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Clergy letter

For last year's words belong to last year's language

And next year's words await another voice.”

T. S. Eliot Little Gidding

There are more than 170,000 words in the Oxford English dictionary,

although the average person’s vocabulary is closer to 30,000 words. And

of course the dictionary is regularly updated as obsolete words are

removed and new words added. The most recent revision includes the

noun ‘croggy’ meaning a ride on the

handlebars or crossbar of a bicycle, the

verb ‘fellmonger’ which means to strip wool

from a sheepskin, and the regional noun

‘corporation pop’, which will be familiar to

#many of my fellow northerners as slang for

tap water. I’m not sure that any of these

new additions will feature in a sermon

anytime soon.

But for us as Christians, words matter. God is always speaking. Communication

is intrinsic to God’s very being. In the first account of creation in Genesis,

God speaks the heavens and the earth into existence. Recently at Christmas

we heard the familiar prologue to John’s Gospel and reflected on the paradox

of God’s eternal Word revealed in the form of a wordless baby. As we move

further into 2018, are we open to hearing God speak in ‘another voice’, in

fresh and unexpected ways?

But whilst God is always communicating in new ways, the church is

sometimes accused of being marooned in a communications time warp.

In Eliot’s terms we seem to speak not just the words and language of last

year, but the words and language of the last century. I don’t mean by that

our use of liturgy, modern or traditional, where the poetry often expresses

profound truth far more effectively than prose. But how well do we

communicate the Christian message with those outside our three churches?

When the church and its message are dismissed as irrelevant, is that

negative response a genuine rejection of God, or is it, at least sometimes,

our failure to communicate effectively.

One of my hopes for this still ‘new’ year is that we will begin find that ‘other

voice’ of which Eliot speaks, to communicate more effectively both with our

community and amongst ourselves.

Ann Nickson

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Barnes Green Centre

Church Road

Barnes SW13 9HE

9th Jan: Vicky McGrath

Toys through the ages

16th Jan: Lisa Wilson

Food, Glorious Food

23rd Jan: Afia Bhatti

The Mulberry Centre

30th Jan: Shaun Lamplough

Honey Bees --------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

6th Feb: Dr Claire Pond

A Good Nights’ Sleep

13th Feb: Robert Woolf

Where are they now?

City of London Features

that have moved!

20th Feb: Jennifer Sturdy

Volunteer English

teacher in rural Kenya

27th Feb: Simon Fowler

Being old in Victorian

Richmond

Coffee from 10.30am

Talks begin at 11.00am

and last approximately 40 mins

All Welcome

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Contents of Interest

Clergy Letter 1 Last year’s words

Islam 3 Sunday evenings in Lent

Planned Giving Campaign 5 Have you sent in your return?

Parkinson’s Disease 8 - 9 Sometimes it feels like …….

Parish Christmas Day Lunch 10 - 11 Around 40 guests

Christmas Angels - 2017 14 - 15 Thank yous

House Groups in the Parish 17 Would you like to join one?

Concert at Christ Church 19 The Barnes Choir

Women’s World Day of Prayer 20 Friday, 2nd March

Flowers for Christmas workshop 21 25 people enjoyed the occasion

Suzy Lamplugh Trust 23 Live Life Safe

What’s on ….

FiSH talks 2

Holocaust Memorial Day recital 4

Quiet Day for start of Lent 6

Ash Wednesday Services 7

Pancake party at St Mary’s 7

CTiMES Service 11

JAN/FEB CALENDAR 12 - 13 Organ Spectacular at All Saints 16

All Saints Concert Series 16

FiSH Sunday – 4 February 18

Friends of Mortlake Ch/yard AGM 22

Musical at Sheen Lane Centre 22

and finally…

Registers 24

Islam looking beyond the stereotypes

Sunday evenings in Lent

at 6.30pm

18 Feb Islam an introduction

Dr Stephen Burge at St Mary’s Mortlake

25 Feb Being a British Muslim

Rashid Ali Laher at Christ Church

East Sheen

4 March How Islamic is Islamic State?

Chris Hewer at St Mary’s Mortlake

11 March Islam, Women, and other things..

Haifaa Khalafallah at All Saints

East Sheen

18 Mar Working with other faiths

Mark Poulson at Christ Church

East Sheen

(venues may change so please read the notice sheet)

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Christmas Day Lunch and Tea

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…Love, love, love that is the soul of genius …

Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart

1756 – 1791

Holocaust Memorial Day

Piano recital given by Jacqueline Cole

Works by Mozart, Ullmann, Haydn, Faure,

Chopin

Saturday, 3rd February

at 7.30pm

at Christ Church

On behalf of Safe Passage UK / Legal Routes to Sanctuary

FREE RECITAL WITH RETIRING COLLECTION

Planned Giving Campaign – 2017-18 Supporting Each Other

It has been noted several times over the past year that the finances of the

parish are under strain. A combination of increasing costs and a fall in income

had created a deficit of around £20,000.

This was the background that each of us faced when asked to consider our

financial commitment to the church during the annual planned giving Sunday

in October. The planned giving scheme and its associated tax benefits made

up around three-quarters of the parish’s income in 2016. To close the deficit,

an increase in the amount being pledged through scheme would be necessary.

To achieve this, the planned giving committee decided to take a more direct

approach this year. Instead of asking people to review their giving, a more

direct approach was taken. People were asked, if possible, to increase their

giving. Those not in the scheme were asked to join.

The response has been heartening. Commitments made increased the

amount pledged for 2018 by just under £20,000, closing the deficit. The

planned giving committee wishes to thank all who continue to support the

finances of the parish but especially those who were able to respond by

increasing the amount they give.

Still some have not responded to the request sent by the planned giving

representative in their church. With a new year starting, it could be the

prompt some need to review their giving and send an email to their church

representative. Even letting the representative know you do not intend to

make any changes would be useful. However, it may be possible that some

who have not yet replied could increase their giving and help further stabilise

the parish’s finances.

Stabilisation is good but we should remember this follows difficult choices

made over several years. Giving to missions has been reduced and the parish

no longer supports a youth worker. Any extra money raised above stabilisation

will be used well.

You can contact the planned giving representative in your church at the email

addresses shown below.

For St. Mary’s: Matthew Pass at - [email protected]

For Christ Church: Peter Jones at - [email protected]

For All Saints: Emma Macintyre at - [email protected]

Graeme Forbes at - [email protected]

Ian Bright - Chair of Planned Giving Committee

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ASH WEDNESDAY

14th February, 2018

Ash Wednesday marks the beginning of

Lent. It offers the opportunity to take

stock of our lives and to seek God’s

grace to draw closer to him.

It is a day for all Christians to join in

worship with others.

8.00pm Sung Eucharist

at St Mary’s and Christ Church

The Imposition of Ashes will be offered.

(Note – due to All Saints hosting the Glass Door night shelter on a

Wednesday their service will be announced in weekly notices)

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Pancake Party at St Mary’s Tuesday, 13th February

at 6.30pm

with Pancake tossing!

Tickets - £1 adults and 50p children

Brownies and Cubs battle it out with pancake races!

Bring and share supper followed by pancakes and …

the Coggins quiz

Tickets available from Sarah at St Mary’s from Sunday, 28 January,

Or phone: 8392 1467 - email: [email protected]

Sometimes it feels as if you are using someone else’s legs.

There are currently 127,000 people in UK who have

Parkinson’s Disease (Parkinson’s UK). That is expected to

rise to 162,000 by 2020. It is a disease which can be

dramatically life changing but is little understood by the

public. I was diagnosed with it six years ago at the age of

63. After a period of vigorous denial, (I’m too young, I only

shake a little bit don’t I?) there came indisputable

confirmation from a second opinion

(Could you walk down the corridor sir? Now, can you draw a spiral on this

paper? When did you start to lose your sense of smell?, I’m afraid it is……)

Finally, came the slow dawning that I’d better get used to it – shufflin ‘n’ shakin

was to be the new normal for the rest of my life.

Parkinson’s disease does not kill you, it just frustrates your attempt to live the

life you had hoped to live. As Billy Connelly once said, “They told me I’ve got

Parkinson’s. So I said - If it’s Parkinson’s why can’t he keep it for himself.” For a

comedian like Billy, his diagnosis must have been particularly hard to take as

one of the classic symptoms is the so called ‘Parkinson’s mask’ where your

facial expression becomes fixed and you forget how to laugh. Put that together

with the Parkinson’s typically dull monotonous voice and you can tell it’s not a

bundle of fun having the disease.

Parkinson’s is a progressive neurological condition for which there is currently

no cure and the cause is unknown. Basically it reduces the brain’s ability to

produce Dopamine; the chemical messenger which generally smooths out the

electrical signals from the brain to the muscles. Its absence in parts of the

body often results in tremor and decreases your ability to fine-tune your

movements. Walking becomes much more difficult as you try to stay in control

of the complex sequence of movements which make up your gait. It doesn’t

stop you walking, but sometimes it feels as if you are using someone else’s

legs.

Since diagnosis, my life has changed in many ways, but not all of them are

negative. I’ve had some fantastic help from the NHS. Queen Mary’s hospital in

Roehampton run classes designed to help you live more comfortably with

Parkinson’s. I’ve had sessions with an occupational therapist (She introduced

me to specially designed spoons and how to set up my lap-top

to avoid typing unwaanted doubble letttters) and individual speech therapy

sessions (You had to reach 90 decibels while sounding ‘Ahh’- I practised

at home in the wardrobe to avoid disturbing the neighbours) .

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They also run exercise classes for Parkinson’s people where they combine

physical challenge with mental activity (Thinking of the names of famous

politicians while throwing and catching balls is incredibly challenging). I’ve

adapted some of these exercises for my early morning work-out. Keeping

fit, of course, is important for all of us, but for people with neurological

disorders, regular exercise improves balance and accuracy of movement

and slows the progression of the disease. It also makes you feel better.

Keeping a regular exercise regime going can mean the difference between

a good life and a drawn out miserable journey towards extinction.

A high point of my week now is the Parkinson’s ballet classes run by the

Rambert Dance Company at their impressive new studios behind the

National Theatre. (I like to say they are ‘ballet’ classes, as it conjures up

bizarre images of shaky people in tutus, but really it’s contemporary dance).

The classes are based on some of the movement in renowned Rambert

productions and adapted especially for Parkinson’s dancers.

There has been a lot of serious research into the positive benefits of

dance in alleviating the symptoms of Parkinson’s, and ‘Dance for

Parkinson’s’ classes are now opening up all over the country.

Having focussed on some of the good news, I don’t want to give the

impression that it is a trivial disease. While my symptoms vary in severity

from hour to hour, they are, so far, mostly manageable. However, I now

meet many sufferers who are in constant discomfort; whose mobility is

severely affected and involuntary movement, on the one hand and

movement ‘freezing’ on the other, make life almost intolerable. For me,

it’s the embarrassment of trying to keep my food on my fork when out to

dinner, or finding a shaky hand has betrayed my raised stress level in

social situations which, in the past, I would have taken in my stride. I also

feel self-conscious when, one moment I may be walking almost normally

and the next (as the Dopamine runs out) I can only shuffle my feet

pathetically along the floor.

These conspicuous symptoms can all too easily lead sufferers to withdraw

gradually from the social world to avoid feelings of awkwardness. I am

fortunate, however, to be blessed by having the support of my remarkable

wife, Jenny and also by membership of a church community founded on

compassion and tolerance of differences. Many people find it difficult to

be open about health issues. My hope is that, in writing of my experience,

I have made more visible the consequences of living with disease and

pointed towards the need for better understanding of all whose mental or

physical condition requires our support and love.

Andy Hughes

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Parish Christmas Day Lunch and Tea at

St Mary’s - 2017

As has been the case for a number of

years now, St Mary’s hosted the Parish

Christmas Day lunch and tea. Around

forty guests came to enjoy themselves,

some under their own steam and others

by the good offices of one of the FiSH

mini busses.

We served drinks to those gathering,

while a small army of helpers

assembled the component parts of Christmas lunch – everything from sprouts

(reactions vary, don’t they?) to turkey (wouldn’t be the same without it) and

pigs in blankets (who could turn one down?). Very soon, the guests were

tucking in; and after serving second helpings there was very little left over. We

had a selection of Christmas puddings and mince pies to offer for dessert,

which we followed with a bit of a pause for digestion and for the waiters and

waitresses to recover their breath a bit.

In the lull in between lunch and the

Queen’s Speech Greg convened a

scratch choir which led guests and

helpers in some carol singing,

before Perry entertained us all with

his guitar. A slight competitive edge

came with the drawing of the raffle,

and then it was time for us to tune

in to Her Majesty’s Christmas

broadcast, along with seven and a

half million others across the

country. In this speech, the Queen encouraged us to treasure our homes and

to be grateful for the warmth, familiarity, and love we find there – along with

the time we share with our loved-ones. There were also a couple of references

to the Royal Family themselves: that Prince Philip has retired from public life at

the age of 96; and that Prince Harry is to marry Meghan Markle later on this

year.

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We then enjoyed Sarah’s Christmas-themed quiz, with just as many

brain-teasers as straight forward questions, before we turned to tea

and Christmas cake. I had never seen sugar-frosted cranberries used

used as edible decoration before; not only did they look wonderfully like

like holly- berries, they were also very tasty. And after tea, the guests

began to make their way home again.

There are two things to say, really,

about the Christmas lunch. The

first is, of course, that offering a

hand of friendship on such a day

to the lonely and marginalized is

probably one of the most Christian

things we do collectively, as a

parish. It is very close to the heart

of faith in action. And the second is to thank all of those who helped in so

many ways, and whose time and exertions came together to make the

Christmas lunch and entertainment pass off so smoothly. A special mention

goes to Sarah and to Greg who kept a watchful eye over the whole of the

proceedings, as well as working very hard themselves. It would not have

happened without you – and I, along with the rest of the parish, am very glad

that it did. Thank you.

Alex Barrow

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Christians Together in Mortlake and

East Sheen (CTiMES)

Service for the Week of Prayer for Christian Unity

at

East Sheen Baptist Church, Temple Sheen Road,

Sunday, 21st January 2018

at 3.30pm

All Welcome

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January Calendar

Tuesday 2nd 6.00pm Julian meeting (silent prayer) at St Mary's

Wednesday 3rd 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

Thursday 4th 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

Saturday 6th 12.30pm Parish Circle Dancing at St Mary’s

Sunday 7th Epiphany

Monday 8th 9.30am Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s

8.00pm Christ Church Consultative at Christ Ch

Wednesday 10th 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

Thursday 11th 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

Friday 12th 2.00pm Mothers’ Union meet at St Mary’s

Saturday 13th 12.15pm Christ Church Glass Door volunteers meet

In Community hall

Sunday 14th 2nd Sunday of Epiphany

Monday 15th Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s

Wednesday 17th 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints

Thursday 18th 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

Friday 19th 3.00pm Active Retired meeting at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at Christ Church

Community Hall

Saturday 20th Organ Recital at All Saints

Sunday 21st 3rd Sunday of Epiphany

Monday 22nd 9,.30am Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s

Wednesday 24th 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints

Thursday 25th 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

Friday 26th PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at Christ Church

Community Hall

Sunday 28th 4th Sunday of Epiphany

Monday 29th 9.30am Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s

Wednesday 31st 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints

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February Calendar

Thursday 1st 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

6.30pm Contemplative Prayer Group meet venue tbc Friday 2

nd PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at Christ Church

Saturday 3rd 12.30pm Parish Circle Dancing at St Mary’s

7.30pm Holocaust Memorial Recital – Christ Church

Sunday 4th 2nd Sunday before Lent

Monday 5th

9.30am Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s Tuesday 6

th 6.00pm Julian meeting (silent prayer) at St Mary's

Wednesday 7th

10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints 6.30pm Mortlake Almshouse Trustees meet – 206 Upper Richmond Road West PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints Thursday 8

th 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

Friday 9th PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at Christ Church

Sunday 11th Sunday next before Lent

Tuesday 13th

6.30pm Pancake party at St Mary’s Wednesday 14

th ASH WEDNESDAY

8.00pm Ash Wednesday Services at St Mary’s and Christ Church 12.30pm Lent Lunch at Christ Church Community Hall PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints Friday 16

th 3.00pm Active Retired meeting at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at Christ Church Community Hall Saturday 17

th 10-2.00pm Quiet Day for Lent – Christ Church

Community Hall

Sunday 18th 1st Sunday of Lent

Monday 19th 9.30am Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s

Wednesday 21st 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints Thursday 22

nd 10.00am Songs and Stories at Christ Church

Friday 23rd PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at Christ Church

Saturday 24th 12 noon Friends of Mortlake Churchyard AGM at

St Mary’s

Sunday 25th 2nd Sunday of Lent

Monday 26th 9.30am Tiddlywinks at St Mary’s

Wednesday 28th 10.00am Songs and Stories at All Saints

PM/AM Glass Door night shelter at All Saints

Christmas Angels 2017

We would like to thank you all hugely for

such generosity in supporting our three local

causes – Refuge, Crossroads Saturday Club

and Richmond Resettlement again at

Christmas.

As a result we have been able to meet their requests to support

many local families, children and young people, who live near to

us but are facing difficult circumstances. We were able to increase

the value of the gift vouchers we gave to all the adults and young

people this year – a total of 49 women at Refuge, 15 adults at

Richmond Resettlement and 30 young people at Crossroads. We

also gave lovely gifts to children ranging from new born babies to

10 year olds - 27 to children at Refuge and 13 to little ones being

support by Richmond Resettlement.

All the staff at these charities were very appreciative of the gifts

And support from the churches in the parish. It means a great

deal to them and to those they are helping. We are hoping to

arrange for a representative from each of the organisations to

come and speak to us briefly at the end of a Sunday service in

the new year about the work they are doing. We are planning for

someone from Refuge to come to All Saints, Crossroads to

Christchurch and Richmond Resettlement to St Mary’s. Look out

for more updates in the pew sheets in church.

There is some remaining money which we will give as a donation

to the registered charities. So once again thank you very much to

everyone in the parish for a wonderful response.

Karen Brown, Sue Urquhart,

Ginny Waterkeyn and Mary Abel.

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A ‘thank you’ letter from Crossroads

Crossroads Saturday

Club Party 2017

We celebrated yet another great year at

the Crossroads Saturday Club!

The Karate instructors prepared those

due to attend their grading sessions the

following day. The young people were

very excited as they knew Santa was due

on his Sleigh that afternoon to bring

them presents. Party food and festive

music made the atmosphere even more

special for them all.

After Karate had finished they all put

their coats on and went outside in

groups to await ‘Santa’s’ arrival. Santa was very jolly and some of the young

people were super excited! One boy screamed ‘I can’t believe Santa is here!’.

Santa gave all the children the vouchers kindly donated by the Churches of

East Sheen and Mortlake along with a Christmas variety pack. They were very

shocked to receive the £15 vouchers and could not wait to show their parents

when they arrived to collect them!

We all really appreciate the kind donation of vouchers and sweets for the young

people at the club. It makes it so special for them, and they really

look forward to receiving the gifts.

THANK YOU TO:

St Mary’s, Christ Church and All Saints.

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House Groups in the Parish

Rowan Williams observes in Being Christian, that the Christian life is a listening

life. Listening to God, listening to one another speaking about God’s word and

hen sharing what we hear as our witness to God.

So imagine sitting in a comfy chair, a cup of coffee at hand, a slice of cake,

and talking with a group of friends around the table. What could be better?

That is in essence what a house group is. The talk is about each other,

about God, how we out our faith, the questions faith poses, the ups and

downs, the uncertainties and the dreams. House groups may probe the

different books of the Bible, take inspiration from poets and painters, learn

about the lives of holy - or nor so holy - people. Most of all our understanding

is enlarged by listening to the others in our groups.

"Refreshing, challenging and enlightening to discuss different perspectives

on spiritual and religious issues in a welcoming and supportive environment

with my fellow Christians” M

“The otherwise rare opportunity to discuss "the big things”. This 'just happens'

in the friendly, cosy gathering over tea and a book that is a house group.” R

“A little window in the month where you can exhale and relax amongst friends,

to explore things that matter without tensing up about it!” K

“stimulating and rewarding and a great opportunity to exchange ideas with

like minded people.” J

There are a number of different house groups meeting across the parish,

taking their names from Celtic saints. Why not get in touch and try one out?

Alban Group 2nd Mondays, 8pm at 84 Temple Sheen Road, convened by

Paul Russenberger - [email protected]

Winifrida Group 2nd Tuesdays, 10.45am at 84 Temple Sheen Road,

convened by Judith Russenberger - [email protected]

Hilda Group 2nd Wednesdays, 11.15am at Christ Church, convened by

David Guest - [email protected]

Ethelburga Group 2nd Wednesdays, 8pm at 103 Richmond Park Road,

convened by Melanie Compton - [email protected]

Cuthbert Group 2nd Thursdays, 10.45am at 84 Temple Sheen Road,

convened by Judith Russenberger

Tydfil Group 2nd Thursdays, 8pm at 84 Temple Sheen Road, convened by

Judith Russenberger

During Lent some of these groups will meet weekly.

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A Celebration

We are celebrating Fr Peter

King’s ministry in this parish as

he marks his seventieth birthday

this year.

At 6.00pm on Sunday 11th

February there will be a Mass of

Thanksgiving at All Saints’,

followed by something to eat and

drink.

Do join us!

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Concert at Christ Church –

9th December

Christ Church was packed on Saturday evening, 9TH December, for the

Barnes Choir Christmas concert - a joyful rendering of the first three

parts of Bach's Christmas Oratorio. These were interspersed with

audience participation in favourite carols, and some delightful ones

from the Choir, mixing the well-known, including "Ding dong merrily on

high" with our first hearing of "Star of the East" with music by

Russell Hepplewhite (who was in the audience).

The three Bach cantatas performed this evening were written for the

first three days of Christmas and incorporate the Nativity story,

narrated by the Evangelist, arias sung by the four first-class

soloists and choruses sung with great energy by the choir. The

orchestral accompaniment is typically complex and exciting as in the

exuberant part played by trumpets in some of the choruses. It was a

pleasure to hear the choir in such good voice, particularly in the

quieter moments of the beautiful chorales which provide commentary

on the story.

The evening, conducted by the Choir's Musical Director Julian Collings,

was a perfect start to a season of Christmas music, and was very well

received by the large audience.

Alison Wilson

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Come and join us for a light lunch with musical

entertainment

at St Michael’s Community Centre,

Elm Bank Gardens, Barnes, SW13 ONX

Friday 2nd February - 12.30pm – 1.30pm

Donations to FiSH (suggested £5.00 to cover lunch costs)

St Paul’s Musicians

WOMEN’S WORLD DAY OF PRAYER

Friday 2nd March 2018

2 pm at the Baptist Church, Temple Sheen Road ‘All God’s Creation is very good!’

This is an international, ecumenical, prayer movement that invites women,

from a different part of the world each year, to prepare a worship service

through which their hopes and fears for their country may be brought before

the whole world in prayer. This year the service comes from Suriname, on

the northeastern Atlantic coast of South America. The service will have been

translated into over 60 languages and 1,000 dialects and will be celebrated

in 170 countries and islands. Here in the British Isles, some 6,000 services

will be taking place!

The theme this year - ‘All God’s Creation is very good!’ – gives us the

opportunity to reflect on what this means to us as individuals and to our world

through the eyes of the women of Suriname. They urge us to cherish God’s

gift of creation and to commit ourselves to caring for God’s world responsibly,

so that we may pass it on, unspoiled, to future generations.

We do hope you will join us for our local service followed by refreshments.

Everyone is very welcome

The Parish Bookstall

The Parish Book Stall will be circulating around the churches just

before Lent. We will be at:

Christ Church - Sunday 4th February St Mary’s - Sunday, 11th February

All Saints - Sunday, 18th February

with a selection of Lent reading and beyond. Do come, have a

browse and buy. Helen Robinson and Deirdre Munro

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Flowers for Christmas Workshop

On 1st December All Saints Flower Team

hosted a “Flowers for Christmas” workshop

for 25 ladies eager to be shown how to make

beautiful floral arrangements. They were

then invited to have a go themselves and

take home what they had made.

Included at the start was a delicious lunch

which helped to relax those who seemed a little

daunted by the idea of tackling the task ahead.

Bridget Grant further helped to reassure them

with her entertaining and informative

demonstrations that illustrated how with a little bit of knowledge and guidance

from the many flower team helpers, everyone could produce something very

beautiful and individual.

Before long the church was buzzing with chatter and laughter as people

compared arrangements. As a helper it was a joy to see how people

grew in confidence from their first tentative steps.

The workshop ended with tea, coffee, homemade biscuits and mince

pies being consumed while flower team members gave a series of quick

tips and ideas on how to transform the home for Christmas with wreaths

and simple but effective decorations that were cheap and easy to make.

The feedback from the event was incredibly positive with comments such

as ‘amazing value’, ‘excellent food, fantastic ideas delivered with such

good humour and something to take home’ and ‘a fabulous event –

I loved it’ .

This was a great example of All Saints reaching out beyond the immediate

church community and I was pleased to meet and get to know new people

who all share a love of flowers.

Huge thanks go to the Flower Team and many other helpers who made the

day such a success. We would also like to say a big thank you to Savills

UK Ltd, particularly to Michael Randall and the East Sheen Branch for

their kind sponsorship of the printing.

Margaret Davies

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Friends of Mortlake Churchyard AGM

Saturday, 24th February at 12 noon, at St Mary's

followed by a simple lunch and a chance to look at the Churchyard (weather permitting!), and chat.

All welcome

Paul Lamplugh suggested the Suzy Lamplugh Trust as a possible recipient

of support by the parish. The Mission, Peace and Justice Committee had a

number of suggestions and decided to recommend another charity for our

support. But the Committee suggested that an article in Parish Link would

be of interest and would spread awareness of the Trust and its work.

My daughter Suzy was brought up in Sheen, she attended All Saints and

sang in the choir. She was also a member of 6th Mortlake Guide Unit where

she achieved her Queen’s Guide Award.

The charity The Suzy Lamplugh Trust was formed in 1986, shortly after her

disappearance. She was an estate agent aged 26, who went out to meet

a client, named in her diary as ‘Mr Kipper’. Despite an intensive police

search over many years, Suzy was never seen again.

The aim of the charity is to help people of all ages to Live Life Safe. We

help and support people to stay safe from aggression and violence

through the provision of free safety tips, managing the National Stalking

Helpline and delivering community projects.

We developed a discipline for Personal Safety and now teach it as a life

skill, a skill which like road safety, once learnt, lasts for life. Ideally, it

should be learnt from an early age but we aim to help everyone out and

about – you, your children, your grannies, your staff. Suzy herself believed,

as she once said to her mother, who had rebuked her for overdoing things,

that life is for living – but she hadn’t been taught how to live safely.

Personal Safety is now a household expression and every responsible

organisation serving the public has a personal safety policy.

For more information about our work, please email [email protected]

or write to Suzy Lamplugh Trust, The Foundry, 17 - 19 Oval Way, SE11 5RR

or phone - 020 7091 0014.

Paul Lamplugh

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From the Registers

Baptisms:

10th December: Alexa collins; South Worple Way

17th December: Rex Reeves; Upper Richmond Road West (All Saints)

31st December: Samuel Grimaldi, of Kings Road (St Mary’s)

Funerals:

19th December: Mary Lee Berners-Lee of Sheen Lane

20th December: Nigel Knight of Church Path

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PARISH LINK

The next edition – covering March and April - will be out in

early March.

If you have any items you would like included please

send to Anne Reeves by weekend of 23rd

February

email: [email protected]

or hard copy to the Parish Office

or speak to Kate Woodhouse (St Mary’s), Prudie Mennell (Christ

Church), Kathy Sheldon (All Saints) or a Churchwarden