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Magic Wand Question

“If you could wave a Magic Wand that changed

one thing within six months which would have

a positive impact on your life

– personally and/or professionally…

…What would you change?”

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You are of “Two” Minds…

The Conscious Mind

The Subconscious Mind

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Conscious Mind

• Voice in your head – “Self-Talk.”

• Rational and Analytical

• Visionary – Can imagine a future

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Subconscious Mind

• Center of Emotions and Instincts

• Cannot tell the difference between a real or an imagined experience

• Storehouse of memories – DNA, Habits

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But, which mind really controls you?

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“The most recent brain research strongly indicates that the subconscious mind controls 90% of our choices and the conscious mind controls 10 %.”

- Richard Granger

Professor of Psychological & Brain Sciences, Dartmouth

Author, Big Brain: The Origins and Future of Human Intelligence

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Plato’s Chariot

(Phaedrus, 370 B.C.)

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Sigmund Freud (1856-1939)

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Freud's Metaphor of the Mind

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Elephant – Weaknesses(Subconscious)

• Wants what it wants ‘now’ and does not like to make a short-term sacrifice for long-term payoff.

• Is fearful of change, skittish, likes the status quo and has a default setting of “survival.”

• Does not “reflect” in the traditional sense but thinks in absolutes: “right and wrong”- “like or dislike” - “love or fear

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Elephant – Strengths(Subconscious)

• Is the power and the energy – the heavy lifter.

• Is the center of our emotions and the storehouse of our memories.

• Cannot tell the difference between a real experience or one which is imagined by the Rider. (But, maybe not always.)

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The Rider – Weaknesses(Conscious)

• Is at the whim of the Elephant and can serve only as a kind of “advisor.”

• Has a natural tendency to see mostly the negative and over-analyze (analysis paralysis).

• Has limited reserves of mental energy. Will-power and decision-making can sap its resources.

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Rider – Strengths(Conscious)

• Can look into the future and visualize alternate paths of choice and – make a plan.

• Is a master storyteller The Rider loves to make up and tell stories, even if many of the stories are a complete confabulation and often a rationalization.

• Can influence but not control the Elephant with vivid, emotionally charged pictures and images.

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YOU ARE THE ELEPHANT

AND THE RIDER!

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The Tricksters’ Tools of Fear

1. Rejection2. Change3. Failure4. Success5. Commitment

The Bite of Illusory Fear

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“ILLUSORY FEAR” CAN MAKE US VERY

STUPID!

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5 Keys to Live an Exceptional Life

1. Make friends with reality.

2. Adjust your attitude.

3. Create a solid support system.

4. Ask for help and express your gratitude.

5. Create a strong vision that will see you through a crisis.

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