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CAROL
SINGING
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CHRISTMAS
SERVICES
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CHRISTMAS
WISHES
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4 PETER’S PERSPECTIVE
Joy-filled
6 A CHRISTMAS SONG FOR PEACE
God reaches out
13 WARDEN’S WORLD
Narrative Budget
14 FROM THE ARCHIVES
The 1952 Pageant
18 CHRISTMAS FAVOURITES
Cheyanne Thompson
Fraser Passmore
Willow Braun-Jackson
22 A VISIT TO THE MOSQUE
Educational & fun
24 3...2...1...CONTACT
Stephanie MacLeod
Paul Racher
27 FINANCIAL UPDATE
28 FOREIGN CORRESPONDENT
A tale of two cathedrals
30 LITANY OF RECONCILIATION
IN THIS
ISSUE
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FROM THE EDITOR
As I write this I am sitting in my kitchen look-
ing out on a snowy night surrounded by bins of
Christmas decorations. Each year we take out
the same decorations that have been a part of
our Christmas since the kids were small. We try
something new from time to time but return year
after year to the ornaments and decorations we
have collected, the ones the kids have made and
that have special memories attached. We really
are traditionalists when it comes to Christmas.
No matter how hectic the season we can rely on
some touchstones — peanut butter balls, Eggs
Benedict Christmas morning, a tangerine in the
toe of the stockings and my grandmother’s na-
tivity set.
I was the lucky recipient of this beautiful porce-
lain set handed down from my mother. It is
Italian and reminiscent of a Giotto painting.
The figures are fragile and require a delicate
touch. In spite of our best intentions the camel
has had a broken leg repaired several times but
everyone treats it with the utmost care. Each
piece is placed with great thought about the rela-
tionship between the participants in the scene.
They all have their spot—don’t even think of
putting the donkey on the other side! The wise
men are hidden away on top of the plate rail
waiting for their part in the drama. The placing
of the last figure is always my privilege—
hanging the angel from the nail at the top of the
stable where she looks out over the scene.
As I complete this task, I have a moment of
peace and I am reminded of Luke’s gospel:
Fear not: for, behold, I bring you
good tidings of great joy
It is so easy at this time of year to be afraid;
afraid there’s not enough time to get everything
done; afraid there won’t be enough to go
around; afraid there’s too much; afraid of the
pain memories can bring; afraid that you will
have forgotten what it’s all for.
Perhaps Advent would be a better time to give
up things instead of Lent. Fear is crippling. We
could give that up along with all the other things
that keep us from the simple message of the an-
gel. Easier said than done I know but my wish
for you this Christmas is that you have your own
“angel moment”.
Our Christmas issue of Contact has lots to en-
gage you: Christmas wishes and favourite reci-
pes, carols and Christmases past and is only pos-
sible through the kindness of our contributors.
As the year draws to a close Paula and I would
like to thank everyone who has responded to our
requests (pleas) for articles for Contact over this
past year. You make it happen!
To you all, a very happy Christmas and every
good wish for 2017.
ANGELS
by Anne Harvey
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JOY-FILLED
In spite of challenges
by Peter Wall †
PETER’S PERSPECTIVE
The wolf shall live with the lamb,
the leopard shall lie down with the kid,
the calf and the lion and the fatling together,
and a little child shall lead them…
They will not hurt or destroy
on all my holy mountain
For the earth will be full of the
knowledge of the Lord… (Is. 11)
The prophecies of Isaiah form a special part of
the messages of Advent. Peace and justice,
abundance and joy. This Advent it may seem
harder than in some other years to find those
things around us, and yet we know that they are
there. Horror stories from Aleppo, too many
Indigenous communities in our own country
suffering from difficult and indefensible condi-
tions, seemingly unsolvable conflicts in too
many places, and the fear of a strange new lead-
ership in our biggest neighbour. Christmas of-
ten seems to insert itself into a world that cannot
possibly receive it; cannot in any way change
enough to welcome in the Prince of Peace, can-
not adapt itself to new ways of thinking and be-
ing. And yet, that is precisely what Christmas
does, and it is what Advent nudges us to prepare
ourselves for.
Advent does provide us, in symbol and story,
with great promise and great hope. Its messages
remind us to open our hearts, to prepare a room,
to ready the world for a King. We are bidden to
count our blessings – perhaps a quaint and old-
fashioned idea, but a good one nonetheless. It
invites us to take stock – to look around and to
see how this old world we live in can be a better
place. It calls us through hymns and readings
through family gatherings, through beloved
Christmas stories, legends and mysteries, to see
things around us anew.
As we come to another Christmas, through an-
other bright and shining Advent, we cannot
help, in this congregation, in this city, in this
country to acknowledge how fortunate and
blessed we are. While there is always so much
to do, so much yet to accomplish and to learn
and to struggle through, think for a moment
about how much we do and have done, how
much we love and are loved, how joy-filled we
are, or at least, can be.
Here in the Cathedral community, we have so
much for which to be thankful and through
which to see good. From our inspiring worship
to our assiduous reaching out to those around
us; from deeply committed and hard working
volunteers to a talented staff which is second to
none. From music which transfigures us to hos-
pitality which enlivens us, we have so much in
our ministries to sustain and invigorate us.
While much around us seems, at times, in disar-
ray, we are part, along with the Diocese, of so
many rich and innovative ways of serving God’s
world – the Jamesville Children’s Centre,
HARRRP, St, Matthew’s House, the Downstairs
Kitchen, the North Hamilton Breakfast Club, (Continued on page 5)
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The Bridge, The Social Planning and Research
Council, our work of the Poverty Roundtable with
HOPE, our hosting of NA, combined with the ac-
tive part we play in justice related matters – Liv-
ing Wage, Refugee Re-Settlement, Out of the
Cold, our own Litany of Reconciliation on Fri-
days – all things which demand our best and of
which we are so justly proud, and humbled!
Jesus’ birth in Bethlehem marked the beginning
of a startling, grace-filled, challenged and chal-
lenging adventure called the Church. What an
exciting adventure for us, the followers of Jesus,
to be part of this uplifting and wonder filled life!
On behalf of us all here, may Christmas be happy
and warm; may you be thrilled yet again to hear
the story and participate in the drama. May fami-
ly gatherings be peaceful and joyous; may travel-
ing be safe and exciting. May 2017 find us still in
awe and wonder at all God has done and is doing
in and through us!
A blessed season to all!
Finding the Books
Rather than an Easter egg hunt at Easter, I would
like to invite you to a ‘book hunt’ at Christmas.
During the course of the year, our copies of Bi-
bles, BAS, Common Praise, etc. get spread out all
over the building. This is a good thing, but, once
a year, we should try to get them all together
again! So, come and join me, if you wish, on
Tuesday, 27 December at about 11:30 a.m. and
we’ll troll the place for books! Shouldn’t take
long – might even be fun!
Peter
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CHRISTMAS EVE
December 24
4:30 p.m. Family Eucharist
& Créche Blessing
Storyteller: The Reverend Canon J. Lefebvre
9:30 p.m. Congregational Carols with Organ
Animator: Michael Bloss
10:00 p.m. Procession & Choral Eucharist
Presider: The Very Reverend Peter Wall
Preacher: The Right Reverend Michael Bird
CHRISTMAS DAY
December 25
10:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist with Hymns
Presider: The Very Reverend Peter Wall
Preacher: The Rev. Canon Dr. Sharyn Hall
THE NAMING OF JESUS
January 1, 2017
10:30 a.m. Holy Eucharist with Hymns
Presider: The Very Reverend Peter Wall
Preacher: The Right Reverend Ralph Spence
EPIPHANY LESSONS & CAROLS
January 8
4:00 Organ Recital
4:30 Carol Service
CHRISTMAS SERVICES
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GOD REACHES OUT
To offer peace
by Sharyn Hall†
Said the little lamb to the shepherd boy,
Do you hear what I hear?
Ringing through the sky, shepherd boy,
Do you hear what I hear?
A song, a song, high above the trees
With a voice as big as the sea.
With a voice as big as the sea.
This popular Christmas song is over 50 years
old. In 1962, during the Cuban Missile Crisis,
Noel Regney and Gloria Baker created this song
as hope for peace. The song returned to my
thoughts in recent weeks because the death of
Fidel Castro brought back memories of that cri-
sis and the threat of nuclear war in North Ameri-
ca.
The Cuban Missile Crisis was a 13-day political
and military confrontation between the leaders
of the United States and the Soviet Union. The
confrontation erupted on October 14 and lasted
until October 28. The Soviet Union had in-
stalled nuclear-armed missiles on Cuba, 90
miles from the coast of the United States. Presi-
dent John Kennedy threatened to attack Cuba if
the missiles were not removed. Many people
feared the world was on the brink of nuclear
war. Disaster was avoided when President Ken-
nedy agreed to the offer from Soviet leader
Khrushchev to remove the Cuban missiles in
exchange for a United States’ promise not to
invade Cuba. It was a dangerous and very anx-
ious time.
This song does not appear to be ‘political’ be-
cause the lyrics are similar to the gospel stories
of the birth of Jesus. The lyrics describe how
news of the Christ Child began in the natural
world with the night wind speaking to the little
lamb. The lamb tells the humble shepherd boy,
who in turn tells the mighty king. In the gospel
accounts, the first creatures to witness the birth
of Jesus are the animals in the stable. Then the
angels announce the birth of God’s Son to shep-
herds on a hillside. Later, the unusual star leads
magi or kings to pay homage to the infant in
Bethlehem.
In the song, the Child becomes a symbol for
peace. The mighty king tells everyone to pray
for peace and the Child will bring goodness and
light to the world. Fifty years later, we too need
to pray for peace. We still fear the threat of nu-
clear warfare. We still know that innocent peo-
ple are dying because of wars, civil unrest and
persecution. Violent aggression occurs between
nations and within nations, among communities
and within homes. Peace would be a blessing
for all people, and especially for children, who
are most vulnerable to poverty, exploitation and
violence.
Children are the centre of Christmas and we
want to make them happy. They are the centre
of Christmas because the story of Christmas is
about a Child. The Child brings goodness and
light into our world, which too often is dark and
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frightening. The Child brings hope for peace,
which the world alone cannot give, peace
among nations, races, religions, neighbours and
families. Despite all our human frailties and
failures, God reaches out to offer peace to all
humanity in the miracle of the divine Child.
Said the king to the people everywhere
Listen to what I say
Pray for peace, people everywhere!
Listen to what I say
The Child, the Child, sleeping in the
night
He will bring us goodness and light
He will bring us goodness and light
Do you hear what I hear?
May the wonder of the story bring you peace
and joy!
Passages
Baptisms
Sakara-Renee Melinda Brewster
Marigold Maude Pearl Johnston
November 6, 2016
Congratulations!
To our Order of Niagara recipients.
October 2016
Photos © Alexander Darling
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ORDER OF NIAGARA
Anne-Louise Watts
John Bradley
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INSPIRATION
And great fun
by Michael Bloss
Carol singing is a tradition which anyone can
agree is a central element of the Christmas sea-
son. While we usually associate carols with
Christmas, carols have also been written for oth-
er times throughout the year including Harvest,
Lent, and Easter to name a few. Still, carols
have represented the full spectrum from nostal-
gia to liturgical embellishment and serve as a
link to the story of Christ’s birth and the multi-
tude of characters found there.
Singing carols can be great fun and for many
Christmas isn’t Christmas without doing so.
But, as Gordon Giles points out, “Christmas is
not about carols: carols are about Christmas!”
As we proceed through Advent into Christmas,
many of the hymns we sing are, in fact, carols.
We devote time before the Christmas Eve litur-
gy to enjoy carol singing in community and the
Lessons and Carols service on Epiphany Sunday
is powered by carols as well. As with any well-
conceived carol, the music says something to us
about the text and the text helps us understand
what is going on musically.
The word carol is derived from the Old French
word carole, a circle dance accompanied by
singers and players of reed instruments and
flutes (from the Latin choraula). The French
version of a carol is named Noël from which we
get the tune Noel Nouvelet. Carols were very
popular as dance songs from the 1150s to the
1350s, after which their use expanded as proces-
sional songs sung during festivals, while others
were written to accompany religious mystery
plays (such as the Coventry Carol, written be-
fore 1534). The Mystery plays often took place
in the great cathedral squares and dramatized
through pageantry the major faith narratives. It
gave the crowds an opportunity to participate in
and thereby understand what within the cathe-
dral was curated by priestly choreography and in
Latin.
The Protestant Reformation encouraged reform-
ers to extol the belief that carols were for every-
one to sing, and aimed at bringing music "back
to the people". To enable the common person to
sing church music, great efforts were made to
translate musical texts from Latin into the native
languages that people spoke. Some famous car-
ols were written in this period, and they were
more strongly revived from the nineteenth cen-
tury and began to be written and adapted by em-
inent composers. The first collection of carols
appeared as The Oxford Book of Carols.
This still stands as the most important and com-
plete collection of carols. The editors were none
other than Ralph Vaughan Williams and Pearcy
Dearmer who were responsible for the creation
of The English Hymnal. You will often see the-
se names (as well as translators Catherine Wink-
worth, and James Neale) in our hymnal under
text authorship (the fine print at the bottom!).
In addition to these individual sung examples,
composers have written complete works around
carols. The most popular tradition of this is the
Ceremony of Carols by Benjamin Britten for
harp and women’s chorus. Ralph Vaughan Wil-
liams also wrote a lengthy work completely
based on Christmas carols in his Fantasia on
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Christmas Carols. With its fully orchestrated
and large choral inspiration, the Fantasia inspired
other modern composers such as Robert Shaw to
arrange similar medleys.
Throughout this season, listen for those carols
which dance. Examples include People Look
East, Shepherds in the Field Abiding and Good
Christian Friends, Rejoice (In Dulci Jubilo).
Notice how the text tells a story and how the mu-
sic paints the story in melodic contour and rhyth-
mic interest. In this way what we sing can pro-
vide inspiration, hope, solace, and encourage-
ment as we await the coming of the Saviour.
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BISHOP’S COMPANY
Enjoying a night out
at the
Bishop’s Company
Dinner
October 27, 2016
Michelangelo’s
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This Christmas the Editors asked the question “What is
your Christmas wish?”
Here are the responses from some Cathedralites:
When I first received the email request from Paula for “My Christmas Wish!” I thought to
myself, I just wish everyone could get along, celebrate the differences and embrace the op-
portunities to learn from each other! I also thought you can’t write that! People will think
you are crazy! Such a silly wish!
Then I remembered one of my favourite Christmas ‘songs’ (not my favourite carol, maybe
that will be next year’s request from the editors of Contact). It is on a CD by Barbra Streisand that gets
regular play time in my house every year . I know there are others that sing it but Barbra’s rendition hap-
pens to be my favourite. The song is called My Grown-Up Christmas List and in part it says: “So here’s
my lifelong wish, my grown-up Christmas list, not for myself, but for a world in need, no more lives torn
apart, that wars would never start, and time would heal our hearts, everyone would have a friend, that
right would always win, and love would never end.”
I hope Amelia Grace Racher, one of our angel artists, won’t mind if I quote from her artist statement,
‘people can choose to be nice and caring and loving’. May my Christmas wish come true for you.
by Alison Meredith
Peace on earth and goodwill towards all! That may sound like a cliché that we say at this
time of year but that is truly my wish.
Peace on earth means many things. An end to war and violence, enough food and water for
all, shelter and clothing, and that everyone has all the necessities of life. While I know the-
se things are difficult to bring to fruition, I hope and pray for them fervently nonetheless.
Peace on earth also means security and joy and well-being in one’s own life. That is also a very difficult
thing to attain, especially for many of us, myself included, who are facing trials and tribulations that
seem insurmountable.
But the gift that God gave us at Christmas, the Joy to the World, the Prince of Peace, the Saviour of us
all, is something that I know I will be clinging to in the certitude that things will indeed get better and
there can indeed be peace of soul!
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Peace is also experienced by us in those who are important in our lives. You know the ones in your own
life, as certainly in mine, who love you unconditionally, who grieve and feel sad when you grieve and
feel sad, and who laugh when you laugh. This is what the gift of peace truly means to me - - the love of
God given to us once and for all. A love so deep and limitless and so very available from God if we but
ask for it. It is a love that is beyond description and comprehension but one that I know that I feel and
pray for it to surround and engulf me.
May the Prince of Peace fill your hearts now and always! Peace on earth and goodwill towards all of
you!
by J. Lefebvre
There are Christmas wishes that are urgent and universal: the end of violence, poverty,
suffering, waste, tyranny, greed, destruction, fear. These are perennial, and as Jesus him-
self said will be with us always. Of course I wish for these all year long, not just at Christ-
mas, and I realize that as hard as we work together, and although we can make change,
these are not ultimately achievable goals. So I will wish for something more personal.
As it turns out my daughter is herself expecting her first baby sometime this Christmastide. I wish for a
safe delivery, both mother and child to be well, a joyful time as Margaret and I tend to babies once
again. And this is the wish of all parents and their families everywhere.
But if I were to make a unique Christmas wish of my own which is even more personal than these, it
must begin with a confession. I wish I were not so frightened of our city's homeless. Some people have
the gift of that particular compassion and confidence that makes our congregation such a powerful agent
for care in Hamilton. But I am acutely aware that I myself feel intimidated and have considerable anxie-
ty when faced with providing such front-line Christian charity.
I sometimes feel as though I were the self-righteous priest passing on the other side of the road in the
parable of the Good Samaritan. I get flustered when approached by a panhandler. Even simple conver-
sation with a "street person" during coffee on Sunday fills me with dread. I try not to show it because
I don’t want anyone feeling dumped. I know that everyone has their own gifts for ministry and no one
has them all, but if I am to live in the spirit of Christmas grace, I need somehow to stop being afraid of
meeting and serving Christ when he is presented to me in the faces of those to whom we are called to
make Christ's love a living reality.
The gift I need is to hear the angel saying to the shepherds "Fear not!" and then be able to actually allow
myself to obey. Or perhaps better, to listen to the pop singer Pink's "Ave Maria...help me let go of the
chaos around me, the devil that hounds me, I need you to tell me: "child be still." I suppose this is my
Christmas wish at its most concrete and intimate, the gift of loving comfort I want to receive in order
that I may give it to those who need it more than I do.
by Eric Griffin
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Chairs, Chairs, Chairs…
So, we have begun to have a conversation within our congregation about changing from pews to chairs
in the nave. This is a complicated matter, and one about which there is no lack of opinion! We will take
the time it takes to make this decision – we want to be able to speak more about it at Vestry on Sunday,
February 26. In the meantime, let’s go look at some chairs! I’d like to invite those who would like to
do so (the number will depend on car space) to go to a handful
of local parishes to see their chairs and how they use them.
Thursday, January 26 – 11:00 a.m.
Meet at the office.
Please let us know in the office if you wish to be part of this.
Thanks!
Peter
Dear Santa,
I have been really good this year and have a very short wish list. Cathedral Place has had
a wonderful 2016 but as you know, it can get a little chilly around here in the winter. I am
sure you hear the same complaints from your elves in the workshop and can sympathize. I
do have some serious concerns though.
I wouldn’t want anyone chipping their fingernails reaching into the font at one of our Christmas services
and it would be terribly embarrassing to have coffee and cookies in the narthex cancelled in favour of
hot chocolate and donuts flambé.
I am always happy to check the pressure on the compressor and will continue to keep my duct tape and
wrench handy, I promise. But, if you could leave a new boiler under the 20ft spruce in the NE corner of
the nave this Christmas Eve that would be great!
Nothing too expensive, I just want the frozen tears on my face to thaw.
Merry Christmas and give my best wishes to Mrs. Claus.
by Derek Smith
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In December a Warden’s thoughts turn to end-
ings and new beginnings in our treasured Cathe-
dral community. Advent begins, and the current
fiscal year will soon close. Preparations for the
annual Vestry meeting commence, and the
budget for 2017 will be established. Annual re-
ports will be written, and the nominating com-
mittee will seek to fill committees and parish
council positions.
At Christ’s Church Cathedral usually the newest
Warden writes the Wardens’ Report for Vestry.
He or she will review the minutes of Corpora-
tion Meetings, looking for highlights, consult
with Dean Peter, Alison, and the other Wardens,
and produce an accounting of the past year. The
Corporation’s mood of the season is always
tempered with a little apprehension about meet-
ing the budget.
It all happens amid the excitement of the com-
ing Christmas season and the time of expectant
waiting for the celebration of the Nativity of Je-
sus. I think that these wonderful concurrences
of beginnings and endings make December one
of the best times of all to be a Warden.
The coming year will mark a dozen years in
which we have produced a “Narrative Budget”
for Vestry. A narrative budget is the ongoing
sacred story of the ministry of a parish. It’s the
best way to illustrate how our time, talent, and
treasure combine to support our ministries.
What’s the difference between a narrative budg-
et and a traditional line item budget? Line item
budgets are an accounting tool; narrative budg-
ets are an educational and visioning tool. We
need both, but we must be intentional in how we
use them. Line item budgets are valuable for
regular operations – they keep us on track, but
they do not show how money is being invested
in ministry. Nor do they show how volunteer
time and talent are impacting parish life, and
that’s essential. When one factors in all minis-
tries, we estimate that 10,000 – 15,000 volunteer
hours per year are offered to God’s service, and
that’s a significant impact on the parish and lo-
cal community!
A narrative budget helps us to focus on what
we’re all about. It helps us see our gifts are re-
ally making a difference. That’s an essential
part of a Warden’s world, not just in December,
but all year round.
Wishing you a Blessed Advent and a Merry
Christmas!
WARDEN’S WORLD
NARRATIVE BUDGET A sacred story of ministry
by Jim Newman
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THE 1952 PAGEANT
Christmas & Epiphany
at the Cathedral
by Wendy Newman
As an Anglican community since 1836, we’ve
seen...how many Advent Processions with Car-
ols? Children’s Nativity pageants? Christmas
craft and bake sales? Epiphany pageants? The-
se have been such regular features of life at
Christ’s Church Cathedral for so long that we
may have taken them for granted. By this I
mean that we have surprisingly few photos and
stories in our official files of Christmas past.
We do have some lovely photos of Advent and
Christmas decorations, and of children’s perfor-
mances, not all of them dated. So if you have
some – especially photos and programs with
dates and names – please let me know.
Meanwhile, here’s a sixty-five year old treasure
from The Hamilton Spectator. Newspapers are
among the Cathedral’s best historical sources, as
events in churches were once highly newswor-
thy. (Imagine prominent media newspaper cov-
erage of our annual Vestry now!) The ever-
faithful Spectator reported that a beautiful
Epiphany Pageant had been presented January 6,
1952, by the Cathedral Sunday School. It was
performed on a specially-created low stage in
the Chancel. The children enacted the Nativity
and several later scenes in the life of Christ.
Many of them, the reporter noted, were quite
young. However, they weren’t entirely on their
own. There was special music by the Cathedral
Choir, directed by George Veary, and several
soloists. (Around that time, the Cathedral’s
Choir included about 60 members, half of whom
were boys.) The costumes were described as
“outstanding”. As there were program credits
for make-up and lighting, we may assume a fair-
ly sophisticated production.
The article on the 1952 Epiphany Pageant
makes for a particularly thought-provoking and
poignant read this year, in that the initial setting
in the Pageant “depicted Christmas Eve in an
Anglican residential school for Indian and Eski-
mo children in the northland.” How differently
we view such a scene today in the light of all we
have learned of the lives of children in the resi-
dential schools.
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Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
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20
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
Advent at Twilight
5:30 pm
21
Holy Eucharist
12:15
22
Holy Eucharist
12:15
23
Jamesville Day-
care Christmas
Party 10:00 am
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
24
Family Eucharist
& Créche
Blessing 4:30
Congregational
Carols with
Organ 9:30
Procession & Cho-
ral Eucharist
10:00 pm
25
The Birth of Our Lord
Choral Eucharist
10:30
(One Service Only)
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27
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
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The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
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January 1
The Naming of Jesus
Choral Eucharist 10:30 (One Service Only)
2
3
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
4
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
5
Holy Eucharist
12:15
6
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
7
8
Feast of the Epiphany
Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist &
Holy Baptism 10:30
Organ Recital 4:00 pm
Lessons & Carols 4:30
pm
9
10
Holy Eucharist
7:30
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
11
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
12
Holy Eucharist
12:15
13
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
James St. North
Art Crawl
14
15
The Baptism of Jesus
Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
16
17
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
18
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
19
Brass
Monkeys 9-11
Holy Eucharist
12:15
20
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
21
December/January
Cathedral Place Offices closed Dec 26 to Jan 2
Reception Desk open Dec 28 to 30 from 10 to 2
Weekday Eucharists withdrawn
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Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
23
24
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
25
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
26
Holy Eucharist
12:15
27
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
28
29
Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
Ordination of a
Deacon 4 pm
30
31
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
February 1
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
2
Holy Eucharist
12:15
3
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
4
5
Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
6
7
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
8
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
9
Holy Eucharist
12:15
10
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
James St.
North Art
Crawl
11
12
Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
13
14
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
15
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
16
Brass
Monkeys 9-11
Holy Eucharist
12:15
17
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
18
Bishop’s
Bonspiel
19
Holy Eucharist
8:30
Choral Eucharist
10:30
20
Family Day
Cathedral
Place Closed
21
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
22
Holy Eucharist
12:15
Prayer Shawl
Knitting 1-3
23
Holy Eucharist
12:15
24
The Litany of
Reconciliation
12 noon
25
Coldest
Night Walk
26
Holy Eucharist
9:30 followed by
Annual Vestry
(One Service Only)
27 28
Holy Eucharist
7:30 am
Meal Tickets
9 :30-11:00
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Chocolate chip cookies
by Cheyanne Thompson
CHRISTMAS FAVOURITES
My favourite Christmas food is chocolate chip cookies. Every year, I bake dozens of chocolate chip
cookies to give away to friends and family. At my house, we enjoy the soft and warm cookies Christmas
Eve.
To make these delicious chocolate chip cookies you will need:
2 1/4 cups all-purpose flour
1/2 teaspoon baking soda
1 cup (2 sticks) unsalted butter
1/2 cup granulated sugar
1 cup packed light-brown sugar
1 teaspoon salt
2 teaspoons pure vanilla extract
2 large eggs
2 cups (about 12 ounces) semisweet and/or milk chocolate chips
Directions:
Preheat oven to 350 degrees. In a small bowl, whisk together the flour and baking soda; set aside. In the
bowl combine the butter with both sugars; beat until light and fluffy. Reduce speed to low; add the salt,
vanilla, and eggs. Beat until well mixed. Add flour mixture; mix until just combined. Stir in the choco-
late chips.
Drop heaping tablespoon-size balls of dough about 2 inches apart on baking sheets lined with
parchment paper.
Bake until cookies are golden around the edges, but still soft in the center, 8 to 10 minutes.
Remove from oven, and let cool on baking sheet 1 to 2 minutes. Transfer and let cool completely.
Enjoy!
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Lemon butter
by Fraser Passmore
CHRISTMAS FAVOURITES
Every year I look forward to one particular holiday treat, and that is my Grandmother's lemon butter. To
me, it is a symbol of the holidays and the love my grandmother has for those around her. It is so sweet
that you can tell it's homemade and one of a kind. It's to die for. I cannot recall a Christmas season
without it and it is more than an item, it is family, it is love, it is Grandma.
Recipe:
1/4 lb of butter
Grated rinds of 2 lemons (optional)
Juice of 3 lemons - 9tbsp. = 3/4 cup
6 eggs slightly beaten
1 1/2 cups of white sugar
USE LARGE PYREX JUG Cook butter on HIGH - 1 min to melt
Mix in well, the sugar , rind, & juice using hand blender
In separate 2 cup measure cup, beat eggs
Blend 2 mixtures together
COOK 4 minutes on medium high heat in microwave
Stir. Cook another 4 minutes on medium high
Blend again. Pour into new or washed jars.
Let cool in jars. It will continue to set as it cools.
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Gingerbread cookies
by Willow Braun-Jackson
CHRISTMAS FAVOURITES
My favourite Christmas food is Gingerbread Cookies. The reason why I like these cookies is because
they are very delicious and I like the taste of ginger, cinnamon, nutmeg, and sugar together, especially
when cut into boy and girl shapes with icing on them. I also like the smell of gingerbread when it’s
cooling on the cooling rack and I enjoy eating them at Christmas time. I like making this kind of cookie
with my mother. Baking cookies at Christmas time is a great way for me to spend time with my mom
and making cookies is awesome!
Another reason why I like gingerbread cookies is because I like decorating them with different coloured
icing and putting candy on them. It’s so much fun and you can get really creative with them by using
different kinds of miniature candies. Decorate the gingerbread cookies with jelly beans, baby M&Ms,
licorice, and chocolate chips. You can also make other things out of gingerbread like houses. For all
these reasons, gingerbread cookies are my favourite Christmas food.
Recipe:
3 c. plain, all-purpose flour
1 tsp. baking soda
1 tsp. ground ginger
½ c. sweet butter, chilled and diced
1 c. light brown sugar
1 egg
2 T. black molasses, or golden corn syrup*
2 oz. semi-sweet, milk, or white chocolate to decorate, or other decorating candies as
desired.
*Black molasses makes a darker cookie than golden corn syrup, but corn syrup makes a lighter tasting
cookie. Use whichever sweetener suits your taste.
Preheat oven to 350F and prepare two large baking sheets. (I use parchment paper rather than greasing
the pans since it saves on clean-up and reduces calories.)
Put the flour, baking soda, ginger, and diced butter into a food processor. Process until the mixture be-
gins to resemble fine breadcrumbs.
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If necessary, scrape down the sides of the food processor.
Add the sugar, egg, and either the black molasses or golden corn syrup. Process until it begins to form
into a ball.
Turn out the ball onto a lightly floured surface and knead until smooth and pliable.
Roll out the dough on a lightly floured surface and cut out figures and transfer them to the baking sheets.
Re-roll trimmings and cut out more figures. (We’ve done round shapes, bell shapes, Santas, and heart
shapes.)
Bake for 15 minutes until slightly risen and starting to colour around the edges. Remove pan from oven
and leave pan to cool for 5 minutes before transferring cookies to a cooling rack.
Decorate the cookies. If using different colours of chocolate, break the chocolate into separate bowls.
One at a time, set each bowl over a simmering pan of water and heat until melted. Spoon the melted
chocolate into paper piping bags, snip off the merest tip and then pipe the faces and clothes of each gin-
gerbread person. Leave to set. We once made round cookies and rolled the edges of the cookies in
chocolate followed by coloured sugar.
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EDUCATIONAL & FUN
Generous welcome
by Judy Robertson & Elaine Marshall
A VISIT TO THE MOSQUE
Elaine and I had come from our wonderful
Hamilton Philharmonic Hallowe’en concert at
Mohawk College n October 30th. We were
looking for something else to do as it was only
mid-afternoon when there it was – the down-
town mosque on Hess St. North at York Blvd.
We both said, “Oh, is the Open House still on at
the mosque? I’d wanted to go!” We have Mus-
lim acquaintances and friends living and work-
ing in our neighbourhoods.
So, into the parking lot we drove. A young lady
who was about to get into a car approached us
and accompanied us into the women’s entrance
of the mosque. She was most pleasant and
wanted to ensure that we had a full and positive
visit.
Elaine put on a headset at the Koran listening
station. Her impressions were that the readings
sounded very much like stories and passages
from the Bible.
Young ladies asked and encouraged us to dress
in women’s muslim scarves and clothing attire
and have our photos taken. We could hold little
signs telling people that we were peaceful and
not terrorists. It was educational and fun. They
obliged us with a photo each and a third one for
our cathedral church as I had asked.
Other stations of interest in the open reception
space were hand decoration with henna and
writing your name in Arabic.
Everyone was exceedingly generous with expla-
nations and accommodating us. It was close to
closing time but they were pleased to take us to
the prayer preparation area. Because we were
visitors, we only had to remove our shoes to en-
ter the prayer room. The Muslim people coming
in for prayer, cleanse their bodies before each
prayer time – five times a day. Total cleansing
before presenting their prayers to God varies.
There is a separate cleansing room for men and
women including children who also hang out
and play a little. This area included foot baths,
sinks, and showers.
The prayer area was divided by glass partitions.
There were clusters of people in both areas.
Some were being led in prayer and others in
small groupings were saying theirs.
Before we left refreshments were on hand
throughout the event.
Lots of good reading material for us to take
freely has been made available for you in the
Steve Varey Reading Room.
Here’s to friendship in our community!
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(in church????)
Time was, back ‘in the day’, as they say, when
going into our Church meant a particular kind of
silence and respect. Borne out of a mixture of
Edwardian proprieties, a deeply ingrained
Protestant sense of the sacredness of a church
worship space, and a degree of Catholic sacra-
mentality, those of us of a certain age remember
well being in church and being seen but not
heard, being part of a ‘hushed sense of the holy’,
being always fastidiously ‘well-behaved’.
In the last half century or so, much has hap-
pened in our church communities to change
those realities – we have radically altered (for
the good) our notions about what the worship
space actually is. We have expanded our under-
standing of the use of those spaces (thankfully),
so that, in our time, we use our church ‘worship‘
spaces for any number of activities - worship
service, yes, but for so much more – meetings,
coffee hours, receptions, multi-faceted events
and activities.
Some of our buildings have reduced their size so
that everything – worship, meetings, social
events, parish activities –take place in one
space. And so, again for those of us of a certain
age, the church has been liberated from a space
which often felt austere, somewhat antiseptic,
and often a little spooky into a place wherein we
all feel comfortable, at home, and at ease. Nev-
ertheless, there are still those, and we need to
both hear them and respond to them, who come
into the Church anticipating (and even expect-
ing, yea, demanding) a space and a place for
quiet reflection, prayerful attitude and posture,
and a place bathed in ‘the beauty of holiness’.
Like so much else in our lives, this is always a
matter of balance.
Here at the Cathedral, we live in the tension of
‘both-and’ – a place to gather, socialize, have
fun, and meet and greet each other and a place
for quiet reflection, prayer, and introspection.
Sometimes, it also needs be said, we are a noisy
bunch. Often, at about 10:25 or so, when choirs
are gathering to help us to sing, church musi-
cians are preparing to guide us musically into a
place of prayer and adoration, when gifted lay-
people are preparing themselves to welcome us
and our neighbours to ‘church’, the cacophony
is almost deafening!!! In order for all to hear,
we all must do some listening; in order for all to
be we need a place of peace as much as a place
of activity. So, I implore all to be aware of the
balance of sound and silence, of the need for
‘both – and’, of the respect which we offer to
those leading us.
In a similar vein, I have been approached on nu-
merous occasions to ask people to refrain from
idle chatter with each other during the Sunday
morning service. Conversation amongst two or
three disturbs those close by, and prevents oth-
ers from hearing and experiencing what is going
on ‘at the front’ – be it prayer, preaching, music,
or even silence.
I urge everyone to consider these things.
Thanks much.
Peter
SILENCE!
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1. What is your idea of a perfect day?
My perfect day includes my husband, all of
our children, their spouses, and my grand-
children spending time together. It should
include cooking a meal, playing games, and
remembering good times together.
2. Why did you choose the Cathedral as your
spiritual home?
As a family, we were looking for a comfort-
able place to worship. Paul was introduced
to the Cathedral through work. After attend-
ing a few services, it began to feel like home
and communion.
3. What is the one thing that you most look
forward to at the Cathedral?
Fellowship. The message is delivered beau-
tifully, but the fellowship of the community
and the work done outside of the Cathedral
add action to the message. I look forward to
being a part of that.
4. If you could change one thing at the Cathe-
dral, what would it be?
The times of services, studies and gather-
ings, (especially knitting). I find that I want
to do, attend and be present at everything at
the Cathedral. Sadly, my work and home
schedule just doesn't allow for it. One
day…
5. Which living person do you most admire?
I admire a woman by the name of Carolyn
King. She is a strong, quiet, firm, and loving
advocate of Indigenous people from the
Mississaugas of the New Credit First Nation.
My description does not begin to do her jus-
tice. I encourage anyone reading this to
Google her name.
6. What would be your desert island pick for a
book, a piece of music and food?
My book pick would be Stand We At Last by
Zoë Fairbairns. The piece of music I’d bring
along would be Symphonie Fantastique by
Hector Berlioz. For food, chocolate wins,
hands down.
7. Where would your dream vacation spot be?
England. I would love to have a few months
to rest there.
3...2...1...CONTACT
STEPHANIE MACLEOD
Fellowship & chocolate
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1. What is your idea of a perfect day?
A perfect day for me is any day that my
family can go out together and enjoy. We
have 8 children, 5 of whom live at home and
it is surprisingly difficult to coral all of them
together for a single event. Typically, in the
hustle and bustle of school, sports, and les-
sons we are all going in different directions.
When we can spend time together, I find that
I don’t just love them all – I truly enjoy their
company.
2. Why did you choose the Cathedral as your
spiritual home?
I stumbled upon the Cathedral in the course
of my work. I am an archaeologist and was
called in to look into the rather puzzling his-
tory of the parking lot behind the building.
Over the course of several visits, I kept
bumping into parishioners who would bring
me indoors to show me the wood carvings or
the stonework or the organ. Afterwards, I
would come home and tell my wife Stepha-
nie about the beautiful building and the
amazing people associated with it. In the
beginning, we started showing up now and
again for the Choral Eucharist. Eventually,
we decided that the community felt like
“home” and that we wanted to be a part of it.
3. What is the one thing that you most look
forward to at the Cathedral?
I have two answers for this question. Over
the totality of the liturgical year, I most look
forward to Easter. Hands down. I love the
build up to the big day; the music, the vigil,
the bell ringing. It’s all so very moving. On
more of a weekly basis, I look forward to the
homilies. I do a good deal of public speak-
ing in my job and I am in awe of the abilities
demonstrated by our Cathedral clergy. Most
of the homilies delivered make even old ide-
as seem fresh and leave me feeling quite
moved. I routinely find myself thinking,
“geez, I wish I could captivate people like
that.”
4. If you could change one thing at the Cathe-
dral, what would it be?
I’d like to see more Brass Monkeys. I
signed on to the team earlier in the year and
there are some seriously gunked-up brass
items that I find myself glaring at if I am not
careful during services (yes, I am looking at
you, brass lectern!). There is something
deeply satisfying about taking care of these
old objects, even if they end up tarnished
and needing a polish all over again after a
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PAUL RACHER
Family & brass
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month. Were I a wittier person, I could no
doubt turn the practice into an allegory about
the need for continual hard work and self-
improvement, but I have no such gifts. Also,
continual hard work sounds too penitential.
As for self-improvement, I am sure Stephanie
has a wish list of what needs “buffing up” on
me that has languished unfulfilled for years.
5. Which living person do you most admire?
This is a tough question since the list changes
as those I admire umm, “shuffle off this mor-
tal coil.” Names like Desmond Tutu and the
Dalai Lama come to mind but those are too
easy. Let’s go with Stephen Hawking. As a
lad, a big part of me wanted to be an astro-
physicist but the math was simply too daunt-
ing. Reading Hawking’s popular (ie. dumbed
down) books is the best I can do.
6. What would be your desert island pick for a
book, a piece of music and food?
For fiction, J.R.R. Tolkien’s The Hobbit was
the first book I ever read that wasn’t in comic
form. Every time I pick it up, I still smile.
For non-fiction, I would have to say almost
anything by Tolkien’s friend, C.S. Lewis.
Musically, any Beatles album including or
after Revolver would hit the spot. If the above
included a meat pie, mushy peas and a proper
English ale, so much the better.
7. Where would your dream vacation spot be?
Almost anywhere in the UK. I spent a week
there this past summer and I find that the cli-
mate, the landscape, the diet, and the ale
agrees with my constitution better than any
other place on the planet. It’s also quite novel
to visit a place where I am considered to have
good teeth.
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Overcoming the Bible’s Betrayal of
Its Non-Violent God
A "Living the Questions" Video &
Reading Based Discussion Program
with Canon Bill Thomas
Sundays 12:15 - 1:45 pm
Part 2: Jan 08 - Jan 29
Is the only path to shalom (peace) through
a valley of capricious divine bloodshed?
One of the world’s foremost historical Jesus
scholars helps the church and its alumni/ae rise
above the greatest of Christian treasons: that ever-
lasting peace can only be achieved through the
onslaught of divine violence.
Filmed before a live audience in a workshop set-
ting, professor and author John Dominic Cros-
san summarizes the essence of his bestselling
HOW TO READ THE BIBLE & STILL BE A
CHRISTIAN: Struggling with Divine Violence
from Genesis Through Revelation and shows the
way forward for those seeking an authentic Chris-
tianity for the 21st century.
Violence Divine is an eight-session DVD-based
program. The basic format for each 1 – 1.5 hour
session includes chapter breaks and discussion
questions related to each 40-minute video seg-
ment.
Jan 08 Undecided Justice
Jan 15 Not, not, not, not, not, NOT the
End of the World
Jan 22 The “Violentization” of Jesus
Jan 29 Overcoming the Bible’s Betrayal of Its
Non-Violent God
VIOLENCE DIVINE
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FINANCIAL UPDATE
NOVEMBER
With thanks
by Corporation
November’s financial report is the last update you will see prior to Vestry in February. At that time, you’ll be able
to take a closer look at how we did in 2016.
Rather than ponder where we might financially find ourselves at the end of this year, it makes sense to say a word
or two about the support that keeps Corporation and this place going from day to day and year to year.
It is no doubt the work of so many volunteers that makes this such a terrific place to worship, to enjoy fellowship,
and to contribute to the community in which we are located. Thank you all.
We must also recognize the incredible honorary assistants that we are blessed to have. They add to the colour of
the Cathedral through their participation in liturgy, in our various programs, and in pastoral care. We could not do
what we do without these dedicated souls!
If you’re a volunteer, you know that almost nothing gets done without the input of Alison, Derek, Lisa, Turner,
and Justin. And where would our music program be without Michael! The commitment that these folks have is
unparalleled. They are worth their weight in gold and we are so lucky to have them.
As members of Corporation, we cannot say enough about the excellence of Peter’s leadership and his vision. We
owe him a debt of gratitude for steering us gently into the future. Thank you.
Corporation thanks all of you for your support in 2016 and the tremendous spirit of possibility that surrounds us!
Merry Christmas to all.
Nov 2016 Budget to Nov
2016
Variance to
Budget Nov 2015
Variance over
2016
Income
Parishioner Givings $267,112 $279,942 -$12,830 $252,250 $14,863
Special Offerings $21,000 $20,104 $896 $35,616 -$14,616
Endowments $104,830 $104,830 $0 $105,325 -$495
Other $24,456 $27,409 -$2,953 $22,808 $1,648
Total Income $417,398 $432,285 -$14,887 $415,998 $1,400
Expenses
Salaries $257,780 $265,643 -$7,864 $251,036 $6,744
Property $92,179 $96,073 -$3,894 $110,733 -$18,555
Administration $75,621 $81,877 -$6,256 $72,084 $3,537
Total Expense $425,579 $443,593 -$18,014 $433,853 -$8,273
Net Income -$8,181 -$11,308 $3,127 -$17,855 $9,674
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When I was a small child, I attended Sunday
School at Christ’s Church Cathedral. I don’t re-
member much about that. What I do remember
are the parades from the Hamilton Armouries.
This was during World War II. I was thrilled by
the enormous tanks rolling by and by the kilted
soldiers of the Argyll and Sutherland Highland-
ers playing bagpipes.
I was nine years old when my family moved
from the Aberdeen Street area to Westdale.
From then on, I attended Sunday School at St.
Paul’s Church, where I was in due time con-
firmed.
In my early twenties marriage brought me to the
Kingston Area. I became a Secondary School
English teacher. My late husband John taught at
Queen’s. We lived on the shore of Collins Bay
and were active members of St. John’s in Bath.
In 1978 John and I and our son spent a sabbatical
year in England, living in the village of Abbot’s
Langley in Hertfordshire. At the local parish
church, St. Lawrence the Martyr, we became
friends with a couple named Joan and Peter
Sanders. I mention them because if we had not
become close friends with the Sanders, I proba-
bly would never have come back to Christ’s
Church Cathedral. This is a complicated story.
Upon returning to Canada, I expected to resume
my career as a teacher, but fate intervened in the
shape of an advertisement in The Anglican
Churchman. The Cathedral Church of St.
George in Kingston wanted to hire a Director of
Christian Education. The position required a
Bachelor of Education degree. The responsibili-
ties involved running the Sunday School, estab-
lishing a youth group and developing a Lenten
Lecture Series and other educational programs
for adults. The job sounded tailor-made for me,
and I was delighted that the hiring committee
thought so too. I worked in liaison with Dr.
Leigh Smith, Chairman of the Christian Educa-
tion Committee, a gentleman whom I came to
respect greatly for his fairness, dependability and
intelligence. (I told you that this was a compli-
cated story.)
My thirteen years at St. George’s Cathedral were
rich and fruitful. But all came to an end with the
exposure of the Music director and Choir Master,
as a pedophile. This was a terrible time. One
cannot minimize the suffering of his victims or
the anguish of those betrayed by their church.
The congregation shrank. There were expensive
lawsuits. My position at the Cathedral ended.
The situation was so painful that I wanted to
leave Kingston. Hamilton, my home town, ap-
peared as a haven. In 1996 John and I moved to
Hamilton. For ten years I did not set foot in
Kingston or expect ever to do so again.
I expected to look for a teaching position in
Hamilton, but first there was something else I
wanted to try. I had always done a bit of writing.
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FOREIGN CORRESPONDENT
A TALE
Of two cathedrals
by Jean Rae Baxter
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This seemed a good time to make a serious ef-
fort.
As a writer, I have been unusually fortunate.
When my first book came out in 2005, my pub-
lisher wanted to send me on a tour of Eastern
Ontario. One reading venue was to be The Nov-
el Idea bookstore in Kingston. I was not happy
about this, but a newly published author does
not say “No” to her publisher. After much con-
sideration, I decided to write to a few people in
Kingston whose addresses I still had, inviting
them to come to hear me read and enjoy a glass
of wine. After a ten-year absence, I didn’t really
expect many people to turn up...even for the
wine. But they did. Most were old friends from
St. George’s.
The next few years were a time of personal loss
for me. The events at St. George’s had es-
tranged me from the Church. This loss was
compounded by a tragedy in my family and by
my husband’s devastating decline from Alzhei-
mer’s disease. I felt totally disconnected from
God. Writing kept me going. It is only now,
looking back on it, that I recognize that this tal-
ent has been one of the greatest of God’s gifts to
me.
I may never have come back to the church if it
were not for my English friends, Joan and Peter
Sanders. They came to visit me in Hamilton.
They expected to attend Holy Communion, hav-
ing no idea that I had not been inside a church
for years. Not mentioning this fact, I asked
them if they would like to go to the Cathedral.
That Sunday morning changed everything. Ja-
net Stirling was the person who made it happen.
She came up to welcome us strangers in the cof-
fee hour. I forget exactly what we talked about,
but it involved English churches. She offered to
give my friends some historical material she
possessed—I don’t recall what it was—and
went to the trouble of bringing it to them at my
home. This act of kindness had miraculous re-
sults. A few weeks after the Sanders returned to
England, I thought I just might revisit Christ’s
Church Cathedral on my own.
Peter Wall was preaching. It wasn’t a sermon
so much as a lecture on how a Psalm ought to be
read. Perhaps it was the teacher in me that be-
came instantly engaged. I don’t know. But
whatever it was, within six months I was a
member of the Christ’s Church Cathedral con-
gregation.
Of course, this is not the end of the story. Over
the next few years there were more book tours
and more returns to Kingston for launches at
The Novel Idea. My husband died. My friend
Leigh Smith lost his cherished wife Glorian.
Having common interests and a long established
friendship, we began to spend time together and
discovered a new and happy life. On October
22 of this year we were married at St. George’s
Cathedral. Peter Wall delivered the homily at
the wedding. Many friends from both Cathe-
drals were there.
I now have two Cathedrals that I call home. ■
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EVERY FRIDAY
‘Father forgive’
by Peter Wall †
LITANY OF RECONCILIATION
For almost 50 years, every Friday has seen the
reading of The Litany of Reconciliation in the
ruins of Coventry Cathedral in Coventry, Eng-
land. Destroyed by German bombs in 1940, the
Cathedral was a significant part of the ancient
city of Coventry. As plans progressed to build a
magnificent new Cathedral adjacent to the ruins,
the original nave, with many of its stone pillars
remaining, became a place of prayer, particular-
ly for reconciliation and forgiveness. The Prov-
ost (Dean) of the Cathedral on the day following
its destruction on November 14, 1940 had writ-
ten ‘Father, forgive’ on the charred timbers of
the church, and lashed two charred spikes to-
gether into a ‘Cross of Nails’ - those powerful
words and that powerful symbol have formed,
over the years, a worldwide ‘Community of the
Cross of Nails’ of which our Cathedral is a
member, and we also have a Cross of Nails
mounted above the pulpit in our own Cathedral.
As those deep connections have been forged, so
has the Litany of Reconciliation become a sym-
bol of the power of prayer and the power of for-
giveness in our world which so desperately
needs both.
There are now over 170 Cathedrals and church-
es throughout the world who gather people to-
gether to offer the Litany every Friday. On Fri-
day, December 2, the first Friday of the new
church year, we became another one! Dr. John
Watts was born and raised in Coventry and has a
particular attachment to the work of the Com-
munity of the Cross of Nails. John has been a
great help as we have begun this important min-
istry and witness. So, come and join with us –
each and every Friday, 12:00 noon, in Bishops-
gate. It literally takes only 2 minutes!
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Dean of Niagara and Rector of the Cathedral
The Very Rev. Peter A. Wall
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