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Very often while communicating with people who has English as a second language background we noticed that people are making grammatical mistakes unknowingly. Some time its the use of past tense where as they mean to say something about present tense, sometimes they use future tense whereas they mean to say about past tense visa versa. It also indicates that they use wrong synonyms for the required situation less exposure to the vocabulary could be the reason for it. Due the mother tong influence speaker use wrong pronunciation even though they are well educated they use wrong stress and intonation in their communication. This paper will discuss about the general and unnoticed verbal mistakes done by mistakes and the solution for it. Humera Nafees "Common Mistakes in Communication" Published in International Journal of Trend in Scientific Research and Development (ijtsrd), ISSN: 2456-6470, Volume-2 | Issue-4 , June 2018, URL: https://www.ijtsrd.com/papers/ijtsrd14598.pdf Paper URL: http://www.ijtsrd.com/humanities-and-the-arts/english/14598/common-mistakes-in-communication/humera-nafees

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ABSTRACT Very often while communicating with people who has English as a second language backgroundthat people are making grammatical mistakes unknowingly. Some time it’s the use of past tense where as they mean to say something about present tense, sometimes they use future tense whereas they mean to say about past tense visa versa. It alsoindicates that they use wrong synonyms for the required situation; less exposure to the vocabulary could be the reason for it. Due the mother tong influence speaker use wrong pronunciation even though they are well educated they use wrong stress and intonation in their communication. This paper will discuss about the general and unnoticed verbal mistakes done by mistakes and the solution for it. Keywords: Grammar, Pronunciation, Tenses, Subject Verb Agreement I. INTRODUCTION Speaking is vital tool of communication, and when it comes to speaking in English it become more interesting but at the same time very crucial, crucial because if you make grammatical mistake it gives bad impression for oneself no matter how educated you are. This paper highlight the common error people often does in their communication generally.

Finding: Grammatical mistake in communication.

Discussion: Situation: present tense; speaker talking about past.‘I know that he has done it that is the reason I called his parents.’ Instead of using know it should be knew.

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International Journal of Trend in Scientific Research and Development (IJTSRD)

International Open Access Journal

Common Mistakes in Communication

Humera Nafees Assistant Professor, KG Reddy College of Engineering & Technology

Hyderabad, Telangana, India

Very often while communicating with people who has English as a second language background we noticed that people are making grammatical mistakes unknowingly. Some time it’s the use of past tense where as they mean to say something about present tense, sometimes they use future tense whereas they mean to say about past tense visa versa. It also indicates that they use wrong synonyms for the required situation; less exposure to the vocabulary could be the reason for it. Due the mother tong influence speaker use wrong pronunciation even though they are well educated they use wrong stress

ation in their communication. This paper will discuss about the general and unnoticed verbal mistakes done by mistakes and the solution for it.

Grammar, Pronunciation, Tenses, Subject

Speaking is vital tool of communication, and when it comes to speaking in English it become more interesting but at the same time very crucial, crucial because if you make grammatical mistake it gives bad impression for oneself no matter how educated you re. This paper highlight the common error people

often does in their communication generally.

Grammatical mistake in communication.

present tense; speaker talking about past. he has done it that is the reason I called

knew.

As the speaker is sharing the incident from the past, also giving the reason for his action in past. Situation: speaker saying something in written form.‘I cannot except this much expensive gift’Instead of using except it should be As speaker wants to politely deny for accepting the expensive gift. Situation: using singular or plural form with verb.‘He play in playground.’ Instead of play it should be plays.‘They plays in playground’ Instead of using plays, it should be As the speaker is talking about the verb with singular/ plural form, according to subject verb agreement when we speak about singular the verb will follow by ‘S’, not with plural. Mistake 1: Not Editing Your WorkSpelling, tone and grammaticalyou look careless. That's why it's essential to check all of your communications before you send them. Don't rely on spell-checkers: they won't pick up words that are used incorrectly. Instead, proofread your work, and use a dictionary to look up any words that you're unsure about. You may find it helpful to make a list of words and phrases that you find it hard to get right (such as "your/you're," "its/it's," or "affect/effect"). Store this close to hand. It can be difficult to see errors in your own work, so consider asking a colleague to look over key

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As the speaker is sharing the incident from the past, also giving the reason for his action in past.

speaker saying something in written form. this much expensive gift’

Instead of using except it should be accept. As speaker wants to politely deny for accepting the

using singular or plural form with verb.

uld be plays.

it should be play.

As the speaker is talking about the verb with singular/ plural form, according to subject verb agreement when we speak about singular the verb will follow by

Mistake 1: Not Editing Your Work Spelling, tone and grammatical mistakes can make you look careless. That's why it's essential to check all of your communications before you send them.

checkers: they won't pick up words are used incorrectly. Instead, proofread your

work, and use a dictionary to look up any words that

You may find it helpful to make a list of words and phrases that you find it hard to get right (such as

affect/effect"). Store this

It can be difficult to see errors in your own work, so consider asking a colleague to look over key

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documents before you distribute them. Alternatively, read your work aloud – this makes it easier to catch typos and tone errors. Then, give yourself time to reflect on your document, and to make any final changes. TIP: If you want to become a better communicator, take our How Good Are Your Communication Skills? quiz to find out where you shine, and where you need to improve. Mistake 2: Delivering Bad News by Email Would you announce layoffs to your team by email or IM? If you did, you could upset everyone! Written communication channels don't allow you to soften difficult messages with nonverbal cues (such as body language ), and they don't allow you to deal immediately with intense emotions. If you need to deliver bad news, do this in person, and think carefully about how you can do it sensitively, so that you can convey your message but minimize long-term upset at the same time. When you deliver a difficult message in person, it's easier to pick up on signs that people have misunderstood key parts of your message, or that they've taken the information particularly badly. You can then take steps to clarify your message, or help people deal with the difficult news. Mistake 3: Avoiding Difficult Conversations At some point, you will need to give negative feedback. It's tempting to try to avoid these conversations, but this can cause further problems – for instance, you may find that a small problem you "let go" soon grows into big one.

Preparation is the key to handling difficult conversations. Learn to give clear, actionable feedback, and use tools such as the Situation – Behavior – Impact technique to encourage your people to reflect on their behavior. You may also want to role-play your conversation first, so that you feel confident in both your words and your body language. Mistake 4: Not Being Assertive Assertiveness is about stating what you need, while considering the wants and needs of others.

You may not always get your way when you're assertive, but you stand a better chance of doing so, or of reaching a compromise, because you've been clear about your needs. Use our Bite-Sized Training session on Assertiveness Skills to identify your needs, and to practice assertive communication. Assertiveness also means saying "no" when you need to. Our article "'Yes' to the Person, 'No' to the Task" explains how to turn down requests gently but assertively, while maintaining good relationships. NOTE: Assertiveness is not the same as aggression. When you're aggressive, you push to get your own way without thinking about other people's rights, wants, and needs. Mistake 5: Reacting, Not Responding Have you ever shouted at a colleague in frustration, or sent a terse reply to an email, without thinking your point through? If so, you're likely to have reacted emotionally, instead of responding calmly. This kind of emotional reaction can damage your reputation. You may upset people with your strong emotions, and give the impression that you lack self-control and emotional intelligence. Read our article on managing your emotions at work for tips on how to keep your reactions under control.

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Mistake 6: Not Preparing Thoroughly Poorly-prepared presentations, reports, or emails frustrate your audience and can, over time, damage your reputation. This is why it's essential to prepare and plan your communications carefully. First, set aside time to plan your communication thoroughly. Consider using tools like the Rhetorical Triangle and Monroe's Motivating Sequence to create a credible, intelligent, and compelling message that appeals to your audience's emotions, as well as to their intellects. Leave time to proofread, to find images, and to check that documents are compatible with your audience's software. Then, if you are delivering a speech or a presentation, rehearse thoroughly, so that you are fluent and inspiring. Mistake 7: Using a "One-Size-Fits-All" Approach to Communication If you use a "one-size-fits-all" approach to communication, you may overlook people's different personalities, needs and expectations. In fact, your communications need to address those differences as much as possible. If you're preparing a presentation, make sure that you appreciate that people have different learning styles , and that you cater for these. This means that everyone – from those who learn best by reading to those who prefer a more hands-on approach – can benefit from your session. Mistake 8: Not Keeping an Open Mind When Meeting New People Today's workplace is a melting pot of ethnicities, religions, ages, sexual orientations, abilities, and viewpoints. These differences create a rich tapestry of experiences and opinions that can greatly enhance our lives. However, it can be tempting to stereotype new colleagues or clients, or to make assumptions about them based on just a few pieces of information. This is especially true if you haven't had much time to get to know them well. Assumptions inhibit open communication, because you don't consider the other person's own unique background, personality and experience. Over time, this can jeopardize your relationship with them.

So, set time aside to listen when you meet someone new. Give them space to talk about their viewpoints and take time to absorb these. Then, learn how to manage cultural differences , so that you take each person's needs and expectations into consideration. If you often work with people from overseas, explore the idea of cultural intelligence , so that you can start to adapt your behavior when you come across people from different cultures. TIP: If you're new to working or managing internationally, read our managing around the world articles in the Team Management section to learn about working in different countries. Mistake 9: Assuming That Your Message Has Been Understood Always take time to check that people have understood your message. For example, when you send out an email, you could encourage people to respond with questions or to reply, if they haven't understood part of your message. Or, if you've given a presentation, build in time for people to discuss your main points or leave time for questions at the end. TIP: To check that you've been understood correctly, use open questions that start with "how," "why" or "what." These encourage reflection, and will help your audience members to explain what they, personally, have taken from your communication. Mistake 10: Accidentally Violating Others' Privacy Have you ever forwarded a sensitive email to the wrong person, or sent an incorrect attachment? These kinds of errors can cause serious commercial problems, violate people's privacy, and lead to embarrassment and confusion. To avoid these problems, write sensitive messages before you select the recipient, and then double check their email address. If your email program automatically fills in email addresses, you could switch this feature off, so that you can consciously choose the right recipient.

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You may find it helpful to draft these emails in a word processing document or blank email, and then to paste the text into a new message. This way you won't accidentally include any information from previous messages. And, if you're sending a sensitive or confidential attachment, check that no "tracked changes" or comments can be found, and make sure that you're sending the right version. Everyone makes communication mistakes from time to time. However, you'll protect your reputation if you avoid the most common errors. These include not editing your work, accidentally violating people's privacy when forwarding emails, and not being assertive. The key to good communication is to think about your audience's needs. Prepare each email, document, and presentation carefully, and give yourself time to check it. Above all, remember that communication is a two-way process. Be ready for questions, and listen to what your audience has to say. Over time, you'll find that avoiding these common communication mistakes will greatly enhance the quality of your messages, your reputation, your working relationships, and your job satisfaction. This site teaches you the skills you need for a happy and successful career; and this is just one of many tools and resources that you'll find here at Mind Tools. Subscribe to our free newsletter, or join the Mind Tools Club and really supercharge your career! (Mind Tools Content Team) Reason: Sometimes when you're speaking quickly, you

mix up tenses as your ideas change. Sometime due to confusable words people make

mistakes while writing or listening as sometimes words have similar pronunciation.

People often get confused in using subject verb agreement in their communication, they use ‘S’ with verb by thinking as we are speaking about plural so ‘S’ should be there with verb. But ‘S’ is used with verb only in case of singular subject.

Conclusion: To speak fluently without making any mistake one has to understand the general rules which easily get misunderstood or avoided by people or learner. To avoid certain mistake one has to practice and be ready to accept the suggestion from others and to learn independently. Everyone makes communication mistakes from time to time. However, you'll protect your reputation if you avoid the most common errors. These include not editing your work, accidentally violating people's privacy when forwarding emails, and not being assertive. The key to good communication is to think about your audience's needs. Prepare each email, document, and presentation carefully, and give yourself time to check it. Above all, remember that communication is a two-way process. Be ready for questions, and listen to what your audience has to say. Over time, you'll find that avoiding these common communication mistakes will greatly enhance the quality of your messages, your reputation, your working relationships, and your job satisfaction. (Mind Tools Content Team) References: Bibliography Mind Tools CoMind Tools Content Team. (n.d.). 10 Common Communication Mistakes -From Mind Tools.com. Retrieved 06 11, 2018, from www.mindtools.com: https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/common-communication-mistakes.htmntent Team. (n.d.). 10 Common Communication Mistakes -From Mind Tools.com. Retrieved 06 11, 2018, from www.mindtools.com: https://www.mindtools.com/pages/article/common-communication-mistakes.htm