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“No Fault Formula” of Communication From Getting the Love You Want, by Harville Hendrix: “For some reason, we enter marriage with the expectation that our partners will magically restore [a] feeling of wholeness [that we lost somewhere]. It is as if they hold the key to a long-ago kingdom, and all we have to do is persuade them to unlock the door. Their failure to do so is one of the main reasons for our eventual unhappiness.” No Charlatan Consulting is Grant Wadley NO CHARLATAN CONSULTING 2657 Lenox Rd. NE #204 Atlanta, GA 30324 Relationship Counseling & Family Therapy No Charlatan Consulting Mission: to help clients find extraordinary happiness in becoming their best. Need to get below this line Data Beliefs/ Assumptions Impact/ Feelings Needs Solutions/ Actions Esp., “What do you need from me?” Contact Info Phone: 609.422.9539 Email: [email protected] Website: facebook.com/nocharlatan

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“No Fault Formula” of Communication

From Getting the Love You Want, by

Harville Hendrix:

“For some reason, we enter marriage with

the expectation that our partners will

magically restore [a] feeling of wholeness

[that we lost somewhere]. It is as if they hold

the key to a long-ago kingdom, and all we

have to do is persuade them to unlock the

door. Their failure to do so is one of the main

reasons for our eventual unhappiness.”

No Charlatan Consulting is Grant Wadley

About Me

Educated at Princeton Seminary, Emory’s

Goizueta Business School, and Harvard

University. My training and experience

includes strategic planning, market

research, business modeling, business

planning, advertising strategy, success/life

coaching, and marriage counseling.

NO CHARLATAN CONSULTING 2657 Lenox Rd. NE #204

Atlanta, GA 30324

Relationship Counseling & Family Therapy

No Charlatan Consulting

Mission: to help clients find

extraordinary happiness in

becoming their best.

Need to get below this line

Data

Beliefs/Assumptions

Impact/Feelings

Needs

Solutions/Actions

Esp., “What do you

need from me?”

Contact Info

Phone: 609.422.9539

Email: [email protected]

Website: facebook.com/nocharlatan

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Model of Family Stress

A = stressors: marriage,

restructuring family and

friendships, change in

employment/income, relocating

B = resources: financial, social

support, open communication,

flexibility, emotional connection,

spirituality, habits

C = perception/meaning: making

sense of the stress, reframing the

story, perception of control,

value in the struggle

Examples of Distorted Thinking