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END OF LIFE PLANNING SEMINAR Ellen Rose, Pastor - Apex United Methodist Church Jim Ahler, CAE - Apex UMC Memorial Garden Committee Rev. Brenda Walton - Palliative Care Chaplain Duke Regional Hospital Britt Paynter - Wake Funeral and Cremation Services
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END OF LIFE PLANNING SEMINAR
Ellen Rose, Pastor - Apex United Methodist Church
Jim Ahler, CAE - Apex UMC Memorial Garden Committee
Rev. Brenda Walton - Palliative Care Chaplain Duke Regional Hospital
Britt Paynter - Wake Funeral and Cremation Services
PURPOSE
Identify steps necessary to be well planned for the end of life
Discuss the AUMC Memorial Garden, Prayer Labyrinth, Memorial Wall, and Columbarium
AGENDA
Financial Decisions and Digital Footprint
Physical Decisions
Funeral Decisions
FINANCIAL DECISIONS
•Wills • Legacy giving and Endowments
• Trusts • CRAT, CRUT, Special Needs, Guardianships
• Financial Power of Attorney
INFORMATION ARCHIVE FOR
YOUR FAMILY
BEQUESTS
Another amazing gift to your family
Take the time to make a list of all your items you want to pass on to someone
Describe the item (Aunt Minnie’s silver service) Include a photo would be helpful Be very specific about who get it A nice touch – include a story about how you got it and why you want it to go to that specific person
DIGITAL FOOTPRINT
• Social Media • Facebook, Instagram, LinkedIn, Twitter, Snapchat, etc
• Digital accounts • Banking • Investment • Insurance • Retirement • Amazon, Kindle, Nook • Businesses – utilities, credit cards, subscriptions, etc.
PHYSICAL DECISIONS
Rev. Brenda Walton
Palliative Care Chaplain Duke Regional Hospital
PHYSICAL DECISIONS• Our Christian understanding of death
• “I never dreamed this could happen.”
• Advanced healthcare directives
• Let your values be your guide
• Organ Donation
• The Rest of the Story
FUNERAL DECISIONS
"Planning Your Final Rites“
Britt Paynter Funeral Director
Wake Funeral & Cremation Services
FUNERAL DECISIONS
“Planning Your Funeral Service”
Pastor Ellen Rose Apex United Methodist Church
FUNERAL DECISIONS
“Planning Your Final Resting Place”
Apex UMC Memorial Garden
Glenn Mason Memorial Prayer Labyrinth Memorial Wall Columbarium
Jim Ahler and Pastor Ellen Rose
Proposed location of the project – the Crossroads “courtyard”
3D CAD Model of proposed design; the labyrinth pattern & size in model is conceptual
View (from the sanctuary courtyard-side exit) of the labyrinth, Memorial monument, and “Phase 2” Columbarium wall. Phase 1 wall is to the right.
THANK YOU
