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Coaching for YOUR Church (and for YOU) July 20, 2012 Brethren Church General Conference Jonathan Reitz CEO, CoachNet 06/26/2022 © 2012 CoachNet Global LLC/Brethren Church General Conference 1

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This is the workshop Jonathan Reitz of CoachNet led at Ashland University during the 2012 Brethren Church General Conference.

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Coaching for YOUR Church (and for YOU)

July 20, 2012Brethren Church General Conference

Jonathan Reitz CEO, CoachNet

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I Say “Coach”, You Think…

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And, who are you?

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Definition of Insanity

“Insanity: doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.”

▪ Albert Einstein

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Is it time to do something new??

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Or, at least something VERY old…

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From a reliable source…

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Coaching in the Scriptures

Jesus sent them out two by two.

“Where TWO or more are gathered…”

Jesus=a pretty good listener.

How many questions did Jesus ask?

“Go and make disciples…”

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Coaching & The Bigger PictureVision & Thinking Like a Coach

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It’s not about the mountaintop…

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This is the key to coaching…

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How to Think Like a Coach

1. It’s about the OTHER person’s success.

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How to Think Like a Coach

2. Relationship + Intention + Purpose = Coaching.

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How to Think Like a Coach

3. Sometimes you have to teach…which is not everyone considers coaching.

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How to Think Like a Coach

4. They—NOT you—already have the answer.

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IF you prescribe…

…someone’s route to getting something done…

It eliminates the possibility of coaching.

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How to Think Like a Coach

5. You change the other person’s perspective—just by showing up.

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How to Think Like a Coach

6. Where you are. Where you want to be. Shorten the distance.

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How to Think Like a Coach

7. Listen. Ask. Do.

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Think of coaching as a step ladder

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Coaching Process

Review

Relate

Reflect Refocus

Resource

Coaching 101 Handbook, page 5

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FIRST of all…

Coaching is a relationship.

If there’s no relationship, there’s no coaching.

Add coaching skills once the relationship is healthy enough!

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Standard Coaching Skills:

Bring things into reach that we can’t get to without them!

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Coaching Simplified

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Relate & Reflect Refocus

Resource & Review

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Coaching Simplified

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The Five R’s in a Coaching AppointmentThis should look familiar.

Clarify Action Steps

Celebrate & Evaluate

Listen &

Ask

Crystallize Key Issues

Relate

Reflect

Refocus

Resource

Review

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The Five Rs in a Coaching Relationship

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Review

Relate

Reflect Refocus

Resource

Participant’s Guide

Intake

Clarity Vision

Celebrate Plan

Micro

Macro

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Coaching is The Backbone.

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What are you aiming for?

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Here’s a great way to find your target:

John 3:30

“He must increase, but I must decrease.”

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Here’s a great way to find your target:

How are you becoming more Christ-like?

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Here’s a great way to find your target:

Ephesians 2:10 –

For we are his workmanship, created in Christ Jesus for good works, which God prepared beforehand, that we should walk in them.

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Here’s a great way to find your target:

What’s the thing you can shake off?

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The Silver Bullet is…

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Leadership Multiplication Pathway

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Stage 3Effective Leadership

Stage 1Obedient Discipleship

Stage 2Focused Ministry

Stage 4Continuous Multiplication

Character

Calling

Competency

Culture

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CoachNet is…

A Multiplication Organization.

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We measure our Effectiveness.

By What Multiplies…

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1) Do the things that Jesus does.

2) Never act alone.

Key Principles

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Questions

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Insights

Ah ha!Oh no!

Duh!Wow!

Hmm…

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Contact Us

Jonathan Reitz [email protected] 440.550.4374

Judy Pence [email protected] 216.920.1115

Jennifer Bernhardt [email protected]

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We’d Love to Come Alongside You.The CoachNet Team

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