Dear Chocolate Cover

Chocolate Cover Advice: The Only Woman versus The Other Woman

I know a lot of information about a married man who has been cheating on his wife for several years. I know his wife and I even know the other woman. He has fallen deeply in love with this

other woman. I believe his wife has always known about the affair. But, I believe she has been in denial about the whole situation. As in for the other woman he has promised her that he will

divorce his wife when their children ( 16 and 14 years old) graduate from high school. When speaking to his wife, they appear to be happily married and she is always speaking highly about her

husband and how much she loves him.

I wanted to tell them both about this untrustworthy man. Unfortunately, I didn't get the chance to tell neither one of them. Eventually, the wife finds out about the affair. Now she is willing to

give her husband the option to have an open marriage just to keep him in her life. In fact, I believe the other woman may be open to this idea as well (being second best). Both of these women are

madly in love with a man who is unfaithful and untrustworthy.

The crazy thing about this situation is, that I have been trying to destroy these insane relationships (the possibility of this open marriage and the affair itself), by causing subtle drama at first and

now I have advance to aggressive threats to their lives, such as causing bodily harm and sending unknown packages to each one of them.

When giving this man an option to have an open marriage just to keep him, doesn't force him to make choices and face his consequences for the shatter hearts he has caused. For this situation like

this! How can both women "Act Like A Lady and Think Like A Man" by Steve Harvey? Or can this be another sexual fantasy like the book "50 Shades Of Grey"

Should I keep trying to destroy this relationship using subtle or aggressive drama? Or should I just come out and verbally tell them the reason why and how I really feel about their masquerade of

a fantasy world and the man who thinks he should "have ones cake and it too" (he "shouldn't have the best of both worlds").

No matter what, I am set to destroy this relationship. No matter what ! I will get it all ! I will be the winner at the end of this game and I will be claiming my prize.

Sincerely,

A Very Interested Party

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