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Million Leaders MandateNotebook

TwoSecurity or Sabotage

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Million Leaders Mandate CurriculumMillion Leaders Mandate Curriculumby JOHN C. MAXWELL by JOHN C. MAXWELL

Notebook Two

Security or SabotageSecurity or Sabotage(Lesson 2)(Lesson 2)

Million Leaders Mandate CurriculumMillion Leaders Mandate Curriculumby JOHN C. MAXWELL by JOHN C. MAXWELL

Notebook Two

Security or SabotageSecurity or Sabotage(Lesson 2)(Lesson 2)




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5’D – Disappointment, 5’D – Disappointment, Discouragement, Discouragement,

Disillusionment, Despair, Disillusionment, Despair, DepressionDepression

5’D – Disappointment, 5’D – Disappointment, Discouragement, Discouragement,

Disillusionment, Despair, Disillusionment, Despair, DepressionDepression




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Spotting Insecurity In Your Spotting Insecurity In Your BehaviorBehavior

Spotting Insecurity In Your Spotting Insecurity In Your BehaviorBehavior1.1. ComparisonComparison

2.2. CompensationCompensation3.3. CompetitionCompetition4.4. CompulsionCompulsion5.5. CondemnationCondemnation6.6. ControlControl




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“Christ encourages you, and his love comforts you. God’s Spirit unites you, and you are concerned for

others. Now make me completely happy! Live in harmony by showing

love for each other. Be united in what you think, as if you were only

one person. Don’t be jealous or proud but be humble and consider others more than yourselves. Care about them as much as you care

about yourselves.”Phil 2: 1 -4

“Christ encourages you, and his love comforts you. God’s Spirit unites you, and you are concerned for

others. Now make me completely happy! Live in harmony by showing

love for each other. Be united in what you think, as if you were only

one person. Don’t be jealous or proud but be humble and consider others more than yourselves. Care about them as much as you care

about yourselves.”Phil 2: 1 -4




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Definition of envy: feeling of displeasure produced Definition of envy: feeling of displeasure produced by witnessing the prosperity of others. Jealousy is by witnessing the prosperity of others. Jealousy is

defined by Webster as “feelings of envy, defined by Webster as “feelings of envy, apprehension or bitterness. apprehension or bitterness.

Joyce Meyer interpret this definition as being Joyce Meyer interpret this definition as being fearful of losing what you have to another; fearful of losing what you have to another;

resentment of another’s success, arising from resentment of another’s success, arising from feelings of envy. feelings of envy.

Definition of envy: feeling of displeasure produced Definition of envy: feeling of displeasure produced by witnessing the prosperity of others. Jealousy is by witnessing the prosperity of others. Jealousy is

defined by Webster as “feelings of envy, defined by Webster as “feelings of envy, apprehension or bitterness. apprehension or bitterness.

Joyce Meyer interpret this definition as being Joyce Meyer interpret this definition as being fearful of losing what you have to another; fearful of losing what you have to another;

resentment of another’s success, arising from resentment of another’s success, arising from feelings of envy. feelings of envy.




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Complete Mindset Complete Mindset Abundance mindset•Organization first•Develop trust•Think win/win•Shared Thinking•Our great Ideas•Including others

Complete Mindset Complete Mindset Abundance mindset•Organization first•Develop trust•Think win/win•Shared Thinking•Our great Ideas•Including others




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Competing MindsetCompeting Mindset•Scarcity mindsetScarcity mindset

•Me firstMe first•Destroy TrustDestroy Trust•Think Win/loseThink Win/lose•Single ThinkingSingle Thinking•My great ideasMy great ideas•Excluding othersExcluding others

Competing MindsetCompeting Mindset•Scarcity mindsetScarcity mindset

•Me firstMe first•Destroy TrustDestroy Trust•Think Win/loseThink Win/lose•Single ThinkingSingle Thinking•My great ideasMy great ideas•Excluding othersExcluding others


Self- Assessment –Do you constantly battle with

1. FEAR Yes No2. LUST3. JEALOUSLY4. HATRED5. BITTERNESS6. CONCEIT7. DECEITFULNESS8. A LACK OF FAITH9. DISCOURAGEMENT10. HABITS WHICH ARE LITTLE OR NO CONTROL11. CERTAIN PEOPLE YOU AVOID BECAUSE OF INSECURITY YOU

CANNOT OVERCOME12. CERTAIN ENVIRONMENTS


Self- Assessment1. Do you feel that you must work in order to

gain God’s acceptance?2. Do you find yourself being critical of those

who do not serve the Lord with same fervor as you?

3. Do you develop a martyr’s attitude toward your service for the Lord?


PrayerHeavenly Father, thank you for providing me with

a means by which I can be free. Thank you for paving the way through the death and resurrection of your Son. Now give me insight into your Word that I may uncover the liberating truths I so desperately need to make my freedom complete. And Fathers, don’t let me get discouraged and quit before this journey is complete. Amen


T.H.I.N.K• T=Is it True?• H=Is it Helpful?• I = Is it Inspiring?• N= Is it Necessary?• K = Is it Kind?




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Stepping Into The TruthStepping Into The TruthStepping Into The TruthStepping Into The Truth1.1. DetermineDetermine the trigger event that fostered the trigger event that fostered

the lie/bondage.the lie/bondage.2.2. DiscoverDiscover the lie you have believed about the lie you have believed about

that situation.that situation.3.3. DecideDecide what response is truthful, what response is truthful,

appropriate, and realisticappropriate, and realistic




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Tips And TruthsTips And TruthsTips And TruthsTips And Truths




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1.1. IDENTITYIDENTITY

2.2. BROKENNESSBROKENNESS

3.3. PURPOSEPURPOSE

4.4. GIVING AND RECEIVING “THE BLESSING”GIVING AND RECEIVING “THE BLESSING”

Keys To Emotional SecurityKeys To Emotional SecurityKeys To Emotional SecurityKeys To Emotional Security




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What To Do…What To Do…What To Do…What To Do…1. Study and MEDITATE on the Scriptures.2. Check yourself each time you COMPARE

yourself to someone.3. Focus your attention on your STRENGTHS

for a season.4. Read and listen to MOTIVATIONAL material.




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What To Do…What To Do…What To Do…What To Do…5. Identify the two or three most common LIES

you believe about yourself.

6. Find someone who is “safe” to be a SUPPORT person.

7. Watch for VULNERABLE situations.

8. Remind yourself of the TRUTH.


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