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Proverbs 25:28Proverbs 25:28“A person without self controlA person without self‐control is as defenseless as a city withis as defenseless as a city with broken‐down walls” (NLT)broken‐down walls (NLT)
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Proverbs 29:11Proverbs 29:11“A fool gives full vent to hisA fool gives full vent to his anger but a wise man keepsanger, but a wise man keeps himself under control” (Living B)himself under control (Living B)
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ReRealizealize the costthe costReRealizealize the costthe cost
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Proverbs 29:22Proverbs 29:22“A hot tempered man GetsA hot‐tempered man…. Gets into all kinds of trouble ”(LB)into all kinds of trouble. (LB)
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Pr. 15:18 “Hot tempers cause arguments.”(GN)
Pr. 14:29 “… anger causesPr. 14:29 … anger causes mistakes.”(LB)( )
P 14 17 “P l ith h tPr. 14:17 “People with hot tempers do foolish things ”(GN)tempers do foolish things.”(GN)
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Proverbs 11:29Proverbs 11:29“The fool who provokes hisThe fool who provokes his
family to anger andfamily to anger and resentment will finally haveresentment will finally have nothing worthwhile left ” (LB)nothing worthwhile left. (LB)
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ReRestrainstrainm mo thm mo thReRestrainstrainmy mouthmy mouth
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Proverbs 21:23Proverbs 21:23“If you keep your mouth shutIf you keep your mouth shut you will stay out of trouble ”you will stay out of trouble.
(NLT)(NLT)
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James 1:19James 1:19“Be quick to listen slow toBe quick to listen, slow to speak slow to becomespeak, slow to become
angry”angry.
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Proverbs 29:11Proverbs 29:11Proverbs 29:11Proverbs 29:11“A stupid man gives free rein
to his anger; a wise man waitswaits and lets it grow coolgrow cool.”
(NEB)
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Proverbs 29:11Proverbs 29:11“A stupid man gives free reinA stupid man gives free rein to his anger; a wise man waitsto his anger; a wise man waitsand lets it grow cool ” (NEB)and lets it grow cool. (NEB)
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Truthful?Truthful?Helpful?I
pnspirational?Inspirational?Necessary?Kind?Kind?
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Proverbs 19:11Proverbs 19:11“A man’s wisdom gives himA man s wisdom gives him
patience ”patience.
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CausesCausesCauses Causes ofof AngerAngerof of AngerAnger
HurtHurtFrustrationFrustrationFearFear
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ReReleaselease angerReReleaselease anger i t li t lappropriatelyappropriately
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Ephesians 4:26Ephesians 4:26pp“If you become angry don’tIf you become angry, don t let your anger lead you intolet your anger lead you into
sin ” (GN)sin. (GN)
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Proverbs 22:24Proverbs 22:24“Keep away from angryKeep away from angry,
short tempered people orshort‐tempered people, or you will learn to be likeyou will learn to be like
them ” (NLT)them… (NLT)
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ReReturnturnReReturnturnd f ild f ilgood for evilgood for evil
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Romans 12:17Romans 12:17 2121Romans 12:17Romans 12:17--2121“Never pay back evil for evil to anyone…never avenge yourselves. Leave that to God… overcome evil with
good.” (NLT)
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ReRequestquestqqGod’s helpGod’s helpGod s helpGod s help
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Psalm 141:3Psalm 141:3Psalm 141:3Psalm 141:3“Lord, help me control my tongue; help me be careful about what I say.” (NCV)
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Matthew 12:34Matthew 12:34“Whatever is in your heartWhatever is in your heart determines what you say.”determines what you say.
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Our Words Demonstrate our Heart ConditionCondition
Harsh mouth demonstrates angry heartg yBoastful mouth demonstrates insecure heartTalkati e mo th demonstrates nsettled heartTalkative mouth demonstrates unsettled heartCritical words demonstrates a bitter heartJudgmental mouth demonstrates a guilty heart
Encouraging words shows a happy heartG tl d h l i h tGentle words shows a loving heartKind and comforting words shows a heart of gpeace
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Colossians 3:15Colossians 3:15Colossians 3:15Colossians 3:15“Let the peace of Christ rule
in your heart….” (NAS)
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