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Destiny: Time and Timing

Many people drift along, taking life as it comes. Neither seeking

opportunity nor running from it, they wait and see what happens.

Current thought from success experts stress the idiom, those who fail

to plan, plan to fail. It would seem from their suggestion, that

if we want things to happen in our lives we should plan and make themhappen. While there is a certain degree of truth in the power

of goal setting, it is amazing how often those who seem to drift with

the current get blessed with good fortune.

Currently the Law of Attraction is all the buzz, and many experts are

claiming we can manifest anything we desire by simply focusing

our mind and emotions long and hard enough to bring things about. They

seem to suggest that we are all our own Gods. Ive warned

many people about the dangers in this thinking. When we take the higher

power out of the loop and start relying solely on our owndecision making, we are essentially stating that we are the wisest mind

in the equation. The problem here is very simple to illustrate.

We play checkers, the higher intelligence plays chess.

In my practice, I speak with a great number of clients who are

frustrated by the lack of results in their manifesting efforts. I then

explain to them why we dont always get what we ask for.

Sometimes what we think we want or need is not in alignment with our

destiny. Sometimes what we want or think we need would actually preventsomething more beneficial from happening. Thank God for unanswered

prayers!

Most of this boils down to time and timing.

Anytime we act on a desired objective there are 4 possible realized

outcomes:

right thing wrong time

wrong thing right time

wrong thing wrong time

right thing right time

When we pursue the right thing at the wrong time, we pursue something

in alignment however we apply force at the wrong moment.

Example, we persist in pursuing the right partner, however they are

currently involved with someone else. Our over-zealous attitude creates

a repulsive factor that results in losing the opportunity to connect at


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a later date.

When we pursue the wrong thing at the right time, we have found the

correct need but the incorrect expression of it.

Example, we pursue a specific romantic partner knowing it is time to

connect but are targeting the wrong person, who may not be ideal for

us. This results in either a wasted effort or the prevention of a

better relationship that may have started had we not been preoccupied

with the incorrect target.

When we pursue the wrong thing at the wrong time, we are typically not

tuned in to our path. This results in ego based choices that are

completely wrong in time and timing. An example of this would be when

you are in a cycle of your life where your career should be your

primary focus, and yet you persist in chasing a romantic partner and

fail to achieve your career objectives as a result because you are far too

distracted by your amorous pursuits, which means you have

to wait for the next phase of the career cycle to flow before you getanother chance at the ideal situation.

Finally, when we are seeking the right thing at the right time, the

universe seems to fully cooperate because we are in alignment with our

purpose in that moment. This is synchronicity in action.

Our dilemna then becomes how do we know what actions to take day to

day. The truth is success leaves clues. When we simply slow

down and allow the dialogue to begin between us and the Universe,

often we find it suggesting the proper course of action through

synchronistic events. This is the green light that says, yes, you have permission.It is this smooth pace of time and timing that allows the proper path to appear

before us. Failing to do this is like casting a fishing line into the ocean with the

proper bait (intention) only to reel it in and cast it again and again and then

wondering why we havent caught a fish!

Yes, we are co-creators of our own destiny but often we get in our own way.

The Universe is very efficient and will find the easiest way to get you to where

you need to be. Learn to walk by faith and allow things to come in their proper time.


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Ploughing The Field/Avoiding The Sidetracks

The first time you really experience a synchronistic event in your life, you feel a real sense of wonder

and awe. It can be difficult quite simply because you get so excited about it that you want to tell everyone, and

more often than not, youll get blown off and people will discount it as a coincidence. As synchronicity keeps

happening you begin to get that sense of destiny I love to talk about so much. You begin to see the order that lies

beneath the surface of what we think is a chaotic and random world. You begin to feel a sense of safety and yourfaith strengthens. You ride the wave and wonderful unexpected things happen, life clicks into place at all the

right moments. You find yourself in the right place at the right time and you start loving the simple act of living.

Then one day you wake up, expecting the trend to continue and wham, there it goes. Your winning streak

runs out. You look around at things suddenly taking the opposite momentum. Your tire blows. Your boss hands

you the pink slip. Life gets tough again. You wonder, gee, did I do something wrong? Sometimes the answer

is yes, you just took a big step in the wrong direction. You made a choice that was out of alignment with your

destiny. When you do that, rebalancing is going to happen. Youll receive as much displeasure as it takes to

provoke you back along the straight and narrow. This isnt a punishment. It is really nothing personal at all. It is

simply a predictable way to get you back on track.

There are a few things I can assure you will cause this to happen with certainty. It may take awhile

to show up, but it certainly will if you continue in these actions. The most certain way to stop synchronicity

is to dwell in thoughts of anger, judgement or fear. If youre paying too much attention to the news and your

obsessing over the fine job our president has made of ruining our economy, or youre worried about the gas

climbing to 5.00 a gallon, or if you just cant get over an argument you had with your spouse and you brood

about it, it will take you out of the flow. Anger is the fear of not getting what you want, fear is the belief that

something awful will happen, judgement is when you have to be right. All of these things impede the flow.

The reason is you are taking yourself out of the now and either harping on the past or fretting about

the future. Synchronicity occurs when you are living in the NOW. By accepting exactly where you are in thismoment, you embrace the now. So if you are currently laid out with the flu, think, This is wonderful, my body

is telling me I need to relax for awhile. I must have ignored it too long. No matter, Ill rest and take this time

to enjoy my bed. If you find yourself in the unemployment line, say, This is a wonderful new opportunity to

explore new avenues of expressing my talents. By taking this positive attitude about where you are now, you

allow the flow to carry you to the next step. This is one the biggest secrets I used to survive cancer, bankruptcy

and divorce. Trust me, this really works. The Buddha said it is only the things we resist that cause us to suffer.

Sometimes it isnt even that the flow stops at all. Sometimes we just dont recognize it. Not every

moment is an event horizon. We dont work 24/7 and sometimes when it comes to destiny you get a recess.

Sometimes things take some time for all of the elements to gather together in the proper arrangement to lead

you to the next step. Its important to keep moving forward with what you do know about your purpose. Just

keep ploughing the field. It is during these times that we get a chance to take a breath. Life is like breathing,

sometimes we are drawing things in, absorbing, other times we are releasing things, letting go, moving on. The

key is to keep moving forward.

If life starts breaking down then its time to look at the things youve been doing. Ask yourself simply,

with what I know about my destiny, am I doing everything in alignment with it? If not, why? Can I change

course and get back on track?


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D agnos ng t e pro lems. Meet t e arc etypes.

The archetypes are essentially instinctive roles that we play. Consider them like

master programs t at we run su consc ously t roug out var ous s tuat ons n our

l ves. It s an unlearne ten ency to l ve out or exper ence t ngs n a part cular way.

Some o t e pr mary arc etypes are:

T e Mot er - t e nurtur ng one, t e source o l e, t e prov er o secur ty

T e Fat er - t e prov er, t e role mo el or t e aut or ty gure

The Family - the collective idea of blood relationships being deeper than other rela-

t ons ps.

T e C l - (s e acts so c l s ) representat ve o new eg nn ngs, re rt , t e

uture (c l ren are our uture)

T e Hero/Hero ne - Represents t e ego. F g ts t e ar ness. O ten not t e most

r ll ant person.

T e Ma en - T e elpless, eaut ul one. Pur ty. Innocence.

T e Teac er/W se Man - Reveals t e Secrets to Solve a C allenge, teac es s lls or

w s om.

T e S a ow - t e ar er s e o yoursel . Everyt ng a out yoursel t at you s-

l e. O ten e on st c an sel serv ng. Destroyer.

T e Tr c ster/Clown/Mag c an - Hampers progress an ma es trou le. Fun to e

aroun .

The Orphan - Expects disaster, waiting for the other shoe to drop, abandonment,

lonel ness. T e v ct m.


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T e Creator/Inventor - Creat ve an nnovat ve. Always loo ng to solve t ngs.

Brea ng t ngs own to component parts. You el eve you can t n t you can

do it.

T e Queen/K ng/Ruler - Power s everyt ng, ns st ng on your own way, gett ng

t ngs DONE, ns stent.

T e An ma/An mus - H g est express on o woman an man. Typ cally w en we

ta e on roles w ere we are act ng unc aracter st c o our gen er.

T ere are more an many var at ons o eac . We w ll run many o t ese patterns n

our l ves ut o ten run a small num er requently.

To use t e arc etypes to our a vantage, we must rst gure out w c arc etype we

are portray ng, t en ec e ts t e est t or t e c rcumstances. I not, we must

consc ously ta e steps to ntegrate a more appropr ate arc etype.

Ta e any g ven s tuat on or relat ons p n your l e. ( Romant c, Bus ness, Healt /

F tness, etc.) W at s t e ynam c o t at s tuat on or relat ons p?

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W at s your es re outcome w t t at s tuat on or relat ons p?

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Are your t oug ts, wor s an act ons congruent w t t at outcome? (Yes or No)

I t ey arent, w at o you catc yoursel say ng or t n ng a out t an w at

arc etype oes t most resem le? ________________________________________

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W c Arc etype woul e etter su te or t e outcome? ____________________

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