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De-Stress from Deployment: Handling Stress after Deployment MAR 2013 De-stress from Deployment: Handling Stress after Deployment Facilitator’s Name: Leslie Robinson Date:July, 2014 1

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De-Stress from Deployment: Handling Stress after Deployment MAR 2013

De-stress from Deployment: Handling Stress after Deployment

Facilitator’s Name: Leslie RobinsonDate:July, 2014

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Between two worlds

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Objectives

• Define stress and stressors.

• Identify stressors and recognize symptoms of stress.

• Discuss importance of utilizing stress management techniques.

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The real or perceived demands that disrupt our balance.

Stressors

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Real vs. Perceived Stressors

Real changes occur in the body and mind due to real or perceived demands that disrupt our balance.

Real “I can’t find my keys and I’m late”

Imagined “My husband is 5 minutes late; what if he was in a bad car accident?”

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Real vs. Perceived Stressors Examples

• “My boss wants this report completed tomorrow. There is no way to do it.”

• “I don’t think my mother in law likes me.”

• “There is an official letter from the bank. What am I going to do? I must have overdrawn my checking account.”

• “I didn’t plan on the water heater breaking. How am I going to pay for it?”

• “The doctor hasn’t called. My test results must be negative.”

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Some stress is actually good for us.

Too much stress is a different matter.

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1. The person believes the stressor is significant for his or her well being.

AND

2. The person believes the stressor is bigger than his or her ability to deal with it.

“Bad” Stress Conditions

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+ Exposure to stressors

+ Stressor is relevant to our well-being

+ Beliefs that stressors will harm and/or threaten us

+ Belief we cannot handle stressors

+ Last over time (chronic)

= STRESS RESPONSE

The Stress Response

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WHAT IS STRESS

• Mental, emotional or physical strain or tension.• Our body’s signal that

something is different, that disturbs the body’s normal

state of functioning.

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STRESSORSFinancial Issues

Emotional Pain

Relationship Issues

Problems Sleeping

Unmet Expectations

Dealing with Change & Loss

Communication Glitches

Other People

Self-Attack

Employment Challenges

Reintegration

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MORE STRESSORS

Emotions log jammed

Inner Conflicts

Everything feeling like life or death

Feeling responsible for everyone and everything

Who am I now? / Identity Struggles

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Categories of Stress Symptoms

• Physical

• Psychological or emotional

• Behavioral

• Thought processing

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Physical Symptoms

• increased heart rate• elevated blood pressure• increased respiration• muscle tension• muscle spasms or tics• stomach ache,

headache, dizziness, eye strain

• problems concentrating• digestive problems like

nausea, constipation, or diarrhea

• insomnia or sleeping too much

• skin breakouts• weight loss or gain• cold sweats

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Psychological or Emotional Symptoms

• being tired• mind wondering• anger and irritability• anxiety and worry• impatience• rushed speech• confusion• relationship problems• memory loss• feeling overwhelmed

• moodiness• short temper and

agitation• feelings of burnout and

depression• feelings of isolation• numbness and lack of

interest in life• guilt and shame or a

sense of failure

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Behavioral Symptoms

• exaggerating normal behavior

• withdrawing

• working harder

• changes in diet

• blaming

• having fights

• pretending that nothing is wrong

• Restlessness or fidgeting

• angry outbursts

• crying

• risky or careless behaviors

• sharing fewer satisfactions with family and friends

• having other family members with stress problems

• having fewer stress-free conversations with family and friends

• being over-watchful or overly concerned about safety

• staring into space (the “thousand-yard stare”)

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Thought Processing Symptoms

• problems concentrating• confusion• having problems in

making decisions or processing information

• memory loss• having a hard time

telling what is real• re-experiencing events

or flashbacks

• troubling memories or nightmares

• loss of trust• hallucinations or

delusions

• “This is horrible or unbearable.”

• “I’m not good enough.” • “I’m going to go crazy.”

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Combat Stress

Combat stress is….

The expected and predictable emotional, intellectual, physical, and/or behavioral reactions of Service Members who have been exposed to stressful events in war or military operations other than war.

A few symptoms are…

• Problems concentrating• Troubling memories or

nightmares• Agitation and intense anger

or irritability• Angry outbursts • Risky or careless

behaviors, such as increased smoking, drug or alcohol

• Problems sleeping• Pounding heart and

sweating; cold sweats

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Strategies to Reduce Stress…

• Recognize and manage what is within your control • Make a list of the things that cause you stress and simply

avoid them next time• Tolerate and understand uncertainty• Stop over scheduling or commitments• Focus on the present, all else in an illusion• Stop trying to be perfect• Don’t get caught in the vicious circle of stress• Stop constantly thinking about your problems• Be optimistic and believe in yourself

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Stress Busting Strategies

Journal about your stress and worry. Limit worry to a specific time of day. Postpone worry when you are busy. Tolerate and understand uncertainty. Focus on the present, all else is illusion. Do a physical activity. Talk to a friend. Slow down your breathing. Relax your body.

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The Path Starts Here

How to Manage Your Stress …

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Cascade of Responses

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Stress Technique:

Relaxation Breathing

Feelings come and go like clouds in the windy sky. Conscious breathing is my anchor.

Thich Nhat Hanh

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Relaxation Breathing Steps

1. Sit or lie down shoulders straight.

2. Relax the stomach.

3. Breathe in through the nose (See your stomach rise).

4. Breathe out through the nose (See your stomach fall).

5. Pause for a moment.

6. Continue 15 – 20 minutes.

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Relaxation Response

Simplest technique to calm the body.

1. Choose a focus word, (e.g., “peace”, “relax”, “it’s OK”).

2. Sit quietly in a comfortable position.

3. Close your eyes.

4. Relax muscles.

5. Breathe slowly, naturally,

and repeat focus word

6. Continue 10-20 minutes.

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Learn to De-stress…

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1. Find a strategy for managing stress that works for you.

2. Don’t let others stress you; reject stress generating thoughts.

3. Stop expecting so much of yourself.

4. Let “good enough” suffice.

5. Take it one day at a time.

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Review of Key Points

1. Stress is both real and subjective.

2. It has real impacts on bodily systems.

3. You can relax the body using a stress management technique like diaphragmatic breathing.

4. There are many free useful resources for stress management.

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YRRP Website for Handouts:Address Your Stresshttp://www.yellowribbon.mil/event-support

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De-stress from Deployment: Handling Stress after Deployment

Facilitator’s Name: Leslie RobinsonDate:July, 2014

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