eek { 1 day one€¦ · ⸭ Read 1 Samuel 15 ⸭ Then the Lord said to Samuel…”Fill your horn...

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⸭ Read 1 Samuel 15 ⸭

Then the Lord said to Samuel…”Fill your horn with oil and be on your way; I am sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king." -1 Samuel 16:1

eek { 1 } - day one

In order to truly understand a person, we must first take a look at where they came from. Saul was the King of Israel when David was a boy; these two first met under trying circumstances. Their relationship was volatile to say the least, but God used it to transform a young shepherd boy into Israel’s next king! We start our study in 1 Samuel 15 to gain an understanding of who Saul was and why God rejected him.

1. What credentials does Samuel give Saul in verse 1? Why did he start off this way?

2. What name does Samuel call the Lord in verse 2?

3. What message did the Lord give Saul through Samuel (give details)?

4. Samuel calls God “The Lord Almighty” when he is talking to Saul. This name literally means Yahweh of Armies. Why would Samuel call God by this name in light of his message?

5. Read the following verses. Who were the Amalekites and what did they do to Israel?

⸭Genesis 36:12

⸭Exodus 17:8-15

⸭Numbers 14:36-45

⸭Deuteronomy 25:17-19

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⸭Judges 6:3-5

6. Read Deuteronomy 20:16-18. Why would God call for the complete destruction of a nation?

7. How did Saul get ready for battle (1 Samuel 15:4)?

8. Whom did Saul warn? Why?

9. How did Saul disobey the Lord?

10. Why would partial obedience be viewed as complete disobedience?

11. Has God ever asked you to give up something you thought was good? Explain.

12. Why is it hard to give up things we feel we deserve?

13. What grieved the Lord (v. 10)? How did Samuel respond to this?

14. What is the first thing Saul did after the battle was over? Why is this significant?

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15. Read the following verses. What significant things happened to Saul in Gilgal?

⸭1 Samuel 11:14,15

⸭1 Samuel 13:7-14

16. How did Saul’s greeting and his response to Samuel show where he was spiritually (v. 13, 14)?

17. Read 1 Samuel 12:14, 15. What warning did Samuel give Israel?

18. How did Saul respond to Samuel the first time he confronted him (1 Sam 15:15)?

19. What charges did Samuel bring against Saul (v. 23)? What would be the consequence?

20. How did Saul respond after knowing the consequence? Is this an image of true repentance? Why or why not?

21. How do Saul’s excuses and self-justification serve as a warning for us today?

22. How has fear caused you to turn away from God’s plan for you?

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23. Whose forgiveness is Saul seeking in verse 25? Why is this significant?

24. What happened to Samuel’s robe? What does this symbolize (v. 28)?

25. The second time Saul confesses his sin, what is he after (v. 30)?

26. Why would it be important for Saul to have Samuel go with him to worship publically?

27. What do verses 32 & 33 tell us about Agag’s character?

28. Because Saul abandoned his duty as king, what action did Samuel take?

29. What insight does verse 35 give into the loss that was felt?

30. Describe a time when following the Lord brought a period of deep grief. How did the Lord strengthen you through this loss?

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eek { 1 } - day two ⸭ Read 1 Samuel 16 ⸭

1. What did the Lord ask Samuel (v. 1)? Why would the Lord rebuke Samuel for grieving?

2. What command did the Lord give Samuel (v. 1)? Where would he have to travel?

3. Read 1 Samuel 15:34. Where did Samuel live? Where did Saul live?

4. How did Samuel respond to the Lord?

5. What does Saul know will happen (1 Samuel 15:28)?

6. What is Samuel’s job (1 Samuel 15:1)?

7. Samuel would have to travel through Gibeah to get to Bethlehem from Ramah. Why would he be fearful

of Saul killing him?

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8. Describe the plan the Lord gives to Samuel (vs. 2-3).

9. Read 1 Samuel 7:15-17. Why would Saul not be suspicious of this plan?

10. How did the elders react to Samuel coming to Bethlehem (v. 4)?

11. Read 1 Samuel 15:33. In light of 1 Samuel 7:15-17, and 1 Samuel 15:33, why would the elders react to Samuel this

way?

12. How did Samuel’s past experience of anointing Saul set his expectations for the new king (1 Samuel 9:2)?

13. What did the Lord say about Eliab?

14. Have your expectations ever gotten in the way of the Lord’s plan? Explain.

15. How does Samuel demonstrate faith in 1 Samuel 16:8-11?

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16. Describe a time when you had to step out on an unclear path and trust the Lord to direct your steps. How did this

strengthen your faith in God?

17. What challenges you the most about living by faith?

18. How is David described (vs. 11, 12)?

19. What did Samuel do to David? What happened as a result? Who was present?

20. What happened to Saul? Who diagnosed him?

21. What treatment did they suggest? Why would they suggest this (See 2 Kings 3:15, Psalm 49:4)?

22. How has God used music to comfort or draw you closer to Him?

23. Read the following verses. How do they show God’s sovereignty over darkness and/or Satan?

⸭Job 1:9-12, 2:6

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⸭2 Corinthians 12:7-10

⸭Ephesians 6:10-13

24. How does Saul’s servant describe David (v. 18)?

25. Why is it important to guard your reputation? What are some ways you can do this?

26. Saul unknowingly invites his replacement into his home. How do David’s actions in Saul’s court prove his

character (v. 21-23)?

An evil spirit is tormenting Saul so much that his servants come up with a plan to help him find relief. Lo and behold the servants come up with the name of an obscure, young, shepherd boy that can play the harp. David’s name was recommended and he was qualified to come into the king’s presence simply because he knew how to play an instrument. I’m sure David never imagined his harp playing was how he was going to meet the king, much less get a place in his court. But that’s the thing about God; his solutions usually come from places we least expect. David didn’t need to figure out how he was going to take hold of God’s plan for him, he just needed to keep doing what was in front of him and let God take care of the rest. After David was anointed he went back to what he had always done…he fed his father’s sheep. These sheep would later prove to be the perfect training ground for what God had planned for him. Many times we just need to sit back and feed our sheep. We need to take care of the things God has given us to do in our present circumstances and allow God to bring about His plan. I have to admit, I spend way too much time desperately trying to figure out God’s plan instead of enjoying where I am, waiting for HIM to direct me. When God calls David, he goes and plays a harp. He doesn’t expect a more prestigious position, he doesn’t come up with excuses of why he can’t go, and he doesn’t worry that God has forgotten the plan. David doesn’t know what God is doing, he doesn’t know how God is working, but he goes trusting that God is sovereign and his job at that moment was to simply play a harp.

27. In your present circumstances what is God asking you to do?

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⸭ Read 1 Samuel 17:1-31 in the New Living Translation and again in a translation of your choice ⸭

eek { 1 } - day three

1. Who gathered for war? Where did they gather?

2. What separated the armies physically (v. 3)? What separated them psychologically (v. 11)? Which is harder to conquer?

Why?

3. Describe Goliath.

4. What kind of warfare did Goliath want to engage in? What can we assume made him a champion (vs. 8-10)?

5. What was Israel’s reaction to Goliath’s suggestion?

6. Look up the following verses, what did God continually remind the Israelites?

⸭ Deuteronomy 1:21


⸭ Joshua 8:1

⸭ Joshua 10:25

The word dismayed in Hebrew means to be “shattered or cracked”. The Lord was continually telling his people not to fear to the point of breaking. God promised to keep them together if they trusted and obeyed Him. They still had to drive out the people in the land and step into overwhelming battles, but with God on their side no enemy could stand against them.

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7. Why does God remind the Israelites of this so often?

8. Have you ever feared something so much you felt undone? Explain.

9. What covenant promises were the Israelites forgetting?

⸭ Exodus 23:22


⸭ Deuteronomy 20:1-4

10. Which of Jesse’s sons were in the army (1 Samuel 17:13)?

11. Why wasn’t David in Saul’s army (See Numbers 1:3, 1 Samuel 17:33)?

12. What was David’s position (1 Samuel 16:21-23)? What new information does 1 Samuel 17:15 give us about his position?

13. What was Jesse’s plan for David (vs. 17-18)? What was God’s plan (v. 32)? Why is this significant?

14. Why is it important to loosely hold our plans and/or our expectations? Is this a challenge for you? Explain.

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15. What bothered David about what he saw on the frontlines?

16. What did Saul offer to the man who defeated Goliath? What does this tell us about Saul’s leadership?

17. What was Eliab’s reaction to David (v. 28)? How does this confirm 1 Samuel 16:7?

18. How were Eliab’s words meant to distract David from God’s plan?

19. How long had Eliab been on the frontline (v. 16)? Do you think this contributed to his anger? Why or why not?

20. How did David respond to his brother’s attack? What do you learn from this?

21. Have negative words ever distracted you from your goal? Explain.

22. Has jealousy or guilt ever caused you to become defensive and misinterpret someone’s motives? Explain.

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⸭ Read 1 Samuel 17:31-58 ⸭

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1. What was reported to Saul (vs. 26, 31)? What was his response?

2. What did David tell Saul (v. 32)? How did Saul respond?

3. First Saul sends for David, and then he disregards him. What do you think caused his change of heart?

4. Why was what David said most likely offensive to Saul?

5. Describe a time when someone discouraged you from engaging in the service of the Lord?

6. What qualified David to fight the Philistine (v. 34-37)? How were these past battles very similar to the one facing the

Israelites?

7. How has God used your past to prepare you for your present ministry?

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8. With such a high stakes battle on the line, what is significant about Saul giving David his consent to be

Israel’s champion?

9. What is noteworthy about Saul giving David his armor and David refusing to wear it?

10. How did Goliath respond to David? What did the Philistine notice about him? What did he fail to discern?

11. What did David say to Goliath?

12. Read 1 Samuel 13:1-15 & 1 Samuel 17. Compare Saul and David, as they were getting ready to fight the Philistines?

Saul David

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13. What is the main difference you noticed?

14. Read 1 Samuel 14:1-23. What similarities do you notice about how David and Jonathan prepare for and fight the

Philistines?

15. Describe a time when you allowed God to fight on your behalf. How did the situation turn out?

16. What does David take away from the battle? Where does he put the things he takes?

17. What does Saul want to know about David (vs. 55, 56, 58)?

This is one of those confusing passages of the Bible that I want to understand. I found myself asking Saul, “What are you talking about, you know David, he plays the harp for you. He is one of your favorites!” But much to my chagrin Saul never answered back so I had to go looking for why the king had such a lapse of memory…stay tuned for more in this week’s lecture!

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⸭ Read 1 Samuel 18⸭

eek { 1 } - day five

1. What happened after Saul was done speaking to David (1 Samuel 18:1, ESV)?

2. Who is Jonathan (1 Samuel 14:49)? What was his position among Saul’s sons? What would be his inheritance?

3. 1 Sam 18:1 (ESV) says, “The soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David.” The word knit is the Hebrew word qashar.

Read the following verses. How is the Hebrew word qashar translated in these verses (the translated word will be under-

lined)?

⸭ 1 Kings 16:9 (NIV)- Zimri, one of his officials, who had command of half his chariots, plotted against him. Elah was in

Tirzah at the time, getting drunk in the home of Arza, the palace administrator at Tirzah.

⸭ 2 Kings 9:14 (ESV)- Thus Jehu the son of Jehoshaphat the son of Nimshi conspired against Joram. Now Joram with all

Israel had been on guard at Ramoth-gilead against Hazael king of Syria.

⸭ 2 Kings 12:20 (ESV)- His servants arose and made a conspiracy and struck down Joash in the house of Millo, on the way

that goes down to Silla.

⸭ Deuteronomy 11:18 (NLT)- "So commit yourselves wholeheartedly to these words of mine. Tie them to your hands and

wear them on your forehead as reminders.”

⸭ Genesis 44:30 (NLT)- "And now, my lord, I cannot go back to my father without the boy. Our father's life is bound up in

the boy's life.”

4. What did you learn about the meaning of the word qashar from these verses?

5. There are a lot of different meanings for the same word. In the context of 1 Samuel 18:1, what would knit Jonathan

and David’s souls together? Hint: think about Jonathan’s position and David’s anointing.

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6. How did David’s life change after he defeated Goliath (v. 2)?

7. Who seems to initiate the covenant in verse 3? Why is this significant?

8. How does Jonathan confirm the covenant with David (v. 4)?

9. Read 1 Samuel 13:22. By giving David these things, what does Jonathan seem to recognize about David

that no one else sees?

10. What is significant about David rejecting Saul’s armor (1 Samuel 17:38,39) and accepting Jonathan’s?

11. Review the list of similarities between David and Jonathan you filled out yesterday. What would Jonathan love about

David?

12. Describe how a mutual affection for Christ has given you deep friendships. Why do you think this happens?

13. How do you see God’s hand of favor on David (v. 5)?

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14. Name the people who love David or were pleased with him in this chapter. How did Saul respond to David’s success?

What realization did Saul finally come to (v. 8)?

15. What did Saul try to do to David? Why did he do this? How did David respond?

16. Why was Saul afraid of David? What did he do as a result (v. 12, 13)?

17. Did this help Saul’s fear (v. 15)? Why or why not?

18. What promise had Saul not kept to David (v. 17, See 1 Samuel 17:25)?

19. What is Saul’s motive in giving David a military commission over a thousand men?

20. What is Saul’s motive in offering his oldest daughter (v. 17)? How does David respond to Saul’s offer?

21. What does verse 19 say about Saul’s oldest daughter?

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22. What did Saul learn in verse 20? Why did this please him? What plan did Saul come up with (v. 21, 22)?

23. How did David respond to Saul’s offer? Why did he respond this way?

24. What plan was agreed upon? How did this plan make both Saul and David happy?

25. In what two ways did David go above and beyond his agreement with Saul (v. 27)? Why do you think he did this?

26. What got in the way of Saul’s plan to destroy David (v. 28)?

27. How did Saul respond to this realization (v. 29)?

28. What does verse 30 tell us about David?

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At last Jonathan said to David, "Go in peace, for we have sworn loyalty to each other in the LORD's name. The LORD is the witness of a bond between us and our children forever." -1 Samuel 20:42

eek { 2 } - day one

David’s life is about to get interesting! If you thought slaying a giant and almost being murdered by your boss was crazy, just wait for what’s in store for our young shepherd this week!

1. Saul turns to a more direct approach to deal with his problem. What does he finally admit? Who does he ask to carry out his plan?

2. What does Jonathan do with this information (vs. 2-3)? What is his plan? What is he risking?

3. What benefits had Saul received from David? Who points this out?

4. Who ultimately won the victory for the Israelites against Goliath (v. 5)? Why does Jonathan remind his dad of this?

5. How did Jonathan’s plan show wisdom?

6. How does Saul respond to Jonathan?

7. Are you a person that incites or dissuades dissention? Explain.

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8. Read 1 Samuel 14:24-45. Make a list of all the consequences Saul’s rash oath had on his people.

9. What does 1 Samuel 14:24 tell us about Saul’s motive?

10. How did Saul’s oath involve God?

11. How trustworthy is Saul in keeping his oaths? Explain.

12. Describe a time in your life when an impulsive decision had major consequences. What did the Lord teach you through this?

13. What does 1 Samuel 19:7 tell us about Saul’s relationship with David?

14. Read 1 Samuel 18:29. Had Saul’s heart changed?

15. What happened when war broke out (v. 8)?

16. Why was David most likely playing his harp? What is impressive about David still having this position?

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17. How did Saul try to kill David? How is this attempt different from the last one (1 Sam. 18:10-13)?

18. What was the catalyst to Saul’s behavior?

19. What was Saul’s plan (v. 11)?

20. Who warned David of this plan? Why is this significant (1 Sam 18:20, 21)?

21. Describe Michal’s plan.

22. What does this plan tell us about Michal’s spiritual condition as well as her love for her husband?

23. In light of Michal’s plan, what kind of snare do you think Saul was hoping she would be to David?

24. What excuse did Michal give her father for helping David?

25. How did Saul use Michal’s excuse as an opportunity?

26. Where did David flee?

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27. Why would David seek out Samuel (1 Sam 16:2, 13)?

28. What did Saul do when he found out where David was (v. 20)?

29. Describe what happened each time Saul tried to capture David.

30. What did Saul do while he was prophesying (v. 24)? What do these actions symbolize (1 Sam. 15:23, 28)?

31. Why would God keep Saul in this state for so long?

32. Describe a time when God intervened on your behalf.

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eek { 2 } - day two

1. Where did David flee?

2. Why would David run there?

3. What is David desperate to know? Describe David’s emotional state.

4. How are the questions in 1 Samuel 20:1 a test of Jonathan’s loyalty?

5. How did Jonathan respond to David’s interrogation? Did he believe David (v. 2)?

6. How did David convince Jonathan to consider what he was saying? Why do you think it was hard for Jonathan to believe David?

7. According to verse 3, how much danger was David in?

8. How did Jonathan respond to David’s oath (v. 4)? From this answer, what can we infer about Jonathan’s character?

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9. Describe a time when a friend showed you this kind of love and support.

10. Describe David’s plan.

11. What do the following verses say about the New Moon festival?

⸭ Numbers 28:11-14

⸭ Numbers 10:10

⸭ Isaiah 66:23

The New Moon festival was a time at the beginning of each month when the Israelites would dedicate that month to the Lord. The festival was celebrated with sacrifices and offerings that were immediately followed by a feast. The head of the household would expect his whole family to be present for the feast. David was not only an important part of the king’s court, he was his son-in-law, and as such he would be expected to eat at Saul’s table no matter what had previously taken place.

12. What did David remind Jonathan in 1 Samuel 20:8? Why did he remind him of this?

13. How does Jonathan respond to David?

14. What kindness does Jonathan want from David?

15. Read 1 Kings 15:29; 16:11; 2 Kings 10:7; 2 Kings 11:1. What seemed to be the custom of the day? Why was this practice customary?

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16. Read 1 Samuel 20:14 & 16, on what foundation have David and Jonathan built their covenant? Why is this important when pledging faithfulness and loyalty?

17. What is significant about Jonathan’s quote in verse 16?

18. Describe Jonathan’s plan.

19. Why was it important for Jonathan to take the lead instead of David?

20. What does Saul think the first day David is absent? Read Leviticus 7:20, 21. What would cause this?

21. How did Saul respond to David’s absence the next day (1 Samuel 20:27)?

22. How does Saul react to Jonathan’s cover story?

23. What does Saul realize in verse 30? What shame is he talking about?

24. What order does Saul give Jonathan (v. 31)? How does Jonathan respond?

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25. What finally opens Jonathan’s eyes to his father’s intentions?

26. Describe a time when the Lord took blinders off your eyes. What finally got your attention?

27. What was the reason for Jonathan’s anger, fasting and grief? What is surprising about this?

28. What three phrases did Jonathan yell to the boy? How do these phrases show the severity of David’s situation?

29. When did David come out of hiding? What did David do when he saw Jonathan? Why do you think he did this?

30. Why would David weep more than Jonathan?

31. In this moment how does Jonathan point David to the Lord?

32. Why is it important to keep our eyes on the Lord during times of grief?

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Chapter 21 starts off with David on the run. He has left everything and everyone he loves behind. David is no longer a shepherd, a soldier, or a courtier. He has been given a new title, the less prestigious title of fugitive. His new life comes with the added bonus of living in isolation and fearing for his life. In this chapter we see God extending David a hand of grace in a very practical way. Sometimes we need to see our situation with new eyes to see how God is at work…this was the case with David!


1. Where did David go after fleeing from Saul?

2. The first time David fled from Saul he found refuge with Samuel, this time with Ahimelech. What pattern does David follow when he is in danger?

3. Where do you seek wisdom when you are in an uncertain situation?

4. How did the priest respond to David? What is he most concerned with (v. 1)?

5. What does David tell Ahimelech (v. 2)? What is different about David’s response in this passage from the one in 1 Samuel 17:26, 32?

6. How does physical weariness directly affect your faith? What can you learn from David’s lapse of faith?

7. Glance over 1 Samuel 20, how long had David been hiding in the field before going to Nob?

8. What is David’s first request of Ahimelech (v. 3)? Why do you think he asks for this first?

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9. What did the priest offer to David? What was the condition?

10. Read Leviticus 24:5-9. How many loaves are made? How are they arranged?

11. When were the loaves to be replaced? Who could eat the bread once it had been replaced?

12. What did the Bread of Presence represent (Leviticus 24:8)?

13. Was it lawful for David to eat the Bread of Presence? How is this a picture of grace?

14. Who happened to be in Nob that day (v. 7)? Why was he there?

All of a sudden our story is interrupted, and we are introduced to a villain. The only information the reader is given is his name and his title. But, with a name like Doeg the Edomite, you know he is up to no good! I imagine him skulking about, hiding behind walls and curtains trying to see what David was up to. I imagine him to have beady eyes and a pointed nose. Of course, he is also rubbing his hands together, maniacally laughing, excited about the opportunity to trap David! Doeg is tired of his shepherding being compared to David and he means to dethrone him, if it’s the last thing he does! Muhahaha … maybe I watch too many movies.

15. What else does David ask Ahimelech for (v. 8)? How does David account for being without?

16. What does Ahimelech offer David? How has Ahimelech taken great care of this treasure?

17. Why would having Goliath’s sword strengthen David’s faith (1 Sam. 17:44-46)?

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18. Where does David go after he leaves Nob (v. 10)?

19. Read 1 Samuel 17:23. What is surprising about David seeking refuge here?

20. What did the servants of King Achish say about David (v. 11)? What title did they give him?

21. Why would this invoke fear in David (1 Sam. 17:51-52, think about what David is carrying)?

22. What does David seeking refuge from his enemy tell us about Saul?

23. How does David get out of his predicament in Gath?

24. Read Psalm 56. When did David write this psalm?

25. Describe David’s emotional state.

26. God gave David new eyes to see his situation in Psalm 56:3, 4, 10, 11. Why did David need a perspective change (1 Sam. 21:12)?

27. How has a simple change in perspective given you the courage to keep moving forward in faith?

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1. Where did David escape?

2. Why would David’s family go to him?

3. What kind of people did David attract? What did they have in common with David?

4. How many people gathered (v. 2)? What position did David hold over them?

5. What does this tell us about David’s leadership skills? Why would this role be difficult?

I find it comical the Lord decided to sharpen David’s leadership skills by making him a magnet for all the outcasts of society. I can almost hear King Achish’s words ringing in David’s ears, “Must you bring me a madman? We already have enough of them around here!” But the Lord kept bringing David more and more, until at last, he had in his charge 400 disillusioned, discontented, debased men. It wasn’t going to be an easy task getting these men, who lived on the edge of society, to become a team, to trust a leader, and to follow a command! But just like when David was asked to play the harp, he took what the Lord put in front of him and set out to make an army. This one verse in 1 Samuel speaks volumes to the kind of man David was, but it also tells us the Lord thought David needed to refine his management skills.

6. What kind of lessons do you think David would learn from this motley crew?

7. How has the Lord used difficult personalities in your life to refine your leadership skills?

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8. How is 1 Samuel 22:2 a portrait of grace?

9. What did David want from the King of Moab? Why would David go to him (Ruth 1:1-5; 4:13-17)?

10. Read 1 Samuel 14:47. What does this tell us about Saul’s relationship with Moab? Would this help or hinder David?

11. What was David unsure of in 1 Samuel 22:3? Why is this significant?

12. What did the prophet tell David? Where did David go?

13. Why would it be important for David to be among people from his own tribe?

14. What information in verse 6 would make Saul nervous?

15. What does the narrator tell us in verse 6 that adds to Saul’s image of intimidation?

16. What tribe was Saul from (1 Sam. 9:1-2)?

17. Why would Saul bring up tribal loyalty in verse 7?

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18. Read 1 Samuel 8:4-22. What was Israel crying out for? Why did they want this?

19. What did Samuel say would happen if Israel were given a king? How did Saul fulfill these words?

20. Our beady-eyed villain enters the scene once again. What new information do we learn from Doeg (1 Samuel 22:9-10)?

21. Who does Saul send for? What does he want to know?

22. What does Ahimelech remind Saul?

One of my great friends always says, “You can’t argue with crazy!” This is so true! Poor Ahimelech is using rational arguments on an irrational king. Saul can no longer discern truth. Instead he is left with broken thinking that is bent on destruction.

23. What are the lies Saul is choosing to believe in this chapter?

24. What did Saul order the guards to do? How did they respond? Who had been their captain (v. 14)?

25. These men were willing to disobey a direct order from their king to remain loyal to their captain. How would this play into Saul’s delusions?

26. Who does Saul order to kill the priest? Why would he turn to a foreigner to carry out the job?

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27. Who escaped? Where did he go? How did David respond to him?

What a tragic ending to our day. A king, believing everyone is conspiring against him, gives orders to not only have all the priests at Nob massacred, but the entire town as well. Remember when Saul was to exact the Lord’s judgment on the Amalekites and decided to keep what seemed good to him (1 Samuel 15)? Saul has now reached a new level of insanity; he is exacting his own judgment on God’s people. Saul is trying to usurp God’s throne…and we all know that never ends well!

As I read 1 Samuel, I was struck by the fact that Saul seems to always have his spear close by. He is unwilling to part with this earthy symbol of power, even though the true source of his power had left him long ago. The only power Saul now possesses is derived through intimidation. As the years go by, Saul sinks deeper and deeper into insanity, until he can no longer recognize truth. This chapter is a clear demonstration of the enemy’s goal for our lives (John 10:10), “The thief comes only to steal, kill, and destroy.” Saul is being torn apart by his own jealousy and selfish ambition. To make matters worse, the king doesn’t even recognize what is happening. The enemy is crafty in all he does and without the armor of God we are no match for him. Saul is playing right into the enemy’s plan by targeting the Lord’s anointed.

28. How have you seen the enemy use similar tactics in our world today?

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1. Who was fighting against Keilah? What were they doing?

2. Read Joshua 15:20, 44. What tribe did Keilah belong to?

3. What did David do when he heard about the attack (v. 2)? What answer did he receive?

4. Whose responsibility was it to defend Keilah (1 Samuel 9:15, 16)?

5. How did David’s men respond to what the Lord said (v. 3)?

Saul’s obsession with killing David is all consuming. In his quest to keep his throne, he leaves his kingdom wide open for attack. The Philistines take full advantage of the lack of power and raid Keilah’s threshing floors. This attack most likely happened right after harvest when the threshing floors were full of grain. David hears about the raids and has compassion on Keilah; these are his people, from the tribe of Judah. He immediately inquires of the Lord to see if he should fill the void King Saul has left. David wants to make sure he isn’t stepping into a role the Lord has not yet given him. I love that David is always checking with God, making sure he is on the right track. I wonder how many times I act, even in compassion, without first seeking the Lord. I tend to want to fix things and then go to God. I ask the Lord to come alongside of ME, instead of me coming alongside of HIM…especially with my kids. I want to fix all my kids problems; I want to make all their hurts go away. I want to insulate them from the world, bad decisions, and failure. Recently the Lord has shown me, by doing this, I am stepping into a role He has not given me. By over-stepping my role as a parent, I have unwittingly taken on a role only God can have in the lives of my children. Forgive me Lord! I want to be like David and bring my requests before the throne of God and allow HIM to work out HIS will, not only in my life, but the lives of my children as well.

6. Have you ever over-stepped a role God has given you?

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David knows he is not Keilah’s protector or provider so he humbly seeks direction from the one who is! The problem is, David’s men aren’t too sure they want to come out of hiding and storm into a city that is under the control of a man who is seeking to destroy them! They don’t know how loyal the city is to Saul, and they would rather not have to fight both the Philistines and Israel’s army at the same time. David, being an understanding leader, goes once more to the Lord to make sure he heard Him correctly.

7. What did the second inquiry of the Lord most likely do for David’s men?

8. What lesson do you learn from David seeking clarification from the Lord?

9. How did the battle turn out?

10. What does verse 7 tell us about Saul’s mental health?

11. How many men did Saul call up for battle (v. 8)? How many men followed David (v. 13)?

12. When Doeg put the priests of Nob to death, what did Saul lose to David (1 Samuel 23:6)?

13. Read Exodus 28:4-30. What do you learn about the ephod?

14. What did David do when he learned Saul was plotting against him? What questions did he ask (1 Samuel 23:11)?

15. How did the Lord answer David? Why would this answer be hard to hear after what David had just done?

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16. Where did David and his men go? What did God do for David (v. 14)?

17. Who met David in the desert? What did he say to David? Why do you think this helped the situation?

18. What is significant about Jonathan being able to find David? What does this tell you about the Lord’s provision?

19. Describe a time when the Lord encouraged you through a friend willing to speak truth into your life.

20. What did the Ziphites tell Saul? How did Saul respond?

21. How close was Saul to capturing David? How did the Lord intervene? Where did David go?

22. When was this Psalm written?

23. What seems to be David’s first weapon of choice when dealing with uncertainty?

24. What do you learn about David from this psalm?

⸭ Read 1 Psalm 54 ⸭

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25. Ziph was from the tribe of Judah, why would David call them strangers in Psalm 54:3?

Psalm 54 gives us a glimpse into David’s heart. While 1 Samuel 23 lets us know what David is doing, Psalm 54 lets us know how he is doing. In this earnest prayer, we see how the betrayal of David’s countrymen has deeply affected him. We hear his heartbreak and feel his weariness as he cries out to his God. I love that the Lord allows us to peek in on this private moment between He and David because we get to witness how God answers David’s prayer.

26. How is 1 Samuel 23:27 & 28 an answer to the prayer in Psalm 54:5?

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But David said to Abishai, “Do not destroy him, for who can put out his hand against the Lord’s anointed and be guiltless?...As the Lord lives, the Lord will strike him, or his day will come to die,

or he will go down into battle and perish. -1 Samuel 26:9, 10

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This week is packed full of people wanting vengeance and God intervening. David is still on the run from an insane king, but as the years go by we see him becoming a strong, humble leader.

1. What was Saul told about David? What was his response?

2. Where did Saul stop and “use the facilities”? What did David’s men take this to mean?

3. Read Deuteronomy 23:12, 13. Why would Saul be so vulnerable in this situation (See v. 2)?

This part of scripture makes me laugh for a couple of reasons. 1. Did the Bible really say Saul went into the cave to relieve himself? For some reason I find this word picture funny—probably the effect raising Jr. High boys has had on my humor! I have never once thought about the bathroom habits of biblical characters, but now that it’s on the table I feel as trough I need to know more. I find myself upset that nothing is ever mentioned about the first outhouse in the Garden of Eden…did they, in their perfect selves, even need a restroom? What about the ark? People + a whole lot of animals = one stinky boat. These are the thoughts that plague me now…so many stories and not a lot of information! In women’s Bible study we hardly ever have the opportunity for a bathroom conversation, and for good reason…we aren’t Jr. High boys! But then King Saul goes into a cave to use the facilities and almost meets his demise.

4. Why would God find this tidbit of information important for us to know? How has God used a humbling situation to get your attention?

5. The prophecy David’s men spoke of in v. 4 is not found anywhere else in scripture. This could mean the men believed a false prophecy or it could be that the men misinterpreted certain events. Read 1 Samuel 16:13, 14, 20:14, 15, 23:17. In light of these events why would it be easy for David’s men to assume it was God’s will to kill Saul?

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6. What are some things our world assumes about God today? How does this affect the way people act?

7. What did David do as a result of listening to his men (1 Samuel 24:4)? What happened to David?

8. Why would this act strike his conscience (See Exodus 22:28)?

9. What did the cut robe symbolize (1 Samuel 15:27, 28)?

10. How have you been tempted to take a short cut to accomplish God’s will? Describe what happened.

11. How was David an example of godly leadership to his men?

12. In what ways have you stood up against popular opinion to do what God wanted? Was it hard? Why or why not?

13. How does David express loyalty to Saul (1 Samuel 24:8)? Why was this action a step of faith? What would David’s men learn from this?

I’m struck by the contrast of the two men we are studying today. Saul, who seems to be humbled by the Lord over and over again, yet is blind to it; and David, who seems willing to humble himself before Saul even though Saul is trying to kill him. The picture of David coming out of the cave and falling on his face before Saul is a beautiful example of David’s faith. David believed God’s promises, he trusted His timeline, and he understood His ultimate power. God is in control; David knew this with his whole being. This belief is what enabled David to fight a giant, to trust the covenant he made with Jonathan, and to throw himself at the feet of an insane murderer.

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14. What do the actions of your life say about your faith?

15. What question does David ask in verse 9? Who does David accuse of giving false information? Why would he avoid accusing Saul?

16. What does David want Saul to know in verses 10-12?

17. What is David reminding Saul by calling him father?

18. What is the old saying David quotes in verse 13?

19. How do these verses convey the same idea as David’s old saying?

⸭Matthew 7:16, 20

⸭Luke 6:43

⸭Proverbs 20:11

20. What is David saying about himself? What is he saying about Saul?

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21. How does David describe himself in 1 Samuel 24:14? Why do you think he did this?

22. How did Saul respond to David?

23. What does Saul finally admit in verse 20? What promise does he want David to make? How does David respond?

24. What happened after David and Saul’s meeting? Why do you think David went there?

25. What is the difference between recognizing wrong and repenting of wrong? Which one describes Saul?

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1. What happened as a result of Samuel’s death? What does this tell us about Samuel?

2. Where did David go after Samuel died? Why would his death make David feel even more vulnerable?

3. What other events took place in the Desert of Paran (some translations say Maon)?

⸭Genesis 21:14-21

⸭Numbers 10:11-13

⸭Numbers 13:1-3, 26

After Samuel dies, David moves his men to an isolated wasteland. We don’t know if this is to put more distance between him and Saul or if the land they had previously been living in could no longer support 600 men. Paran has a history of wilderness wanderings in the Bible. Ishmael grew up in this land after he and his mother were cast out of Abram and Sarai’s home. The Lord leads the Israelites through this desert with a cloud by day and fire by night. And it is from this barren land, 12 spies were sent out to bring back a report of the fruitful land God had promised them. In each of these events, God was asking his people to trust Him in a dry and weary land. He was asking them to keep walking, even when the path was hard and the future unsure. God wanted them to keep their eyes focused on Him, “the God who sees” (Genesis 16:13). It’s always hard to follow God into places that are barren and uncomfortable. I think most of us would agree it’s hard to leave comfort for trial. And once there, it’s hard not to look back at better times and feel bitter at what you’ve been given. But it is in these dry places we learn to trust God and surrender our will. It’s in the deserts of life we seek God’s guidance and draw on His strength. In these places our roots grow deep and our faith becomes real. If we will trust God enough to follow Him into these desert places, He is faithful to change us into a people with a heart for Him.

4. Has God ever led you through a spiritual desert? What lessons did you learn?

5. How is Nabal described in verses 2 & 3? How is Abigail described?

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6. Why did David have his men go to Nabal?

7. What did Nabal say to David’s men?

8. How did David respond to Nabal’s message?

9. What did the servant tell Abigail (v. 14-17)? What did he urge her to do? What does this say about the servant’s character?

10. Describe what David’s men had done for Nabal’s shepherds.

11. What action did Abigail take? How does this show wisdom?

12. What were David’s plans upon reaching Nabal’s house (v. 22)? Why is this surprising?

13. How did Abigail greet David? How is this similar to David meeting Saul in 1 Samuel 24:8?

14. How does Abigail describe her husband (v. 25)?

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15. How does Abigail try to dissuade David from killing Nabal?

16. Who was David fighting for (v. 28)? Why does Abigail remind David of this?

17. Read Ephesians 6:12. Why is it important to remember whom our battle is against? How does this challenge you?

18. How does Abigail encourage David in verse 29?

19. What did David recognize about his encounter with Abigail (v. 32)?

20. Describe a time the Lord intervened on your behalf to keep you from sin.

21. What did David praise Abigail for (v. 33)?

22. What was Nabal doing when Abigail got home? Why would this be frustrating?

23. How was Abigail an example of wisdom when she got home?

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24. What happened to Nabal when he heard about what had taken place?

25. How did David respond to Nabal’s death (v. 39)?

26. What qualities did David see in Abigail that would make her a good wife?

27. What do we learn about David’s wives in verses 43-44?

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1. What did the Ziphites tell Saul?

2. What were the Ziphites doing the last time we read about them (1 Sam 23:19, 20)?

3. How many men did Saul take with him (v. 2)? What does this tell us about his intent?

4. Read Acts 26:20. Was Saul truly repentant the last time David spared his life (1 Sam 24:16, 17)? Explain.

5. How did David confirm Saul was once again pursuing him (v. 4)?

6. What bold move did David make? Why do you think he is getting more daring in his actions toward Saul?

7. Who went with David into Saul’s camp? What does 1 Chronicles 2:13-16 tell us about him?

8. Describe how Saul’s camp was set up.

9. What advice did Abishai give David?

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10. How did David respond to Abishai?

11. What does the Lord tell us in Romans 12:19?

12. Is it challenging for you to trust God with your enemies? Why or why not?

13. What did David take from Saul’s camp (v. 12)?

14. Why didn’t anyone wake up?

15. What did David do when he left Saul’s camp? Who did he call to?

16. What question did Abner ask David?

17. How did David respond?

18. According to David, why did Abner and his men deserve to die?

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19. What evidence does David possess to show he was telling the truth?

20. What is significant about David confronting Saul in front of his army?

By taking Saul’s spear and water jug, David was taking away the king’s symbols of authority and life. Time was running out for Saul and he was powerless to do anything about it. David took this opportunity to publically address the situation because he needed the army to know the truth. No matter what they had been told, David wasn’t a risk to Israel’s national security. Many of the men listening to David that night would be a part of his future army, they would need to know their leader was trustworthy. It had been many years since David was a commander in Saul’s army. Throughout these many years, the army was only able to hear Saul’s version of the story. So one dark night, David boldly makes his way up to a hilltop, and shares the truth.

21. What questions does David ask in verse 18?

22. What is David saying to Saul in verse 19?

Living in exile was not only physically hard, but verse 19 shows us it was spiritually hard as well. In his commentary, Be Successful, Warren Wiersbe says,

“Saul and his officers had driven David out of his own land, the very inheritance that the Lord had given his family, and if David moved to other lands, how could he worship Jehovah away from the priesthood and the sanctuary?”

David knew God wasn’t confined by the boundaries of land. We see this in many of the psalms he wrote. But, he was wise enough to understand that by leaving the sanctuary, as well as the fellowship of the covenant people, his faith would be tested.

23. Have you ever been away from the fellowship of believers for an extended period of time? How did this affect your faith?

24. How did David’s statement, “The King of Israel has come out to look for a flea,” bring to light how foolish Saul was?

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25. What did Saul recognize in verse 21? What did he ask David to do?

26. How did David respond to Saul’s confession?

27. What did Saul ultimately know would happen (v. 25)?

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1. What lie did David chose to believe in verse 1? How did this false belief affect his decision-making?

2. Read the following verses. What did the Lord confirm to David many times? Who spoke these truths into David’s life?

⸭1 Samuel 16:11-13

⸭1 Samuel 23:16, 17

⸭1 Samuel 25:28-31

⸭1 Samuel 26:25

3. Why is it important for believers to remember the truth of God’s word when they face trials?

4. Where did David seek refuge? What happened the last time he tried this tactic (1 Samuel 21:10-14)?

5. Where did David and his men settle in verse 3? Who did they bring with them?

6. What did Saul do when he heard where David was? Why do you think Saul did this?

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Saul finally stopped pursuing David! It would seem a party was in order, a celebration needed. David finally won the game of cat and mouse, but at what cost? It’s true, David’s physical enemy had retreated, but his spiritual enemy had him right where he wanted him, smack dab in the center of enemy territory! Let’s face it, Saul is the lesser of the two evils. Running from Saul brought about a lot of physical pain, but living in enemy territory would bring about so much compromise David would almost forget who he was. We can become so obsessed with easing the physical pressure of our lives that we are willing to compromise our convictions. When this happens we are playing right into the hands of our real enemy.

7. Describe a time when, by trying to relieve the physical pressure of life, you ran right into the hands of the enemy.

8. What did David ask of Achish (v. 5)? Why would he ask for this?

9. How does David refer to himself in verse 5? What is significant about this?

10. How did Achish respond to David’s request? Who would maintain control of this land?

11. How long did David and his men live among the Philistines?

12. Who did David and his men raid (v. 8)? Describe these attacks.

13. Where did David tell Achish he was raiding (v. 10)? How is this different from verse 8?

14. Why would David lie to Achish?

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15. Why didn’t David leave anyone alive?

16. Why did Achish trust David? Was this trust built on truth?

17. Why does trust need to be based on truth?

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1. Who was gathering their troops against Israel? Why did this put David in a hard position?

2. Did David give Achish a clear answer in verse 2? Explain.

3. What position did Achish offer David? How long did he want David to serve in this capacity?

4. What information are we given in verse 3?

5. Define necromancer-

6. What do the following verses teach about mediums and spiritists/necromancers?

⸭Leviticus 19:31

⸭Leviticus 20:6, 27

⸭Deuteronomy 18:9-14

7. What happened to Saul when he saw the Philistine army (v. 5)?

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The last time we read about Saul melting in fear on a battlefield facing the Philistines, David came to his rescue. An unknown shepherd boy went out with just a sling, some stones, and a lot of faith to defeat the enemy Saul was too afraid to fight. The king now finds himself in a similar situation, only this time the young shepherd boy has grown into a fierce warrior, who happens to be fighting for the other side. No wonder Saul’s heart trembled!

8. Where did Saul seek direction (v. 7)?

9. In light of the verses about mediums and necromancers (Leviticus 19:31, 20:6, 27, and Deuteronomy 18:9-14) whose power was Saul seeking?

10. Why would Saul disguise himself and go to Endor at night (John 3:20)?

Saul doesn’t have anywhere to turn for direction. His past actions have left him completely alone spiritually. The Lord no longer answered him because of his disobedience. He couldn’t go to a priest because he had Doeg kill all of them in Nob. And he had lost the ephod when Abiathar, the priest, took it with him when he escaped Nob. Saul is desperately looking for wisdom, and doesn’t realize he is reaping the harvest of his past decisions.

11. What kind of seeds are you planting for your future?

12. Why was the woman suspicious (v. 9)?

13. Whose name did Saul swear by? Why is this ironic in his present situation?

14. Who did Saul want to hear from?

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15. What did the woman realize when she saw Samuel?

16. What did the woman see? Did Saul see him?

17. What was Saul’s response to the woman seeing Samuel in verse 14?

18. What question does Samuel ask Saul?

19. How did Saul justify what he was doing?

20. According to Leviticus 20:6 & 27, what punishment should Saul receive?

21. What was Saul seeking from Samuel?

22. How does Samuel shed light on Saul’s misdirected loyalty (v. 16)?

23. What did Samuel tell Saul?

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24. How did Saul respond to Samuel’s words? Did Saul repent?

25. What did the woman remind Saul? Why do you think she did this?

26. What did the woman do for Saul? Why?

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⸭ Read 1 Samuel 28:1, 2 and 1 Samuel 29 ⸭

And the men of Judah came, and there they anointed David king over the house of Judah…-1 Samuel 2:4

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The story, that was put on hold in 1 Samuel 28:2, picks back up in chapter 29. I for one am glad because it left me on the edge of my seat wondering if David fights his own people. My family will tell you I am a frustrating person to watch movies with because I ask too many questions. Yep, I’m one of THOSE people! I can’t help it; I try really hard to keep my questions to myself during a movie, but most of the time they come bubbling out within the first thirty minutes. I have a need to know how things are going to end. When the suspense builds to an excruciating degree I have been known to take out my phone and Google the ending. I’m also the type of person that reads ahead to the ending of a book when an author decides to torture me with too many unknowns. If you and I were to sit down and watch a movie together that I know you’ve seen before, forget about enjoying it a second time, I will barrage you with questions until you want to scream (or at least that’s what my husband tells me). So you can imagine how hard it was for me to stop studying right when Achish tells David he has to fight against the Israelites and David responds by saying, “then you will see for yourself what your servant can do.” What in the world does that even mean? Then, out of nowhere, the text goes in a completely different direction and the reader is once again confronted with Saul’s insanity. Sudden transitions aren’t good for MY sanity, so thankfully I didn’t have to wait very long to get back on track. Chapter 29 starts right where 28:2 left off.

1. Where did the Philistines gather? Where did the Israelites gather?

2. How many Philistine troops marched? Where did David march?

3. How did Saul react to this display of power (1 Samuel 28:5)?

4. What were the Philistine commanders concerned about (v.3)? What name did the commanders use for David and his men?

5. The commanders intentionally used the name “Hebrew” for David and his men because it means “one from be-yond.” What were they trying to tell Achish?

6. How did Achish try and calm the commanders’ fears?

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7. What did the commanders want Achish to do in verse 4?

8. What did the commanders think would happen?

9. Read 1 Samuel 14:20-23. Describe what happened (pay close attention to verse 21).

10. Why do you think this incident made the commanders wary of David?

As much as Achish wanted David to be his ally, his commanders knew better. They weren’t going to turn a blind eye to David’s past like Achish wanted them to. It wasn’t hard to see that David was an Israelite through and through and his loyalty ultimately was to his God. David had killed tens of thousands of Israel’s enemies without batting an eye and the commanders were smart enough to remember this. The Philistines had harbored Hebrews before who, at the last minute, had turned against them. The commanders realized David wasn’t going to be any different and they weren’t going to allow Achish to put the whole army in danger.

11. Has there been a time when you were unable to see the truth because you wanted it to be different? Explain.

12. Who did Achish ultimately side with (v. 6)? Why is this significant in light of talking about David’s loyalty?

13. What instructions did Achish give David in verse 7?

14. What is surprising about how David responded?

David always seems to give ambiguous answers to Achish. I can’t seem to figure out if he is devoted to him or playing him. First, there was the very odd, “then you will see for yourself what your servant can do” statement

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(1 Samuel 28:2). Does that mean he will fight for or against the Philistines? We had a momentary glimpse of hope as David lies about the regions he has been raiding in 1 Samuel 27:10. I for one felt like this proved his loyalty to Israel. But, just as fast as my hopes were raised, they were dashed once again when David gets mad that he can’t go fight against his own people (1 Sam. 29:8). David seems to have a talent for being a double agent because we have absolutely no idea where his loyalties lie. When he asks the question, “Why can’t I go and fight against the enemies of my lord the king,” we don’t know if the lord and king he is talking about is Achish, Saul, or God. But we do know the Lord stopped David before we could find out, and more importantly before David could make a really bad decision!

15. What do you learn about Achish from verse 9?

16. What additional instructions does Achish give David in verse 10?

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1. Who raided Ziklag? Describe what was done.

2. Read 1 Samuel 27:8, 9. How was David reaping what he had sown?

3. In 1 Samuel 30:4 how did David and his men respond to what had happened?

4. What was different about the way David and his men handled the grief they felt (v. 6)? What do you learn from this?

5. Read 1 Samuel 30:6 in the King James Version of the Bible, what word is used instead of strength/strengthened?

I love that David encouraged himself in the Lord his God. David knew encouragement brings about strength.

He was beat up, weary, and everyone was out to get him. In those dark and weary times of life we can

proactively encourage ourselves in the Lord. That encouragement will bring about the strength to keep

moving forward. David is really good at this spiritual discipline; he practices it all the time in the Psalms.

6. Read Psalm 103:1-12, how is this passage an example of David encouraging himself in the Lord?

7. Write out some of your own encouragements. How did this strengthen you?

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8. What action does David take (1 Samuel 30:7, 8)?

9. How did the Lord answer David?

10. How many men pursued the Amalekites? How many stayed behind? Why?

11. Who did David and his men come upon? Why was he left behind?

12. How did David and his men treat the Egyptian? Describe how this was an act of extreme generosity.

13. What did the Egyptian confirm (v. 14)?

14. What did David ask of the Egyptian? How did the Egyptian respond?

15. What were the raiders doing when David and his men found them?

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16. What did David and his men do to the raiders? For how long?

17. How was God’s grace shown to David and his men (vs. 18-19)? Why is this an example of grace (hint: grace means

unmerited favor)?

18. What plunder did David take?

19. Who was against sharing? Why?

20. How did David respond to these men in verse 23? What was David’s reasoning?

21. How would David’s quick action in silencing the dispute between his men restore their loyalty to him?

22. Where did David return (v. 26)? Why is this surprising?

23. What did David do with the plunder?

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24. Read 1 Samuel 27:10. What is interesting about the three places David mentions to Achish (1 Samuel 30:26, 29 and

1 Samuel 15:6)?

It seems as if David is not only giving some of the plunder back to the rightful owners, he is also using it as a

thank you gift to all those who helped him during his time of exile. As I read this, I realized not everyone was

out to get David. Throughout the years he gained a lot of allies who were willing to help him at the risk of

losing their own lives. In that moment of victory, David knew exactly who his friends were, but just 16 months

prior he felt like his only option for survival was seeking help from his enemy. I wonder if David had sought the

Lord before going to Gath (1 Sam. 27:3, 7), if God would have given him refuge with one of these faithful

people. Gath was most likely more comfortable and convenient, but staying in the Promised Land would have

kept David from loosing the respect of his own men.

25. What does James 1:8 say about a double-minded man? How have you seen this truth in the life of David as well as your

own life?

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1. Who went to battle? Who was supposed to be a part of this battle (1 Samuel 28:1)?

2. What happened to the Israelites in 1 Samuel 31:1?

3. Who did the Philistines kill? How is this a fulfillment of Samuel’s words in 1 Samuel 28:19?

Before God intervened, David was heading down a road that would ultimately lead to his best friend’s death. Can you imagine the hurt and guilt he would carry around if he had participated in that battle? I love that God rescued David from the path of destruction he himself had chosen to walk. Going to the enemy was David’s choice, yet God in His love and mercy reached down and protected him. He does the same thing for us today!

4. Think of a time when God intervened on your behalf to keep you away from a destructive outcome.

I’m so humbled God does this for us. He reaches down and intervenes when we least deserve it. Not only does he rescue us, he washes us anew, and gives us ministry. That’s the kind of God we serve…don’t ever forget it! David understood this when he wrote Psalm 40:2 (ESV)- “He (God) drew me up from the pit of destruction, out of the miry bog, and set my feet upon a rock, making my steps secure.” I love how the King James puts the last part, “(He) set my feet upon a rock, and established my goings.” Let’s not stay in those dark, miry pits, let’s allow God to lift us out and establish our goings!

5. Let’s return to today’s text. What happened to Saul (v. 3)?

6. What command did Saul give his armor-bearer? Why did Saul want this?

7. Read Judges 16:20, 21, 23 and 25. How did the Philistines treat those they captured?

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8. What did Saul do when his armor-bearer refused his request (1 Samuel 31:4)? What did his armor-bearer do?

9. How did the Israelites react to hearing the news of Saul’s death?

10. What did the Philistines do when they found Saul’s body?

11. How is this like 1 Samuel 17:50-54? What is significant about this?

12. Who did the Philistines give credit for their victory (1 Samuel 31:10, 1 Chronicles 10:10)?

13. How did the inhabitants of Jabesh Gilead show their respect to the royal family?

14. Read 1 Samuel 11:1-11. Why did the people of Jabesh Gilead show Saul such respect?

The end of an era has come. David no longer has to run for his life, he no longer has to hide. He no longer has to constantly look over his shoulder, anticipating Saul’s every move. Saul’s death brought about David’s freedom and it couldn’t have come at a better time for David! The Amalekites had burned his city; the Philistines had killed his best friend (David will find this out tomorrow), and many of his men were weary from the emotional rollercoaster they had just been on. It was time for change and luckily God had a plan, as He always does! For now we can all breathe a big sigh of relief…David’s exile is over!

15. As we close the book of 1 Samuel reflect on what God has taught you through the stories of David. Write down your thoughts.

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1. What happened during the time David and his men were fighting the Amalekites?

2. How long was David in Ziklag before he was told about Saul? Who delivered the news?

3. How did the man look when he arrived in Ziklag? How did he treat David (v. 2)?

4. What questions does David ask the messenger in verses 3 & 4?

5. What did David want to know after hearing about the deaths of Saul and Jonathan (v. 5)? What was the messenger’s response?

6. How does the messenger’s story contradict 1 Samuel 31:3-5?

7. Who was the messenger (v. 8)? Why is this surprising (1 Samuel 30:1, 17, 18)?

8. Why is an Amalekite saying he killed Saul ironic (1 Samuel 15:1-5, 10, 11)?

9. What did the Amalekite take from Saul (2 Samuel 1:10)?

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10. Read 1 Samuel 31:8. When did the Philistines start stripping the bodies?

11. Looking at 1 Samuel 31:8 and 2 Samuel 1:10, why do you think the Amalekite “happened” to be on Mount Gilboa that day?

12. How did David and his men respond to the news of the royal families’ deaths (2 Samuel 1:11, 12)?

13. Genesis 37:18-34 is the first time a torn garment is recorded in the Bible. What does it symbolize?

14. Read Leviticus 21:10. Who was not allowed to tear their garments? Why do you think they were excluded from this custom?

15. What did David ask the Amalekite in 2 Samuel 1:14?

16. Read 1 Samuel 9:16, 1 Samuel 24:6, and 1 Samuel 26:10. Why was Saul’s life precious to David?

17. What did David do to the messenger (2 Samuel 1:15)?

18. Read Joshua 2:19 & 1 Kings 2:37. What does the phrase, “your blood be on your own head” mean? How did the Amalekite’s words work against him?

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We don’t know if Saul’s attempt at suicide was unsuccessful and the Amalekite just “happened” by to finish the job for him or if the Amalekite was lying. It would seem the Amalekite was an opportunist; he was most likely on Mount Gilboa stripping the bodies of the deceased warriors before the Philistines could get to them. He was a glorified grave robber, taking what didn’t belong to him. As he was collecting his treasure, he made a great find. King Saul lay dead beside his armor-bearer, both pierced with his own sword. It didn’t take a genius to figure out what had happened and the Amalekite decided to take advantage of the situation. I wonder if he hatched his plan as he was lifting off Saul’s crown and trying to remove his armband. These small trinkets were nothing compared to the glory he would receive at being seen as the one who took down Saul. He would receive riches beyond his imagination if he went to Saul’s most likely successor with a fabricated story of how he saved David by killing his enemy…or so he thought! The only problem with the man’s plan was David wasn’t a fan of killing the Lord’s anointed…who knew, the Amalekite certainly didn’t! We will never know for sure if the Amalekite was lying or if he was in the wrong place at the wrong time, but either way, I’m sure he was surprised when David ordered him to be struck down!

19. What’s interesting about David ending up with Saul’s crown and armband after the Amalekite’s execution?

20. In 2 Samuel 1:17, 18, what did David compose? Who was it for? Who had to learn it?

21. Who is David referring to in verse 19?

22. Look at verse 19 in a few different translations, how does each translation describe Saul and Jonathan?

23. What is interesting about verse 20 considering David’s current living situation?

24. How does David describe Saul in his lament?

25. How does David describe Jonathan?

26. How does David’s lament challenge you?

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⸭ Read 2 Samuel 2-3:5 ⸭


1. What did David do in verse 1?

2. How did the Lord respond?

3. What did the men of Judah do (v. 4)?

4. Why did David contact the men of Jabesh-Gilead? What did he tell them?

5. Why would David tell them about Judah anointing him king?

Samuel anointed David King of Israel in a small private ceremony way back in 1 Samuel 16. David stood before Samuel and his family, an unqualified shepherd boy with a heart for God; which just so happened to be the only qualification the Lord was looking for in a new king. God knew who David was, but He also knew who he could become. It would take years of blood, sweat, and tears to mold that young shepherd boy into a man that could rule Israel with the heart of God. In 2 Samuel 2 David finally gets the chance. The Lord tells David to go to Hebron, and once there the people of Judah publically anoint him king, fulfilling the Lord’s words to Samuel in 1 Samuel 16:1, “I am sending you to Jesse of Bethlehem. I have chosen one of his sons to be king.”

6. How has God matured you through a time of waiting?

7. David doesn’t even allow the dust to settle before he reaches out to Jabesh-Gilead. Why do you think David’s first order of business, as king, was to thank and bless Jabesh-Gilead for their loyalty to Saul?

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At first glance, this seems an odd task, but political alliances were important in David’s line of work! Jabesh-Gilead had impressed the newly appointed king with their loyalty to Saul and David needed people like that on his team. So he sends his men with a word of thanks, a blessing, and p.s…I’m now a king! And p.s.s…I’ll show you favor because of the kindness you showed Saul. David is inviting the people of Jabesh-Gilead to follow him, even if it is veiled. I think it’s interesting that the people who caught David’s attention were the ones that were loyal to the man who hated him. David definitely didn’t follow conventional wisdom; he killed the man who claimed to kill his enemy and praised the men who showed loyalty to his enemy.

8. Why would David respond this way?

9. What are some ways you have gone against the grain of our culture? Was it easy? Why or why not?

10. Who survived the battle with the Philistines (2 Samuel 2:8)? Why is this surprising?

11. What did Abner do for Saul’s son (Ish-Bosheth)?

12. How old was Ish-Bosheth? How long did he reign?

13. How long was David king in Hebron (v. 11)? Who followed him?

14. Where did Abner and Ish-Bosheth move?

15. Who met at the pool of Gibeon?

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16. What does verse 13 say about Joab’s family?

17. Read 1 Chronicles 2:13-16, who was Zeruiah?

18. Describe the battle scene in 2 Samuel 2:13-16.

19. What kind of warfare were they engaging in (See 1 Samuel 17:8-9)?

20. How did their plan fail (2 Samuel 2:16)?

21. What happened as a result?

When I first read about this battle, I just figured Joab and Abner were terrible military strategists, two boys sitting by the pool trying to figure out how to play war. Too bad these boys didn’t live in the Westfall home because we have a 20-year-old boy who could teach them military strategy simply by playing the longest board game ever made, Risk. I suppose world domination never comes quickly! The more I studied this chapter, I realized Abner and Joab were trying to prevent a civil war by each choosing 12 men to fight on their behalf. The commanders realized a full-scale war would bring about tremendous losses to both sides. Their plan was genius, until it failed! Who would have guessed that 24 men would kill each other at the same time…what are the chances?

22. Who were David’s three nephews (v. 18)? How was Asahel described?

23. What did Asahel do in battle?

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24. What warning did Abner give Asahel (v. 21, 22)? Why would he do this?

25. What happened to Asahel?

26. Who took over Asahel’s pursuit?

27. Who rallied behind Abner? Where did they take their stand?

28. With a superior military vantage point and the men of Benjamin backing him, what did Abner ask Joab (v. 26)? How did Joab respond?

29. How many of David’s men died? How many Benjamites were killed?

30. What does verse 32 tell us about Joab’s leadership in David’s army?

31. How long did the civil war last? What happened as a result?

32. How do verses 2-5 offer us proof of the claim in verse 1?

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Your house and your kingdom will endure forever before me; your throne will be established forever. -2 Samuel 7:16

eek { 5 } - day one

1. How many sons did David have in Hebron? How many wives did he have?

2 Samuel 3 starts off letting us know time has passed… and unfortunately the time has passed with Israel at

war with herself. Saul’s house was steadily getting weaker, and David’s house was getting stronger. To prove

this point, the author makes a list of David’s wives and sons. Not only did David have 6 sons in the 7½ years he

spent in Hebron, he also acquired 4 additional wives, bringing his grand total, at this point in his life, to 6

women. That’s quite a collection! Can you imagine how complicated his family dynamic was? Talk about

dysfunction!

2. Read Deuteronomy 17:14-17. What laws did Moses give concerning a king?

3. How did David disobey this law? What warning did Moses give in Deuteronomy 17:17?

Having many wives in David’s culture was a symbol of power and status. God’s perfect design for marriage is

found in Genesis 2:24 (NAS)- “For this reason a man shall leave his father and his mother, and be joined to his

wife; and they shall become one flesh.” Although having many wives was tolerated in the Old Testament, the

Lord was very clear that a king should not have many wives (Deuteronomy 17:17). The Bible is not condoning

polygamy by not condemning David’s actions; it is simply recording the facts. As David’s life unfolds we will

see the devastating consequences of his going against God’s law, once again proving that we reap what we

sow!

4. What legacy are you leaving to the younger generation?

5. What does verse 6 tell us about Abner? How was Abner using Israel’s civil war to his advantage?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 3:6-21⸭

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6. Who was Rizpah? What did Ish-Bosheth accuse Abner of doing?

7. How did Abner respond?

8. It seems like the people in Saul’s family love to call down a curse. It’s the first thing they do when backed into a

corner. Abner is no different, what curse did he call out against Ish-Bosheth in verse 9?

9. How did Ish-Bosheth respond to Abner (v.11)?

10. Who was Adonijah (2 Samuel 3:4)?

11. What did Adonijah ask for in 1 Kings 2:13-24?

12. How did Solomon respond?

13. Why would this request cost Adonijah his life?

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Taking the concubine of a king was an act of treason. It was a sign of taking over his throne, a symbol of

superiority. Ish-Bosheth accuses Abner of a serious crime and for good reason. Abner has been strengthening

his own position in Ish-Bosheth’s kingdom. Abner vehemently denies any wrongdoing and promptly switches

sides, which makes me question his loyalty in the first place! We don’t know if Abner used Rizpah as a way to

usurp the throne or if he was falsely accused. Abner had become very powerful, and Ish-Bosheth might have

decided to implicate him in a crime he didn’t commit to get rid of him. After all, Ish-Bosheth was Saul’s son.

If he was anything like his father, he might have made a crazy decision when threatened!

14. Why do you think power corrupts people so easily?

15. What did Abner do after he left Ish-Bosheth (2 Samuel 3:12)? What does this tell us about Ish-Bosheth’s power?

16. What agreement does David make with Abner?

17. What happened to David’s first wife (1 Samuel 25:44)?

18. Looking at what Abner said in 2 Samuel 3:12, why would David want Michal back?

19. Of what does David remind Ish-Bosheth when he demands his wife back (v. 14)? Why does he do this?

20. How did Ish-Bosheth respond to David’s demand? What does this say about his leadership?

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21. How did Paltiel handle the situation?

I feel sorry for Paltiel. He got caught in the middle of a power play in which his wife was the pawn. Michal and

Paltiel had been married for years; they had set up a life together. No wonder Paltiel followed behind weeping

until he was commanded to go home. David demanded Michal be returned to him. Abner now backed David,

so Ish-Bosheth had to give David what was rightfully his. David had paid Saul double the bride price for

Michal, and now he needed her to strengthen his political position. Once they were reunited, David would no

longer be seen as an outsider. Israel would once again see David as Saul’s son-in-law, thereby giving him a

legitimate claim to the throne.

22. What did Abner say to the elders (2 Samuel 3:17)? What does this tell us about the political climate in Israel?

23. Why would Abner fight against David for so many years when he knew the Lord had chosen him to be king?

How is this reminiscent of Saul?

24. Why would Abner visit the tribe of Benjamin personally (See 2 Samuel 2:14, 15, 25)?

25. What did David do for Abner (2 Samuel 3:20)? What did Abner do for David?

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eek { 5 } - day two

1. What was Joab out doing for David? What does verse 22 tell you about the success of his mission?

2. Why do you think the author would repeat that Abner was sent away in peace (v. 22)?

3. Why did Joab want to discredit Abner (2 Samuel 2:18, 23)?

4. What did Joab do to Abner (2 Samuel 3:26-27)? Under whose authority was he acting?

5. What position did Abner hold in Israel’s army (2 Samuel 2:8)?

6. Why would Abner be a threat to Joab if Judah and Israel united (1 Chronicles 18:15)?

7. Why is Joab’s killing Abner different from Abner’s killing Asahel?

Joab murdered Abner. It wasn’t an act of war or a justified revenge; it was a cold, calculated crime. The author

of 2 Samuel very clearly tells us that David sent Abner away in peace. Joab knew this. That’s why he didn’t let

the king know what he was doing. Joab wanted revenge, and he didn’t want David to get in the way. Asahel’s

death was not a homicide; he was killed in battle, a casualty of war. Therefore, his death didn’t need to be

avenged. In fact, Abner actually tried to dissuade Asahel from following him, showing his true intent was to

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spare Asahel’s life. Joab reaches out to Abner in a time of peace, under false pretenses, and brings him back to

a city of refuge to take his revenge. Joab was a murderer and David knew it! David had to work very quickly so

that Joab’s crime didn’t cost him the throne.

8. How did David respond when he heard the news of Abner’s death (2 Samuel 3:28-29)?

9. What command did David give Joab and all the people with him? Why would David want Joab to participate in the

mourning rituals?

10. How did David demonstrate his innocence (2 Samuel 3:31-35)?

11. Why would David be concerned with the people knowing he was innocent (See 2 Samuel 3:21)?

12. How did the people respond to David’s actions (v. 36-37)?

13. What observation did David make in verse 39? In whose hands did he leave the situation?

14. Describe a time when a situation in your life felt bigger than you could handle, so you left it in the Lord’s hands. What

did you learn from doing this?

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15. What happened to Ish-Bosheth when he heard about Abner (v. 1)? Why would the news of Abner have this affect on

him?

16. Who were Baanah and Recab (v. 2)?

17. Why would the author of 2 Samuel interrupt his story to tell us about Mephibosheth?

18. What did Baanah and Recab do?

19. What did they do with Ish-Bosheth’s head? Why did they do this?

20. What did the brothers tell David in verse 8?

21. How have you seen people justify sin by claiming it was of the Lord?

Baanah and Recab obviously did not know much about David. They definitely had not heard what happened to

the last man who brought him a head. Social media would have been very helpful in this situation! By killing

Ish-Bosheth and bringing his head to the king, the brothers were trying to establish themselves in David’s

kingdom. They knew without Abner, Ish-Bosheth was useless. They decided to take advantage of the situation

and make a name for themselves, by delivering the kingdom into David’s hands.


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22. How did David respond to what they had done (v. 9-12)?

23. What did David do for Ish-Bosheth?

24. What do you learn from David’s refusal to take the throne by dishonest means?

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1. What three reasons do the tribes give for wanting David as their king (v. 1-2)?

2. What did David do when the elders came to Hebron?

3. Why did David need to enter into a covenant with the northern tribes?

4. How old was David when he was anointed king over all Israel? How long did he reign?

5. Skim 1 Chronicles 12:23-40. What interesting information does this passage give us about the men going to Hebron?

I love 1 Chronicles 12:38 (NIV) when it says the fighting men, “came to Hebron fully determined to make David

king over all Israel.” The NIV makes it sound like David had no choice in the decision to become king. We all

know you don’t mess with fighting men; they always seem to get what they want! But the phrase “fully

determined” in the original language means they came to David with a heart of peace. They were in perfect

unity, wanting to make David their king. The door had finally opened for David to take his rightful place on the

throne God had promised him so many years before. When God opens a door, no one can shut it! Isaiah 22:22

(NIV) says, “I will place on his shoulder the key to the house of David; what he opens no one can shut, and

what he shuts no one can open.” The enemy tried to counterfeit an open door many times, trying to get David

to reach out and snatch the kingdom for himself. But David waited and waited and waited…until finally

representatives from every tribe converged at Hebron to anoint him king!! What an awesome display of God’s

power and sovereignty. His timing is always perfect!

6. How does this encourage you today?

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7. Where did David and his men march? What was their purpose?

8. Read Genesis 10:1, 6, 15-16 and Numbers 13:26-29. Who were the Jebusites?

9. What did the Jebusites say to David (2 Samuel 5:6, 1 Chronicles 11:5)?

10. What deal does David make with his people? Who led the attack?

11. What military strategy did David use to defeat the Jebusites (2 Samuel 5:8)?

12. Where did David decide to live? Why would the newly appointed king leave Hebron?

13. Of what does verse 10 remind us?

14. Who was David’s first international supporter (v. 11)? What did he do for David?

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15. Why would he give this gift?

16. What did David know (v. 12)? What did David do (v. 13)?

David knew the Lord had given him his power and position. He knew that without the Lord he wouldn’t be

receiving a throne, much less a palace built by a foreign king. David understood that the Lord exalted his

kingdom for the sake of God’s people. In other words, the Lord’s plans were much bigger than David’s being

appointed king! As I read 2 Samuel 5:12, I was impressed with David and his ability to stay grounded in the

Lord no matter how much wealth and power were thrown his way. Then I read verse 13, and all my nice

thoughts vanished! David knew all his power was from the Lord, yet he used that wealth and power to acquire

more wives and concubines, directly disobeying God’s command. In life it always seems like we take two steps

forward and one step back. David is no different; he is every bit as human as we are. Although his sin might

look different than ours, we have our flesh in common. Our sin nature is always fighting for control, wanting us

to turn away from God. David struggled with sin, and his failures have taught me that I’m not alone. I’m not

trying to acquire more spouses like David did, but I find myself getting to know God in certain areas of my life,

while walking away from Him in other areas. I relate to the hymn Come Thou Fount when it says,

“Oh, to grace how great a debtor

Daily I'm constrained to be,

Let that grace now like a fetter

Bind my wandering heart to Thee:

Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it,

Prone to leave the God I love.

Here's my heart, oh, take and seal it,

Seal it for Thy courts above.”

17. How do you relate to David’s struggle?

18. What did the Philistines hear that made them nervous? What did they do?

19. How did David respond to the Philistine threat (v. 19)? What answer did David receive?


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20. To whom did David give credit for Israel’s victory? What did he say (v. 20)?

21. What did David and his men do in verse 21?

22. Read 1 Chronicles 14:11-12 and Deuteronomy 7:5. How were David and his men obeying God’s law?

23. What did the Lord tell David to do (2 Samuel 5:23, 24)? What does verse 25 tells us David did?

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1. How many men did David bring together? What was their purpose?

2. Read 1 Chronicles 13:1-4. What additional information are you given?

3. What does 2 Samuel 6:2 tell us about the ark of God?

4. Where did David and his men put the ark (v. 3)?

5. Read 1 Samuel 6:1, 2, 7. Whose example was David following?

6. Read Exodus 25:12-14 & Numbers 4:15. How did the Philistine method of transporting the ark differ from God’s law?

7. Where did David go to get the ark (2 Samuel 6:3)?

8. Read 1 Samuel 6:21-7:1, 2. When did the ark come to Abinadab’s house?

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9. Who was guiding the cart with the ark?

10. What were David and his men doing?

11. What happened to Uzzah? Why did this happen?

12. How did David respond? Why do you think he responded this way?

13. What did David’s anger turn into (v. 9)?

14. What decision did David make in verse 10?

One of the very first things on David’s to-do list as king was to bring back the Ark of the Covenant. The

Philistines, in 1 Samuel 4, captured the ark years before David became king. They returned the ark to the Jews

not long after its capture because of God’s judgment on them. David wanted to bring the ark back to the

newly acquired capital city of Jerusalem as a way to further unite his kingdom. The ark was a symbol of God’s

throne, where He would meet with His people. Exodus 25:22 says, “I will meet with you there and talk to you

from above the atonement cover between the gold cherubim that hover over the Ark of the Covenant.” David

wanted to bring honor to the Lord by retrieving the ark from the house of Abinadab. But, instead of obeying

God, David copied how the Philistines had moved it in the past. God wanted the kings of Israel to know His law

so they would understand what He expected of them. God was so serious about the kings of Israel knowing

His statues that in Deuteronomy 17:18-19 (ESV) it says, “And when he sits on the throne of his kingdom, he shall

write for himself in a book a copy of this law, approved by the Levitical priests. And it shall be with him, and he

shall read in it all the days of his life, that he may learn to fear the Lord his God by keeping all the words of this

law and these statutes, and doing them.” David most likely had hand written God’s law when he became king

⸭ Back to 2 Samuel 6:1-11, as well as 1 Chronicles 3:8-10 ⸭

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over Judah. If that were the case, David would have known how God wanted his Tabernacle and everything in

it to be transported. 1 Chronicles 13:1 tells us a very important detail in this story. It says, “David consulted with

the commanders of thousands and of hundreds, with every leader.” It seems David talked with everyone about

getting the ark of the Lord back to Jerusalem, except the Lord! This is ironic, because David’s desire for the ark

showed he had a desire for the presence of God, yet he doesn’t consult Him. This should be a warning to us.

Knowing the word of God does not take the place of coming into the presence of the Lord and asking for His

direction. It’s important that we take the time to bow before the throne of God. Knowledge of the Word

cannot take the place of humbling ourselves in prayer. Both are vital to our spiritual lives.

15. Why is it important for us to not only know God’s word, but to seek His presence as well?

16. How long was the ark with Obed-Edom? What happened as a result?

17. Read 2 Samuel 6:12-23. What was David told? What did he do when he heard this information?

18. What did David do after his house was built?

19. What did David realize after Uzzah died (v.2)?

20. What did David do differently the second time he went to get the ark (See Exodus 25:14)?

21. What did David do when the Levites had taken six steps with the ark?

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22. What was David wearing (see also 1 Chronicles 15:27)?

23. What was David doing as they brought the ark into the City of David? What did Michal do?

24. What was the first thing David did when the ark was placed in the tent (v. 17, 1 Chronicles 16:1)?

25. Read 1 Chronicles 16:2-3 & 2 Samuel 6:18-19. What did David do after he finished sacrificing?

26. What was David going home to do (2 Samuel 6:20)? Why was Michal upset?

27. How did David respond to Michal?

28. What does 2 Samuel 6:23 tell us about Michal?

David had his eyes on the Lord, and Michal had her eyes on the people. She cared more about her image than

her heart. Michal didn’t want her husband making a fool of himself in front of everyone. In 2 Samuel 6:16, it

says Michal, “looked out of the window and saw King David leaping and dancing before the LORD, and she

despised him in her heart.” In the original language this means Michal thought her husband was worthless,

that he was vile, she regarded him with contempt. Seeking the approval of people over the approval of God

tarnished Michal’s heart so much that she began to see God’s chosen instrument as a worthless and vile man.

29. Has seeking man’s approval ever made you cynical about the things of God?

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1. What does verse one tell you about the stage of life David was in?

2. What did David notice during this period of rest?

3. How has a period of rest given you a new perspective on life?

4. Do you tend to seek the Lord during seasons of rest? Explain.

5. From whom did David seek counsel in verse 3? How did he respond?

6. What does this tell you about David and Nathan’s relationship?

7. When did the word of the Lord come to Nathan?

8. What did God say to Nathan in verse 5 (see also 1 Chronicles 17:4)?

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9. Read 1 Kings 5:3. What insight does this verse give about why David wasn’t chosen to build the temple?

10. Read 1 Kings 8:18, 19. Was David’s desire wrong?

11. Of what does the Lord remind David about His dwelling (2 Samuel 7:6-7)?

12. Why would this be important for David to remember?

13. Describe a time when you needed to be reminded that God’s priorities take precedence over your desires. Why is this always a difficult reminder?

14. What was God’s purpose for David, according to verse 8? Why would God choose to tell David this, after telling him about the temple?

15. What did God do for David, according to verse 9?

16. Reflect on what you have studied about David up to this point. Make a list of the times you have noticed God’s faithfulness to David.

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When God says “no” to one of our dreams, it’s hard to hear., especially when our dream is to bring glory and honor to the Lord. David had purpose. He had a tailor made plan from the creator of the universe; it just didn’t involve building a house for God. David was a gifted warrior, and God wanted him to focus on subduing his enemies. God not only wanted David to protect the land, He wanted David to shepherd His people. With everything on David’s plate, he wouldn’t have time to build anything! When God says “no” to one of our dreams, we need to remember that He isn’t being cruel. Rather, He is all knowing and knows exactly what we were created to do and how much we can handle. Trust the Lord when he says no, He has your best interest in mind!

17. Describe a time when God said no to one of your plans. How did you respond?

18. What promises did God make to David in 2 Samuel 7:9-16?

19. What did Nathan do in verse 17?

Nathan reported God’s word to David right away. It didn’t matter to him that he had given the king false information to begin with. As soon as he heard the truth of God, he wanted to make things right. He was obviously a man who was humble enough to admit he had been wrong, even if it was to a king.

20. What does this tell you about Nathan’s character?

21. What did David do in verse 18?

David was overwhelmed by all that God had said to him, and the only appropriate response was to seek the presence of the Lord. David sat before his God and offered him a prayer of gratitude. I love that David offered God gratitude after God said “no” to one of his dreams. This is a beautiful example of submitting to God’s will, even when it’s not our desire. I personally find this to be one of the hardest parts of Christianity: sacrificing what I want, to take hold of what God gives. May we all learn to trust God and follow His will over our own!

22. How does David’s example challenge you?


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23. What are the names David calls God in his prayer?

24. What questions did David ask in verse 18? Why would he ask these two questions?

25. How does David refer to himself (v.19-21)? Why is this significant?

26. Why does God bestow greatness on David according to verse 21?

The Lord didn’t bless David because of David’s virtue. He blessed David for His own sake. It was because of God’s will, God’s heart, and God’s word that David was given greatness, and David recognizes that in verses 21 and 22.

27. Why is it so easy to fall into the trap of believing God’s blessing only comes because of our own virtue?

28. How did David respond to God’s prophecies in 2 Samuel 7:22?

29. What is unique about Israel (v. 23-24)?

30. Write your own prayer of gratitude. List the ways God has been faithful to His promises in your life.

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Then David said to Nathan, "I have sinned against the LORD." And Nathan said to David, "The LORD also has taken away your sin; you shall not die. -2 Samuel 12:13

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1. What happened in the course of time according to verse 1?

2. Describe a time when you had to battle for the Lord’s will in your life.

3. Who did David defeat in verse 2? What did he do to them?

In my modern mind, I was surprised David would kill two-thirds of the Moabites for a couple of reasons. First, David’s great-grandmother, Ruth, was a Moabitess. Second, 1 Samuel 22:3-4 tells us, “And David went from there to Mizpeh of Moab. And he said to the king of Moab, ‘Please let my father and my mother stay with you, till I know what God will do for me.’ And he left them with the king of Moab, and they stayed with him all the time that David was in the stronghold.” When David was in exile, running from Saul, he turned to the king of Moab to keep his father and mother safe. With this kind of history, it seems like you wouldn’t want to put two-thirds of the Moabites to death. But as I studied, I realized in biblical times David’s saving a remnant was showing compassion. The king of Moab most likely helped David when he was in exile because he was an enemy of Israel. Now that David was Israel’s king he went from friend to foe status very quickly! By not destroying all of the Moabites, David was honoring them for helping him in the past.

4. What does 1 Samuel 14:47 tell us about the people David defeated in 2 Samuel 8?

5. What did the people bring David when they became subject to him (2 Samuel 8:2,6)?

God promised David in 2 Samuel 7:11 that He would give Israel a time of rest. Just because God promised Israel

rest did not mean David didn’t have to battle for it. Many times we get the wrong impression that if God wills

or wants something for us it will just fall into our laps. Most of the time, God’s will and desire for us takes a lot

of blood, sweat and tears. David didn’t sit around waiting for God’s promise to just show up on his doorstep,

he went out a battled for it.

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6. What did David gain by defeating all of these people (vs. 1, 2, 4, 6, 7, 8 & 10)?

7. How many people did David strike down (vs. 2, 5, 13)?

8. What did David do with all of the plunder (vs. 11-12)?

9. What did Solomon do with David’s plunder, once he was king (1 Chronicles 18:8, NLT)?

10. Why would King Toi of Hamath want to appease David (2 Samuel 8:9)?

11. What did the battle in the Valley of Salt do for David?

12. What does the author remind us about David’s victories (vs. 6, 14)?

David expanded the boarders of Israel on all sides and the author reminds us that it was the Lord who gave him victory. During Saul’s reign Israel had lost territory and David wanted it back. By conquering these territories, David is obeying God’s command to take over the Promise Land.

13. What do verses 15-18 tell us about David’s leadership?

14. What positions of leadership did David give his people?

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15. Why would it be important for David to set up a system of government?

16. What question did David ask?

17. Who was Ziba? Why was he called to appear before David?

18. How did David’s question change from verse 1 to verse 3?

19. How did Ziba answer David’s question? How did he describe Mephibosheth?

20. How did Mephibosheth greet David (v. 6)?

21. What is the first thing David said to Mephibosheth in verse 7? Why would he start off this way?

22. What did David say he would do for Mephibosheth?

23. How did Mephibosheth respond?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 9⸭

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24. How do the following verses use the same language as Mephibosheth did in verse 8?

⸭1 Samuel 17:41-44

⸭1 Samuel 18:18

⸭1 Samuel 24:14-16

⸭2 Samuel 7:18

25. Why would they use these expressions of self-abasement?

26. What did David say to Ziba in 2 Samuel 9:9-10?

27. How many sons and servants did Ziba have? What conclusion can you draw from this?

28. What privilege was Mephibosheth given (v. 11)?

29. Read 1 Samuel 20:14-16, 42. Why was David showing such kindness to Mephibosheth?

This is one of my favorite stories, so I decided to save Mephibosheth for my lecture. But, I want you to know

that it’s killing me not to write about him! Stay tuned; it’s going to be a good one.

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1. Who died in verse one? Who succeeded him?

2. What did David do for Hanun? Why did he do this?

3. Read 1 Samuel 11:1-2, 11. Who was Nahash’s enemy? What would be the most likely reason Nahash would have shown kindness to David?

4. Why did the nobles think David sent his men (2 Samuel 10:3)?

5. What did Hanun do to David’s men?

6. Read Isaiah 20:4 and Leviticus 19:27. Why would Hanun do this?

We don’t know if Hanun was just a brand new king operating under bad advice or if he was trying to provoke Israel, to get out of a treaty his father had with David. By cutting the men’s garments and shaving their beards, the king was not only disrespecting them as a people, he was disrespecting the Torah as well. The Ammonite king would learn the hard way that David never took an act against his God lightly!

7. Describe a time when immaturity in a leadership position got you into trouble. What did you learn from this?

8. How did David show compassion to his men (2 Samuel 10:5)?

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9. What did the Ammonites realize in verse 6? What did they do?

10. Read 1 Chronicles 19:6. How much money did this mercenary army cost Hanun?

11. How did David respond to the Ammonites’ building up their army?

I love that David took the time to minister to his men before going after the Ammonites. He was a true shepherd to God’s people. He took care of the needs of the hurt and humiliated, before he went and dealt with the cause. I can just imagine the sheer terror on Hanun’s face when he realized what he had done. He knew there was no way he could defeat Israel on his own. He also realized that his impulsive actions were, in a sense, a declaration of war. Hanun decided the only way he could weather this storm was to enlist the help of other armies. Hiring mercenary armies to defeat a stronger enemy was a common practice of that day, but it didn’t come cheap. Hanun would have to throw down about 37 tons of silver to build up his army!

12. Describe the Ammonites military strategy (2 Samuel 10:8-9).

13. What did Joab realize in verse 9?

14. Describe Joab’s battle strategy.

15. Where did Joab put his best troops?

16. What does this tell you about the Arameans (Some Bible versions say Syrians)?

17. How does Joab encourage his troops in verse 12?

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18. Why would they need to be encouraged in this particular battle?

Joab got to the battle line and was surprised to find an army in front of him and an army behind him. Joab put his thinking cap on and quickly came up with a plan. He decided to take some of his best men to fight the strongest army and left the rest to take on the weaker army. Joab knew it was risky, but it was the only way to handle the situation. Desperate times call for amazing pep talks, and Joab’s talk was inspiring. He talked of bravery and courage. He reminded his men what they were fighting for and who was ultimately in control.

19. Why is it important to remember these things when we face difficult situations?

20. What did the Arameans/Syrians realize in verse 15? What did they do as a result?

21. Read 2 Samuel 8:3-6. Who was Hadadezer? What were the Arameans most likely fighting for?

22. Where did the Arameans go in 2 Samuel 10:16? Who was the commander of their army?

23. Who did David gather? Where did they go?

24. What happened to the Arameans in verses 18 & 19?

This chapter shows David as a great military leader and shepherd to his people. It’s a good chapter to keep in mind, because, unfortunately, this is one of the last times we will see David unmarred by the consequences of sin. I like remembering David as being strong and brave, caring for his people, and dominating the battlefield. It’s the stuff heroes are made of. However, the Bible always paints an accurate picture of humanity, and, sadly, even the heroes of faith struggled with sin.

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1. What time of year does this story take place? What happened at this time of year?

2. Who did David send into battle? Where did they go?

3. Where did David go?

Rabbah is the capital city of the Ammonites. David sent his men to this city a year before to offer his condolences to Hanun when his father Nahash died. The whole situation ended up with the Ammonite army fleeing before Israel in battle. 2 Samuel 10:14 tells us the Ammonites fled into their city and Joab went back to Jerusalem. In 2 Samuel 10:15-19 it tells us how David fought the Arameans, but he leaves the Ammonites alone… until now! David sends Joab, the king’s men, and the whole army to conquer the Ammonite city. He hadn’t forgotten how they had humiliated his men. David sends all his men into battle, but the text says he stayed in Jerusalem. It wasn’t an uncommon practice for David to not accompany Joab into battle. Many times he would send out his whole army and then come for the last part of the battle, like we see in 2 Samuel 10. The problem wasn’t that David stayed home. The problem was that he isolated himself with absolute power and no accountability. That’s never a good combination!

4. Describe how the progression of David’s thoughts led to his sin (See James 1:13-15).

5. When faced with temptation, why is it important to remember 1 Corinthians 10:13?

6. What did Bathsheba tell David in verse 5?

7. Read Leviticus 20:10 & Deuteronomy 22:22. According to God’s law, what was the punishment for adultery?

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8. What was David’s immediate response to Bathsheba’s news?

9. What did David command Uriah to do in verse 8?

10. What did David ask Uriah the next day?

11. How did Uriah respond? What does this tell you about his character?

12. Read 1 Samuel 21:4-5. What had David’s soldiers been taught?

I find it ironic that Uriah, a foreigner and a foot soldier, is telling the King of Israel he wouldn’t partake in the comforts of home while his brothers and the Ark of God were out on the battlefield. But David, the King, had no problem partaking in the comforts of home while his men were at war. In fact, David was so comfortable being home he decided to partake of Uriah’s home as well. David’s sin had so clouded his mind that he had forgotten an honorable solider would never go along with his plan. David had taught his men they weren’t allowed to be with women while they were on a campaign; they were to keep themselves clean. I’m sure Uriah was surprised David even asked him to go home. David’s first plan to get Uriah home to sleep with his wife had failed, so he had to come up with another plan.

13. What was David’s next plan in verses 12 & 13? What was the result?

14. What was David’s final plan? What was the result?

15. What was Joab’s concern (vs. 20-21)? How was the messenger instructed to deal with this concern?

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16. What did the messenger say to David?

17. How did David respond? How was his response different from how Joab thought he would respond?

This doesn’t even sound like the David we know. Sin changes us. It makes us say and do crazy things. David has always been sincere, with a heart of compassion, and now he is acting like the lives of his men are no big deal. David’s actions not only took the life of Uriah, but they took the lives of some of his other men as well. All David could think to say was, “Don’t let this upset you; the sword devours one as well as another.” When did David start treating life with such a calloused heart? This is the same guy who would not even think of taking the life of the Lord’s anointed. Sin is so destructive, it is like a deadly infection that eats away at the good and godly parts of our hearts, until at last we don’t even resemble the person we once were. David is grasping at straws, trying to cover-up the infection that is slowly destroying him.

18. What did Bathsheba do when she heard the news about her husband (v. 26)?

19. What did David do after Bathsheba mourned?

20. What did God think about David’s actions?

21. Do you have people that can freely speak into your life? How do you respond to them when they when they confront you?

22. Why should accountability be a crucial part of our lives?

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1. Who sent Nathan to David? How does Nathan start his confrontation?

2. How were the two men in Nathan’s story different?

3. Describe what the poor man’s ewe lamb meant to him?

4. What similarities do you see in the rich man and David?

5. What did the rich man do when the traveler came?

6. Why might Nathan start his confrontation with a story?

7. How did David react to Nathan’s story?

8. Read Exodus 22:1. How does David show agreement with God’s law?

David was so engrossed in Nathan’s story that he failed to see any similarities between himself and the rich man. The fact that they were both shepherds, both rich, and both had recently stolen something was completely lost on David. He simply thought the prophet was coming to him so he could help render a

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judgment. David most likely assumed he had gotten away with his sin due to the fact that it had been anywhere from 9-12 months since it happened. I find it interesting that David thought he had gotten away with his sin, yet he was quick to administer justice to others. David’s knee-jerk reaction was to state that the rich man deserved death. However, according to the Torah, killing livestock wasn’t a capital offense. David most likely realizes he has exaggerated the punishment and decides to agree with the law instead. The rich man should pay for the lamb four times over.

9. What was the punishment for David’s sin of adultery and murder (Leviticus 20:10 and Leviticus 24:17)?

10. Why would David overreact to Nathan’s story?

11. How is David’s judgment on the rich man an example of Matthew 7:4-5?

12. What did Nathan reveal to David in verse 7?

13. What had the Lord done for David? Why would he remind him of this?

14. What did God tell David at the end of verse 8?

15. What question did God ask David?

16. Who is directly responsible for Uriah’s death, even though he was killed in battle?

17. What punishment was David given in verses 10 & 11?

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18. What was David’s response to hearing his punishment?

19. How does David’s confession differ from Saul’s in 1 Samuel 15:13-16, 20-21, 24-26, 30?

20. What did Nathan tell David in 2 Samuel 12:13-14?

21. Why would God accept David’s confession and reject Saul’s (See 2 Samuel 7:15-16)?

David is a man of justice. He understands God’s law, and he knows what he deserves. After hearing God’s word from Nathan and learning of the consequences of his decisions, David never tries to makes excuses for his behavior. He never once downplays his actions. He simply cries out, “I have sinned against the Lord!” With six words, David’s heart is broken, and his sins are forgiven. When God looked at David, He remembered the covenant He made with Israel’s king in Chapter 7. Because of this covenant God does not require David’s death.

22. How is this similar to the covenant God made with us?

23. What happened when Nathan left David (2 Samuel 12:15)?

24. How did David respond to his son’s illness?

25. How long was the child sick? What were the servants afraid to tell David? Why were they afraid?

26. What’s the first thing David did when he heard of his son’s death? Where did David go? Why is this significant?

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27. What did David do after he worshipped the Lord?

When David washed himself and put on new clothes, it was a sign of a new beginning. God’s grace had cleansed him, and he could now go humbly into the house of the Lord to worship. I love that David went to the house of the Lord before he broke his 7 day fast. David had learned, that even though hunger raged inside of him, he needed to take care of his spiritual life before his physical appetite.

28. How would your life change if you followed David’s example of confession?

29. Why did David’s behavior surprise his servants (2 Samuel 12:21)?

30. How did David respond to his servants?

31. How have you been a light for God in an extremely dark situation?

32. What was Bathsheba called in verse 15? Who was she married to at this time?

33. What was Bathsheba called in verse 24? What had changed?

34. What did David do for Bathsheba (v. 24)? What does this tell you about David’s heart?

35. What do verses 24 & 25 say about David and Bathsheba’s son?

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⸭ Read Psalm 51 two to three times using a different version of the Bible each time. ⸭


1. When did David write this Psalm?

2. What does David ask God to do for him in verse 1? Which attributes of God does David appeal to in verse 1?

3. What are the three things David wants God to take away according to verses 1 & 2?

4. Define these three words.

David used three closely related words to show he wasn’t holding anything back. He was truly repentant and wanted complete restoration. Although transgression, iniquity and sin have almost the same definition in English, these words are quite different in the original language. In Hebrew, transgression has a connotation of rebellion, where as iniquity has to do with perversity or depravity. Sin means to miss the mark; it is a condition of guilt before God. David wanted to be laid bare before the Lord. He didn’t want anything to be covered-up. So he confesses that he has never lived up to God’s holy standard. His confession gets even more specific as he admits to his rebellion, perversity, and depravity. When we confess to the Lord, it’s important for us to be specific about our sin. It’s a way for us to understand what we have done and how we have missed the mark of God’s standard. Recognizing our sin also helps us to realize what God has done for us. Jesus died on a cross for each individual transgression so that we could be forgiven and covered by His amazing grace. It’s too easy for us to miss God’s grace when we pray the blanket prayer of, “Lord, forgive me of my sin.”

5. How has specific confession helped you to see God’s grace?

6. Who was David’s sin against?

David sinned against Bathsheba, Uriah and his kingdom, but, ultimately, his sin was against the Lord. David’s sin broke God’s law so he needed to seek restoration from the Lawmaker.

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7. Why is it important to first seek forgiveness from the Lord?

8. What does God desire (v. 6)?

9. What did David desire (vs. 7-8)?

10. What did David ask God to do in verses 10-12?

11. Why would David be concerned about this (See 1 Samuel 16:1, 14)?

12. What had God promised David in 2 Samuel 7:15?

13. Of what did sin rob David (Psalm 51:8, 12)?

David longs for a right relationship with God. He is a man after God’s own heart and desires to once again have the joy of the Lord in his life. Sin had been exciting at first, but now David sees how it had completely ravaged his life.

14. Why was David feeling blessed?

15. How did David describe his life when he kept silent about his sin?

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16. What did David do in verse 5? How did the Lord respond?

We aren’t told when David wrote this psalm or the circumstances that caused him to write it. But Psalm 32 is a clear picture of the peace and healing that comes with confession and forgiveness. David felt the freedom that comes when God takes away sin, but he also felt the utter destruction that un-confessed sin causes in the life of a believer.

17. What does David say he will do for God (Psalm 51:13-15)?

18. What are the true sacrifices of God (v. 17)? Why would this be a sacrifice?

19. What was Joab doing while all of this was taking place?

20. What does Joab say to David? How does David respond?

21. What did David take from the Ammonite king? What did he do with the Ammonites that were left?

David meets up with his men and goes to battle the Ammonites. Even though David had just been through one of the hardest years of his life, God does an amazing thing and grants this recently humbled king victory. I, for one, am glad the Lord gives us victory and ministry after seasons of sin. David was going to have to deal with the consequences of his sin for years to come, but the Lord still had plan and purpose for him!

22. How does this encourage you?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 12:26-31 ⸭

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Like water spilled on the ground, which cannot be recovered, so we must die. But that is not what God desires; rather, he devises ways so that a banished person does not remain banished from him. -2 Samuel 14:14

eek { 7 } - day one

1. What feelings did Amnon have for Tamar? How is Tamar described?

2. Read 2 Samuel 3:2-3. Who was Amnon’s mother? What position did Amnon hold in David’s family? Who was Absalom and Tamar’s mother?

3. Read 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. How is God’s description of love different from the love Amnon had for Tamar?

4. What kind of “love” can we assume Amnon had for Tamar (v. 2)?

5. Who was Jonadab? How does 2 Samuel 13:3 describe him?

6. What did Jonadab notice about Amnon?

7. What advice does Jonadab give Amnon (v. 5)?

The story of Amnon, Tamar, and Absalom is hard to read. David’s family is torn apart by the consequences of his own sin. David’s sons are responsible for their own sinful behavior, but the choices they made are eerily similar to their father’s choices in the past. A lack of self-control, adultery, deception, and murder are the example David set for his children. No wonder they fell into the same pattern of sin. Seeing our sin in our children is a difficult reminder that more is caught than taught!

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8. Read the following verses. What kind of wisdom is described?

⸭Jeremiah 4:22

⸭James 3:15

⸭1 Corinthians 2:6

9. How do these verses describe Jonadab?

10. What did David do in verses 6-7?

11. Describe what Tamar did for Amnon.

12. When does Tamar become aware of Amnon’s motives?

13. What does she say to him (v. 12)?

14. What questions does Tamar ask Amnon? Why do you think she asks these questions?

15. What solution does Tamar suggest in verse 13?

16. Read Leviticus 18:9, 11; Leviticus 20:17; Deuteronomy 27:22. Why would Tamar suggest this plan?

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17. How did Amnon respond to Tamar’s plea (v. 14)?

18. How did Amnon’s sin impact his emotional state (v. 15)? What does he do as a result?

My heart breaks for Tamar. She was used, abused, and thrown away by a man who was blinded by his own selfish desires. As the heir apparent, Amnon was used to getting what he wanted; yet he fixated on the one thing he couldn’t have. 2 Samuel 13:2 (ESV) says, “And Amnon was so tormented that he made himself ill because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed impossible to Amnon to do anything to her.” Amnon didn’t love Tamar he lusted for her. What he felt was pure and simple human depravity. Amnon let his self-indulgence get so out of control that he actually became physically ill when he could not act on his passions. He didn’t care about Tamar as a person; she was only an object of lust to him. Sounds a lot like his father when he spotted Bathsheba. Amnon didn’t have access to Tamar, who as a virgin, would have been kept in seclusion with her mother. Jonadab came up with a plan that would allow Amnon to spend time with his sister. Amnon took his cousin’s plan to a place I don’t believe Jonadab intended it to go.

19. Read Romans 12:2. Why is controlling our thoughts an important spiritual discipline?

20. What did Tamar remind Amnon in 2 Samuel 13:16? How did he respond?

21. What was Tamar wearing? What did she do when she left Amnon’s house?

22. What did Tamar’s actions tell Absalom? What advice did he give her?

23. What happened to Tamar (v. 20)?

Absalom recognizes Tamar’s torn clothes and ashes on her head as a sign of her mourning her virginity being violated. Tamar went to Absalom in her time of crises because, in their polygamous culture, it was the responsibility of the full brother to protect his full sister. Absalom tries to minimize Tamar’s reaction because he doesn’t want the situation to become more public than it already was. His plan was to keep calm and come up with a plan…again this sounds a lot like his father dealing with Uriah. Absalom was more interested in

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coming up with a plan of revenge than he was in allowing his sister to mourn. I take comfort in knowing God cared deeply for Tamar. God did not try and shush her so people wouldn’t hear her. Unlike her brother, God didn’t minimize her pain; instead He stood by, comforted her and allowed her to cry. Tamar would have first hand knowledge of the truths her father wrote about in Psalms. “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit” (Psalm 34:18, NIV). And, “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book” (Psalm 56:8, ESV). I’m grateful we serve a God that cares about our pain and sees our rejection. But we must remember, God not only see us and cares about us, He has the power to save and restore us as well!

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⸭ Read 2 Samuel 13:21-39 ⸭

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1. How did David respond to what had happened to Tamar (v. 21)? What was his response lacking?

2. What does verse 22 tell us about Absalom? How much time passed before Absalom enacted his plan (v. 23)?

3. Why would Absalom choose sheep shearing season to execute his plan (cf. 1 Samuel 25:4, 8)?

4. How did David respond to Absalom’s invitation (2 Samuel 13:25)?

5. What did Absalom ask for in verse 26? How did David respond?

6. Why would Amnon be sent as David’s representative (2 Samuel 2:2)? Why do you think David was reluctant to send Amnon?

7. Describe Absalom’s plan. What did he tell his men? Why would he need to give them a pep talk?

8. What report was David given at first (v. 30)? How did he respond?

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9. What did Jonadab happen to know in verse 32?

10. Why do you think Jonadab knew of Absalom’s anger and David did not?

11. Where did Absalom go?

12. What do verses 37-39 tell us about David?

13. What did Joab know about David?

14. What plan does Joab come up with?

15. What story does the woman tell David?

It seems David loves a good story. And Joab, like Nathan, used this love to show the king some inconsistencies in his life. David seems to be better at hearing stories than he is at applying them. Joab went out and found a good storyteller. 2 Samuel 14:2 tells us he found a wise woman in Tekoa. The word wise in the original language means skillful, artful, and cunning. This woman wasn’t necessarily wise; she was a skilled actress, exactly what Joab needed to persuade the king to bring back Absalom.

16. According to verse 7, what did the whole clan want? What effect would this have on the widow?


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17. Read Numbers 27:11. What was the widow implying in 2 Samuel 14:7?


19. Why would the actress want David to make an oath to the Lord in verse 11?

20. What questions did the woman ask David in verse 13?

The actress wanted David to be bound to his judgments, even after he found out her story was fabricated. It’s only after she receives David’s promise in verse 11, "As surely as the LORD lives," he said, "not one hair of your son's head will fall to the ground", that the woman speaks to the king about his son Absalom.

21. What message of hope are we given in verse 14?

22. How do you react to people who sin against you? How does verse 14 challenge you?

23. What was the widow asking David for in verses 15 & 16?

24. What did the widow praise David for in verse 17?

25. What did David finally figure out (v. 19)?

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26. Why would the woman pour out so many compliments on the king? What did she say about Joab?

27. What did David tell Joab? How did Joab respond?

28. What restrictions was Absalom given when he returned to Jerusalem (v. 24)?

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⸭ Read 2 Samuel 14:25-33 ⸭


1. What does verse 25 tell us about Absalom’s popularity?

2. How do verses 25 & 26 describe Absalom?

This sounds a lot like our culture today. We love to idolize anything beautiful. If you happen to be beautiful and have great hair, you will be the envy of everyone around you! Beauty set Absalom apart; he didn’t have one physical flaw from the top of his head to the sole of his foot. He must have been a sight to behold! Because of Absalom’s appearance, Israel praised him and he became wildly popular. Too bad Israel wasn’t interested in Absalom’s heart because it told a different story about the kind of man he was. Our culture, like Israel, is quick to give our allegiance to anyone we find outwardly interesting, without giving a second thought to their inner character.

3. Why is this way of thinking dangerous?

4. How did Absalom honor his sister (v. 27)?

5. How long did Absalom live in Jerusalem before he became restless?

6. How many times did Absalom reach out to Joab? How did Joab respond?

7. How did Absalom finally get Joab’s attention?

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8. What did Absalom tell Joab in verse 32?

Absalom has been under house arrest for 2 years and there isn’t an end in sight. His exile is over, but he has not been completely pardoned for the sins he committed against his brother. This meant Absalom’s claim to the throne of Israel was in jeopardy. He wasn’t going to sit around and wait for Joab to bring about reconciliation any longer. Absalom forces the issue by asking for his day in court. He either wants to be completely pardoned or charged with a crime, but he is done waiting.

9. Is Absalom’s behavior an example of true repentance? Why or why not?

10. How would 2 Samuel 14:25 give Absalom the boldness he needed to force his father’s hand?

11. What does Joab tell David? How does he respond?

12. What did Absalom provide for himself?

13. Where did Absalom position himself every morning? Why would he choose this position?

14. How did he intercept people going to see the king?

15. What did Absalom tell the people before he even heard if they had a legitimate case (v. 3)?


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16. What did Absalom claim he would give the people (v. 4)?

17. Why would Absalom make justice his cause?

18. How did Absalom respond to anyone who approached him?

19. What happened as a result of Absalom’s actions (v. 6)?

20. How many years did this go on?

Absalom’s bitterness toward his father grew during their years apart. He became a cunning, shrewd man with a bitter heart, and as a result decided to capitalize on his father’s weakness. David had always been a man who judged the people of Israel fairly, but as the leader of his family, he struggled to stand up for justice. For two long years, Absalom waited for David to punish Amnon for the acts he committed against Tamar. Absalom wanted justice and when it didn’t come, he took matters into his own hands by killing his brother. Absalom believed he and Tamar were victims of injustice, so he decided to go out and convince all of Israel that without him as their leader they would suffer the same fate.

21. Has bitterness ever caused you to feel justified for your sinful behavior? Explain.

22. Where did Absalom ask to go? Why is this significant (See 2 Samuel 2:1, 4; 5:3; 3:2-3)?

23. What did Absalom send to the tribes of Israel (2 Samuel 15:10)?

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24. Who accompanied Absalom to Hebron? What information are we given about this group?

25. Who did Absalom send for (v. 12)?

26. Read 2 Samuel 11:3 & 23:34. Who was Ahithophel? Why might he support Absalom?

27. What did a messenger tell David (2 Samuel 15:13)?


29. Where did David live? What do we know about this city (2 Samuel 5:6, 9-10)?

30. Jerusalem was known for being an impenetrable fortress and since David moved in he had made it even stronger. Why would David flee when he had the battle advantage?

31. Who did David leave to take care of the palace (v. 16)?

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⸭ Read 2 Samuel 15:17-37 ⸭


1. How long had Ittai been with David (vs. 19-20)? What option did David give him?

2. How did Ittai respond to the king?

3. What does verse 23 tell us about David’s support?

4. What instructions did David give to Zadok (vs. 25-28)?

By taking the Ark of the Covenant, David was in essence taking the presence of God away from the Israelites. He realized it was important for the Ark to stay in Jerusalem, whether or not he was king. In the midst of turmoil and pain, we see David’s amazing love for God’s people. He wanted what was best for the kingdom and was willing to give up the thing that was most precious to him. David knew the throne of Israel didn’t belong to him; therefore it wasn’t his to try and keep. God is the one who replaces kings and sets up other kings (Daniel 2:21). He would bring David back to Jerusalem to see the ark once again if that was His plan.

5. Describe a time when you had to let go of something you desired for the good of God’s kingdom.

6. Where did David go in verse 30? Describe his emotional state.

7. What was David told in verse 31?

8. What did David pray for?

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9. Read David’s words in Psalm 41:9 & Psalm 55:12-14. How might these words apply to Ahithophel?

10. How was Hushai the beginning of God’s answer to David’s prayer in verse 31?

11. When did Hushai arrive at Jerusalem?

12. Who was waiting for David?

13. What did he bring to David?

14. How did David respond to Ziba’s gift (v. 2)? Why would he respond this way (See 2 Samuel 9:2)?

15. How did Ziba answer David?

16. What was David more interested in knowing (v. 3)?

17. According to Ziba, where was Mephibosheth? Why did he stay?


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18. What impulsive decision did David make (v. 4)?

19. What belonged to Mephibosheth (2 Samuel 9:7, 9-10)?

20. How did Ziba respond (v. 4)?

David was hesitant to receive Ziba’s gifts because he had been a loyal servant of Saul. The king seems to be questioning the servant’s loyalty, but Ziba’s answer quickly wins him over. David decides to turn his attention to Mephibosheth; he wants to know why a servant would leave his master? Ziba, a skilled opportunist and liar, takes advantage of the situation. He tells David that Mephibosheth was staying in Jerusalem to take back the throne that rightfully belonged to him. Are you kidding me? I can hardly contain my anger at Ziba right now. I told you last week he wasn’t a nice man, but we will learn more about this story in 2 Samuel 19…I just needed to vent a little!

21. Who came out against David? What did he do? What did he say (v. 5)?

22. What was Abishai’s plan?

23. Why did David put a stop to his plan?

24. How did David and his people arrive at their destination? What did David do as a result (v. 14)?

Let’s review David’s downward spiral—he was caught in sin, his baby dies, his daughter is raped, one of his sons murders his other son, and now that same son has decided to take over his kingdom. He flees for his life, finds out his adopted son has switched his loyalty (a lie), and now, as an added bonus, has a man throwing rocks at him all the while screaming curses. I don’t think the word exhausted adequately describes how David felt! I’m impressed David didn’t take Abishai up on his proposition to take care of the situation. Instead David tells him, "No! Who asked your opinion, you sons of Zeruiah! If the LORD has told him to curse me, who are you to stop him" (2 Samuel 16:10, NLT). David knew if the Lord sent Shimei, it was in his best interest to endure the trial.

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25. Can you say the same thing about hard situations in your life? Explain.

26. What does verse 16 remind us about Hushai? What did he say to Absalom?

27. What question did Absalom ask Hushai? Why is this ironic?

28. How did Hushai answer Absalom (vs. 18-19)? How does this answer show wisdom?

29. What is Absalom asking in verse 20?

30. How did Ahithophel answer Absalom?

31. What would this action prove to Israel?

32. Where did they pitch a tent for Absalom? Why did they do this?

33. How did this fulfill 2 Samuel 12:11-12?

34. What does verse 23 tell us about Ahithophel?

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1. What is Ahithophel’s plan?

2. What pronoun did Ahithophel use when describing his plan to Absalom (vs. 1-2)?

3. How did Ahithophel accurately describe David in verse 2?

4. Why would the people come back to Absalom (v. 4)?

5. Who liked the plan? What does this tell you about Absalom’s support?

6. Whose advice did Absalom seek?

7. What was Hushai’s main objective (2 Samuel 15:34)?

8. How did Hushai discredit Ahithophel’s advice (vs. 7-10)?

9. How did Hushai describe David? How is this different from Ahithophel’s description?

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10. How is Hushai’s description of David an intimidation tactic?

11. What plan did Hushai give Absalom (vs. 11-12)?

12. What pronoun did Hushai use in his plan (vs. 12, 13)?

Hushai immediately goes to work trying to thwart Ahithophel’s advice. He started off by boldly telling Absalom his most trusted advisor’s recommendation was wrong. He then spends the next three verses explaining why it was a bad idea. Hushai is capitalizing on Absalom’s insecurities. Absalom knew his father was a legendary warrior and he was just a rookie. David had won the hearts of the people, whereas Absalom had stolen the hearts of the people. Absalom was a poser, trying to steal a kingdom from the Lord’s anointed…no wonder fighting his father scared him. Hushai not only exploits Absalom’s insecurities, he takes advantage of his ego as well. He deliberately uses the pronoun “we” so Absalom could imagine the part he would play in the battle. Hushai wanted Absalom to imagine the hero he would become and the victory he would win. Hushai wasn’t only wise, he was an accomplished orator, weaving a story so Absalom couldn’t help but take his advice.

13. Our words hold a lot of power, both to build up and destroy. How have you seen this truth in your life?

14. What does verse 14 tell us about Hushai’s advice?

15. What message did Hushai send to David (v. 16)?

16. Describe David’s spy chain.

17. Who saw Jonathan and Ahimaaz? What did he do?

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18. Where did Jonathan and Ahimaaz go? What did they do? Who helped them?

19. What did the wife tell Absalom’s men?

20. Who else was from Bahurim (2 Samuel 16:5-6)?

Isn’t it nice when God provides allies in unlikely places? We see God do this many times throughout this story. Shimei came from Bahurim spewing curses and throwing rocks at David. But then, out of this same town, comes and a man and his wife who risk their lives to save their king. I find it interesting the Bible names Shimei, but keeps the heroes of the faith anonymous. God knows who this precious couple is. By not giving them a name, God is reminding us it was His plan being enacted. He was the one who was intervening on David’s behalf and therefore no man could take the credit!

21. What did Jonathan and Ahimaaz tell David (v. 21)?

22. What action did David take?

23. What did Ahithophel do when he realized his advice had not been followed?

24. Why would he do this?

25. Read Matthew 27:3-5. How is Ahithophel similar to Judas?

26. Where did David go in 2 Samuel 17:24?

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27. Read 2 Samuel 2:8. Who else sought refuge in this city?

28. Who did Absalom appoint as the commander of his army?

29. Who was Amasa (1 Chronicles 2:13-16)?

30. Who came to help David in Mahanaim?

31. What do the following verses say about the people who helped David?

⸭ 2 Samuel 10:2, 12:29

⸭ 2 Samuel 9:3-5

⸭ 2 Samuel 19:32, 1 Kings 2:7

32. What did they bring David?

These men are just a few more examples of God giving David allies in unlikely places! Praise God that He is sovereign over everything and everyone! We, like Job, can proclaim, "I know that you can do all things; no pur-pose of yours can be thwarted” (Job 42:2).

33. How does this encourage you today?

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He reached down from on high and took hold of me; he drew me out of deep waters.

He rescued me from my powerful enemy, from my foes, who were too strong for me.

They confronted me in the day of my disaster, but the Lord was my support.

He brought me out into a spacious place; he rescued me because he delighted in me.

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eek { 8 } - day one

1. How did David organize his men? Who were his three commanders?

2. What did David tell his commanders in verse 2?

3. How did his commanders respond? Why did they respond this way?

4. What did David do as a result of his commanders’ advice?

After the shock of Absalom’s betrayal sunk in, David knew he must get his troops ready to fight. As a gifted military leader, he knew in order to regain the throne, he must act quickly to organize his men. Israel’s army was much bigger than David’s so he needed an advantage. By setting up three commanders over his army, he would be able to lead his troops in three different directions at one time. This would make it difficult for Israel’s army to stay together. David wanted to march with his men, but his commanders discouraged him from going. They knew once the king was dead, the war would be over, and Absalom would stay on the throne.

5. What did David command Joab, Abishai, and Ittai (v. 5)? Who heard this command?

This week begins with David on the run from Absalom. He is still in Mahanaim trying to figure out his next move.

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6. Where did the battle between David and Israel take place?

7. Who won the battle? How many casualties were there?

8. How did Absalom meet David’s men? What might have contributed to this (2 Samuel 14:26)?

9. What did one of David’s men tell Joab (v. 10)?

10. Why did Joab question the man? What can we assume Joab promised to the man who killed Absalom (v. 11)?

11. How did this go against David’s command?

12. How did the man respond (v. 12-13)?

13. How did Joab kill Absalom?

14. What happened when Joab sounded the trumpet?

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15. How was Joab following Ahithophel’s logic (2 Samuel 17:2-3)?

16. What did Absalom build during his lifetime? Why did he build this?

17. Read 2 Samuel 14:27. What can you assume happened to his sons?

Absalom’s long, flowing hair not only aided him in his rise to stardom, it also most likely had something to do with his fall from glory. How else can one’s head get caught in a tree? What a strange story, but it goes to show God is not mocked. Even if David commanded his whole army to deal gently with his son, Absalom was not going to get away with taking the throne from God’s anointed. Joab has always been a wild card that David can’t seem to control (remember Abner?). The commander came in and enacted his plan to kill Absalom without David’s consent. He knew, without the self-appointed king on the throne, the Israelites would have no reason to fight. Absalom’s sons had all died by this time so he didn’t have a successor. Joab takes this opportunity to get the throne back to its rightful owner. His tactic has always been to act first, get what you want, and then ask for forgiveness.

18. Has this tactic ever gotten you in trouble? Explain.

19. Who wanted to take the news to David (v. 19)? How did Joab respond to him?

20. Read 2 Samuel 15:27; 17:17-21, who was Ahimaaz?

21. Who did Joab assign the task of telling David about Absalom?

22. Why would Joab need to be very careful with how he delivered the news of Absalom to the king?

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23. What did Ahimaaz ask Joab again in verse 22? How did he respond?

24. What did Ahimaaz tell Joab (v. 23)? How did Joab respond?

25. Where did David sit waiting for his men?

26. What did David assume about all the messengers?

27. Why would Ahimaaz avoid a direct answer?

28. What did the Cushite tell David?

29. What is the first thing David wanted to know in verse 32?

30. How did the Cushite answer David?

31. How did David respond to the news of Absalom’s death?

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1. How did David handle the death of Absalom?

2. How did this affect his army?

3. Why did Joab rebuke David?

4. What did Joab tell David to do (v. 7)?


Joab had very little tolerance for the grieving king. As an army commander, Joab was more concerned for his men. His men had risked their lives for David, fighting for his throne, and instead of coming back to a victory celebration they entered the quiet city of Jerusalem in shame. Joab wasn’t going to allow the king to disrespect the army and harshly told him to stop neglecting his kingdom by bringing honor to his wayward son.

6. What were the tribes arguing about (vs. 9-10)?

7. Who does David ask to be brought back?

8. What message does David give Amasa? Why would David give him this position?

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9. What did the men of Judah tell David (v. 14)? Where did they meet David?

10. Who came to help David cross the Jordan (vs. 16-17)?

11. Why would so many in the tribe of Benjamin accompany Shimei (See 2 Samuel 16:5-7)?

12. What did Shimei do when he saw David? What did he say (vs. 18-20)?

13. What advice did Abishai give to David? How did David respond?

14. How is this similar to the last time they saw Shimei (2 Samuel 16:9-12)?

15. Who came down to meet David in verse 24? Describe his physical appearance.

16. What did David ask Mephibosheth?

17. How did Mephibosheth respond?

18. How does Mephibosheth show humility in verse 28?

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19. What action does David take when he hears the truth?

20. What does verse 30 say about Mephibosheth’s character?

21. Read 1 Kings 3:16-28. How did Solomon decide who was telling the truth?

22. Why might David have cut Saul’s estate in half?

23. What did Barzillai the Gileadite do in verse 31? Why would this trip have been difficult?

24. What had Barzillai done for David?

25. What offer did David make Barzillai? How did Barzillai respond?

26. Who was with David when he crossed the Jordan (v. 40)?

27. Who came to David in verse 41? What was their complaint?

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28. How did the men of Judah answer Israel (v. 42)?

29. How did Israel respond?

This seems like a classic back and forth fight on an elementary school playground; they never end well! Jealousy is at the root of the problem between the northern and southern tribes. David had worked so hard to bring unity to his people. However, the conflict between Israel and Judah had deep roots and Absalom’s rebellion brought the kingdom right back to where they started. The tension between the tribes is growing and to add insult to injury, David called upon Judah to help him come back to Jerusalem. Jealousy tends to strip away our maturity and rational thinking, leaving us full of spite and malice, fighting about things that are of little or no consequence.

30. How has jealousy caused you to go to war over a trivial matter?

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1. Who came against David as he was returning home? What tribe was he from?

2. How is Sheba described in verse 1 (NIV)?

3. The following verses have the same Hebrew word that is rendered troublemaker in 2 Samuel 20:1 (NIV). How do these verses help you understand the kind of person Sheba was?

1 Kings 21:13 (ESV) - “But seat two scoundrels opposite him and have them bring charges that he has cursed both God and the king. Then take him out and stone him to death."

Proverbs 6:12 (ESV) - “A worthless person, a wicked man, goes about with crooked speech.”

1 Samuel 1:16 (NIV) - “Do not take your servant for a wicked woman; I have been praying here out of my great anguish and grief."

4. How did Sheba get Israel’s attention? What did he shout?

5. How did the northern tribes of Israel respond to Sheba?

6. How did the southern tribe of Judah respond?

7. What did David do when he returned to his palace?

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8. Why did he do this (2 Samuel 16:21-22)?

9. What command did the king give Amasa (v. 4)? How long did he have?

10. What did David want Abishai to do? Why does he want him to do this?

11. Who went after Sheba?

David very deliberately bypasses Joab, not once, but twice as commander of his army…OUCH, that had to hurt! David gives both Amasa and Abishai power to lead, but only allows Joab to go out and fight as a common soldier. David has most likely heard how his son died at the hands of Joab and the king wants to let him know he wasn’t above the law.

12. Where did Amasa meet up with Abishai’s troops (v. 8)?

13. Read 2 Samuel 2:12-14. What else had happened at Gibeon?

14. What does 2 Samuel 20:8 tell us about Joab?

15. How does Joab greet Amasa (v. 9)?

16. How does Joab kill Amasa?

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Betrayed with a kiss…Joab is starting to sound like another deceiver we know (Luke 22:48). But then again, the enemy tends to stick with what works!

17. What does Joab do after he kills Amasa (v. 10)?

Amasa is the second commander Joab has murdered to keep his job. Joab is upset that David has stripped him of his power so he decides to forcibly take back what he thought was rightfully his. Joab not only goes against the king by taking the life of his commander, he also defies David by resuming his position in the army.

18. What did one of Joab’s men say to the troops? Why would he say this?

19. What did the troops do when they saw Amasa’s body? How did the man solve this problem?

One of Joab’s men stood in front of Amasa’s troops to try and gain their support. He wanted to convince the men that Joab was loyal to David even though his actions were treasonous. The young man gave the troops a pep talk saying, “if you follow David you will follow Joab.” Seeing Amasa’s body brought serious doubts to the army they couldn’t figure out how loyalty to David could result in murdering his commander. The young man was shrewd and quickly realized he needed to hide Amasa’s body in order for the men to blindly follow. He used the out of sight, out of mind battle strategy, and it worked beautifully.

20. How have you seen this strategy at work in our world today?

21. What does verse 14 say about Sheba?

22. What did the wise woman say to Joab (vs. 18, 19)?

23. How did Joab respond to the woman (vs. 20-21)? What deal does he make with her?

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24. How did the woman keep her end of the deal? How did Joab keep his end of the deal?

25. What does verse 23 say about Joab’s position?

I can’t figure Joab out! One minute he is a cold calculating murderer, and the next he says to the woman at the wall, “Far be it from me, far be it, that I should swallow up or destroy” (2 Samuel 20:20). What? Are you serious? I didn’t think Joab cared one bit about destroying anything that got in his way! Joab is either an amazing liar or he has a bad case of denial because his statement definitely doesn’t line up with his actions. It seems like he compartmentalizes his life, one section has nothing to do with the others. Joab wanted power and he was willing to do anything to get it. But once he had the power he desired, he wanted to rule the people justly. Joab is an enigma, but it seems to work for him because at the end of the day verse 23 tells us he is back in charge. It seems David is afraid of this man. The same man he enlisted to help kill Uriah years ago. David knew what kind of man he was even back then, yet he allows him to stay in power. Joab will ultimately pay for what did when King Solomon takes the throne, but for now he continues to wreak havoc in David’s kingdom.

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eek { 8 } - day four The last four chapters of 2 Samuel are like an appendix to the book. They tell us about different events that occurred all throughout David’s reign, but they aren’t necessarily in chronological order. Chapter 21 is thought to have happened after David finds Mephibosheth, but before Absalom rebels.

1. Why did David seek the Lord?

2. How did the Lord answer David?

3. According to verse 2, who were the Gibeonites? What did Saul do to them?

4. What did the Gibeonites do to Joshua?

5. How did Israel respond to the Gibeonites’ story (vs. 14-15)?

6. What do verses 19 & 20 tell us about the oath they made?

Saul went against an oath Joshua had made with the Lord years before. Saul’s battle with the Gibeonites is not recorded in scripture, so we don’t know the details of what happened. But we are clearly shown that Saul’s attempt to annihilate the Gibeonites was in direct violation of Joshua’s promise. Because of this, many years later Israel is suffering the consequences of Saul’s sin.

⸭ Read Joshua 9:1-20 ⸭

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7. What did David ask the Gibeonites? How did they respond?

8. What does David want to know in verse 4? What do the Gibeonites demand?

9. How does David respond to their demands?

10. Who did the king spare? Why?

11. Who did David give to the Gibeonites? What did the Gibeonites do with these 7 men (v. 9)?

12. What do the following verses remind you about the mothers of these men?

⸭ 2 Samuel 3:7

⸭ 1 Samuel 18:19

13. What did Rizpah do for the executed men?

Having two Mephibosheths in one family had to be confusing! One of them was spared and the other wasn’t so lucky. My heart goes out to the two mothers who had their adult children ripped from them. I can’t even imagine the pain of losing one child, much less five in the same day. Remember Shimei, the man who cursed David and threw rocks at him as he fled from Absalom? He is most likely referring to this event when he cursed David in 2 Samuel 16:8. He said; “The LORD has repaid you for all the blood you shed in the household of Saul, in whose place you have reigned. The LORD has given the kingdom into the hands of your son Absalom. You have come to ruin because you are a murderer!" Shimei was angry because he was from the tribe of Benjamin.


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David handed over seven sons from Shimei’s tribe to be executed; this act was horrifying because it almost completely extinguished the house of Saul. This event is most likely the reason David had a hard time getting support from the tribe of Benjamin during the later part of his reign. Shimei and Rizpah had two very different reactions to grief. One became bitter and one lovingly protected the bodies of her sons.

14. How have you responded to grief in the past? How did this affect your spiritual life?

15. How did David honor Rizpah’s actions?

The following verses recount four different battles between Israel and the Philistines. We don’t know when each of them took place, but they show David’s mighty men doing what they do best!

16. What happened to David in the first battle?

17. Who came to David’s rescue?

18. What did David’s men swear to him?

19. Who did Sibbecai the Hushathite kill?

20. Who did Elhanan kill (2 Samuel 21:19)?

21. What other information are we given about this man in 1 Chronicles 20:5?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 21:15-22 & 1 Chronicles 20:4-8 ⸭

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22. Describe the Philistine in verse 20. What did he do to Israel?

23. Who killed the 6 fingered Philistine?

24. Who were all four of the Philistines descendants of?

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1. When did David write his song of praise?

2. What does this verse tell us about how David viewed Saul?

David’s song of praise is also found in Psalm 18. Scholars are divided as to when they believe David wrote this song. Some believe he wrote it before his spiral into sin, but others believe it was written at the end of his life. Whether it was written before or after Bathsheba doesn’t really matter, I’m just excited for a reminder of David’s heart for the Lord. I have to admit, after weeks of dealing with the king’s sin in our study, this song is a breath of fresh air! In this song of thanksgiving, David never counts Saul among his enemies. Which is strange because this song shows how David had to be delivered out of Saul’s hand. That sounds a lot like an enemy to me, but verse 1 shows David’s view of Saul when it says, “the LORD delivered him from the hand of all his enemies and from the hand of Saul.” David placed Saul in a category of his own. He wasn’t the enemy, he was the Lord’s anointed, and David remained loyal to him even after Saul’s death.

3. David took his personal words of thanksgiving in 2 Samuel 22 and made them into a song in Psalm 18. This song was then used in Israel’s corporate worship. Using this context, why do you think David would add Psalm 18:1 when he made it into a worship song?

4. How did David acknowledge who God was in 2 Samuel 22:2-3?

5. When we pray, why is it important for us to first acknowledge who God is?

6. Looking back at David’s life, why would he choose the images in verses 2-3 to describe the Lord?

7. Describe the situation David was in (vs. 5-6).

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8. What did David do in his distress?

9. What is your first reaction when opposition threatens to overwhelm you?

10. How is David showing the sovereignty of God by comparing him to a thunderstorm?

11. How does David describe God’s deliverance (vs. 17-20)?

12. Why did the Lord reward David (vs. 21-25)?

13. What do verses 26-28 tell us about the Lord?

14. Are verses 21-28 advocating merit-based righteousness? Explain.

15. David wasn’t saying we have to work for righteousness, rather he was showing that God’s blessings and/or benefits are often given as a result of faithful perseverance. What is the difference between working for righteousness and being rewarded for righteous living?

16. How are verses 26-27 similar to Jesus’ words in Matthew 5:3, 7-8?

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17. What does David call the Lord in 2 Samuel 22:29? Why?

18. How is this verse written in Psalm 18:28?

19. How has the Lord kept your lamp burning and turned your darkness into light?

20. What does verse 30 tell us about David’s faith?

21. What does David say about God and His word in verse 31?

22. What does David remind himself in verses 31-37? Why do you think he needed to be reminded of this?

23. How did David put his faith into action?

24. How did the Lord help David (vs. 40-43)?

25. To whom did David ultimately give credit for his many successes?

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26. The Lord had given David great victories in his battles with foreign enemies, and even delivered the king from the attacks of his own people. Which of these battles do you think were the hardest to endure? Why?

27. What blessing did the Lord give David (vs. 44-46)?

28. How does David praise the Lord (vs. 47-51)?

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"And you, my son Solomon, acknowledge the God of your father, and serve him with wholehearted devotion and with a willing mind, for the LORD searches every heart and understands every motive behind the thoughts.

If you seek him, he will be found by you; but if you forsake him, he will reject you forever.” -1 Chronicles 28:9

eek { 9 } - day one

1. What is the title of chapter 23?

2. What does David call his writing in verse 1 (ESV)?

3. Define Oracle-

4. Read Acts 2:29-30. What does Peter tell us about David?

5. How is Jesus depicted in the following verses?

⸭ John 18:37

⸭ John 19:21

⸭ Hebrews 3:1

⸭ Hebrews 8:1-2

It’s hard to believe we have come to our final week together! Digging deep into God’s word is never easy, but the Lord promises studying His Word never turns up void. Isaiah 55:11 says, “It is the same with my word. I send it out, and it always produces fruit. It will accomplish all I want it to, and it will prosper everywhere I send it.” May the Lord take this Bible study and accomplish what HE desires and achieve what HE purposes. Thank you for taking this journey with me, I can’t wait to hear about all the fruit the Lord produces!!

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⸭ Mark 6:1-4

6. What is significant about David being portrayed as a king, priest, and prophet throughout 1 & 2 Samuel?

7. What 4 things gave David credibility in 2 Samuel 23:1?

8. Read Genesis 49:10 & Deuteronomy 17:15. Why would David’s genealogy give him credibility?

2 Samuel 23:1-7 is most likely David’s last poetic declaration rather than his actual last words. David probably read this to Solomon when he was giving his son his final instructions before he took over the throne of Israel.

9. What did God do for David in verse 2?

10. How should a godly leader rule (v. 3)?

11. What is a righteous leader compared to in verse 4?

12. What do light and rain produce? What is this suggesting a godly leader will produce?

13. What was David confident of in verse 5?

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14. What gave David this confidence (2 Samuel 7:12-16; Psalm 89:3-4, 29, 34)?

15. What biblical promises have helped to strengthen your faith?

16. What are unrighteous leaders compared to in 2 Samuel 23:6? What does verse 7 say will happen to them?

Throughout our study we have seen David as a great king, priest, and prophet which have all foreshadowed the coming Messiah. David has also been seen as an image of the disastrous effects of sin and the depravity of man. David was a fallen man and therefore couldn’t be Israel’s perfect king; he was merely a dim shadow of the one to come. In his last poetic work, David packs it full of images of Christ showing that a righteous ruler would one day take his place as the true light of the world.

17. What images of Christ can you find in 2 Samuel 23:1-7?

18. What did each of these men do to earn the honor of being a part of the big three?

⸭ Josheb-Basshebeth

⸭ Eleazar

⸭ Shammah


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19. What did three of David’s thirty men do for him?

20. How did David respond? Why did he respond this way?

21. Who was the chief of the three (v. 18)? Describe what he did?

22. Who was Benaiah? What did he do?

This list contains the names of men who put their lives on the line to protect their king. A lot of these men came to David in the Cave of Adullam. They were the outcasts of society, but under the godly leadership of a young shepherd they were transformed into an elite fighting force. We have met a few of these great warriors in the course of our study.

23. Who is Asahel (2 Samuel 23:24; 2:18-23)?

24. Who is Eliam (2 Samuel 23:34; 11:3: 15:12, 31)?

25. Who is Uriah (2 Samuel 11:3-27)?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 23:24-39 ⸭

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 23:13-23 ⸭

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eek { 9 } - day two

1. Who did the anger of the Lord burn against?

2. What did the Lord do to David (v. 1)?

3. Who incited David to count the people in the 1 Chronicles passage?

4. Explain how 2 Samuel 24:1 and 1 Chronicles 21:1 can both be right (See James 1:3; Job 1:12)?

5. Who did David command to lead the census?

6. How did Joab respond to David’s request (2 Samuel 24:3; 1 Chronicles 21:3)?

7. Who did David want Joab to count (2 Samuel 24:4; 1 Chronicles 21:5)? Why do you think he specifically wanted them counted?

8. Who did Joab leave out of the census (1 Chronicles 21:6)? Why?

⸭ Read 1 Chronicles 21:1-8 ⸭

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9. Knowing Joab’s character, what does his unwillingness to go along with David tell you about the king’s plan?

10. How long did the census take (2 Samuel 24:8)?

11. What did David finally come to realize in 2 Samuel 24:10? What did he beg the Lord to do for him?

12. How did God get David’s attention (1 Chronicles 21:7)?

13. What confession did David make to God (1 Chronicles 21:8; 2 Samuel 24:10)?

14. Was it always wrong to take a census?

15. What was required from each man that was counted?

16. What would happen if each man paid his portion (Exodus 30:12)?

17. Why was the half-shekel required (Exodus 30:14, 15)?

⸭ Read Exodus 30:11-16 ⸭

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18. How were the Israelites to use the money collected in the census?

We don’t know exactly why David taking a census of the Israelites was sinful before the Lord in 2 Samuel 24. In the past, the Lord had commanded Moses to count the people, but it came with very strict requirements. It could be that David did not follow the Torah requirements on taking a census. Just like he didn’t follow the Torah requirements when he tried to move the Ark of the Covenant. The Bible very clearly states that in order to avoid a plague a half shekel was required of every man counted as an atonement offering. David knew the law and what was required, but he was only interested in finding out how many fighting men he had. He wanted to know how powerful his army was, how secure his nation was. I have to be honest, I understand wanting to get my security from something tangible. Fear has always made it difficult for me to step out in faith. I wonder if, after all the rebellion and fighting Israel has been through, David just wants to make sure he is safe. He wants to find his security in building up his army. A large army would make sure the pain of rebellion didn’t happen again. David wants to know his army is big enough and strong enough to fight off the enemy. This is the same David that fought his first battle with a sling, a stone, and a whole lot of faith. Sometimes age doesn’t strengthen our faith in God; sometimes it increases our desire for self-reliance.

19. Where are you finding your security?

20. Who did the Lord send to David?

21. What three choices did the Lord give David?

22. How did David respond to his choices?

23. How did the Lord punish Israel? How many people died?

24. When did the Lord step in and stop the punishment (2 Samuel 24:16; 1 Chronicles 21:15)?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 24:11-17 & 1 Chronicles 21:9-17⸭

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25. What did David look up and see? How did he respond (2 Samuel 24:17; 1 Chronicles 21:16-17)?

26. What did Gad tell David to do?

27. What did David ask Araunah? How did Araunah respond to David’s request?

28. Why did David insist on paying Araunah? How does this challenge you?

29. What did David do with the land he purchased? How did God respond?

⸭ Read 2 Samuel 24:18-25 & 1 Chronicles 21:18-28 ⸭

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⸭ Read 1 Kings 1 ⸭

eek { 9 } - day three Even though we are done with 1 & 2 Samuel, we haven’t made it to the end of our study. David’s life continues in the first couple chapters of 1 Kings and the last few chapters of 1 Chronicles. Can you believe we have made it this far? I have to admit, there were times I thought I wouldn’t pull through!! I’m so thankful God gave me the strength to keep moving forward. Don’t you love when He does that for us!

1. How old was David (See 2 Samuel 5:4)?

2. What was wrong with David? What solution did his servants offer?

I think this might be one of those times when my modern mind is unable to completely understand the logic of the ancient brain. I don’t know about you, but when I first read this story I actually yelled at David’s servants, “YOU HAVE GOT TO BE KIDDING ME!!” Can you imagine answering a classified ad that reads: cold, old man seeks warmth from beautiful, young virgin..? We should be grateful for the invention of the electric blanket!

3. What does verse 3 tell you about Abishag?

4. What did Adonijah do?

5. What does verse 6 say about David’s struggle to parent?

6. What claim does Adonijah have on David’s throne (v. 6)?

7. Who gave Adonijah their support? Who didn’t support him?

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8. Who did Adonijah invite to his party (v. 9)?

9. How did Adonijah follow the example of his brother Absalom (1 Kings 1:5, 9; 2 Samuel 15:7-12)?

10. Who does Nathan go to for help (v. 11)? Why does he go to her?

11. What would happen to Bathsheba and her son if Adonijah’s plan succeeded?

12. What had David sworn to Bathsheba (v. 13)?

13. How would this promise influence Adonijah to rebel?

14. Why did Nathan come to speak to David right after Bathsheba (v. 14)?

15. Why were the Israelites looking to David (v. 20)?

16. What questions does Nathan ask David (vs. 24, 27)?

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17. In light of verses 6 & 20, why would Nathan ask David these questions?

18. Why does David call for Bathsheba?

19. How did Bathsheba respond?

20. What plan does David come up with (vs. 32-35)?

David might need a beautiful, young virgin to stay warm, but he definitely doesn’t need any help with strategy. David’s body had broken down, but his mind was still as sharp as a tack. Once David took his head out of the sand, he was able to come up with an ironclad plan.

21. How has not being willing to confront someone caused a situation to get out of control in your life?

22. How does Benaiah express his loyalty to David (v. 36)?

23. Who anointed Solomon to be the King of Israel?

24. How did Israel respond to Solomon (v. 40)?

25. What did Joab ask when he heard the sound of the trumpet?

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26. Who came to answer Joab’s question? How did Adonijah respond to him?

27. Who was Jonathan (2 Samuel 17:17-21)? What does he tell them?

28. Why did David’s royal officials come to him (v. 47)?

29. How did David respond to what they said?

30. Why did Adonijah’s supporters disperse? What did Adonijah do?

31. What did Adonijah say (v. 51)? How did Solomon respond?

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⸭ Read 1 Chronicles 28:1-13, 19-21 ⸭

eek { 9 } - day four We have come to the end of an era. Israel’s shepherd king is old, his work has been completed, and now he must pass the baton to his son Solomon. The last two days of our study will be spent at Solomon’s great inaugural ceremony.

1. Who does David summon to assemble at Jerusalem?

2. What is the first thing David did in verse 2? Why would this have been difficult for him (1 Kings 1:1)?

3. What does David tell his people (vs. 2-3)?

4. Who did the Lord choose to be king (v. 5)?

5. What did the Lord say Solomon would accomplish?

6. In light of 1 Kings 1:5, why would David need to legitimize Solomon’s right to the throne?

7. What would the Lord do for Solomon (v. 7)? What was the condition?

8. What charge did David give Israel (v. 8)?

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9. What charge did David give his son Solomon (vs. 9-10)?

10. What did David know about the Lord (v. 9)?

11. Looking back over David’s life, how did he come to know this about the Lord?

David wanted his people to know that God was their ultimate King. David reminds his people that they need to remain loyal to their God, even after his death. By showing them that the Lord had chosen Judah, himself, and Solomon, David was encouraging his people to put their hope in the Lord. God would take care of his people, they need only to continue to follow Him.

12. Why would David encourage his people by telling them God would remain with them even after he was gone?

13. How did David help Solomon build the temple?

14. Who gave David the temple design plans (vs. 12, 19)?

15. What did David tell Solomon in verse 20?

16. What does this imply about the job Solomon was called to do?

17. Read Deuteronomy 31:5-8. What similarities do you find between David’s words to Solomon and Moses words to his successor?

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⸭ Read 1 Chronicles 29:1-9 ⸭

I think we all need to be reminded of David’s words to his son because most things we are called to do for the Lord are difficult. The enemy fights dirty and he doesn’t want us to succeed in our calling. He will attack our marriages, our relationships, our parenting, our jobs, and our ministries to try and get us to quit. We must stand strong, be courageous, and keep working for the Lord. And when we are physically exhausted and mentally drained, we must put off fear and discouragement because we KNOW the Lord is with us and he will not forsake us!

18. How do David and Moses’ words encourage you today?

19. How did David set Solomon up for success (v. 21)?

20. What did David tell the whole assembly?

21. Why would David call attention to Solomon’s age and inexperience?

22. What resources did David give Solomon to build God’s temple?

23. What question does David ask his people in verse 5?

24. Why would David ask this question right after telling the people what he personally gave to the project?

25. How did the people respond to David’s challenge?

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26. Why did the people rejoice (v. 9)?

27. How do you respond when God challenges you to give?

28. Why is it important to rejoice in our giving?

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⸭ Read 1 Chronicles 29:10-24⸭

eek { 9 } - day five We have come to the last day of our study. I can’t believe our walk with David is over. He has taught me so much about faith, leadership, loyalty, sin, and most importantly grace. I feel like I’ve come to know and love this man that lived thousands of years ago. On this final day of our study, we will have the privilege of seeing David take all he has learned in life and bestow his last words of wisdom on his young and inexperienced son.

1. Who was present for David’s prayer?

2. Make a list of the things David declares about his God.

3. What question does David ask God (v. 14)?

4. What did David know about his abundance (vs. 14, 16)?

5. How does this challenge you?

My dad is an incredible example of generosity. He would give you his last dollar if he knew you needed it. I’m not going to tell him I’m writing this because it would make him extremely uncomfortable. He would get shifty and say things like…“boy, I tell ya Julie!” I know that won’t make sense to anyone else, but it gives me great joy to know my sisters will laugh when they read this. My dad has always taught me everything we have is from the Lord; it’s our job to keep a loose grip. I don’t know about you, but a loose grip is hard for me. I tend to want security over generosity. But when you truly know everything you have is from the Lord, and you trust Him for your security, it’s easy to keep a loose grip on your possessions. David praised God for allowing him the privilege of generously giving to the House of the Lord because he understood everything he had was from his Heavenly Father!

6. What did David know about God in verse 17?

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7. What blessing did God give David (v. 17)?

8. What was David’s ultimate desire (vs. 18-19)?

9. What did David ask the whole assembly to do?

10. How did they respond?

11. What happened on day two of Solomon’s coronation (vs. 21-22)?

12. What did they do for the second time? When was the first time (1 kings 1:38-40)?

13. What does verse 23 tell us about Solomon?

14. Who pledged loyalty to Solomon?

15. When did David give this charge to Solomon?

⸭ Read 1 Kings 2:1-10 ⸭

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16. What advice does David give to his son (vs. 2-3)?

17. Why did David want Solomon to do these things (vs. 3-4)?

David is reminding Solomon about the promises God made to him in 2 Samuel 7. The Davidic Covenant was unconditional; the throne of David would be established forever in the coming Messiah. But, there were conditions on whether or not David’s individual descendants participated in the blessings of the covenant. The blessings came to those who were obedient to God. David wanted Solomon to understand his walk with the Lord directly affected his ability to lead Israel.

18. How have you seen your spiritual life directly affect your ability to lead?

19. What does David want Solomon to do to Joab? Why?

20. Who does David want Solomon to show kindness to? Why? What is he to do for them?

21. Who does this remind you of (2 Samuel 9:7)?

I find it funny that David passes Joab’s punishment off on his son. It’s almost as if he is saying, do as I say, not as I do. David knew Joab was a cancer to Solomon’s kingdom. In his final advice to Solomon, David tells him he must deal with the wayward commander. David also wanted Solomon to show kindness to the sons of Barzillai. David had set a beautiful example of kindness to his children with his care of Mephibosheth. Solomon grew up watching what it meant to take care of people. He grew up knowing that although Mephibosheth technically had a claim to his father’s throne, the king welcomed him to his table every day. David wanted Solomon to show that same kindness to the people who had cared for him when he ran from Absalom.

22. What does David say about Shimei (vs. 8-9)?

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23. What do these passages tell us about David?

24. Read 1 Chronicles 29:25. What did the Lord do for Solomon?

I can’t help but be a little sad over the death of Israel’s King. My husband is always surprised by my emotional reactions to David. I don’t think he can wrap his mind around getting emotional over the death of a man who lived thousands of years ago. I can just see him looking at me with a confused expression saying, “What did you expect to happen?” It doesn’t help that we are ending on such a high note. There were a couple of times throughout this study I would have taken David out myself! But today we were able to see David worshipping his God, leading his people, and loving his son. I love the picture the Bible paints of an aged king speaking words of wisdom to the next generation. David knew the demands of leadership. He understood the struggles his son would face as king. He looked into the eyes of youth and inexperience and wanted to help his son navigate the tough road ahead. But instead of compiling a list of everything that might happen, David simply tells his son to keep his eyes on the Lord. If you stay strong in your faith and listen to and obey your God you will be fine. You may stumble and fall, the world may beat you up and spit you out, but the Lord will never leave you nor forsake you! These are important, weighty words that all of our children need to hear as they leave our homes!

⸭ Read 1 Kings 2:10, 11 & 1 Chronicles 29:26-29 ⸭

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