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    This workshop is designed to strengthen your skills and

    understanding relative to conducting dialogue. Since we all

    come to this workshop with varying levels of knowledge and

    skills, your full participation is necessary for shared learning to

    take place. As individuals and as a group, we will benefit

    from developing the skills associated with leading dialogue

    and, in particular, dialogue about topics associated with our

    diversity. Diversity dialogue provides us with an opportunity

    to increase our understanding of ourselves and our

    community/organization. Furthermore, dialogue in general

    enables us to better identify and confront many issues and

    concerns before they become problems and makes it easier

    for us to solve or fix real problems.

    Introduction

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    1. To gain a better understanding of diversity

    dialogue.

    2. To develop the necessary skills for leading or

    participating in effective Diversity Dialogue

    Sessions.

    3. To understand the responsibilities andrequirements in creating successful dialogue.

    Learning Objectives

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    Why Lead or Participate

    in Diversity Dialogue?

    To cultivate an organization that fosters

    cultural diversity, and strategic and tactical

    planning.

    To engender a climate that encourages all

    members to grow and cooperatively use their

    talents and skills.

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    Through Dialogue expect that

    You will:

    Learn about differences through groupprocess.

    Engage in open and frank dialogue aboutassumptions, and individual perceptions ofdifferences.

    Promote effective teamwork.

    Improve communications.

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    Dialogue Objectives

    1. To understand and value different perspectives.

    2. To correct stereotypes and erroneous

    assumptions.

    3. To develop trust and find value in diversity.

    4. To enhance communication skills.

    5. To remove artificial barriers.

    6. To have a positive impact on the organization.7. To provide for individual and organizational

    growth.

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    Your Commitment

    1. To be open to learning.2. To be willing to listen and be non-judgmental.

    3. To focus on team development.

    4. To search for new and improved ways of

    working together.

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    Dialogue - The First Step

    In Problem Solving

    Feedback

    Dialogue

    Discussion

    Decision

    Action

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    Dialogue

    Greek:

    dia = throughlogos = the word or meaning

    a free flow of meaning between people

    Linguistic Origins

    Discussion

    Latin:

    discutere = to smash to pieces

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    Dialogue - What is it?

    A free-flow of meaning through a group, allowing the

    group to discover insights not attainable individually.

    An opportunity for a group to access a larger pool of

    common meaning.

    Exploration of complex issues from many points of view.

    An exploration between individuals that brings to the

    surface the full depth of peoples experience and thought.

    A process in which all individuals believe they have had anopportunity to be heard and that they have had a fair

    hearing.

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    1. All participants regard one another as colleagues A mutual quest for deeper insight and clarity.

    Observe the thoughts that govern how we see the world to

    enhance our understanding of ourselves.

    Slow down and hear not only the words but also the

    meanings behind them.

    2. All participants suspend their assumptions

    Hold assumptions in front of you so that they are

    accessible to questioning and observation.

    Do not disregard, suppress, or avoid these assumptions.

    3. A facilitator holds the context

    To assist participants in maintaining ownership of the process

    and the outcomes and keeping the dialogue moving.

    Dialogue - Setting the Stage

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    Dialogue - Key to Building Trust

    Trust

    Dialogue

    Effective leadershipand teamwork

    Effective leaders create aclimate for dialogue...Through

    words and actions the leaderconveys the message that it is

    perfectly acceptable to speakup, to be open, and to express

    both thoughts and feelings.

    from: The Model Leader

    William D. Hitt

    Effective teams arestrengthened by

    dialogue

    Effective leadership is based upon a foundation oftrust between leader and team members

    Trust is generated through

    open and honest

    communication

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    Dialogue is Not New...

    It Draws on the Work of Three Key 20th Century Thinkers

    Martin Buber (Philosopher) used the term dialogue in 1914 to

    describe a mode of exchange among human beings in which there is

    a true turning to one another, and a full appreciation of another not

    as an object in a social function, but as a genuine being. Patrick De Mare (Psychologist) suggested in the 1980s that large

    group socio-therapy meetings could enable people to engage in

    understanding and altering the cultural meanings present within

    society.

    David Bohm (Physicist) conceived that dialogue would kindle a

    new mode of paying attention, to perceive - as they arose in

    conversation - the assumptions taken for granted, the polarization of

    opinions, the rules for acceptable and unacceptable conversation,

    and the methods for managing differences.

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    A productive session requires each persons best. Use

    these tips for supporting dialogue in a group:

    Clarifying: Establish objectives for the session.

    Attending: Use nonverbal behavior to

    communicate non-evaluative listening.

    Acknowledging: Give verbal and nonverbal

    indications of being involved in the conversation.

    Probing: Ask questions and directing.

    Reflecting: State in one's own words what theother person has said or is feeling.

    Indicating respect: Use behaviors that do not

    ridicule, generalize, or judge.

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    Creating Immediacy: Draw attention to what is

    happening in the conversation.

    Summarizing: Pause in the conversation to

    summarize key points.

    Concreteness: Be specific and objective in

    communicating information and expectations.

    Resourcing: Give information, advice, instruction,

    and referring. Confirming: Close the loop - ensure that

    information has been received and learning has

    occurred.

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    Reviewing: Go over key points of session to

    ensure common understanding. Planning: Build strategies and agree on next steps.

    Affirming: Comment on the others strengths andvalue.

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    Organizational

    Dimensions

    External

    Dimensions

    Internal

    Dimensions

    The Four Layers of Diversity

    Personality

    Age

    Race

    Ethnicity

    Gender

    Sexual

    Orientation

    Physical

    Ability

    Geographic

    LocationMarital

    Status

    Parental

    Status

    Income

    Educational

    Background

    Work

    Experience

    Rec.

    Habits

    Personal

    Habits

    Work

    Location

    Seniority

    Union

    Affiliation

    Management

    Status

    Functional

    Level/Classification

    Work

    Content/

    Field

    Division

    Dept/

    Unit/Group

    Appearance

    Religion

    Adapted from Marilyn Loden and JudyRosener, Workforce America! (Business One

    Irwin, 1991)