Clinical Issues in Planning, Preparing for and Supporting Adoption
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Clinical Issues in Planning, Preparing for and Supporting Adoption
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Issues that may arise as individuals are considering adoption and the differences between adopting and giving birth to a child The impact of community perceptions of adoption on the adoptive family The issues that are important to address in preparing children and youth for adoption Specific modalities that we can use in this preparation process – life books, EcoMaps, and adoption rituals Issues that may impact siblings in waiting (the birth or previously adopted children of adoptive parents) Issues that may impact birth parentsEthical issues that are relevant for clinicians in working with clients on planning and preparing for adoption
Today’s Session
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What adoption issues arose for you in your practice
since our last session together?
For Discussion
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Describe what constitutes evidence-based practice in the field of adoption/child welfare.
Identify three issues that should be addressed in preparing prospective adoptive parents and demonstrate two effective ways to address reluctance issues
Describe three differences between parenting an adopted child and a child by birth
Identify four critical elements in preparing a child for adoption
Learning Objectives
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Describe three ways that sibling relationships may be affected by adoption
Describe three differences between being adopted and being raised in one’s family of origin
Describe why a life book is important in preparing a child for adoption and demonstrate how to work with this tool
Learning Objectives
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Describe how a genogram can help a therapist understand a child’s family relationships and losses
Identify two approaches that a clinician can use to help prepare siblings in waiting for adoption
Identify three issues that should be addressed in preparing birth parents for the impact of adoption
Learning Objectives (Continued)
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Introduction to Evidence-Based Practice
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Planning and Preparing for Adoption: Prospective
Adoptive Parents
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Handout #3.1: Should I adopt?
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What are the issues with which this young woman – and many individuals – struggle?
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What are issues that an individual or couple might bring to you, as their therapist, when they have experienced infertility and are beginning to consider adoption?
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1. It is important for individuals to grieve their infertility losses.
2. It is important for individuals to decide how important a biological connection is to him/her.
3. When individuals are married or in a committed relationship, it is important for the individual to learn how his/her spouse/partner feels about adoption.
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Planning and Preparing for Adoption: Prospective Adoptive Parents
Handout # 3.2. The Reluctant Spouse
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Issue #1: Age: Am I too old to be a parent? Will I have enough energy? Enough patience? Enough love?
Issue #2: Money: How can I save for a college education when I need to save for retirement? Will an adoption eat up all my savings? Will we ever get to take a vacation again?
Issue #3: Time: Will a child be too disruptive? Will I have to curb my work hours? Do I want to?
Reluctance Issues
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Issue #4: Family: Will my parents reject an adopted child? Will my children from a prior marriage resent me for starting a new family? Will I make the same parenting mistakes again?
Issue #5: The Unknown: Who will the child be? What genetic surprises might be in store? Will I be able to love an adopted child as much as a biological one?
Reluctance Issues
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What other therapeutic approaches might you add to these ideas?
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4. It is important to consider the reactions of family and friends.
What comments that might prospective adoptive parents anticipate hearing from people outside their immediate families – or even from family members?
5. It is important to understand the different types of adoption.
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5. It is important to understand the different types of adoption.
◦ Public agency adoption◦ Private agency adoption◦ Independent adoption◦ International adoption
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TYPE OF ADOPTION COSTFoster Care Adoptions $0 - $2,500Licensed Private Agency Adoption $5,000 - $40,000+Independent Adoptions $8,000 - $40,000+Facilitated/Unlicensed Adoptions $5,000 - $40,000+Intercountry Adoptions $7,000 - $30,000
Planning and Preparing for Adoption: Prospective Adoptive ParentsCosts of Adoption
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6. It is important for prospective adoptive parents to be educated about adoption.
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What are some differences for parents when they have a child by birth and when they have a child through adoption?
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Who is involved?LossPregnancy and ChildbirthThe Adoption ProcessParentingAdoption Search and Reunion
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Handout # 3.3 An Adoptive Parent Talks About Adoption
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Thoughts on Kathryn’s story?
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Adoption USA: A Chartbook Based on the 2007 National Survey of Adoptive Families http://aspe.hhs.gov/hsp/09/NSAP/chartbook/chartbook.cfm?id=1
Exploring Individuals’ Motivations to Adopt
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In your small groups, rank order the frequency with which you think adoptive parents reported their reason for adopting. Rank order most frequently named reason to least frequently named reason. ◦ Inability to have a biological child◦ Provide a permanent home for a child in need◦ Wanting a sibling for another child◦ Desire to expand their family◦ Having a previously adopted the child’s siblings
Small Group Work
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Report Out
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The most commonly reported reason was to provide a permanent home for a child in need (81 percent).
Next: a desire to expand their family (69 percent)
Next: inability to have a biological child (52 percent)
Then: wanting a sibling for another child (24 percent)
Finally: having previously adopted the child’s sibling (7 percent).
What the Research Found
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Interestingly, the reported motivation to adopt differs by adoption type.
What the Research Found
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What might be some reasons that a prospective adopter might share that will require further exploration of their motivations to adopt?
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All of my friends have children, so I want one, too.
Having a child will make our marriage better. I am infertile, so I cannot “make” a baby myself. I do not have an heir to inherit my stuff. I fear my spouse will resent me if we do not
adopt a child. I really want to parent a child. I want the opportunity to love and be loved by a
child.
Some Motivations Requiring Further Exploration
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I want to be a parent. I want to help a child heal from an abusive
past. I want to rescue a child from poverty. My child would like a sibling. My family is not yet complete. My spouse really wants a child. There is an empty place at my table that
needs to be filled with a child. We will not be a family until we have a child.
Some Motivations Requiring Further Exploration
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How would you work with a prospective adopter when what the individual shares focuses almost exclusively on his/her need to be a parent?
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1. Have realistic expectations for the adoption
2. Are fully aware of the child’s needs 3. Have a proven ability to handle problems 4. Are flexible, optimistic, and have a sense
of humor 5. Have the ability to maintain a
commitment to the child in spite of challenges
Qualities of Successful Adoptive Parents: Holt International
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6. Can appreciate the small gains the child makes
7. Are comfortable using resources and treatment services when needed
8. Can attach and bond to others 9. Have strong marital relationships 10. Maintain an open communication styleRead more at:
http://www.holtinternational.org/waitingchild/olderchild.shtml
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Parenting commitment – ability to fully claim the child as theirs Ability to delay parenting gratification Sense of humor Tolerance for their own ambivalent and negative feelings about
the child Ability to set structure and limits in a caring way Tolerance for the child’s rejection Flexible family roles Flexible family expectations Openness to connections with birth family Ability to use resources and meet personal needsLearn more about Spaulding for Children’s work in this area at:
http://spaulding.org/institute/training/curricula/asap/
Qualities of Successful Adoptive Parents: Spaulding for Children
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What are your thoughts about these qualities of successful adoptive families?
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Break Time!
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Preparing for Adoption: Children
and Youth
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Darla Henry’s 3-5-7 Model
What are the Questions?
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Conceptual Questions: The five conceptual questions and the issues with which they are associated are:
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Questions Issues Who am I? LossWhat happened to me?
Identity
Where am I going? AttachmentHow will I get there? RelationshipsWhen and how will I know I belong?
Claiming/safety
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The tasks of clarification, integration, and actualization.
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Clarification: Small Group Work Handout #3.4 The 3-5-7 Model:
Clarification and Integration. Look at Handout #3.4 and discuss what clarification is needed in Georgia’s case.
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Integration: Small Group WorkHandout #3.4 The 3-5-7 Model: Clarification
and Integration
In your small groups role play a session between a therapist and Georgia that focuses on integration. Two of your group will play the roles of the therapist and Georgia. All others will be observers. Before beginning the role play, everyone reviews the observer sheet. You will then have 8 minutes to do the role play with observers making notes on the observer sheet.
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Report Out: What observations would you like to share
about your role plays on integration?
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Actualization in Belonging to a New Family is the task of helping children visualize their membership in one specific family and what it is going to be like to be a member of the family.
Critical Importance of Preparing Children and Youth
Actualization
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What are the critical activities in the 3-5-7 model?
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That’s right! They are:◦Engaging the child◦Listening to the child’s words◦Speaking the truth◦Validating the child’s life story◦Creating a safe space◦Going back in time◦Recognizing pain as part of the process
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Preparing for Adoption: Children and Youth Demonstrated Role Play: This
conversation is being used for demonstration purposes; it represents a synthesis of several conversations that Alicia and Craig have had together. Obviously, no therapist would squeeze in all of this within a few minutes and no adolescent is likely to be this verbal!
Handout #3.5Worksheet: Seven Critical Elements of
Preparing for Adoption
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What did you observe in terms of the critical elements in preparing Craig for adoption?
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Seven Critical Elements Examples1. Engaging the child Use of humor
Staying with Craig’s emotions at each step
2. Listening to the child’s words Attending to what Craig says and reflecting on the emotions behind the statements
3. Speaking the truth Acknowledging that Craig’s experience has been painfulNot attempting to soften the impact of Craig’s experiences on him
4. Validating the child’s life story Acknowledging the events in Craig’s life5. Creating a safe space Use of humor
Letting Craig know that it is okay to be angry. This can only happen if the child feels that the therapist can “hold” their anger. Understanding that under anger is hurt
6. Going back in time Going back to Craig’s experiences with his mom as it relates to the adoption plan
7. Recognizing pain as part of the process Explicitly acknowledging the hurt that Craig feels
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Children’s Siblings
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Four children enter foster care. The youngest child, Timmy, a 7-year-old boy, has serious emotional and behavioral problems and is placed in residential care. The three older children are placed with a pre-adoptive therapeutic family. The three older children are a boy, age 14, and two girls, ages 10 and 9. The two girls are angry with their younger brother because they believe that he has cost them the chance to have an adoptive family.
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The older brother, Jared, however, is worriedabout Timmy. During the time that the children lived with their birth mother, Jared played a parent-like role for his siblings. He feels responsible for Timmy and is guilty that he has not succeeded in keeping his siblings together. He tells his social worker, his pre-adoptive parents and his therapist, “I’ll make certain that Timmy doesn’t bother anyone. Just bring him back.”
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As Jared’s (the older brother’s) therapist, what are some of the issues that you would want to address in preparing him for adoption?
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What might be a child’s reaction when he is being adopted but his sibling (for example, a younger sister) remains at home with his birth parents?
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Lunch Time!
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In your pre-Module work, you prepared three differences for a child between joining a family through birth and joining a family through adoption. What differences did you identify?
The Differences Between Being Adopted and Being Raised in One’s Family of Origin
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Handout #3.6. Case Examples: The Differences Between Being Adopted and Being Raised in One’s Family of Origin: In your small groups, discuss for the blog entry that I assign you how the young person views adoption and how, if you were his/her therapist, you might work with him around clarification, integration and actualization of belonging to his/her family.
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Report Out
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Lifebooks
Tools that Can Help Children Prepare for Adoption
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1. True or False: Life books are done only by social workers.
A Quiz
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Life books are NOT done only by social workers. Life books may be put together by a social worker, foster and/or adoptive parents or even birthparents or members of the birth parents’ extended family. The child’s therapist may be involved in working with the child on his/her life book.
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2. True or False: A life book is the same thing as a scrapbook.
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Life books are NOT the same thing as a scrapbook. A life book is not a collection of pictures and mementos. Life books are a pictorial and written representation of the life of a child, which is designed to help the child better understand and make sense of his or her unique background and history.
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3. True or False: A life book is used to clarify the child’s understanding of what has happened, to help the child and his/her family understand what underlies current behaviors, and to help the child understand himself/herself through time.
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A life book IS used to clarify the understanding of what has happened, help the child and his/her family understand what underlies current behaviors, and help the child understand himself/herself through time.
This is exactly how Vera Fahlberg defines a life book. Each of these three purposes of a life book is important.
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4. A life book might contain:a. Information about the child’s birth parentsb. The child’s birthplace and datec. Information about the child’s extended
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A life book may contain ALL of the following:
Information about the child’s birth parents The child’s birthplace and date Information about the child’s extended familyThere is no required content for a life book but
information that is often included is information about birth parents, other members of the extended family, birthplace and birth date.
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5. A child may choose to include which of the following in her life book?
a. Art by the childb. The child’s wordsc. Photos of the child and birth family
membersd. The child’s drawingse. All of the above
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A child may choose to include ANY of the following in her life book:
Her art Her own words Photos of herself and birth family members Her own drawings
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All of these items may be included in the child’s life book. These items can help a child:◦ Tell his/her story from birth◦ Resolve strong emotions about past events,
especially those related to separation and loss experiences
◦ Link the past to the present by helping the child understand how earlier events affect current perceptions and behaviors
◦ Separate reality from fantasy or magical thinking◦ Identify positives as well as negatives about the
family of origin
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6.True or False: The best way to do a life book is for the parent to put together the information for the child.
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The best way to do a life book is NOT for the parent to put together the information for the child.
Most adoption specialists say that it is important to involve the child in the development of a life book. Depending on the child’s age and developmental level, the child can take the lead or the parent, social worker or therapist can match material to the child’s development and share it with him/her as the process goes on.
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7. True or False: Life books can be therapeutic.
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Life books CAN be therapeutic. Life books may involve children’s re-living feelings of loss and abandonment. Life books can help enhance self-esteem and identity formation. Importantly: the product is not the point – but rather the process.
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What does a life book actually look like?Some Examples
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Handout #3.7: Life Book Examples
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Small Group WorkHandout #3.8: Life Book Case Scenarios: Return
to your small groups. I will assign one of the scenarios to each group so that each group has a different scenario . Each scenario relates to life book work – either before a child is adopted, as a way of preparing the child for adoption, or after the adoption in situations where a life book was not developed for/with the child. Discuss the case scenario and be prepared to report back on how you would approach their clinical work in these cases.
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A.R. Calix (2004). Is the ecomap a valid and reliable social work tool to measure social support? Available at:
http://etd.lsu.edu/docs/available/etd-04072004-180134/unrestricted/Calix_thesis.pdf
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Ecomaps: Small Group WorkHandout #3.9. EcoMap: Form and Suggestions Pair up
in twos with someone with whom you have not worked today. I will assign each pair Scenario A or Scenario B. Do a role play in which one person plays a child and the other plays the therapist.
First, introduce the ecomap to the child. Help the child understand what an ecomap is and why you are doing it together.
Next, each child/therapist team will work together on an EcoMap using the work sheet in Handout #3.9. The “child” shares the background information with the “therapist” and the two work together on an EcoMap. ” “Children” – please feel free to be as creative as you would like!
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Scenario A: Bonnie is a 12-year-old who has been in foster care for 10 years. She will be adopted by her aunt, her mother’s sister. Her birth mother says she agrees with the adoption plan but has been acting in angry ways lately.
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Scenario B: Evie, age 7, has been very anxious over the past few months. She has a hard time sleeping and clings to her adoptive mother. Evie was adopted at age 3 from Korea with her sister, who is now 10. Evie has heard her sister telling their parents that she never wanted to be adopted – and especially not by them.
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Did your work involve completing the entire EcoMap or only portions of it? What led to your decision?
Did the EcoMap process help the child express feelings or concerns?
If you were to use the EcoMap again, what lessons would you take from your experience in doing an ecomap as a therapist and as a child?
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Genograms
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What might some reasons to do a genogram when working with a child who is being prepared for adoption?
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Why might you want to do a genogram for a child?
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Reasons for doing a genogram:◦ To provide a clear picture of the child’s immediate
and extended family◦ To clarify important people in the child’s life◦ To identify patterns in family relationships
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A genogram is created with simple symbols. Some basic guidelines for genograms are:
Neutral symbols represent different genders: a square for male and a circle for female.
An “X” over a box means that the person has died. Usually, the person’s name and age – if known – are placed under each symbol.
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The lines in genograms show family relationships. A straight line connects parents to each other and to children.
Two diagonal lines crossing over connecting lines between spouses means divorce.
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Genograms: Small Group WorkHandout #3.12. Practice in Constructing
Genograms Divide into groups of three. Each group will
develop a genogram for a child based on one of the scenarios in Handout #3.12. Put your completed genograms on a flip chart -- this is how you will share their genograms with the rest of the class. Please use Handout #3.11: Genogram Guidelines in developing your genograms.
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Report Out: Your Genograms
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Break Time!
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Preparing the Sibling-in-Waiting for
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“Because of the nature of our work, a lot of us tend to focus on the newly adopted child. It is good to take a step back and look at this from all points of view. The child already in the family will experience just as much change with the least amount of preparation.”
Heidi Weitzman, Children’s Aid Society, Minnesota Waiting Child Program
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What other issues might come up for children who are waiting for a newly adopted child to join their family?
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Small Group WorkHandout #3.13 Amanda and Ally Look at the case scenario on Handout #3.13.
In your small groups, discuss how you, as the therapist, would you work with the mother (Amanda) and with the daughter (Ally)?
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Handout #3.14: Preparing Siblings in Waiting for Adoption
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The Waiting Child Program has developed a list of questions that a clinician can ask a child already in the home (by birth or a previous adoption):◦What does adoption mean?◦What do you know about the adoption
process?◦Why is our family adopting?◦What do you think will be different after
adoption?
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◦What might be the same?◦What will be hard to talk about?◦Who can you talk to when it’s hard?◦What can’t you handle?◦What will happen if you hate it?
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Are there other questions that you would add to this list?
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Parents who are considering placing their infants or young children for adoption.
Birth parents of children who are adopted internationally.
Parents whose children are in foster care and who are considering voluntarily placing their children for adoption rather than going through an involuntary termination of parental rights.
Parents for whom the plan is to terminate their parental rights.
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As part of your pre-module work for this class, you read three articles from RISE magazine written by parents who have experienced involuntary termination of parental rights. You prepared a list of issues that parents may face when their rights were involuntarily terminated. What issues did you identify?
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There have not been studies in the US about the experiences of parents whose parental rights have been involuntarily terminated. However, an English study found that they often experience:◦ Deep shame◦ Feelings of stigma from family and in
some cases from the broader community◦ Sense of public humiliation◦ Anger and sense of being treated unfairly ◦ Tremendous sense of loss that their children are no
longer theirs
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◦ Deep shame◦ Feelings of stigma from family and in some
cases from the broader community◦ Sense of public humiliation◦ Anger and sense of being treated unfairly ◦ Tremendous sense of loss that their children are
not longer theirs
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For a research review, see M. Freundlich. (2002). Adoption research: An assessment of empirical contributions to the advancement of adoption practice. Journal of Social Distress and the Homeless, 11(2), 143-166.
An excellent first hand account of young women’s experiences in placing their children for adoption during the 1950s and 1960s is a book by Ann Fessler, The Girls Who Went Away: The Hidden History of Women Who Surrendered Children for Adoption in the Decades Before Roe v. Wade.
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Grief
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From a birth mother: “I gave my child up for adoption at birth
because I felt pressured into it. Once I said I would, the adoption agency kept such a tight rein on me that I was afraid to change my mind. That was the biggest mistake of my life. I will regret it until the day I die.”
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From Being a Birthparent: Finding our Place by Brenda Romanchik:
“The darkness of grief often makes it difficult for birthparents to see what they have to offer. By relinquishing their right to parent, many may feel as if their work is done. Society tends to reinforce this by portraying good birthparents as silent participants. In addition, birthparents may be struggling with the inner demons of shame and guilt and may not feel worthy of a relationship with their children. They may also have family and friends who are not very supportive of their decision and make it difficult for them to feel good about continued contact.”
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Romantic Relationships
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Here is a quote from a birth mother to consider:“Even though I am not yet married, the placement of my
daughter has already affected my marriage. I want to start having children a lot earlier than my fiancée. Even though I will love all my kids, I will always long for a little girl to raise. My fiancée has been wonderful in the discussions we have had about having future children and assures me that the importance having kids holds to me will only mean it will be that much more important to him sooner. Does that mean that is how things will work out necessarily? No, but it does show that my fiancée is more than understanding and respectful of the effect that placing my daughter has had on myself and our relationship. “
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Parenting Issues
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How parents approach parenting may be impacted by whether they continue to have contact with the child whom they placed for adoption. Birth parents with open adoptions may have different reactions to subsequently parenting a child.
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You are a therapist working with Sue, ayoung woman who is thinking of making an adoption planfor her baby. Sue tells you that a friend of hers “gave up”Her first child for adoption because she was raped. She says that her friend is happy now. It’s five years later, and she and her husband are expecting their first baby together. Her friend, though, is scared that shesteeled herself so much for the first child being taken that she won't be able to love this one. Sue asks you if she will feel that way if she places her baby foradoption.
What would you say to Sue?
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Define evidence-based practice in the field of adoption/child welfare.
Identify three issues that should be addressed in preparing prospective adoptive parents for adoption and demonstrate two effective ways to address reluctance issues
Describe three differences between parenting an adopted child and a child by birth.
Identify four critical elements in preparing a child for adoption
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Describe three ways that sibling relationships may be affected by adoption
Describe three differences between being adopted and being raised in one’s family of origin
Describe why a life book is important in preparing a child for adoption and demonstrate how to work with this tools
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Describe how a genogram can help a therapist understand a child’s family relationships and losses
Identify two approaches that a clinician can use to help prepare siblings in waiting for adoption
Identify three issues that should be addressed in preparing birth parents for the impact of adoption
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The Brief Online Survey
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The next session will focus in great depth on some of the issues that we briefly mentioned today:
LossGrief Separation
Please go to the website for your pre-module assignments.
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Until Our Next Session!