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November 24 th , 2007 Dan- Thank you! Love your friends, family and community

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November 24th, 2007

Dan-Thank you!

Love your friends, family and community

THE STORY OF SEUSS

On September 26th, 1991, Morris Adler AZA #1885 conducted a board meeting. Th e 1991 Summer board consisted of Aleph Godol Justin Newman, Aleph S’gan Brian Gitlin, Aleph Moreh Kevin Schwartz, Aleph Corresponding Mazkir Craig Gilford, Aleph Recording Mazkir Doron Holan, Aleph Gizbor Lowell Doppelt, Aleph Sopher Assaf Resnick, Aleph Historian Shotare Stuart Ort, and Aleph Kohen Godol Joel Papo. Some chapter problems were being discussed such as communications, leadership, and non-involvement. We brainstormed and came up with a list of ideas. Big Aleph / Litt le Aleph, co-offi cers, perspective overnights, 4 month terms, committ ee work, start a new chapter, consistent community service events, more informal gatherings, committ ees to call new Alephs, kidnap events, celebrate everyone’s birthday, and create a Mo-Ad council. Of all these ideas, the idea of starting a new chapter sparked something in me. Th is concept has been around for as long as I can remember, and usually I would be the fi rst one to bat it down. Th is time, I thought about it and it sounded like an interesting plan. Aft er the meeting, Dan Appleman (Morris Adler’s Advisor), Brian Gitlin, and I spent a couple of hours pondering the idea. We questioned who would do it and other such technicalities. Th e three of us agreed that shared recruiting territory, which helped add to the failure. Aft er some further discussion, I decided that if it were to happen then I would like to be a part of it. Th e next evening was Advisor Appreciation Night. Aft er the festivities of the evening Jason Doppelt (Th e Council Aleph Moreh and Aleph of Mo-Ad), Brian Gitlin, Dan Appleman, Steve Kline (Mo-Ad’s advisor), and I went back to my house to further explore this concept. At this meeting, Joel Papo and Dan Appleman decided to join this venture. Both Dan and Joel felt that they could do more for the new chapter than they could do for Morris Addler. Th en we discussed some fi ne details. We decided that the base of the new chapter would be in Sunnyvale and Cupertino. Morris Addler Alephs who live there now would have a choice of which chapter they want to be in. Th ey needed to decide by October 20, 1991, the date of elections. Th is was to prevent Alephs from losing an election and then deciding to switch, in spite of AZA. On October 3rd 1991, a regular Morris Adler business meeting was used solely to discuss the new chapter. Two hours of open discussion were followed by an almost unanimous vote. On October 12th, before a Mo-Ad event, all of the Cupertino and Sunnyvale Alephs were invited to discuss a name for the new chapter. We came up with, Joseph Korret AZA, Judea AZA, Natan Yahoo AZA, Moses AZA, Leonard Nernoy AZA, Sammy Davis Jr. AZA, Mel Brooks AZA, and Dr. Th eodor Seuss Geisel AZA. Dr. Seuss was the obvious choice. Th e next step was to compile a list of Mo-Ad Alephs who were interested in switching. Th ey were: Joel Pappo; Brett Kociol; Aloni Kramer; Michael Monarch; Assaf Resnik; Matt Solnit; Alex Scherbakovsky; Adam Lipman; Eyal Soha; Josh Parees; and Justin Newman. Th ey, as well as Josh Kashinsky, Dubi Mor, and Mark Wald, became the charter Alephs of Dr. Th eodor Seuss Geisel AZA#195. Elections came up quickly and the departing Alephs were allowed to vote. I was elected as Aleph Kohen Godol for the Winter 1991-1992 term. Th e following weekend was the Judaism Education Convention. Mo-Ad (including the Seuss men) dressed up at each meal. As far as the council was concerned, we were still a part of MoAd. the fi rst council event that we were and offi cial AZA chapter was at Fraternity Weekend (November 8th-10th, 1991), which was att ended by Seuss Alephs. Th e day aft er JEC was Mo-Ads installation ceremony. Aft er the traditional new board / old board dinner, Morris Addler, JSZ, and parents met at Beth David to conduct the ceremony. Following the installing and uninstalling of the offi cers, we engaged in a spectacular induction ceremony for the Alephs of Dr. Seuss Dan Appleman; our advisor, led a very inspirational and touching induction by fi rst calling myself and Josh Kashkinsky up to the podium. Th is signifi ed the oldest Aleph and the newest Aleph ( Josh joined that evening). Th e two of us lit the rest of the Alephs’ candles as they came up. As the Alephs of Dr. Seuss whole heatedly sung the fi rst offi cial rendition of Seuss on the Loose!, our chapter cheer, Mo-Ad also gave a rousing version of Wam Bam. Th en, both chapters joined together to sing an intense chorus of Up You Men. Th e ceremony was very fraternal and special to the Seuss Alephs. For Tomorrow and Today, Aleph Justin Isaac Newman Founding Aleph

Dearest Dan,

We, the countless individuals that wish to express our utmost appreciation for your selfl ess dedication to our content, would like to extend our gratitude to you for truly doing everything in your power to care solely about those surrounding you while forgetting yourself. In similarity to the Guy Berger story you often relay regarding his forgetting a ride home for himself while arranging rides for the rest of his brother alephs; we are honored to be deemed your lifelong family and friends. Your actions refl ect Guy Berger’s story extended for nearly an entire lifetime, and we are in shock at such an incredibly selfl ess way of life. You have given so much to us all, and it is now our turn to attempt to reward your achievements and the love you have given us with as much recognition as humanly possible. Our attempt at balancing the amount of good you have done for all of us with an equal representation of our endless appreciation is obviously futile, but at least you now know how much of an impact you have made on so many lives – and hopefully this will fuel your passion to continue doing so for hundreds upon hundreds of new Alephs.

This memory book is meant for you to glance at when you are feeling blue, alone, or dismayed. For one short moment in your life, set aside your humility, and realize how much you have meant to each of us. You have provided us with opportunities we could have never imagined, with care we could have never foreseen, and with friendship we could have never earned. Whenever you feel as though your work has gone unappreciated, as though you are disconnected, as though you are no longer necessary – know that such assumptions are horribly incorrect. This book is here to remind you that we will never leave your side, because what you have given us is beyond anything that can be expressed in a physical sense and we are endlessly grateful. We will always be there to represent the good you have done throughout your years, the good you are doing presently, and the good you will continue doing in the future. Your every action is infi nitely appreciated. We love you, please continue making a difference in our lives and the lives of others.

In Honor of Your Selfl ess Actions Yesterday,

And Passionate Dedication to Tikun Olam Everyday,

Your Lifelong Companions for Tomorrow and Today

Dear Dan,

I was never a man of many words, meaningful words at least, so it is hard for me to simply tell you how much I appreciate you. From all the years you made sure we didn’t kill each other at events to all the advice you gave me as Godol, I am forever grateful to your commitment not

only to AZA, but to us the Alephs as well. Your dedication to Dr. Seuss AZA and love of its Alephs are the reason why Seussians are

the greatest in the world.

Thank you Dan, for all of the help you ever gave the chapter, for sticking with us through thick and thin, and thank you for being there for me.

Fraternally,Eran Ben-Zvi

Dr. Seuss AZA #195

Dan has been an inspiration to all. His laid back, nonchalant attitude is what makes Seuss such a great chapter. What he has provided me has been invaluable and I carry the lessons he has taught me to this day. Dan, thank you so much for all your help. I could not have gotten to where I am today

without you.

Adam Rubin

Dear Dan,

We feel very lucky that our son, Roi, got attracted

to Dr. Seuss AZA several years ago and it became

part of his life and his identity. You were a guide,

a mentor, and an inspiration for him. We are very

grateful for that.

Lilia (Lilach) and Alex Bachmutsky

Dear Dan,We’d like to thank you for the great and dedicated job that you are doing with

the AZA boys in general and our son, Ofek, in particular. We can see the results

and appreciate them everyday. You’re an exceptional person, and everything

we’ll write won’t describe how much you give to these boys. We wish you all the best and many more years of great work.

Ko’ Lechai,The Lavian Family

Dan,

You have been instrumental in paving the way for our three children, distilling your value system and inspiring their leadership skills during their AZA membership period. We are sure that they will carry these values and qualities through the rest of their life. Thank you so much for your enormous dedication and contribution to the Dr. Seuss AZA Chapter.

Rachel and Shabtay Matalon

Dan,

When a person enters AZA and decides he wants to become active in his chapter or region, he’ll look to others for guidance and advice so that he may fulfill his goals and aspirations while taking on a leadership role in the organization. To me, you were one of these people. Even though we hailed from separate chapters, our connection didn’t feel that way. Your knowledge not only assisted those inside Dr. Seuss AZA, but anyone who knew well enough to seek your counsel. I can safely say that you have been a role model for me not only during my career in AZA, but throughout my college career thereafter. The values and ethics of hard work and fairness that you gave me are those that I still carry to this day, and they have helped me in fulfilling my dreams of who I want to become in the future. Since it is difficult for me to express my gratitude in words, I will simply say thank you for everything that you’ve taught me and all of the good talks we’ve had,

and I wish you nothing but the best of luck in your future.

Sincerely,Jake Alexander

Regional Aleph Godol 2005-2006

Dan,

Many years have passed since I was in AZA, but the memories are still vivid. Weekly meetings, all night games of Risk, Hebrew high school at Beth David, road trips, founding Dr. Seuss. My time in AZA were magical days, and so much of it

is thanks to you.

Your commitment, your vision, and your patience have given two generations of kids a positive, meaningful Jewish experience that will stay with them for the rest of

there lives. Thank you for everything. You are doing God's work.

Assaf Resnick

Dan,

Your dedication and advice has been much appreciated. Congratulations.

David Taub

Dan,

Thank you. You have made a big difference in my life--as a friend and a mentor, you helped me fi nd my way through adolescence. As an adult, I am beginning to appreciate how signifi cant of a contribution you are making. This contribution does not come without cost and I want you to know that I am truly grateful for

what you’ve given me.

Alex Scherbakovsky

Dan,

You have always been a source of wisdom for me, and for that I am truly thankful.

-Aaron Cohen

Dan,

Congratulations on all you have accomplished. You have personally touched so many lives, the benefi ts of which will only grow over time. On a personal note, thank you for always being

there for me and my family. Your support over the years will always be remembered.

All of my best, Lowell Doppelt

Dear Dan,

When I fi rst joined Seuss, I was a tiny prospective who knew nothing. Immediately, you came up to me and asked who I was and if I’ve been to AZA. My fi rst six months, you’ve helped me with everything, including running for board. During elections, you were the only one who stayed with me, and inspired me to become a leader. I have never looked up to anymore like I have looked up to you.

With great Appreciation,Ben Fastow

Dan,

Despite your constant insistence on not interfering in the chapter; it is quite obvious that you, more than

anybody else, have made Dr. Seuss what it is today. I am sure that I don’t stand alone when I say thank you

for everything. This event is long overdue.

-Yohai

Dear Dan,

You’ve taught me how to speak in front of a crowd. You’ve subtly offered me advice at conventions. You’ve helped me find information that I need. But most of all, you have

inspired the people that have inspired me.

The greatest turning point in my life is when I moved to California at the beginning of my junior year. Once I came to Palo Alto, I could have been completely lost. However, I had BBYO there to help guide me. Although I was already friends with Gabi Kirk and Nathan

Gilford, their friendship could only satisfy me for some time. It was your work in the region that would ultimately guide me to where I would land.

While your help in building Dr. Seuss has showed itself greatly, you also were the one who inspired Tomer Kagan. He has inspired me to push myself so much in BBYO and

beyond as you did years before for him. Never would I have seen myself building such a successful chapter, running for Regional Godol or for International Board. So much of

this has been influenced by you and I am forever thankful to you for it.

What I truly admire is your dedication to teen leadership. So many adults fail to see the untapped potential of teens, but you truly awaken it, no matter how rough of a gem we may be. Because of the skills I have learned from AZA, from you, and from those you

have helped, I have gone much further than I ever thought I would. Thank you Dan for all that you have done, you are truly an inspiration and I hope to see you again sometime

soon.

Fraternally,

Daniel Smolkin Past Aleph Godol of Simon Wiesenthal AZA #2524

Dan exemplifies the best of the best when it comes to advisors in the BBYO organization. His dedication to each and every teen goes well beyond the average advisor. More than anything, Dan is committed to making BBYO and AZA an organization that will develop young Jewish men into up-standing Jewish leaders. On behalf of the International Order of AZA: THANK YOU, DAN!! AZA is a better organization because of you.

--David Adelstein, Area Executive

Director, CRW.

Dan,

Your friendship and guidance have been invaluable to me, especially recently. I hope that you continue to fi nd your involvement with BBYO to be rewarding for both yourself as well as to those whose lives you affect so

positively.

Thanks again for being the leader, mentor

and friend you are.~Jason Prosnitz

We cannot express our gratitude to Dan for all the time he has devoted to the B'nai Brith Youth Organization. I have trouble recalling a regional convention at which I did not see Dan. We must admire Dan for the patience and raw commitment he has given to the youth of our community. Thank you so much, Dan!

Jacob Raskin

Dan, I have known you for just a short time, but I can already say Ihave learned a lifetime's worth of tips, tricks, quips, and lessons to live by. Your wisdom, patience, and wit never cease to amaze me, and I can only begin to show my appreciation for being able to work with, and learn from, you. I hope I have many more years to soak up all you have to offer, and watch many more young Jewish teens grow into smart, passionate, innovative Jewish adults under your leadership.

Enjoy the night. -

Harrison Krat, Mar-Win Advisor

Dear Dan,

We truly appreciate your unparalleled dedication, the valuable role you play in leading the AZA youth, and your

contribution to Tal.

For 5 years you have helped Tal develop his leadership skills. You taught him group organization, listening skills,

public speaking, and confl ict resolution. Tal values your advice and suggestions.

Thank you for the positive infl uence you had on our son!

Yours Truly,Pazit and Yuval Bar-Or

Dan,

Thanks for the consulting, guidance and mentoring you gave my 2 sons Itamar and Yiphtach (Jeff) Haritan. Both are now young men exploring their path in life. They carry great memories from the chapter and from you. I, myself, enjoyed the 3 years I served with you as a chapter advisor. I learned a lot from you and felt I

was contributing to the development of a young generation.

Thanks and regards. Eshel and Lean Haritan

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Dan,Dan,

I will take advantage of this well-warranted occasion to mention some memories from the last seven years and thank you for your contributions to my life.I will take advantage of this well-warranted occasion to mention some memories from the last seven years and thank you for your contributions to my life.My fi rst memory of you is shaking hands at my fi rst event, and receiving your famous line: “Hi, I’m Dan. I do nothing.”My fi rst memory of you is shaking hands at my fi rst event, and receiving your famous line: “Hi, I’m Dan. I do nothing.”

Then it’s all a blur until the JLC prep where I got to talking about programming with Gabe Rocklin, and it turned out he was playing around with Visual Basic Then it’s all a blur until the JLC prep where I got to talking about programming with Gabe Rocklin, and it turned out he was playing around with Visual Basic just like I was, and then Gabe said that actually our advisor Dan Appleman is “kind of a Visual Basic celebrity”. At the time, you were just lying on the couch just like I was, and then Gabe said that actually our advisor Dan Appleman is “kind of a Visual Basic celebrity”. At the time, you were just lying on the couch nearby, and you really were doing nothing. And I remember thinking it was incredible that while I had come to events and been somewhat uncomfortable nearby, and you really were doing nothing. And I remember thinking it was incredible that while I had come to events and been somewhat uncomfortable and bored, the whole time this guy who staffed them and chilled was apparently a renowned expert in exactly the area of my unique and fervent hobby, and bored, the whole time this guy who staffed them and chilled was apparently a renowned expert in exactly the area of my unique and fervent hobby,

computer programming with Visual Basic.computer programming with Visual Basic.

So Gabe and I came and talked to you on the couch as the event was wrapping up, and you gave us a programming challenge – print the factorial of So Gabe and I came and talked to you on the couch as the event was wrapping up, and you gave us a programming challenge – print the factorial of arbitrarily large numbers – which I pondered in the car. When I got home that Saturday night, I excitedly told my dad about you, the challenge, and a crazy arbitrarily large numbers – which I pondered in the car. When I got home that Saturday night, I excitedly told my dad about you, the challenge, and a crazy

scheme I was working on which involved representing a number by putting each of its digits in an array element.scheme I was working on which involved representing a number by putting each of its digits in an array element.

Well, that Wednesday my dad died, so I stayed home from school and I didn’t have much to do except work on that challenge. Also in that week, I Well, that Wednesday my dad died, so I stayed home from school and I didn’t have much to do except work on that challenge. Also in that week, I downloaded AIM for the fi rst time and copied Eyal Matalon’s chapter buddy list, and you went to Japan. When you came back, I IMed you my factorial downloaded AIM for the fi rst time and copied Eyal Matalon’s chapter buddy list, and you went to Japan. When you came back, I IMed you my factorial program. Even though it lacked advanced features such as code indentation and working for inputs beyond 99, you remarked that it was still “damn program. Even though it lacked advanced features such as code indentation and working for inputs beyond 99, you remarked that it was still “damn impressive”. So that was our fi rst IM conversation, which I think is signifi cant to mention not only because you had a real infl uence in my life at that time, impressive”. So that was our fi rst IM conversation, which I think is signifi cant to mention not only because you had a real infl uence in my life at that time, but also because maybe 80% of our interaction has always been online. Also, when you spoke at my life ceremony, you said you hoped we would stay in but also because maybe 80% of our interaction has always been online. Also, when you spoke at my life ceremony, you said you hoped we would stay in

touch and thought it was likely because you had more AIM conversations with me than anyone else. So yeah, that was right.touch and thought it was likely because you had more AIM conversations with me than anyone else. So yeah, that was right.

Four months later, after I ran and lost for Aleph Mach’shev, I was obviously crestfallen, and somewhat coincidentally I didn’t go online the Monday after, so Four months later, after I ran and lost for Aleph Mach’shev, I was obviously crestfallen, and somewhat coincidentally I didn’t go online the Monday after, so on Tuesday you took that as a sign for worry and apparently tried to phone me for the fi rst time. Although I didn’t get the call, we talked on AIM that evening, on Tuesday you took that as a sign for worry and apparently tried to phone me for the fi rst time. Although I didn’t get the call, we talked on AIM that evening, and I was once again occupied with you and your VB programming projects while being sad. Actually I had just fi nished the solitaire game you suggested and I was once again occupied with you and your VB programming projects while being sad. Actually I had just fi nished the solitaire game you suggested

as a challenge, so I sent it to you and you said it was “superb”, and you said I was “defi nitely ready for .NET”.as a challenge, so I sent it to you and you said it was “superb”, and you said I was “defi nitely ready for .NET”.

Throughout my time in AZA, you always had my personal development in mind. I remember one time when you were driving me and some people Throughout my time in AZA, you always had my personal development in mind. I remember one time when you were driving me and some people home, and I was making comical faux pas like still talking about the previous subject of conversation, you just cheerfully said, “we need to work on your home, and I was making comical faux pas like still talking about the previous subject of conversation, you just cheerfully said, “we need to work on your conversation skills”. I remember the fi rst time I went to one of your public speaking workshop events, it was about a year after I joined the chapter, and you conversation skills”. I remember the fi rst time I went to one of your public speaking workshop events, it was about a year after I joined the chapter, and you said you’re confi dent I’ll become ten times better at public speaking than at the time, because I had already become ten times better than when I joined the said you’re confi dent I’ll become ten times better at public speaking than at the time, because I had already become ten times better than when I joined the chapter. I remember the fi rst time you remarked that I had some good leadership abilities, at Daniel Jeung’s event about different cultures. It was because chapter. I remember the fi rst time you remarked that I had some good leadership abilities, at Daniel Jeung’s event about different cultures. It was because I succeeded at making people pay full attention to my AZA program by yelling everything my loudest (and making them vocalize all the punctuation marks I succeeded at making people pay full attention to my AZA program by yelling everything my loudest (and making them vocalize all the punctuation marks

in text).in text).

You’ve been a role model of mine since that JLC prep, and you still are, and I used to take it to the extreme and assume you were perfect. When people You’ve been a role model of mine since that JLC prep, and you still are, and I used to take it to the extreme and assume you were perfect. When people at AZA events would ask that question about what aspects of AZA are important to you, sure I would answer leadership and friendship, but I also thought at AZA events would ask that question about what aspects of AZA are important to you, sure I would answer leadership and friendship, but I also thought an important reason to be involved with AZA was Dan Appleman and computer programming. I remember Lior Gotesman told me at an event that I would an important reason to be involved with AZA was Dan Appleman and computer programming. I remember Lior Gotesman told me at an event that I would grow up to be exactly like you, and that was a great compliment. By the time I was an older member in the chapter, though, I remember that while driving grow up to be exactly like you, and that was a great compliment. By the time I was an older member in the chapter, though, I remember that while driving

some younger members home after a business meeting, I was boasting that I was “old enough to disagree with Dan” on some issues.some younger members home after a business meeting, I was boasting that I was “old enough to disagree with Dan” on some issues.

I really want to thank you for being the ideal advisor and person to talk to when I was a vulnerable teenager preoccupied with computer programming, and I really want to thank you for being the ideal advisor and person to talk to when I was a vulnerable teenager preoccupied with computer programming, and a great friend and advisor even now that I’m old enough to disagree with you.a great friend and advisor even now that I’m old enough to disagree with you.

– Liron Shapira– Liron Shapira

Dear Dan,

We have had the privilege of sending our sons, Nir and Guy, to AZA for 5 of the 18 years that you have been the Dr. Seuss AZA advisor. During these fi ve years your infl uence on Nir and Guy has been very signifi cant. You have always and continue to have the time and patience for them, and continuously know the right advice to give them. You know when to encourage them, inspire and reassure them and also when to comfort them and

give them a shoulder to lean on.

Dan, you are an amazing inspiration to all! We thank you from the bottom of our hearts for your dedication towards making Dr. Seuss such a successful chapter and for setting such a remarkable example to our children. Both Nir and Guy are deeply inspired by you and we feel very fortunate to know that Guy still has a few more years to have you as his AZA advisor!

Best regards,Taryn and Yair Hadas

Dan, I remember the “Goin’ Mobile” trip my first summer in BBYO. Only a few of us went on that trip and I think it was the highlight of the summer for all of us. When we visited Pinnacles National Monument you had us do an activity where we each found our own space in the wilderness and spent some time there by ourselves, thinking. My spot was on top of a large boulder by a wide open area. To this day, that is still my spot. I think of it when I am feeling introspective and I imagine I am there during The Amidah

at Shabbat services.

Thank you for everything you did for me and for everyone else whose life you touched in BBYO. I am sure you know what a profound impact you had on all of us as we were growing and trying to figure out who we were. Your guidance and commitment changed our worlds and, consequently, you have changed the world

as a whole.

Thank you.

-Ilan Spieler

Dan,

Thank you!

Sharoan, Perry, Michael, Daniel Jeung

Dan,

Only a great man can donate time, energy, and wisdom like you do. You change kid’s lives and that’s incredible. You have our deep

appreciation.

Ido Waissman and Family

Dear Dan

First and foremost: Thank you for your dedication and the countless hours you have spent during the past years to encourage, inspire and chaperone the members of Dr. Seuss AZA. As parents we are immensely grateful that our sons have such a powerful leader, who, although he sees his role to be in the background, nevertheless is one of the central points

of the chapter.

Every year an all-new generation of freshmen joins and the familiar faces of the seniors disappear, yet what remains like a beacon is Dan Appleman.

It is amazing how you never tire to welcome the many new members into the chapter and every six months you go through the induction rituals of a new board with the same

enthusiasm as if it were the very fi rst time.

You take a moment to refl ect on how to best bestow a new board position on a member, you always fi nd a few special words of encouragement and point out the value this particular Aleph could add to the particular position he is going to hold. And by taking the members and the organization seriously, you convey to them their signifi cance, you make their

contribution meaningful, and thus they strive to give their very best.

Countless boys have entered the chapter as insecure freshmen and left as confi dent seniors, equipped with leadership skills they will use for the rest of their lives.

Thank you for watching over our sons and for providing a safe environment for them to grow up. You let them be themselves, make mistakes, laugh, learn, be sad and be happy. We wish that in return you may have received a wider insight into life and its mysteries, found joy, meaning and comfort in the trust the boys and their parents place in you, and have witnessed a growth all of your own so that your life is equally enriched by the experience.

We hope that you will be the trusted advisor of Dr. Theodore Seuss Geisel AZA #195 for many more years to come.

With warm regards and best wishes for the future,

Jacqueline and Yoram Arbel, parents of Ron (Moreh, winter term 2007)

Dear Dan,

Even though I have only known you for about a year now, I had a great time talking with you and figuring things

out about the chapter that my past brother has done too. Past events that I have been to, were always made much more fun with your small sub-events like the time with all the other perspectives and the quiz show. I really have enjoyed this

year so far and I will hope it will never end. I hope that you will be healthy and will be coming to the next events as far as the years will come or at least until I have my life. As I said earlier I had I good time and hoped you will have a good time

in this chapter Dr. Seuss Geisel AZA #195.

With great Appreciation,Jonathan Ben-tzur

Dan is one of the most amazing people I have ever met. Whether it was teaching at Hebrew High or staffing conventions and dances Dan was always there making impressions on people’s lives. Even though I wasn’t a member of Seuss I still feel as if Dan had an impact on me. His Hebrew High classes (starting with Random Acts of Mindness) were the best classes I ever took at Beth David and truly helped me open my mind and become a creative thinker. One of the many great things about Dan was that he was always able to connect with everyone he met and make them feel like they were an equal to him, regardless of age differences. Dan was and is one of the best listeners and givers and advice I have ever known. The best thing about him is that he is always willing to learn and try new things and has always been open to hearing other people’s opinions regardless of how he may truly feel about them. Dr. Seuss AZA could not ask for a better adviser. Dan has been there since the beginning of Seuss and he is as much a part of CRW (if not more so) then anyone else in this region. I hope that Dan remains part of BBYO and CRW for as long as is humanly possible for my sake as an adviser and for the sake of all the people who will eventually be teenagers in this region whom he has yet to guide

and mold.

Josh Rosenberg

Hey Dan,

You have always been there for everyone and for me at the drop of a hat. It never mattered what it was that we needed help with, you were always glad to do it. Be it housing an event, being a reference, editing a paper, or just being there to talk to. You have helped shape and change who I am in more ways than one. Obviously with your help, AZA has helped me become more open, more of a leader and all of those wonderful things AZA does for you. But also just your recommendations. We talked once about summer camps and how I was considering being a counselor but I was never sure. You recommended that I should look into Camp Tawonga, and I decided to take your advice and never looked back. My time at Tawonga has defi nitely been once in a life time, and I would never have had those times with out your help. Thank you for everything. You’ve always been so approachable, and you’ve always said the right things at the right time (whether you knew of it or

not). It’s always been appreciated.

Iv Godzdanker

Thank you for helping me when I needed it most. You were always the best at knowing when to approach and offer advice and when to stand back and let us figure out what had to be done on our own. I wish that you will have only the best in

your life, as you have given the best to Dr. Seuss. Thank you.

Lev Ravkin

Dan,

I remember one of your favorite proverbs as being, "He who saves one life, it is as if he saves the world entire." If that indeed is so, then it follows that the same holds true for the man who betters a life, also. I can think of no fi ner way of expressing to you the impact you've had on generations of young Alephs than to say that this universe is full of worlds that you've bettered - and this, if nothing else, stands testament

to the scale of your character.

Thanks for the guidance, the fun, and the memories,

Jay Donde

Dr. Seuss AZA #195 1997-2001

Dear Dan,

Thank you very much for all that you do for AZA and especially for making our son Leahd feel welcome and accepted. You’ve done a big Mitzvah

for Leahd.

Wishing you all the best that life can offer, with lots of gratitude and admiration,

Sigal Ziv and Leahd Lipkin

Dear Dan,

Your devotion & commitment to guiding our sons Omer, Eran & Oded and countless other young Jewish teens within the AZA community will always be appreciated & remembered.

Sincerely,The Cedars

Dear Dan,

It is a pleasure and a privilege. Tikun Olam rarely presents itself so clearly.

All the best,Naomi

Dear Dan,

I see you almost every Saturday in AZA. I have already gotten used to you and think that you are a really cool guy. Hope you like this party

and I will see you soon.

Sincerely,Miki Landver

Dan,

My favorite part about you, is your patience, and your open mindedness. Because of this, I have spent all of my chofesh's at conventions just talking to you. I have never enjoyed talked to someone so much as with you. These talks we have had, have put you as one of my most respected people. Your values and integrity are to be looked up to and respected. You truly see the importance of fraternity. My little brother is also named Dan, and I hope he will grow up to be like you.

Roy Iacob

Dan,

Although I haven't known you for too long, you have already truly made a huge difference in my life. With you, there is always somebody to talk to, not only for help and advice, but also just for a friendly chat. Thank you very much for

everything!

-Dor Carpel

Dan,

You have had an incredibly positive influence on my life growing up. You taught me how to think critically, how to listen, and how to simply be a good person. I highly value your role in this chapter, and I

will never cease admiring you for what you do.

Thank you,Nir Matalon1995 - 2000

Dan,

You are such an amazing man! For many years I could not give anyone an example of a man who stood by his loved ones in times of adversity. You set the standard for me and I can’t thank you enough. You have loved and stood by me and my son, Luke as if we were your own and that means more to me than I can ever express. Thank you so much for being who you are and setting such a wonderful example to all the young

people in our lives.

I love you,Karyn

Dan,

I’m sure this book is filled with enough praise to keep you reading for quite a while, so I’ll

keep it short. I just wanted to say thank you. Thank you for dedicating your life to BBYO and to Jewish youth. Whether you know it or not, your devotion has shaped many of our

lives.

Omer Friedman

Dan,

As I have gotten older I now realize the amazing commitment that you made to enrich the lives of hundreds of young men and teach them about responsibility and ethics. The lives of all of us who passed through Dr. Seuss have been changed for

the better through your efforts. Thank you.

Sincerely, Ohr Shottan

Dan,

Its been about 10 years from when I first met you. Since then I have known you as an advisor, a mentor, and finally a friend. I can not express how much I appreciate our friendship and the long chats we’ve had over the years. You’ve been there for me during my awkward youth and my aspiring adulthood, always making sure I don’t make too many mistakes. I don’t think I would have turned out the person I am today without all your guidance and support. My dedication to advising is a way to appreciate all your work and in your own words, try to pay forward all I have gained. I look forward to many more years of deeply respected friendship and many more years of knowing regardless of how bad things

seem, you’re always there.

Tomer Kagan

Hey Dan,

I just wanted to say thank you for everything you have done for me and this chapter. If it weren’t for you, I would not be

living as purely as I am living now. You have provided count-less amounts of knowledge and advice for me, and for that I greatly thank you. I hope you have a wonderful life, and do

what you enjoy.

May you live well and long.-Ron Arbel

Dear Dan,

I can’t sum up in words how much you’ve helped me surpass challenges through out my AZA career. Not only inside of AZA, but in everything. And you didn’t only help me, but you helped

plenty of other teenagers with your advise. All I’d like to say is thank you and I hope that you enjoyed this night because you deserved it.

Thanks again,

Or Reznichky

Dear Dan,

You are undoubtedly one of the greatest influences on my life. Whenever I am brought to think about my role models, I instantly think of you. From understanding other people’s viewpoints to following your passions, you have taught me much more than I could have ever learned in school. I am greatly thankful for all your advice and help throughout my AZA years. I am constantly astounded by your dedication and devotion to AZA and its youth. I doubt there is anyone else on Earth that has so positively and deeply influenced as many teenage lives as you. Of course, our relationship didn’t end along with the end of my AZA career. You remain a great friend; always ready to listen and inspire. Your golden advice still influences me every day, and forever will.

Thank you for so many years of advising, mentoring, and friendship,Tal Bar-Or

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Dear Dan,

You are undoubtedly one of the greatest influences on my life. Whenever I am brought to think about my role models, I instantly think of you. From understanding other people’s viewpoints to following your passions, you have taught me much more than I could have ever learned in school. I am greatly thankful for all your advice and help throughout my AZA years. I am constantly astounded by your dedication and devotion to AZA and its youth. I doubt there is anyone else on Earth that has so positively and deeply influenced as many teenage lives as you. Of course, our relationship didn’t end along with the end of my AZA career. You remain a great friend; always ready to listen and inspire. Your golden advice still influences

me every day, and forever will.

Thank you for so many years of advising, mentoring, and friendship,Tal Bar-Or

Wow Dan,

First off, congratulations on this great achievement! I’m sure looking back over the years it’s hard to imagine what a difference you made for so many people, and how you put in so much time and effort to help out such a great chapter. However, everyone knows that without you, Dr. Seuss would never have reached what it was throughout the years, and what it is now. I remember after being in the chapter as a prospective for a really long time, there was a certain

event at the Friedman’s where my long awaiting dream came true. I don’t recall who was Godol at the time, but the both of you decided that I can fi nally become a member, even though I was much younger than everyone and still in 7th grade. I knew that this decision would not be regretted. Throughout all the years you were always there in the good times and even the bad (which comparing to other chapters, was really not so bad.) I’ve always wondered what it would be like to see everything from your standpoint. Watching not only the chapter grow throughout the years, but also the individuals that were making the chapter what it was and is today. Seeing how someone that was once a small quiet 8th grader,

now standing up and speaking out, with almost everyone listening attentively. This always brings me back to business meetings. Everyone at one point or another disrupts, or doesn’t listen to what’s going on up front or around. Of course when you have the fl oor and are trying to maintain order you take it to heart, and see how different things are from the other side of the table. But one thing will always stick in mind, whenever Dan would get up to speak at the long awaited advisor report…silence. Everyone around knew to shut up and listen up, nothing had to be said, not from the Godol and not from the people around you. Every speech that you gave had meaning, and always brought out a new way to look at a situation. It didn’t matter if it was directly chapter related, or something completely random, because in the end it was your presence and how you conveyed the message that had people take in every little bit. And even as you would sit back down, in such a relaxed way and business would continue

as usual, there would be a moment when the eerie silence was priceless. You always used to explain to the parents that as an advisor you weren’t running the chapter, and that the Alephs were putting everything together. This is very true, but still to this day I believe that you have made a huge difference in how this chapter looks, whether it is your caring so much for this order and what it stands for, or just by you being the most experienced advisor not only in the region but I am willing to bet in the whole order, gives Dr. Seuss such a huge advantage. You have seen almost everything, and been there every step along the way.

Good for you Dan! I wish you the best of luck, and hope that you continue doing what you do best in years to come. Once again congratulations on the Lifetime Recognition Achievement, you deserve this

title and so much more. Your Friend,

Yagil Beinglass

Dan,

I feel a little bit odd taking up space in this book with others who have known you for years longer than I have; they have had more time to get to know you, learn from you, and truly appreciate how fortunate they are to have you as a part of their lives. I’m sure they have many more stories to tell, many more experiences to reminisce about, and a far greater number of memories to remind you

of and share with you.

The magnitude of the impact that you’ve had on those you have encountered over the years you have been working with our organization is immeasurable. Given the number of interactions each person has with others in a day, and that every interaction has some form of impact on both people, it’s mind-boggling to process the kinds of effects eighteen years worth of interactions would have. Supposing those interactions were manifested in a positive environment, by a person with good intentions, high intellect, great insight and the deepest level of caring, and they were directed towards those who respect the source of the interaction and learn, grow and develop as a result of the interactions, it becomes virtually impossible to quantify the amount of good that one person

has done. Gosh Dan, when I stop and think about it, you’re pretty damn amazing.

I don’t even have to think of cases where I have seen you work your magic either (of which there are plenty just in the last few months). Watching the lengths to which these guys were willing to go to show you how much they appreciate you was clear evidence of how much you have affected each of their lives, not only because they have worked so hard, but also realizing that the skills they have acquired to produce such an affair are largely attributable to your teaching and training. Furthermore, on a personal level, I can honestly say, even in the short time I’ve been here, that I have also had the opportunity to appreciate your wisdom, your insight and your willingness to listen. I truly appreciate your openness and your honesty and though I know your dedication is primarily to the teens (as it should be), you have still made me feel that you are also concerned for my success and my well-being, and as a professional who is relatively new, and still a little unsure

of herself, I cannot even begin to tell you how much that means to me.

So, can I sign you on for eighteen more?

Thank you for everything.

Jill

Dan,

We would like to thank you on the great work you are doing with the AZA chapter for so many years. You are giving a very good support for the kids in the teen years which many times they do not want us, parents around them. Your support to the kids is behind the chapter, helping with college and job decisions and recommendation letters. We are thanking specifically for the

support you gave to our son Ran and we are sure you will be there for our son Yonatan too.

Thank you,Tzvi & Mira Ben-Tzur

Thank you very much for the time and heart you are putting into the future generation. It is great to see you doing this 'holy' work, I hope you will continue this wonderful work for at least after all my kids will enjoy the benefi ts of Dr. Seuss AZA 195. I also hope to see you in more and more fun

stuff like trips and parties like this one.

Kudos from the Dor's

Dear Dan, You are an inspiration. I know you have heard that billions of times but Oh my god. If only you knew how you changed my life. Every word you have ever spoken to me has made me a better person. Do you know why you are my role model? The reason is for fourteen years I knew what I wanted. I wanted to change some ones life for the better. I wanted to do it to one person but you multiplied that by 500. Every Saturday, Sunday, and every other Wednesday, you devote your time for what I know. Why? Because you want to change people to become better people. What I am mainly saying is that I truly couldn’t have a better

role model, inspiration, and friend.

Thank you, Guy Hadas

Dan,

Whenever someone mentions AZA, we think of Dr. Seuss; whenever we think of Dr. Seuss, you are it. The AZA has been part of our life for 6 years now, since Eyal joined; and you have always been there, in the background, like a guardian angel, making sure they do not slip too badly. Eyal was a very egocentric boy before he joined the AZA, and he has changed a lot since. I know you will say: “This is not my doing, it is the AZA experience itself”; but, I don’t think he would have changed that much without you. He never shared with us his experiences in the AZA, but I am sure you spent many hours talking to him, and for that we are grateful. Alon was a shy and quiet boy when he joined Dr. Seuss; he really didn’t want to follow in his brother footsteps, but he followed because we pushed him and because all his friends did. The change he went through, especially after he became S’gan, is amazing; he became confi dent, commanding and very self assured. I am sure that every parent to a Dr. Seuss aleph has a similar story to tell. You told us on several occasions that this chapter stands out among other AZA chapters; a major part of that is you. This chapter could not have achieved what they have without your presence, support and help. I know this sound like a farewell speech, but, actually, we hope you will still be with us when

Amir will join Dr. Seuss, in 3 years.

Wishing you all the best, and keep up this amazing work,

Tami and Arie Mazor

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Hey Dan, If I was in a jail cell somewhere, in trouble, in a bad place; you are one of the fi rst people I would call for help. You seem like the kind of person who is genuinely interested in others' wellbeing. When we talk it feels like you actually care, and this quality is apparent to everyone who talks to you. I wish you the best, and thank you for being such an amazing infl uence in the lives of hundreds of growing teens. Oh, and don't forget that you're not as old as you think you are. I've seen the young, playful, giddy Dan; the one that yells, "Leaping lemur!" at everyone with a huge smile on his face. That Dan is a pretty cool guy - you should

let more people get to know him.

Sincerely,

Aaron Szteinbaum

Dear Dan,

You’ve taught me how to speak in front of a crowd. You’ve subtly offered me advice at conventions. You’ve helped me find information that I need. But most of all, you have inspired the people that have inspired me.

The greatest turning point in my life is when I moved to California at the beginning of my junior year. Once I came to Palo Alto, I could have been completely lost. However, I had BBYO there to help guide me. Although I was already friends with Gabi Kirk and Nathan Gilford, their friendship could only satisfy me for some time. It

was your work in the region that would ultimately guide me to where I would land.

While your help in building Dr. Seuss has showed itself greatly, you also were the one who inspired Tomer Kagan. He has inspired me to push myself so much in BBYO and beyond as you did years before for him. Never would I have seen myself building such a successful chapter, running for Regional Godol or for International

Board. So much of this has been influenced by you and I am forever thankful to you for it.

What I truly admire is your dedication to teen leadership. So many adults fail to see the untapped potential of teens, but you truly awaken it, no matter how rough of a gem we may be. Because of the skills I have learned from AZA, from you, and from those you have helped, I have gone much further than I ever thought I would. Thank you Dan for all that you have done, you are truly an inspiration and I hope to see you again sometime

soon.

Fraternally,

Daniel Smolkin

Past Aleph Godol of Simon Wiesenthal AZA #2524 Past Regional Moreh of CRW AZA #45

What can I write to say my thanks?Words cannot do the halfTo mark our youth group GreyhameA moustache for a staffA teacher and a friend in equalExpect this of our DanIf apple is the fruit of wisdomOf course he is the Appleman

From Dan I learned that time will fl exFor those who see the presentOne makes time for that which matters- Otherwise it doesn’t

And demo’ed, Dan did, how to listen‘Stead of simply how to hearWith chance to speak-all to anotherOthers their own head set clear

Was Dan who always know the difference‘Tween teenager and childRespect the young (all faults included)

–The universe will dig your styleShe’ll grant you many years to spendAnd keep you ageless all the while

Surely I will not forgetHow Dan tried spread the rumor(While preaching Bab’lon 5and making puns of tumors)That Truth lies at the intersectOf sci-fi and of humor

And Dan I watched a-wonderingPerplexed by endless patienceThe stress that egged and fed my edgeWould wilt before his prescience

But constantly the trouble risesForced to ‘splain how one advisesBy masses, as they do, amassingAll the while synced in askingHe does nothing? Is it true?What, exactly, does he do?He just sits and talks with you?And drives you from a place, or to?Well, we’d say, its simpler yetThere’s really not much there to get:- At home we have our dads -- In here we have our Dan -And if they tried as hard as shouldMatch our Dan they never couldLet me offer one small sampleOne of ample such examples:Was taking up my senior yearMy time in Seuss was coming nearA trip would be a fi nal link…Tokyo’s very far from here…

‘Elders’ said to me, “Why bother?The fun in Greece is much more funnerAnd hipper, yeah, so I would thinkYou ought to take them to another”And when I posed it next to Dan:“Can we travel to Japan?”He looked at me and didn’t blink“Why not?” he shrugged, “Of course you can.”

And who could know what course he’d followWhat subtle greatness, proud acclaimAnd what would be the point of askingWould this have been at all the same?- The Doctor wouldn’t be the Doctor- The patients legs would come out lame- And Seuss would not be Seuss at allIn all respects but place and nameAnd all respect to us who cameWas Dan who coached us in this gameFrom sidelines helped it rise to fameAnd fed the torch with his own fl ameAnd guided it from near to farMore in himself than in his carWas Dan who gave a constant liftAnd was, in short, our greatest gift.Thanks, Dan.

-Gilad

ToDan

Dr. Seuss AZA turned me from a nobody into a leader, and Dan Appleman is more responsible for this than anyone else. His hands-off approach -- letting the Alephs make the decisions -- was the perfect catalyst for channeling their contributions into a coherent, extremely

successful leadership-training (and Jew-training!) organization.

Guy Berger

Dan,

You have always been there for the chapter and for any Aleph who needed advice. I have no doubt you are one of the main reasons Dr. Seuss has been so successful.

Thank you for your dedication.

Jonathan Solnit

Dan,

It’s been almost a year and a half since I parted ways with AZA, the single most important thing that characterized my high school career. In a year and a half, so much has changed for me; I moved away to college, made new amazing friends, and strengthened existing friendships. However, I fi nd that more than anything, since I’ve left AZA, I’ve drifted, and that’s a good thing. I’ve grown into a different person, and though I no longer play an active part in the chapter, the chapter still plays an active part in me.

When I was in the chapter, everything felt great; opportunities presented themselves left and right, and I’m glad to say that I took advantage of those opportunities. As a member, I greatly improved my abilities and skills as a leader and collaborator, but now, as I refl ect on my time in AZA, I realize that I’ve gained much more than simply a collection of useful skills and abilities.

Dr. Seuss AZA has molded me into the person I am today. It is because of AZA that I view society, and my place within it with a critical eye. It is AZA that instilled in me a great passion: a passion for friendships, a passion to never simply accept the status quo, and most importantly, a passion to live happily. It all seems sort of cliché, but to be honest, while I’ve had fun in college over the past year and a half, I’ve also faced some tough times. The sort of pain that lingers at the gut, as if to fi ll some void inside us has become so familiar to me at times. But, just as life moves on, so must we; as I’ve grown and had time to refl ect on my experience in Dr. Seuss, I learned that it was not the life skills and leadership opportunities that kept me coming back to AZA. It was the people, and the in which they changed my outlook on life.

I know you don’t like taking credit for the greatness of this chapter, always attributing the success of Dr. Seuss to its alephs, but Dan, you are a part of Dr. Seuss AZA. Though I didn’t really speak to you when I was a younger aleph (you did seem somewhat intimidating at fi rst, perhaps it was the scruffy beard), you always treated me like a brother aleph. As an older member looking to get more out of AZA, you were once again, a brother aleph, offering advice, and setting examples. But the most important thing I learned from you came during one of my last events, just as I graduated senior year. The event was coming to a close with a good and welfare and as I was listening to my friends speak everything crashing down all at once. The realization that I wont be coming to AZA anymore left me feeling empty. I went off to the side and let my thoughts wander, and with every second the void in me kept getting bigger. I was horribly afraid of losing my friends; the thought of everyone going their separate ways kept eating away at me uncontrollably, and I felt helpless. When you came over to my side, you were no longer the advisor of Dr. Seuss AZA, you were a friend extending a helping hand and I couldn’t have asked for more. You assured me that though my time in AZA is all but gone, the people will always be there, and you were right. That night, I learned that change, and the heartache that sometimes comes along with it is always worth fi ghting through because there are always good times to be had with good people, and really, there’s nothing better than that.

Dr. Seuss AZA has given me so much, but Dan, your outlook on life and your way of doing things played such an important roll in shaping me into the person I am today, and it feels damn good to say that I am happy with who I am.

Lior Hadar

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'll never forget my fi rst real conversation with an adult. Certainly I had spoken with adults before (or, rather, had been spoken to). But it was during one event, early in my time in AZA, that I was getting a ride from Dan Appleman when he struck up an earnest conversation with me.

“So, what do you want to do when you grow up?”

I wasn't really prepared to answer such a direct, yet simple question. I stammered, “Uh... I guess something that I don't mind doing... that makes good money.”

Dan did not mince words: “That's really depressing.”

It took me a while to get over my shock of talking with an adult as if we were peers. Thus began a dialog with someone who, over time, would become a mentor of mine. In our subsequent talks, he explained to me how is very life was one lived where he pursued his dreams, and his pursuits in turn brought him joy. This is something that he instilled in me, and its something that I hope has taken root in many other youth that he has advised.

I truly looked up to Dan as a model of good behavior and purpose, and a wise & patient confi dant. He made himself available to me, and over the years hundreds of Jewish teenagers, both in and out of organized events. Not just devoting himself as a staff / advisor for a Jewish youth group (it merely started there), Dan made himself available to us almost around the clock, whether at home or at work. And he was willing to fi eld and discuss anything from leadership skills, to private matters, and all the while treating you with respect and taking you seriously.

Many a more eloquent writer and those with a stronger personal bond with Dan will write and fi ll these pages lovingly with such words of praise and declarations of his virtues. They are all true. I will spare you my inadequate attempts, and perhaps share an anecdote.

I recall a time when Dan felt that he had a very tenuous connection to Dr. Seuss AZA. The original Alephs that compelled him to start advising for MoAd were long gone, and he was feeling contemplative about his role as advisor. It's easy for someone as steadfast and dedicated as Dan to become taken for granted by a group of unruly Jewish teens. Around the same time in high school, my class was going over various philosophies, and this declaration, which I had signed by all Alephs present at a business meeting (with many an apology to Jefferson and Rousseau), makes it painfully obvious:

We, the Alephs, of Chapter Doctor Theodor Seuss Geisel of the Grand Order of the Aleph Zadik Aleph, hold these truths to be self-evident, that in the course of human affairs, the freedom and the responsibility of the individual man is called into question. All men are born free, yet in the face of convention and time, he is in chains. In the role of the advisor, undoubtedly a man by both regard and virtue, one cannot, under any pretext whatsoever, be subjugated to the masses without his own consent. Yet the association of Alephs have at a time come forth to this Advisor, Daniel Sigmund Appleman, to ask of him the honor of his presence and the dignity of his station to serve Dr. Theodor Seuss Geisel AZA. In order to insure the well being of the general will, we offer some of our rights as freemen to the greater good of the community, in that we may fl ourish as a brotherhood of men. In return, we ask that for our recognized consent, that our advisor, Daniel Sigmund Appleman accept our reverence and esteem for him, as a responsible member of our society. In turn, he is expected to be solely for the good of the Chapter, so far as it does not trample upon his own inalienable rights.

All those Alephs in concord, please adorn this document with your signature:

The point was to reaffi rm, consciously and publicly, that we as the current constituent of Alephs did in fact appreciate, respect, and treasure the personal investment that Dan Appleman put into Dr. Seuss AZA, and more importantly, into all of our lives.

For all of us assembled here, today, to honor this man; for his commitment to the lives of young people, to instilling Jewish values in them, and for working so tirelessly to support the youth programming that keeps them among the Children of Israel: may this holy congregation constitute a minyan not unlike that gathered by Ezra the Scribe, when he read aloud the entire Torah to the Children of Israel as they rededicated the rebuilt city of Jerusalem, and themselves as devoted Jews. Here we stand in awe of a man who built, brick by brick, a community around him, and the foundations of the lives of countless young men and women. We gather and stand to rededicate ourselves to the Jewish ethics, values, and morals that Dan himself holds dear and exhibits in his words and deeds.

Tomer Altman

Dan always seemed enthusiastically engaged at events whether by an uproarious Seuss cheer erupting in the park, a group of alephs coming up with a creative program that had never been done before, an aleph who needed a friend, or by a thick sci-fi thriller. His passion for seeing others succeed as individuals and as a group was so apparent to me, as Dan was subtly determined to ensure that each member looked introspectively at themselves, and analyzed what they wanted to achieve in AZA. As a young aleph, I can remember numerous times at conventions, events, and sometimes hours after events where Dan and I would sit and chat, whether about leadership in AZA, life challenges, or just for the sake of chatting. He would often assert that my peers really looked up to me as a leader of the chapter and would be delighted to see me take on a more signifi cant role in the chapter. However, Dan never once put pressure on me to take on a role before I was ready, assuring me that I could take on leadership at my own pace. Each program I planned, no matter how simple or short, was met with a genuine and thoughtful compliment and congenial smile after it’s conclusion which truly made me feel valued as a contributor to Seuss’s greatness. It was this reinforcement and the genuine interest that Dan showed week in and week out in the growth of each Aleph that set a precedent for the emergence of my determination to become a chapter leader. I will never forget the trust walk and Jewish Kaballah (meditation) program I planned with John Sohn for a brotherhood camping trip. Dan pulled me aside and enthusiastically told me that it was one of the most creative Jewish cultural programs he had seen in the chapter. If it wasn’t for Dan patiently waiting for me to realize the impact I could have on my peers and on my own development, I may never have developed vital leadership skills and realized

how important AZA and Dr. Seuss were to me.

Aaron Nankin

Dan, You have been a great friend for as long as I can remember. Our friendship started through our families as they have known each other from about the day I was born in 1966. I can remember spending many afternoons at your parent’s house before you moved to Israel, visiting you and your family (1975) in Israel (seeing my fi rst bomb shelter), having you and your father live with us when you returned from Israel (I remember you and your father building a Heath Kit) while waiting for the rest of your family to arrive, spending many days at your family’s house once you were settled in La Habra (seeing my fi rst PC and watching a Muhammad Ali fi ght), going to Camp K., your coming to my Bar Mitzvah, going to amusement parks, spending time with you at UCI (playing my fi rst video games, watching ON TV with the decoder you built in the early 80’s), working together at Adot Noar, driving me to UCB for my fi rst days in college, spending weekends at your place in Scotts Valley (getting away from the hectic student life), going to Mensa parties, living on your fl oor after college saving for my fi rst house/condo, your coming to Melissa’s and my wedding, your coming to both of my daughter’s Bat Mitzvahs and Confi rmations, some sad times when your father passed away, and many good times having lunch together. In other words, you have been a big, infl uential part of my life in so many ways. I am amazed by how much you have done with your energy and how much you have given back. You truly are a role model for how to live life with balance, serenity and happiness. I know that is why everyone is here tonight. It is an honor and really a privilege to have you as a part of my life and I look forward to many, many more years of friendship. With great admiration, Elliott Dan, you are such a blessing to so many people, and I want to be part of this occasion to honor you and your work. You did such a simple thing almost 20 years ago: you let Elliott sleep in your guest room for a few months while he settled into his new post-college life as a Silicon Valley techie in the fall of 1988. By being able to stay with you he was able to save his fi rst few months of paychecks and then use them as a down payment on a condominium he purchased in March of 1989. Elliott lived there with me once we were married in November of 1989. By the spring of 1993 there were too many of us to fi t in that place so we bought our fi rst house, using the proceeds from the sale of that condominium. Later we left that house and moved to our current home in Los Altos, allowing us to send our kids to excellent schools and live in a wonderful neighborhood. None of that would have been possible had Elliott not had the chance to save that fi rst nest egg by staying with you. You helped him, but you really made four lives better. I am certain that in small, everyday encounters and little acts of generosity, with greater effect than you are often even aware of yourself, you have brought goodness to many, many more lives besides mine and Elliott’s. When you look up mensch in the dictionary, the defi nition says: “A person having admirable characteristics, such as fortitude and fi rmness of purpose.” You are a stellar example of a mensch, an admirable man, leading a life of great value and purpose. I

feel blessed to know you, and wish you all the best.

Melissa Thomson-Capsuto

I have so many fond memories of Dan it's hard to even know where to begin, honestly...To be quite frank, high school and my teen years in general were not always the easiest of times. I'd always been an intuitive boy but I had also had a rather rebellious and creative side that did not fit the status quo. One of the few people that led me through this turbulent time was Dan. Whereas many adults always felt -- and still feel -- like they have or had an answer to every question, Dan was wise enough to understand the merits of listening before responding. He'd never patronize...never bluff...he'd just listen, let you complete your sentence, and offer unobstructed and objective solutions based on how he saw things. To this day, many of us still remember the board meeting dinners Dan would prepare for us at his house off Hamilton Ave. Whether it was garlic bread, spaghetti, or sandwiches, Dan would always take that extra step to create cohesion between the Alephs of Dr. Seuss. We'd play Axis and Allies, we'd watch The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, and we'd talk Homer Simpson philosophy. Hell...Dan provided a lot of fellow Seussians with their first jobs packing envelopes at Desaware! In between all of this, he even had time to teach a weekly class at "Hebrew High" that would often sell-out faster than a Rolling Stones rock concert. On a personal level, there were many-a-time where Dan would drive me home back from events and we would talk about school, the chapter and my place in life as a disillusioned teen with a funny name in what seemed like a foreign world of football and fellows named Frank...not Yinon. Dan encouraged me to seek higher office in the organization, believing in my abilities at a time when I felt like no one else would. Although I was reluctant at first, I did so eventually and to this day see it as easily one of the five best decisions of my life. He also helped me in planning the logistics for the first trip I'd ever helped coordinate for Dr. Seuss -- that of the Gold Country in California. To this day, I am thankful for his support because were it not for him I may not have become the proud man that I am today. Dan has been an indispensable part of not only Dr. Seuss AZA #195, but of the entire Jewish Bay Area community and arguably the entire American Jewish populous. He really has mattered THAT much. Being as humble and modest and he usually is, he'll also be the first to deny it...but his influence is, indeed, undeniable. The man is an absolute legend -- the Ed Sullivan of Advisors, The Beatles of rock bands, the Rothschild of Jewish philanthropy ...It's a testament to his clear-eyed and calculated direction that Dr. Seuss has sailed through the rocky sea of time unscathed, intact and with a bounty of ever-growing treasures: consistent Chapter of the Year and Henry Monsky awards, globally large membership, and some of the highest caliber alumni (well with the exception of riff-raff like myself...) to set foot in both the public and private sectors. I'm honored to have known the man for as long as I have and honestly feel really, really bad for the person that will eventually have to fill his

insurmountable shoes. Dan, I wish you all the best in life. You truly deserve it.

Forever an Aleph of Dr. Theodor Seuss Geisel AZA #195,

Yinon Bar-Shir

Dear Dan,Looking back, some memories have withstood the test of time… mostly the ones I have tried hardest to forget. You were there when I led the chapter in collecting urine for the girls’ meeting next-door. This great success endowed me with the self-confidence and inspiration necessary to steal the girls’ gavel at the international meeting. We haven’t talked in years, but I want you to know that my streak of victories continues to this day.I once introduced you to a pledge. I said, “This is Dan. He’s our adviser, but he’s mainly here for insurance.” You shrugged and nodded, but I instantly regretted saying it. I often reflect on the poignancy of that moment when I think about the impact you have had in shaping my character. I turned out all right, by the way. No D.U.I.’s!Thank you for giving me space when you knew I crossed the line. Thank you for treating me like an adult when I was a child. You are a great man, and you are remembered.

All my best,

Yair Ben-Efraim

Dan.It is strange to think that I have known you for halfmy life, and stranger yet to realize that one person

has infl uenced me in such a profound way. Maybe you donot know the extent to which you have shaped my being

so I will begin by making a (shortened) list of thingsI learned from you:

- It is OK (and even encouraged) to challengeauthority

- Question the status quo (who says things need to bethe way they are?)

- You fi nd what you look for (good or bad)- Explore your options (even if you've already made up

your mind)- Bring a can opener

- Love is when you care so much about a person thatyou can't be happy if they aren't (I know you got that

from Heinlein, but I got it from you)- There are no new stories

- It is good to have principles and to believe in them- Sandwich criticism between compliments to soften the

blow- Do what you enjoy, the money will follow (and even

if it doesn't, at least you'll be happy)

And the list goes on and on.

Your words guided me through AZA, followed me whereverI went after, and are with me to this day as I walk

through the streets of Jerusalem.Too often we wait until it is too late to tell people

how much we care about them - and although I could notbe there to express my appreciation in person, I

wanted you to know, if you didn't already, how dearyou are to me.

I was lucky to have met you, privileged to get to knowyou, and I am proud to call you my friend.

With love,Guy

Jerusalem

While I consider myself extremely lucky to have been an Aleph in Seuss AZA for a number of reasons, I think that most of all, my p o s i t i v e experience in AZA was due, both directly and indirectly, to the efforts of Dan Appleman. Dan has a phenomenal ability to encourage the Alephs with whom he works to grow and realize their potential, and he can relate to them as few adults can. I am certain that his work with BBYO has positively infl uenced countless lives - mine included - and continues to have an impact that lasts long after Alephs whom he advises graduate from AZA.

What strikes me most about Dan is his remarkable ability to work with Alephs in a way that encourages growth and mutual trust. He does not share adult society’s obsession with controlling teenagers (particularly teenage males). In fact, Dan is quite good at encouraging teenagers to act on their creative impulses and assume responsibility for their own destiny. Furthermore, he interacts with Alephs in a way that breeds mutual respect and trust at a level that few adults are able to achieve even with their own children.

As I got active in Seuss, I quickly learned that Dan approached teenagers like myself with the starting assumption that we had good ideas and should be encouraged to explore them. I think this attitude is somewhat rare in today’s world, where adults often view teenagers as some sort of strange and potentially dangerous problem that needs to be ‘managed’ or‘controlled.’ Unlike most of the adults whom we encountered at school and elsewhere, Dan was not particularly interested in identifying rules and other ways by which we could be restrained, or in shooting us down when we got creative.

In fact, throughout his dealings with me and my fellow Alephs, Dan always proceeded with a positive outlook as to our abilities and intents, on occasion having even more confi dence in us than we had in ourselves. Dan didn’t view our youthful creativity, boldness, or radical ideals as threats, but rather, as assets, which he helped us to develop further during our brief time in AZA. He enjoyed sitting in on our brainstorming sessions - be they formal or impromptu, at a board meeting or in the middle of the night at Camp Swig - and the more novel or ambitious an idea that someone would throw out, the more excited Dan would get. I never heard him say anything along the lines of “that’s impossible,” or “you’re too young to be doing that,” or “that’s not a good idea.” Instead, he would urge us to act on our ideas, maybe give a few practical suggestions on how to get started, and make sure we knew we could turn to him for advice if we felt the need to do so.

This brings me to something else that’s great about Dan. He always encouraged us to assume responsibility, rather than trying to be in control. I think that regardless of what they might say, 99.9% of adults would feel uncomfortable if they knew that several dozen teenagers for whose well-being they were accountable in one way or another were, at any given moment, trying to bring their creative ideas into reality without active adult involvement. I have seen this phenomenon unfold many times even in BBYO, which is ostensibly a youth-led organization. Dan, however, really did seem think that as advisor, his role was primarily to advise youths who were exercising responsibility, rather than be the one exercising all the responsibility. With this approach, as Alephs, we got to exercise remarkable responsibility if we so desired, and in this way gained both confi dence and abilities that have continued to aide us as adults.

Besides a modus operandi that assumes that adolescents should be encouraged rather than ‘controlled,’ I think that what makes Dan especially effective in his role as advisor is his remarkable ability to interact with teens. Dan is able to relate to teenagers in a way that most parents and educators can only envy. Everyone whom I knew in Seuss considered him a friend, someone they could trust, and someone whose advice they respected. Many times, I saw Alephs who were too upset at each other to talk directly about their issues work out their differences by talking through things together with Dan, because regardless of their disagreements, they both trusted and respected him greatly. Dan was someone that we could talk to about our frustrations, our dreams, and our fears, and someone whom we often turned for

advice with matters both in and out of AZA.

We respected Dan fi rst and foremost because he respected us. In their actions and dealings with us, adults often made us feel as if we were of a lower stature and less deserving of respect because of our age. Yet, despite the fact that he was older and in all likelihood richer and wiser than us, Dan treated us with the utmost respect, of the kind one enjoys among one’s friends, rather than one’s superiors. I always felt that I could talk to Dan the way I would to a friend my age, knowing that he would be understanding, nonjudgmental, and respectful. Dan’s respect for us even led him to call the bluff of those adults who failed to accord us the same: When I was Aleph S’gan, and the JCC gave the room we had reserved for the Seuss Free Dance to another (adult) group in violation of our mutual understanding, he provided the funds to help us make alternative arrangements, then wrote the Federation to explain that he would withhold an equivalent sum from his annual contribution due to their failure to honor their commitment to our youth group. Dan was rare among the adults we dealt with as teenagers because he never believed that adolescents deserve to get treated with any less respect than adults merely because of their age. The respect he showed us helped him gain our trust and become an effective friend, confi dante, and mentor.

In addition, as Alephs, we could relate to Dan because he was a remarkable mentsh in so many ways. He is incredibly knowledgeable, and willing to share his wisdom in any way that might give insights about whatever troubles one faces. I have also never met anyone as patient as Dan: He was always willing to talk to me at any hour about anything that troubled me, regardless of how insignifi cant it might seem to an objective observer, and with his calm demeanor and patient persistence, I have seen him bring heated feuds and even violent tantrums to a successful resolution. Lastly, I would be remiss if I did not mention Dan’s sense of humor. From corny puns to risqué jokes, Dan can be incredibly funny, the wet-your-pants-and-turn-blue-from-laughing-till-you-pass-out kind of funny, and his ability to make us laugh contributed to his effectiveness as advisor. Not surprisingly, although my fellow Alephs and I often took a dim view of adults with whom we dealt, we felt nothing but admiration and respect for Dan.

Dan’s facility at working with youths, motivating them, and helping them develop into capable and independent adults might be for nought were it not for his incredible generosity towards Seuss and its Alephs. I have never personally known anyone as generous with his time and resources as Dan. He is very knowledgeable and capable, and has had many people clamoring for his time - and offering substantial monetary inducements in exchange. However, he has always made AZA a priority. If I called him to discuss an AZA matter, I always had his full attention, regardless of what else he might have going on personally or professionally. Dan never touched the work he would bring along to conventions ‘just in case,’ because he would spend practically every waking moment hanging out with us Alephs. Dan’s willingness to give of himself to Seuss, together with his extraordinary abilities when it comes to working with youths, have combined to make him an incredible asset to Seuss and its Alephs.

I cannot imagine my life without having been in Seuss AZA, and I cannot imagine Seuss AZA without Dan. His incredible personality, abilities, and generosity have benefi tted countless Alephs. With Dan’s help and encouragement, I was able to gain tremendous confi dence in myself during what was a very challenging time in life, and discover abilities that I did not realize I had. The skills and confi dence that I have thus acquired have benefi tted me not only during my time in AZA, but in my adult life since leaving the chapter. I will always attribute a part of everything I accomplish to Dan, and am certain that countless other Alephs and alumni of Seuss feel the same way.

Fraternally Submitted

Yonatan Gelblum

Aleph of Dr. Seuss AZA, 1994-1998

Dan, You have had a profound impact on my growth as a leader in the chapter and more importantly as a human being. Your experience and wisdom has deeply infl uenced my values and beliefs while your compassion and commitment to helping those around you helped pave the path for my future. Throughout my over four years in Dr. Seuss, I consistently turned to you whenever I was

in need of guidance as a trusted role model and friend. I am in complete awe of the substantial effect you have had on the lives of so many young Jewish leaders of the future. I thank you wholeheartedly for your commitment to the community, the chapter, and myself personally. I hope future generations of Dr. Seuss are lucky enough to still have you as

their advisor.

Your friend,Roi Matalon

Dear Dan,

You are undoubtedly one of the greatest influences on my life. Whenever I am brought to think about my role models, I instantly think of you. From understanding other people's viewpoints to following your passions, you have taught me much more than I could have ever learned in school. I am greatly thankful for all your advice and help throughout my AZA years. I am constantly astounded by your dedication and devotion to AZA and its youth. I doubt there is anyone else on Earth that has so positively and deeply influenced as many teenage lives as you. Of course, our relationship didn't end along with the end of my AZA career. You remain a great friend; always ready to listen and inspire. Your golden advice still influences me every

day, and forever will.

Thank you for so many years of advising, mentoring, and friendship,Tal Bar-Or

To Dan,I really want to thank you for all the time you have taken to help Dr. Seuss grow into what it is today. You have been a big influence on my life, and the lives of many others, and there is no way I could say that I would be where i am at today without your help. You've have helped instill leadership qualities and problem solving skills in me that I hope will last a life time. But most important was the great times that I had in my 5+ years in AZA, and the friends that I made, including you. I hope other kids will be able to reap the same benefits that I did

from having such a great advisor.

Thanks Again,Ran Ben-Tzur

Dear Dan Appleman.

When I came to AZA I was shy. I didn't have so many friends because I was the only one that went to Hyde Middle School. I thought that AZA it's now for me and I won't come to AZA anymore. But then you came, you were so nice to me and you were the only one that understand me. Without you Dan, I wouldn't be here writing To B-moots this e-mail for you. You were the one that convince me to be in AZA and be cause of that I am not shy anymore, my English skills are much better, and even my speech skills improve from when I joined Dr. Seuss. You were the one that

showed me the light and I appreciate that.

After a while I had fun in AZA because I realized what does fraternity means (not its defi nition). Just because of you I am active in the chapter and I wish that you would

be our advisor for ever.

Sincerely

Rod "like a stick" Michaeli

Knit sweaters, an affi nity for anything Disney, science fi ction, awkward poses during advisor reports, a questionable dependence on frozen chicken wings, Monty Python or Chocolate t-shirts, and the bushy moustache that has stood a remarkable test of time.

I’m considerably confi dent that these are the few shared memories we have of Dan. That is because our most signifi cant memories (the ones that go beyond the quirky mannerisms, the eccentric hobbies, the terrible fashion sense) are entirely our own. I will not deny that he has simultaneously played the roles of advisor, mentor, and friend for us all. But I will argue that he has played these roles rather differently with each individual. It is hard to drive this point home without concrete examples and, to be consistent with my argument I can only offer ones stemming from my own unique relationship with him.

At the end of my Godol Term (Winter 2003-2004) I got sick with mono. Different people get different versions of the disease, but my version involved infl ated lymph nodes, an inability to eat solid foods a subsequent weight loss, unbearable pain radiating from my throat, horrible fatigue, and the closest a teenage boy could get to menopausal hot fl ashes. I was out of commission for a good three weeks and it couldn’t have come at a worse time. Contraction of mono was coupled (or should I say, quadrupled) with a painful break up, AP and SAT testing, my 17th birthday, and the last two weeks of my Godol term.

Given these circumstances, some serious emotional healing was just as necessary as the physical healing. For the latter, I have to give credit to rest and Boost Multivitamin Shakes. For the former, I give most of the credit to Dan. Throughout the two weeks I was quarantined at home for fear of contagion, I never stopped talking to Dan over the phone. I poured my heart out about schoolwork and testing, about loneliness and isolation, even about my breakup. Dan listened fi rst, then advised. We talked about AZA, about the logistics of managing chapter functions from home. Dan listened fi rst, then advised. We talked about upcoming elections, ongoing projects, the content and success of events. Dan listened then advised. Underlying all of these surface issues was an anxiety about my ineffi cacy as a chapter leader.

In the second week of the disease, I expressed to him a deeply felt sense of defeat. That I had failed to infl uence Alephs in the chapter in a meaningful way. That I had failed to promote fraternity within the chapter. That I had failed at encouraging board members and other chapter leaders. This time, Dan just listened. He

let these bottled anxieties pour out one at a time. All he could say was an acknowledging “mmhm”. He didn’t attempt to negate these feelings or dismiss them. He just listened, and saved his advice for another day.

That day came at Installations, one week later. We went through the usual process. I gave my outgoing speech, Dan de-Installed the old board, and then commenced with the Installation ceremony. As Kohen Godol, I was the fi rst he called forward. Installing offi cers read my cards, full of cracks about my Mono and my tendency to defecate in public places. It was here that Dan responded to my anxieties, to my sense of defeat. He told me something that I’ll never forget. He said “Eyal, the mark of a good chapter leaders is when Alephs rise to fi ll his shoes in his absence. These last three weeks have never made that more clear”. It was a statement that shook my foundations. That made me reevaluate my sense of defeat. That gave me the closure I was simultaneously seeking and evading. I wanted to break into tears and hug the man. But in the spirit of Dan’s humble role as an advisor, mentor, and friend, I just smiled and nodded my head. He lit the candle I was carrying and said “by the power vested in me by the Bnei Brith Youth Commission, I hereby install you as the new Kohen Godol of Dr. Seuss AZA #195”.

That is my Dan story. And as I said before, everyone likely has their own different Dan stories to share. As I struggle to fi nd possible points of commonality between our stories, I can only think of one: Dan has an amazing ability to listen. He’s not a by-the-book advisor who claims to have all the answers. If he were, I don’t think our stories would be all that different. But because Dan listens and tunes in to each of our unique attributes, anxieties, and ambitions, our relationships with him manifest themselves in entirely different ways.

Dan, I want to thank you for everything. And just remember, that my appreciation is in no way the same as the numerous other expressions of gratitude that fi ll these pages.

With much appreciation,

Eyal Matalon

To Dan - You're the best brother a sister would want -

and knowing you- I won't gush except to say that you are my

favorite person to joke about 'afterbirth' with. Love you tons and glad you're around for

the years to come - bad and good, hard and easy, ho hum and meaningful.

– Roan

Dan,

Thank you so much for contributing so much for Dr. Seuss AZA. My experience with Seuss was wonderful, and I don’t think it would have been

the same without your guidance and support.

Gal Greenberg

Dan,

Thank you so much for being our wonderful adviser for such a long time. I personally would like to thank you for chatting with me about all

my troubles, these talks have actually impacted me and I am sure will help me later on in my life. May

everything go well for you in the future.

-Barry Greenberg

Dan,

Thanks for everything you do for Seuss and for each individual in general. Even though I haven't seen you in a while you are still one of the coolest adults ever. You have definitely influenced my

life for the better. Thanks again.

Alon Bukai

Dan,

I have always had my parents beside me throughout my life, my teachers helping me throughout the school year and my band director to go to during band season. But throughout AZA, with the evanescence of the older members and the realization a year or two ago that I was becoming an older member, turning into the advice giver rather than receiver, there has always been you, Dan, as an outstanding part of Dr. Seuss. There have always been those remarkable turns of phrase or quirky remarks which just lit something in my head and I understood the world or AZA that much better, although we both know neither really know anything about the world. Your objectivity has always been invaluable in realizing some of the goings-on in the chapter or in life and I really don't know what the chapter would do without your little push here, aphorism there and a small yet powerful "Go for it!" My best times with you have been when we spoke about books you have read and our thoughts on the world and its chaotic yet generally good nature. I have always enjoyed our chats about anything and everything and I only hope that I am smart enough to use your wisdom even after I leave the chapter, hopefully with you standing beside it (and maybe Jeremy too). I realize that this event might not be your style, but you have taught us to dream this big so you can only blame yourself for the grandeur of the event. You deserve more than this for your help and wisdom over the years and I believe that this is the fi rst step to the chapter's wake up call of how much you actually do even though you always say you don't. Whole-heartedly, and with a tremendous thanks Alon Mazor

Dan,

We’ve all heard of the cliché, “when in Rome, do as the Romans do.” Well, this can be applied similarly to Dr. Seuss as the next grand cliché, “When in Seuss, do as Dan Appleman does.” Truly, our chapter could not have even dreamed of being as successful, brotherly, and innovative as we are today without your presence. You have and will forever credit us for all of our grand abilities to accomplish remarkable tasks, but I wonder where those talents can be derived from.

You have probably long forgotten, but I came into the chapter as a rather pompous, book-smart little boy, ignorant of the real world, with its vast opportunities and mysterious adventures. One may falsely credit me for becoming a passionate orator, a charismatic leader, and an upstanding role model. In reality, all I can truly be given credit for is being a brilliant copy cat in attentively scrutinizing the manner in which you so humbly present yourself. You constantly speak of the necessity of the older members being the role models we want the younger members to be, yet it is blatantly obvious who the true role model is. Your caring attitude and outstanding virtue are surely refl ected in our traditions, our morals, and our members – and here we are, violently debating how we have come to be so extraordinary when the answer is sitting right next to us with his nose deep in a good book.

You have countless skills in your bottomless “bag of tricks,” but two stand out for me as absolutely unbelievable: your magical foresight and your ability to look at the chapter from the outside while obviously being in the center of it all. I still remember that long chat you had with me prior to my running for Shaliach. Sitting there, half asleep, I remember wondering if I dreamt you telling me with absolute certainty that I would grow up to be Godol of the chapter one day. I giggled, knowing that you could not have chosen a more ridiculous subject for such a belief, but as I look back at that moment I can’t help but wonder: would I have had the courage to run for high board as nearly an unknown had I not had your unfaltering support, trust, and encouragement.

At every business meeting, you concoct an original masterpiece of a speech regarding a matter of importance for the chapter that only an individual with an outside perspective can truly identify. On the other hand, I have the most peculiar bond with you that I will never have with any other adult. What you and every other aleph share is a strange yet absolutely incredible friendship that is absolutely unique anywhere in the world between an adult and a teenager. I can speak to you more comfortably about any topic than I can probably speak with any other adult on this planet, and this is a common occurrence for nearly every other aleph I have spoken to. As much as you protest your separation, you will and have always been an Honorary Aleph of Dr. Theodor Seuss Geisel AZA #195. I hope you will enjoy another hundred years of laughter, friendship, and happiness because you, more than anyone else in the world, truly deserve pure bliss. Your Friend,

Roi Bachmutsky

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Dear Daniel,

Two angels were sitting on a cloud and looking down to earth. “Hey look at that! There is something going on in San Jose,”

said the angel called Gabriel. “Look David!” “Yes, you are right,” acknowledged David. “Many Teenagers, everyone is very excited. Look to the right, a group of teenagers surrounding an adult man.”

“That is my son, Daniel, surrounded by his menchikins. It seems like a surprise party,” angel Gabriel said with a trembling voice.

“My son Daniel.” “He sure is a handsome man!” exclaimed David.

“Sure! He inherited my beauty and my intelligence,” smiled angel Gabriel. “Sure sure” echoed David. “Which one is his mother?” inquired angel David.

“The tall one in the colorful black dress. Look at her face. It is filled with love for her son.”

“She loves him as you do angel Gabriel,” said angel David. “Oh yes,” said angel Gabriel,

“I do love him very much and I am proud of him. He is a ‘MENCH’ – in Hebrew a ‘Ben Adam’.”

I agree with your father, Daniel dear. You are a “Mench.” May you go from strength to strength to strength.

Chazak, Chazak, Venitchazek!

Your loving Mother.