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FAITH
Faith is believing in something before it happens. It is seeing something before it is
seen and it is an ABILITY to never surrender to fear. For example scientists say
that e breathe oxygen! e don"t see it but e #no it"s there because e #noho it feels hen e suffocate. $e believe ithout a doubt that e breathe
something. The same concept applies to %od yet not everybody believes. A man
and oman ho have faith in their relationship ill be more illing to trust! love
and surrender to each other. If the man and oman constantly fear losing each
other instead of having faith in their groth then they slo don the vibe and flo
and they can even ¶lyses" the relationship. Fear means False 'xpectation
Appearing (eal! so hatever negative thoughts that you thin# could paralyses you.
Fear is defeated by Faith) A person ho has faith in overcoming any obstacle is the
person ho asn"t afraid of death but merely LI*'+ till the end. $ith faith youill not be fa,ed! ruffled or sha#ened by anything. A man and a oman ho
endures till the end is seen has having had a good life and they ill AL$AY- be
remembered.
+I-I/LI0'
-elf1ontrol is -trength! (ight Thought is 2astery! almness is /oer 13ames
Allen! author of As A 2an Thin#eth Alays be laid bac# about everything! +on"t
overreact to anything! 0ever! ever suc# up)1 /layer community 2en respond to
hat they see so the discipline 4the ability5 there is to not get carried aay by hat
they see. $omen respond to hat they hear so the discipline 4ability5 there is not to
get carried aay by hat they hear. $omen are emotional by nature first. A man
must maintain control not to allo the emotions to get him emotional as ell. To
emotional people hold no logic. A man is logical by nature first 4note this ord5.
$hen he maintains control he can use his logic. -ometimes a oman 6ust ants to
lash out and release stress. It doesn"t mean she means hat she says or hat she
does 4body language and facial expressions ill reveal that5. 2en are one trac#
minded first. A oman must maintain control and understand that she must explain
her emotions to his logic. -he must not assume that he should #no. 'ach feelings
that she explains can then be dealt ith one at a time. A man reali,es! in entirety
ho his oman feels. $hen discipline is in a relationship! it brings security. $hen
security is felt! it brings ell1being and hen ell1being is maintained it brings a
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stronger connection and bond. The start of it all is communication hich enables
the first spar# of groth of it all. The overall discipline then is to maintain
communication so that ell1being through security can be felt.
70FI+'0'
onfidence is li#e one of those birthday candles that has been lit and no matter
ho hard you try to blo it out! it 6ust #eeps lighting bac# up again. onfidence is
the sexiest thing you can ear. If you are earing rags it can ma#e you feel li#e
you are earing expensive clothing. It can even ma#e rags the ne &fashion".
onfidence can ma#e your ea#nesses seem strong. -elf1confidence is vital to
have because it validates your uni8ueness no matter hat people thin# of you. You
don"t need people"s validation and fran#ly you shouldn"t care because the
validation of yourself is enough. You are the only one ho is 8ualified to be you so
people"s validations or opinions about you really doesn"t matter. This does not
mean that you shouldn"t listen to feedbac#s! opinions and habits you can change. It
merely means that you are not you for other people but you are you to represent
you. onfidence is the light that never or should never go out. $hen a man
approaches a oman he gets points for 70FI+'0' and 79(A%'. A oman
ill hardly ever approach a man and some omen can"t do it. -o hen a man
approaches the oman his first steps toards her has already shon his confidence
and his courage. $hen the man reaches her! the man then has to clarify or confirm
his confidence through ords. The oman ill give him a chance because his
body language has already shon confidence and courage. The man"s main aim
from here is to lead the conversation in a ('-/'TF9L manner in order to vibe
and flo. Ho to generate confidence :5 (eali,e that you are the only one of your
#ind! e are all uni8ue) 0o fingerprint is ever the same 4not even in Tins5 so
there is no point loo#ing don on yourself. You are meant to represent! your name!
your life! your existence no matter hat other uni8ue person has something to say
about your uni8ueness. $e are all bound to clash ith certain people because that
is us going through a process of understanding a person"s uni8ueness. Bullies are
usually created because of their 6ealousy of an individual"s uni8ueness. ;5 (eali,ethat the true reflection is in the heart not in mirrors. $hat a person thin#s in their
heart is hat they become. If you thin# sad! you ill be sad! if you thin# happy!
you ill be happy and if you thin# confident! you ill be confident. There are
many different shapes and si,es mirrors out there hich ma#es us different shapes
and si,es hen they reflect bac# to us. These mirrors reflect but they don"t
*ALI+AT'. Allo the 2ost High to be your mirror.
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one life to live! asting it on not being confident is a aste of time. Life should be
about representing your livelihood not presenting your existence. =5 /retend to be
confident because your mind cannot tell the differences beteen reality and
dreams. It ta#es it all the same. /retend long enough and confidence ill be
instilled in you. >5 (eali,e that confidence! li#e everything else begins ithATTIT9+'. Have the right positive attitude and confidence ill also be seen. If
you sho confidence! the right positive attitude is seen. ?5 (eali,e that confidence
lights up the room. onfidence ma#es everybody ant to #no you and ma#es
everybody ant to catch that spirit of confidence from you. Let"s face it e admire
those ho sho confidence because they are good people to be around! therefore
you feel good. B' 70FI+'0T)
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ommunication is an '@HA0%' of ords! gestures! facial expressions and
body language. A man communicates better ith his ords and a oman
communicates better ith her body. If you thin# about it! this ma#es sense because
men respond to hat they see and omen respond to hat they hear. -o a man"s
greatest tool are his ords and a oman"s greatest tool is her body 4body
language5. -ome men hiss! call out at omen and ma#e vulgar remar#s 6ust to let
the oman #no that she is being chec#ed out. They use their ords but in the
rong ay. Truth be told! a oman may li#e the man from afar at first but hen he
does this rude display to get her attention she loses interest fast. The open body
language hich the man should have pic#ed up on soon becomes closed. To sum it
up real 8uic#! open body language is li#e hen someone is spreading their arms to
hug and closed body language is li#e hen someone is folding their arms. 7pen
body language is an invite! closed body language tells you to bac# off. The most
s#illful men could use their ords effectively to cause a oman"s closed body
language to be an open one. $hen a man does this rude display for her attention!
he automatically separates himself from the men ho have game to those hodoesn"t 4isn"t communication great5. 7n the other hand a man ill meet omen
hose body language are open but as soon as he approaches her! she 8uic#ly
becomes closed. $hen the man goes aay her body language becomes open again.
-uch omen are labelled coc#1teasers! hat they do is not a test but a game.
They too are considered rude. In order to fix these problems both men and omen
have to communicate to each other ith ('-/'T. (espect is the opposite of
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being rude. (espect is the #ey to all forms of communication. If respect is given it
is given bac# 4if it isn"t then you #no the person is rude by nature5. This principle
or#s ith all other characteristics in a relationship 4trust! loyalty! Love and so
on5. TH' A//(7AH $hen a man sees a oman he li#es! to things runs
through his mind! :5 Ho do I approach herC And ;5 $ill she li#e meC A man illpsyche himself up to try to generate confidence and courage so that he can
approach her. He may feel the nerves! go through the hat ifs! onder hat ould
be best thing to say 4he ants to say something so special and so magical that she
has to accept him5 and he ill even onder hy he is putting himself through the
hole situation. The man does too much thin#ing! till he overthin#s and then bac#s
don. 7pportunity lost. Let"s assess each 8uestionD H7$ +7 I A//(7AH
H'(C Before a man approaches he tries to psyche himself up because he fears
doing or saying anything to lose the oman. A man is not really afraid of
approaching but he"s real fear is losing the oman. That is the real reason as tohy he ill forget approaching her. By not approaching he ill alays maintain
that chance to approach because if he approaches and gets &re6ected" there is no
longer a chance but a verdict. 7#ay! here is hat all men need to reali,e before
they approach. That is TH'(' I- 07 -9H THI0% A- ('3'TI70- 39-T
F''+BAE-. There are to things that a man needs to say to himself before
approaching! :5 I am going to approach this oman to exchange ords ith her
and get feedbac# from her. ;5 I ill not give myself feedbac#s for her! she ill
have to do it for herself. These sort of affirmations defeat the fear of losing
because really and truly a oman 6ust li#e parents! doctors! mentors and teachers
give feedbac#s. If there is such a thing as re6ection! I doubt that a person ould
never ant to communicate ith their parents again all because they said no.
/eople ould not need a second opinion from another doctor in fear of being
&re6ected" again and nobody ould ever attend classes all because of the F grade
that they got for not putting effort into the or#. 'verything is about
F''+BAE- not re6ection. It is the system that has labelled it re6ection in terms
of men and omen interaction. (e6ection refers more to things than people. For
example you can re6ect having an in6ection! going to school! staying inside but you
can get feedbac#s from doctors about the in6ection and feedbac#s from parents as
to hy it is a good thing to go to school and stay indoors. A man may L'A+ the
approach but the hole approach is a to ay process. /eople thin# it is a one
sided thing all because the man approaches. 0o this is so not true. The approach
scenario is an exchange. The man I0ITIAT'- and the oman gives F''+BAE!
then ith the feedbac# that the man receives! he gives he"s feedbac#. In giving
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bac# his feedbac# the man should be tactful but regardless of the feedbac#s they
are no caught up in communication. -ome omen ill be rude ith their
feedbac#s but it is a feedbac# nonetheless. A man should maintain his cool 4his
leadership5 about the hole transaction. Through his coolness and tact! a oman
may apologies but no matter hat! through his coolness he ill alays pass hertest. The Approach -o the man goes off to get his feedbac# but the big aim is to get
the feedbac# that he can or# ith. -o no it is time to use his ords. The most
important things about the ordings are not the sentences or even the ords
themselves but it is all about -TAT'2'0T-. There are three types of statements!
:5 The &$'" statements! ;5 The &Y79" statements and
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>5 I anted to come over and say hi. G0ote that this may get some omen intrigued
but it is not really effective. ombining these &I" statements ith &e" and &you"
statements ould ma#e it effective. For exampleD :5 Y79 #no Y79 are loo#ing
good today so don"t be suprised about me initiating this introduction. ;5 Hey
Afternoon! give me a moment of your time! for 9- 4another &e" ord5 to discusshere Y79 got that 6ac#et from.
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your attention focused on something! the easier it becomes for you to continue to
focus upon it because you are attracting! through the La of Attraction! other
thoughts or vibrations that are the essence of the thought you began ith. $ithin
:J seconds of focusing on something! a matching vibration becomes activated. And
no! as that focus becomes stronger and the vibration becomes clearer! the La ofAttraction ill bring to you more thoughts that match. At this point! the vibration
ill not have much attraction poer! but if you maintain your focus longer! the
poer of the vibration ill become further1reaching. And if you manage to stay
purely focused upon any thought for as little as ?K seconds! the vibration is
poerful enough that its manifestation begins. -o yes if you focus on something
for :J seconds onards the vibrations of the orld starts to vibrate to match the
vibrations of your thoughts. This may sound farfetched but you have to reali,e that
everything in this life vibrates. -olid to Li8uid to %as occurs through vibrations.
For us to hear! see! and tal# occurs through vibrations. For the heart to pump bloodoccurs through vibrations! '*'(YTHI0% vibrates! even our thoughts. After :J
seconds of thin#ing if your thoughts are still on your tas# for ?K seconds! your
thoughts starts to become real 4it starts to manifest5. Your sub conscious mind
4reative 2echanism5! your environment and the people you meet 4your hole
orld basically5 starts to provide the resources and data for your thoughts
4internal5 to become real 4external5. It is said in /roverbs chapter ;
As a man thin#eth in his heart! so is he. GBe careful hat you focus on. A good
pastor ho focuses on %od ill soon touch the spiritual realm to be able to heal
people. They ill receive the gift of the spirits! hence hy %od said see# the
#ingdom first and everything else shall be added on to you. A man ho focuses on
his family ill be able to better himself for his family and he ill be enable to
better his family for the orld. His oman ill respect him and ill submit to his
focus because he becomes a good leader. A doctor ho focuses on their patience
ill be able to see the problem before it is called out. A person ho focuses on
hat other people thin#! ho focuses on 6ealousy and envy! ho focuses on anger
only affect themselves in a negative ay. Thin# of it li#e this! in the film &Hul#"!
Hul# is anger that has been &focused" on by +avid Banner. In order to #eep the
beast aay he F79-'- on something else 4he focuses on controlling his anger5.
That is hat university and studying is all about. It is about focusing all your
thoughts on the topic you ant to #no about. The difference beteen a genius
and an &average" person is the attention span 4ho long they focus on something5.
A person ho focuses long enough turns L'A+ 4himself and his surroundings5
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into %7L+ 4valuable! useful and helpful5. To conclude you become and create
hat you thin# and pay attention to.
L'A+'(-HI/
Leadership is influence! nothing more! nothing less. $hen a man and a oman li#eeach other from afar! omen expect the man to ma#e the first move. They ant the
man to L'A+ them into conversation and influence them to go ith them by
leading them into a comfort ,one in order to vibe and flo. A oman ould have
ta#en care of her appearance #noing that men respond to hat they see. After
ta#ing care of her appearance all she feels she needs to do is position herself to be
led. There are some omen claiming that they are Independent and they don"t need
a man. Although this may be true! these omen have to reali,e that hen they fall
in love ith a man! it is the leadership that they fall in love ith. -o hen a man
shos leadership it"s more than li#ely that they ill fall in love ith him anyays
4no matter ho independent they claim to be5. If the leadership 8uality is not there
in a relationship then problems may arise. A oman ants to be led by a man and a
man ants to be able to try. In both cases there has to be respect or there"s no point
going through the process. (espect allos a man and oman not to cross the lines.
A man feels more at ease ith himself hen he leads because he is exercising his
primary nature of being a man and that is being the head of the relationship. Let"s
examine the head a minute on the head the eyes are used for direction 4to see
here you are going5 and to see and avoid danger. This does not 8ualify the man as
the leader! after all omen have eyes to but by nature a man exercises L7%I first
before his emotions. By nature a oman is '27TI70AL first before she reaches
logic. It is the logical nature that 8ualifies the man to ta#e leadership in the
relationship. Logic is an element that enables anybody to assess a situation from
different viepoints. 'motions are used to express ho a person feels about a
situation. 'motions can be unstable and therefore lead to confusion. 2en and
omen have both logic and emotion but they have one more than the other FI(-T.
Being that the man is a logical creature! presumably he ill be able to assess a
situation more 8uic#ly. Because men are logical creatures it is logical that a man bethe H'A+ in a relationship. In a relationship his logic ill allo him to be able to
change direction more 8uic#ly and it ill allo him to avoid danger more 8uic#ly.
If a man must ta#e a stand in terms of danger then he uses his strength to protect or
defend himself and his family. I am not saying that omen can"t change direction
or avoid danger! I"m merely saying it seems that they are not faster at doing it than
a man because of their emotional nature. A oman is the H'A(T of a relationship.
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Her role is to manage everything else as the man leads. In order to accept her roles
and allo her man to lead she must -9B2IT. -ubmission does not mean
dominance! sacrifice or loss of individuality! it merely means security and
confidence in alloing her man to execute his roles ithout her having to orry
that he can"t do it. Her role is to manage and she shouldn"t have to orry aboutleading to! all she needs to do is supply. A oman loses respect for a man 4head5
ho tries to follo her 4the heart5 because hen a man follos her he gives up his
role to her. $hen a man gives up his role to a oman she is &forced" to lead. 0o
not only does she have her roles to ta#e care of but no she has this additional role
because the man has shon that he can"t &handle" his role! all because he claims he
is in love. Being in love doesn"t mean you stop fulfilling your duty as a man. $hen
a man stops performing his duty or roles he loses the respect of everybody not 6ust
the oman"s respect. -o in order for the oman to submit she ill put a man
through tests. -he ill test his 8uality as a leader and as a man. Her emotions tellsher that she has to! her emotions tells her that she needs to. In the scriptures it as
Mueen -heba of -alem that came to -olomon to as# 4test5 him 8uestions upon
8uestions for him to anser. He ansered them all. This then folloed ith her
complimenting him and shoering him ith praise. 0ote that she had already seen
his palace! she already heard of his riches N ealth and she already #ne he as
#ing but hen -olomon /(7*'+ himself as a leader 4a #ing5 she as convinced
that all he had as truly ell deserved. At this point I truly believe that if -olomon
had as# for her hand in marriage! she ould have accepted. -olomon had JOO
ives and
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order to get things done. The love provides the illingness to do so. The respect
allos them to ant to do it ell. A leader has to be TATF9L hen dealing ith
his oman. Been tactful #eeps the oman"s emotions under &control". 3ust because
she has submitted to the man does not mean that the man has to act or treat her li#e
submission is hat she is supposed to do 4remember that a oman submits hen aman has proved himself orthy of submission5. If a man expect submission
ithout proving himself orthy of it! his oman may end up losing respect for
him. $hen a man says no he has no right to say it anyho. %ranted the man may
get angry at times but it is best for the man to express his apologi,es 4emotions5 to
sho that he didn"t mean to say hat he did or do hat he did 4this is hard because
men are logical creatures not emotional ones5. Tactfulness ma#es all the difference
beteen a oman anting to do something for the man and being resentful hile
doing it. For example a man 4leader5 ho is not tactful ith his oman may have
food but a man 4leader5 ho is tactful to his oman $ILL alays have -79Lfood 4she ill put her heart into the coo#ing because she ants to ma#e sure that
her man is feed right5. Boo#s by 3ohn 2axell"s best describes the las that a
leader must follo in order to be folloed. Another boo# by 3ohn 2axell best
describes the 8ualities that a leader must have in order to be recogni,ed as a leader.
The Las of Leaderships are described in his boo# &The ;: Irrefutable Las of
Leadership1Follo Them and /eople $ill Follo You". $or#ing on these Las
ill allo people 4not 6ust omen5 to follo you. The Las are as follosD :5 The
La of the Lid ;5 The La of Influence 5 The La of '.F. Hutton ?5 The La of -olid %round J5 The La of
(espect K5 The La of Intuition P5 The La of 2agnetism :O5 The La of
onnection ::5 The La of the Inner ircle :;5 The La of 'mpoerment :5 The La of *ictory :?5 The
La of the Big 2o :J5 The La of /riorities :K5 The La of -acrifice :P5 The
La of Timing ;O5 The La of 'xplosive %roth ;:5 The La of Legacy The
Mualities of Leadership are best described in 3ohn 2axell"s boo# &The ;:
Indispensable Mualities 7f A Leader1 Becoming the person 7thers ill $ant to
Follo". Having these 8ualities ill ma#e you recogni,ed as a leader to be
folloed. The 8ualities are as follos. :5 haracter ;5 harisma 5 ompetence ?5 ourage J5 +iscernment K5 Focus P5 %enerosity
:O5Initiative ::5Listening :;5/assion :5(elationships :?5(esponsibility :J5-ecurity :K5-elf1+iscipline :P5-ervant
hood ;O5Teach ability ;:5*ision $hen a man or#s on these characteristics he
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becomes a leader. $hen a leader leads and continues to exercise these
characteristics he ill alays be folloed.
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/ersistence is the ability to never give up no matter ho big the obstacles are. It is
to ta#e a -TA0+ even hen you are experiencing self1doubt! fear and disbelief.
/ersistence is in never giving up but eventually finding a ay 4a ea#ness5 to
defeat the obstacle. In the Hac#er"s ommunity they have this mottoD To follo the
path you have to loo# to the 2aster Follo the 2aster $al# beside the 2aster
-ee through the 2aster Become the 2aster. This motto explains persistence. A
master 4obstacle5 may be bigger than you at first but if you #eep enduring you
learn ne things about the obstacle 42aster5 hich enables you to see the
ea#ness of the obstacle 42aster5 and surpass it. -tic#ing to something ill soon
let you be greater than the obstacle. $henever fear #noc#s you should anser ith
FAITH. The devil uses fear! %od responds to faith. $henever there is doubt you
should use courage. +orothy Bernard once said that courage is fear that has said its
prayers. -o if your fears have also &prayed" then there is no fear. Another
explanation about persistence can also be understood from a poem that LL ool 3"s
grandma use to tell him! it goes $hen a tas# is once begun +o it until it"s done
Be my labor! great or small +o it ell or not at all. -ee it li#e this! if you #eep
hitting a all in the same place for days! months or years! that all ill eventually
collapse. The hitting is the persistence. /ersistence alays leads to success. In
terms of men and omen In terms of men and omen! persistence is not about the
chasing. A man feels that he has to chase a oman until he &ears" her out and a
oman feels she has to run to give the man the chase 4a challenge5. Both men and
omen claim that they li#e the challenge but the truth of the matter is ith chasing
there is a lot of time asted not connecting. The bond that should have been
created and maintained from the beginning is not created because both man and
oman are running aay from each other to ma#e the definition of chasecomplete. /ersistence beteen a men a oman is in $7(+- 4communication5.
For exampleD 2anD Hey afternoon! you #no I got to say nice outfit 4says it hile
smiling5. $omanD Than# you. 2anD Yeah for real! do you or# outC $omanD A
little. 2anD Yeah it shos! guess that"s hy you feel comfortable earing the
outfit...lol $omanD Yeahlol. 2anD -o listen! you #no it"s not about #eeping
you! let"s exchange numbers so that e can continue this later on. $omanD I don"t
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give out my number sorry. 2anD Your apology is accepted so ta#e my number
instead. Here! call me hen you feel li#e ma#ing a ne friend. $omanD I"m not
going to call. I got enough friends already. 2anD That"s cute and damn near
adorable! it felt good exchanging ords ith you Gsay name $omanD Yeah ta#e
care. 2anD 9h huh! stay cute..lol /ersistence is alays having something to say.A man or oman should not use rudeness or angry tones but they should use tact.
A man should lead the conversation to the end no matter hich ay it goes. 0ot
bac#ing don no matter hat feedbac# the oman gives him shos his strength
and through this persistence the oman is li#ely to be /'(-9A+'+ to give the
man a chance. There is no &running" involved 6ust continuation of ords till a
connection is established. For example! the above example could goD $omanD
$ait! hat did you say your name as againC 2anD Gsays name $omanD I"m sorry
about the attitude I put on earlier! I"m not really li#e that. It"s 6ust that a lot of guys
aren"t serious so a oman needs to act that ay sometimes. 2anD I understand!hope you #no that I didn"t do that to aste your time. $omanD %ood to
#no.lol.Ta#e my number as ell! call me hen you feel li#e it. 2anD uh huh!
you #no I ill.lol. $omanD Ta#e care. 2anD Ta#e care Qsays her name hile
smiling.
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(espect has to be before acceptance. 'very man ants respect and every oman
ants acceptance. $omen ant respect to but the feeling of acceptance seems
4note this ord5 to relax them more. Thin# about it! omen put on ma#eup!
6eelries! fa#e hair 6ust to see# attention in order to have that feeling of acceptance
hen they get it. In a man"s case he has ego and pride that can easily be affected by
disrespect 4he feels less than a man5. A man does ant to be accepted but it is a
better feeling hen a oman does nothing to diminish his manhood! this translate
to him as been supportive through respect. The oman in her supportive ays has
to be careful not to put her man don. It is best to be positive even hen her manis rong. In other ords! nagging and insults only ma#e things orse. A oman
should be capable to sit her man don or use her feminine ays and get her point
across. $hen both respect each other! both the man and oman feel accepted. But
to a man respect is an ego boost! he on"t feel li#e a al# over or li#e his oman
is the one earing the pants in the relationship. For a oman acceptance is her ego
boost! she feels beautiful all the time. Her man accepting her ma#es her feel
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special. -he ill not need to feel insecure unless her man doesn"t ma#e her feel
accepted. 'verything is in the feeling. Ho to respect :5 'xercising manners.
Anything that shos an art of appreciation. ;5 ontrolling your emotions.
'motions are the biggest brea# up in a relationship. Anger! hate! grudges can all
create misunderstandings and misunderstandings creates assumptions.Assumptions further the man and oman apart especially hen it is been fuelled
by friends and family. Assumptions creates insecurities. The relationship suffers.
The best thing to do is for both partners to communicate their problems. This
eliminates all the obstacles causing the problems by clearing up
misunderstandings. A simple Baby! let"s clear this up. +on"t ant to fight you. is
better than shouting mad saying it"s all your fault. Ho to accept :5 don"t focus
on ho you are going to change your partner but focus on ho to appreciate hat
you have. Through this a person is illing to change to further that appreciation. ;5
A relationship is mostly about groth 4the minimal percentage is commitment5. Arelationship must be &atered" ith communication! loyalty! trust and respect. This
ill ma#e a man and a oman feel accepted. They ill gro)
(IH A0+ $'ALTHY
A large group of people end up in university after schooling all their life. They
eventually graduate and end up in a career. Then there is another group ho did not
really go to university but they get a 6ob and climb the ladder or they 6ust go into
internship ith a company. They to have their career. The only difference beteen
the to is the money that they are getting paid. They all do the P to >Rs and they all
or# for someone else. Time and time again! e are shon that having a career
has 0'*'( truly got anyone rich or ealthy. Having a career has proved that one
can be ell off or close to riches but it does not ma#e you rich or ealthy. The only
people ho are rich and ealthy are those that on the company here those hohave graduated or those ho haven"t graduated or# for them. A career is not a
bad thing but it should be used to build your on 2I--I70. A mission is
something that you F''L to do in order to state your mar# in this orld. It is hat
you -T(I*' to do in order to get rich or ealthy hile benefiting man#ind. Yet
almost everyone stay in a career or#ing day in and day out hoping that one day it
ill ma#e them rich or ealthy. All those ho have a career often stay that ay for
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life but hen they understand that a career is 6ust an AI+ to build their mission
surprisingly
They climb up the ladder in the company 8uic#ly. They start creating ne effective
ideas for the company! therefore proving valuable for the company. A large
percentage of the population don"t even have a mission and because of this they
continue to as# or 8uestion hat their purpose is in the orld. 2any people ould
never pursue their desires because they are afraid to step out of conformity and
because it has too many ris#s. -uch people #no ho the system or#s but they
can"t 4and even refuse to5 9-' the system in order to get rich or ealthy. Those
ho are not illing to conform have proven that in order to get rich or ealthy! a
person ill have to ('AT'. reation is man#ind"s ordained right and it is
man#ind"s path to becoming rich or ealthy. It had been ordained in %enesis h. :!
verse ;K hen it statesD Then %od blessed them and said! Be fruitful and multiply.
Fill the earth and govern it. (eign over the fish in the sea! the birds in the s#y! and
all the animals that scurry along the ground. If the mission is to create then riches
and ealth are not far. 0ote that to be rich or ealthy is not to be obsessive
4although most people ould argue that it is5 but to #no hat you ant instead of
6ust going ith the flo of the system 4conforming5. There is a big uneasy feeling
hen a person steps out of conformity because the feeling is li#e everybody is
against you because &you did something rong". 2any people go to university and
do the hole schooling system to please their parents and basically to 6ust go ith
the flo of ho life is. $hen a person thin#s of education! they thin# of a bigbuilding ith many teachers ho teach different sub6ects. This hole concept has
been instilled into everyone at a young age! so much so that e forget that life!
experiences and failures are education themselves. $hen a person fails in this
building of education called university! they thin# it is the end of the orld not
#noing that all they are learning ill only be used to help someone stay rich and
ealthy by having a 6ob or career in a company that they have ('AT'+. This is
not to say that or#ing in a company is bad! after all or#ing as a team ma#es you
rich and ealthy 4doing it all by yourself is not a smart move! you ill alays need
people5. In a film called &A Bronx Tale" hich as directed by (obert +e 0iro andbased on a true story! there is a scene here -onny 4the 2obb Boss5 says &There
are to types of smarts! street smarts and school smarts". This is so very true! a
person may have the boo# smarts but don"t #no ho to read people in the streets.
They are unaare of hat goes on around them. -uch people are really confined
ithin the four alls of an institution. A person may have street smarts but ithout
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boo# smarts he ill be limited. Life is an education! an institution educates but it
doesn"t mean outside of the institution one stops learning. A person ho comes out
of university ith a lo grade merely proves that they loss the passion for the
sub6ect they ent in to learn. It doesn"t mean that they are a failure! it 6ust shos
that they didn"t ant or put enough effort in to do better. They loss passion.Anybody can pass any course if they ere truly interested in it 6ust li#e anyone can
get rich and ealthy if they are illing to create. To create means bringing
something ne into the orld. I am not saying that going to university doesn"t help
your chances to get rich or ealthy. I am not even saying that going to university is
a aste of time. $hat I am saying is university does not teach you ho to get rich
or ealthy! it 6ust teaches you ho to or# for someone else. 0o granted that
hen you get promoted ithin the company you get more money but more money
6ust means more or# and no time to en6oy. reation has to be involved. There are
more people ho never ent to school or graduated from university than thoseho graduated. $here to start :5 it seems li#e the internet is going to get even
more advanced in the future. If you don"t #no already! the internet is a mar#et
device! '*'(YB7+Y ants it! everybody goes on it and everybody seems to
need it! so creating something on the net and advertising it is not a bad idea at all.
(emember some of the tools to use to create ebsites! blogs! and chats and so on
are free. ;5 I read one time that people buy boo#s online than anything else 4second
comes clothing5. $riting a boo# and displaying it on Ama,on through publishing
site such as .lulu.com or .createspace.com is helpful. I have spo#en to a
fe people ho have used these sites for publishing.
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information but the boo# tells you ho to properly use them in order to become
rich or ealthy. There are a L7T more ebsites in the boo#. ;5 Thin# and %ro
(ich by 0apolean Hill %ives :< /rinciples 4step by step guide5 on ho to get rich.
This boo# is very detailed! you ill get a L7T of ideas from this boo#. The :