1) Reconnecting with your partner cannot and will not happen if you do not reconnect with yourself first

2) If you say that your relationship is pain, confusion, emptiness, then by definition, you have lost your own personal power, dignity, own

standard, own self-esteem

Core of ConsciousnessThe place in you which is defined, place within you where your greatest

strengths, instincts, values, talents, and wisdom are centered

Where you believe in yourself, full of hope, and optimism

The ones who do well are in touch with their individual core of consciousness, so aware of their self-worth, and their sense of personal value, that they not only treat themselves with enormous self-respect

but they inspire others to treat them with equal respect

4 major problems in a relationship

1) Uncommitted to solving problems 2) Lack of communication

3) Unable to see things through your partner’s eyes4) Unwilling to resolve each and every of your differences

What you need to know to rebuild the relationship

1) Do not jump to conclusion too fast2) Gain the habit of active listening

3) Relate with empathy