Avoid Complaining

Why You Need To Stop Complaining…

Susan Ullah

• Susan Ullah is an Author, Speaker and Personal Development Life Coach. She is the CEO and Founder of Mind Care Reform Center LLC.

• Susan has been helping people for over 20 years in making positive Transitional changes so that they can discover their true Identity and purpose for life.

• She is a passionate lover after Gods heart. She encourages, Inspires and empowers others to be all they can be.

• Using Biblical base principles and personal development tools, she equips others who are ready for change.

• She believes that in order to succeed at anything in life, you first have to develop the right mindset.

Remember the saying from the poem Solitude, by Ella Wheeler Wilcox. The lines are, “Laugh, and the world laughs with you; weep and you weep alone”. The same can be said for complaining. If you are a chronic complainer, you may want to rethink that attribute.

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The problem with complaining too much of it becomes less effective over time. Are you really unhappy with every situation you are presented with? It could be a sign that you have other negative situations going on with your life.


You need to choose your battles, as they say. If you have several situations that you are unhappy about, which ones do you really want

to focus on changing for the better? It will be much easier for you to get your point across if you do limit the frequency of your complaining.


Sometimes complaining can be warranted, but usually, should be done regarding offering up. Be part of the solution and not part of the problem. If you alternatively offer a complaint, then how is that helping solve the problem? Presenting solutions will show that you want to participate and have a stake in solving the problem. The best approach is to offer up multiple solutions to problems whenever possible. This will get people on your side.


If you are one who complains a lot, try to take a step back and think about others who are chronic complainers as well. How did you react to their constant stream of complaints? Did you think to yourself that the person should try to help solve the problem? If you answered yes to this last question, this is how others are thinking when you complain.


Complainers often feel like they are not being listened to and usually with good reason. This will lead to increased frustration and could lead to those complainers alienating themselves from the group. That is never a good situation and will often cause either management to let those people go or for the complainers to take it upon themselves to leave.


Complaining is a habit that can be changed. It is generally considered negative thinking, all things being equal. To stop the complaining habit requires shifting from negative to positive thoughts. People are usually not faulted thinking in a positive manner and no one is going to purposefully avoid those who maintain a positive attitude. If you find you complain a lot and people are avoiding you this may be a great place to look for the reason why.


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