Confronting Others

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Matthew 18:15 ESV

If your brother sins against you, go and

tell him his fault,between you and him

alone. If he listens to you, you have gained

your brother.


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Resolving Conflict, the Kingdoms Way!


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Matthew 18:15 ESV

If your brother sins against you, go

and tell him his fault,between youand him alone. If he listens to you,

you have gainedyour brother.


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To Expose!

To Prove Yourself!

To Pin the Faulty! To Humiliate!

To Insult!

To End Relationship!

To Judge!


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Reconciliation

Restoration

Resolve Recover

RE- Agreement

To GAIN BACK


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Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you

who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit ofgentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too be

tempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law

of Christ.

Galatians 6:1-2 ESV


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If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault,

between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have

gainedyour brother.

Matthew 18:15 ESV


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Must be Personal

personalanpero walang PERSONALAN

Face to Face Not through texting

Not through Facebook

Not through other persons

Walang pasaring

Walang parinig


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Pray first before the confrontation

Not with anyone! But when needed, with a mature believer

When done & settled, let it stay private


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o Two-way communication

o When one talks, the other listens

o Listen to the words, but also to the heart.o Listen by your renewed mind & spirit!


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Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you who

are spiritual should restore him in a spirit of

gentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too betempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the lawof Christ.

Galatians 6:1-2 ESV


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31Get rid of allbitterness, rage, anger, harshwords, and

slander, as well as all types of evil behavior.

32Instead, be kind to each other, tenderhearted, forgivingone another, just as God through Christ has forgiven you.

(Ephesians 4:31-32 NLT)


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29Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of yourmouths, but only what is helpful forbuilding others upaccording to their needs, that it maybenefit those wholisten.

30And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whomyou were sealed for the day of redemption.31Get rid of allbitterness, rageand anger,brawlingandslander, along with every form of malice.

32Be kind and compassionateto one another, forgivingeach other, just as in Christ God forgave you.

(Ephesians 4:29-32 NIV)


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And the Lord's servant must not be quarrelsomebut kind to

everyone, able to teach, patiently enduring evil, correcting

his opponents with gentleness. God may perhaps grant themrepentance leading to a knowledge of the truth, and they may

come to their senses and escape from the snare of the devil,

after being captured by him to do his will.

2 Timothy 2:24-26 ESV


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18" omenow, let us settlethe matter," says theLORD. "Though your sins are like scarlet, theyshall be as white as snow; thoughthey are red ascrimson, they shall be like wool.19If you are willing and obedient, you will eat the

good things of the land;20 but if you resist and rebel, you will be

devoured by the sword." For the mouth of theLORD has spoken.

(Isaiah 1:18-20 NIV)


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Remain as you are to Him as before!

Conclusion NO More introductions

Period.

NO MORE other SENTENCES

Settled, NO MORE recall/recollection

FORGET the offence and NOT the person!


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Brothers, if anyone is caught in any transgression, you

who are spiritual should restore him in a spirit ofgentleness. Keep watch on yourself, lest you too betempted. Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law

of Christ.

Galatians 6:1-2 ESV


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12He has removed our

sins as far from us as the

east is from the west.(Psalm 103:12 NLT)


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You have not gained him/her if you have nottruly forgivenhim/her in your heart.

Jesus Christ gainedus back to himself because Heforgave us!


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23 "Therefore, if you are offering your gift at

the altar and there remember that your brotheror sister has something against you,24 leave your gift there in front of the altar.

First goand be reconciledto them; then comeand offer your gift.

(Matthew 5:23-24 NIV)


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VERTICAL Reconciliation,then HorizontalReconciliation


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Horizontal Reconciliation

first, then VerticalReconciliation!


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Reconciliation with Manfirst,

then Reconciliation with

God!


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18 All this is from God, who reconciled us to himself

through Christand gave us the ministry of reconciliation:19that God was reconciling the world to himself in Christ,

not counting people's sins against them. And he has

committed to us the message of reconciliation.20 We are therefore Christ's ambassadors, as though God

were making his appeal through us. We implore you on

Christ's behalf: Be reconciled to God.21

God made him who had no sin to be sin

for us, so that inhim we might become the righteousness of God.

(2Corinthians 5:18-21 NIV)


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18" omenow, let us settlethe matter," says theLORD. "Though your sins are like scarlet, theyshall be as white as snow; thoughthey are red ascrimson, they shall be like wool.

19If you are willingand obedient,you will eat

the good things of the land;20 but if you resist and rebel, you will be

devoured by the sword." For the mouth of the

LORD has spoken.

(Isaiah 1:18-20 NIV)


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