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Family Financial

Stewardship

Maintaining Sibling

Relationships in College

Family History Work:

Your Work


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Features

Family FinancialStewardship

Maintaining Sibling

Relationships in College

Family History Work: Your

Work

Around the World

Wintertime in the Ho

In the Kitchen

In the Community

Taking a Stance against

Pornographic T-shirts

New Missionary Policy:

Thinking about the Future

Heartwarming Stories of

Christmas

Winter Wear: Form or

Function?

Peppermint Wafer Dessert

Traditions and Memories for

Christmas

Book ReviewsThe Candy Bomber

Finding Peace, Happiness and

Joy

Contents

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Stanceforthe familyStaff

Academic Advisor: John P. Livingstone

Editor in Chief: Dustin Schwanger

Managing Editor: Emily Smith

Magazine Editor: Adrienne Anderson

Design Director: Caitlin Schwanger

Assistant Editors: Sara Bitterman,

Lanae Carmichael, Rebecca Hamson,

Melissa Hart, Jenna Hoffman, Shannon

Wallace

Articles express the opinions of their

authors alone and not necessarily of

Stance as an organization, Brigham Young

University, or the Church of Jesus Christ

of Latter-day Saints.

Unless otherwise stated, all photography is

in the public domain.

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CES Policies Regarding Missionary

Service

From the Be Smart FAQ page:

Can I defer the rst semester Im

admitted?

First semester deferments are reserved for

missionaries leaving during the semester they were

admitted. The only students who are able to defer

the rst semester they are admitted are students

leaving on missions during that time.

From the BYU Admissions webpage:

BYU students who want to defer their enrollment

for an LDS mission must complete a Missionary

Deferment form. The deferment form should

be submitted afterreceiving a mission call,

but before entering the MTC.

From the BYU Admissions Facebook

page:

Question:My cousin wants to attend BYU but he

plans to leave for his mission in a couple of months.

. . . He doesnt know whether to wait to apply or to

do so anyways now. . . . What should he do?

Answer:He could apply either way, though he

should keep in mind that admission tends to

become more competitive as time goes on. If

he did choose to apply and was accepted for anupcoming term . . . he could defer his admission

until after his mission.

Additional Resources

Preparing Your Future Missionary, Ensign, Oct.

2004.

The Lord Needs Missionaries, Ensign, Jan. 2011.

Becoming a Missionary, Ensign, Oct. 2005.

Young Men General President AnswersQuestions about New Missionary Policy and

Preparation, Church News and Events, 25 Oct.

2012.

Preparing to Serve: Frequently asked questions

from prospective missionaries and their parents,

LDS.org, http://www.lds.org/callings/missionary/faqs


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Getting started

1) Identify what you know about your

family

Gather documents you have around the house for

yourself, your immediate family, and your ancestors.

Ask your family members what they know or remember

about their lives and the lives of their predecessors.

Log on to new.familysearch.org to see what

information others have submitted to the church about

your family tree.

2) Determine what you want to learn about

your family

Pick one or two details to focus on rst. This will help

keep you from getting overwhelmed with the amount

of research left to do and give you a direction on whichto focus your efforts.

Is there a birthdate missing for your great-grandfather?

Does the information your mom gave you conict

with what New FamilySearch says?

3) Select Records to Search and Search

Them

Looking for a birth date? Try a birth record,

christening record, or newspaper announcement. Need

a death date? Try looking at headstones, death records,

obituaries, or cemetery records. Trying to document arelationship? Try a marriage record, census record, birth

record, or death record.

Where can you nd records?

Check the wiki.familysearch.org page for the location

where your family member lived to see what websites

or libraries might have the records you are looking for.

Check out websites such as Ancestry.com (available in

the Family History center of the HBLL), FamilySearch.

org, or WorldVitalRecords.com to see what record

collections are available.

4) Use the Information

Record the information youve learned in a family

history program or on New FamilySearch.

Prepare names for temple ordinances.

Create a source citation for the information youve

found so that future generations do not have to repeat

the research youve done.


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by Michael O. Tunnell

The Candy Bomber: The Story of the Berlin Airlifts Chocolate Pilot

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Finding Peace, Happiness, and Joyby Richard G. Scott

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reviewed by Sarah Bitterman


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