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April 21, 2016

Coaching through

Scarcity

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Learning Objectives:

Scarcity and It’s Impact on Client

Performance

Understanding of Scarcity & Behavioral Economics

Coaching Clients

Experiencing Scarcity

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How might we design ways to be more effective working with people

experiencing scarcity?

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Using the Human Centered Design Process

• Discovery – understand the challenge

• Interpretation – search for meaning

• Ideation – generate ideas

• Experimentation – make prototypes

• Evolution – move forward

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Discovery:

Defining Scarcity

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SCARCITY: insufficiency or shortness of supply; dearth.

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This is how things look when they are scarce…

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LIST AS MANY WHITE THINGS AS YOU CAN…

Snow Milk

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goal inhibition

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SCARCITY

You are almost out of fuel…

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SCARCITY

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“When scarcity captures the mind, we become more attentive and efficient…

[however] because we are preoccupied by scarcity, because our minds constantly

return to it, we have less mind to give to the rest of life”

(Scarcity, Mullainathan & Shafir, 2013; p. 13)

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There Will Always Be

More

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Activity:

SCARCITY Triggers

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Questions & Reflections

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Interpretation:

Search for meaning –

Scarcity and Behavioral Economics

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Behavioral Contexts

Decisions are influenced by the

context in which the decision is made.

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Scarcity directly reduces bandwidth

(Mullainathan & Shafir, 2013)

Bandwidth – how much mental capacity is available for use at a given time?

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WhatCapacities?(Mullainathan & Shafir, 2013)

1. Cognitive

2. Executive control

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Capacities• Cognitive Capacity

– the psychological mechanisms that underlie our ability to solve problems, retain information, engage in logical reasoning, etc.

– Fluid intelligence – ability to think and reason abstractly and solve problems independent of any specific learning or experience.

SCARCITY

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Capacities• Executive control

– underlies our ability to manage our cognitive activities, including planning, attention, initiating and inhibiting actions, and controlling impulses

SCARCITY

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The old guard: Rational Choice

• People carefully and “rationally” weigh costs and benefits to make decisions that are in line with existing, stable preferences.

• Defaults, frames, and price anchors would not have any impact on consumer choices.

– In a word, decisions would be fairly predictable.

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Prospect Theory (Kahneman & Tversky)

People dislike losses more than they like an equivalent gain.

Giving something up is more painful than the pleasure we derive from receiving it.

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Prospect Theory (Kahneman & Tversky)

Which of the following would you prefer:

A)A certain win of $250

B) A 25% chance to win $1000 and a 75% chance to win nothing?

Or:

A)A certain loss of $750, OR

B)A 75% chance to lose $1000 and a 25% chance to lose nothing?

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Key Concept: Bounded rationality

Decisions are not always neutral – restrictions to human information processing due to limits of knowledge and computational capacity (think bandwidth)

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Key Concepts: Heuristics and biases

Heuristics – mental shortcuts or representations that do not account for all factors necessary to make a decision

Biases – systematic types of errors in decision making

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Things happen beyond our control…

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Sometimes a little nudge is needed

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Key Concept: System 1 & 2 Thinking

System 1 – consists of thinking processes that are intuitive, automatic, experience-based, and relatively unconscious

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System 1 & 2 Thinking

System 2 – more reflective, controlled, deliberative, and analytical.

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Heuristics

• Anchoring – relying too heavily on a first piece of information (or anchor) when making decisions

• Representativeness – making judgments based on similarity between instances – (I’ve been through this before, I know

how this will turn out)

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Behavioral Contexts

• Loss Aversion – the threat of loss has a greater impact than the possibility of gain

• Mental Accounting – compartmentalizing money with different perspectives of how to spend it, based on where it came from

• Regret Aversion – avoiding decisive actions based on the fear of regretting the decision

• Hassle Factor – perceived hassles can cause people to avoid taking action, even though they may really want to

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what does this all mean?

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Ideation: Generate Ideas

Designing for Clients Experiencing Scarcity

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Income Wealth

Flow of money into and out of household

Savings and accumulation

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Loss of income

Unexpected expenses

Too much debt

Newly acquired financial

responsibilit ies

Change in marital status

SCARCITY

FACTORS THAT

HINDER

FORWARD

FINANCIAL

PROGRESSION

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Scarcity Traps

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Juggling

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Client Behavior

• Failure to:

– Sign up

– Show up

– Be prepared

– Follow direction

– Comply with behavioral expectations

– Complete

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Participant or Program?

• Participant

– Lack of understanding

– Lack of motivation

• Program

– Lack of or Ineffective incentives

– Opportunity cost for bandwidth

Local Agency Office

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coaching

approach

client

agencycoach

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Possible Program Redesign

• Incentives that fall inside the “tunnel”

• Integration models that builds client bandwidth

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Behavioral Change

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Behavioral Change Matrix

Two drivers of behavioral change:

1. Awareness

2. Willingness to change (influenced by several factors)

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Behavioral Change

Matrix

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What are your ideas for your agency?

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Brainstorm

What We KnowWhat We Don’t

Know

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Experimentation:

Coaching Clients Experiencing Scarcity

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When pressure on you outweighs your

resources, you don’t have the opportunity

to develop skills, practice them, and make achievements

Trauma Stress

Poverty

negative focus

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Social Learning Theory

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• Client behavior results from tangible and mental limitations

• Client progression to outcomes can become inhibited

• The coach’s coaching context may need to be fluid to adjust to decreasing client bandwidth

• The coach must be aware of their own bandwidth

SCARCITYThe Impact on the

Coaching Relationship

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SCARCITYThe Coach’s Role

– Facilitate conversation/process

• Forward action

• Assist progress

– Self-Manage

• Hold the focus

• Recovery

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Benefits of Coaching Through Scarcity

• Anchored in collaboration

• Clients regain bandwidth through simplification of process and/or clarification of an optimal path

• Staff can avoid additional personal bandwidth tax

SCARCITY

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Client Personas

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Client Persona

What are the “defining characteristics” of

your typical client – what are some

specifics?

What are the common themes, stories, and

phrases that your clients uses to describe

their challenge and their solution?

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Match Client Persona with Coaching Approach

Client Persona

Coaching Approach

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Activity: Match Client Persona with Coaching Approach

Client Persona

– Motivated

– Anxious

– Resistant

– Happy

– Lots of Drama

– Competing Priorities

– Scarcity / Low Bandwidth

Coaching Approach

– Raising Awareness

– Leverage Tools

– Dialogue

– Brainstorm

– Exploration

– Curiosity

– Action Planning

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Client Level Engagement

Event Focus - The financial coaching leads to a significant

financial event, such as employment, education, stable permanent

housing, or another significant financial change in their life.

Task Focus - The financial coaching leads to the client agreeing to

work on a specific task, such as developing and following a budget,

paying off debt, getting a resume' written, opening a bank account,

etc.

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client chooses the agenda

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encourage forward movement, with emphasis

on action

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• Build Rapport• Hold the Focus• Ask for Permission• Focus on Strengths

Coaching through Scarcity

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Coaching Mindset:

Build Rapport

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Coaching Mindset:

Holding the

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Coaching Mindset: Asking Permission

• Keep the client in the driver’s seat• Build trust and intimacy• Respect when a client says, “No.”

“Can I share an idea with

you?”

“I have a hunch about something,

can I share that with you?”

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Coaching Mindset:

Focus on Strengths

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Coaching Confidence: Focus on Strengths

Noticing and commenting on client strengths is a powerful way to reflect back to them the unique gifts that they bring.

Building a client’s awareness of their strengths helps them build confidence and well-being.

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Recognize

Coaching

Moments

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30,000 Feet

Ground Zero

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What messages are you picking up from

the client that may not be verbally

communicated?

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Powerful Questions

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Core Coaching Tools: Powerful Questions

Short and Simple

less than 10 words

Open Endednot be answered with

a yes/no

Asked in Curiosity

no agenda

Assumes Positive Intent

Starts with what, where,

who, why, whenusually doesn’t start

with why

1 2 3

4 5

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Connection, Aliveness,

Taking Charge,

Accountability, Calling

Forth, Goal Setting,

Brainstorming

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Set aside:• Personal opinions• Your preferences• The need to be right

Where are you most likely to need self-management?

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– Listen for your client’s unwanted results and then help them raise their awareness of their behavior and/or limiting belief

– Listen for an underlying limiting belief and then ask about their desired results, which can lead to the creation of an empowering belief

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No good company will hire a person like me.

I don’t even bother to apply for jobs outside of fast food.

I earn only minimum wage, which is not enough.

There is an employer who will hire a person with my background.

Go out and present myself in the best light and make applications.

To get hired in a good job paying $20+ per hour.

Start your beliefs conversation with your client leading with a question relating to each area.

Ask the client: “What is it about your situation that is holding you back right now?”

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Speak in Empowering Language

Replace Dis-Empowering Language

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I can’t afford it…

Money doesn’t “grow” on trees…

If money could talk, it would say good-bye…

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From scarcity to

sufficiency

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Methods of Savings

• Clients are highly encouraged to save money in order to ensure their economic survival.

• Personal savings is essential for financial progression and can be a tool for escaping the grips of poverty.

• The most common reason why people feel that cannot save is that they “can’t afford it.”

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Methods of Savings

• Help clients to find ways to free up money and save

• Have them to establish a savings development checklist

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The Asset Trio Model

Results in the entry point of an asset into a client’s life.

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The Asset Trio Model

Activities or behaviors that promotes the growth of assets in a client’s life.

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The Asset Trio Model

Activities and behaviors that results in preventing the loss of assets in a client’s life.

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Evolution:

Moving forward

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How might we design ways to be more effective working with people

experiencing scarcity?

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Questions & Reflections

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Summary of the Day

Clear Unclear

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Thank You