Effective Relationship

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Building Effective relationship by Nilesh Gore

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Building Effective RelationshipBy Nilesh Gore

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Nilesh Gore, Founder Director of Institute Management, self-improvement and

personality development known as 'Brain Dynamics - Enrich your mind, unleash you

potentials'

Nilesh Gore genuinely help just about every one using Essential skills in graphology

and psychology for their excellent career, profession and personal life! Mr. Nilesh

Gore involved in Personality Assessment / Character analysis, Child development,

personality Development, SWOT analysis, professionalism improvement, Marital -

Educational & parental Counseling, Selection of Business Partner & Life Partner,

helping people managing their strengths & weaknesses. I'm also working on

'Graphotherapy' i.e. managing emotional health via Grapho-therapy.

The author also grants full permission to republish excerpts provided it remains in

the proper context and is accompanied by an attribution link back to

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DISCLAIMER

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observations and experiences of the author. It is an opinion based eBook. The

author makes no representation or warranties of any kind with regard to the

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Contents1 Building Effective Relationship 5

2 8 Important things for strong relationship 7

3 Master key for selecting right life partner 11

4 About Nilesh Gore 13

5 www.braindynamic.com -


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By Nilesh Gore

Apart form perfection, we can be excellent in managing any kind of relation or

relationship with anybody, but what you need is the golden law to understand

new dimensions of managing relationship to form a effective relationship.

Relationships don't come about because people are perfect. They comebecause of understanding.

There is more gratification in being a caring person that in just being a nice

person. A caring attitude builds goodwill which is best kind of insurance that a

person can have and it doesn't cost a thing.

Being understanding is far more important than money and the best way to be

understood is to be understanding and the basis of real communication is

also to be understanding. Affinity, Reality & Communication is the ARC of

understanding.

If you like someone, remember someone, need someone, believe in

someone, has faith in some one & love someone then tell them, talk to them,

wish n complement them... Coz all above things happens, can't be created,

when it happens it has value.

Remember always to say what you mean Never be afraid to express yourself.Take this opportunity to tell someone what they mean to you n part of you.

Seize the day and have no regrets. Most importantly, stay close, connected,

committed & concerned to your friends and family, for they


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have helped you to make better and better per day, for they have helped you

to make a responsible person that you are today

Relationship never be taken for granted. Once relationships are established,

they need to be nurtured constantly. Nobody is perfect. Expecting perfection

is setting yourself for disappointment.

We can't measure the value of gaining after loosing and can't repair the

patch after missing.


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8 Highly Important things

When you hear about couples who maintain a strong relationship through all of lifes

challenges, you may wonder how they do it. Some of these couples have faced the

same kinds of difficulties that can lead to break-ups for other people, such as mutual

understanding, financial problems, trouble with in-laws, or differences in interests or

personalities. But somehow, these couples have stayed together while others

havent.

Every couple is different, so theres no one-size-fits-all formula for a good

relationship. But people whove stayed together for a long time tend to have some ofthe same things in common. Here are ten tips based on the conclusions experts

have drawn from studying successful relationships:

1. Have a strong commitment to making your relationship work.

Many couples start out with a strong commitment to their relationship but, after a

while, begin to give it less attention. They may neglect each other while focusing on

their work, children, or a time-consuming hobby. In strong relationships both people

may have outside interests, but they continue to make their commitment to eachother a top priority.

Staying committed begins with accepting that having a good relationship takes work.

Problems can occur in any relationship, and both people have to make compromises

and adjustments. So its important to accept some difficulties or rough patches as

normal and inevitable. Instead of trying to pretend that they dont happen, make a

commitment to solving your problems together.

2. Think of yourselves as true friends, not just as a couple.

Couples who stay together see themselves as good friends. They share a variety of

activities, enjoy each others company, provide support in good times and bad, and

they dont take each other for granted.


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3. Accept each others problems and limitations.

As a known fact that nobody is perfect, and long-lasting couples accept this and

learn to cherish each other despite their flaws. One of the biggest challenges you

may face as a couple is learning to live with many different kinds of shortcomings. In

the early stages of a relationship, both of you may have to accept only small

limitations. (One of you is messy and the other is neat, or one of you always wants

to try new restaurants while the other would like to have a home-cooked meal every

night.) Over time, you may have to cope with larger disappointments -- for example,

that one of you has never achieved a big career dream or earned as much money as

youd hoped. At every stage of your relationship, its important for both of you toknow that youll love and cherish each other even if things dont always work out as

expected.

4. See yourselves as equal partners.

In successful relationships, two people may have very different roles, but they see

themselves as equal partners. They dont regard one persons views or interests as

more important than the others. Each person feels that he or she is making a vital

contribution to the relationship.

One of the best ways to foster this kind of equality is to ask for the other persons

opinion frequently and show that you value it. Try to make joint decisions on big

issues -- deciding how to save for retirement or how to divide up the household

responsibilities -- and learn to find creative solutions or make compromises when

you cant agree.

5. Pay attention to how you communicate, Speak respectfully.

More than two-thirds of the couples who seek counseling say that their problems

include poor communication. Its vital to learn how to communicate with your partner

so that both of you are able to express your needs and desires clearly. One study

found that couples can stay close by spending as little as twenty minutes a day

simply talking to each other.

The quality of your conversation also matters. Researchers have found that couples

who stay together are much more likely to give each other praise, support, or

encouragement than those who break up. Many people in long-lasting relationships


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make a point of saying I love you every day. Others continually show their affection

in small ways. They may touch or hug frequently, give each other back rubs, or tuck

romantic notes into the other persons lunch bag or briefcase. It doesnt really matterwhat you do, as long as you and your partner show each other how much you care.

6. Develop a support system, never let him/her as alone n helpless.

When they fall in love, many couples think they dont need anybody but each other.

In the long run this usually turns out to be untrue. Maintaining a good relationship is

difficult enough that most couples who stay together need a lot of support along the

way. This may come from their friends or family.

But it can also come from groups or organizations that reflect their deepest values.

Some couples develop a support system naturally. They have large and close

families, or theyre naturally outgoing and make friends easily. If you havent found a

support system this way, you may be able to develop one by making an extra effort

to reach out to others.

Sometimes you can find support by getting involved in a community group such as a

parents organization, a religious organization, or an athletic team. Its also helpful to

take the first step to reach out to others -- for example, by organizing a block party or

inviting a coworker whos new to town to have dinner with you and your family.

7. Handle disagreements constructively, opinions may differ not love.

Even in the strongest relationships, it isnt usually possible -- or healthy to try to

avoid all disagreements. A desire to avoid conflict can lead couples to ignoreproblems until they become too big to handle.

A healthy argument can help to clear the air and clarify different points of view. Since

its impossible to avoid all arguments, it is important to deal constructively with your

differences. This means avoiding personal attacks during arguments or discussions,

which can destroy your trust in each other or chip away at your feelings of being

loved and valued.


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No matter how upset you feel, try to focus on the issues involved in a disagreement,

not on whos right or wrong. If youre unhappy that your spouse doesnt pay the

bills on time, dont accuse him or her of being lazy or neglectful. Instead you mightsay, Im concerned about how late were paying our bills. This could affect our

ability to buy a house someday. Or, Ive noticed that weve had a lot of late charges

on our bills. Do we need to work out a better system for making sure these get paid

on time?

8. Allow space, make sure each of you has some privacy and independence.

In the early stages of a romance couples may want to do almost everything together.

But over time, most couples realize that each person needs room to grow anddevelop, not just as part of a couple, but as an individual.

In practical terms, this means that each member of the couple needs time alone or

with friends away from the other. Allowing each other some independence is a way

of giving your relationship room to breathe and showing that you respect anothers

unique needs and interests.

Have a Strong Relationship


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Master key for

selecting RIGHT Life partner

Using extensive and eminent skills in psychology and graphology Mr. Nilesh Gore at

braindynamic.com can help you to understands persons character explicit & implicit

and persons behavior form inside & form outside. Another key side of his skills is

that it will help you to choose & select right life-partner for you.

Selecting right life-partner or match-making by using his skills for several element to

deal with. few of them are as follows. (level / percentage of )

1] of mutual understanding.

2] Targets / Goals / Objectives in life,

3] Extrovert & introvert nature,

4] Mental Physical Sexual balance,

5] ability to stick for a lifetime with only life partner.

6] His / her sexual & psychosexual nature

7] closeness of relationship with life-partner (mentally & physically)

8] whether can be good mother / Father.9] has ability scarify sympathy, empathy,

10] the way he/she projecting their-self.

These elements can be go long in short I check the balance, coordination &

competence in between :- Mental- Physical- intellectual sexual personal

professional social spiritual financial & relations. In between them

These are the key areas to make married / husband-wife relationship highly

successful and prosperous.

Good boyfriend or girlfriend doesnt mean that he/she will act as a good

husband & father. Before marriage boys promises the moon & stars but latter on

the girl gets disappointment, the picture after marriage is not the rosy. They might be

to sweet to cheat & take advantage for sex or money, in few matters both sex and

money.

Nilesh Gore can help in selecting the right partner as per the true picture of Boy or

Girl. Others can see the explicit nature of character & behavior of personality.


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He sees the Implicit & explicit nature of character & behavior of personality. You will

get lots of details from him or at his web site i.e. www.braindynamic.comor you can

email him at [email protected].

Have a Strong Relationship


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About Nilesh GoreHe is Founder Director of Institute Management, self-improvement and

personality development known as Brain Dynamics Enrich your mind,

unleash you potentials visit him at www.braindynamic.com

What he exactly do?In his workplace, its on more development, he conducts personality developmentand self-improvement courses. He has committed to bring significant fulfillment to

every area of life and he help you uncover the fascinating capabilities,predispositions and talents individual born with. He helps...

Students form every walk

Managers & Owners

Professionals, Executives

Career Starters

Employees

Practitioners & HR

Doctors & Engineers CA & CS

Husband and Wife

Parents


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Effective Relationship

Copyright 2006 Nilesh Gore, Brain Dynamics - http://www.braindynamic.com

All rights reserved worldwide.

Copyright 2006 Nilesh Gore, Brain Dynamics - http://www.braindynamic.com

He genuinely help just about every one using Essential skills in

graphology and psychology for their excellent career, profession andpersonal life!

He is involved in Personality Assessment / Character analysis, Childdevelopment, personality Development, SWOT analysis, professionalismimprovement, Marital -Educational & parental Counseling, Selection of BusinessPartner & Life Partner, helping people managing their strengths & weaknesses.I'm also working on 'Graphotherapy' i.e. managing emotional health via Grapho-therapy.

Visit him at www.braindynamic.com

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