Choosing Between My Children And My Sanity

Choosing Between My Children and My

Sanity

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Question: • I want to leave my marriage and

my children for the sake of my own sanity


• I have never been maternal • My marriage is smothering me

with obligations and expectations


• I have thought this through • This is the right decision for me

and them • How do I get my husband to

allow me access to the children?


Answer: • You are going against the norm

by leaving your marriage as well as your children

• This is not about right or wrong • This is about security


• You do not feel secure inside or outside of the relationship

• You want to leave the marriage so that you can survive and grow


• You will need a lot of courage • How do you prepare yourself

and your children? • Find self-love before you do

anything else


• Your relationship has a natural life cycle

• Holding on to the relationship at all costs is not a solution


• Find your good traits so that they can balance out your other traits


• For example you feel like a failure as a mother

• What if your husband is frustrated by your lack of conformance and a better carer than you?


• Not all mothers feel a mother instinct

• You want to follow your heart


• The alternative is to stay in a relationship at all costs


• When you find self-love, your children will know you are all right

• Your husband will also find clarity


• Wait until you can leave feeling happy and without self-blame

• Your relationship with your children will benefit


• You have a soul contract with your husband and children

• You are living that soul contract


• Love means accepting and loving yourself, so that you have love to give to others


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Choosing Between My Children And My Sanity

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