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Caring Moments:
Create Quality Care
Beth Perry RN, PhD
March 7, 2016
Dementia Care 2016
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Acknowledgments
Research Funding
• Social Sciences and Humanities Research
Council of Canada (SSHRC)
• Athabasca University (AU)
Stories - Exemplary nurses of Canada
Photographs – Otto Mahler
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Moments
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Simple Gestures
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It’s not about
doing great
things.
It’s about doing
small things
with great love.
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Caution….
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AFFIRMING
MOMENTS
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Affirming Moments
A shared smile.
A caring glance.
A slowed step.
A touch more gentle than it needs to be.
Affirming moments – integrated into the
ordinary moments of a nurse’s day.
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Legacy Moments
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Footprints
May I leave
A footprint on
Your heart?
A tiny seal
To permanently
Etch a reminder of
My life on earth.
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Dignifying Moments
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“It is
sometimes not
what I do,
It is how I do it
that matters.”
(Rose, RN)
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The Little Things
The little things
That you say and do
Can protect,
Or destroy,
Your patient’s last remaining grains
Of dignity and self-respect.
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Touch Creates Meaningful
Moments
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The Imprint
Your touch.
A gentle brush across
my cheek.
How can something so
faint, so soft, so
subtle,
Leave such an
indelible imprint
On our souls?
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Silent Moments
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Reflective Silence Meet my silence with
silence.
Reflect my ways with
your own.
See the me that I am,
Not the me that you want
me to be.
Please just sit with me
And let the silent notes of
the birds’ songs
Sing to us.
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Individualizing Moments
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You
There is only one you.
The sum total of all you have
Done
Seen and
Experienced.
What makes me happy
Is doing what I can to keep you – you.
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Humorous Moments
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Funny Thing About Laughter
When we laugh
together
It somehow shortens
the distance
between us.
It reduces the space
we occupy,
But it doesn’t make it
any more crowded.
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Maintaining THE Attitude
When things are going well.
It’s easy to keep the rhythm in your step.
The enthusiasm on your face.
And the shine in your eyes.
When life gets challenging
Ordinary people lose it.
Outstanding nurses don’t.
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Hopeful Moments
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HOPE
HOPE
It cannot be
bought,
Or taught,
But can it be
CAUGHT?
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Compassionate Moments
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The very definition of compassion...
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Creating Moments that Matter
by Sharing the Journey
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Keeping the
promise to
never
abandon
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There is always something
more that can be done
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Transcendent Moments
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The Miracle Circle
Sometimes,
When I think about
The vastness and complexity of the world,
I am overwhelmed.
I feel so unimportant
So insignificant.
Then
I meet you,
And with a small gesture, lovingly given,
I make you feel valued.
The result is a miracle.
When you feel important,
So do I.
It is so simple. It is so profound.
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Caring is
more.....
It is taking a
risk and
helping
someone do
something
they need to
do, but can’t
do alone.
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Your moments that matter