs~n~l ye~~r~ ~f r~4~rd~d I~istc~~r}r reads: ~►p~~rt4~nty1111~t64I 1YLt~1 CIEEE1tt9JC1°. lfnur jc~~irnct~ of ~~~u c~~4i~#e to a~~ept its dill L3~ nca ciifftr~nt.

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I~ }°c~u ~r~ ~~iili~~~ ct~ ~c~c~t ~I,~;r ~~~1~ t~h~~~~~~c~r ~;~~~~~~:~~~r~~ +y~t+~~fi~~ art m~}r#~~~-~ vc ~~~~n e~~r~i~6n~ tt~r~;e~ul ~ucl~c~r ty~ c~~~~rt the ~~.trn~rs, ~ ~~l ~~rs~ z~~4d~:d tip

d~>~I ~v~C~~ ~c~n~licc in ~>tu~ ~cl~c~c~ls, ~c~~a ~~~i91 ~har~ ~it~7il;tr ~;1fiFtrr~cs in di~~~t an.

Yct~~ w'11 ~ie~ir~ rc~ ~~c~ve fr~~ni ~~eera~~C cc~ in~~rn~~ ~~xn~~~~1, F~f►tn4~irr~ul~4-~`e,peft~~~ f« (~~h~rf}iau~l ~hai~.cx;;, Ernrn ~'rc7sitiv~ eeir~f~ir~~~t~~r~t t~ ~;c~~-

<<~alu~ticy~T, ~r«tit ~~i~;~ti~~e ~ra~~t;tic~ ~c~ ~c~llal~~r.~tti~rr►. 1l~th ~t9 rttuc;l~ rt~cjr~ ~t3 r~l~t~?[ w[~I le~v4 l~ aim C:inr~t~ (1 X71 ~ tt~ ~c}s~c~lud~:

1`~re ~~me tcy tic ~rig~tt~njng e~n~lk~~ir}n that l a~n chi t~~;isiv~ el~r~~c~t in the~1~sroatn. It's m~= p€rso~al a~pro;~~1i ~hzt c:re tt~s the e( mate. Ie's sr~}~ daily~r~~~ th~r~ ~~k~s chr ~r~~ch~c ~~ ~ ~~rtehcr, I pass~ss tr~,s~ernz~or~s ~~r~t~~~ tc~njakc :~ cf~~~d'~ life n~~s~t~abl~ ~r j~r~~~ ~~. 1 pan t~~ ~ trial r~.f ~nrt~~ce cr ~i~«~trui~ie~~~ oaf inspir;~tin~t. I €gin huiliili ►t~ car hcrli~c~i~r, hurt car heal. lzi ~tll

sitt~~tcic>tt~, ~ ~s n~} ~'cspc~c~~~: c~x~t ~3c:~ict~s ~vh€~~h~r ~ ~:~i~ s ufit~ Vic_ c~st;tl~~~~l i~rdg-~s~al~tes~ and a chip l~~ionanis+ed or c~~hianan ~~d,

Ca~isi~l link can ,ytsc~r ~~urn~~~,

An ~ I-ycar-~sf~1 girl teats ~G~x to me 4a~c~ti~s~ sl~~ t~~~s ~~u~k~t ~te~liri~ p~n~ils fr<a~rta ~iassn~,~t~'~ rric~y tca}. ̀i'h~ tc:~4her #~;.{3m~ fr~~zr~tcd ~,ec~rasc the ~hiE~l 5~=~~i~ld nc~t~tc{m t. t~tat she ha~,st~len the pencils. A~c~r a (une:h hnu~ raf di~cu~s can ~r~c~ te:~c3~zt~ dert~a[ f~c~rn the ̀ tc~uwe~~l' {~I~w~itc tl~~ ac~c~unt~ raf ~c lca~t thr~~ ~vitn~ks~w~,d~ei~iecl C~~ rnntinu~ thr c{inv~Fs~ric7n in the ~sr~+~~~e}* cik my office. r1[ Gh~ end <~f~4~c~~~t ~t~ mir~~~~~~, I sent the ~I~~(~1 b~~k to the ~1~~$r~cac~m,'The t~~4her r~n~; tlir~~~~~ t~ tltan~: me fir finzilly ~~ttir~~ the ~hilc~ t~ admit the

th~fr. l~l~en l r~~l~~, ̀I~~~~r l d~~c~'t,' thz t~~c~te~rs ~,verc ~r~~~x~d, ̀If~at ev~ryrhin~i~ ~~t, Thy: ~evc~ ~t~,cC~nts ~r~ ~i~~~Y, ~'h~~`~ ~~~ anti f~ar~a i,if~ iti ~i~~I: ter na~m~l inc~~zr el~ssr~~~m~ What did ~~u c~~??'

I relate t}ie ca~v~r~atian I h~~ with t~~ ̀tl~~ef'. F~prc~iri~ mys~lt t~ tEtk~ a cc~m-~Cet~f~ di~f~renc t~+~k ~I E~lr~ sure she r~~ac g~~iCty as w~~4},1 ~~kgd ,~~n~, ̀ hit d4 yc~u~~;~nt2' She e~~1i~c~, ̀ i jc,st ~~~ant s~1~~c}ne tc~ hetieve ~n~a'

'C){~ay, d~s~ite t[ie nTaiis~tin~, t~<<d~nce,,~an~, (l~~l~ev~ ycau. titrt ~v~,still laav~ aprc~bl~nt, dca~'t ~v~~ Whae is it?'

~WeII,,J~~ki~ cltaesn`t lt~u~ her ~~encils grad the :ids ~n~i te~cl~~rs all hate n~~ ~c~r

~sll ~h~ fuss ~t~~# rn} ly~in~,'"C~~C~}~ is there ~a~y ~v~}~ tc,~ rtae ~~ ~t ri~,ht?'`1~e~1, I ccre~Rc~ fit°e Jackie all ih~ penr~Es I have ut any ~'a~; <~t~c~ say. I`m ss~rr}~ ~o~

all the fuss,''W}~y c~can'r }~o~~ d~ that znd e~~me ha~l~ ~i~d see nae.~t~~~~uete~~t~~in~~t~~1~t~~, ~Qrh si~dents ~~t~~ned s~~ilir~~~nd h~R~~EJ~cI€ie ~v<is

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»e~rc ~h~n ha~~}' 1i'it~ ~~~ }°t~c~:~ ;~rir~ ~l~ ;~~ic~lcy~;}'. ~~ttt Cc~4~r~t~~ kcf t~~. cl:~~~;r<ic?r

~n~1,~~~;i~ ~1sk~;~l try s~~- r~74 ~~riv~~~1}~r ~~t~ said, ̀I ce~~lly ,till h~~ ~vt~ ,(~n4 eac~k i~yy~ncils, l ut ~lir is ~retiy~ ~cac~r ~ncl t think I l~nc~w Irc~~~r 5f~e felt with ~►~~:rti~t~n~carnir~~ ~3c~tvn e>rt her. I tltinl; ~hc:'~ 1~~rnt ~ Ic~t Er«rn thi ,~n~ ~{r~'IC think tt+~i~~1~kr~r~ ~ht aacs ~~~~~~echin~ like shin {~~:~in '

~~V~ h~~l ~t t~~in-tivin ~it~f;~ ic~r~. I cc~i~ld h~v~ l~+:cn ~ri5}-ic~l~ir~~, l~timi3i~ein~ J~t~~: into~~~i~titt~ ~h+~ tls~~t, ti~'I~ac .~~c>ul~t have t~cc~~ ~zhic~v~~1~ Ststric ~~~~~lc t~tl~c~ ~irc i~kt~'b4~s~' manag~menr an~3 pur~i~hr~~r~Gwc3ulc~ ~sll c1~c crut~.c~me'w~ak', ~vixh J~nr ~~t-~~n~ ~w~}' w'~th it,

~XFe;~:_ks ~~~er, tli~ sKucf~~ is ire ~ti11 fr ~;n~is, the tc~~h~r r~}ze~rt~ ti~~ ~►r~imasity; the`Gl~i~f' con~e~ r~gul~rly tt~ the E~[,nriing rc3c~n~ cc~ l~cl~~ cst}rcr wttt~ettt5. VG4: ~1! kn~i~vtlic trutl4. ~~ut the ~~e~tlir}' ~a~ mare sul3st~t~trc, fihc; stu~+:Mnt yt 3l h:t~ her :;e ta-ret~cct,r+.~latir~nshi~s arc being 4nl~~nec~, I~1v~n'c ~~c ~Il m~d~ mist~k ~ ~tca~~ ~~n~t then?

P~t~~l~ ~~ evc~ri~ti autsid~ tts netcr rrr~•rc~v ~timul~tc u~ tt~ ~~ ~~~y=thin, Irt Chip~.~~e, tai: ~,II foll~~~vc d ̀ fh~ rules ~}f ~hc ~~rrx4" tc~ ~i~~i4v~ t~sc t~~c~~~ ~~~~~i~in~ful c ut-ccart~e fczr us all — res~4cc ~n~ ~{:~lu~ fc~r the intiividt~~l pica mm~cct~r ~vh~t the cltraic G,

/~► b~auti~i+i place: bu!/dTng d muhi~~rllural schod!

Larry Schavartz

1rr ~i~~f~lr~ P~Ir~ .Secr_~ndan~ ~:t~lle~c, cl~il<~ren arrc~ tu~cl~ers ~r~~fn aruurrd fhcrv«rl~fnr~~ h~rildi~rg ~i l~~~r,nr,~rin~i~~, rn~tlt;~rr~t~eral ~cE~nol th«t i~,~ay he a ~~obrtc~rto ~itr~lrrrli~r's~fr{tune. 1_ur~y Schtt~artz re%«rt~o Frt~r i)'A~r~,~e1~~ shQres "lantrt~ac{a~~rs curt l~r~ilz~ ~-orr%idc~zce in t1~~ir slr~deirt~ c~nd a Ceositii~es~nsi~ n f[~fllrtrJf[U1Jtl' ~ CU~)1 1~~ i7 71[5)' S~t~;SPon~~t 4r)IttFfit.

Ls~rr-~~ fs cr ~ej~or(c'r c~~~t11 Thy 1~_~;4 +:F~ius)~~~>er, ,"N~ll~nttriac,

L~rly ~ftetnoan in classrr~or~ ~iS. Tiny fi b Elir ~tl~rrut ;~ smell ~ac~uariutn..l'bluc-ean~uccf fi7~rr~ ~mo~~g lifcle~s sp~citr7ens ~,reservecl in jai's, '~'au der a r~C~as~~' asksthc';tt~~hrr. ̀ ~f ihs~~lirt,' s~~s cs~» t~f 17 ~e~~~lents in this :ff~ern~~s~~'s Y~~r 12ia~icricigv ~:1;~~~. "D, i~r,~,: c:~t~ ~ri~~ rt~d char pl~cts~?' s~}P~ the r~acttrr. ̀ Mic~~~el, iiziveyc~~a ciutis~ ~u~~ci~an tl~r~~:?' ~Y'c~~~ all ri};hc,'~~utr~'

l~Tivta f~l ~S r1s~t~a ~iili~;t►lkl~~ (~rt~.~~ ~f~~ Sit ~ ~ 41~tss !It ~'t~f~iT]j~, til der ri~~rivBr~sni~ I~[~rzz~t~v~~a, Then e:ttr,~ a ~srrir

'T►at t~~mb~n~ ~~f~ts prc~l7~Isly thy: rnait~ rl~ n~,~ sl~c sa}'s. ̀ Wl~cn y~nttTr~ sG~~ci7 y~ trall, }~u ~~n'# ekpcct that ~e~ ita~~en in ~~~tr ~+vn st«ire sv~rl~,'

I~i~~~~' ~~►r~nt~ c~rtXt~ fr~i►~~ ~'rul~r~vn k, in ~'r~s~ti~. ~lrnotig her ~lUsest fric'tycf~l~sai~taft ~cnita i:; ~rc~rr~ ~3tfsnia ~n~3 ~~lrf~~a i~ #rc,r~~ ~~rl~i~.

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