Claudia M. Revermann Attorney, C.P.A....Breeds and feeds on fear and anxiety Leads to exhausting...

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Claudia M. Revermann Attorney, C.P.A.

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Claudia M. Revermann

Attorney, C.P.A.

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What is it?

Why do we care?

What do we do about it?

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A psychological phenomenon in

which people are unable to

internalize their accomplishments…

…despite external evidence of their

competence.

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How

good

you

think

you

are

How good you are

x

Imposter Syndrome

x

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I have written

eleven books, but

each time I think,

‘uh oh, they’re

going to find out

now. I’ve run a

game on

everybody, and

they’re going to

find me out.’Maya Angelou

Author, Poet, Civil

Rights Activist

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I still believe

that at any

time, the no

talent police

will come and

arrest me. Mike Meyers

Actor/Comedian

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Every time I was called

on in class, I was sure I

was about to embarrass

myself. Every time I

took a test, I was sure

that it had gone badly.

And every time I didn’t

embarrass myself – or

even excelled – I believed

I had fooled everyone yet

again. One day the jig

would be up.

Sheryl Sandberg

COO - Facebook

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The exaggerated

esteem in which

my lifework is held

makes me very ill

at ease. I feel

compelled to think

of myself as in

involuntary

swindler.Albert Einstein

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• I don’t understand why others think so

much of me – I’m only me

• I was promoted or hired because of some

kind of mistake

• Do not let people see you studying\working

too hard

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Breeds and feeds on fear and anxiety

Leads to exhausting cycles of procrastination and over-

work

Demotivating – focus on what we haven’t done rather

than what we have

Hot-houses self-criticism, low self-esteem, low self-

compassion

Leads to stress and burn-out

Self-sabotage – not asking for raise, not applying for

positions

Lose curiosity and ability to connect with others

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BE AWARE!

Stop thinking you’re so special

Separate feelings from fact

Believe in your accomplishments

Recognize your impact on others

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Fear of failure

Pain can be the greatest teacher

Expose your hate

Try something new

What are you so afraid of ?

& that’s okay!

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TEDtalk:

Amy Cuddy

– Your body

language

may shape

who you are

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Questions?