APRIL/MAY: PROM AND GRADUATION...
Transcript of APRIL/MAY: PROM AND GRADUATION...
Family Service Madison
PICADA
AODA PREVENTION
NEWSLETTER
MAY 2018
APRIL/MAY: PROM AND GRADUATION CEREMONIES
(Based on an article from the WI Bar Assoc.)
Spring in Wisconsin: Ice disappears, robins
return from hiatus, and the crack of the bat
resonates at Milwaukee’s Miller Park.
Another iconic springtime tradition is high
school prom, when many of the more than
60,000 high school students will don formal
attire to celebrate and reminisce.
In the ensuing weeks, high school students
will also attend graduation parties. Usually
these festive events are unforgettable as the
optimistic denouement of high school and
exciting harbinger of future potential. Yet the
normally idyllic gatherings can also be
unforgettable for a far more somber reason: the
tragic consequences of underage drinking, most
notably fatal crashes and violent crimes.
The approach of prom and graduation
celebrations, and the possibility of tragedy
anytime there is underage drinking, warrants
passing on this warning: adults it is against the
law to host prom or graduation festivities where
you are providing alcohol to children that are
not your own. And there should never be a
“carefree” view of the prevalence of underage
drinking, underage persons’ ease of access to
alcohol, and some adults’ acceptance of youth
drinking under the guise of nostalgia and
tradition.
Knowledge of, and adherence to, the laws
attendant to underage drinking can help ensure
that for those students attending celebrations, the events can be some of the best of their life and not the last of
their life.
Based on an Article by Cheryl Gill, Criminal Defense Lawyer, La
Crosse WI. For more information on underage drinking laws in
Wisconsin
It’s prom season, and soon it will be graduation season as well—a
time of celebration and milestones where adolescence and adulthood
converge.
With the
merriment,
however,
comes the
temptation to
include adult beverages. And parents often fall victim to
the bait, just like the teens they are obliged to protect.
Wisconsin families are at particular risk. Our state boasts
the highest rate of underage drinking in the nation, with
roughly half of all high school students having consumed
alcohol and a third having
gone on at least one binge.
And in Wisconsin, the most common violation of the law is underage drinking.
To keep your kids—and yourself—safe from legal consequences, not to mention
the hassle and heartache of much worse things that can happen when minors
consume alcohol, here are some important tips for parents and kids.
Know the rules. In Wisconsin, parents may provide alcohol to their own
children but no other minors. That means if you’re hosting a party where
alcohol is served to kids other than your own, you are violating the law. Even
if you didn’t provide the alcohol, if you don’t take steps to stop it, you’re still
liable.
Understand the penalties. Penalties in Wisconsin for providing alcohol to
minors begin at $500 for first offenses and can reach as high as $10,000, a
nine-month jail term and suspension of your license. Far worse, should a
child be injured or killed as a result of drinking at your party, you could carry
the emotional consequences for the rest of your life.
Avoid “open parties.” Have a guest list and stick to it. Don’t allow your child
to send invitations via email,
Facebook or another means
where it can be
disseminated to a large
group of people. If you do
invite a large number of
guests, welcome other
parents to help chaperone.
Don’t allow return
guests. If guests leave the party, don’t allow them to
return. They may have left to get alcohol.
Remove alcohol from the location. You may have a
fine wine collection or beer in the fridge for yourself, but
before party time, lock it up or remove it from the
premises altogether.
Parents—Talk With Your High School
Grads About Celebrating Graduation
Safely
Graduation is a time to celebrate. But before
your high school seniors begin their parties,
take the time to talk with them about keeping
events alcohol-free—it just may save a life.
It's About Your Teen...
A teenager’s brain is still developing, and it
is very sensitive to alcohol’s effects on
judgment and decision-making. Tragedies
can—and do—happen, so underage drinking
should not be a part of any celebration.
The Effects of Alcohol Can Be Deceptive...
If you are asked to explain the reasons behind your rules,
you can describe the effects of alcohol on the human
body:
When people drink alcohol, they may temporarily
feel elated and happy, but they should not be fooled. As
blood alcohol content rises, the effects on the body—and
the potential risks—multiply.
Inhibitions and memory become affected, so people
may say and do things that they will regret later and
possibly not remember doing at all.
Decision-making skills are affected. When they
drink, some people may become restless and aggressive.
They may be at greater risk for having an alcohol-related
traffic crash, getting into fights, or making unwise
decisions about sex.
Coordination and physical control are also impacted.
When drinking leads to loss of balance, slurred speech, and blurred vision, even normal
activities can become more dangerous.
Consuming too much alcohol can also lead to
death. If people drink too much, they will
eventually get sleepy and pass out. Reflexes like
gagging and
breathing can be
suppressed. That
means they could
vomit and choke,
or just stop
breathing
completely.
Stop believing it’s about YOU!
Get the facts...it might just save a life!
A Word About Alcohol Overdose
Thousands of students are transported to the
emergency room each year for alcohol
overdoses, which occur when high levels of
alcohol suppress the nervous and respiratory
systems. Signs of this dangerous condition can
include:
Slow or irregular breathing;
Vomiting;
Mental confusion, stupor, loss of
consciousness, or coma; and
Hypothermia or low body temperature,
bluish or pale
skin.
An
alcohol overdose can lead to permanent brain damage or death, so
a person showing any of these signs requires immediate medical
attention. If you or your graduates notice any of these signs, don’t
wait. Call 911 if you suspect an alcohol overdose.
Think About It!
Drinking to celebrate graduation can result in vandalism, arrests,
sexual assaults, trips to the emergency room, alcohol-related traffic
crashes, and worse. Drinking by teens can put them—and their
friends—in real danger. Ask them to consider this question: Is that
any way to celebrate?
Talking With Your Graduate...
It is critical to talk with your
graduate because research shows that
parents do make a difference. By
serving as positive role models,
talking to other parents and your
teens, supervising parties to
make sure no alcohol is
served, and supporting alcohol-free school celebrations, you
can help prevent a life-
changing mistake.
Remember...
Tell your graduate to play it
safe and party right—and
alcohol-free—at graduation.
Because a well-deserved
celebration shouldn’t end in tragedy.
These photos are to show
that we
may not
always
know
where
our
children are and whether they are obeying the
rules regarding alcohol.
F H T R A M S E Y K F Y G E Y
G A G D L P H E A L E L Q D R
N R Q E A H R U C S T C U E A
I D C N I S A M C I A O M T N
M W O I C H T D O M L M S A I
R O M M E O S W M O E P C C D
O R M R P N H O P D N E H I R
F K I E S O D R L E T T O T O
S I T T R R U T I S E E L S A
N N T E T I O H S E D N A I R
A G E D L N R Y H R X T S H T
R L D D N G P G E V H V T P X
T L U F E P O H D I M D I O E
M E N L I G H T E N E D C S F
H E S I W U B G J G M Q P J T
ACCOMPLISHED
COMMITTED
COMPETENT
DESERVING
DETERMINED
ENLIGHTENED EXTRAORDINARY HARDWORKING
HONORING
HOPEFUL
PROUD
SMART
SOPHISTICATED
SPECIAL
SCHOLASTIC
STAR
TALENTED
TRANSFORMING
WISE
WORTHY
Graduation Word Search
The construction of nearly every prevention
program begins with an understanding of factors
that place people at risk for or protect them
from problem behaviors.
PICADA Programming for 2018
Website: Abovetheinfluencedcw.org
AODA Basics
Alcohol Education Options program (AEO)
Alcohol: True Stories, Narrated by Matt Damon
FORTRESS
Media Detective
Multi-Jurisdictional Alcohol Program (MAP)
Outreach/Community Networking
PICADA (A program of Family Service Madison)
608-316-1118; [email protected]
_________________________________________________________________________________________
Family Service Madison continues to be a strong Madison
health care agency by creating and sustaining quality services
through entrepreneurship and collaborative partnerships that
make our community a better place to live.
FAMILY SERVICE MADISON
128 East Olin Avenue
Madison WI 53713
Ph. 608-252-1320
Fax. 608-252-1333
www.famad.org
WEBSITES MANAGED
BY PICADA
www.nwdccwi.net
www.radarmc.com
www.bellevillecares.net