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Career Success Clarifying Your Directio
WRITTEN BY STEVE SNYDER & KATE BLAKE EDITED BY CLAIRE TADYCH
Volume 1 o
CLARIFYING YOUR DIRECTION
CAREER SUCCESS
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All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced in any form without written
permission from author.
Typeset in Georgia,
Design by Monica Chow
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If You Dont Know Where You Are Going, You
Might End Up Somewhere Else
Yogi Berra
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While searching
or our vocation,
we wonder who we
truly are, but dont
schedule valuable
time to reect.
ClariyingDirection
There seems to be some type of invisible benchmark that we measure our-
selves against. It can be different depending on our particular circumstances
or environment, but when we take a deeper look, there are many common
themes. Primarily, we feel that our lives should be different from what they
are right now. Many of whom we consider to be the most successful in our
culture, those working 70 hours a week and earning well into the six gures,
dont seem to know what they want and yet cant stop long enough to gure
it out. Mid-career corporate ladder climbers worry about what theyve had to
give up to get where they are and struggle to simply keep up with the mortgage
payment. Mothers who left the workplace to focus on family feel their skills
have become obsolete and that there is no space for them to re-enter the work
force. People in all professions, who relied on the security of their jobs, were
rudely awakened from complacency when the economy started to crumble in
2008. Even those who have taken the big leap and started their own compa-
nies often feel overwhelmed by the multitude of decisions to be made and the
pressures of simply staying aoat. The lucky ones, who have reached nan-
cial stability and have the freedom to focus on other areas of their lives, nd
theyre plagued with worry about dividing their attention for too long. Success-
ful executives, from all industries, worry about retirement because so much of
who they are is tied up in what theyve done.
While searching for our vocation, we wonder who we truly are, but dont
schedule valuable time to reect. We are easily distracted by the 24/7 news
cycles, the pressure to keep up with the Jones and the constant battle to nd
time for the things we actually enjoy. Instead of asking the tough questions
about what we truly want for ourselves and taking the necessary risks to reach
those goals, we rely on our past behavior and experiences. Living on autopilot,
we take the ight plan most travelled and depend on the pattern weve always
followed.
Fear of what we might lose, what we might have to give keeps us from answer-
ing the simple questions Who am I?, What do I want? The answers to
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Clariying Direction
these questions are a foundational piece of our lives. Without these answers,
without a strong and unwavering grasp of who we are and what we want for
ourselves, it is next to impossible to create our success.
It is from here that we begin the process of clarifying direction. Clarity arrives
only when you are completely open and truthful with self. Keeping you on
track, truth is your internal compass that automatically points you in the right
direction. A commitment to truth is especially helpful in times of uncertainty
and transition. In these moments, there is no safety net of the past, theres
only the open road of now and the future. Without a foundation in truth, fear,
doubt, and anxiety become the basis for our decision making. It is with truth
that we are able to successfully face the challenges, transition, and changes in
our lives.
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You show up
authentically in your
own lie.
What gets in the way of knowing who you are and what you want? The short
answer is, you do! You get in your own way. Otherwise, you would be clear
about your destination, there would be no uncertainty, no vacillation. With
clarity you dont allow other peoples agenda, desires, or situations to lead you.
You lead the way. You show up authentically in your own life. You do and say
what is important to you.
Five years from now your life wont be the same as it is today. Like most, you
probably hope for a brighter future, lled with improvements and upgrades.
But, even with the best of intentions, substantial change is difcult unless we
are pushed to achieve it. For many that push comes in the form of a crisis: los-
ing your job, ling for divorce, experiencing a tragedy. Crisis creates a sense of
urgency that motivates us to step up, to make those long overdue changes, to
break out of our normal routine.
The reason it typically takes a crisis to implement change is because it can be
tricky to reshape our habits. For most, it becomes a struggle with fear. We all
have a fear of the unknown. Change requires we give up the comfort of the fa-miliar, for the risk of the unknown. It takes bold action to enter this space and
can feel pointless. When we are confronted with change, we immediately panic
and think about what we could lose rather than what we could gain.
We are creatures of habit. Our brain is hard wired to repeat behaviors and
to create patterns. Our past experiences become the template for condence
and assurance. If we are to implement change we must leave the safety of the
familiar for uncertainty of the unknown. And, it can be terrifying and depend-
ing on your experience, it may be difcult to invite change and adopt new pat-
terns. But, the rewards are many. Moving beyond the fear, beyond attachment
to what might be lost, makes way for might be gained. It makes way for the
freedom to discover the you in your life.
Whats GettingIn The Way?
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The key to taking control of your future is to determine the truth about who
you are, where you are and what you want. The answers to these questions
will create a distinct and individual roadmap based on four things: your pas-
sions, strengths, opportunities and obligations. With our one-on-one clients
we help them discover what we call the Sweet Spot (Adapted from Ukleja
and Lorber Who Are You? What Do You Want?). Lets take a look at that now.
Much to the contrary of what we have all been taught, true clarity around what
will make us happy, is not determined by external factors. Understanding
what we want for ourselves can only be determined by looking in the mirror.
Job titles, degrees earned and even salary increases are only temporary xes.
Long term sustainable change comes from a clear understanding of how we
tick as individuals, the differences that make us unique and remarkable and
creating a plan of action based on that understanding.
In one form or another, were all going after something. Thats part of being
alive. As long as were living and acting, we are headed toward a goal. Were
participating in the stream of life and will end up somewhere. Navigating thewaters of choice comes down to clearly dening what we want and creating a
plan to arrive there. Creating the future you want must start by dening suc-
cess on your terms however.
The risk of moving ahead without a clear denition is doing all the hard work
and receiving ambiguous results. If you dont dene success for yourself it
will be impossible to know when you have actually achieved it. Whats worse,
you may wake up one day and realize that the dream you have been chasing
isnt even yours. Our society exerts constant pressure to be successful, which
is why dening what success means to you is vital to your future. If you dont
know what you want or if it is unclear it is impossible to show up authen-
tically in your own life, rather, you are simply reacting to everyone elses
desires, schedules and requests.
Whats Gettingin the Way?
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What does success look like to you-- not your family, your parents, or your
friends but to you? What is it for you? What is it based on? You must start
here rst. Success can be very different for each of us and dening it for our-
selves is probably not something we do on a regular basis. Lets break it down.
Whats Gettingin the Way?
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Whats Gettingin the Way?
FOR REFLECTION
Where are the dierences between what I say and what I do?
What does success look like to me? How do I defne it?
What is it based on?
What truth about my lie do I avoid exploring? Why?
What decisions and choices have allowed me to get to where I am today?
Would I repeat them all? Why or why not?
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We are more effective when we focus on and pursue the things that we are
skilled at its how our brain is wired. Typically people think they can identify
their individual strengths. In theory, it should be easy to recognize our abili-
ties. . When asked for examples however, most struggle to create a list. There
are a few reasons this can occur:
We are taught at a young age to focus on our weaknesses. Well-intended
adults believe that we will get ahead when we expend most of our energy in the
areas where we are most challenged. In the long run however, we dont make
our biggest contributions in our areas of weakness. We can overcome weak-
nesses, but rarely do we excel in them or end up building our lives and work
around these activities.
Secondly, since weve always had these strengths and because they are innate
talents, we dont always recognize them. Additionally, weve been told all our
lives that we have to work hard to be good at things and as a result we do not
develop the natural skills that we enjoy. When our efforts are channeled in to
our weaknesses then our natural talents can suffer from lack of growth.
We logically assume others can do the same things because it comes so easily
to us. We can become discouraged by the prospect of many competitive peers
and put these activities on hold
Finally, we discount our talents as strengths because we receive some type
of innate pleasure from them. Many times we have watched those around us
struggle with work and life. Because it feels good when we do things well, we
continue the activity and practice the skill, but potentially do not recognize it
for its true value.
When identifying our strengths, it is important to be realistic. We dont want
to eliminate potential areas for development, but it is possible to waste time,
money and effort pursuing unrealistic goals. We are more productive and
engaged when we pursue the things that we are skilled at, so lets focus there.
Because it eels good
when we do things
well, we continue
the activity and
practice the skill, but
potentially do not
recognize it or its
true value.
IdentiyingStrengths
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The Drivers Seat
Take a moment and brag about yourself while no one else is listening. Dont
limit your strengths and remember to pay attention to the areas where you
stand out from your peers. How are you different from them? What do you do
better? It is always helpful to gain perspective from others, so take some time
to ask people in your personal and professional networks what they see as
your strengths. Remember to include: experience, interests, education/knowl-
edge, personality traits, competencies, abilities, skill sets, aptitudes.
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The Drivers Seat
FOR REFLECTION
What do other people say you are good at?
What have you done in the past that has given you a sense o satisaction?
What can I do that sets me apart rom my peers?
The last time you worked in a group, what was assigned to you?
What are you known or doing well?
When was the last time you lost track o time?
What were you doing?
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RecognizingPassion
One of the most important pieces to acquiring success in todays world is nd-
ing passion in what you do. Identifying what lights you up inside and struc-
turing those activities into your daily life is a cure-all. When you are engaged
and focused, little can slow you down. When you are fully committed, with
meaning and purpose, the voice in your head becomes quiet. Doubt, fear and
judgment no longer navigate your choices and decisions.
Additionally, living your passion gives you endless energy and happiness.
We are going to take a look at the happiness factor a little later, but for now,
identifying the things that allow you to feel engaged, propel you to be inspired.
Plugging in to your passions drives massive action; it gives you patience, cour-
age, and the consistency needed for success. We are captivated by our pas-
sions and when we engage in those activities, success is inevitable. When done
correctly, passionate action ultimately equates to nancial freedom.
We want to be realistic when looking at our passions, but its important not
to limit ourselves. In an attempt to be practical, we can end up playing it too
safe and not taking the necessary risks to push ourselves towards the nextlevel. We need to think big! Allow yourself to go there. We can always act
smaller later.
... living your
passion gives you
endless energy and
happiness.
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RecognizingPassion
FOR REFLECTION
What makes you eel good about yoursel?
What would you do or ree?
What makes you want to get out o bed in the morning?
What things will you talk about to ANYONE who will listen?
What are fve non-negotiable values in my lie?
What things, events or activities make you eel ully alive?
What have I set aside? Why? What can I do now to reverse that?
What would be my perect day at work? At home?
What changes would I make i I was guaranteed success in each o these areas o my lie?
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Opportunity is dened as an event with a good chance for advancement or
progress. Opportunities surround each of us every day, in all aspects of our
lives. We should never underestimate however, our ability to ignore the obvi-
ous. It would be great if there was a big red blinking sign, with arrows pointing
- THIS DIRECTION! The reality is that we are lucky if we get a small inkling,
maybe a moment that has us take pause. If we dont acknowledge it however,
the eeting sensation may never return.
When looking for opportunities in business or on a personal level, you want
to look at trends and changes you predict will occur. What is up and coming?
What changes will have a larger impact? What are truly changes, not simply
trends? What direction are we moving in as a culture, as a community, as a
family unit?
Opportunity is dened as an event with a good chance for advancement or
progress. Opportunities surround each of us every day, in all aspects of our
lives. We should never underestimate however, our ability to ignore the obvi-
ous. It would be great if there was a big red blinking sign, with arrows pointing- THIS DIRECTION! The reality is that we are lucky if we get a small inkling,
maybe a moment that has us take pause. If we dont acknowledge it however,
the eeting sensation may never return.
When looking for opportunities in business or on a personal level, you want
to look at trends and changes you predict will occur. What is up and coming?
What changes will have a larger impact? What are truly changes, not simply
trends? What direction are we moving in as a culture, as a community, as a
family unit? In this section we will look at weaknesses as well. Although self-
evaluation can be intimidating, acknowledging your own weaknesses is not
necessarily a bad thing. Identifying your weakness can be a gift and should
be considered the presentation of an opportunity. Down playing weaknesses
can jeopardize goals and extend completion dates. Acknowledging a space for
growth, a skill to be perfected or an area for improvement creates an opportunity.
When looking or
opportunities in
business or on a
personal level,
you want to look at
trends and changes
you predict will occur.
RealizingOpportunity
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RealizingOpportunity
Companies that ignored the opportunities to meet consumer needs through
creating a presence on the internet, thereby allowing themselves to compete
in the virtual world, have lost market share and many have ultimately closed
their doors. Those who analyzed trends and created opportunities by upgrad-
ing their skills and learning to compete in new arenas, ourished. You need to
do this on an individual basis as well.
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RealizingOpportunity
FOR REFLECTION
What strengths can be turned into opportunities?
How can you create opportunities by enhancing your strengths?
What opportunities can be created by managing or eliminating weaknesses?
How can you prepare yoursel or change? What can you improve upon?
What is currently happening in your company that may be an opportunity or you?
What is happening within your industry?
What is happening in an industry you have had your eye on or a while?
What political, economic, technological, demographic, or social trends can I use to my advantage?
Are there imminent changes in your personal lie that will present an opportunity upon which you could capital-ize?
When current goals are met, will their accomplishment present opportunities upon which you could capitalize?
What is your current success based on?
What have you not been successul with in the past?
Which opportunity can you exploit most quickly and most proftably?
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Never before have we had so little time in which
to do so much
Franklin D. Roosevelt
It is considered standard operating procedure today for us to be living in an
apparent state of fast forward. We microwave our food, cant fathom the idea
of a dial up internet connection, nor tolerate lines longer than ve minutes.
We are constantly on the go, trying to t it all in and never measuring up. At
times, our lives seem to be whirling out of control and the competing demands
of work, home, and family are more than we can handle.
Clutter and a sense of overwhelm are created because most of us have learned
to adapt our schedules to meet other peoples expectations and needs. We
over obligate ourselves and set ourselves up for failure. By trying to do every-
thing for everyone we end up doing very little for very few.
Clutter is like an overgrown garden. Only when you take time to pull the
weeds will fresh ideas have a better chance of growing. Ukleja/Lorber What
Are You? What Do You Want?
Coming to terms with the chaos means somethings got to give. Ultimately,
the things that dont t need to be eliminated: the things that we are doing
that we dont enjoy; the activities that are not fullling and propelling us for-
ward. The secret to achieving our desires and goals is elimination. The most
successful amongst us are determined and selective.
When we are distracted from using our strengths, engaging in our passions
and recognizing opportunity, we lose sight of who we are and what we want.
Since when is doing more the solutions to too much?
When we are
distracted rom
using our strengths,
engaging in our
passions and
recognizing
opportunity, we lose
sight o who we areand what we want.
Removing theClutter
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Removing theClutter
FOR REFLECTION
What is on my schedule that doesnt need to be there?
What things can be removed, or at least cut back?
Are any o the experiences that I would like to have, that I listed on my Passions Assessment reected on my sched-
ule? Weekly? Monthly? Yearly?
What am I doing that I dont enjoy doing?
What am I doing that I do enjoy doing?
What are some things that I would like to do that all under the category o now or never?
What is the percent o my eort that produces 8 percent o the results I want to accomplish?
What are the things that other people want me to do?
What are the things that I want to do?
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Once identied, our strengths and passions need to be developed and nur-
tured. This takes insight, intention and discipline. Obligations and oppor-
tunities however are more exible and as you may have already experienced,
when times are tough we are forced to cut back. Many previous obligations are
reduced or eliminated. These moments allow us to realize the essential pieces
necessary to achieve our goals and let go of the unessential. Opportunities will
come and go. There is no steadfast rule to determine when the time is right; if
the risk will be advantageous. What is important is to be awake to the possi-
bilities.
Compile your answers from each of the above sections. The overlapping area
from each section is where you will nd your Sweet Spot. What ideas comple-
ment each other? What words or phrases are repeated across your answers?
What common themes do you see represented? What passion can be support-
ed with a strength to meet an opportunity?
Your passions and strengths are the biggest indicator of your personal path.
And when you take on an activity or a job that utilizes the four quadrants,youre living in your Sweet Spot. The more the four overlap, the larger your
Sweet Spot becomes, so continue to push beyond your boundaries.
Your passions and
strengths are the
biggest indicator o
your personal path.
Your Sweet Spot
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Your Sweet Spot
STRENGTHS
OPPORTUNITIES
OBLIGATIONS
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Our core values
however tap into
the core o who you
are, what you stand
or and what is
important to you.
Most of us can easily identify what we value in life. Our core values however
tap into the core of who you are, what you stand for and what is important to
you. They exemplify the essence of who you are and can act as guiding prin-
ciples to live by.
Your values are essential guideposts navigating the course of your career and
your life. When understood and utilized as a factor in the choices you make,
values can help guide you toward what is important and holds meaning for
you in your life.
Listed below are several questions that will help you outline and create struc-
ture around your values. Take the necessary time to identify the characteris-
tics, qualities and traits that you admire the most in the people in your life.
Core Values
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FOR REFLECTION
Ask yoursel who do I most respect and admire in the world, whether I know them personally or not. Who are they?
What is it about them that you most admire?
Core Values
Person Characteristic
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Think about a person that you know, who you hold in high regard. What are the top three personal qualities or traits t
have that you are attracted to?
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Core Values
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Imagine or a moment that you were attending your own uneral, as a riend or associate, and you were asked to give a
eulogy about yoursel. What qualities or traits would you most want to have said about you?
I you were to ask your best riend what three qualities about you they appreciate the most, how would they answer?
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Core Values
I you were given the power to ensure that humankind expressed fve qualities or values in all o their actions rom t
time orward, what would they be?
I money were no object and you had such an abundant supply o wealth that you could do anything, what values wo
guide your decisions?
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Core Values
Now, utilizing the answers to the questions above list your top values in lie?
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Core Values
Oten, our thinking mind or ego takes the lead on answering questions, and when we are talking about values, we wan
the response that resonates with our deeper sel. In order to bridge the gap, answer the series o our questions listed
below. The point here is to not over- think your answers, so just go with your gut.
Write down the frst thing that pops in to your head, even i it doesnt seem to make sense:
QUESTION 1 what does mean to you?
QUESTION 2 why is important to you?
QUESTION 3 what does give you?
QUESTION 4 how does make you eel?
Continue with the subsequent questions until you identiy the core value.
Now looking at how you answered questions -, what is the underlying value or you?
EXAMPLE
I value riendship.
Question : what does riendship mean to you?
Friendship means I am accepted.
Question : why is being accepted important to you?
Being accepted is important because I can be authentic.
Question : what does being authentic give you?
Being authentic gives me confdence.
Question : how does confdence make you eel? (What does it give you a sense o?)
Confdence makes me eel empowered.
Empowered is the core value
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Core Values
Now make a list o your top values.
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From the list o your top values, i you could only be assured o having three in your lie what would they be?
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MY TOP 3 VALUES IN LIFE ARE
. . .
Does your career and lie support these top three values currently?
I you are in a place o transition, your core values can be used to help guide you in making your next move. Know-ing what you value most and ensuring that your actions encompass those values are key components to clariying th
direction in which you want to head.
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How many people
do you know who
absolutely love what
they do?
In Monetize Your Passion, author Rich German talks about the Happiness
Factor. He points out that in general, its pretty safe to say that we all want the
same things in life. Many of us stumble when it comes to which path to take,
but overall, the bottom line comes down to freedom and happiness. Those two
requests tend to show up as the desire for good health, a great family, nancial
security or loving relationships. But when we dig a little deeper into why we
want what we want, ultimately we wind up returning to these two essential
desires.
Unfortunately, somehow in the process of living, the idea of just being happy,,
enjoying the experience of life, seems to eludes most of us and its become an
epidemic! Think about it. How many people do you know who are truly hap-
py? How many people would you rate, on a scale of 1 -10, an eight or higher
when you think about how happy they are in their lives? How many people
do you know who absolutely love what they do? A few? One?
You probably know many more people whose lives are dominated by fear,
worry, and doubt than those who are living completely joyful, fun, passionatelives. People start each morning dreading their day and go to a job they can
barely tolerate. Then they come home at night feeling unsatised due to of a
lack of job fulllment caused by the absence of purpose. Getting up the next
morning, they repeat the process and may not even realize that they are able to
break the cycle.
German shares that we have been programmed to believe through years of
school and work that the preceding scenario is normal and taught to feel guilty
for daring to think there are other options. The reality is that this option has
been eliminated over the past few decades. Working at the same company for
more than 5 years is considered a detriment in todays fast paced, ever chang-
ing global economy. The days of working until retirement, getting the gold
watch, and then retiring to Florida have ended. What is the new approach?
The HappinessFactor
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The HappinessFactor
Your primary focus should be to be happy. It should be one of your highest
goals because when you feel good, life is easy, there is no struggle, you are
naturally happy. From this natural happiness you have a better perspective
on the options and choices that lay in front of you. The old adage, Attitude is
everything truly applies here. You are more likely to get what you are aiming
for when you have a positive mind set. Whats more, your state of happiness is
determined by your dominant emotion.
The dominant emotion that you experience on a daily basis inuences all of
your choices and decisions. The way in which you carry yourself, the actions
that you take and the conversations that you have are all affected by your dom-
inant emotion. Makes sense, right the happier you are the more you enjoy life.
When we experience primarily negative emotions, life is a struggle.
Whats great about this scenario is that we have a choice. Your dominant
emotional state is a habit you create. It is a choice. On a daily basis you can
make a conscious choice to be happy or to focus on negative emotion. By
consciously choosing your emotional state and creating positive habits, ourenergy level will naturally rise. Having high energy is critical to your success
and principal to clarifying direction. When your energy is high, you feel great
and your results reect it. Conversely, when your energy is less than desirable,
your attitude and results will suffer as a result.
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The HappinessFactor
FOR REFLECTION
Do you habitually eel good or bad?
What is my typical energy level on a given day? What can I do to raise it?
What tasks that I enjoy doing have I scheduled on my calendar on a daily basis?
What tasks can I add in?
What activities elevate my energy level?
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A mind map is
a diagram that
outlines ideas, tasks
and opportunities
arranged around a
central theme or aim.
Do you remember the last time you had to brainstorm with several people
for a group project? The success of that project was most likely caused by all
team members thinking of the desired end result. When our intention is to
clarify the next steps for our own lives, however, there is only one participant
who can brainstorm the solution. It all comes down to you. What are all your
options? How do you know what to move forward with and what to discard?
What is the logical next step?
A mind map is a diagram that outlines ideas, tasks and opportunities arranged
around a central theme or aim. It is used to develop, visualize, facilitate and
categorize ideas. It allows you to step outside your inner critic and get things
on paper. It is a way to organize the information that is oating around in
your head, solve a problem that you have been grappling with, or nd clar-
ity to solve a problem. The sections of a mind map are arranged intuitively
according to the importance of the concepts with the main idea in the center.
Ideas ow from the main thought and are classied into groups with the goal
of linking porting of information.
By putting down ideas in a graphical, non-linear manner, mind maps encour-
age a brainstorming approach to problem solving. Popularized by Tony Buzan,
mind maps restructure the typical format of conventional note taking, and
favor a two-dimensional approach. The branches of a mind map imply a hier-
archical relationship between the thoughts; however, their radial arrangement
disrupts rigid categorization. The radial connections of the mind map main-
tain the organic value of each idea, all the while relating it back to a central
concept.
This is an important technique because a good mind map shows the shape
of the subject, the relative importance of individual points, and the way in
which facts relate to one another. They help you make associations easily,
consolidate information from different sources, and think through complex
problems. www.mindtools.com
Mind Maps
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DRAWING BASIC MIND MAPS
To make notes on a subject using a mind map, draw it in the following way:
Write the title of the subject youre exploring in the center of the page,
and draw a circle around it. This is shown by the circle marked 1 in Figure
1, above.
As you come across major subdivisions or subheadings of the topic (or
important facts that relate to the subject) draw lines out from this circle.
Label these lines with these subdivisions or subheadings. These are shown
by the lines marked 2 in Figure 1.
As you burrow into the subject and uncover another level of informa-
tion (further subheadings, or individual facts) belonging to the subhead-
ings above, draw these as lines linked to the subheading lines. These are
shown by the lines marked 3 in Figure 1.
Mind Maps
Figure
Mind Map example from
Mind Tools
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Finally, for individual facts or ideas, draw lines out from the appropriate head-
ing line and label them, these are also shown by the lines marked 4 in Figure 1.
As you come across new information, link it in to the Mind
Map appropriately.
IMPROVING YOUR MIND MAPS
Mind maps allow you to take out all of the ideas that are bouncing around inyour head and create a structure for them. They are a tool that can help you
create clarity and once you understand how to make notes in this format, you
can develop your own conventions to take them further. The following sugges-
tions may help to increase their effectiveness:
Use single words or simple phrases for information:Most words in
normal writing are padding, as they ensure that facts are conveyed in the cor-
rect context, and in a format that is pleasant to read. In your own maps, single
strong words and meaningful phrases can convey the same meaning more
potently. Excess words just clutter the map.
Print words:Joined up or indistinct writing can be more difcult to read.
Use color to separate different ideas:This will help you to separate ideas
where necessary. Color also helps to show the organization of the subject.
Use symbols and images: Where a symbol or picture means something to
you, use it. Pictures can help you to remember information more effectively
than words.
Using cross-linkages: Information in one part of the Mind Map may relate
to another part. Here you can draw in lines to show the cross-linkages. This
helps you to see how one part of the subject affects another, potential growth
and potential opportunities to exploit.
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Pareto Analysis is
a simple technique
o identiying and
selecting the tasks
that result in the
greatest return.
Pareto Analysis
USING THE 80:20 RULE TO PRIORITIZE
If we were to look at your life on a spreadsheet, all of the elements would t
into one of two categories: areas for development and areas to cut out. We live
in a 24 hour news cycle that creates a world of information overload. How
can you determine what is simply adding clutter and what is assisting you in
meeting your goals? Ideally, you want to focus your attention on the tasks and
activities that will allow you to reach your goals the quickest. But how do you
decide what those are?
Pareto Analysis is a simple technique of identifying and selecting the tasks that
result in the greatest return. This tool will allow you to prioritize the activities
that will produce the greatest benet. Pareto Analysis uses the Pareto Prin-
ciple also known as the 80/20 Rule which is the idea that 20% of your
efforts generate 80% of your results. By identifying the most productive 20%
we are removing the unnecessary steps that have minimal reward.
The most successful individuals are both determined and selective.
CAUSES
FREQUENCY
CUMULATIVE
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HOW TO USE THE TOOL
Step 1: Identify and List Objectives
Write a list of all of the objectives you want to accomplish. These can be
gathered from the mind mapping exercise listed above or you can refer to your
sweet spot where you have engaged your strengths, included your passions,
taken advantage of opportunities and balanced your obligations.
Step 2: Identify PotentialFor each objective, identify its potential outcome. What objectives will help
you achieve your goals the fastest? Which are on the list, but are a long shot?
Step 3: Score Potential
Next score each ambition. The scoring method you use will depend on the
task. Factors like length of time to reach goals, initial investment and impact
on current status should be considered. A simple scale of 1-10 is sufcient.
Step 4: Group Options Together By Outcome
Now, group options together by outcome. For example, if three of your objec-
tives are to create more time in your schedule, group them together.
Step 5: Add up the Scores for Each Group
You can now add up the scores for each group. The group with the top score is
your highest priority, and the group with the lowest score is your lowest prior-
ity. Keep in mind that low scoring options may not be worth attempting, as
they may cost you more than the investment and outcome is worth.
Step 6: Take ActionNow you need to take action and our next chapter focuses specically on stra-
tegic action and creating a plan. Here we have created the priorities and the
order by which you will proceed.
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FOR REFLECTION
What objectives are on my list?
What are the ew things that i done well will make a dierence in my lie?
What well placed eorts will produce the best results and the rewards I want?
What ruitless activities are simply adding clutter to my lie?
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A commitment to the
truth about yoursel
is the only manner
in which you will
fnd the clear and
undecipherable path
to your uture.
We have examined several tools in this chapter to help you clarify your direc-
tion. None of them will serve you fully however without radical self honesty.
Clarity arrives only when you are completely open and truthful with yourself.
Truth is the navigational tool to keep you on track. It is your internal com-
pass, automatically pointing you in the right direction. A commitment to the
truth about yourself is the only manner in which you will nd the clear and
undecipherable path to your future.
ClariyingDirection
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FOR REFLECTION
What are my core values and do I reerences them when making decisions?
Where do my strengths, passions, opportunities and obligations overlap to create my sweet spot?
What is my prevalent emotional state?
Who am I and what do I want?
How do I defne success or mysel and what does it look like?
Where am I showing up inauthentically in my lie?
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