Are we on the Same Page?
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ARE WE ON THE SAME PAGE?
Cindy Crane Lutherans Against Bullying (LAB)
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Leaders of LAB
• Rev. Cindy Crane, St. John’s• Travis Currier, Lakeview• Rev. Matthew Kruse, Redeemer Lutheran in Rio• Miriam Mueller-Owens, St. John’s• Sierra Mueller-Owens, St. John’s
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What is Bullying?
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Dr. Dan Olweus – Peer Abuse(not to be resolved with peer mediation)
DPI-Bullying is a deliberate or intentional behavior using words or actions intended to cause fear, intimidation or harm. Bullying may be repeated behavior and involves an imblalance of power.
Barbara Caruso - An act of contempt
Rabbi Michael Lerner - An act of desanctification.
DVD clips
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What isn’t bullying?
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Playful teasing that is mutually enjoyedNot inviting someone to join in unless it is part of an intentional aggressive act to isolate someoneFair, consistent, humane managing & supervision Disciplining a poorly performing employeeCriticizing performance w/o criticizing the personImplementing changes that affect everyoneLoud, but non-hostile, expressionConflict over competing interests between two people with equal power
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Who gets bullied?
Where does bullying happen?
Who is affected by bullying?
Is it best to focus on the bully, the
target, or the witnesses?
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Agree or Disagree with the following:
- We can stop all bullying.- Bullying is a rite of passage.- Adults should always stay out of it.- Peers should always stay out of it.- People who are bullied always bring it on themselves.
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WHEN I SEE BULLYING AT WORK ORAT SCHOOL I FEEL
UNSAFEGLAD IT’S NOT MEINTERESTED IN JOINING IN INDIFFERENTCONCERNED ABOUT WHEN I’M NEXT
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What can adults do for youth?
What can youth do for one another?
What can adults do for one another?
What’s my faith got to do with it?
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Can one person make a difference?
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Pryamid of Hate
Source: A World of Difference® Anti-Bias Study Guide (Secondary Level). New York, NY: Anti-Defamation League, 2000.
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Resources
Olweus Bullying Prevention: http://www.olweus.org/public/index.page
Stop Cyberbullying: http:/www.stopcyberbullying.org/index2.html
Bishop Burnsidehttp://www.livinglutheran.com/videos/-bishop-bruce-burnside-of.html#.UHi-oCquaQg
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Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls by Rachel Simmons
The Bully, the Bullied and the Bystander by Barbara Coloroso
Mobbing by Maureen Duffy & Len Sperry
Letters to a Bullied Girl: Messages of Healing and Hope by Olivia Gardner with Emily and Sarah Buder
Bullying: A Spiritual Crisis by Ronald Hecker Cram
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THANKS FOR THE DISCUSION
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THANKS FOR THE DISCUSION
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QUESTIONS?
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